4 Signs You're NOT COMPATIBLE With A Man

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Stephan Speaks

Stephan Speaks

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@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 ай бұрын
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@lovingtinglesasmr7636
@lovingtinglesasmr7636 11 ай бұрын
Wow! "You can be the baddest thing walking this earth...but you just don't do it for me". That's powerful Stephan
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@georgialouisew4152
@georgialouisew4152 10 ай бұрын
Yes that was a powerful statement. Because many men and women will overlook a woman's or mans red flags because he or she is a ",baddie" or "so fine" and then get mad later because it didn't work out.
@thepaperedsleuth
@thepaperedsleuth 11 ай бұрын
You are correct. I tell my clients don't marry 'POTENTIAL' or Any of his/her relatives.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@LaiYunLuk
@LaiYunLuk 11 ай бұрын
Totally agree, my ex husband and I were clashing on 2 major things. 1. Drug taking 2. starting a family I needed him to stop taking drug before we start a family. He did not want to do either of them. I moved on and divorced him. Lord have mercy. ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@Heyu7her3
@Heyu7her3 11 ай бұрын
Was he using before y'all married, or did it start during?
@kateross5163
@kateross5163 11 ай бұрын
When I met my 2nd husband, he was not attractive in my eyes initially, but 2 hours later, I realized he was a lovely person. I was attracted by his personality and we connected.
@synaesthesia4183
@synaesthesia4183 11 ай бұрын
Love that!
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 11 ай бұрын
The person that I've felt the most chemistry with, it took four dates to feel attracted. I guess I was just pretty closed off at the time from not good past experience.
@muma6559
@muma6559 11 ай бұрын
yeah, see that's the point with women. Now I get it. The man needs to be attracted #1. Then the woman makes up her mind according to the person she sees in him. Both attraction and attractive personality are necessary, but in different priority orders for men than for women. Men need attraction and then look to see if the personality fits. Women need to know him as a person and often the attraction comes out of that.
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 11 ай бұрын
@@muma6559 from what I understand from talking to men, I think it's much harder for women to find chemistry .. I have to see if I'll be able to respect him, that he's not going to compromise himself; not going let a woman push him around. That's huge
@msdemeanour
@msdemeanour 11 ай бұрын
So is he still ugly?
@Thelady30
@Thelady30 11 ай бұрын
Music is my love language, seriously it is a deal breaker for me.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@Anna-vl4ju
@Anna-vl4ju 11 ай бұрын
You are the most underrated relationship coach. I have never watched a video of yours that didn’t make absolute sense! You have made me realise so much about past relationships and my present one . Thank you 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
I'm happy the videos are helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@sumathenge3
@sumathenge3 11 ай бұрын
Totally agree with you @Anna
@Lacavadoe
@Lacavadoe 11 ай бұрын
I was in a relationship for 2 yrs and the ex said these things and I was like “you buggin…we good”. After we broke up I realized they were right. This list is true. Don’t ignore this just because you’re scared of being alone.
@nancyclaypool292
@nancyclaypool292 11 ай бұрын
Change things about them? Yeah! Their immature attitudes. Their inability to hold themselves accountable for words & actions. Lack of humility. Inability to match my intelligence level in how a relationship is supposed to move forward on an adult level
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤️🙏🏼
@jan854
@jan854 11 ай бұрын
Love this! I agree with every word you said ❤❤❤
@someoneyoudontknow7705
@someoneyoudontknow7705 11 ай бұрын
Wow. Honestly, reading this “sounds” like you have some things you need to work on as well.
@inettawalker9387
@inettawalker9387 11 ай бұрын
​@@someoneyoudontknow7705she's tired of dealing with grown boys cause I understood every word and know where it's coming from.
@youngjaywinfrey9854
@youngjaywinfrey9854 11 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏
@MoringaArtsandWellness
@MoringaArtsandWellness 11 ай бұрын
This is why I'm taking my time cuz I'd rather get to know a person. If I'm not attractive enough it shouldn't effect the respect. I know I'm beautiful and the right person will understand me fully. I'm bouta just enjoy doing what I love until then.
