3 reasons why you are NOT disciplined in your 20s! + how to fix it before it's too late! *realistic*

Hi guys, thank you so much for watching. In today's video I share the three main reasons why you find it hard to disciplined especially in your 20s or stay committed to a project/goal. I also share some tips that help me get through my daily tasks and motivate me to keep at it till the end. Hope you enjoy and find this video helpful!
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[@kamsinnamani]

Hi guys! Thank you for watching and hope you find these tips helpful

[@oluwadaraeke5216]

Great video yet again Kamsi, yes they were very helpful

[@Nay0mii_]

‘not every opportunity is a blessing, some opportunities are distractions’ -Kamsi spittin’ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@kamsinnamani]

🙈🤍🤍

[@Janederryo]

It’s true naaa

[@Caleisia]

Sitting here trying to force myself to do work and be productive. This must be a sign 🙌🏾

[@kamsinnamani]

So happy to hear that🤍🤍

[@ebrubaanita]

Same here. This is a big sign.

[@Miss_Akesi]

I hope we are all able to stay disciplined in our 20s to achieve greatness in our lives ❤️😩🙏

[@kamsinnamani]

Amen❣️

[@ebrubaanita]

Amen

[@dquiroz1999]

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7

[@zifeepuechi3593]

I totally agree with this first point as to not having a why. When I decided to properly start saving money (got my first job at 17) and waking up early, it was sooooo hard cuz I had no reason to. Even though I had a job my parents still gave me money and I also had no goal to save for until I decided to fund my first car instead of my parents. Immediately, I decided this, I had thousands in my account. And as for waking up early, Immediately I got into uni and was able to select my own schedule, I made all my classes to start from 12noon or later. My school was 10 mins away from my house so I usually woke up by 10 or 11am. Until I then again decided to wake up at least by 9 and when I woke up by 9, I would snooze my alarm cuz I didn't have class till 1pm or 2. Till I started actually doing things like my assignments or go grocery shopping in the morning so I have an actual reason to wake earlier.

[@kamsinnamani]

Amazing! Such practical examples🤎

[@nzeakograce1813]

You chose your classes? Wow Please which uni did you go to?

[@zifeepuechi3593]

I live in California USA so we get to choose or schedule of classes@@nzeakograce1813

[@loisfrempong9109]

Great tips 👍 but I would also like to add that, If you're depressed or going through alot mentally, you may not be able accomplish your goals so seek help/therapy if you have to.🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@thesugaraunty]

discipline is so hard,standing up everyday to work when you are sad and going through it is so hard,realized I’m an adult adult this week,I was like I’m going through this life thing but see me getting up to go to work😭😂

[@sharonreuben5740]

I was telling my colleagues the other day that on that particular day if I was a kid I would have left bed crying. Its only that I'm an adult and literally nobody but myself can force me out of bed in the morning

[@kamsinnamani]

Honestly it’s one of the worst feelings ever whew

[@kamsinnamani]

Honestly it’s one of the worst feelings ever whew

[@wowso4]

So true, but after you go to work and get out of that bed. You feel so proud of yourself! And know your strong and you got this!

[@JustUchey]

I was just complaining as to how indisciplined I'm. This came at the right time

[@kamsinnamani]

Glad to hear that❣️

[@adelineoparah]

This discipline of a thing is a big struggle. I read No excuses by Brian Tracy. That book is a life changer

[@akhiromegodiva9683]

No lies. The best book ever!!!!!

[@wowso4]

Thanks for book recommendation, I will make sure to read it. 😊

[@adelineoparah]

@@wowso4 You're welcome 👍

[@kelechinelson8907]

I'm becoming addicted to your contents. I'm turning 25 this year and I lost my job due to covid last year. It's been really tough but discipline has helped me. I've been trying to put my energy into little things while actively looking for a job. All the goals I achieve everyday encourage me in these difficult times. Thank you for this. It's perfect timing.

[@amikahs]

Discipline is necessary for growth. 👏🏾 Great video.

