3 tips if you are in perimenopause, menopause or post menopause

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Dr. Mary Claire Haver, MD

Dr. Mary Claire Haver, MD

Күн бұрын

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@catsrfamily6444
@catsrfamily6444 Жыл бұрын
You may want to fix your second caption. - it says “suffering is normal”
@juancena1259
@juancena1259 Жыл бұрын
​@olympic-gradelurker😂
@mariec.9102
@mariec.9102 4 ай бұрын
The caption has a "Freudian slip"🤭
@darnitthelma4247
@darnitthelma4247 4 ай бұрын
That’ll be her brain fog 😂
@bram5274
@bram5274 4 ай бұрын
Sad to say , but All the ones in the same boat clearly understood, she meant to say "Suffering is not normal ". Have a great day everybody!!
@ebangoosa
@ebangoosa 4 ай бұрын
Suffering IS normal in this fallen world
@vhelma21945
@vhelma21945 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Aging is totally fine, unnecessary suffering and pain is not ☺️
@Gently225
@Gently225 Жыл бұрын
Everyone gets old in the end💚
@wendygroothedde
@wendygroothedde 4 ай бұрын
Not really you can also die early ,if you have lisentend.💓
@5-es4mn
@5-es4mn 18 күн бұрын
The problems begin with the endless ignorance surrounding the differences between women and men. People, including doctors, simply ignore the thousands of differences between women and men and, at best, treat women like small men. At worst, extreme misogynists want women to suffer their entire lives. I address women - first and foremost, educate yourselves broadly on this topic. There are more than 8,000 differences between the sexes, in every aspect. Medicine and research have focused solely on men, not on women. By nature, women are supposed to live decades longer than men! Decades! Not three years. Women, by their very nature (and females of many other species as well), simply age much more slowly than males. This is something no one teaches you anywhere. If anything, you're taught misogynistic lies that are the opposite of reality. You are suffering from terrible stress, trauma (most of it made by Y chromosome), environmental poisoning (men made), and misogynistic ideologies (both left-wing and right-wing... because it’s unclear which is worse - progressive or Abrahamic misogyny). This disrupts your hormones, and you mistakenly believe that the problem lies within you. If society were matriarchal, you would see what women are truly capable of and how healthy you are meant to be naturally ( BTW women should look the same from 20 to 60 ...and the media show you 50 yo women who look 80!!!) The ignorance is so vast that people don’t even realize that women feel much more pain! Women have more pain receptors and a hormonal state that heightens pain sensitivity, while men have high testosterone levels that reduce all sensation of pain.
@trishayable
@trishayable Жыл бұрын
So glad there's female doctors advocating female health.
@5-es4mn
@5-es4mn 18 күн бұрын
The problems begin with the endless ignorance surrounding the differences between women and men. People, including doctors, simply ignore the thousands of differences between women and men and, at best, treat women like small men. At worst, extreme misogynists want women to suffer their entire lives. I address women - first and foremost, educate yourselves broadly on this topic. There are more than 8,000 differences between the sexes, in every aspect. Medicine and research have focused solely on men, not on women. By nature, women are supposed to live decades longer than men! Decades! Not three years. Women, by their very nature (and females of many other species as well), simply age much more slowly than males. This is something no one teaches you anywhere. If anything, you're taught misogynistic lies that are the opposite of reality. You are suffering from terrible stress, trauma (most of it made by Y chromosome), environmental poisoning (men made), and misogynistic ideologies (both left-wing and right-wing... because it’s unclear which is worse - progressive or Abrahamic misogyny). This disrupts your hormones, and you mistakenly believe that the problem lies within you. If society were matriarchal, you would see what women are truly capable of and how healthy you are meant to be naturally ( BTW women should look the same from 20 to 60 ...and the media show you 50 yo women who look 80!!!) The ignorance is so vast that people don’t even realize that women feel much more pain! Women have more pain receptors and a hormonal state that heightens pain sensitivity, while men have high testosterone levels that reduce all sensation of pain.
@wishingyoupeace
@wishingyoupeace 5 ай бұрын
I got no help in perimenopause. Suffered 10 years. Thank you for being an advocate for women! We need more like you.
@bepositivealways2023
@bepositivealways2023 2 ай бұрын
How and when did you overcome please
@leighannstevenson5033
@leighannstevenson5033 2 ай бұрын
I had symptoms for 7 years at the age of 33 went for all these scans and tests at the hospital with no cause found to be told I was too young for menopause and now am on hrt and its helping.
