3 REASONS Why You Can't Have A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP (Codependency Recovery Steps)Lisa A. Romano

[@Meowmix4U]

64 years old and I finally understand. Thank you Lisa.

[@mariag5201]

Big ups to all the brave people who is struggling with this and still fighting and changing! Not easy!

[@triplekids3]

This was my life for 56 years I’m on the road to healing it’s never to late

[@denisrossi1732]

You are right

[@harleyhearse]

You are right. 47 years for me with my Narc Family. Currently seperated and divorcing my Covert narc wife of 9 years. Learned today how bad my narc has destroyed me financially. So long retirement..

[@scarl11]

Never too late! ✨

[@lizraae8867]

❤

[@Odenix75]

I can relate to you too. I expended about 25 year with my ex-wife never put attention to the red flags or listening to my inner voice, now I am alone because she even manipulated and gaslighted my children. Namaste to everyone. 🙏

[@jeffwilliams9086]

Thank you so much! This statement was profound for me “codependency is basically an IDENTITY issue, that becomes a BEHAVIORAL issue, that manifests as a RELATIONSHIP issue”. This statement really made clear to me my own problem within myself. Thanks so much, your videos are so good and helpful!

[@shawnparker1207]

i see the problem very simply - a nariicissit or alcoolic or abuser is completely self - centered and the co -dependent of any sort is OTHER DEPENDENT a term i dont believe have ever seen put like that either way it is an extreme the best slogan i saw at an al anon meeitng THE ALCOHOLIC WILL NOT BE DISCUSSED!

[@Clintthecoolguy]

Man, KZbin is just going nuts with the ads every 2 minutes on this one. Wish they would ease up on the interruptions a little - I’m trying to pay attention to what you are saying!

[@Erik7prc]

My premium ran out like 2 months ago and I dealt with the ads but I swear it got worse (ads every couple of minutes). I end up going premium so I can watch content in peace. 11.99$ is worth it but I felt like I was strong armed into it....😆

[@glowinthadark]

She places them...first revenue..but ya its annoying 🤪🤫🤣🤭 But its life...bla..bla..bla

[@Magnivore519]

Get ad blockers, my friends.

[@jeanettewoodhouse4348]

My thoughts exactly... It's frustrating trying to listen but stopping what I'm doing to skip these annoying ads 🙄

[@JA-bj9tz]

on yes, I started Premium 2 weeks ago, best choice ever.

[@FoodTrucksForDummies]

This was me for 3 decades. Thanks to Lisa, I’m on the road back to me now. So much respect for you guys facing your past and overcoming it.

[@FoodTrucksForDummies]

@One Redjam111 Yes take back your power 🔌

[@lifejourney3086]

Me 3 decades as well! Lately, for the past year, it's been getting mo re intense. The struggle is REAL!

[@sb75ification]

I’m going through the codependency and CPTSD “awakening” after being in a 9 year, mentally abusive relationship with a cluster b covert narcissist. Thanks for posting these, and sharing your knowledge. It’s been a big help during my struggles.

[@1tundra11]

Me too !!!

[@bossup5907]

@@1tundra11 sorry, are you fine now ?

[@michelevarady6071]

Me too! I know about codependency and I got sucked in with my Narcissists charm, attention, false promises and good looks. Then…I started feeling ignored, dismissed, taken advantage of, and lied to. He began drinking heavily, and I became severely depressed and riddled with anxiety. I caught him sleeping with his ex (literally). He came back on his hands and knees, promising changes to quit drinking. And…..the merry go round continued…until now I finally feel that I am not in love him. I was in love with who I hoped he “truly” was. Well, he “truly” is a Narcissist, and I accept him for who he is and I don’t want him anymore. It’s the fantasy that I was in love with, not him.

[@elmiraloftin222]

It took me doing a talking fast to recognize my issues of co-dependency. Not being able to reach out to people has been challenging on this fast. This hit me like a ton of bricks. Now I know why I overgive....why I feel the need to always respond....why I overshare. All I want is love and to feel like I'm enough.....So enlightening 💜

[@sacredaura2170]

I have been thinking about doing this. How long did you do it for.

