3 SECRET THOUGHTS A Man Has When He's TRULY Into You

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@cherylscott8576]

I sent my man a good morning text that said: "my day is brighter when I think about you".And I attached a pic of the sun. He loved my message and called me about 3 times that day just to talk. Women should remember that men have feelings too and want to know they are loved and appreciated.

[@Coachnaimah]

❤🌞 Aww.. I love it! Great insight. This is so true.

[@ashleyjamil3953]

Love this!!! I was just telling my girlfriends this very same thing. Men have feelings top and want to feel appreciated. My guy appreciates the small things and I love that!

[@Mushroom321-]

It was a wonderful feeling to experience that. 😊

[@christinaoshaughnessy1974]

I wish I knew what that felt like💔

[@Anisky123]

That’s sweet. I’m gonna do something like that tomorrow.

[@melany.muraour]

I always say that a relationship should work like a tennis match. 🎾 both of you need to serve first at times and hit the ball to keep it in play.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@nataliegallego6526]

Hey I like this

[@ronnietoni819]

Great analogy

[@eve837]

👊😎💯 this.

[@melany.muraour]

@eve837 thank you 😊 🙏 💓

[@robinchilds7492]

When we first got together he would send me cute messages all day long. I would always respond even though I was at work. Then all of a sudden he just stopped. I still sent things to him but he wouldn't even open them. After a couple weeks I stopped sending them. I even told him how much I appreciated his messages. They made my day. He just smirked and walked away. I didn't realize it at the time, I was dealing with a covert narcissist.

[@janetkane682]

Yes typical behaviour, that smirk is a dead give away, but you learned that that charm is short-lived! Cut and run, quickly.

[@robinchilds7492]

@@janetkane682 I walked away 10 months ago and went no contact.

[@nataliainspiration4628]

Wow, interesting 🤔

[@d.c.5033]

I’ve learned to accept the nice messages but not accept the person so easily. You have to separate the person from the message. Just because someone says nice things doesn’t mean they’re a nice person. It’s all about how they treat people.

[@nataliainspiration4628]

You're absolutely right. Nice messages doesn't prove the person is nice or right for u. People pretend very well. And you will never know their true emotions and intentions behind their nice messages if God doesn't reveals it to u..

[@Rico-RR]

I will ALWAYS pursue a woman that I like. HOWEVER, if she has hurt me in some way or made me feel like there is another guy in her heart/mind, I will NOT pursue her the same way. I could TRULY still be into her, but I won’t pursue her or put the same effort once she has hurt me, disrespected me or shows any signs of still not being over another man or dealing with another guy in any capacity. I’ve had girls do those things and yet still expect me to pursue or “simp”. They act confused because maybe other guys would still pursue her under those circumstances, but not understanding that it’s probably because those guys just want sex, not a relationship. When a guy or girl just wants sex, a lot of them will lower their standards. When a guy wants a relationship with a girl, his standards for her are higher when compared to a girl that he only wants sex from. Girls are no different. When it’s based on LUST ONLY, you don’t really care too much. But when your heart is involved, you move differently. When it’s based on LUST, you ask questions like, what are you doing tonight? When your heart is involved, you ask questions like, how is your relationship with your father? But I can’t speak for all men. Just speaking from me personally.

[@a.d.b535]

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[@Sunshann]

Why would she exclusively deal with you just because you like her? 😂

[@kiravampira1456]

I guess many men like to conveniently tell themselves that all women want commitment. In reality, no desirable woman is looking for a relationship she won't get any value from.

[@JStig12]

@Rico-RR I agree with you about a man's standards going up if he wants a relationship. That is not to say that a man's standards should go up only for that reason, but it is definitely one of them.