@5-es4mn
@5-es4mn 18 күн бұрын
The problems begin with the endless ignorance surrounding the differences between women and men. People, including doctors, simply ignore the thousands of differences between women and men and, at best, treat women like small men. At worst, extreme misogynists want women to suffer their entire lives. I address women - first and foremost, educate yourselves broadly on this topic. There are more than 8,000 differences between the sexes, in every aspect. Medicine and research have focused solely on men, not on women. By nature, women are supposed to live decades longer than men! Decades! Not three years. Women, by their very nature (and females of many other species as well), simply age much more slowly than males. This is something no one teaches you anywhere. If anything, you're taught misogynistic lies that are the opposite of reality. You are suffering from terrible stress, trauma (most of it made by Y chromosome), environmental poisoning (men made), and misogynistic ideologies (both left-wing and right-wing... because it’s unclear which is worse - progressive or Abrahamic misogyny). This disrupts your hormones, and you mistakenly believe that the problem lies within you. If society were matriarchal, you would see what women are truly capable of and how healthy you are meant to be naturally ( BTW women should look the same from 20 to 60 ...and the media show you 50 yo women who look 80!!!) The ignorance is so vast that people don’t even realize that women feel much more pain! Women have more pain receptors and a hormonal state that heightens pain sensitivity, while men have high testosterone levels that reduce all sensation of pain.
@annsmith7207
@annsmith7207 Жыл бұрын
TYPO: Suffering is NOT normal -- add the NOT
@phantomopera5525
@phantomopera5525 6 ай бұрын
Inordinate amounts of respect for this lady, this doctor, this expert, for showing herself as she is!
@CurlyQxyz
@CurlyQxyz 5 ай бұрын
Yes and she is gorgeous and beautiful and fit 💕
@Sidera17
@Sidera17 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother was done at 40. Had afib later in life. My mom was done by 47. Has all those metabolic cluster issues of high cholesterol, insulin resistance, high triglycerides. I most likely started at 36, but did not notice many problematic symptoms until 38. I already had multiple inflammatory disorders and neurological disorders since my 20s. I am so freaked out over what will come next. Because I "look young/am young" for this, people are dismissive of my issues. It's scary.
@cymbelinebritain6799
@cymbelinebritain6799 Жыл бұрын
Have you had your thyroid checked? My mother suffered for years starting at around age 37 and they thought she might be entering early menopause because of her symptoms...irregular periods, intolerance to heat, anxiousness. It turned out to be an autoimmune disease...Graves Disease which causes hyperthyroidism and a whole host of unpleasant symptoms including aFib and tachycardia. I also developed it when it was in my early 40s. It can be very debilitating.
@Sidera17
@Sidera17 Жыл бұрын
@@cymbelinebritain6799 Yes, they did. I get routine thyroid checks bc the diseases run in my family, and this year was the first year it was slightly hypo-thyroid, but not enough to treat. I had half the estradiol a normal woman my age has, so they think the thyroid is slowly being affected by the hormones, and not the other way around, so they don't want to treat it yet. 😒. I am sorry you have gone through something similar. I've been chronically ill since my 20s with symptoms similar to thyroid issues on and off and I am sorry you have to suffer similarly.
@cymbelinebritain6799
@cymbelinebritain6799 Жыл бұрын
@@Sidera17 Sorry to hear of your troubles. Yeah, the thyroid can really mess you up. Back in February of 2020, I decided, stupidly, to stop taking my meds because I was losing weight and wanted to hasten the process. I knew that if I stopped taking them for a while, my metabolism would speed back up and I'd lose weight quicker. The worst mistake I could have made. While at a housewarming party I'd thrown for my eldest daughter, my heart started to go into constant afib and beating very quickly. I took a couple of beta blockers, assuming that would take care of it. I would still get occasional bouts of it so I figured it was no big deal. I was wrong. I ended up in the hospital with a crash cart at the foot of my bed in full blown thyroid storm and heart failure. I didn't realize that's what it was at the time, but it is nothing to mess with. It happened due to my own negligence, but I can vouch for the fact that thyroid issues can seriously affect your health and well being. I hope they can figure out what the issues are and you can get prompt and efficient care. Best of luck to you! 🌹❤
@marlenegold280
@marlenegold280 Жыл бұрын
@@Sidera17 Always get a copy of all the labs to see if doctor truly tested the full thyroid panel. TSH and T4 only is not the full thyroid panel. TSH is a pituitary marker, not thyroid. Doctors are often fixated on TSH, which is the last marker to show Hypothyroidism after all the real thyroid markers have shown Hypothyroidism snd even Hashimoto’s autoimmune disease. Waiting and delay in treatment, makes it harder to prevent more damage to the thyroid. This is true in all autoimmune diseases. Hypothyroidism is found to be mostly Hashimoto’s and sometimes combined with Graves. Proper testing and treatment has been declining in recent years terribly.
@ylive5169
@ylive5169 Жыл бұрын
I always have that issue - the "too young/look fine" one - so I understand. Doctors need to stop labeling and keep training, because some of us have real diseases! Thank you all for the discussion. I will be asking my PCP to check my thyroid next. Blessings 🙏🏽 🕊
@PEGASUSleadmare
@PEGASUSleadmare Жыл бұрын
Menopause at 44! I’m 71 and have excellent cardio numbers! Why? Because I have been proactive keeping active, not eating like a 10 year old boy, and making my doctors LISTEN to my issues. It’s up to us to be responsible for ourselves. ❤
@mic1979-o9d
@mic1979-o9d Жыл бұрын
Did you take hormone replacement therapy?
@almaburns6562
@almaburns6562 Жыл бұрын
PEGASUSleadmare, did you take hormone therapy or no?
