Check out Einzelgänger's book 'Stoicism for Inner Peace' here: einzelganger.co/innerpeace
@rafinandi12234 жыл бұрын
"How can you lose what you don't have?" Oh shit, that's deep.
@robgoodsight62164 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@Cheapers-Vac4 жыл бұрын
and I would add , Why do you try to get that which you/we already have ? Perception manipulation has been at work in society for 500 years . We are the result of that experiment...until we wake up.
@Cheapers-Vac4 жыл бұрын
@Peter Hedlöf Hi Peter , and good morning where ever you are. The "good "are trying to gain acceptance (which is already theirs from Birth ,) and the Bad are just in as much Ignorance of what is already theirs from birth as well. . The Truth does not need any props to BE the truth , but Lies need continued support ". IF we knew the Depth and Height and Width of our Birthrights , a sense of calm and Peace comes to gird up our hearts and minds and the result is Stability. Nothing comes that can move you from that which you embody. It is incredible strength without violence. I love it. We are ALL of Value that has been suppressed too long, and like a spring that is pushed down , the energy when it is released will be something to see !
@Cheapers-Vac4 жыл бұрын
@Peter Hedlöf I watched a video Called The Star of Bethlehem. It has some extremely pertinent information which shows that there is an order to the Universe and that it is an extremely accurate and informative Source that can be relied upon. 1 hour and 7 minutes long . Have a look with a friend and see. No one throwing dice . It is an orderly , time d , and planned event. Enjoy !
@Cheapers-Vac4 жыл бұрын
@Peter Hedlöf Peace Peter . You are OK. You were Born Good to Go. There is no cause for you to do anything . Keep your peace . No harm coming from here . Cheers Man .
@Dwazedas4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to see my ideas have not fallen on deaf ears.
@fitemmz85404 жыл бұрын
😭😂😂
@-TasyaNabila4 жыл бұрын
You bet 😏
@AlexGreat874 жыл бұрын
Why did you make a diary for no one but yourself to read then?
@karinmorley70924 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks, man, for all yr great ideas!
@anyapi9874 жыл бұрын
Hey Marcus whats up dude
@1chaplain4 жыл бұрын
"Be like an empty bowl; nothing in it, but full of potential to be filled" I think this is what hit me the most from Laozi
@qwertyki93674 жыл бұрын
but why though. can u explain what he's trying to say more?
@1chaplain4 жыл бұрын
@@qwertyki9367 "a man with nothing to loose has more potential to learn and gain experience than a man who is bound by status and material thoughts" Something along those lines
@DinoMan_64 жыл бұрын
He was just waiting for his Rice when he wrote that.... Edit: I too was waiting for my rice.
@1chaplain4 жыл бұрын
@P werty i don't see why not? Just a guy here watching school of life vids
@xFlared4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my wife.
@AuthenticSelfGrowth5 жыл бұрын
The more you let go, the more you become
@psychictruth50374 жыл бұрын
👏
@stormpants16383 жыл бұрын
Yes
@namelessnick97914 жыл бұрын
I always thought that finding the love of my life will cure all my problems, but actually being alone and accepting it is actually quite freeing and has its perks that out weighs the burdens of being in a relationship. This video helped me remember that 😊
@bizarrehuh80763 жыл бұрын
this should have more likes. humanity is not going the right way.
@samjones70153 жыл бұрын
Finding this out the hard way, but glad to have found out now than too late down the line!
@njskaterat2 жыл бұрын
The moment I found love was when I realized that I didn’t care if it happened or not. I let go of the desire of wanting it, and it came without me exerting effort. It took me a few years to realize this.
@remc0s2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that. I love my family and friends, but i don't care about romantic relationships at all. Too constricting. I was never really happier in my previous relationships than i am being alone. Also, it is not the '50s anymore. Just make sure you are financially stable, practice a sport you enjoy, find yourself a nearby brothel and you are set for life. Works for me.
@kainatk61324 жыл бұрын
In the timeless words of Imam Ash Shafi “my heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me.” Indeed everything happens for a reason.
