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@NovaSky333 Жыл бұрын
100% accurate!! My recent partner hit EVERY SINGLE CHECK MARK on my ideal partner “list”. BUT was very impatient with my feelings to the point where I started walking in eggshells about expressing myself in any other way that was not “pleasant or happy”. I finally exploded from the lack of feeling heard. Wasn’t my best moment I will admit. There was so much I pent up that a ended up just vomiting everything I had not been addressing. This man finally said to me “I don’t want to have to worry about your feelings” 💔And that was the flat out truth. Thank you God for guiding me out of that one. When I feel heard and supported I don’t blow up like that. I have no anxiety and I will give my all ❤
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@TomikaKelly Жыл бұрын
You're an adult. It's not your partner's responsibility to worry about your feelings.
@Wahinies Жыл бұрын
I'm not saying you're wrong but there is a fine line between being emotionally available and being responsible for your feelings. I realized I was making my partner feel responsible for my feelings and when I eased off over time they asked if I was mad. The tables turned where I had to reassure them that I was not mad. It is a balance that takes constant work and awareness of your own emotions as well as your partners at the same time. It is exhausting and draining and I can understand why some want to go it alone.
@sangeetanair3643 Жыл бұрын
💯 so true.. Intimacy for a woman is not always sexual... Conversational intimacy is what is needed ..A woman wants to be accepted not only physically but mentally emotionally.. Sharing thoughts about oneself is important
@Flywithnowingsisawalk9 ай бұрын
Problem is actually figuring out those emotions and being consistent poor behavior and emotional instability should not just be acceptable women don't just accept men how they are yet men are supposed to
@patriciahernandez91355 ай бұрын
From 9135 Patricia we ladies we want to be aroused, touch , hear things nasty and fill that we are wanted ( same as man) we have to take time to aroused ourselves, the key is ser paciente. I hate a man that he does this, ja!! Ja!! Thank you lady, sexual connection is about touch understand woman , man , and finally woman is about connection, we need time to be able to be have a man places his private part on us. I fill women , like me dislike a man that is just putting his private part just to BAMG , BAMG , IS ONLY FOR HIS PLESURE. THIS GUY DOSN'T CARE ABOUT SATISFIED YOU, IT'S ABOUT HES OWN SATISFACTION, I HATE THAT, A GOOD LOVER IS ENTACING , HE MAKES YOU FILL GOOD UNTIL YOU REACH SEXUALLY THE SKY. HAVE GOOD INTIMACY SEX, THAT IS A UNIQUE EXPERIENCE
@AbletonLiveTechs Жыл бұрын
Honestly best channel out here for men. All those other Red Pill channels just make you hate women
@wvmy Жыл бұрын
3:02 People get the misconception with vulnerability and weakness. Being vulnerable is to help yourself open your soul to see recognition. Not to be desperate. What real men care about is gifting love and achieve freedom. That’s what women seek for him too. Now if she’s a narcissist that’s a different story. In the end is men still made a choice to be with the woman.
@cynthiagomes2979 Жыл бұрын
That's it for me!! Everything you said is what I need. I'm very affectionate, and if I get everything you said, we will not have any problems with sex. For me, a hug 90% of the time leads to lovemaking for me. Foreplay can be sitting in his lap for me. As long as I feel loved, I will give more love. Good job. You nailed it!!❤
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤
@cynthiagomes2979 Жыл бұрын
@@StephanSpeaksforMen you're welcome!!
@vernonhines3895 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this my brother out of all your videos I enjoyed this one thoroughly hit home ty 4sharing.
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it ❤ 🙌
@charetacanady3588 Жыл бұрын
I wish a million men would watch this video. Nonsexual intimacy is so important. That's one of the things that makes us women fall deeply in love it's connected to our emotional needs which are a very big part of who are
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this is helpful, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@Khans012010 ай бұрын
The main problem is how society has evolved over the last century and influenced most men to take a different path than following the traditions of yesteryear. However, the other problem is that there are too many self proclaimed dating coaches spouting nonsense instead of telling people to just focus on being themselve to look at the root of the issue. But also as an extrovert(roughly 75% of the US population), the focus is put on extrinsic things and not on the intrinsic(introverts are great at this).