@PEGASUSleadmare
@PEGASUSleadmare Жыл бұрын
@@almaburns6562 sorry! Too much time in the barn! NOPE never have and never will. Menopause at 44 but first period at 14 so that fits. Took 800 IU of Vitamin E when hot flashes appeared.
@robynwright2015
@robynwright2015 6 ай бұрын
Ummm yea menopause at 44!!!! Sorry! And has nothing to do with eating like a little boy 🙄
@burymebelowawillowtree9243
@burymebelowawillowtree9243 5 ай бұрын
What kind of cardio do you do and how many minutes roughly a day? How hard do you work out as in Cardio? Zone 2? Any weight training? Thanks
@cesmith48
@cesmith48 Жыл бұрын
I think America needs to put health back into its school curriculum. This time, comprehensive information about our bodies.
@janetjohnson7136
@janetjohnson7136 Жыл бұрын
They should have in-depth home ec classes also. Can't tell you how many people in the '30s and '40s that literally do not know how to fix a healthy meal. As a country, we have failed to implement critical curriculum in schools pertaining to healthy eating and exercise.
@catcaa9027
@catcaa9027 Жыл бұрын
@@janetjohnson7136big pharma will have a meltdown
@marlenegold280
@marlenegold280 Жыл бұрын
We had it back then, lots of it turned out to be wrong.
@emmaleebuzzard1023
@emmaleebuzzard1023 Жыл бұрын
@@janetjohnson7136when moms and dads are both working, no one is home to teach their children life skills. And even though sports are good, they’re out of control and also take families away from home. 😢
@angelgaudet3697
@angelgaudet3697 4 ай бұрын
My daughter took a health and nutrition class in her first year of middle school. She started wanting to eat better! This should be a mandatory class!
@denisemelchert2053
@denisemelchert2053 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am a late bloomer in the menopause department and I’m glad to hear that the odds are on my side for once!🎉
@texanlady1387
@texanlady1387 4 ай бұрын
Another late boomer here. 😅
@Shellgrit
@Shellgrit 3 ай бұрын
​@@texanlady1387Me too. 58
@Toywins
@Toywins 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, I'm 46 with 5 kids, and that period is stuck to me like glue! 😂😭 So glad hubby loved me enough to get a vasectomy!
@CBella100
@CBella100 2 ай бұрын
@@texanlady1387 same!
@heiditate6989
@heiditate6989 Ай бұрын
Yep me too
@diannet4474
@diannet4474 Жыл бұрын
Your 100% right!! I am a slim 52 yr old with high cholesterol and Rheumatoid arthritis 🙏
@marlenegold280
@marlenegold280 Жыл бұрын
When you say cholesterol are you referring to the typical fixation of doctors on LDL-C (a lipid transporter, not cholesterol itself)? It does not measure particle size, rather it lump all of them together. A more accurate measure would be your Triglyceride:HDL ratio. These are usually correctable through diet and lifestyle… and definitely not ever a statin. The side effects can be life altering due to terrible side effects, sometimes permanently. Always ask doctor for your copy of your labs, including reference ranges. It is your legal right.
@FCox-cy2zq
@FCox-cy2zq Жыл бұрын
​@marlenegold280 can you say more?
@marlenegold280
@marlenegold280 Жыл бұрын
@@FCox-cy2zq What question do you have?
@Ane127
@Ane127 4 ай бұрын
Get a homeopath.
@marycoyle7232
@marycoyle7232 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! It’s so good to hear that my weight doesn’t hold me back from being healthy. I watch what I eat, exercise regularly and I go to bed at a reasonable hour. I still gained weight after being in menopause but thankfully I only went up one size 🎉
@yogawithpreetiandbeyond
@yogawithpreetiandbeyond 4 ай бұрын
I love when you say that we do not have to suffer when aging. Just like Buddha said the pain is inevitable but suffering is optional.
@blossompure
@blossompure 4 ай бұрын
Who the statue🤡
@spirituallysafe
@spirituallysafe 3 ай бұрын
@@blossompureYeh the extremely fat one who had zero self discipline yet the mislead follow him by the thousands. Only Jesus is Lord! 😊❤
@AquaFrost777
@AquaFrost777 Жыл бұрын
We need less contaminants in our food supply! Some of us need BHRT.
@janemuir3546
@janemuir3546 Жыл бұрын
Sweet! I didn't go 12 months free until I was well past 56.
@marlenegold280
@marlenegold280 Жыл бұрын
Same
@grafxgrl8030
@grafxgrl8030 5 ай бұрын
I appreciate your information online. I don’t understand why people who create these videos think we wanna watch them groom while talking to us.
@bluecurlygirl
@bluecurlygirl 4 ай бұрын
She's briefly tying up her hair. Deal with it.
@grafxgrl8030
@grafxgrl8030 4 ай бұрын
@@bluecurlygirl don’t have to. Free country. Deal with it.
@Luna-sz9uq
@Luna-sz9uq 3 ай бұрын
Simple fix: don’t look at it, just listen
@paigebeck6365
@paigebeck6365 3 ай бұрын
She's showing that she's normal like all the rest of us. I appreciate not needing to only listen to her with her Dr's coat!