@Petra.80
@Petra.80 11 ай бұрын
I'm an Ambivert. I'm very happy to be out and about, however i don't suffer staying home. I was very happy to stay home during covid. I have decided to leave the best match maker, God to find me the man that is best for me. He know what i like!
@drnyashamercy
@drnyashamercy 11 ай бұрын
I’m an ambivert too! I just put it on the list: no extroverts!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏🏼
@Petra.80
@Petra.80 11 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaksI will.. Thank you 🙏
@tabithabryan
@tabithabryan 11 ай бұрын
Put me on the list. Staying home during Covid..I was ok. Relieved I am not the only one out there.😂😂
@zaimayamusic
@zaimayamusic 11 ай бұрын
'You ain't cute enough to talk to me like that...' 😂😂😂 I once said this about a guy I wasn't really attracted to.
@EducatedBlackQueen
@EducatedBlackQueen 11 ай бұрын
😂😂
@synaesthesia4183
@synaesthesia4183 11 ай бұрын
Same ahaha
@Sexyblkmetalchick
@Sexyblkmetalchick 6 ай бұрын
😂
@VCD512
@VCD512 11 ай бұрын
Dude! This was a home run! I have been guilty of all of them. This had me thinking about every single relationship that I have ever had. The men that I was most compatible with I wasn’t attracted too! WOW! I think it goes back to everyone having a type..PERIOD! One thing that I will not back down from is working out. I’m in my 50s and very fit, so I have to have someone who is the same or enjoys working out like I do. Non-negotiable. I like to dance and not one man that I ever dated liked to dance. Smh!! I took a hiatus from dating for several years. I’m now in a different headspace and I’m free emotionally, so I am able to approach dating much differently and the blinders are off…lol! My ex finance broke up with me because he said I was too dark…I’m not dark-skinned. He just liked mixed women..lol! I was not offended at all…glad it ended! I am going to write a memoir about my dating life. It’s been comical thus far…Stephen this is going to trigger a lot of people!! lol!!
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 11 ай бұрын
Women need to understand men yes. What makes them happy what makes them upset. This takes time to learn them. Amen. People gotta give each other a chance to learn each other. This helps with emotional attraction
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when women embrace that.
@cindylindyluu
@cindylindyluu 11 ай бұрын
So true! I just wish I knew the timeline of how much time partners should give to learn each other
@shontasmith9362
@shontasmith9362 11 ай бұрын
Amen! So true
@Sandra-po9sp
@Sandra-po9sp 11 ай бұрын
Yes it’s always good to have unity in order for the relationship to work. Working together is a big plus.
@vaclinciapounds8859
@vaclinciapounds8859 11 ай бұрын
I agree!! 🙌🏾
@jasminecummings4809
@jasminecummings4809 11 ай бұрын
As a lower income woman, a lot of men in similar situations to me don’t take care of themselves because they’re too busy working or have a dirty home because they’re too busy working. I may be attracted to them but want to change their lifestyle and run a clean household or try and take care of them in the ways that they weren’t taking care of themselves. Is this wanting to change my partner and an unhealthy relationship?
@ghostbird92
@ghostbird92 8 ай бұрын
Oh wow when you gave the example of a man who wants marriage and a woman who doesn't want marriage, I was surprised because that's my situation. You're right, it's usually the opposite, so I feel seen lol
@denisemcdougal6445
@denisemcdougal6445 11 ай бұрын
Gotta be on the same page
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Most definitely!
@ramonajohnson2738
@ramonajohnson2738 11 ай бұрын
You ain't cute enough to talk to me like that, lol, and smh. It's that Spiritual intimacy and connection ❤🙏🏽!!!! Both wants have to be the same!!!!
