3 Rules That Will Immediately Change Your Life

[@AndreAlessiCastro]

1. Radical Responsibility: You're responsible for everything in your own experience, even if it's not your fault. 2. Radical Acceptance: There's no such thing as a bad emotion. There are only bad reactions to emotions. 3. Radical Growth: Every action and decision you make should be motivated to improve lives.

[@Theunknownuser652]

Thanks a lottt❤

[@khushisingh2163]

Thanks👍😊

[@devakinandan23]

I honour this guy by taking screen shot of this

[@derekstark6612]

Screenshotted ~ thank you!

[@nathaliealidee6650]

that's it!

[@albwilso9]

Yes!! I I am 78 years old and I am still trying to improve myself, and will do so all my life!! That is what makes life good, and interesting !!!

[@alexjulius69]

How are you 4 months later?

[@pranjalrawat2590]

​@@alexjulius69 lol

[@alexjulius69]

@@pranjalrawat2590 What's funny, I'm just impressed by this guy being on youtube at 78 years old, that's rare.

[@Elaba_]

Do you take food supplements?

[@amar-td4zs]

@@alexjulius69 ded prob, jk

[@MindsettoMastery]

One of my rules: Self-love is not conditional. It doesn't mean that you love yourself once you achieve X. It's about loving yourself just as you are right now.

[@VrittiKhawani]

👍

[@mr.knownothing33]

Definitely we are enough

[@ezra4554]

Agreed, self-love should be unconditional. Self-respect, on the other hand, requires constant upkeep!

[@ezra4554]

@تشاريينه Yes, it does. I assume by "killer" you mean someone morally reprehensible like (as an extreme example) a child rapist/murderer. Putting aside the fact that you can be a killer for morally just reasons (defending your family, for example), I still say that self-love (by which I mean loving the divine/transcendent aspect of your being that makes you human and it's ability to change the world and itself for good) is the best path. That's not to say that such a person shouldn't feel ashamed or (hopefully) remorseful for their actions (in fact, self-love's function is often to allow us to honestly see our faults), nor that they should be unpunished, it's just the case that loving (or attempting to love), nurture, and share the good that remains in yourself is a far more productive endeavor than spending the rest of your life doing nothing but hating yourself. You may even end up helping some people on the way. So I suppose I do apply conditions for self-love, though in the sense that I think people are not genuinely able to love themselves unless they are honest (in so far as they are able to be) with themselves about themselves. We all struggle with this at times, and we tend to notice it happening, we feel the lack of self-love in those moments.

[@twinkietwinkie9258]

@تشاريينه admittin mistakes does not prevent self love

[@DemetriPanici]

*“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” - James Clear*

[@dimitridoroshko]

What's up, Demetri?

[@JesusChrist-su9zj]

Whatsthematterpunk?

[@ricklil8174]

That is Deep!

[@user-mc5fg3fx5w]

Bot

[@septimius8244]

My 3 rules would be 1)love yourself- take care of your mind and body health, do what you love 2) no comparison - you're a unique existence just figure out your own way through life 3) Empathy with other people - you will not get easily angry & don't easily influenced by other people's emotion

[@anniemartinho9360]

Do agree

[@ZippetyZoppetyZop]

I don’t love these rules. I don’t think you’re going to get anything productive done, but I do think these rules will make you a really nice person. Only problem is being nice doesn’t provide for your family

[@lonezome]

@@ZippetyZoppetyZop then you didn’t get his point. These are basic standards that help you navigate making decisions. So your condescending tone should be dropped because you don’t know more than most. You are a prime example of the Dunning-Kruger effect.

[@lonezome]

@@ZippetyZoppetyZop although these rules are not the greatest, this won’t be how he makes his decisions. It’s the thoughts and motivations behind your decision that matter.

[@lonezome]

@@ZippetyZoppetyZop also, I can say these things, but I can’t understand them for you. Most people usually get offended and try to school me, so I don’t respond. Just be aware of that before responding lol

[@vajs6312]

1. Always be at peace with what the worst possible outcome of a situation might be and accept that it’s not only possible, but sooner or later - inevitable. 2. Try to make every social interaction fun (at least for yourself) 3. Accept that you did your best with what information you had at the time.