@tejaslambade8080Ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah 🙌
@himanshupandey93034 жыл бұрын
3 steps are: 1. Becoming aware of the 'indifferent': indifferent basically refers to wealth, material possession and all those things which will not give a lasting pleasure. In stoic terms anything which is neither a virtue nor a vice is indifferent and at the end of the day it is useless to attach ourselves to this indifferents. 2. Remember the impermanence: Nothing is permanent in this world so you shouldn't hold on to things. 3. Live in the present moment: The only time that you can have worry about is this moment. Worrying about what's gone or what will come will suffice nothing and will only cause you deeper troubles.
@BruceRodriguez4 жыл бұрын
Thanks good sir
@donaldpace90334 жыл бұрын
Impressive 😀
@NylaVox4 жыл бұрын
Nice synopsis~ Thanks!! ✨🙏🏻✨
@roijoseredor19024 жыл бұрын
So basically number 3 is saving the past or allowing your future memories that you made up or saved up affect myself in ways that is just fabricated or is just made out of. 😂
@flamingsword7774 жыл бұрын
Interesting.... this is exactly what Jesus taught us....
@osse1n5 жыл бұрын
On the contrary to common beliefs, intelligence lies in emptiness, not in fulness. Acknowledge the information, retract the value and let it flow further. Making room for new wisdom to enter.
@siddarts5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this insight
@osse1n5 жыл бұрын
@@siddarts Be safe bro
@khldounsoulrebel10924 жыл бұрын
You're a Genius
@miguelpereira98594 жыл бұрын
Yes this is a brilliant assessment. Also that fullness can manifest in dogmatic thinking, when you think you know everything and everyone else is just stupid
@bineschiff22704 жыл бұрын
True
@donquixotedoflamingo6195 жыл бұрын
The reason it is hard to letting go is the nostalgia
@ti-lo5hy5 жыл бұрын
Happiness in retrograde
@hojoshua84254 жыл бұрын
Fun fact one of the best way to get higly euphoric is by thinking about the past. "Remember that good old time we had. " Here's one of my fav qoute of the day. "Life is a comedy for those who think, and a tragedy for those who feel. - Howard Rickert By Jordan Peterson.
@davidrosner62674 жыл бұрын
Nostalgia is a positive form of rumination about the past as long as we do it in moderation without neglecting the present moment! Nostalgia in moderation provides inspiration for how to best live in the present moment!
@lunarnightingale35854 жыл бұрын
@@hojoshua8425 that quote hit different
@mikewright9024 жыл бұрын
Right in meditation all thoughts are from the past all thoughts our memory knowledge experience
@mohitmehlawat6164 жыл бұрын
The reason it is difficult to let go or accepting the things as they are, is because, of our identification with the feelings/emotions. We have to let go of the emotions as they arise. This frees us from all the attachments and life sees very peaceful.
@Lindsweightloss5 жыл бұрын
The past is something that we cannot control nor change it, so it's a waste of time and energy to hold on to it! What matters the most is the NOW and our future! So, let's not let our past dictate our lives, and start creating the lives we truly deserve ! :))
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Lindsweightloss5 жыл бұрын
@@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 :)
@thebigbossman66134 жыл бұрын
Future doesn't exist except in our minds. What always exist is now. Even the so call future comes to us as now. That's why Osho said "Now-here all the time".
@Lindsweightloss4 жыл бұрын
@@thebigbossman6613 Totally agree. As Eckhart Tolle says, the future is just an illusion. Thank you for sharing :)
@runway53384 жыл бұрын
Yeah, although thinking about the past may not be a total waste of time if we are able to derive lessons from it. So long as we can learn from our mistakes, and look at it positively as “experience” and “a lesson learned,” it’ll be easier to let bygones be bygones. But yeah, I totally agree it’s a waste wishing to go back and change things-it’d be better to change your present situation since that’s something we actually have control over. Not total control, realistically speaking, but we can at least try.
@andresalgado30024 жыл бұрын
As a 14 year old only under a few months you have helped to open my eyes in this cruel but beautiful world I can't but help but express so much gratitude to you it's just life is so hard but when I reflect into the past I see you as inspiration I hold nothing back but to listen to you good sir and I'm sure you don't need this to move on in life but just thank you so very much.