[@MM-iw3ol]

@@Sunshannlol I really would like him to respond to you 😂

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.*

[@angelicasworld7085]

True

[@Chococat_Ariana]

2:44 Does She Really Love Me? 8:35 Is She Thinking about Me? 13:36 I Hope She Really Likes This

[@High_FrequenSea]

This concept goes both ways. A woman also can experience feelings of insecurity when she's in the presence of a man that she genuinely is attracted to

[@creatureofstyle]

Yup, and sometimes both of you are insecure and the relationship spectacularly implodes like what happened to me when I dated a friend I'd known for 4 years 😭 I had just started dating again after my marriage ended, and I didn't know that his last girlfriend had cheated on him... his friend told me only after I had already broken up with him. If I'd known I would have understood why he was keeping me at arms length and acting so weird and wouldn't have broken up with him. Hopefully he'll talk to me again some day

[@jennifer6047]

Thank you for this. Been talking to a man for about 1 month. He asked me to give him a list of my favorite things. I was shocked because no man has ever asked me that before. 🤗🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@kristeneades8888]

Beware. It's still early. Give him one or two, but not too personal yet...that's my advice.🙄

[@ilikeitlikethat7305]

@@kristeneades8888exactly! I’ve had a man do something similar and then it wound up being all talk. He would just ask these deep questions and never produce anything.

[@marieh7056]

Just a word of caution - this is typical Narcissistic behavior in the love-bombing stage. They want to know EVERYTHING about you so they can absorb you fully and ultimately use it as ammunition against you. IJS

[@Sunlightsam24]

@@kristeneades8888 💯!! And no ‘list’ tell him 1 or 2 verbally and coyly tell him he’ll have to learn the others over time.

[@MAGAMomma27]

That is where learning each other’s love language can make such a difference. Working together towards understanding what fills each other’s cups keeps the lines of communication open. This can pour into every aspect and increase the joy!

[@RobinTaylorMusic]

I think we need to open the discussion between “chasing” and “reciprocating.” A lot of my female friends I hear say they won’t do certain things when the man has clearly done the pursuing and then they don’t reciprocate because they think it’s “chasing.” They are not the same thing. Would love your thoughts on this.

[@Sunlightsam24]

💯!

[@Coachnaimah]

I definitely agree! 💯💯

[@jennifermbogoKE]

That excerpt is 100% facts. He really isn't that into you. Move on and spare yourself the indignity ladies!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@jayc5756]

EXACTLY. The Same Exact thing I was trying to tell my homegirls yesterday.

[@debitravelz-aroundtheworld1012]

You are so right. Thanks for highlighting this again😊 it's so beautiful if you can actually give him this reassurance and be vulnerable at the same time with him.

[@ramonaramos8696]

I did everything you shared here. This man just stopped caring for us and our relationship. I gave up on him, and now I'm finding my happiness getting divorced.

[@melindapear4798]

I feel like man, do all they can at first to get you, and later on, they'll stop doing things they used to do.

[@denisedee00]

Yes ! Pondering " I wonder what him/her is doing at this moment." 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@EmbraceLifeCoachingAndFitness]

Always appreciate what you put out here for us. I'm in a new dating situation after my marriage of 26 years ended. Some valuable lessons here. Thank you again.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@stephnie8]

Hello, I'm at the end of a marriage of 25 years 33 together and wanted to reach out to see how things are going? If you don't mind me asking 😊

[@anngreaves862]

I am married but I still watch your videos. They are so interesting. My only regret is not having these lessons before I got married.

[@TrulyMademoizelle]

It melts my man's heart when he sees a text from me the moment he wakes up. ❤

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Hey Stephan am addicted to your videos Watching 1 always makes me wanting 2,3,4 And even more Stay blessed

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate hearing from you!