[@SamS.455]

Solid. 👍

[@jessygirl4339]

Love this

[@anusha2465]

I always felt the third advice because there is no point in blaming the past you.

[@T_Civ]

I often follow a principle that can be laid out as: "Do nothing that harms the humanity within yourself or others." It helps me a lot to recover the sense of humanity constantly attacked by our modern (cold and alienating) way of life. Thanks for the video Mark!

[@relativeparadox9567]

1- Responsibility 2- Empathy 3- Open Mindedness

[@kavasejanka51]

That is not exactly what he said...

[@relativeparadox9567]

@@kavasejanka51 it's not what he said. It's what I said.

[@notus299]

@@relativeparadox9567 damn thats true

[@flavioptferreira]

Can we just take a moment to appreciate how Mark's videos take stock footage to another, HILARIOUS level 😂😂😂😂

[@chills2447]

Totally yeah

[@rainmanjr2007]

I loved the water polo guy.

[@hisanzee3052]

Agreed xD

[@alanissac1294]

The keyboard smashing lmao

[@hannibaldelephantrider7614]

Guy sees a baby on outside his door, "I'm going to pretend I didn't see that". 😂😂

[@ArtSzabo]

1. Never stop improving 2. Always think of the other person first, put yourself in their shoes. 3. Make time for yourself and try and understand who you are inside.

[@d-rail1781]

I just had a revelation smack me in the face but what you just said Mr. Manson. I realized that I just had tears of joy just to hear you say” I didn’t leave that baby at my doorstep but it is absolutely my responsibility to take care of it”. It’s nice to hear those words of relation. That one small statement tells me your entire personality.

[@jamiececilielange5249]

A 'rule' of mine is to not let fear control my life. To do things I want to, despite anxiety. I don't always succeed at this, but I've become better at this.

[@sofiagiorgio370]

Love your life rules Mark!! Mantras that I often tell myself: 1. "Seek and you shall find" I see this being evident in my life time and time again. If I need and seek a solution to something I almost always find it. 2. "Everything that mean something is worth fighting for" For example I am grateful to my children to mean the world to me so I always make my most effort in caring for them and putting them before my own needs. 3. "Treat others like I you want to be treated" I always admire and appreciate when People are being professional and friendly towards me so I want to pay that forward to others that I meet and work with. I am currently reading your book about hope. Thank you for your amazing books Mark 😊

[@lbeck119]

Love how you give guidance to those that can't GROUND themselves.... I'm a 30 year pipefighter... This is the mindset we are trying to teach the next generation of problem SLOVERS!!!!!!

[@melissaantone9207]

Love this! A couple of my rules: Take Action or Let Go Be Kind or Be Quiet I also love the 5 Agreements (Ruiz): Be impeccable with your word, don't take anything personally, don't make assumptions, always do your best, and be skeptical but learn to listen.

[@icecreampimpdeux]

take action or let go... I like that one alot, hell yeah

[@cgyang]

I really like these. My initial reaction to Be Kind or Be Quiet, was that one shouldn't let others walk all over them. Then I remembered a saying: Honesty without kindness is cruel. Kindness without honesty is also cruel. There is a path to both stick yourself for yourself and be considerate and kind. I believe, walking that line promotes emotional and intellectual growth.

[@JOTYYY]

Love it

[@BostonInAustin]

"Sometimes I wonder if maybe we're becoming a little bit over vulnerable that the celebration of being vulnerable is negating the benefits that come from vulnerability." YES! That part! Well said.

[@davidr4523]

These are excellent rules by Manson! I would set my 5 Rules for Life as 1. Control your mind/thoughts- People allow themselves to have harmful thoughts that makes success and happiness impossible. Absolutely it is hard to do but you simply must. There is no other option. 2. Plan your day and your life. It is very difficult to accomplish great things if you do not know what you have to. 3. Always use time to its most productive use. This does not mean you are working toward a goal every minute. Relaxing and having fun is also part of this equation. 4. Take care of your body and mind- if you abuse both of them you will have no energy to succeed and you will probably die early. 5. Be good and kind- Even if you are not religious, there is Karma which may get you if you do bad things. In the movie almost everybody wants the evil person to lose. Of course there are many exceptions to this rule, but in more cases than not, if you follow the 5 rules above you will have a better life than if you didn't.