[@michaelbyrd2406]

I was co-dependent in my first marriage to a narcissist wife that I left recently....the relief I feel is like a new lease on life. Thanks for the narcissist videos from weeks ago, it really helped me understand why my ex was like she was!!! I wish she would have gotten help 8 years ago. Even our 2 kids don’t want anything to do with their mother. Thank again

[@sb75ification]

I’m in the same boat, Mr. Byrd! Stay strong buddy!

[@jeffwilliams9086]

Me as well!

[@michaelbyrd2406]

@@jeffwilliams9086 I have a question gentlemen, are y’all signs “CANCER” by any chance? I’m a cancer. Seems to me, only a cancer would subject themselves to that kind of abuse

[@pinkposey8134]

Guess what it will keep getting better! My dad is an emotional Cancer sign. They love their children and families! Ruled by the moon my diva dad!

[@jeffwilliams9086]

@@michaelbyrd2406 I am a cancer, how did you know that?

[@wiser1254]

74 years here! Been working on my codependency for three years-it is a process and it will continue for me probably for the rest of my life. Thank you, Lisa for your videos and books. They have helped me immensely!

[@musicofshagor3003]

I was abused by a narcissist so badly... Your videos help me a lot to free my self.. But straggling for fully freedom of my self.

[@DorianGriner]

Lisa really is an authentic and a true Love and Light, shining most brightly. I wish more people could be reached and helped with her life saving and life changing coaching. Keep shining ☀️🙏♥️

[@paulap7201]

In my experience, those closest refuse to accept my NO. It becomes a battle for control!

[@KatFisch]

Something that happened to me what I was in a relationship with another who has a different attachment style from me, but it also codependent. What happened was I fell back into my CPTSD response and sought therapy, then learned that was why I had the behavior. I didn't learn I was Codependent until much later. I felt unloved but didn't deserve love. I started healing but in that process i disconnected from what my partner needed. A year after we separated, we both have higher understanding of ourselves. His therapist actually gave him advise that I was narcissistic because of my newly found self autonomy and my response to triggers. (I can see why narcissistic people are frequently confused with codependent people) we are still working things out but it's gotten better. I hope the same for all of you

[@j.sheila7025]

Wow...Ive been in therapy, for years. I've learned more about myself, through this video, than I ever have.

[@amandajones3217]

Lisa, your friends, family and neighbors are so lucky to have you in their lives. I wish you lived near me! 😀 I hope that one day I can be surrounded by authentic people that uplift and want to grow and spread love and joy. Thank you for all you do.

[@lauratheexplorer6390]

Imagine living near Lisa. She would be a total celebrity to me but nobody else would know who she is. It's like I've discovered a secret world & community. I have CPTSD. On the path to codependency recovery!

[@NarcissismExposed]

Learning about the MO of the narcissist was such an awakening for me but it wasn’t until I understood narcissism through a biblical perspective that I got my enlightenment and true healing

[@bossup5907]

so sorry, do you still believe in love

[@NarcissismExposed]

Mark Allen I believe in God I believe in Jesus Christ I believe in forgiveness and I believe in healing and of course I still believe in love life is filled with learning curves and we just never give up on life

[@NarcissismExposed]

Mark Allen Plus my experience has now given me the opportunity to pay it forward with producing my own videos that are helping people on a biblical basis

[@bossup5907]

Are you a catholic ? I lost my wife to the COVID19 virus and for 8 months, I was getting drunk. I realized I was not getting younger and alcohol was causing me more harm than good. Normally, I am a God fearing person, I love honest people and despise lies. I have 2 kids and I am willing to move on to find a partner who is serious and God fearing. I have my investments and I am financially stable. I just want to take things gradually and first of all, get acquainted. I find you amazing and I don't mind if we get in correspondence via email or whasapp

[@kishalashawn5542]

Religion is full of the ULTIMATE narcissist s. The entire premise of it textbook narcissism.

[@earthangel7386]

My life is an absolute mess right now , i was brought uo by a narc mother , left home too marry a narc , I'm now 47 yrs old and have absolutely no idea how to live without being under the threat of the iron fist , after running away from both , losing everything and everyone 12 mnths ago.