@smartchip4 жыл бұрын
You have all the possibilities in front of you, checkout Earl Nightingale speaking about success, I quote, "success is the progressive realisation of a worth ideal" you can do almost anything, I say almost as if your 5'2, becoming a world class basketball player is a stretch, youth is wasted on the young, you too shall get old, then you shall wonder where it went, like me, have a goal and work towards it, try to be well educated, it shall help when you want to do something particular, like a change of career, pass the information on to those who are young, when you are not, time is past, cannot be rerun, but helping others is a solace,
@karalguidubaldi15174 жыл бұрын
andre 👍😊 you will flourish
@majidhussain38964 жыл бұрын
Life is short. Make the most of it. Islam is the truth. Believe in and say the words in the Shahada so you can enter Paradise. Read the Quran for free online.
@unitywalks17614 жыл бұрын
@@majidhussain3896 Your rationality is irrational
@andyniblett8986 Жыл бұрын
@@majidhussain3896 - John 14.6 There is only one
@eojxe745 жыл бұрын
How can you lose something you never had or own” that open my eyes and just gave me vision to see
@purplerain32693 жыл бұрын
When I had my first heartbreak, I was here too. Now that I’m at it again, a more painful one, stoicism helped me again to knock some sense on me. See you on my next heartbreak again. 😂👌
@dystephiary2 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re doing better. This is my second one and it’s very difficult
@karalguidubaldi15174 жыл бұрын
Cancer took everything. House, cars, furnishings...all material possessions. I hadn’t heard about Stoicism but I think I’m naturally inclined. Somehow, I just concentrated on the fact that I got to have my husband for an extra 10 years. It got me through
@JosepCastellsera5 жыл бұрын
I would switch the concept of letting go in favor of accepting because letting go implies that the subject can have some sort of control of when to stop holding something. But perhaps it may not happen immediately. By contrast, accepting things as they are implies no active action. For acceptance is constant.
@kellyv60754 жыл бұрын
I recognize some Teal Swan or Abraham Hicks in that idea? 😁
@JosepCastellsera4 жыл бұрын
@@kellyv6075 In my case this idea it bubbled up during meditation and as you see it was not dismissed instantly :)
@z.deutch13344 жыл бұрын
@Josep well said
@Jigna554 жыл бұрын
But its soo hard to let go off my mind always keeps recollecting everything n its soo sad i gave my every inch love to him n he is very happy with another chick now he probably used me n i hate him for that.
@deela2624 жыл бұрын
@@Jigna55gradually, inch by inch, accepting the fickle nature of mind can help you to let go.. The mind.. sometimes.. clings to certain experiences..but then , always goes for another. He is as he is.. you thought otherwise. One more experience to gain maturity.
@stevesayewich85945 жыл бұрын
The Tao is loaded with impermanence. Chapter # 50 reminds us that: "The Master gives himself up to whatever the moment brings." And: "He knows he is going to die and he has nothing to hold on to." Or in Chapter # 74: "If you realize that all thing change, there is nothing you will hold on to." And : "If you aren't afraid of dying, there is nothing you can't achieve." All great wisdoms to life being lived.
@supershifter21805 жыл бұрын
What book or text does that come from?
@stevesayewich85945 жыл бұрын
@@supershifter2180 It comes from the Tao
@stevesayewich85945 жыл бұрын
@@supershifter2180 It comes from the, "Tao Te Ching," as translated by Stephen Mitchell. I have read it's 81 chapters since 1997. You can get other translations but this work comes in a pocket edition which you an easily carry around with you. Good luck in your journey.
@supershifter21805 жыл бұрын
@@stevesayewich8594 Thanks for explaining, I've lately been watching and listening to different videos about different philosophers and their studies such as Alan Watts, Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette, and Carl Jung. Hoping to get into the book "King Warrior Magican and lover".Good luck on your journey as well!
@BIGDRXXMR4444 жыл бұрын
Taoism is based.