[@inteligenciaregional]

"I'm responsible for everything in my own experience" it's a great way of walking in life. Thanks Mark.

[@DemetriPanici]

*"It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness." Charles Spurgeon*

[@xxyyxx2861]

Today I replied to a bot

[@yidianzuikeai]

People saying internet haters make them miserable is another example of blaming others for their decisions (of opening up herself for comment on internet) 😂😂😂😂😊

[@brittney3156]

Agree with a caveat - I've had lots of experience with mental and physical health where on the other side of treatment I was like, "Well yeah! It's way easier to regulate my emotions now or have the energy to do other things." If your emotions or energy levels seem out of scale compared to other people, explore medical causes. It's as if I had a 100 pound backpack on that other people weren't carrying or experiencing my internal and external reality very differently from the norm. In some cases, it only required addressing vitamin levels to create huge shifts.

[@mr.khaton8719]

The man that changed my life. Love his books

[@زهراءحسن-ص2ه]

Me too

[@movement2contact]

I forced myself to finish his book and then put it for sale online... 👴🏻

[@mr.khaton8719]

@@movement2contact IQ level 2000

[@movement2contact]

@@mr.khaton8719 Yeah, it's that much of a terrible book... 😏

[@tsb7911]

@@movement2contact Do you need to be told how wonderful you are?

[@starter89mo]

'newborn baby on a doorstep' always cracks me up.

[@varunarumugam5525]

1. Radical responsibility . 2. Radical Acceptance 3. Radical Growth 🖤✨👍🏻

[@morzansreddragon]

I broke up with someone who didn't know anything about personal responsibility. Even though I purely knew all about it, I bared a brunt every time I'd unintentionally stepped out of line and it made me feel bad like being myself just wasn't enough. I'm happier now that I'm free from such a relationship I knew I didn't originally choose, now I know cutting myself off from such a person is respecting myself and my responsibility for taking back my power and living life on my terms.

[@michaelchildish]

totally. no point keeping truly toxic people in your life

[@freshliving4199]

That thing that made you feel bad is still inside you, with or without the other person. Overcome it so that you can truly be free. This way you will never “feel bad” again.

[@nicksainsbury696]

The last two years have been brutal for me with break ups covid etc but got to a place where I'm being happy on my own and not chasing things to make me happy as know it starts within your self 🙏

[@kiirdeng1548]

Brought a smile to my face when he talked about Models. Mark, please do a book summary about it.

[@mrnaizguy]

The book that forever changed my life like nothing else!!

[@jameshookins2770]

I had never heard of it, and now I have ordered it.

[@dlloydy5356]

This is absolutely brilliant. Agree with all of this. One of your points aligned with something I’ve been saying for a while…we’re in danger of celebrating victim hood where people want to be more of a victim than the next victim. What happens when there are more victims than not & the balance shifts? Who will be there to take responsibility & keep society functioning!? Everyone needs to take personal responsibility for their own lives & actions.

[@OfftheChainz]

We need to tip the scales, one person at a time.

[@philalegre6819]

Probably one of the most aware individuals in the world! I love how you have thought of things on a whole different level. Seriously man. Btw, read Models when I was in college and it gave me a better perspective overall. Thanks Mark.👌

[@JasonOngVlog]

As a fellow personal development blogger, I love this guy's content 🤣 Perfect combination of lessons and entertainment

[@melissahunt5074]

So happy to see a new video! It was a great reminder, and was really what I needed to hear again! Thanks Mark, your videos and perspective always get me through tough times, even if the advice or things you say isn’t what I really want to hear. Your books, videos, and website have really been a great help for me in many hard stages in my life…lol, it’s even helped with some of the petty crap too and knocked my senses back up. I always come back whenever I need a good reality check or perspective and it usually helps. Like the psychological broccoli I need. Now I’m going to stop feeling sorry for myself and move forward. Looking forward to your next video Mark! And thanks again!