@abundance6560 Жыл бұрын
Great video!!!... Thanks.... As a woman I love communication intimacy with my partner. There is something about deep vulnerability that sets the mood for me to engage in sexual intimacy.
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@abundance6560 Жыл бұрын
@@StephanSpeaksforMen You are welcome❤🙏🏽
@joespring6856 Жыл бұрын
Hi! I absolutely love your videos. I am really hoping you can do a video on how to be a good man or how to improve your character.
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@Khans012010 ай бұрын
Best thing to help you with that though is to get a self help book and read it every night, then put what you read the night prior into practice.
@shayflowers8471 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video! I guess you are the only coach who made things clear on intimacy for men. Sometimes asking for intimacy scares them off 😢
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@nnadams2003 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Just wow. You couldn’t be more accurate. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@korinhubbert7163 Жыл бұрын
This is so accurate! If you have a demisexual or sapiosexual woman, the communication and conversation are very much part of foreplay. It may take the extra effort, but you will be surprised what you can get out of her when you engage in communication with her!
@ghfudrs93uuu10 ай бұрын
If you have a sexual woman, run! She is not worth your time, not worth your affection and is unfit to be a mother.
@longingforjannah Жыл бұрын
Stephan, maybe you know some things about carpentry cos you've hit the nail right on the head....😊 Thank you
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@lisajones-franklin3574 Жыл бұрын
Stephan you made a great point about healing and not being bothered by someone trying to throw your moment of vulnerability back in your face. I had an estranged toxic relative show up at my house uninvited two days ago and tried to do this. He didn't get the reaction that he wanted.
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@fitforfreelance Жыл бұрын
MAJOR note on finding peace with your most vulnerable parts of yourself. If she tries to use it against you, it doesn't hurt, and you can just trust yourself to check it or leave
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@WWlogics Жыл бұрын
Many men I meet have issues with being consistent with regular communication. A text here, a random call there, a date here. This goes on for weeks. I started mirroring their behavior with the calling and texting. Then when I realized if I keep mirroring him, we were never going to get to know each other whether it would be friends or more than friends. So I started modeling. Calling first, texting first, then asking the same in return. Subtle changes but nothing significant. So by week four, if we haven’t had any sort of deep conversation and I addressed, and I modeled. I just stopped communicating altogether or just blatantly tell them they weren’t consistent enough and that’s what I love the most. I swear, when you ask these men to call you consistently, they act like you want to be their girlfriend or something -I’m like no. I’m just trying to get to know you. That’s it that’s all. Don’t flatter yourself. That’s just basic dating. So, if they can’t get it together, I reposition you to, some random number in my phone. Sad, cause my intentions are purely about getting to know someone so we’re not wasting our time. Then get this-I texted a number of guys who I never heard back from, they said, they just thought I wasn’t interested 😂. One of them I literally said I would love for you to call me. He never did😂. What the hell. I’m done.
@TomikaKelly Жыл бұрын
Consistent calling is what you do in a relationship, so if that's what you're asking for then you ARE asking to be their girlfriend. Your method of going about things is quite passive aggressive. Rather than address the problem head on up front, you "give them back the same energy" THEN try to take the mature route of leading by example. Not once did you say you discussed the matter at the very beginning.
@GUITARTIME20247 ай бұрын
Most of your communication with guys should be on dates. You are basically creating a roster of chat dudes and emotional tampons, at your beck and call. We aren't women. Face to face is crucial.
@tonishamatlock57878 ай бұрын
I’m a women and I loveee alll your videos.. everything you say is what I’m going though with my man for 16years
@StephanSpeaksforMen8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@rioshelz2924 Жыл бұрын
0:04 facts!!!! Im going thru this right now , its a struggle
@missyme3932 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos, thanks for everything you do
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@chibesakay1166 Жыл бұрын
Loved this. Totally true
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@vipulgamit2336 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Man I'm big fan of yours and your advises. you completely changed my perceptions of seeing things overall of my life. Love From India...🙏😊
@enjoynature526111 ай бұрын
As a woman, i agree completely! I don’t want to feel like an object. It makes me feel bad inside. Like I’m not valued outside of having a vagina.