[@chimdichime]

Why, deadline, want it bad enough, true true true. These are the things I tell myself. I also think avoid distraction, because me for instance, there are some ppl that will say, don't worry you'll get to it, don't stress yourself. I be like " yeah sure" but I still go ahead and work because I have deadlines and a why. If I didn't I would listen to the distractions. I loved this video. Wonderful 👏

[@kamsinnamani]

Omg exactly 🤍🤍

[@adrianal4609]

Yes .I’m unemployed student and looking for a job but in this free time I’m literally tryna discipline myself and be organised ! It’s important because I never knew this was a weakness ! I’m setting targets and goals and. I know these skills will be needed when employed ! Discipline urself guys ❤️

[@kamsinnamani]

It will be needed at every point in life tbh💕

[@kissruanime2304]

Kamsi be dropping dead ass facts as usual 👏👏👏

[@kamsinnamani]

Thanks boo❣️

[@bewithzimye5406]

More motivational videos pls ? 👀 like once a month

[@blessingchinedum5072]

Yes please 😁

[@callmezay9898]

Reasons -> Solutions 1. You dont have a Why -> Create your Why (your reason for doing it) 2. You have no deadline -> Set a deadline to your Why (a date/a time) 3. You don't want it bad enough -> Do your own research, make the sacrifices, don't be deterred by road blocks and get it done no matter what

[@ChisomUtazi]

You don't have "Why" omg this is so true!! When there are punishments and consequences discipline flows immediately

[@Grandykat]

Okay sis really came for my NECK with this one! Much needed will definitely be implementing the tips thank you girl! Happy I found your channel xx

[@kamsinnamani]

🥺 You’re welcome 🤎🤍

[@ayobami_ajayi]

Thank you for these points Kamsi.

[@LauretOssai]

Marking my attendance here for today 🤗

[@nazokoli8]

Why Deadline for my why And want it bad enough.

[@YemiAyodeji]

Absolutely! If you have no motivation, you will constantly feel lazy to achieve what you want. I love that, if you want it so bad, you will make room for them to avoid unnecessary distractions. These are the issues I discuss on my channel as well. Great video, 20's is a time for leveling up👏👏😘

[@ogooachu]

Girl you're going places

[@adaolisamba323]

Thank you for the tips😊 The third one hit hard... You don't want it bad enough

[@phumeowakazulu]

Been binge watching your vlogs the whole weekend, I’m obsessed . Love from ❤️🇿🇦

[@kamsinnamani]

Thank youu 🥰🙈

[@BreeNwanze]

Really quaintly tips Having a deadline is actually good am glad I found out I am actually disciplined atleast here on youtube 🙈😅😅😅😅

[@madumerekelechi9667]

Thank you so much for this...this is really helpful..I wish I knew this in my early 20’s

[@kamsinnamani]

It’s never too late 🤎

[@bewithzimye5406]

I’m really struggling of late, thanks for this video, great timing.. hopefully I will begin to change my ways 😩

[@tseoteri]

Just wanted to say that you’re such an inspiration and your videos have helped me out in some areas of my life I didn’t think needed to be helped. So, thank you so much 🥺❤️

[@akifahm6624]

these are really really good tips that i haven't heard before, thank you so much. also wanted to say, i hope you dont put too much pressure on yourself for views and subscribers. you're doing so so well just being yourself and i already know you're going to be hugely successful sooner than later

[@kamsinnamani]

You’re welcome and I try not to lol🤎

[@nickydaley345]

This really motivated me, loving your videos! I can see you hitting 100k by the end of the year.