[@Monsieur.Nobody.]

My 3 Rules: 1. Understand Time and how to use it. (This will put you in top 0.01% automatically) If you ever want to build a walled garden, build it to guard your time. 2. Leverage is the game of life... Use the philosophy of detachment (not having something is not detachment, having it and it having no power over you is) and then understand leverage and how to use it. 3. Perception - Your perception guides you in your life. And the more emotionally unregulated your mind is the more your perception is skewed. This one is by far the most complex one... Just understand and use your perception with an objective and rationale but exercise empathy and forgiveness.

[@lateonaname]

My life’s biggest lessons have come from taking responsibility for circumstances that may not necessarily have been my fault. You explained it so well! & We learn coping from those things which in effect hopefully help us manage the emotions we feel and to a greater extent open us to empathy and the desire to improve life in some way. Seems to come full circle my friend ☺️🙏🏽

[@SpeakerGregoryDwyer]

I love the way you take age old wisdom and connect it to modern personal growth.

[@edoardobruzzese98]

5 rules of my life: 1. Do not mock, do not pity, do not despise, but understand human actions. (Baruch Spinoza) 2. See life as a challenge (by Viktor Frankl.. to have a goal is usually to cling to something that can save your life... when he was in the lagher to escape from reality he was willing to think of his wife or when he will be out that part of fantasizing was the instinct that allowed access to survival) 3. Don't take life too seriously or you will overthink too much... thought is what makes us aware but at the same time it is also what can ruin us... Too much overthink it would mean to drive only looking the GPS without paying attentions at driving (Alan Watts) 4. You have privileges and you know it use them in a virtuous and noble way (Seneca) 5. Don't let the context define you.. be a poliedric figure dont let other define you from a single tile that forms part of your mosaic I hope my philosophical competences (Sigma Male grindset) will help you grow and became a Sigma jkjk XD (but at least became a better version of yourself UwU) **soundtrack of Drive Forever**

[@sanjivb53]

11:28 The 3 Rules 1. Radical Responsibility 2. Radical Acceptability 3. Radical intention towards growth for the benefit of someone, be it for self or another

[@david_108]

You speak very profound ideas in such a simple way... Love your work man, thanks for sharing.

[@hautboxxradio]

Totally agree with the emotions, we all have them, and we handle them differently. There's no rules to say how you should do so. Also agree that we are praising the vulnerable, too much. Great rules for life, Mark.

[@musictheorywithmalia]

“There’s no such thing as a bad note, there are just bad musicians.” Lmfao 🤣🤣😅💯💯💯💯💯

[@JaysonT1]

I disagree. I've had very unruly notes from other keys jump in and cause havoc without my permission.

[@oceanioszeele961]

This put so many of my thoughts and philosophies into a few simple words. You really hit the nail on the head. Great job!

[@kstepk5003]

I’m taking these rules. Balancing life and emotions is tough. Trying to center yourself and find a balanced partner seems rare.

[@LUImusic856]

IT IS Super rare dude.

[@fiqkifao1994]

1. be authentic 2. keep good and bad boundaries to achieve ikigai 3. enjoy little things you love.

[@priya931x]

I love how every time your videos come to my feed, I never skip it & every time I watch your videos you sound so honest and what you say are so profound, I can't help but learn a lot. For now the rule I set for myself is to try and become a person whom I would myself like to be around. I know it's really hard for me to live up to that because I feel like it's really easy to think of myself as perfect and finding faults with others instead, but I try a little every day to keep reminding myself and asking myself "Am I behaving like the kind of human being I would like to be around?" It puts me back in perspective every time I do that, so that's the rule I currently follow. I also liked your rules and will try to incorporate them into my life as well. Thanks a lot!

[@TheChrisSea]

I shared this with my FB group for Empowered Highly Sensitive People. I think this is GOLD. Thank you Mark.