[@IamNana2022]

Your video is therapy to me. Thanks Stephan!!❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@melbelle555]

Awh thanks Stephen! There’s a man into me, he was very vulnerable in a message & wanted to know I was sure I loved him before he showed interest. I didn’t understand until this video, I wondered why he’s been more sensitive, thanks ☺️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@melbelle555]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I send & share your videos with all men & women I meet! Women thank you & men thank you for helping them understand them 😂 you’re doing Gods work 🙏🏼

[@kisharivers7709]

The guy I was dating was never satisfied with my efforts, if I went to the gym 3xs a week instead of everyday, he wasnt satisfied even he didnt make it to the gym everyday, so why have such an expectation of me that he could've fulfill himself? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@mysticalwitch]

Everything you're saying is exactly how I feel too... im trying really hard to break my "old way" of thinking but its an inner struggle

[@TiffalosAii]

I met a guy one month ago. We clicked instantly. He’s sooo my type, makes me laugh, insanely smart and emotionally intelligent. We’ve been texting and calls here and there since his departure - he lives in a neighboring country. I sent him a message that I miss his presence randomly. Instantly he text to say he’ll call in 1 hour - he called and we spoke for 4.5HOURS!! At the end of our call, he asked if I was feeling better and comforted. He said if I needed him for anything, even though he’s super busy, and far he’s only just a call away ❤ That felt good.

[@benirpierre2671]

That's so sweet! How are things going with the two of you?

[@dezydream6472]

Please give update.

[@AS-wj1du]

Update please. Did it work out?

[@valeriehart47]

That is soooo sweet!! ☺️🥰❤️❤️❤️

[@Coachnaimah]

Stephan is out here saving lives! 😅Our lives! God bless him. 💫👑

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@Coachnaimah]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤🙏🏽

[@karenanderson3383]

Thank you Stephan, I get so much out of your teaching and I haven't found disagreement in anything as of yet in all the topics I followed you with. I jjust read this excerpt yesterday.

[@aprater1973]

Yes!! This! Spot on about men going thru that getting sensitive phase...checking for you when they don't hear from you, concerned about what is plaguing you..listen...I have no problem nurturingmmy potential man thru this phase

[@christinesvoboda3538]

Just as many women have had their hearts broken too . Rumi has a quote that says you have to have your heart broken a million times before it will open to sit in the silence of your own soul

[@SharonMRoss-by1lc]

"...and men can get very deflated very fast." Bruh!! THIS is the video I've needed. Appreciation. Got it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@IGuerrero-on8vx]

Long distance relationship are so complex, things seem to get so confusing

[@keptbygrace6221]

Yeah, I tried it once. Never again.

[@keptbygrace6221]

Misery loves company 💯. Guard yourself against negative influences 👏🏾

[@HazardousChaos1]

I tell him every morning & every evening how much I love him, miss him & appreciate him ❤

[@marielyalemansalgado4292]

In my experience every time I do all of those things for a guy, they just pull away, every time.

[@iamallforbusiness]

Well that’s that! I’ve done all of this and it’s not returned… I didn’t want to accept the fact that … he just isn’t interested in me …

[@jayc5756]

EXACTLY with that Statement from the beginning. I Agree with All of that. Thats All I was trying to say to my homegirls and ppl lately. Let that man Pursue you ma. Just reciprocate the same energy. Its That Simple! Stop Constantly Chasing after all these players!!!

[@msdemeanour]

Chasing a man reeks of desperation 👀

[@gennyjohnston9690]

100%

[@jayc5756]

@@msdemeanour Exactly

[@alexandria3304]

Can you do a video on what to do when you walk away from a relationship that you aren’t benefiting from and weeks later they reach back out to you? Do men ever reflect on letting a good thing go and genuinely want to try it again?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@donnatownsendp]

Yes they do..... After their supply has run out, then they'll realize that nobody else is going to put up with their bs

[@RoseMoke]

Yes you right ..but some are still in relationship... sinful of cheating one and others ..making choices are not an easy .... choices has love fonds the way .in many many millions and miles away .true love finds it owns ..is my testimony.

[@ANicRob]

I often feel like I’m reaching out and initiating more often than him. I know he cares about me. I think it’s a difference of personality and attachment types. We are also long distance which make it more challenging. Sometimes I feel like he doesn’t understand that I need him to reach out more and to initiate our time together. It’s almost like he thinks I already know so he doesn’t need to keep showing me.