@GA-br8wj4 жыл бұрын
Money does not bring happiness but gives you freedom to choose and live any way you want.
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73854 жыл бұрын
Yea but money is an overrated medium should be replace with love but as we know humans r too dumb to figure that out.
@rahbruhn4 жыл бұрын
Having what you think you want, having choice is neither good nor bad also and also will not lead to happiness.
@hayden37744 жыл бұрын
What you want < what you need
@BertisAU4 жыл бұрын
You completely miss the point
@janedoe17764 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Unfortunately money is a necessary evil, to a point. You don’t need excess, but if you never know where your next meal will come from, that can make life long. I know, I know, l “miss the point”. But it’s still true.
@harshshaunak67434 жыл бұрын
we can't let go of our memories and traumas this applies when we live in the past
@SouthernBelleReviews4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@lloydonlead4 жыл бұрын
This was outstanding. Following this path is the key to freeing yourself. It's a lesson that must be applied in the moment.
@philadelphiaproper5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’ve recently gone through a painful breakup and this is just what I needed, thank you
@MikeJackson6904 жыл бұрын
Hope you're ok. 7.5 months after mine and I still miss her like hell.
@philadelphiaproper4 жыл бұрын
General Waste to say it sucks is an understatement, at first. But today i don’t feel as bad as I did before. Instead of overthinking and pitying myself I’m trying to improve, and apply what I’ve learned and make myself better. I’ve realized that there is no point in making myself suffer over something I had no control over. So I’m trying to let go, and starting to grasp on to new things. I’ve started reading more, meditating, making art, going out for runs. I want to be better. Not for her, but for me. I still think about her a lot, but I know there’s no point in wasting energy on what is long lost. So I will spend it building, loving, and living a life of virtue and purpose. Hope you are doing well too.
@eminahmet74184 жыл бұрын
Noble Thank you for sharing this man, I legit saw myself while reading this. God Bless.
@Artaxian_Debacle4 жыл бұрын
Me too man hope you recover well I’m in the same boat rn just got out of a relationship with someone I cared deeply for and seeing how she’s changed from a sweet and kind girl to this horrid cruel and lacks any empathy for me. You got this man learn and grow to the greatness you deserve
@MikeJackson6904 жыл бұрын
@@Artaxian_Debacle It's shocking how someone can change from warm and loving to cold and indifferent so quickly, right? 😕
@CasperFiles19695 жыл бұрын
Most needed video. Just realized that my crush was never into me, something I have no control over.
@googleusername61485 жыл бұрын
Once I heard: marry the person that loves you, not the one you love.
@CasperFiles19695 жыл бұрын
@@googleusername6148 Maybe I need time to learn to love myself maybe then I would learn to truly love someone.
@gengarsbutt5 жыл бұрын
@@googleusername6148 Shouldn't you marry someone that is both loved by you and loves you? I'm connecting "marrying someone that loves you" to a desperate call. Everybody has a different interpretation of you, and that means some interpretarions might not please you. In those cases a person loving you would be someone you'd want to get away from, not accept.
@-A-c5 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you'll make the most of this opportunity
@CasperFiles19694 жыл бұрын
@@gengarsbutt I am not experienced in dating so it is hard for me to know if any girl likes or loves me. As for my loved one, I am grateful but when it comes to romantic pursuit it is not in my control to know what others feel.
@evadebruijn3 жыл бұрын
I got here after the search term stoicism non attachment and existential loneliness. This stuff is gold. When life is 10% what happens and 90% how we react to it the quote keep calm and carry on doesn't quite cut it for me.
@starkiller5784 жыл бұрын
Letting go of a girl I never had...
@xFlared4 жыл бұрын
You don't own or have anyone, nor others do you. Your parents aren't yours and you aren't your parents'. In fact even our bodies aren't ours. We have limited time, with a borrowed body, using borrowed matter (earth, air, water) to live a temporary life. Once you see everything from this perspective you'd understand the insanity of attachment to any aspect of life.
