KEEP A Man's Interest With THESE 3 Feminine Ways

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@lilyiyi08]

The quality for this video is exceptional. ✨️ You nearly look AI generated.

[@queentel983]

I don't mind flirting to show interest, but I don't want it to encourage fornication, as I am practicing abstinence and do not wish to send mixed messages. How can I do that and still be respected and progressive in a relationship?

[@anitragilmore3239]

So why you’re not coming to New Orleans 😒

[@coxcustomcreations4101]

There is absolutely only 1 main history that I ever said "I like u" to ...

[@MzConcept13]

1. Energy not just action 2. Speak to him with love and kindness 3. Continously flirt with him or continously show him desire

[@TheDainaLevy]

Same thing we want as women lol

[@ajag57]

@@TheDainaLevy this is about the men tho

[@Mzmamacita87]

TY🙏🏽

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@@iamchidaalluhe’s not for YOU. Keep it moving ❤

[@mamak_jowo]

​@@iamchidaallu he is not into you.

[@belltay4644]

I enjoy listening to him. He doesn't attack any gender to cause division. He's awesome.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

thank you, I truly appreciate that

[@julianakennedycpa9570]

@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473Amen to that. I just discovered his channel and loving his advice. 🙏

[@cindyvazquez4333]

I would say just pray about the person you are going to date to make sure your Spirit is ready for it. Because in our generation dating is very complex, different, and not easy to do. If God can open your heart up to the date it will be easier. Some of us are widows, Its hard to find a 2nd soulmate. Traditional dating is not the norm anymore. Praying for God's best for myself and for you all. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞💞💞

[@teebookwriter]

Amen!

[@labikawilliams7234]

Even more difficult being a widow. I totally agree sis

[@nadinedaoud2538]

Thank you, I’m a widow and dating has been crazy but I want another soulmate. My late husband was a beautiful soul but I hope I can be blessed again. 🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@cindyvazquez4333]

@@nadinedaoud2538 saying a prayer for you.

[@asnathnyabagala9292]

Point to ponder Thanks dear ❤

[@sherylsmith279]

This advice is great for basically healthy, non-narcissistic gentleman. Honestly, an emotionally immature or unavailable man won’t have a capacity to receive these tips.🙏❤️

[@noneya-hv2vu]

😬😁

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

Agreed✨❤️

[@yolanderoelofse3768]

Exactly so..been married to a narc for 15 years, i can not have a conversation without starting without your exact words..we know the difference now, which is a plus for us

[@kan5604]

I totally agree. The woman really needs to pay attention to the type of guy first

[@adana1599]

Yes this is for a HEALTHY MINDED man

[@amarachigraceerasmus2977]

You're right about the flirting part.whenever I flirt with my man,he tells me things he ordinarily would not want to tell me,he opens up to me.

[@Divine81Empress]

That's sweet👑👑💚🎱🙏🏾

[@enaalexis92]

Feminity is in the eye of the beholder. Each man has a unique set of codes that he will apply when assessing how a woman makes him feel 😊

[@muma6559]

True

[@jasmic38134]

​@muma6559 So true!!

[@NlkklNïcole]

Not true 😂

[@GiuliQGandolfo]

You’ve got a heart that needs healing ❤️‍🩹 a lesson to learn. masculine’s with a lowercase m, will entertain any “feminine” who makes herself available to him 💔 and disloyalty isn’t Masculine *or* Feminine 🌞👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏼🌝

[@bellydancerabiar7809]

Read the Bible daily. One chapter takes than 5 minutes. Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you. ❤️✝️

[@Marga9013]

Most definitely ❤

[@ItsAuntieKaren]

Amen.

[@candiceoctober8010]

Amen

[@Cristina-y6g]

Amen ❤️❤️🙏🙏

[@msdemeanour]

😂😂😂

[@bridgethardy7493]

If a man or woman have to do all of these activities that you proclaim thats needed,The Bible says to seek first the kingdom and all these things will be added ,God first

[@jasmic38134]

True, but that scripture is for individuals. There are scriptures in the bible that teach the man how to be a good husband and the woman how to be a good wife. Basically, what this man is saying is in tune with the scriptures.