[@annealcantara6952]

I feel you so much. It's fine at the first few months but when it's too much, I just feel like giving up.

[@AS-wj1du]

Or he has someone closer to home

[@msdemeanour]

These shorter videos are great, thanks. I can't concentrate longer than 20min. Short & sweet 😉

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@awesomomshe]

supeeer agreee

[@NomsLoots]

Bro! Yes!

[@heibai1173]

What?? You got to work on that, man. You’re missing out on great content. Just do an activity while you listen.

[@gloriathompson4010]

Me too much too lengthy to obsorb

[@HopeWins777]

And sometimes they were motivated for the hunt but once they got you they return back to who they really are which is just getting by, both financially and emotionally. I'm not chasing someone that is mismatched. Your scenarios are not relatable to what I've encountered out here. Broke men stay broke because they don't care about the things that other men care about. I'm not mothering someone into getting enough money to take me out after being together for several years. Am I wrong? I don't think he's lost motivation I think he never had it until he wanted to go after something but now that he's got it he's back to his old coasting. How do I tell what to do next

[@lora3996]

well beware of narcissists who will express feelings towards you within a couple of weeks of chatting with you online and then expect you to feel the same when you're still getting to know them and no trust or healthy foundation has been established yet. however they say they love you and that you have them forever (you haven't even had a voice/video call yet). but they keep asking invasive questions about your feelings when you've already told them that you'd like to continue getting to know them and see where things go. but that's just not (soon) enough for the crazy person so they keeping on trying to break your boundaries. when that doesn't work they start taking offense at everything you say, saying that they are just emotionally sensitive and feel hurt by you. and from there on they feel justified in being verbally abusive towards you...

[@SofiUk0319]

I really hope all the ppl still playing w other ppl's hearts and emotions understand that ultimately you are just hurting yourself, karma is vry real... if you r grown enough for sex than you need to be grown up about other ppl's feelings because it's rarely jst sex, unless u r paying for it from a professional

[@JStig12]

I don't struggle with insecurity as much as I see other men struggle with it. I credit Joyce Meyer for that. I feel like she is the leading Bible teacher on insecurity, or, at least, the best that I have heard. I jokingly think, "I am not insecure because I took my Joyce Meyer vitamins.". 😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@greaterishe7197]

She has a lot of wisdom

[@Ziggimomspal68]

Wow. I so needed to see this today. Thank you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@ladiegthomas7843]

Stephen you should do a live Q and A....I ❤your spirit

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@patriotliberty3070]

Yes please! That would be pure fire🔥!

[@laurenpierce7723]

This was a very sweet video. I liked the topics and points you touched on. ❤😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@CyberAngel333]

If a man's first impulse is to reject, devastate and haunt a woman. How do you come back from that? How does a high value woman take him seriously at all? You can't!

[@ieshianewman537]

Can you do a video how to get over someone when they are still friends with your family

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@uptownsfinest1204]

You need to set boundries with your family and with your ex

[@Sunlightsam24]

@@uptownsfinest1204 I don’t think we can tell others how to interact. This is a tough situation, I’ve been in it with friends. Eventually I accepted it, but I never felt the same about my friends.

[@sabrenaschleifer2965]

Yes! Stephan, you are so on point. This is my boyfriend and it explains a lot. Thanks I really needed this and appreciate you and all you do.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@AshleeinCommercials]

Thanks!

[@stephaniedorismond1487]

I really appreciate this discussion Steph 🙏🏿

[@JanetTuttle-cb3xx]

So many great points, I have been with men who are users even though I was very up front I want a long term relationship so now I have to be careful to not ruin a chance with a good man who means well. I have now met someone who is very respectful.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ce06iik]

You are so right. I don't tell him that I missed him or complimented. I thought only women needed this stuff.