@JanineHyslop
@JanineHyslop 3 ай бұрын
​@paigebeck6365 I guess it comes across more natural in a way because she's like talking to you in a bathroom mirror she isn't all set up like a formal contrived lecture I quite like her she's articulate and straight to the point.
@rubykazmierak612
@rubykazmierak612 Ай бұрын
Neurological effects of low oestrogen during peri and post menopause produce changes in the brain (altering appetite, mood and behaviour) - sometimes these changes lead to a lack of insight into their inappropriate or odd behaviour. This video is a good example!!
@billiecooley6180
@billiecooley6180 Жыл бұрын
I think he's so much for you KZbin shorts I hope you've seen my other thank you notes because I follow these at 52 again I came from a mom from the south and she was one of seven girls and all I heard growing up was wash your face and use Mary Kay and you'll be fine I did not know that when you go through menopause if there was a relief called hormone therapy I did not know that I thought that was for someone that had cancer is or something but now I see your stuff and I'm so thankful but I'm not going out of my mind that there is relief thank you so much your book is amazing!😊
@RJones-tn5vg
@RJones-tn5vg Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I wondered why my doctor tried so hard to save my ovary and it makes sense now.
@Txmedic76
@Txmedic76 18 күн бұрын
Thank god I found your channel. My obgyn doesn’t tell me anything other than the same ‘ol banter. It’s disheartening and frustrating. Going through it even with hormone therapy. Thank you for all your incredible information. 🙏
@twisted_bambi32
@twisted_bambi32 3 ай бұрын
My Mom has always been thin and goes to the gym at least 3 times a week and swims 4 times a week. She also eats pretty healthy but still had super high cholesterol bc it is genetic. If she hadn't found it and taken steps to lower it she would have been at serious risk but thankfully she has it under control now ❤
@PiXie232
@PiXie232 Жыл бұрын
You truly seem like a phenomenal doctor and person:)❤
@janecoe9407
@janecoe9407 Жыл бұрын
IS SHE A LESBIAN??
@denisemelchert2053
@denisemelchert2053 Жыл бұрын
She sure does! I need a doctor like her, hard to find!
@PiXie232
@PiXie232 Жыл бұрын
@@denisemelchert2053 she really does.. and yes, they are incredibly hard to find!
@PiXie232
@PiXie232 Жыл бұрын
@@janecoe9407 what a weird, pointless question.. I have no clue but if she is, good on her:) That would just make me like her even more.
@angleblu7327
@angleblu7327 Жыл бұрын
@@PiXie232that person deleted their question!! What was it?!??!?! 😂
@livingwithlila5341
@livingwithlila5341 Ай бұрын
I’m 34 - irregular periods , hot flashes all day followed by cold chills , moods up and down. I gained 30 pounds in like 3 months . I need to get checked. I haven’t been to a gyno since my third child was born…. I always put everyone first before my own health but now I’m really worried that I won’t be around to see my grandchildren one day. Pray for me if you are reading this. I’ve been so down lately.
@rainesdream9134
@rainesdream9134 Ай бұрын
Praying for complete healing in Jesus name
@mainashanzuwa1631
@mainashanzuwa1631 24 күн бұрын
You probably are going through anxiety, and you do not know. Please always place positive affirmations into your life. You are still young and you will live long
@PEGASUSleadmare
@PEGASUSleadmare Жыл бұрын
Updating. After reading a lot of the comments it is obvious that we are not being taken seriously, not listened to, BUT just maybe we haven’t been heard. We are all responsible for our own health. Cowgirl UP! Ask your doctor direct questions, do research about your family’s medical issues, but most of all remember to put your mask on first. If your doctor somehow thinks they can handle ALL of your medical issues…RUN! Find a good primary care doctor who isn’t afraid to refer you to specialists. Set aside fear. You deserve health AND happiness!
@m.theresa1385
@m.theresa1385 Жыл бұрын
Oopsie! Suffering is normal? Your caption is misquoting you “Aging is Normal, suffering is not”
@Fortunapage839
@Fortunapage839 4 ай бұрын
Menstruated early and then went into menopause early and age 47. Have high blood pressure just started taking meds 69 years old no problems with menopause, childless, cat lady.
@MsQ275
@MsQ275 Жыл бұрын
from your professional perspective and experience, what exactly can we do to attenuate CVD risk? do you have videos you can link on this?
@Erica-en2qz
@Erica-en2qz Жыл бұрын
Yes, please! And what is considered early?
@Chick4choice
@Chick4choice 5 ай бұрын
150 minutes of moderate movement per week. Incorporate strength or resistance training for your muscles 3 days a week. There are simple calculators online for determining your peak heart rate for cardiovascular training based on sex/age/current activity level, but most folks can accomplish that with walking. Then eat foods as natural to the source as possible. As a woman in her mid 40s, a medical practitioner AND someone living with an auto immune condition (Hashimotos hypothyroid) I also have spent time eliminating pro-inflammatory foods like highly refined seed oils, processed sugars and grains.
@yvetteb1061
@yvetteb1061 6 күн бұрын
Currently missing multiple periods during the year and wearing depends when my period reappears after a few months of not having one.