[@fluffy6664]

congrats on 24k 🥳💕💕

[@preciousoluwapelumi7064]

Jumped right to KZbin when I got the notification 😍❤️

[@ladylovebunker6344]

I’ve been looking for your channel for a while now. I literally love you, you once gave great advice about overthinking that stuck with me

[@princessyoryor]

These steps are so practical, loving this 20s series Kamsi! Thank you☺️❤️

[@kamsinnamani]

You’re welcome...happy you love them🤍

[@adenekaninioluwa221]

Watching these videos I'm sure I know certain things I would do in my 20's Thank you so much Kamsi🤎🤎

[@charityjoytv4718]

All the tips are really amazing dear am also a new KZbinr I will definitely put this tips in practice. You will definitely grow here on KZbin and outside KZbin. You will always succeed in everything you do dear. I have been watching your videos for long now but have never commented but am doing it today and also subscribing. Always remain bless dear.

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww thank you so much🥺🤎

[@TomiTomato]

I love how straightforward you are honestly. And I completely agree with everything you said 👌🏾 well done!

[@kamsinnamani]

Thanks hun 🤎🤎

[@juneobrien5016]

Loved this :') Made me be more conscious about my relationship to reality

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww glad to hear this❣️

[@wowso4]

This was a great video, I hope you get more subscribers you deserve it all the best to you darl! 😊😘

[@stephaniegati1051]

It’s the tooth gap for me😍

[@folamioluwasegun9271]

Can I just say I loveeeee your backdrop ♥️✨✨

[@kamsinnamani]

Thank youu 🙈🤍

[@_immaculata]

Tough Love. Just what I need. Thank you so much. The 20's series is such a get up and do better series. I so much love it. This video ❤️

[@Janederryo]

I love the background babe ...🥺😍 I really need this video.

[@IMETGODSHEBLACK]

I’ve been trying to do better for myself and my future careers and so this video came just in time! Appreciate the advice, definitely much needed 🤎

[@allthingssemirat5314]

Girl you are always speaking the truth! and I love your perspective on these type of topics!! Keep on giving us biko 👏🏾👏🏾🤍

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww thank youu 🙈🤎

[@otiamuzie1182]

Ooooouuuuuu!!!! I see you sporting the sleek bun girl 💕 Totally hit the points head on; I totally recommend anyone working on their discipline to read “Atomic Habits by James Clear”. It’s a game changer.

[@kamsinnamani]

Ouu thanks for the plug b💕

[@winifredchukwuemeka1351]

I love how practical these steps are truly and I have realized that some goals I had set were never achieved solely because I had no deadline. I'm so glad you made this video. Love you always.

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww 🥺🤎🤎

[@_justOnyie]

This video is honestly a prayer answered, I feel like I’ve got the answers to all my worries. Thanks Kamsi ♥️

[@kamsinnamani]

Wow so happy to hear that🥺🤍

[@ToriaOkezie]

Notification gang!! Here for the video♥️🔥🙌🏼

[@oyindas.1512]

Love that you’re making it into a series 😍

[@ElizasO]

So glad I found your channel seriously !!!

[@lundimvayo4753]

You absolutely amazing😍... Thank you so much. 💕

[@siweze7716]

Your background is everything 😍

[@kamsinnamani]

Thanks love💕

[@munachi...]

It's your consistency for me😍😍

[@theemmavianana]

This video was for me. I just like the fact that watching this made me more goal oriented

[@jumokebabatope]

Thank you so much for sharing!

[@moyoaina370]

This video spoke to my soul. Currently working on something I never imagined I could ever been involved in. I've started really strong and now that I'm able to complete it, I just see fear making me unwilling and demotivated to carry on and working with gross indiscipline. Thank you sm for sharing this. You're a star!

[@TegaSalubi]

Hey Kamsi! its Tega... met you on Saturday (Metaphor) This was a really really nice video. Your points were amazing! Well Done!

[@Themosunmoluwa]

I solely agree to your first reason “ NO WHY” it happens to me so much So I try to be discipline and look forward to do something in the morning or look forward to a particular goal

[@temiod]

Raw factsss only

[@valsandravlogs]

Congratulations on 24k boo🥳,more to come

[@kamsinnamani]

Thank youu and amen 🤍

[@sesonanyokana8938]

I loved that pep talk at the end, it really helped

[@eladebidaniella]

Thank you Kamsi 😘 Love how you’re switching up backgrounds. This view is beautiful ☺️🤎

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww thank you love🤎

[@oyinnabdul]

That getting up part isn't easy at all😥. I remember when I had online exams, I sleep late always and I have to wake up really early. But then as you said my why was really strong and I knew what I had to lose if I didn't wake up early.