[@stephanieb.4661]

Good for you ripping the band-aid off! NOW the healing can begin

[@lindasharpe7039]

You're free at a young age. Some of us are much older discovering our truth.

[@lindareid7153]

Well done. You ve pulled off the hardest part. You can now begin to heal.

[@dianawelles1726]

Hitting rock-bottom is actually a really great spot to start. No place to go but up darling and up is so good.

[@dianawelles1726]

God bless your journey

[@erainalewis6092]

I like what you said about talking to people and you realize they were asleep it's not judging

[@chasin8888]

Hi Lisa! I'm in week 1 of your 12 week program. I have dropped a lot caretaking and getting better at Observing. Now that I have all this time for myself, now I don't know what to do for myself 🙄. I'm invisible to Me. I have my 93 yr old mother and my 30 yr old daughter living with me... Feel like I would do better living alone. Thank you for your work 💗

[@lisaaromano1]

Welcome Christine!!!!!!!!!!! Good for. you!!!!!

[@beverlyorlando8040]

I see in myself some codependent traits I saw in my mother while growing up. My father was (probably still is) an overt narcissist who was on more than one occasion physically abusive and also molested me and my two sisters. In my teen years, I fought back by speaking out in truth whenever his words or behaviors hurt other family members. Because I did that, I quickly became the family scapegoat. Years ago, I met a man who seemed gentler, kinder,cushy, quiet. A little quirky but I was willing to accept that because he seemed so different from my father. Fast forward after thirty years of marriage, I've decided to leave him. His quirkiness and shyness hid a miserable truth! He's actually very controlling, manipulating condescending, lacks empathy amongst other very toxic qualities. Imagine my disappointment! I'm disappointed in myself just as much as I am in him. How was i so bamboozled? Why did i stay so long and try to help this person who each time i tried to reach him, built harder, taller walls to shut me out? Was it fear, hope, codependency, or out of my genuine desire to help others? We are very close now to our divorce being finalized. Watching your videos for a few years now helped me understand what I was actually dealing with and come to the realization that no matter how much I loved or gave this man he would never have changed. I see that now! He actually resents it. I have grown since the first time I realized that. I now know what my role was in this relationship. I will focus more on my healthy journey and breaking free from codependency and childhood trauma. Peace & light to you for sharing your wisdom. And peace & light to all those who suffer in these relationships.

[@deborahgtucker]

Am 70yrs old. Just waking up to the truth of humanity. Thank you for your support.

[@sherynngofa6175]

What you said really resounded with me! My identity determines my behavior, which affects my relationships. At the heart of the matter is how I see myself. It colors what I do and whom I allow into my life. Thank you for your work!

[@glamaz0n]

56? I’m 73! I finally went No Contact with a FWB boyfriend, or “manfriend” lol. He made a suggestion about our relationship that was so offensive and showed such little regard for me that I simply had to go No Contact. This was a GIFT which I still enjoy when I think about it, feeling the power! And now? I am glad, that due to COVID-19 the yoga class we both went to is now only virtual, so I don’t have to see him there.

[@jenniferharrison8546]

I had never heard of the word codependency until now .lm 69 years of age . Oh boy what a wake up call.l can see myself now very clearly,and wonder how others see me as well . Always putting others first , and leaving my self at the end of the line . I was the perfect partner for a narcissist. I deserve so much more. Hopefully it's not to late.Where have l been .😭

[@nazcarcup]

Thank you so much. Going to be watching this a few times.

[@tazaratsarina9445]

Thanks Lisa!!! You changed my life and still changing for the better!!! Thanks million times 🙏❤️

[@aletablakely7605]

Lisa, The way you say "Dear Ones" is so touching. I know you understand the pain of this recovery and the question: "Will I ever be able to trust myself again"?

[@leeannswain1241]

Yes! This!

[@libbymitchell727]

Lisa, you are just absolutely amazing!! So clear, and generous, and helpful. Your work is helping me to change and heal my life. Thank you most sincerely for sharing this information and wisdom with us! 🌞 🍃 🕊️ 🌍 🕊️ 🍃 🌛

[@m.antoinetteadams41]

Oh my goodness...you hit it on the bullseye. Everything you said in this video I lived. My life was exactly as you described.