@Saber234 жыл бұрын
Admiral Ackbar by that logic nothing should have rights either as it simply means nothing is owned or should be guarded this type of absolute nihilism is the reason there are so many suicides and mass murders thinking your life is worthless with no meaning and wanting to spread that death and poison to others and I looked on your channel considering your subscribed to so many asmr channels I think your looking for stimulation to fill a void in your life either that or you just weird
@xFlared4 жыл бұрын
@@Saber23 Murder, war, hate and suffering are side effects of attachment. What does "not having rights" mean. It means someone is imposing their will or authority over you. That's a form of oppressive attachment. Similar to how insecure husband beats his wife because of suspicions, or how an Indian father beats his daughter because he' found out shes dating a low class and bringing shame. Detachment and letting go is the ultimate form of love and peace. It means live and let live. Attachment ultimately is you identifying yourself with another object, person or an idea. And whenever that object, person or idea violates "your agenda" you take it personal because it's part of you, immediately impacting your emotions, causing cognitive dissonance, instability, hate, rage, and in the end violence.
@FIt-yh8bt4 жыл бұрын
@@xFlared How can you love someone without getting attached? Meaning, when they're gone, how can you live with the grief?
@xFlared4 жыл бұрын
@@FIt-yh8bt It's okay to feel the feeling of attachment when a relationship is intact, but you need to identify the feeling and refrain from it being expressed too aggressively. Because that's what it is. Excessive attachment is in fact aggression towards another caused by inner insecurities. You also need to consciously remind yourself that it's a temporary affair. You're borrowing this moment with another, and eventually it will end. Either through death or through a breakup. With this mindset you'll be able to truly have a relationship free of insecurities and tension. Without being in constant anxiety of whether he or she is "cheating" or about to leave you. True love also comes first and foremost from self respect and individuality. Many people give up a lot in life to be with another, in process losing their identity, which naturally causes the partner to see that and lose attraction to your "original" powerful self. This is why there are so many breakups, because ultimately one of the parties gives up their identity. This is why relationships are a good test of composure, and have a lot to teach when it comes to the issue of "attachment suffering". Also regarding the feelings of "grief, sadness, jealousy and frustration". They naturally will happen but once again you can't attach yourself with these emotions. Just like bad weather they will come and pass. These emotions are not you and you don't own them. So in an essence you should be thankful to even have these in the first place because they give clear contrast to the "good feelings". Happiness, love, excitement, etc. Feeling loss and grief gives contrast to birth or finding love. We need to respect the former to understand the latter.
@j.m.b54412 жыл бұрын
These teachings never get old!! I advice everybody to revisit these videos every once in a while, In my view this is a way of reaffirming these messages in our minds and making them part of our habits. Thank you.
@akhilvashist13395 жыл бұрын
Sir, I truely absolutely love your videos and the fact that you dig deep into such texts and manuscripts, that may otherwise be so hard to find. Love you research and work that you put into. JUST ONE REQUEST : Please ADD A SUMMARY at the end consisting of PRACTICALISED STEPS, so we can imply these philosophies
@Einzelgänger4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Akhil and thanks for the tip! 👍
@Einzelgänger4 жыл бұрын
By the way: the next two videos are already made. But I'll do my best to apply the summary in the videos after that. I think it is a great idea.
@akhilvashist13394 жыл бұрын
@@Einzelgänger 😊😇
@cappsbriley4 жыл бұрын
@@Einzelgänger I've been really enjoying the content lately. Keep it up!!
@Einzelgänger4 жыл бұрын
@@cappsbriley thanks!! 🙂
@jambo11jd5 жыл бұрын
You dont know how much I needed this vid right now. Thank you. ❤
@michaelhagan90264 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos! Thank you for making these. The length of time and the potency of the material is perfect for me. I usually watch them several times as there is so much for me to take away. Lastly, it’s always amazing to me to see how similar stoicism is to Buddhism.
@parulshanker14364 жыл бұрын
Your videos are like answers I asked for ..from the last few weeks. How unbelievable is that.
@paulawhite99222 жыл бұрын
I was lying in my bed experiencing consternation about my own personal timeline. "How did I get here from there?" "There" being when I was born--66 years ago, which seems like such a long time, to Now which is already gone as this was at least an hour ago. This video--and I watch your videos routinely--helps me so much! It gives my somewhat troubled mind clarity and understanding. Thank you!