[@KLee5680]

He isnt asking for a lot, flirt, focus on your own energy, and be positive. Those are basic ways to attract a man!

[@linda.yuri999]

🔥❤️

[@sashaneeley5795]

I sat and watched this whole video and it’s to much for me honestly. I’ve been single and absent for a while and I think I’m going to remain that way. Doing all of this just to “keep a man” is just too much and exhausting.

[@ginalee5307]

I agree with you viewer it's too exhausting gone are the days when you can date someone organically it works or doesn't work it's almost like you have to play too many games I waited for 6 years to get myself together build advance in my career it's my business I was ready Highly Educated I met some men that were educated some men that had huge resources one thing my mother always taught me get your own that's what I've always done and that's what I will continue to do but where the rubber meets the road these men get jealous anxious and say things that make them feel empowered when it really it's making them inadequate I can't deal with that I just kicked one had herself together financially educated we were equally yoked on the financial path I kicked him out the room I told him I said you have to go because what you're not going to do is mess up my energy so Stefan is Right energy is everything it's not what he said is how he said it he was controlling Victoria I can't do it I went back to my man so I learned my lesson that was kind authentic loyal trustworthy loving caring know he's not equally balanced with me financially but that man gives me peace and rest Comfort Joy security and that's real love so I hope you find someone that is good for you that fits you and stop listening to what everybody has to say stop it because I did and I opened up my eyes on my own I'm just sharing

[@iamparislaray]

Being feminine has nothing to do with “getting/keeping a man”… it is a lifestyle. Relationships should be a byproduct of this lifestyle. If this seems to much, do an evaluation on what’s going on that makes this feel so exhausting❤.

[@basque727]

​@@iamparislarayexactly 💯!

[@aleiseboone9365]

I'd like to add that oftentimes marriage can be hard work. You have to continually work at your marriage. So if you had an idea that after that it's going to be all good, I don't think you ate ready for marriage. Every relationship causes for work. When you are tired of dating the wrong men, choosing the wrong man and desire for something real... platforms like thus will be of greater interest to you. Much love and blessing to you in your journey.

[@princessmillerpowell]

Is it a struggle for you to flow in your feminine?

[@stacyandrews6741]

Stephan you talking to me I was always get in my head that I’m looking or coming off thirsty so I always scale it back a lot. I need to be more confident in my flirting and get out of my head

[@colleenr3358]

On point #1: A lot of us women were raised to believe that simply being in a man's presence and enjoying that (even without anything sexual) made us "fast." That's hard to unlearn! I think it manifests as us looking at men as a threat/guarding against getting take advantage of. I understand parents (mothers and fathers) want to protect their girls, but it's important to be conscious of how you talk about boys/men. I was raised to believe that men would ruin my life 🤷🏾‍♀️ that they only wanted "one thing"/were only there to hit and quit, not actually commit to and build with a woman. Totally distorted my vision when it comes to relationships. Be mindful of how you speak to/around your children!

[@chanellemckinney1436]

Very true but look at today your family was right you have more of what they didn't want for you than good out here good men aren't at every turn but I here you

[@shantelldale5209]

Same

[@melissawiley3688]

True ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉😅

[@1962BlessedMe]

You are so correct. Over analyzing, skepticism, fear, experience...ugh!😮

[@soulsecrets789]

I agree but yes once you address things in a loving and respectful way and nothing changes eventually you become resentful and start to get angry and it doesn't come out as loving anymore. I finally had to walk away from my bf because he just wasn't getting it or making a change..he wasn't fulfilling my needs after multiple conversations. So I had to walk away because I was becoming nasty from the resentment and also because I could see thay I was wasting my time with this man

[@lashondalambrecht4566]

Facts 🎉

[@takeysha4]