@AngelaMariaSJCafe
@AngelaMariaSJCafe 11 ай бұрын
EVERYTHING in this message is Spot-on for me! I’ve explained/expressed EACH point to my girls re why I’m single. I ABSOLUTELY refuse to accept everything in a man WITHOUT being physically attracted. God knows I’ve tried to work on this within “myself” as I’ve realized “I” have nothing to get over ~ “i” too am attracted to various physical attributes coupled with the mindset and direction he’s moving in. THANK YOU for confirming from a man’s point of view .🙏
@nafi212
@nafi212 11 ай бұрын
Stephen I’m 25 and when I tell you I wish God would just have shown us all who our husband and wife is then life would be way easier
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 11 ай бұрын
That would take all the fun out of it 😅
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@brendyshay
@brendyshay 11 ай бұрын
Very true...cos it's hard finding the one... going through the ups and downs looking for the one compatible with you..just hard, God help please 🙏
@LinAlconcel
@LinAlconcel 11 ай бұрын
Was surprised when he said that we’re gonna get married even without discussing it lol but am madly in love with him though 😅
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼
@Bluegirl_3
@Bluegirl_3 11 ай бұрын
He says that the loves me but he likes to be alone. We've reconnected after many years, and we are older now. We don't spend quality time, even on holidays and weekends. He enjoys intimacy. I talk a lot. He does not. He keeps saying he loves me. I feel alone, and I am so sad. I'd rather be by myself.
@brebre2958
@brebre2958 11 ай бұрын
I needed this smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m in a battle and I don’t know wat to do.. been a while since I tapped in ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@LeoSpiritGenX
@LeoSpiritGenX 11 ай бұрын
I literally told someone during the summer that we will not work because we’re not compatible. Our conversations would end in arguments. I tried to lowkey change him and he would make comments about things I liked in general. I had to laugh because I remember when he stated I look like the type of person that would like a certain genre of music. I was like excuse me ☝🏽. I realized that it wasn’t going to work lol
@stephanieantrum6863
@stephanieantrum6863 11 ай бұрын
😂😂He said “ You ain’t cute enough to talk to me like that.” I had to laugh out loud on that one. I’m guilty! I’m learning!
@synaesthesia4183
@synaesthesia4183 11 ай бұрын
Wisdom right here. SO grateful for you!!!❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@nigerianprincess777
@nigerianprincess777 11 ай бұрын
I think that the biggest thing with the whole helping someone get fit has to be something that they discuss with them because a lot of people are willing to be with the partner that’s fit and knows how to stay fit in order to help themselves get fitter
@wejoin
@wejoin 11 ай бұрын
Love that ~ Unity yes because it’s a partnership
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely!
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 11 ай бұрын
The things you’re saying. I could love anyone through. I’ve never dated anyone I was not attracted too tho. Maybe it’s as Lauryn Hill Says. We don’t know how to Love. Father teach us all amen
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@lifeseries7944
@lifeseries7944 6 ай бұрын
I think compatibility is a must for a long term relationship, especially it's related to daily habits & lifestyle.
@panayiotapanayiotis8669
@panayiotapanayiotis8669 10 ай бұрын
You’re so good at what you do. May your message go far.
@Presilia_M
@Presilia_M 11 ай бұрын
Just the video I needed to see😊 Thank you❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@Sid_B_
@Sid_B_ 11 ай бұрын
all I can say is WOW! such on POINT! ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@TheeGoldenGoddess1
@TheeGoldenGoddess1 11 ай бұрын
Truly look forward to your insight on various relationship aspects, Steph. Asante sana for sharing wholeheartedly. 😊
@baeyanka5264
@baeyanka5264 11 ай бұрын
Asante sana wow😊....swahili is beautiful
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that. Thank you for watching and responding! Nashukuru 🙂 🙏
@TheeGoldenGoddess1
@TheeGoldenGoddess1 11 ай бұрын
@@baeyanka5264 agreed ☺
@TheeGoldenGoddess1
@TheeGoldenGoddess1 11 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks karibu sana. 😊🙏🏽
@aw529109
@aw529109 11 ай бұрын
I’m so sad because I’m not naturally physically or sexually attracted to my hubby. Idk what to do
@salliereese4137
@salliereese4137 11 ай бұрын
I'm wondering when a good man will pop up ....