[@NederDiogoJunior]

Obrigado Mark, você me faz um ser humano menos detestável há vários anos já 😂 e continua fazendo ainda hoje

[@devakinandan23]

Google is awesome

[@lauragoiaba]

é nóis, BR!

[@juanramontorresano2932]

Man I discovered you had a channel some time ago and now I'm looking at one of your videos every morning while I have breakfast. Love them. They make me laugh, think, be thankful and start off the day damn well!

[@mlulamibennetjeremiah6589]

My rules: my mindset is what I need get where I want to be in life. Never skip leg day at the gym. NEVER 💪🏾

[@movement2contact]

Why..? 🤔🙄

[@mlulamibennetjeremiah6589]

Cause it's what I believe/prefer. "My" rules

[@movement2contact]

@@mlulamibennetjeremiah6589 Hmm... 🤔👴🏻

[@edoardobruzzese98]

Legendary without leg it only would be endary.. keep working, my friend

[@greggelliott1434]

I love your rules. Two of mine (which are encompassed within yours?) have always been to seek to develop yourself to your maximum potential .... and also recognize that everything is connected.

[@Sams911]

I LOVE Jordan Peterson... he gets human nature, men, women and society... I can't say well enough for this man.. he is a giant of our time.

[@gleaveinjapan]

In a world where you can be anything, always be kind.

[@cristinagardon9270]

Thank you for sharing all of this with us! This is so helpful!!!! I appreciate you!

[@theferaltaint5065]

Again Mark, you are my spirit animal. These are things I’ve been telling people for years. Very simple and straightforward list.

[@sadiqadams7186]

I've waited for the Peterson Manson product for a minute. today is a good day for me.

[@jpwhatabout5864]

effort. no matter what happens in life always try your best and keep looking for answers the best you can

[@adebayoileri]

Love first rule: Responsibility/fault fallacy

[@gregorbingham]

The add for me would fit in #3 - Practice repair. Growth always needs repair, we screw up, injure ourselves or others, all in the sake of growth. Repairing closes the loop.

[@Melo-by5gi]

You helped me to understand life , people and myself better , which is something I really need it , thank you so much .💙

[@FabianR87321]

Radical authenticity! Place your value of yourself in yourself. Also if you say honestly what you feel in the real actual way you're feeling it, you're gonna wind up liking yourself better and you have a much easier time separating the ones that love your true self from the people you are just not compatible with. You'll then have an easier time leaving those ones behind.

[@areebatanveer7043]

Since the day I read your book and got to know you, I've been claiming you as my therapist lol. Idk if that's a bad thing... but who gives a shit?! Thanks for being there on the lowest of my times. I really appreciate you. You help me deal with the circumstances so well!

[@michaelchildish]

he did me a lot of good too, amongst other resources I found later on. Other useful bits I've learned recently thanks to him nudging me in this direction of philosophy: "who is my master? He who decides what I do or do not like" - Epictetus, former slave who rose to philosophy guru "hope for the best, prepare for the worst" - Marcus Aurelius" "the best revenge is to not be like them" - Marcus Aurelius buddha's parable of the second arrow. Epicurean philosophy has some good bits too, but I fail to remember them right now

[@areebatanveer7043]

@@michaelchildish I only remember that Heraclitus said, "Everything flows".

[@michaelchildish]

@@areebatanveer7043 The original Cynic philosophy is like a punk, anarchist attitude to life with not much relevance but fun to look at. Meanwhile Socrates had a lot of great stuff to say, but incited insurrections that led to Tyranny more than once as he desired, and was eventually executed for these shenanigans, by Hemlock I believe 😂

[@steevewhitehead1416]