It's overwhelming to keep explaining and talking some people just refuse to understand or even attempt to change my God been through it I'm at peace now

[@lashondalambrecht4566]

@@takeysha4 absolutely

[@soulsecrets789]

@takeysha4 yeah :( I'm happy to be out of it it was causing me to become emotionally unstable I had to cut him out completely

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

a spiritual man who appreciates me like I do myself, emotionally balanced and trustworthy, a man who is very particular of what he wants and goes after it ( and doesn't settle), a man who understands romance, a wonderful provider, grateful, understanding, knows the true meaning of what a partnership is, responsibly exciting/adventerous....etc.

[@khemaloving4031]

I’ve been forced to lead with the energy of my masculine side lately… Trying to coordinate the clearing of an acre of land while simultaneously dodging unprofessional advances and price gouging… What an obstacle course!

[@msdemeanour]

Stay strong 💪🏼

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Must heal from past and ex, forgive and live. I get triggered by drama, let’s deal with this and move past it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Healing is always the key

[@shaky5956]

Girl I feel that

[@gerelinevlogs]

I didn't know what I did for the guy that I am dating. We laugh a lot. I laugh everyday, because I feel like I don't live, if I did not laugh one day. We joke around and flirt. I never knew what effect that had. I just want peace and happiness. Thank you Stephan❤

[@ZaniahSlayed]

That fear and skepticism that you’re talking about at 6:20 that women have is natural. I know that science doesn’t want to study the female body or mind, but that fear is meant to keep us safe and to help us choose the best future father for our family because we need to know if we can survive long term with this person so analyze it properly ladies ❤ and men can help by giving extra reinsurance during this phase ❤❤

[@juanderuano8969]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@juanderuano8969]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@juanderuano8969]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@elah-rozzy7]

Read a book called healing your iner self then move on. Mbona unakatalia aliye kuwacha?

[@roxy7255]

For me whether I give feminine energy and how I speak to the man is a direct reflection of my interest level and if I respect him. If I feel resistance in myself I know 100% this is not the man for me. Also sometimes when a woman gets to the point of attacking (when a man hasn’t responded to the nice) it’s almost a self defence mechanism there is no going back it’s a way of permanently repelling him when healthy communication hasn’t got anywhere.

[@creatureofstyle]

Yes, that is so well said. I recently did this with a man that I'd been trying to communicate with and he kept ghosting and giving mixed messages. I finally said something very bluntly about him having a huge ego because I was consciously trying to blow up the situation to get to the core of the issue and it worked. His response was scorched earth but it was the first time he was honest with me and I was able to let go and walk away In no contact now and completely deleted him out of my phone. I'm happy to finally have my answer even if it wasn't what I was originally hoping for

[@ZenScorpio]

You're spot on about feminine energy! Not only to keep or attract a man but she have to be already healed with-in(emotionally, mentally and spiritually)to exude feminine energy naturally and is also for herself! Great presentation!

[@Sneaks011]

I cant wait to go to therapy. Something you said that stuck with me is being able to switch my mode to address something and going back to enjoying it. Thats where I stumble at. Turning the switch on and off is so hard

[@kellyann2858]

I needed this today…the internet is the destroyer of relationships…thanks for the reality check 😂

[@SmittyTra-tra]

This is a great video! I am learning to be more positive about my life in general, and I have made some changes like getting physically healthy (I lost almost 65 lbs!) by prioritizing self-care. It's so interesting how much easier it feels to get in a positive mindset!❤

[@algerie6807]

He is wise and honest

[@888alp]

I always have positive feminine energy. 👼🏼🤗 If I see something that is wrong, I would speak out respectfully.

