3 Signs She Likes You At Work

[@Sha-s9j6x]

Unrelated comment to this video but felt the need to tell you, I don't know if you know your biggest selling point for me is you hit a lot of topics no one else has covered, or in a particular super specific way, like the signs of levels of attractiveness and your take on them. Saying this so you keep finding those and making them

[@MarvOverMatter]

Preciate that 🙏🏾 yeah I definitely try to keep it original and will continue to do so!

[@Lev782]

@@MarvOverMatterI agree with this man’s comment. Reason why I keep coming back to watch. Great content

[@MarvOverMatter]

@Lev782 Preciate you bro 🙏🏾

[@redbullstatus]

No fraternizing at work is the only rule that really makes sense lol it’s terrible having a woman mad at you at work they can’t hide it

[@MarvOverMatter]

Depends what stage you’re at in your life is this a part time job or your career. It’s situational.

[@redbullstatus]

@@MarvOverMatter for sure definitely speaking from a professional career based perspective I’m 34 😂

[@MarvOverMatter]

@redbullstatus yeah that makes sense lol

[@KL1ST1ER]

LMFAO no.3 is so true, goin through it currently

[@MarvOverMatter]

Lol yeah it’s so childish on both sides 😂

[@beamed9801]

Been waiting on this one. Appreciate you for coming through with it Marv! Going to be hitting you up very soon about a personal situation similar to this for some advice

[@MarvOverMatter]

No doubt bro. And for sure man I gotchu!

[@thisismyuniquehandle123]

*Sorry for the essay lol, your video just gave me a new, nuanced revelation (It is an insightful read though lol). As a new subscriber I enjoy and appreciate the nuance/intricate perspective that your videos expound upon* Great Work! ************************************* Yea, number 3 threw me at my last job. I actually ended up leaving because they were all treating me poorly/being distant to the point of all interactions being received as rude and unpleasant (that was how I received it, which they WERE, but now I understand it was because they ALL did like me, though I still found their actual behaviors still unpleasant). I've always thought I've had a good read, in and out of the work place, to whether girls were overtly fond, covertly, trying to act uninterested but really interested, etc., but I never (previously) really experienced them being uninterested/cold ALL OF THE TIME, for no apparent reason. Usually, in the past, when they were overdoing the "coldness" it was still blatant to me they they were interested and overcompensating. At my last job however, they were all acting overly disinterested to the point I would say hello and they would just ignore me, even if we were actively working/stationed together. No hello, no good morning, nothing (even out of general courtesy). They'd all exclude me out of all downtime conversations, and be really, kind of, rude to even general courtesy behavior. Or even the few of those conversations i was briefly apparent of, I had even made it blatant that I was just a chill, still quirky, yet competent person.... they were still cold. I did, always see them staring at me when they were excluding me from general conversation, while I was helping customers, or going about my business. Playing with their hair, the whole nine (they just ain't know I see everything, cus I again, I ain't really new to the game, but I suppose I hadn't reached this current level of social interpretation) Eventually I just quit cus, 1. all the guys and managers, and security were just as rude to me (though nothing new) but 2. even if they (and they did like me), if someone (me) is working the most hours (40) than the rest but everyone ACTIVELY never talks to me, or are cold when they do, regardless of their attraction, I'm just alone and left to 40 hours of internal monologue, and the few minutes of conversation, am met with cold responses. Now that having stepped away, reinforced by this video, I understand that they were STILL so intimidated regardless of how chill i was, and the fact that I was content with my quirks actually unsettled them more, because, I am more a dynamic/nuanced than most "attractive guys" THEY are usually familiar with. I think because I was so chill and considerate(not "nice" or pushover, just not exaggeratedly f boy e either, which is what I deduce they are more familiar with) I was more "unreadable" by virtue of ACTUALLY being cordial (not overtly "f boy" sexual, and just interested by their general hobbies (just in a regular way, not a "nice" guy way either"). Which resulted in them ALL being distant and rude, because they both could not get their usual "read" so they teetered between confused and self-disqualifying by way of me being too comfortable having regular conversations with women. In hindsight, they did give some "signals" of possible interest, but they presented themselves to me as just regular "happenings" because their delivery was more muted, i suppose in preemptive fear of rejection, to the point that if they could see themselves from my perspective, the "smoke/signal" they thought they were giving, by delivery, would be 0% indicated as opposed/compared to the more (not completely overt but) clear signals they usually give other ACTUALLY attractive men. I guess it didn't help that I had been job searching for 7 months straight and didn't understand that I improved even more in my attraction to the point of a level of intimidation I had not yet been subjected to as an already attractive guy. They looked distraught as I walked out, as if to understand that it was in direct reaction to their behaviors not how they thought they did. Oh well, lol. Glad that you helped me improve my understanding.