Nailing it Mark! Your first observation on perception, just add a twist here, in Buddhism I have read that the mind gathers up information and creates a collective moment we call the EGO or "I". This is a moment of perception, as the information is passed like a data packet to the intelligence which governs it and if not self awake/ aware, identifies with it. The mind creates this opinion, the opinion is not yours, pleasure and pain are also of its opinion in that e.g, sensations are interpreted by the mind. Since there is a build process of this moment of perception, and we know it is merely an opinion, it can be rejected. To remove pain for example ( ice cream headache from cold etc.) (nothing to dangerous), meditate the instruction to the mind - targeting- Do not load your opinion into the build of the data packet which becomes the EGO, (regarding the targeted experience). I have stopped such sensations of pain within seconds and cannot find them in my consciousness anywhere. It can also then be useful to create a mental short cut to trigger this instruction when immediately needed for any pains. We choose our consciousness to a degree, but the power comes from elevating our understanding so that your governance is plausible and logical to you within yourself (without moving into delusion- still observe reality). A quote from Krishna's teachings in the Bhagavad Gita: When beings are born they do not perceive this, when beings die they do not perceive this, in between beings perceive. The importance of understanding perception runs deeper than just knocking off emotions and moods, false views. I have some what shortened and simplified this topic for any one reading this response, there are other factors- e.g stored memories which may have to be dealt with to attain full control of the build of the EGO moment.

[@AzizIzgin]

I’m a new subscriber, I am really happy that I’ve found your channel. I am in a place in life where I want some answers and your lectures give me a bit of hope 🙏

[@finnjuniperdenaro]

1. Return to Creativity: A Flow Filled, light hearted, humorous Attempt to cast yourself in & on every adventure. 2. Return to Humility: A reminding of self to see all ventures as steps in a correct direction based upon your/our rite of passage journey towards a greater state of being. 3. Return to Gratitude: Appreciation of the life & people you've experienced so far & of the stillness of bliss that surrounds you always in the here & in the now.

[@maintainreason8040]

1st rule: probably the most important thing I could get to know thanks to having read your books 2nd rule: probably the most important thing I could get to know thanks to having read your blog articles 3rd rule: probably one of the clearest things I've got out of the book about hope (shout-out to Kant), and definitely my favourite

[@devakinandan23]

You said it bro!

[@nickcruz8748]

Keep striving. No laurel-resting. Prior actions do not add or subtract from actions you must take today.

[@missyuu9348]

Thanks Mark, now I never care to even compare myself in a negative way! I also took the bravery to start a KZbin channel (I was doubting myself) You have achieved what you intended to

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

"All these years I thought it was power that brought responsibility. It's not. I was wrong. *It's responsibility that brings power.* It's knowing what needs to be done that brings strength. And courage..." - Peter Parker, Earth X

[@amiraboodi2075]

#1. Radical Responsibility #2. Radical Acceptance #3. Radical Growth Apparently, bad emotions are BAD emotions and we have to try to get rid of them. The first step 🪜 to mopping them out of our lives is to Accept them. Second 🥈 step is to Patiently try to remove them. When I am not ok, I go for a walk and seeing others that are happy and energetic in the parks/streets, gives me this idea that nothing really important has happened and the River of life is flowing. So, don't take what happened so seriously. Everything will be good again. Be patient. Watching different people and lives, walking, seeing trees and flowers 🌹 , beauty of nature makes me calm.

[@WinchurchGuitar]

Thank you for another great video Mark! I laughed really hard at the Jordan Peterson F-bomb video clips and I appreciated your passionate and realistic take on life. I personally vibe and jive with your rules. Watching your videos makes me daunted at how skilled you have become as a video maker, but they also inspire me to make better KZbin and online content for my guitar students, while I also sit here getting loads of applicable advice. Yesterday I shared your 5 Ways to be More Emotionally Intelligent article with my University class, and I will continue to share your content, because it's excellent. So fuck yes to you and your videos and your books, because I fucking love them. Keep being fucking awesome, Isaac

[@theresacookie5143]

One important rufe I have for anyone who is a workaholic like I was is putting my own health first. Only if good health is given, we can give our best. So therefore I make sure to take the time I need to maintain good health in my every day life. That includes physical and mental health.

[@RealJamieBarclay]

My number 1 rule for life: Happiness doesn't come from getting more, it comes from appreciating what we have. At some point in the past you swore, that if you had, what you now have, you'd be happy. Prove your past self right.

[@kalash_nikov]

Proving anything to anyone, even yourself, is a scarcity mindset and is based in fear. It's definitely a good attitude for getting the results, but not an approach that brings long term happiness and contentment.