[@lillgypsygrl]

I would love a video about how prior military men,especially ones whom are retired see relationships. 😁

[@pilarpatrick]

I need help in this area. I’m dating one and it’s been tough

[@sacampbr1]

Simple but powerful advice…. Thank you!🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@giftsonyou501]

Yes we need to avoid outside, talk about what happened and how you feel. You may need a little more time or spend time in person not texting.

[@lervoinpressley3988]

I always think that Aj is not instrested me,cuz when I think it him ,I get nervous. When I saw at first, he didn't smile at.But I was tryna get him to smile. I really want him 😊

[@patriotliberty3070]

Can we clone you🤣. You're amazing in every way & such a gift to this world. Thank you for YOU❤️🔥!

[@InesKoppen]

You guy are so differentiated and wise , you re bringing issues to the very point! I am from Germany and 64 of age and always get new input and reassurance of the contains of what you re saying ...not many like you around in the internet. I love to listen to you...full of humour and livelyness, its pure adorable ...

[@ronnietoni819]

One thing I know when I’m In a relationship I absolutely love affection like to the point he’s getting sicken. I love that

[@TheNisiu]

GOOD video, Stephan! I can honestly say I've never thought of these things.

[@cynthyblessing9986]

Good discussion Stephan, appreciated 🙏🙏🙏. Cynthia from Nigeria

[@ndinaselma7967]

Stephan what would you say about my situation, I like this guy when ever I call or message this guy his very fast to respond he will never ignore me. But home boy just do not call nor message me 🤷🏾‍♀️ I feel like why should everything just come from my side, does he think about me though?

[@DianaErika.Rose94]

I love the truths you spoke on here. Also quite comical of how clueless men can be lol but we, women, should appreciate the effort!

[@gennyjohnston9690]

Thanks for this! Friendship and respect first.

[@Missmablemainecoons]

Stephan you’re definitely doing gods work 🙏love your videos

[@missiejin]

This video is so good. You explained it so well in way I never thought could be put into words. It validated what I thought he’s going through and I see every single thing you mentioned in him. Thank you!

[@BABUIL25]

Stephan you always look good! ❤❤❤🔱

[@rhondabrandonisio9260]

My Honey got me diamond earring for Christmas. He gave me the gift box in the car while he was driving. I opened the box and in my excitement I didn't meet his expectation in enthusiasm. His comment was " you don't know how to accept a gift". I understand now that he wants excitment! Hugs kisses holding his hand and telling him emphatically how much I loved his gift he picked out for only me. I myself do not get overly excited about anything ever. I realized he needs that. He made the trip to the store search for the perfect gift. Knowing him he put thought into the pair of earrings he gave me. Not to mention he could have spent the money on another one of his 5 vacuums. That's an entirely different story. ☺ I do love him, but I feel I have not been showing him to the point he needs.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

[@christinemazalewsky4326]

Turn THAT AROUND FAST before you lose him!

[@soulaward2136]

This described my situation so closely and was super helpful thank you ❤

[@ginaloubonillatolentino9689]

How about when he is prioritising his job?

[@snehasuryanarayan5918]

Amazing video. Thanks for this perspective

[@christinesvoboda3538]

The biggest lesson I learned in marriage after 17 years was one time my husband and I had a fight and he left. He left for 5 days now. In the past I would do all the stupid things that women did. Call them, fight for him to come back, beg him. Go look for him. Cry about those things not this time. This time I let him go. When he walked out the door I made sure there was space between him and me and that door so that he could have his own right to walk out the door if he chose to and he did. I didn't beg I didn't call him. I didn't go look for him. I went to work. I did my job. I may have cried. Hoping he'd come back but I didn't let him know 5 days later he walked through the door. Looked at me and said I knew it was okay for me to come home because I knew you were okay since you didn't do anything looking for me that taught me a big lesson and after that I spent 90% in my car driving around for the rest of my marriage. Hoping not to fight with him which didn't lead to a good ending but I was with him 17 years before I couldn't handle my life anymore with him

[@phyllismena2754]

I love this man! I bought the books! All good to read!!!