[@leeannurban7364]

Hey Lisa. I love your videos ; I wanted to leave a comment on another video but am posting it here, as it appeared comments were turned off. Re: Narcissists I completely agree that you cannot win with a Narcissist; however, the Win actually comes when you dont engage, you are holding onto your power when you choose not to engage which is defeating to an energy vampire/narcissist. I've had to deal with 3 in the last 3 years and it's totally energizing to not engage and then watch the behavior as they squirm. It's not intended to be cruel at all but it does feel good b/c I know I have held my Power. Love and Light!

[@consultmlcesqful]

My family was dysfunctional. I am a codependent with CPTSD. 62 and just now getting the answers I’ve needed for a lifetime. I am doing the work; being accountable to myself. A day late; a dollar short. But better than never. I must seek out my authentic self beginning now & strive to experience peace & joy in my remaining years. Bruce Lipton! I participated in a workshop conducted by him, here at David Libscomb College in Nashville, TN. Amazing!

[@jackieroyle2973]

Lisa you have saved my life and I will keep listening and learning from you (I took your coaching course and master class), but the number of advertisements have become way too obtrusive. I will only watch the videos without too much interruption...not able to finish this one, sadly 😞.

[@Trissa.33]

use an ad blocker. you can search for it and then download it. i've done it for years. works so well.

[@Odenix75]

@Lisa 👍👍😁🇺🇸 Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences. Namaste 🙏

[@47harleybabe]

This really resonated with me. I had been married to a narcissist for 38 years and probably would have been married longer. It finally came to a point where I was tired and hurt from him flaunting his infidelity constantly in my face and our kids. I was attracted to him because we could have down to earth intelligent conversations, sometimes talking all night. I got hooked in because he came from a family with extreme emotional abuse and I felt badly for him. I came from a family that was good until my sister died and then we were all sort of broken. I thought I could help him get a different childhood - big mistake, we can't change the past. And we especially can't change someone else past.I did try to do everything for him, forgave all the time and I guess in a way I thought we were both getting what we needed. Well we have been divorced for 13 years during which I have tried to include him in activities with the kids and grandkids. Only when he felt like it or didn't have a prior obligation to one of his gils did he join in. I constantly beat myself up thinking that "if only I could do things right" he would come around but until I started listening to Lisa I still bought into the lie that something was wrong with me. Now I am seeing as if for the first time and am working on me and me alone. If he wants to see the kids or g.kids that's on him to do, I'm done being the social director . Thank you Lisa!

[@kennethrogers3687]

I told my narcissist aunt that I'm studying narcissism. She says that I'm wasting my time. She knows that I'm onto her, lol! A clever tactic when dealing with family. I didn't have to go no contact, she did! Guess she moved on to a easier target! Much love beautiful!

[@karansetiya3435]

Lol

[@erainalewis6092]

this video has made me realize I have to look more into codependency this video really puts a lot into perspective for myself and the people around me I think I've made some good headway In codependency but I have more work to do I may have tackled some deep codependent issues with mom but there are other codependent people out there who appear as narcs and covert narcs..I don't like the energy coming off some people's bodies and I don't like talking to them because they're always trying to pull you in and rope you into something if they're doing doing doing and will do everything for you they always expect you to say yes and it doesn't feel good

[@LeafsIn2025]

I never knew this! I thought it was just couples! The narcissism has done so much damage. Decades of recovery is going well but this video had the missing link! Thank you for explaining so I can expand my journey, help restore my relationships starting with myself and share your videos and insights. God bless you, Lisa! 💐

[@jshelley4592]

Lisa.... I just ran from a co dependent relationship and came to another state. I'm finding that I'm breaking down. I've struggled for 3 weeks with anxiety so badly that I couldn't even drive. I don't want to get behind the wheel. In the relationship I left I realized she killed all my confidence. I can't believe she she'll of myself. I stayed far too long and it cost me my confidence in myself. My sister in law wouldn't even let me cook. Now that I left, I found out that I last my touch.