[@Sheed96]

incredible....how do ya'll be having time to write these..🤦‍♂

[@MarvOverMatter]

Preciate it bro 🙏🏾 yeah this is quite the comment lol… but I would say I understand what you’re saying and this is all very possibly the answer. But it would be disingenuous of me not to at least bring to your awareness that for everyone in the building to be rude to you is unusual. Even being very attractive I’ve never seen that be the case. There may be some behavioral signals you’re giving off that people are misinterpreting as negative. And those can be heightened if you are very attractive. So if you’re to yourself people may read that as arrogant for example. Now if this doesn’t happen in other places or at other jobs then it’s probably just a one off and they were weird but I did want to give you another possibility. I hope this helps as well!

[@greencrocidile6246]

You should offer face call calls as a paid option so you can see mannerisms and maybe so look max ing advise

[@MarvOverMatter]

I can tell a lot from the voice and the questions I ask. If presentations the problem then I have guys send pictures. But I’m not big into rating looks of guys based off their face cause only a woman can really do that in my opinion.

[@JamRockzs05434]

Hi key been waiting for this one, and with that last point made on this you just put me on Game I'm laughing hysterically bro like it's obvious.

[@MarvOverMatter]

Word I’m glad this was helpful!

[@jjk9986]

Well I got one of the three (#3).

[@theotht]

this girl who likes me really bad she somehow got my number and always texts me but i never really reply

[@MarvOverMatter]

This is what I’m talking about. She’s trying to extend the relationship outside of work

[@Muyiwa87]

Could you further explain the radio silence?

[@MarvOverMatter]

I used the term loosely and possibly incorrectly lol but essentially what I mean in the video is there is an unnecessary avoidance of interaction with you by the girl.

[@milesbachelor6872]

Nah man. Ladies do that for their own entertainment. Even if you don’t follow thru, ultimately it’s like ishtting where you make money. Will end horribly

[@MarvOverMatter]

That’s not always the case you have to read the situation and the woman. I’ve done it myself and seen it done where nothing bad happened. Of course it CAN go really bad but that’s not different than any other situation. Everything is situational.

[@milesbachelor6872]

@ Workplace is different. If you’ve weighed the possible outcomes, and are good either way, proceed by all means. My thinking, as a black man I don’t wanna be perceived as screwing the females at the job. We’ve already got a stigma as sexual predators. 25 years in corporate USA, I got some experience in this area.

[@MarvOverMatter]

@milesbachelor6872 Yeah that’s makes sense. It depends on where you’re at in your life. If you’re older and in your career then yeah be more skeptical but for my younger guys watching working their first or second job they can take this advice.

[@brandonnotheroic]

do a video on the minimum amount of interest she should show to get you to approach? i think cold approach is good to build confidence either way but i feel like id rather not just give out free attention if she hasn't given me enough signs to warrant an approach

[@MarvOverMatter]

I have a lot of videos on signs so any of those signs I would consider enough to approach especially when cold approaching with the purpose of building confidence.

[@brandonnotheroic]

@@MarvOverMatterthanks bro

[@JbTrenches]

Drop your skincare routine I keep trying shi and I need something that’s for black melanin skin

[@MarvOverMatter]

Sweating is THE best this for your skin. So workout or hit the sauna first and foremost. Drink a lot of water. And find a decent cleanser and moisturizer. Thats what I do.

[@NeweyAdrian1]

Yeah I can agree to that. Regular Saunas is the key to a lot of things, skin, hair and dont forget also Collagen - it makes you age less fast.

[@genovasquez8361]

Bruh I was literally washing my face with water for six months straight. Only water. An drunk hecka water... An was roller skating, hoooping and doing something physical every day. Like he said sweating and drinking water and nothing but water on my skin when I was younger. Couldn't afford all that cleanser stuff back then. Women would asked me what I did for my skin all the time..they said my skin looked so good. I was watering my face maybe three to 5 times a day. Wake up in the morning, brush teeth. Before bed brush teeth Wash face both times. Every time I got off work or out of school I washed my face. If I went out to club or skating rink I would wash my face when I get home. An anytime my skin failed oily.