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏🏼
@PrincessTatyanna
@PrincessTatyanna 11 ай бұрын
Same here
@enzochannel7735
@enzochannel7735 11 ай бұрын
I am currently experiencing this somehow. At first we are both on the same side of me going back to school… now im starting to feel the pressure of how he always asking me about my review at the same time keep mentioning about me losing weight…. I am 130lbs….And this video is kind of making me realize something… now im thinking that when i finally finish my goal .. is he genuinely happy for me… or hes happy because i am what he finally want!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@merleterry7775
@merleterry7775 23 күн бұрын
I did that when I married my Ex husband I thought I would grow to love him but because he had low self esteem it caused our relationship to slowly shut down. So Stephen when you say that you shouldn't be with someone and try to see if the attraction will grow that is wrong. But I learned the hard way. Divorce and Single today.
@merleterry7775
@merleterry7775 23 күн бұрын
I agree with you 💯% the attraction should be connected.
@ronnietoni819
@ronnietoni819 5 ай бұрын
Listened to two of your audiobooks I’m binge! Keep up the good job
@MelindaBerney-eg5tb
@MelindaBerney-eg5tb 4 ай бұрын
OMG, he said it..... "You're not cute enough to talk to me like that!" LMAO!!!!! Whether you like it or not, this is the truth. People really think like that. Drop those truth bombs, Stephan!!!
@lindasmith6668
@lindasmith6668 11 ай бұрын
Great points that ...yes... that matter. Thank you so much. It was really eye opening. 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 11 ай бұрын
Embrace each other’s needs exactly. Wisdom in that. Take them and their needs inot consideration in every decision. Put them in the schedule amen
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@enzochannel7735
@enzochannel7735 11 ай бұрын
I remember the song LOCKED AWAY by adam lavine…. With this video…
@Loverofartsandmusic
@Loverofartsandmusic 11 ай бұрын
There is no such thing as compatibility. We are all different. It all boils down to the same goals, values, and time line. Things like him still want to play the field and you wanting a serious relationship for example is not good.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@camg418
@camg418 11 ай бұрын
That’s kind of the point. If you share the same goals, values and timeline then it makes you compatible. Compatible means two things that work together.
@user-fh1tr9zp3l
@user-fh1tr9zp3l 11 ай бұрын
Fantastic All your videos are all-inclusive that's why am hooked This topic is weighty Thank heavens am just an observer presently Zero head and heartaches Thanks Stephan
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@annadao9617
@annadao9617 11 ай бұрын
It’s so so true! I married with someone who I didn’t have attraction!
@Islandgirl2024
@Islandgirl2024 11 ай бұрын
I love listening to you!! You are so spot on!! Thank you!!! ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@Mackaveli7
@Mackaveli7 11 ай бұрын
like usual very interesting video and made me realize a couple of things. Could you do a video on balancing energies and life situations, how its different for men and women?
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@ericaengland6233
@ericaengland6233 11 ай бұрын
Damn right out of the gate I here you
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
🙏 ❤️
@emelsplendor4569
@emelsplendor4569 11 ай бұрын
These are powerful truth. Its absolutely right. Connections us vital. What can u deal with when it's no longer there will u still b with that person.nonone can Change anyone, esp if that person sees no reason for a change
@jennylee289
@jennylee289 10 ай бұрын
Stephan, it’s not unfair for you to tell #MIN that if he likes to stay home and she likes to go out but that’s not sustainable. Compromise is key in any meaningful relationship and connection can absolutely be established between these two types of people this happened in the failure of my last relationship because I like to go out if my partner had communicated with me effectively and told me that we need to do both to keep each other satisfied, I would’ve readily accommodated him I wasn’t even given the opportunity so please choose your words wisely thank you. I am a very big fan and I just needed to point this out because it hits home very harshly.