[@paulacib5600]

I am totally suffering from cptsd!! I didn’t know what that was or that I even have it until I started listening to your videos! Thank you so much because now I could finally understand my behavior I’m work on getting better

[@thepracticalfarmacist]

Once I accepted the first 3 min and had my little cry of acceptance, I started over. You are a beacon of light in wisdom that is much needed plain English. The identity issues I listed were a reality check explain my whole being, or a lack there of! Some say a light bulb went off - I say my neurons went off like the big bang - denial over.. begin healing.

[@kellyk8966]

You explain this topic so well. It's very much appreciated that you take the time to freely offer your time to offer your insight.

[@nicolesalter2726]

You are so courageous Lisa. After 13 years I still didn't have the courage to leave, I was brutally discarded and lost everything but my children. Because of you and others, I am healing, recognizing my codependency and how childhood trauma very similar to your own played into the hands of my narcissistic ex. This is not an easy road but it's so much better than being at the mercy of my toxic unconscious behaviours. Thank you for having the courage to break the cycle so we can evolve and find the courage to love and accept ourselves ❤❤❤❤❤

[@DirtyBetaPsi70]

Lisa, thank you for your videos. They've helped me understand that my covert narc ex never saw me as a person, only as a tool to be used until I was no longer useful, then discarded me. This has helped me move out of trying to heal by figuring out what happened from an emotional perspective and move on to the factual perspective: It wasn't personal, she doesn't see people as "people," but merely as a means to be manipulated to produce a specific end for her. Seeing it factually and not personally (taking the human out of the equation) I see it not as a betrayal, but an example of a very disturbed person doing what comes naturally to them with no consideration for the consequences it creates for their victim. I'm not condoning what she did to me, but I've moved on from ever hoping I could get her to realize, let alone empathize with me about, what she's done.

[@KaamiEm]

You are such an amazing person! I've been searching for answers to my problems with establishing healthy boundaries and breaking out of codependancy patterns most of my life! Growing up in a highly dysfunctional family made me a person who was unable to speak up for herself. It was caused by a subconscious fear/memory of being punished for stating own opinions, disagreeing with an abusive part or showing my character. Even though I realised the existence of issues named in your video I was unable to cope with them. Thank you for addressing it! It is very important for silent sufferers and empaths! I am learning so much from your informative content and can't thank you enough for finally enlightening me!

[@mindfulmaniac8973]

I subscribed to your channel for almost a week now. Thank you so very much for the information ❤💯

[@lisaaromano1]

Welcome!!!!!

[@Justinjoyfitness]

I'm so grateful for your channel and all of your videos. Thank you so much for putting yourself out there and helping. 💛

[@fanistassopoulos4812]

You are my new mother!

[@deborahgtucker]

Amen! Quit Nursing school also. After being told to quit and get a job or my 2nd Narcissistic relationship would come to an end. The threat of abandonment was tremendous. I am now being accountable. I reacted instead of responding because of an ADD and codependent curse. This will be a arduous process, BUT!, oh so worth it.

[@KeiraMorgan-q1d]

A family member who has caused me almost 20 years of NPD bull**** took themselves from my life (including my nephews for some reason) by blocking me on all social media because they thought I was making fun of a flower in their garden. lol...--What they don't care to even think about is that they just did me the BIGGEST life favour. It's been so smooth and steady ever since without them constantly judging everything I do from afar. It's so peaceful on this side. *takes calming breathe

[@JulaRome]

I thank you for your work from the bottom of my soul. God bless you Lisa 🙏🏻

[@lisaaromano1]

Bless you Jula!

[@Lorettaforbes1]

Man, I flat out cried the other night after processing everything but I slept better. :) I got up and I did your list 5 thoughts and staying present and keeping just those 5 thoughts on my mind. I did catch myself thinking about someone and wanting their validation but then I said "Nope, I'm enough. Don't need that validation I can validate myself." I can see where this will take years so I have a new neuropathway to follow. At least I started.

[@deborahgtucker]

Abandonment Trauma…need a lot of info. This is of High importance. This Fear is paralyzing . Am a Enlightened lover of your pearls of wisdom. Thank goodness we have YOU!