[@Hairandmakeupbylena]

Thanks Stephan. I've always been defensive when people speak up I feel attacked and I get hurt and take things personally... I'm trying to work on that to heal my childhood trauma via healing energy work, acuponcture, podcasts and books like yours to improve my communication. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and it's been really tough but I know I deserve better. Someone that will forgive my flaws . Thank you xxx

[@lifesaplay3675]

I enjoy hearing Stephan speak and providing insight on guidance through understanding men and how women can be intuned with ourselves. Right at 5:15 - 5:50 🎯

[@bblossom7350]

Met a man I'm interested in and I think he might be interested too I think this video will help me. Thank you! Great timing 😅

[@nonye83]

Thank u for sharing this information. After being married for 10 years and then divorcing, I had to start dating again. And sometimes I feel like I forgot how to do that. 😂

[@agnesdockins5380]

Mr. StephanSpeaks, I'm a new listener as of June 2024. The knowledge and wisdom that I have received through these messages have been extremely beneficial🙏❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much 🙏❤️ I’m glad the videos have been helpful to you

[@offairhead]

12:03 - these are things I do apply to every day life and the problem is that I have so many men drawn to me that it makes it hard to weed them out.

[@SherlynMcDonald-bb4sp]

Stephan, you are sooo appreciated! I learn so much from you on how to deal with relationships in this thing called Life! ❤ You are so Inspirational and encouraging ! 🏆🎖💯

[@shespeaks702]

If I have learned anything anout a man... respecting his manhood and approach him woth respect...and he will see and hear you.

[@rakelpeneyambeko]

The right man.

[@baskin283]

I’ve learned a lot listening to this man 😊 Perfect advice, thoroughly enjoyed ❤

[@EyvetteColeman]

It's definitely a Mental health situation with him literally it's unfolding Every day

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'll keep you all in my prayers 🙏

[@noneya-hv2vu]

Pray for him. Encourage therapy....

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

​@@MeetStephanSpeaks Agreed✨

[@ATenderTouch]

When you do or say anything standing in your femi9 energy, it hits very differently, with both you and the receiver ❤

[@queenmama9229]

I finally met someone who is knowledgeable about feminine energy. He spoke about it. Immediately thought Stephan was RIGHT!😅❤🌼. And I thought about what you said about asking a man what colors he like on a woman. Well I got my answer with out asking he like sundresses and blues which I was wearing. ❤ TY. Stephan. Funny thing I love my sundresses bc it embraces my feminine energy ❤

[@eyeamsweet]

15:17 can you make flirt advice for shy women cause I’ll melt getting next to someone I’m highly attracted too. Ok! ❤❤❤

[@shautonanderson2602]

Stephan you are THE TRUTH! Thank you ♥️

[@odessapalms6415]

Peace family. The following statement might offer insight into the balance between intuition, representing feminine energy, and the use of logic, which embodies masculine energy, particularly when dealing with fear. I am very grateful for Stephan’s guidance ✨🌟 ❤🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Well stated 🙏

[@RoyalSweetness22]

Those are always great reminders for the ladies, Mr. Fine. 😉👍🏼😁

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for watching

[@EyvetteColeman]

Sometimes he loses interest cause not of the woman but a man has his intention

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@noneya-hv2vu]

LOVE this... 😍💕 I just heard something so thought provoking pertaining to us ladies 👒👠🚺👛💄 earlier today: From, Pimp Ken he said:" once He ( "A man" ) get the kitty 😺 the THRILL is gone! ."😳🙊 that messed me up because the guy I'm dealing w/CHARMED me right out of my panties after our date & still to this day I tell myself I wish I'd dated him differently😩😣😪😒

[@MadamLolz]

This happened to me. He cheated on me and dumped me for a man

[@Dymepluschrys]

@@MadamLolz😮

[@patriciawilliams7679]

Qq​@@noneya-hv2vu

[@Window-Shop-with-Me]

❤❤❤ So in love with this man😍

[@denanikiawilliams]

Thank you so much Labossiere. Keep the encouragement flowing babe it's good. We needed to hear this💜🙏.