@muma6559
@muma6559 11 ай бұрын
very true the last bit. People with Fe in their cognitive function. I think you are ENFJ, that's why your understanding is above average at least, you live in Fe and understand people's perspective. You are in the right kind of job/work.
@stayitive4343
@stayitive4343 11 ай бұрын
- they are self centered/toxic and want to serve them especially to heal from their ex; ie in attention, comfort, therapist, validation regarding their 'victim' status. Avoid all transactional role playing relationships - not authentic
@raebaeglam
@raebaeglam 11 ай бұрын
I’m so here for this ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
🙏 ❤️
@arniecebaynard5822
@arniecebaynard5822 10 ай бұрын
Thank you made lots of sense.
@sacampbr1
@sacampbr1 11 ай бұрын
Interesting video!🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that 🙏
@denisecraps
@denisecraps 11 ай бұрын
Wow this 100% the truth & this definitely has me thinking
@cindylindyluu
@cindylindyluu 11 ай бұрын
I feel I’m compatible with my boyfriend … he’s just having a hard time trusting me because of his own trust issues and my past ( when i was single and did not know him ) … I gave him an ultimatum, i said you accept me as I am and trust me or we’re done. He says he is going to work on it 🥺
@viewer2113
@viewer2113 11 ай бұрын
I swear I’ll be thinking about something and then you’ll make a video on it 😂👀
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤ 🙂
@ginam.4990
@ginam.4990 11 ай бұрын
This was excellent!!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@terriwhalen3618
@terriwhalen3618 11 ай бұрын
Good evening Stephan❤
@tigressisaverb
@tigressisaverb 11 ай бұрын
This is really good!!!!
@AnnDonley
@AnnDonley 11 ай бұрын
I definitely have to be physically attracted to a man it just won’t work if I am not.
@willowmoon5063
@willowmoon5063 22 күн бұрын
Wish I had walked away and not married my now ex. 8yrs of trying but know that we were too different not compatible. It was on his side. I think back should have listened to red flags blaring in my face. Moving forward and moving on my person is out there who will see true me not try to change me.
@JessicaRose617
@JessicaRose617 11 ай бұрын
I really wish I could talk to you about the relationship I just went through! I bet you $100 it's literally NOT LIKE ANY RELATIONSHIP you've ever dealt with before!
@heatherjeffrey8997
@heatherjeffrey8997 11 ай бұрын
Stephan thanks for the info
@haitiqueen0119
@haitiqueen0119 11 ай бұрын
Im a woman of faith however lost faith in today's relationships, dating in this generation has become very discouraging. Im content being on my own, better that than being committed to someone and looking like a fool out here.
@hannahjohnson2898
@hannahjohnson2898 11 ай бұрын
You had me at 10:55 🤣🤣🤣
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 😊 thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!
@aries7176
@aries7176 11 ай бұрын
What about compromise? Maybe the couple can agree that the homebody the majority of the time can stay home but be expected to go out with their significant other on certain occasions.
@brittthecancerqueenempress9137
@brittthecancerqueenempress9137 11 ай бұрын
You surely gots to be on the same page & not flip flop because if wanted something else other then what the other person wants then there’s no point into continuing a connection if we truly want two different things, like how hard is this ? I had to cut someone off a few days ago because he was trying to manipulate me my mind into trying to have sex with him just start playing childish mind games he was literally all talk no action on some BS in the beginning like he wanted something serious & he knew I beat him to what he was trying to do which why he hang up , I’m standing on business about my standards and boundaries and he thought he could change that smh thank you next 👌🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that 🙏🏼
@wejoin
@wejoin 11 ай бұрын
When you say ‘connection,’ are you referring to what people sometimes call chemistry?
@lovingtinglesasmr7636
@lovingtinglesasmr7636 11 ай бұрын
No he is not. He did a video on just that. The difference between "connection" and "chemistry".
@wejoin
@wejoin 11 ай бұрын
@@lovingtinglesasmr7636 ok, thanks!