@doku71392 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you must learn to let go. & Learn to pick your battles. Be stoic & be great.
@patrickmurphy83274 жыл бұрын
I am a therapist who has been using Mindfulness Based Therapies (specifically ACT), and had read a lot of eastern philosophy, but I’ve only recently discovered the Stoics. I really love it.
@kanekiken23765 жыл бұрын
Easily one of my favorite channels, never disappoints. Keep up the great work!
@jlvandat695 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You make Stoicism so palatable that the value is more fully digested.
@darrellborland1193 жыл бұрын
An excellent one. Upon further thought, this one is huge...simple, but rather daunting at the same time. Marcus said he will meet with petty, sometimes evil people, but he had to navigate thru their issues to get to what he needed to do to rule an empire....quite a feat, to consider. Thanks, again.
@ulyssesalbacite5164 жыл бұрын
my life change with this mini explanation about letting go, good job sir
@mayankmuttreja39084 жыл бұрын
You are a wise man, thank you for the content you produce. It is helpful to understand the basis of some key principles many of the greatest thinkers had.
@GrowthMindsetProductions4 жыл бұрын
I *really* enjoy the quality and variety of educational videos on this channel. All I can say is *keep* *it* *coming* ! :)
@jonesreviews46135 жыл бұрын
You are the best einzelgänger!! Your videos are a part of a long list of things that have led me to a better life. Thank you
@SudeeptoDutta5 жыл бұрын
Described in a succinct manner. Thanks for the video. 🙏🏾
@daeclipse03 Жыл бұрын
This is now my favorite channel on YT.
@tyronekozlowski80172 жыл бұрын
Love all the videos that Einzelganger puts out.
@amulyabapatla4 жыл бұрын
Thankful for the internet. So much knowledge out there.
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
Man I needed this because I could not let go of this one crush😅
@stefancristian43245 жыл бұрын
fell you man, fell you
@kevinthai67775 жыл бұрын
@@stefancristian4324 well same, I try to get over it, it's hard but we will find our way out of the cage
@stefancristian43245 жыл бұрын
@@kevinthai6777 Idk for sure if Ive failed or not, cuz she's an introvert, she's, as I can see, lonely, as I am, but Ive done some dumb things and that's could ruin my chances, anyway keep trying to get of this cage, and I will do this too if I will need to
@Nitecrow3144 жыл бұрын
Same. But after seeing this I think- Well maybe being with her wouldn't be all I imagine it to be. Just another case of thinking that what I may have in the future would be what made me happy. But looking at it logically, my (our) time is almost certainly better spent carrying on the quest toward finding (as close as to) inner peace (as I can). The rest will follow when it does. 😑
@lensontaki32134 жыл бұрын
@@stefancristian4324 your story is same as mine..fell for an introvert one(same as me), so it's hard to let go and also more harder to hold on to.
@smartchip4 жыл бұрын
There are good people out there, this guy is one, good lad, really really liked and was happy to have the privilege of listening to his presentation on Taoism, life changing,
@elonever.2.0713 жыл бұрын
The best way of letting go is to understand that life itself is a temporary experience allowing us to become immersed in a series of smaller experiences. When it is time for both the smaller experiences and the large one called life to end, the Universe will let us know. Accept it and move on so you are emotionally able to engage in the next one.
@wendyindonesia2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. So inspiring. I loved the picks of Indonesia as well.
@garycox38412 жыл бұрын
Timeless, and sooo timely 🙏❤️
@brendadrew8344 жыл бұрын
Thanks , needed to be reminded of this. Constantly working on all three points of stoicism! A real lifelong challenge for sure!
@soniaforkas14155 жыл бұрын
Thanks .. . I needed this today
@JulieVandenKerchove4 жыл бұрын
Excellent knowledge! Thanks for making these inspiring videos :)
@kuldeeplakhawat3654 жыл бұрын
Instead of letting go, why not use the term detachment. Everything is predestined. Why get involved in ups and downs of life. Control is a illusion. Just remain a observer from a distance.