@recklesslove2880
@recklesslove2880 5 күн бұрын
Same .
@faridabombaywala7151
@faridabombaywala7151 Жыл бұрын
Nobody talks about surgical menopause
@candacechew76
@candacechew76 Жыл бұрын
When I had my hysterectomy I was told by both my gynecologist and my gynecological oncology dr that my hysterectomy "will drop you straight into menopause". They gave me a list of things that would help. They made me feel like it would be a gradual escalation. It felt like I tripped, fell and slammed into it. My first yr after my hysterectomy was the worst. It's been 5 yrs now and I have very issues now.
@sophiafarah8246
@sophiafarah8246 6 ай бұрын
You need to get estradiol tablets and take them every day at the same time and estradiol vaginal cream. The cream you use twice a week. Your life will never be better after you start taking the estrogen
@truthdisciple9379
@truthdisciple9379 5 ай бұрын
​@@sophiafarah8246don't uou have to balance with progesterone or is that only if you have your uterus?
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 5 ай бұрын
Only if you get a full hysterectomy (removal of uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries). If you are able to keep your ovaries, you will not go straight into menopause. I keep mine, and my doctor said the ovaries will stop functioning on their own. So right now, I am not in peri menopause, but I know it's gonna happen 😢.
@valeriebrincheck6034
@valeriebrincheck6034 5 ай бұрын
Yeah I had a hysterectomy at 37 but I was able to keep my ovaries…..but 7 years later they became cystic and had to be removed. So as the other person said I tripped and fell fully right into menopause.
@kayodudu5190
@kayodudu5190 Жыл бұрын
Thanks For this information, but what are the things that can be done to attenuate that risk please
@Learntarott
@Learntarott 5 ай бұрын
Look and educate yourself about viseral fat & insulin resistance
@karenhinton6069
@karenhinton6069 Ай бұрын
I seriously need a doctor like this!
@curlyvseedstar2108
@curlyvseedstar2108 4 ай бұрын
You should teach other doctors that we are done with HAVING to suffer peri/ menopause symptoms 🎉❤
@Nicola-Lore
@Nicola-Lore Жыл бұрын
I went through early menopause and I do not want cardiovascular disease !!!
@charmainekrien8446
@charmainekrien8446 4 ай бұрын
So happy to have the opportunity to have come across the Dr . . Such good advice.. Thank you for sharing with us. It's extremely interesting. I'm 64 years old.. I have had a full hysterectomy at the age of 38 years. I what I heard today on your video.. I have learned a lot.
@catcaa9027
@catcaa9027 Жыл бұрын
What are the things🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m waiting
@devoncrumay5040
@devoncrumay5040 Ай бұрын
Thank you for being authentic in your videos
@sharoncrowley1999
@sharoncrowley1999 3 ай бұрын
I’m a heart patient 72 .. open heart a 43 was pregnant at the time they missed it and had to have abortion … have suffered ever since .. 3 stents … was in 60s before complete menopause hit. Still suffering. 😟😠
@kikiandallenllc
@kikiandallenllc Ай бұрын
Thank you for this! My situation is rare. I am a 26 year old female who’s going thru ovarian failure. It’s causing me to go into menopause. I have been having severe vaginal dryness, hot flashes, and so on for 2 years. I finally went to an urgent care to get my vagina, labia, and so on looked at because my vaginal dryness is so bad it’s causing my vaginal lips to break open. My low estrogen has caused an inflamed labia. This is the worse pain I’ve EVER been in! I had my son in 2022. My issues started after having him. I didn’t realize how IMPORTANT it is to get treatment. Long story short; I had a heart attack after having my son. I am assuming I was in early stages of menopause at that time & didn’t realize it. (I was just told I had PCOS; that is why I stopped having periods) big ooooof.
@martinademjanova6182
@martinademjanova6182 Ай бұрын
Hello, May I ask...did you have bad Covid? How about Covid vaccination? My hormonal problems started with bad Covid illness. It was like bomb for my body Iam still picking up pieces...
@Cubalibre-v6b
@Cubalibre-v6b 7 ай бұрын
I am so happy I found you! I got your book, I am getting appointments with a menopause specialist. I started intermittent fasting. I can see the light at the end of this sad tunnel call menopause. Thank you for educating and advocating for us !!
@justj69
@justj69 5 ай бұрын
Exercise, beet root, qoqu10 & magnesium
@robinowen3075
@robinowen3075 Жыл бұрын
At 60 my blood pressure was going up and so was my bad cholesterol. At 61 I started HRT. Blood pressure and cholesterol all went back to normal in 7 months. But still my uneducated OBGYN yells at me I’m gonna die of cancer.
@alabaster193
@alabaster193 Жыл бұрын
Wow. She yelled at you and said this? It's beyond unprofessional and inexcusable. You need a new doctor. I got a new primary care physician this spring and the woman said I was taking too much vitamin D and that it was going to kill me. Then she goes and forgets to add my D level to my blood test so I didn't even get my level. There are too many horrible doctors out there. Mine seems to act like she has dementia. I'm not even kidding.
