3 Ways to Know You're Not Ready for a Girlfriend

[@fletcheyuk]

I just found your channel. 22 years old and recently got out of a three year relationship. Your content has really helped me a lot. Thanks for the great advice.

[@clay7444]

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[@AnonymousSuperTuber]

I'm 21 and out of my first relationship, lasted almost 2 years. It ended months ago but I'm still feeling it. I'm seriously anxious and depressed right now.

[@AussieKoreanful]

same bros, 22 and 3 year relationship hahah. All I know is that best thing to do now is to focus on yourself, gym like a beast, and go hard with studies/career.

[@tommykaira8775]

This channel is gold

[@malcolmnicoll1165]

Thanks, Steve. Some of the most sane relationship advice I've heard in a long time. So true. Every word. Like the old song reminds us" Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places." If you don't love yourself, what's the use of someone else loving you? It all boils down to loving yourself first.

[@DiegoPereyra]

I realy like the tone of your videos, and how you talk about the isues, very clear, strong, to the point, very soothing too, specially when there`s pain. Thanks for your effort and work. Have a great day Sr.

[@xenothonstelnicki597]

Wise content. Reading some of the comments in this thread it is MUCH NEEDED, too.

[@Fourth4Element]

You're a very wise soul. Great advice ☺

[@quanaramirasherman]

This is helpful for women too! Thank you. Love your videos.

[@MrSdsok]

Quana Ramira This is not a channel for women and it's rude to intervene in men's space

[@quanaramirasherman]

MrSdsok Really? Wow! I didn't know that! I am sure Steve would disagree. As far as I know, youtube is a free space for everyone. I also have not heard Steve say "I don't want women to listen to this." In fact, since typically more women listen to this kind of material than men do on average, consider that a woman such as myself, will tell my boyfriend about this channel, and he might watch it and it might help him. And, I might share this video and tell other folks about this channel, helping others and helping the channel grow. I am certain Steve would appreciate that. Don't you want this channel to grow? Additionally, if you look around youtube, there are plenty of channels geared toward women where men watch the videos and post comments. When you think about it, a confident man who is ok with himself would not be threatened by me leaving a comment. Especially one as supportive and postive as the one I left! I didn't say anything bad about men in my comment. Also, I might be listening to this because I happen love and care about men, so perhaps I will learn something about what's important to men. This is about invclusivity, sir, not exclusivity. Ultimately men and women have to work TOGETHER to make things better. With all due respect, sounds like you might not be ready for a girlfriend! Have a good one. ☺

[@Lyricist1anda2]

I agree this is helpful to women too, not only to turn around and apply it to my own life and relationships, but to know what's going on with the divine masculine in his way of thinking which I had previously been ignorant about.

[@jenseeraqjensen]

Wish my girlfriend had seen this video and given me the heads-up instead of just leaving me. :'( Thank you for listening to Steve :)

[@leondesaintaubyn3319]

Quana Ramira ha ha ha You Sure Gave The Man Cave boy Both barrels , haven't You My Dear . Beautifully Godlike Creature And Lady Well Spoken , Non Insulting Even to those that deserve to be Scorned A Girl With the Natural Heart Of GOD Ps,,,, Information is For both Sexes I Wouldn't Waste Such Intellectual Power On thinking And writing to Such Riff Raf , Blind Morons . Kind Regards from Ireland 🍀

[@andjelohalilovic8894]

Keep up the good work sir.

[@humbertoflores2545]

I just found your channel today and I became a suscriptor.., very helpful advices, regards from Lima, Perú.

[@CreativeCat333]

I am in Colorado too. I wish I would see you personally.

[@Goodguys2Greatmen]

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[@mohitkothiyal3481]

Valuable thoughts

[@mescnick]

Thank you man.

[@RodRecaps]

Thank you

[@MrSivansuresh]

Wow! amazing.

[@knowthyself5604]

I Agree👍

[@MikiMaki76]

you are right in principle, but then, why someone would want a girlfriend/wife if he is happy and fulfilled? it's a contradiction. relations are by definition the search for something that is missing in oneself. be it sex, companionship or whatever else, it's a self deception to think that I am ok as I am and then look for a girl.

[@Goodguys2Greatmen]

The distinction is between "what is missing in oneself" vs "what is missing in one's LIFE". Only when we are whole (happy, independent, self-reliant) can we be in a healthy romantic, sexual, or friendly relationship. That is where true generosity, outcome independence, unconditional love and open hearted vulnerability is possible. The trick is finding a partner who is also healthy and shares your values. Sex may be missing from one's life - but having sex can't make them whole as a person.

[@MikiMaki76]

Steve Horsmon thanks for the answer, I will have to ponder on that. I think that "finding a partner who is also healthy and shares your values" is very tricky, when a person is healthy, whole and mature, to the point that's better to contemplate the possibility of not finding such a person ever...

[@ad-oi3hf]

I thought I didn't want to be with my ex bu wen she left me I realised she was d one that wud always be tere with everything cos you've alot of fake mates

[@ussenterprise5364]

Colorado 👍👍😎

[@totoschannel7644]

Omg man why u that fcin right? :D u speak about my actual life.... omg that hurts

[@bekabeka71]

I'm 23 and single fuck it

[@johndawhale3197]

Congratulations bro. Now go get laid.

[@psiinc]

Focus on self improvement while working hard and being happy alone. When the time is right, you’ll naturally attract another heathy and cool positive match.

[@sometimesreviewsandthinkin5056]

Good advice I am defnot ready🖕💪🏻

[@helenahedgetrimming1818]

It's not about being "ready"...

[@neshifuturo]

man and You are ready ? :D

[@iagols]

Are you a horsetrainer, man?

[@Goodguys2Greatmen]

Yeah I’ve done some training. You?

[@iagols]

I'm training to be one. I have trained reining horse in my country. Congratulations from Brazil!