@MS-zb4bs3 жыл бұрын
Observer from a distance 😀spy
@kuldeeplakhawat3653 жыл бұрын
@@MS-zb4bs 😂😂😂 yes spying can do the trick
@ZenGuitarShred4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this VID. Personally, I am very trapped in these mistakes from the past and it swallows up ALOt of time. Creates a terrible vibe and mood. It is very hard for me to let go and move on.
@aarongg49904 жыл бұрын
exactly what I need right now, thanks for the upload
@walkitoff.4 жыл бұрын
Peace can only come from within.
@TheSurefireProject4 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you hear this all the time; but you do great work on this channel, man.
@louisaclarke7524 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, so thought provoking and neat distillations of philosophy, and your voice is the icing on the cake! Thank you!
@wingsofspirit63924 жыл бұрын
The main thing is letting go of all memories that are no longer preferred. Mind is powerful and the experiences are not the problem it is the mind itself that is the problem, I have found that I need to be harnessing the power to control my mind and my actions. Therefore allowing all non-preferred memories to dissipate, to disappear as though they never happened in some cases. Controlling our own thoughts are entirely up to us and we ourselves have the power to forget anything. We should focus whole-heartedly on controlling our minds and focus on what is preferred or what is really best for us.
@jessicamiller99704 жыл бұрын
Live in the moment but not blind to reality! And it's good to have nice things as long as you are just as happy having nothing as you were when you had it all.
@soupster50095 жыл бұрын
Bro I needed this
@noraqubaia39424 жыл бұрын
Just started watching your videos. I'm going through and sharing these because they are really relevant to the kinds of conversations I like to have with people
@DuneGuy7964 жыл бұрын
I have to say thank you for uploading this, even though I am watching it the day after. I got super stressed out at school, because I have this highschool ACT prep that I have to take, it is mandatory. I am not going to college, I think it's a waste of money, and I don't see myself needing it, american school suck. This mental stress led to me having an outburst at lunch telling kids to "Shut the hell up!" And I got 3 days of in school suspension as the minimum punishment. I should have let go, because I felt the artificial pressure of something everyone tells me matters, but I see none of it.
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73854 жыл бұрын
Yea nothing matters we all gonna die no matter u go to school or not😅
@DuneGuy7964 жыл бұрын
@@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 true that
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73854 жыл бұрын
@@DuneGuy796 its hella true so just enjoy lfe and dont worry about shit ok
@kieoncoleman98104 жыл бұрын
@@DuneGuy796 I'm currently in college, and so far it is a big waste of time. I'm taking a plethora of classes that have 0 relevance to my dream career. I want to be a counselor, which has nothing to do with history, math, composition, etc. But guess what classes I'm taking (and paying for)? That's right! All of the above. It' so stupid. And even after I get the degree, I'm not guaranteed a job in that field. Unless your dream job REQUIRES you to go to college, forget it. If you desire money, wealth, reputation, or to be famous, etc, don't even bother with college. All those things can be obtained through other less stressful means.
@roentgen88044 жыл бұрын
i can't control something that comes up in my mind. so here i am now, can't sleep for days this quarantine
@forensikeinweiser45844 жыл бұрын
Sie sind einer der wertvollsten KZbinr die mir bisher über den Weg gelaufen sind. Mhnja
@sssttt22113 жыл бұрын
Live by virtue, in present moment without attaching to anything and accepting of everything as it comes, doing your best in every situation ( as it defines who you are) as best course of action out of love, happiness, and in alignment with higher goals. Don't waste time in frivolous things - chasing money, relationships, or anything that cannot be eternal.
@JustianSethioHandoyo5 жыл бұрын
"Let it go, let it go ... Can't hold it back anymore ..." - Elsa Frozen
@Pram45 жыл бұрын
Ngapain lu gan hahaha
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
Haha good reference
@puisifarras16384 жыл бұрын
Queren buanqet gaengs
@ModernDayCharmian4 жыл бұрын
The cold never bothered me anyway. 🚪
@Einzelgänger5 жыл бұрын
3rd
@shanmugalokiesh05 жыл бұрын
Einzelgänger any good book about stoicism you’d recommend ?