@robinowen3075
@robinowen3075 Жыл бұрын
@@alabaster193 the problem is none of the OBGYNs in the Maryland area are taking new patients. The OB I’ve gone to for 38 years said I was no longer a patient because they hadn’t seen me in a year. And they have a year long wait for new patients. I called all other offices within a two hour drive. This one that yelled at me was the only one I could get into. Our medical system is completely broken.
@angelafahlenkamp9311
@angelafahlenkamp9311 Жыл бұрын
​@alabaster193 doctors are like lawyers...just because they passed a test doesn't mean they are qualified to do the job well 🫤
@nedamobasher8527
@nedamobasher8527 3 ай бұрын
That’s my issue. I have families with breast cancer. I tried HRT but I felt shooting pain in my breast so I stopped. I have high cholesterol and no option for HRT 😢
@CherrylJohnston
@CherrylJohnston Жыл бұрын
I don't have cardiovascular disease& was medically put into menopause at 32. Who to trust is my question
@5-es4mn
@5-es4mn 18 күн бұрын
The problems begin with the endless ignorance surrounding the differences between women and men. People, including doctors, simply ignore the thousands of differences between women and men and, at best, treat women like small men. At worst, extreme misogynists want women to suffer their entire lives. I address women - first and foremost, educate yourselves broadly on this topic. There are more than 8,000 differences between the sexes, in every aspect. Medicine and research have focused solely on men, not on women. By nature, women are supposed to live decades longer than men! Decades! Not three years. Women, by their very nature (and females of many other species as well), simply age much more slowly than males. This is something no one teaches you anywhere. If anything, you're taught misogynistic lies that are the opposite of reality. You are suffering from terrible stress, trauma (most of it made by Y chromosome), environmental poisoning (men made), and misogynistic ideologies (both left-wing and right-wing... because it’s unclear which is worse - progressive or Abrahamic misogyny). This disrupts your hormones, and you mistakenly believe that the problem lies within you. If society were matriarchal, you would see what women are truly capable of and how healthy you are meant to be naturally ( BTW women should look the same from 20 to 60 ...and the media show you 50 yo women who look 80!!!) The ignorance is so vast that people don’t even realize that women feel much more pain! Women have more pain receptors and a hormonal state that heightens pain sensitivity, while men have high testosterone levels that reduce all sensation of pain.
@alera520
@alera520 2 ай бұрын
This is great info thanks, 45 here and been in perimenopause since 38
@PurpleNurse
@PurpleNurse 13 күн бұрын
LOVE and APPRECIATE ALL U DO Dr. Haver!
@noimilnikel460
@noimilnikel460 4 ай бұрын
what options do you have if you’re unable to take HRT for cardiovascular health and the many other issues you described?🌈🤙🏽🙏🏻❤️🌺
@marymendez3500
@marymendez3500 4 ай бұрын
You are definitely my new doctor...
@elizabethmedina874
@elizabethmedina874 2 ай бұрын
TY & blessings for sharing your gift of knowledge which takes a lot of research and studying. I’m looking to learn more from your caring & sharing. Also sent it to my lovely daughters whom I hope will also appreciate ya. Suffering is not always by choice nonetheless even if by no choice we have a great protector, healer, and redeemer who can help 24/24 if called upon his powerful name or plead his blood on what ever it may & his name is Jesus Christ, amen,amen,&amen. Although I may and do pray consistently upon what ever the suffering may be he never fails me. 60 + years am looking to whatever more he wills above all my ever lasting life above for ever free any sufferings, amen, amen, & amen.
@kingdom_journey1484
@kingdom_journey1484 Ай бұрын
Greetings I pray this message finds you well. Amen! Your comment really blessed me and I'm thankful you shared. I suffer from chronic hormonal headaches. Despite how I feel and what I go through I make sure I continue to give praises and thanks to the Most High God and call on Him through our Messiah.
@Ilovemyhubby77
@Ilovemyhubby77 4 ай бұрын
I am 42 and had a hysterectomy about 8 years ago… when I was 40 I ended up in icu and had a cardiac ablation… weight gain, hair loss, facial hair… energy depleted, mood swings.. I need help!
@ladylavie3067
@ladylavie3067 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Mary. I love your videos!! I just bought your book the Galveston diet and love it!! I love the recipes. I have tweaked some to adapt to my no red meat lifestyle. As far as cardiovascular disease, I already have been practicing a high fiber lifestyle. The hardest part for me to be disciplined with is the cravings just before my period. I am in perimenopause.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 ай бұрын
Wish there was more discussion about POST menopause issues and needs
@AMDG_-nk2dp
@AMDG_-nk2dp Ай бұрын
Please educate our MDs about this doctor !!!!!
@cat96949
@cat96949 27 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this info.
@TeresaFellion
@TeresaFellion 2 ай бұрын
What are the things we can do to attenuate the risk of cardiovascular issues if we have early menopause?
@le_th_
@le_th_ Жыл бұрын
Polite distinction. Suffering is a part of life. That's a fact. It is going to happen, at some point, in everyone's life. That said, suffering over aging isn't requisite, but it is also fairly common, unfortunately.