[@aracelyfernandez345]

Thank you for this video! You've uploaded this video at the right time in my life.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad it was helpful! 🙏

[@NspiredHairDznsbyCarlaV]

Thank you for sharing! Bless their union ❤

[@HelenaRobalo-r3z]

I have chemistry with everyone. I picked the one my heart chose for me. When we first met i didnt know my heart was available. ❤❤❤

[@elah-rozzy7]

@@HelenaRobalo-r3z 🤔

[@ceomariamaboney]

Our Power is in the Practice of Positivity.

[@empathicmisslady]

Your videos and advice are so appreciated.

[@cherylwallace4477]

You’re so right. Wish I had known this sooner

[@HeyokaGirlSpeaks]

I'm not going to watch this but just wanted to say love passionately and love often. ❤ Life is too short to continue with games and lies. Queens! Move on, be you and get after it! You deserve whatever you pursue with love in your heart! ❤

[@argh_u_mad]

I was hoping to hear something I didn’t already know. Thank You nonetheless it’s good to know I’m in the right track!😊 I’ll share this with the ladies that could use some support with their femininity ✨✨

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

This video is fire!!! I love it! I agree with you! EXCELLENT VIDEO!!!💗👍🏼💯👏🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌❤️

[@taynadelmar8608]

I believe that when you have the right man in front of you, you're automatically like that. I usually am addicted to that type of gentle but manly man who brings out that sweet and feminine side in me. Of course, you also have to agree in perspective on life and preferances and priorities, but there's a type that just makes you be like that. And I broke up with a good guy - it was very difficult because he was a real good one - because he was not that type. I couldn't let it flow, he was good but still wrong for me.

[@MarilynHart-g3n]

I agree, flirt and be happy. No one likes to be around a miserable people. The only time I used to get mad at my ex's is if they cheated or spent our money.

[@TOYAspoppinFabbling]

What do you do when you're stagnant I've really changed my tone this guy has made me so calming and we discuss every issue. He doesn't make me feel like I'm walking on eggshells We just have not made things exclusive 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@IvannaShapirko]

Thank you, thank you 🙏 Stephen Sooo insightful! Worth of dozens of hrs of therapy!!!

[@michellewaite4482]

I just want to say thank you for this video ,I truly appreciate this and I needed this help for my relationship. ❤ we have been together for 5 and a half years. And you really opened my eyes to being a better partner ❤ thank you ❤

[@vindyaratnaweera1101]

Looking good Stephan😊

[@user-wc5dw2qx9i]

Yes, we've been going through a rough patch. We have disrespected each other, lost my feminine bc i was upset. But thats not me. Im willing to start over and so is he. If i remain calm, loving, positive not lash and be their for him and he still gets rage and etc i will know he is not right for me. Wish us the best.

[@Portia620]

It’s hard to enjoy when someone may be using or conning us! Hard to let go

[@victoriaswift193]

Exactly. I am very genuinely feminine and I tell you the guys who think that because I’m soft flowing and positive that I will just believe anything is insane 😅

[@MariahFan09]

Great video, as always

[@elah-rozzy7]

I'm taking notes ✍️

[@smileyperlishia]

Positivity!!!Energy definitely matters

[@GabrielleHolt-nt7rm]

As I'm going through my healing process, I'm definitely learning how to tap more into my feminine energy. Thanks for sharing this ❤❤

[@feiwaan]

I love listening to you. This has helped me a lot stephan

[@torandaroberson9319]

Thank you, Amen

[@jalisam7383]

Thank you, Stephan. I wish I would of knew a little bit of this earlier. But I'm applying it now more.❤❤

[@Nilsagonzalez-h8j]

I've been dating someone for a 4 months. He has been great to me showering me with gifts, trips and pampers me, but some times I call him and he doesn't pick up the phone or don't answer my text. It takes a while for him to respond. I try not to be in my head and not sure if it is past experience but I feel like he is cheating.