@brendyshay
@brendyshay 11 ай бұрын
Yes chemistry
@miam3624
@miam3624 11 ай бұрын
Stephan, I've been wanting to ask your opinion, and the opinion of other people who comment, about the weight issue perspective.... What are your thoughts on someone getting together with someone when they are more curvy/plus size, and seemingly attracted to them and wanting them as they are, however they end up losing a significant amount of weight and they like that even more.... but when they put some weight back on, they suddenly say they don't find them as attractive with the added weight??... It seems to me that reacting that way, and telling them this, isn't a reasonable response. My weight tends to fluctuate, but I lost 40 lbs over the first year in a relationship. Then I had some health issues come up, and it caused to me to gain back a little under 30 lbs. I was still smaller than I was when we first got together, but then he felt like he didn't find me as attractive anymore. While I appreciate honesty, I feel that is an unfair response to the situation. I'm a tall woman, and can carry extra weight pretty well, and he met me larger than that in the beginning. What are your thoughts on this?? I still feel some kind of way about this time in our relationship. I lost the weight again, but it's very hurtful to feel like my partner is so hyper focused on weight fluctuations, and can lose his attraction to me so easily. His weight fluctuates, and I still love and accept him throughout any changes.
@Justbu45
@Justbu45 11 ай бұрын
You are speaking facts
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@ojala5555
@ojala5555 11 ай бұрын
You are SO right !!! 😏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@ojala5555
@ojala5555 11 ай бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤
@jddiesel3447
@jddiesel3447 11 ай бұрын
Blessings my friend
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
❤ 🙏
@Kera-i1t
@Kera-i1t 11 ай бұрын
Stephan’s definitely talking about MCR fans btw 👀🙄💁🏻‍♀️😂😂😂
@ruthannm2733
@ruthannm2733 11 ай бұрын
You were great 👍 right on
@laurenpierce7723
@laurenpierce7723 11 ай бұрын
This video was very interesting. I agree with everything that was said I just wonder about what if there’s one party that felt there was something missing or not perfect about the other person but God told them this is the one. I say this because there was a women at my old church that ended up getting married to a man in the church that wasn’t very attractive and it didn’t even look like the two matched at all on any level but her reasoning was that God confirmed that that was her husband and I guess He had also given confirmation with the man. Anyway long story short the got married shortly after.
@danijasthestylist1991
@danijasthestylist1991 7 ай бұрын
MAJOR FACTS
@shinewithoutapology
@shinewithoutapology 11 ай бұрын
Alot of plus size women like plus size men so you shouldnt try and change her unless she is willing. Just move on. What happens if a life circumstance occurs like pregancy or illness or whatever and she gains weight? If weight is that important to you, you will leave her and or cheat on her. Save the drama and find what you want. There are fit single women out here.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼
@TrthBHld
@TrthBHld 11 ай бұрын
I always hear “men are visual” and think they’ve told themselves that for years so they can do their “oh-so-needed” gentlemen clubs, mags, R / MA, boob restaurants, and websites. But as time has gone on, we know women are also visual and I think were suppressed cause many men don’t like their other half doing disrespectful things either. And neither should be doing them, but women are also visual 👀 don’t be fooled.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@msdemeanour
@msdemeanour 11 ай бұрын
My partners ex wife ballooned to 135kg after they married. More than double her original weight 😲 He was always faithful but she still robbed him of a years salary & screwed around behind his back. I guess he was the real idiot.
@daphneymarc9420
@daphneymarc9420 11 ай бұрын
Why do we keep acting like men are the prize??? Its getting exhausting. There are very few outlets that are geared towards men on how they can be better. It’s always women seeking the advice and information. It’s doing women and men a huge disservice. And making these platforms bigger than they need to be. It’s really sad
@tanyaflanders2196
@tanyaflanders2196 11 ай бұрын
I agree with you one hundred percent.
@schristensen9189
@schristensen9189 11 ай бұрын
My take is that we need to have a strong vetting process and to really pay attention to who this whole man is..