@SonyaOtt
@SonyaOtt 4 ай бұрын
You look amazing! Inspires me to get healthier and stronger and I am on my way!!!🎉
@angelaunderwood7660
@angelaunderwood7660 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this!!! I’ve noticed a difference in my heat the past couple of years &! I’m glad to know that I can do things to help it!
@emilysmith138
@emilysmith138 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and being an advocate for us menopausal women before after and during. You are Amazing!!!❤
@amiegoetz3019
@amiegoetz3019 4 ай бұрын
Never stop educating us❤❤❤❤thank you
@deannabanana1983
@deannabanana1983 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! I am so so frustrated by my inability to lose weight - I eat a Mediterranean diet, I focus on hitting my protein goals, I work and incredibly physically demanding job (fitbit records 120-180 active minutes in a shift), and an active life (two kids under 3), and it seems like nothing I do will take me down even 10 lbs. At 41 I’ve just realized all of the things I’ve been struggling with the past few years are perimenopause - I’m so scared, as someone with PMDD I feel like it’s going to be brutal.
@kathynolet4480
@kathynolet4480 Жыл бұрын
I just went threw covid for the first time. My hot flases actually helped me I really think sweating helped me get that crud out
@PneumaNoose
@PneumaNoose 2 ай бұрын
What are the things! I think I’m going through early perimenopause and I’ve been having PVCs and atrial flutters for years already! 😫
@tammy-vc3tz
@tammy-vc3tz Жыл бұрын
Thank you doctor. I appreciate your knowledge and your ability to educate others! ❤️ Love this!
@bh9575
@bh9575 2 ай бұрын
What medication/vitamins do you suggest for a woman in perimenopause? I am so tired all the time.
@shireenhendricks2194
@shireenhendricks2194 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr for great advice 🎉
@brookieTx
@brookieTx Ай бұрын
I am suffering 😢 I am only 43 yrs old and I am in peri menopause and my symptoms are off the charts intense. I am so tired of feeling this way ☹️
@fayeoconnor8985
@fayeoconnor8985 4 ай бұрын
Hi! Specifically, what are these things that we can do to attenuate these cardiovascular risks that are tied to menopause (particularly early menopause). Asking as a 40 year old a year into peri-menopause. ☺️ I'm on birth control, but I'm wondering if this could be increasing my risk of cardiovascular disease...
@user-dr4jo5ik6y
@user-dr4jo5ik6y Жыл бұрын
Ok, what do we do if we go through menopause early?
@sophiecanadesheher1927
@sophiecanadesheher1927 4 ай бұрын
What are the things? I want to attenuate my risk for cardio vascular issues!
@thebluesgotchya
@thebluesgotchya 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for doing this for us ❤❤
@michelleahrens3359
@michelleahrens3359 Жыл бұрын
Wish you wee my Doctor thankyou for sharing your experience and knowledge with us.......good life 😊❤
@bbag7378
@bbag7378 4 ай бұрын
I started HRT I’m so excited to be able to share that I’m even more alive than I used to be here there and every where. 🤩
@LexieAngelDog
@LexieAngelDog 4 ай бұрын
Here, There and Everywhere...my favourite Beatles song!❤
@JuliaJag-l4e
@JuliaJag-l4e 2 күн бұрын
Though....growing old is not for the faint of heart. I was 63 when I finally could claim my year no period. Also thyroid patient. Starting in my late 40s autoimmune. perimenopause PMS around a year irregular heart...started period it stopped .. then around two years before menopause I got stuck in a fib. Lipids fine AIC fine. A fib is bad many cardioversions one ablation 30 days only reg rhythm. Stuck in it now. Zero SARS too.
@veryluckybid
@veryluckybid 5 ай бұрын
What does it mean that your weight is not an indicator of your health? Does it mean u can be overweight and still be healthy? I thought being overweight put u at risk for almost all diseases for all ages. Pls elaborate
@shahidasiddiqui7940
@shahidasiddiqui7940 Жыл бұрын
I n 57 Post Menopause with osteoporosis n Penutian as well thinking of taking Estrogen supplements 😊
@spaghettieggplantsauce8533
@spaghettieggplantsauce8533 2 ай бұрын
Doctor, the caption and the verbal information is inconsistent, please help to re-check in order to be more clear. Thank you!
@wandaboyle3745
@wandaboyle3745 3 ай бұрын
I have learned so much from you thank you so much
@sofiasa9989
@sofiasa9989 4 ай бұрын
And what are those things?? 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@starseed39
@starseed39 Жыл бұрын
We absolutely have to suffer when we have no money to pay for all of these supplements and doctor bills. I can't take the sticker shock anymore.
@Pinkyredz300
@Pinkyredz300 Ай бұрын
I wish I had you as my doctor
@belle4731
@belle4731 Жыл бұрын
Omg. Such great info!!!! And I love all her vitamins which I do order and are great
@heidirubin3773
@heidirubin3773 5 ай бұрын
Always looking beautiful!
@cl7241
@cl7241 Жыл бұрын
What is young? I’m 54 and just starting to skip periods.
@Heidi-y1d
@Heidi-y1d Жыл бұрын
I'm almost 55 and still haven't!!