[@keariewashburn4680]

Me 54 years old. This is my stuff too. Recovering

[@gracer5923]

Thank you so much... I didn't know it was trapped in the subconscious...

[@pinkposey8134]

It was like a light switch, your videos and therapy - last month I love myself qwerks and all! In gratitude to you and your thinking!

[@carolsampson5511]

Where do you find people now days its hard

[@sophiahalas9931]

You are remarkable babe. You helped me out so much with things I’ve been going through ❤️

[@SergeC72]

Thank you much Lisa for sharing your knowledge!

[@Yokai.Wakukhan]

Lisa, you are a legend. May all the forces in the universe bring this insight to a wider light.

[@arnetrahughes2277]

I am so grateful for you. Thank you for doing your work and creating a path that can be followed.

[@carolgonzales4262]

Thank you for the stop seeking validation comment....I do this all the time!

[@sossseptiles5365]

your a very intelligent person

[@sossseptiles5365]

thank you

[@DJ_Flame_Jade]

This is from my father he passed away suddenly when I was 14 my mum was an alcholic and a lot of other bad things, but im this way only with men never with females or friends or work! Its am I good enough for men! Because I was never good enough for my dad he wanted me to be a boy and even hated that I was a female. I can’t believe what I’m listening to thank you I love you so much x I wish you could come to uk and do a seminar cx❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@DCCnderela1]

This is excellent. Thank you

[@InfiniteMindset99]

Good advice without the shoulds. A great coach once told me don’t should on yourself.

[@ashleeminchew7038]

You are telling my story ...I am a codependent married to a narc .I used to think I was the victim now I see things differently.Ive been working on a 12 step program and see my way out !!! Love everything ur saying .....

[@the_watchman327]

A very great in depth look into a disorder that is yet to be a recognized disorder, which hopefully will be soon because being in those situations growing up with or otherwise can be damaging to ur soul.

[@sarahcouture24]

It’s beautiful and inspiring to hear about all the personal growth you have made in your story 💜

[@moniquejackson7741]

Wow! It's a big, beautiful BEST OF Codependency Recovery, and it's wonderful! I've been hoping someone would provide something like this. There's a lot of people in the support groups who are just waking and asking, "Where do I start?" Right here, Lisa's got you covered. :)

[@ernestavalenciute6279]

After my first relationship I understood, that I'm codependent, but never really knew how to deal with that effectively. Yesterday I watched one of your videos and it was so enlightening and powerful. Now I countiosly choose what I want instead of trying to be liked and appreciated. As you said, it makes me pretty anxious, but I'm patient. Hope one day it will shift to subconscious level...Thank you ❤

[@joybrown3099]

Thank you and God bless you, Lisa! Namaste, Shalom 🙏💝

[@dm5341]

This sounds like many things I've been through. Can I change and have a better life? I hope so.

[@earthangel7386]

And feeling like you've been rejected by someone is crucifying

[@bobbiedaniel9347]

It doesn't have to be!

[@TaniaMarie424]

This is me. Working on myself every day

[@drsandhyathumsikumar4479]

You are extremely brave ..every new video tells me ur ability address layers of truth while u find the ultimate truth ...well done and thank you

[@tinsje2875]

Thank you for verbalizing and gathering my scattered knowledge about codependency.. I've been self educating for a good 2 years now on narcissism/personality disorders etc. which took me beyond my childhoodwalls. I was never taught any tools to develop a healthier, self protecting awareness and traumas defenses of anger, bitterness, feeling not acknowledged, heard, understood on how injust I've been treated my hole life, acting like the knight of universal righteousness

[@tinsje2875]

for the first time ever

[@ScottRiddleArtist]

Hi Lisa. I live your videos . But your really saturating them with ads . I know that the ads are skipable. But after 4 of them they are actual extremely distracting. Don’t you feel that perhaps 2 ads is more reasonable? It’s that fine line between maintaining integrity and making money .

[@deborahgtucker]

I have maternal codependency Genes. Listening to you has definitely put things in order. I could attach to any of your labels very quickly, cause it is always my problem. Have decided, as you have said, to find out who the heck I am. A meeting of mind, body and spirit.