[@kamsinnamani]

Exactly babe💕

[@thatfimigirl]

Some "opportunities" are distractions! Yasssssss... Totally agree👌👌👌

[@banyinagbo6904]

You’re soo amazing..thank you soo much The value in listening to you is 100

[@chiomaawoji9431]

Thank you for sharing this. You’re Godsent.

[@LaraGideon]

Your energy makes me soooo happy and thank you for sharing such helpful advice! 🥰💗

[@confidenceezeh]

I needed to see this for the longest of time been postponing what I need to do with my life and business .

[@teboho8339]

I had to come back to this!!👏

[@goodie9555]

Yaaaaay💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 we love a series🤗🤗

[@adedamolaiboyi]

Honestly when I found your channel I was like is this girl in my head or what!! Then I realize you were also a Libra and we the same age 😉🤫 lol Honestly you have really really inspired me to take my channel seriously and fine-tune somethings I wasn’t doing so well. I’m so excited for you on your growth! You did that girl ✋🏼 I pray the lord will continue to replenish your source for more following ideas and content in Jesus name 🙏🏽❤️

[@kamsinnamani]

Awww you’re so sweet 🥺 thank you so much ❣️ that libra energyy is strong lol

[@thelmaiyagba3653]

Some opportunities are distractions 👏👏

[@MissPrisyBaby]

Notification gang. Loving your content Kamsi!!!! I get inspired for my channel💕

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww thank youu 🤍🤍

[@abigaledarkwa348]

new subbie! really like you and this video and the level up in your 20s was really really good and helpful .definetley need to make some changes

[@pinktastezobodrinkery2105]

Thanks so much Kamsi,this is so inspiring

[@dimitriunfiltered]

Thank you so much for this always love your tips♥️🙌🏽

[@Therealbubuu]

VERY HELPFUL. THANK YOU.

[@NusrahMagaji]

Love to see it 🤎🤎🤎

[@honourfelix7351]

Just found your channel. Love love love your content.

[@thefeyikemiamoo6894]

We all need a little tough love every now and then. Really happy I watched this. Now it's time to put all of these tips into action.

[@pepmoore]

I'm so undisciplined mehn😫😫😫 love love love you 😘😘😘

[@roxalanab1365]

Thank you so much for this video !! I just realised that it's actually the discipline I struggle with the most !! Gonna work on that in the future

[@Ogonn.a]

These steps🙌🏾 It really couldn’t have been said better. Nice one girl✌🏾

[@kamsinnamani]

Thanks hun 🤍

[@nenyenwa23]

I be liking these videos in the first one minute❤ Come through with the wisdom Sensei🥰🤎

[@Elo_oboba]

It’s the consistency for me ❤️😍 ... Well done🎊

[@abbiekalya]

I love this girl!! I here for all of this!!!❤

[@kamsinnamani]

Thank youu 🥺🤎

[@maryokaformedia]

Very very informative 👌 thank you 👍

[@treasureagomuo1376]

I can relate to the deadline part lol..it keeps saving my procrastinating self... You are doing well girl. I know you Sha, Unec...shekinah assembly

[@nimisha3474]

Such great tips, needed a little reminder to myself, thank you for this❤️🙏🏽

[@ogechiezeamama703]

Brilliant. Thanks

[@kessienajay107]

This video is just scolding me but I like it .... I need it

[@FAYVURE]

This was helpful...kudos!

[@obinneoma3383]

Ist to view!!😊😊 Love you Kamsi❤

[@IniMc]

Thank youuuu Kamsi! 🤍 Needed this!

[@AuthenticSugar]

oo this really made me reflect. good stuff!

[@marianmomoh9890]

I needed this video today

[@perpetuatom6173]

Thanks kamsi