@Msgreen-q4s
@Msgreen-q4s 4 ай бұрын
I'm 57 I still have it Ben 7. Years so far
@texanlady1387
@texanlady1387 4 ай бұрын
I am 55 and just stopped 8 months ago. 😊
@KolohesMama9
@KolohesMama9 4 ай бұрын
Forgot to mention, I was told my heart was injured at the bottom? They don't know how that would happen! Same clinic In SWWA
@texanlady1387
@texanlady1387 4 ай бұрын
What I need to do to make an appointment to see you! Having a lot of health issues related to menopause! Thanks.
@KarawithaK
@KarawithaK Ай бұрын
How can I find a doctor in Albuquerque New Mexico that will prescribe what I need? My doctor thinks I shouldn’t be on estrogen only progesterone and I’m 44 in perimenopause now. The symptoms just hit me like a freight train this summer.
@michellemartinov6267
@michellemartinov6267 19 күн бұрын
I’ve a stupid question. I don’t think I went through menopause until 61. Is this possible? I have endometrial ablation at age 38 so had no more periods after that - yes what a godsend that was! But based on symptoms I think I hit that last step at 61. I’m now 62. I never really had any hot flashes or night sweats. At 61 I did experience depression, sleep disturbances different than my normal (think worked night shifts for decades so yo-yo sleeping going days fm nights back and forth), loss of sexual interest, weight gain, carb cravings, inability to loose weight, exhaustion, poor pain control (already have chronic severe joint pain x 25 years, multiple orthopedic surgeries).
@sabakhan7347
@sabakhan7347 Жыл бұрын
Doctor! My mom is in her 60s, post menopause she started having pain in her feet. Could this be realted to some hormone? Or any specific mineral or vitamin deficiency?
@anon6116
@anon6116 3 күн бұрын
Does it follow that conversely the later you go into menopause the less cardiovascular risk you’ll have? What would be the average age for both types? So many questions now.
@sbdsinc8366
@sbdsinc8366 3 ай бұрын
What are the things to attenuate cardio vascular risk?
@jenniferbooth2624
@jenniferbooth2624 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@nathaliyacortez6142
@nathaliyacortez6142 2 ай бұрын
What help are you talking about please? 🙏🤗🙏
@ml07
@ml07 2 ай бұрын
Im late to the party but is there a video about the 3 tip? It’s new to me and I’d like to know how I can stay as far from it as possible
@m.taylor
@m.taylor 3 ай бұрын
I wish they had taught primary care doctors more of this and taught them to educate women patients early on in life, or even better PCP doctors should ensure all woman patients have a gyne doc to inform them of these matters early on.
@sabrinabravo6206
@sabrinabravo6206 Жыл бұрын
I am 42 years old and have been separator menopause for about 3 years now. I went to the doctor and she literally berated me for my weight I told her I get about 15k steps a day and I do not eat anything over 1500 calories a day. I walk every day. She literally told me I was lying and would not help me. She said I was too young to even be considering menopause. I don't know what to do.
@reesacohen1792
@reesacohen1792 Жыл бұрын
Sorry that’s so frustrating. It work better for you to speak to a dietitian. That’s my next step.
@LiliBee24
@LiliBee24 Жыл бұрын
I would change dr, look for someone to connect with and who is interested in helping you.
@ylive5169
@ylive5169 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that 😔 My former Dr berated me as well. That is NOT PROFESSIONAL, to say the least! I found a new doctor - she was so compassionate and empathetic! Due to severe anemia, I had to have a hysterectomy, which she performed. I am so grateful to her for surviving the ordeal. Go back to your insurance and discuss your concerns; then start researching the list of contracted OB-Gyns. I pray your diligence will find you a compassionate and competent doctor 🙏🏽
@lisascarrott6142
@lisascarrott6142 Жыл бұрын
get a second opinion from the doctor my mum and both my aunts went through theirs at in mid 30s some female or male doctors dont know what they are talking about im going through mine it is horrible never take their first opinion
@lisascarrott6142
@lisascarrott6142 Жыл бұрын
your never to young my hot flushes started when i was in my late 20s early 30s im sorry you never had a understanding doctor i would switch gp and find a more understanding one ❤
@sassyfrassy211
@sassyfrassy211 Жыл бұрын
I’m 37 and looking to get a hysterectomy. It’s the only thing I can find to potentially be in less pain. I’ve had two sets of PEs so hormones are mostly off of the table.
@carliebeau5329
@carliebeau5329 Жыл бұрын
53 still going. Ugh. Stabbing breat pain. Can't keep a tampon in for less the ln an hour. Im suffering 😔 so debunking your positive vibes. 😅
@whyme_
@whyme_ 5 ай бұрын
How do you keep underarm non pigmented
@Amaje311
@Amaje311 4 ай бұрын
Wish I knew this when I went through menopause in my 30's then had a heart attack before I was 50.
@gnnauss
@gnnauss Ай бұрын
What can I do to prevent the cardio stuff. I went through menopause early
@sheilaemadian
@sheilaemadian Ай бұрын
I hit peri at age 36/37. I think by 46/47 I will be through with it. This kind of scared me that I will have heart problems now.
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