@McKhaos42010 ай бұрын
Spot on, i mean SPOT ON!
@nicog398 Жыл бұрын
Very true man thanks
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@starniquebrown Жыл бұрын
Intimacy hosts infatuation because you can be infatuated in your self and become intimate in another, yet there are those low initmacies that will indeed get you caught up and stuck in a bad romance.
@abigalestoll Жыл бұрын
You're right 💯❤️
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
💯 yes!
@flameshoes8795 Жыл бұрын
What if the woman not willing to open up to have the deep conversation when the man is putting time and effort in to hearing what’s on her mind,When you been together for some time into the relationship. Even when they wanna bring up something they want to talk about then push it off then never wanna talk about any situation.
@melindaferreira9879 Жыл бұрын
I never received time, deep conversation...
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
@emmsgoon5216 Жыл бұрын
Ask and you’ll receive Melinda ❤🙏🏾
@melindaferreira9879 Жыл бұрын
@@emmsgoon5216 I did. He didn't. I left.
@alexdaubon1349 ай бұрын
This is what I needed ❤
@gavincardwell2223 Жыл бұрын
My boy I missed you❤
@renetaphillips7606 Жыл бұрын
Nail on the head 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️!!!
@betsyakoko6810 Жыл бұрын
Some should be open with what they like eg wheeping etc
@anar8154 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful vid
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@RhondaR4 Жыл бұрын
This is the whoe truth.❤
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
💯 yes!
@SpunkeyMonkeyJess Жыл бұрын
Thank you dear god!
@sarahshaw19908 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯 I love it all! But I just really really loved it when you said intimacy and touching showing affection without having sex. I love that! I crave that! I hate it when I am only given physical affection and being touched (and it doesn't have to be a lot) just touched. And I hate it whenever my husband after sex he completely stops touching me. And I love the random affection. Lots of affection is great!
@Faayoow8 ай бұрын
I just send it to my bf. I wish he to take notes 📝 so it can work better for us.
@pawejanecki92627 ай бұрын
He deserves better
@KenKen-mg7qy Жыл бұрын
100% correct and I think the most problem that men face is the initial stage of sex....to get her in the mood fot sex or for her to want it when he want it...
@karenKristal Жыл бұрын
if men literally only really want one body part for a few minutes here and there whenever they have a physical urge, she isnt really any different to a toilet 😕
@PhyllisNj6 ай бұрын
Amen!
@narviaflournoy3869 Жыл бұрын
🫶⌚️🙏🏼 Amen Amen, hallelujah !! 😊😅👋🏽🛎
@lethukuthulaphungula7428 Жыл бұрын
WRONG BUT IT WILL BOTHER YOU. I OPENED UP TO HER BECAUSE I TRUSTED HER.
@lisajones-franklin3574 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
🙏
@ritabrefo8532 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@StephanSpeaksforMen Жыл бұрын
❤
@Some_kind_of_wonderfü Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@rhondacummings Жыл бұрын
No Tamara he does not
@nieceypiecey100 Жыл бұрын
Why all these women on this thread. We trying to make sure you representing right! Lol
@haroldoliver9797 Жыл бұрын
💪🏽
@missyme3932 Жыл бұрын
But when you guys are waiting for marriage to be physical, most men create ways of non sexual intimacy. so my question is that why does it have to stop with marriage
@Isabel-fg7hi Жыл бұрын
GIVE HIM THE ROMOTE AND HE WILL BE FINE THATS ALL THE ATTENTION WOMEN GOING TO GET FROM A MAN!!!🤣🤣🤭🤭
@zombie-Gang-WegeekedUp Жыл бұрын
It’s sad how much we gotta please woman these days…shot out 2 John the Baptist he ain’t need no woman
@WWlogics Жыл бұрын
😂so you view talking with her a chore? You want a body not an actual person sir.
@paulokello5981 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TomikaKelly Жыл бұрын
Turn to men, then. 🤷🫠
@Khans012010 ай бұрын
So you want a healthy happy relationship without communication?.....Have fun being married to a blow up doll!
@joannaseijas814111 ай бұрын
This is a great video for those who genuinely wanna ensure that they have a happy and comfortable relationship❤...also some players gonna be taking notes 😅