[@Ifeoma999]

Great Video❣️❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 I totally agree 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@fitzgn78]

I find myself asking the same questions for validation or confirmation… in the beginning we talked often now we LINK up once a week and nothing else but he always sends via text or verbally tell me he loves me and I truly have been loyal and love him over 1.5 years. When I try to talk mushy stuff or ask about “future” at times he’ll ignore or deflect from what I’m asking. I’m lost in love 😩 I know my worth and confident just thought different of this person

[@jamilawilliams4969]

You stay getting us on game lol

[@radley3519]

Only some women would get in their feelings if their man books a flight and hotel and doesn't do the small stuff.. wow I'm loving the fact he did what he did.. I can make it work!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@Emily-ed6ed]

Great message

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@lisaperdue8033]

She will make you keep the gate locked and no more in towards him so the intimate will have all to work towards. Always keep in mind as the start.

[@wangxianbb]

for some reason the "half-ass" effort part just really made me laugh LOL. It made me think about the viral thing women asking their man to buy pad with wings, and every guy just buy period pad with buffalo wings.

[@donyaseabrook587]

This was good👍👍

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@GracefullyMe82]

such a King, thank you! ❤🥰👑

[@JStig12]

Stephan, I would like to put in my request for a video about healthy places to meet people, if you feel led to do it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@drlovie]

Great video…unique subject :)

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@pamelaseegars3970]

Thank You for Sharing

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@faradara5310]

Hey Stephan How do you show the man you are interested to invite him without pursuing? I feel like guys stare so heavy but don’t approach, maybe I’m holding back? Idk 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Tchibazz-TV]

What happens if there are other females around him even if he loves you? This is an awesome teaching.. Thank you for sharing

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@givingpresence]

I think he has a video on that

[@cherylkaperak9280]

I am and have done everything you say on my part.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏

[@tinabryan2502]

Love it ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@alfredashaffer1818]

Yessss my brotha👏🏽 TEACH🥰💪🏽We thank God for you ❤💯🙏🏽😘

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@virginievv7006]

Right now I don't know what to think of him anymore. At the beginning he made me understand that he was only looking for a relationship like a "sex friend" that he didn't want to commit to. for a few days, he started texting me even though he never did (under the pretext that his life is not interesting) he didn't want to do too much activity with me because it gave him the impression to be in a relationship. and now, He's asking me out on dates, even showing me little scenes of jealousy...I'm lost...I don't know what to think.

[@Sunlightsam24]

Why don’t you ask him if you guys are in the same situation? Also understand your energy is closed off to others if you’re having sex with him.

[@virginievv7006]

@@Sunlightsam24 he knows that I want a serious relationship and that I don't wan't a sexfriend relationship. I think He just fools me to be sure that I'm free for him.

[@rosagoglia4649]

Thank you , this was confirmation

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing and clarity ❤🙏

[@rosagoglia4649]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks bless you, because at this point I’ve seen a lot of your videos and I can tell some believing women about it. I’m also looking at scripture and trying to focus on how to please God, first. :)

[@888alp]

Stephan you have the most beautiful laugh. i hope you know that. ❤

[@RochelleSullivan]

Great points💯🤦🤔🤔🤔🫡

[@monicadickson6846]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and neither of us say I love you. I was told let him say it first. Do you agree?

[@tashawalker7810]

Totally agree with you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@emilymorrow6502]

It's wild to me how often you have to disclaim that you know men do these things too but you're talking to women. Are that many of us getting mad at you for giving advice specifically to us when it's a channel geared towards women? Why bother seeking this advice if you're going to get upset? You do awesome work! Thank you for encouraging us to take ownership of the work we can do instead of trying to control the actions of someone else, which is so much more empowering and provides us with the clarity we need to decide whether a situation we're in is truly healthy or not.

[@ctgeblue17]

The last point is something I didn't understand to do until now I'm much older, lol. Appreciate the efforts tho details are important to me, just let it go! 😂

[@DebraChampagne-m4o]

I get it thanks I’m taking notes