@sajpar97654 жыл бұрын
@@shanmugalokiesh0 on shortness of life by Epictetus (I believe), on meditation (or something like that). Look for books written by Epictetus.
@luluandmeow Жыл бұрын
You have introduced me to Marc Aurelius and the stoics and I'm planning to read their work, maybe with Latin/English parallel text as I did Latin in secondary school, thank you
@avonazil4 жыл бұрын
This is the reason why I love my philosophy subject.
@resetmyzen1585 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this ❤
@Wheresjosh134 жыл бұрын
This video helped me so much right now thank you so so much
@A.dollyy4 жыл бұрын
*sighs* I know ima still text him back 🤧
@mattyh76144 жыл бұрын
I thought I'd message her back too, but I've decided to let her go. Good luck!
@ImagineSinghJi4 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to all of us
@chrisw86274 жыл бұрын
A Dolly that’s so sad and cute lol Hope u found freedom girl!!
@iztaccihuatlromeroflores22644 жыл бұрын
Yo same
@8DarthGhost84 жыл бұрын
Same. But maybe, we can change things up a bit. Don't act so attached.. just a casual conversation. And let the attachment "flow" out slowly. . Well that's what I'm trying to do. It is very hard.
@elinsrisupho16164 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video
@arthurlockwood8735 Жыл бұрын
That's what all are saying. That's right don't. Think about it good luck with it. From Lancashire England UK 🇬🇧🙏❤️
@Ballistixwear4 жыл бұрын
My new favorite YT channel!
@rainmanjr20074 жыл бұрын
I love that Borders is featured during the segment on impermanence.
@Stu_DLNGR5 жыл бұрын
"F*** Martha Stewart. She's polishing brass on the Titanic; it's all going down, man". ~Tyler Durden
@FIt-yh8bt4 жыл бұрын
"The key to self discovery is masturbation and self destruction." "Stop trying to control everything and JUST LET GO" "Only when we've lost everything..." "Know you're going to die" Tyler Durden TYLER DURDEN For President!
@iCockaine5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for existing
@pathwayprivateofficial4 жыл бұрын
That beat at the beginning and end tho is dope!
@menace2societies4 жыл бұрын
How do I let go of missing the best things that happened in my past and I couldn’t let go because it really made me happy.
@dede020242 жыл бұрын
I guess knowing that better things and memories will come
@leyann64424 жыл бұрын
wow i was thinking of stoic ways of lettung go but then it just popped in my recommendations! thank u soo much for this video
@chrisharder4854 Жыл бұрын
Great narrative solo traveler.. Goed gedaan
@techonalecm.22734 жыл бұрын
Love your channel dude
@2legit2Kwit4 жыл бұрын
This video set me free. Thank you
@user-qp6vg9ho8u3 жыл бұрын
Reality is like a dream, just with senses
@felipeandres84985 жыл бұрын
Keep your work bro
@tejaslambade8080Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 Makes sense 👍👍 ❤️❤️
@SteRiskE4 жыл бұрын
We enter the world with nothing and we leave the world with nothing, what ever happens in between is a bonus, just be happy with what you have, your health, wellbieng and a roof over your head (this ovs is not for everyone as everyones life is different) but for the majority
@nwoslothbite30775 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@ahday59635 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your channel so so much
@foo80504 жыл бұрын
Man I need to adopt these ideas
@blackjackmania96334 жыл бұрын
Very helpful
@alexalex-ps6ss4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Powerful words.
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey4 жыл бұрын
heroic virtue, reasonable control of our passions.
@luthfanwicaksono27214 жыл бұрын
Great video brother! I notice that there are footages in Jakarta, Indonesia. I don't if you took this footage or not. But if you did visit Jakarta, I hope you had a great time.
@anitaelghandor72954 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed that
@ryanf74414 жыл бұрын
Going through a breakup right now so this is helpful
@kutisbayag13094 жыл бұрын
When we were born,we brought nothing. So do not hold on to something,so that when it lost, you've never lost a thing.