[@krisscanlon4051]

Lisa my fav down to earth spiritual being! Tell em LAR you are a true friend and guide

[@moemeghji9672]

Great Insight Into Co-Dependency and Great Advise On How to Manage It

[@michellewoodson4696]

Gotta love weomen who use the word 'autonomy' frequently! Sadly, I often have to define it for people. Thank you for your 411...breaking it all down so succinctly. So much information I have to take notes.

[@Catherine_Kate]

Yet another *masterful* piece of content ❤️🤍✨ Thank you Lisa for doing such a deep dive on this, and for also covering how this destruction extends to tolerating career choices to feel worthy and ‘pleasing through achieving’.

[@erinmorse9053]

Yet

[@Stoicisbetter]

Thank you for putting all of this out here. I felt, and was accused of being, totally crazy in a past relationship. Yes, I am/have been codependent; I have also been trying to find my way out. I’m working on a healthier me, which totally angered the narcissists in my life. I’m related to some of them and they want me to remain the way I was.

[@brandonwilliams972]

Wow! This was very informational!

[@johnmorris4347]

This video is sooooo terrific & fabulous!

[@kendralaw7913]

We Are MORE than ENOUGH!!

[@TheDuffpaddy]

I was 59 when I figured it out. Discarded by my f

[@bossup5907]

do you still believe in love

[@mikerozic7225]

Thank You this was very important never knew what it was god bless you:)

[@WarriorQueenb]

Love this Lisa you're amazing

[@renet.1469]

Thank you, Lisa.

[@Dseated]

Thank you for the information.

[@digitaltango]

Amazing insight, information and advice.

[@JJB1176]

I think this is ME! As I'm literally sitting by myself bawling my eyes out. This either ME or I'm just a horrible human and have turned into a narcissist myself from living with one. I feel like I care too much to be a narcissists though.

[@adambalogh2939]

Thank God i found this i learned so much already about somr of my lifelong deep seated issuess, Thank you so much,

[@susanmh5]

Excellent video! Thank you Lisa💗

[@ThePrincesafania]

This has been very helpful and clarifying. Thank you Lisa, your videos are lifesavers!

[@triplekids3]

We have too face it head on!

[@kallieberry1829]

Thank you.

[@sayusayme7729]

This is so important and amazing information!!! So grateful for you ☯️

[@rachaelrachael2378]

I have been following you for a few years and have known for a number of years I am codependent thanks to you. I identify with a lot of childhood stuff you speak about in your videos have been in a relationship with a toxic covert narcissist who exploited my heart when I was striving to move forward with greater understanding of each other I never got that from him I got attacked and minipulated to hate myself and take responsibility for everything all the issues and all the things he was doing to me he said I was doing to him a lot of the time before I could express I was doing it to him. I could go on about that but anyway...I wasnt one to hide away in the Sense I always pointed out issues and expressed my thoughts and feelings but doing this over 6 years I was with him left me so done in and drained and confused and in inner turmoil and now my body has manifested physical disease in my digestive system still waiting for the results from the dr. Ive been no contact with him now for 2 months and I’ve been in self healing psychotherapy for over 3 years I didn’t know I was being abused until just after I started this therapy but I kept believing the narcissist and trying harder anyway I’ve over time gradually been able to let him go and now fully let him go as everytime I went back the abuse was worse and my awareness more. I’ve for some years always noticed my thoughts and feelings from the higher perspective due to the inner work on myself my conciousness has awakened more however what I am really struggling with now despite all my healing work and awareness is how do I heal this feeling of lack within me this neglect and feeling of needing someone to love me despite me loving myself in ways it’s a very strong feeling and In the times of the corona virus i am very lonely as I cannot do all the things I finally realise are me as they are all closed I wish to connect and find my identity through activities and things but will this be enough when I can finally do it. Is the way to simply keep focusing on me and striving for connection with the world ? I feel so alone and full of lack and I always said I’d do whatever it takes to heal and be happy and inspire others Any advice will be sooo welcome Thank you so much Lisa for everything you’ve shared you’ve been someone I’ve repeatedly gone back to to gain more wisdom and strength during my journey and you are a total blessing ❤️ big hug Rachael