@T_Nice
@T_Nice 11 ай бұрын
Men are not the prize and GOD'S word in the Bible even states that in the book of Proverbs. Proverbs 18:22 22. The one who finds a good wife has found something good, and he receives Jehovah's favor.
@emelsplendor4569
@emelsplendor4569 11 ай бұрын
I love u steph❤
@offairhead
@offairhead 11 ай бұрын
6:37 Stephan, that is not what the word “homely” means.
@alethiamillner5603
@alethiamillner5603 11 ай бұрын
Yess I was like uh no!😅😅
@Litflowers
@Litflowers 11 ай бұрын
Can you talk about why you arent married
@ashton1952
@ashton1952 11 ай бұрын
Heeee everyone curious but that's probably beyond dating advice 😅
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Here's why I'm still single 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/invUlneVqtWAsJo
@nicolerogers1310
@nicolerogers1310 11 ай бұрын
Dangggg jus threw the phne down like it betrayed u or somethin...lool
@Creating2413
@Creating2413 11 ай бұрын
How do you know if attraction is there for the man? Im in a committed relationship. I am attracted to him and he seems to be in to me. He has told me he does not want any other woman. He said maybe he would change his mind if I died. He shares so much with me and spends most of his time with me when he is not working. He does so much for me and will ask me what i am doing because he wants us to spend time together. He has admitted we have a connection.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@michele20248
@michele20248 11 ай бұрын
@diane2413 you'll know it if you can feel passion and not just mechanical
@Creating2413
@Creating2413 11 ай бұрын
@@michele20248 how do you know if the other person feels it
@7heavenly397
@7heavenly397 11 ай бұрын
Basically the 80/20 rule
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing I appreciate that!
@janetdemello938
@janetdemello938 11 ай бұрын
All makes sense to me ❤
@marianscott8022
@marianscott8022 11 ай бұрын
I have a hard time with this she was big so I took her to the gym. That’s time spent together. I don’t see a problem with it.
@natasha2877
@natasha2877 11 ай бұрын
@marianscott8022 Gym dates equal quality time and fun 😊 however if you date someone big who isn’t into working out it will not be appreciated.
@KmNry
@KmNry 11 ай бұрын
What happens when your no longer attracted to your husband. At all. Not for years. 🙄?
@cristysmith3797
@cristysmith3797 9 ай бұрын
So true
@passionsecrets
@passionsecrets 11 ай бұрын
So handsome
@AnnDonley
@AnnDonley 11 ай бұрын
Well my guy seems to be a home body but goes out sometimes but I have a lot of female friends so I go out with them. I actually like that he is like that. My first husband always wanted to go out with me he got on my nerves because he was controlling and insecure. I wanted to go out with my female friends he wouldn’t allow me too that’s why God called his azz home.😇
@lyricmelodies
@lyricmelodies 11 ай бұрын
All Facts, smh. Wow
@msblackbarbie1885
@msblackbarbie1885 11 ай бұрын
lol this sounds like me talking to my husband.. I told him I wanted a divorce 🤔 15:24
@cshennett
@cshennett 4 ай бұрын
Agreeded
@angelabogdan4253
@angelabogdan4253 9 ай бұрын
Amin .NAMASTE
@wandafossett846
@wandafossett846 11 ай бұрын
😌😌😌😍listen my dear I've Got some real love advice from God but this will have to be given When i reach out to others with a different way of dealing with the Romantic Connection vs Friends Connection. Years ago it was said And Proven Friends Make Better Lovers. Ain't No waiting Around Looking up and Down and Coming Back H elping Someone you Really Live is immediate. Seeing how you Can help them.Aint No when they Look the part LATER NOW ITS OK TO HAVE ROMANCE NAWWWW SORRY So Stephan the Guru of Relationships😂😂💜 We'll have to expand on this Vital Issue ok Good video and Happy Happy Birthday to you Blessings in the coming New Year 2024. I may have to have an Interview with you we can expand on this issue. 👌. Oh and by the way this Song had been sang by great musical Artist 🎶 🎼 " September's in the Rain " 😃🤗💖🙏 Think about it.
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