[@jordansjul]

Stephan - this is great! 🎉 It’s things I’ve been discovering through my own healing journey and this confirms what I’ve been learning and trying to incorporate into my daily interactions.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

BEST coach 100 % truths PERFECT timing but when it comes to me and dating presently , ive DUNKED out 😅😅

[@alaskadiva1ladeelyke146]

I appreciate you so much, Stephan ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@naamahisrael7]

I was good up to the flirting part I can improve someday😂 finding it out from that special someone can make it better

[@KimCruzes]

Always on point

[@kathleencrookston318]

You are amazing ❤

[@lovelyleah4685]

I needed to hear this thank you Stephan❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You are so welcome 🙏

[@_linasosexy]

Absolutely ‼️

[@umrumr9453]

❤Jessica Rabbit comes to mind.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯

[@Divadeon314]

Hmm!! Ok. I’m newly in a relationship so this helps a lot !

[@ce_1]

Me too

[@Divadeon314]

@@ce_1 goodluck with everything

[@annepruitt790]

Thank you so much. I needed to hear that. God bless🙏❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure 🙂

[@EyvetteColeman]

That's my Exact point Thank you

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're welcome 🙏

[@vidademimusica]

Anger=fear, hurt & frustration

[@jenniferarzadon2525]

Great topic thank you couch Stephan peace and blessings❤️🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for watching

[@fallsoul6284]

I totally agree with you here 12:07 i have tried to use this type of advice with my mom because we bicker a lot but i find it really hard to do since i feel like she always needs to be reassured in her ego and then it makes me feel powerless and vulnerable and I hate it

[@Bewen_]

Thank you Stephan! Great video like always, you have changed my life and prospective on so many things! God bless you ❤

[@fantasiaroberts5157]

I really love that💯, thank you Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💚💚💚🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@EstherDoku-it2ts]

Very true 100 😊percent

[@ayisha1978]

Lots of insight here, thank you so much.

[@jalisam7383]

Thank you Stephan❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Always my pleasure ❤️

[@WarriorMichelle57]

Idk why I'm listening to this when I am single and not looking but I have always had the flirting part down for my mans in the past 😅(and also for whoever they are if the day comes in the future) lol it's just natural 😂 They always love it lol as they should though when it's coming from a sincere heart 🥰

[@noneya-hv2vu]

@@WarriorMichelle57 because a man that's persistent can a approach you at anytime & u need to know the game 🎮 so u don't get CHARMED out your panties on the 1st date like me 🙊😬😣😩and other women!!!!!! 👀😗😉

[@WarriorMichelle57]

@@noneya-hv2vu Im abstinent until the Lord shows me who is good for me. But I agree, sometimes things happen and I wouldn't want to have any regrets. I'm waiting for my husband. Don't feel too bad. We all make mistakes. 🙏🏻❤🕊🤗

[@Nyakato-v3t]

❤❤​@@WarriorMichelle57

[@shanana-pg9hb]

thanks stephen 💌

[@boldwarrior2196]

I was enjoying it then all of a sudden got scared overthinking think need to pray and just enjoy

[@ilikalockett3248]

This is a pretty dope video. Thank you.

[@MagdoleenRafla]

I love flirting with my person I love, by talking to him with love and compliments. For instance, when he asks how are you? I say great thank you. We are both here together and that's a great gift. I'm hoping that this sounds to him as a compliment not as thirst. What do you think, Staphan. Please, let me know. Thank you.

[@theregolisa]

Too much lol

[@FromAPureHeartMinistry]

Give him all that and he’ll still cheat!! 😂😅

[@EyvetteColeman]

It's a calm Toxic energy feeling the Temperature it hasn't reached the peak yet it's coming

[@joanagain007]

Yes Stephan, it's so usually yep usually the men that pulled the trigger... yep.

[@Petercakes]

After every online dating experience I had I would feel traumatized. I would get contacted by so many men only looking for sex. Some of them lied about being divorced and tried to cheat on their wives with me. It was horrible. I decided that if love was going to happen for me, it would happen organically and just live my life. A great decision.