[@frog6054]

@@kalash_nikov I agree, I just do things, because I want to do it, not because I want to prove myself or anyone about it.

[@michaelchildish]

Alan Watts sometimes goes a bit off the mystical deep end for some people, even as I like it, and one thing he says that seems indisputably true is The Backwards Law: "Accepting the negative is a positive experience. Chasing the positive is itself a negative experience"

[@jessicamontville3433]

I like the break down and realistic phrasing for life stuff

[@jimp9977]

Mark, you are amazing. I appreciate everything you do. Your books are awesome. These KZbin videos are always on point with great humor mixed in. And your audio articles on spotify rule. Thank you for trying to inject some rationality and sanity into the world!

[@Agnal_the_writer_and_poet]

Feel good. The supreme rule. Do what needs to be done, no matter how hard it is, but make it feel good. You have the power. Try to look with a different perspective if something feels too boring or painful, and feel good.

[@kalash_nikov]

I'm only 1 minute in, but the video gets a like for an unapologetic montage of JBP saying swear words 🐐

[@Dog3D]

“FUCK FUCK FUCK BULLSHIT” - Jordan B Peterson 2021

[@JaysonT1]

He needs to quit his fucking cussing.

[@johnkeane5635]

I love that Mark just calls shit out directly. No holds barred. How much better would the world be if we all followed rule #3?!?!

[@311DaveR]

Great thought provoking video. Love it!! I like your three items A LOT and will use them in 2023. Some of mine include: make a difference everyday, drive to feel valued and share the positive energy it brings, be a life long learner - I am 59 and never plan to stop learning, and lastly my father taught me to listen with patience so as to “hear” the entire message BEFORE you formulate a response. Those are my words of wisdom. I will weave yours in to mine - they are wonderful. Thanks for sharing!

[@philipmcbride1979]

1. Fault for any problem, to some degree, is shared by everyone; so there's no value in seeking someone to blame. 2. The difference between good and evil is just perspective; so assigning these labels blinds you to the truth. 3. Always seek the answer to the question "why."

[@hindiwithhetal7717]

The models acting out as per his speech are hilarious 😆

[@maryfitzgerald4812]

These are good. Accountability, stop whining, gratitude, don't compare yourself with others.

[@chuckachuck]

I feel like if I ever have a baby I will leave it on Mark's doorstep. Imagine what a boss that baby will grow up to be.

[@jehamburg3110]

"Life is too short to miss out on even one horse caroussel." - I made this up and live by that. One never gets old when still riding on a wooden horse whenever I see one. :-)

[@princekalender2154]

Love your work, Mark. I'm hoping to divulge some of your works in schools, back in my country. We're stuck in a system that shows no path of improvment towards our younger generations and something must be done to try and change it.

[@aliktrike8666]

Which country u frm?

[@princekalender2154]

@@aliktrike8666 Argentina.

[@MrunalGedam]

Currently reading his second book, and this is the first vid of his that I've watched.. THIS is not how I imagined he sounded.. his high pitched voice changes everything fml

[@michaelchildish]

"Strive for perfection, don't go TURBO and chuck tantrums if you don't get it, very few things in life are perfect. If absolutely necessary, accept the lesser evil" - Michael Child.

[@michaelchildish]

@Abby did you read the rest of it? Yeah nah thought not. You read 3 words and then thought you'd give me some patronising 'advice' about not being a perfectionist. I know what the perfect solution fallacy is, so I hope you at least know what that is without googling before you try lecture somebody you know not one thing about.

[@michaelchildish]

@Abby if you in any way think that is a logical counter-argument to me utterly dismantling your failed argument, you're sadly mistaken. If you think in any way you've hurt the feelings of a grown adult called Child, by being arrogant, egotistical, and trying to hurt my feelings, you're also sadly mistaken. Mark Manson has his own rules for life, as does jordan peterson, other people, and you don't need a lot of money, to be a best-selling author or a license to be a philosopher. STFU, stop drinking, and get some critical thinking and debate skills, you emotion-led thinker who is giving too many fs on a video by the guy who wrote the subtle art of not giving any. WREKT you hilariously triggered snowflake.

[@michaelchildish]

@Abby lol, did you report my reply because I hurt your fee fees? Ok, I'll keep it briefer and polite: get funnier, or go away, because you're boring. I don't know how to tell you this, but some of your problems in life, are your own fault.

[@michaelchildish]

@Abby You still think you're hurting my feelings just because yours are stirred up by some random stranger, ergo "I must be hurting his feelings cos he answers back" Nope. I am one of the most spammy peple on social media who destroys faulty logic on a regular basis all over social media and youtube. If you don't have any logic, cannot accept you're wrong and are incapable of apologising... The funnier thing is I'm actually mind controlling you right now by exploiting your emotions and you don't even realise. I am IMMUNE to the insults of total strangers on the internet, but I like to play with your minds if you come at me for no reason. Try psychologically manipulate me? Nah sorry darling, I'm better at it and you lost as soon as you replied being snotty.

[@osareafallire]

Quality stuff. I live a pretty isolated life mostly on purpose because that's where I find most of my joy. It took me several years to be fine with my joy being the primary reason for doing anything and for living in general but it's very liberating.

[@yellow.2504]

I am doing academic requirements, but fuck it. Mark uploaded so time for a little break 😅😆

[@rameslamichhane9154]

Same here 😆

[@tolaumken324]

Honestly, I watch your video as entertainment not just to get advice, I feel it's a kinda relief, thank you for your hard work.

[@douglatins]

Radical responsibility... Hmm kinda like extreme ownership

[@conorm2524]

On that point about glorifying people who say they're depressed etc - the way everyone today almost coerce people into discussing their emotions publicly has never sat well with me. These people also think it will stop suicide. But the more people open up about their emotions, the suicide rates still seem to increase.

[@Cordellium]

1. Nothing good happens at night besides sleeping in your own bed. Be wary of most every other activity and location to be. 2. Don't stare, it's rude, and frankly, a bit creepy. If you do accidentally get caught up in it, at least say something to the person that caught you leering to avoid further insult. 3. Cut the assholes in traffic some slack, they didn't choose to be bad drivers at this particular point in time just to personally offend you and your 13 minute commute, which will now be nearly 13.5 minutes thanks to this jerkoff.

[@weichunang4443]

I believe social rejection is a thing that all of us need to go through. Like we spending more time for work or hobby etc and ignored friends or ended up become less closer and become ignored. We need to stay chill and accept this. I noticed some ppl I know had this problem and stayed the same for the whole life. Just my 2 cents

[@sqweed653]

why do you look 30 years older in your thumbnails

[@TiaFarfromhere]

I believe it might be since sometimes we judge very fast based on a person’s age, older=wiser. So maybe this tackles this aspect so that it encourages more clicks, or doesn’t draw away some clicks

[@Gyfrctgtdbhf]

Dr. Wallace Ward summed it up to using “Discipline, Thought and Control” towards being a value producer instead of a value destroyer. I often argued there is also a third more neutral mode of existence until he got run over by a car while doing his daily ten mile jog before starting a 16 hour work day back in 2006. I’m still here…

[@mikekatzman9772]

Peterson is often wrong about a great many ideas

[@tmfoote6]

Some of mine: - Success is inversely proportional to number of excuses. - Listen when people talk - You have an option when someone suggests or asks you for something - be nice

[@MrJoshplatinum]

Peterson seems more concerned with creating rules for other peoples lives.

[@cleaningup12]

Enjoyed that! Your rules are good and they have a stoic essence, Mr Aurelius would be proud

[@rolfjacobson833]

i like a lot of what Peterson says BUT, i hate f his politics. How can a smart Canadian be a conservative? It seems ridicules. I have to question everything he says.

[@grahamplanet]

people say stop scrolling social media for content, but how else can you find great content. Like this !

[@AD-Dom]

Peterson is a clown. Sorry.

[@josephortiz6371]

Everyone is a clown

[@UppedOne]

Nobody is a clown

[@ashanein]

Don't be sorry. ;)