30 things I learnt at 30

[@donleamon8653]

30 was 20 years ago. I've forgotten what I learned! ;-) 40 was the tuff nut for me. 50, fuck it. I think the older you get the less concerned you are with just crap in general. (like what others' think) Sent my 15 year old daughter your channel link last night. I'm curious to see what her impression is. I was a tad bit on the fence about it, but your content is so spot on! Even for us in 'Merica. ;-)~

[@CandiedCupcakes]

Love your message!

[@donleamon8653]

+ Jenn, Thanks, I really like what Emily puts out. Good and funny stuff. And accurate too.

[@JoaquimGonsalves]

Don Leamon you sir are the best! far better than letting your kid watch a Fergie video. proud of you!

[@JoaquimGonsalves]

LoveEvenWithABrokenHeart John Doe aahh my bad on the addoct part then. had no clue. recovering addict myself here.

[@lakemichigan6598]

Don Leamon It's all about acquiring stuff when you're young and it becomes trying to get rid of it at a decent price when you're old.

[@bryanbreuninger8320]

I can't wait till you do your " things I learned at 40" video ! Should be fun! I learned not to take life and finances too seriously , I used to value going out to pubs and flirting up the ladies, now more like " have I been out too long?" Do my dogs miss me? Am I missing a good show on tv? Or my favorite " I could be drinking this at home for 1/3 the price they charge here!"

[@killadog84]

You seem a lot happier. Good for you, I really mean that.

[@emilyhart]

Thank you :) x

[@dan4030]

30? Oops.. I thought you were hitting 40 soon.

[@dan4030]

KIDDING! you haven't changed much in the last 6 years(watched some earlier vids after my mean comment which I now regret but can't delete it or this one will be weird) You still look great! Enjoy your 30s... It's less of a rollercoaster.

[@lakemichigan6598]

Why is she still single? Well, that's obvious isn't it? Very difficult to find her equal and impossible to find her superior.

[@lakemichigan6598]

Inky She's quite impressive - smart, interesting, eclectic, and funny but I'm absolutely not pining for anything here. Only a fool would think this or ANY kind of comment in this medium might elicit some kind of real connection. What I wrote wasn't a plea for a response nor did I expect or want one. This was merely a personal opinion/observation - and that's all it was.

[@donaldcordner1936]

"So don't focus on the things that you thought you'd have but don't. Focus on the amazing things you do have right now." Powerful words Emily. I'm trying to do that these days, but admittedly, I'm struggling in this area. Perhaps it's compounded by the fact that, for me, "30" was 17 more years ago than for you. But, the way in which you said it ... was uplifting. So. thanks for that. Have a great day.

[@willclouded]

First video i saw of yours since I'm in my 30s Rest In Peace Emily

[@IchibanMoto]

30 was a great age to start thinking about others.... bye bye selfish 20's

[@beingsarahw]

You know more than me and I'm 10 years older! You've educated me Emily xxx

[@emilyhart]

:) xx

[@clevelandmaker7044]

Mary Bailey im not a creep.....im a good guy that she should be dating!

[@mcpartridgeboy]

really ? my god shame on you, FFS, if you want to get educted dont go on this trivia, you need to learn shakespeare,nietzsche, karl marx, learn plaotes republic, especially the line theory and the cave theory, you need to learn basic science, politics, debate, never watch anything but ddocumentries, learn chess, theres loads of channels just look at my subsription list, seriously there are people to learn from and things to watch because your a bit bored, this comes very much under the latter, dont get educated from this trivia ! if you do , you will never be smart, whats your IQ ?, have you been to uni , if so did you get a phd and in what ? whats your knowledge of nuclear reactor engineering ? whats your favorite ts eliot poem ? seriously, if you want to get educted good for you, but dont go anywere near here.

[@henrydowes893]

_Cleveland Maker_ Hey buddy don't let anybody manipulate your mind and soul. Be yourself. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

[@AndrewGulickTrueVitalityPlus]

well, I guess it depends on what your learning.

[@lendondain1]

You're awesome, and the great thing is that you're realizing you're awesome. That's an equation that equals future happiness. Congrats, Em. Not everyone gets that level of self-awareness in life. I hope you absolutely adore every moment of it.

[@Jamais08]

This is the old Emily

[@grahamp4384]

The more things change, the more they stay the same. Wisdom found through age means you realise that dreams and priorities remain, it's just their focus and perceived importance that shifts. Or something else equally profound and hippy sounding. Nice vid Emily.

[@tyronevalentine1739]

Once again, "speaking words of wisdom". So true. When I turned 30, I was nowhere near as insightful as you are. What I recall most was confusion, peer pressure, self-consciousness, career disappointment/stress, and frustration at not having been able to find the girlfriend of my dreams (and fantasies) and have a mutually enriching, serious, long-term intimate relationship (and potential marriage).

Good vid EM. I just came out of a 5-6y relationship and your vids have helped me in a therapeutic way. Turning 29 this year and as a male i find myself a bit stressed about a lot of stuff. But even vids from old you might have "copy pasted" has helped me reflecting on where and who i am. Thank you EM continue with the great work. Best regards from Norway

[@thomas.alexander.]

I'm 47 and I enjoyed that. I think I was unable to stop comparing myself to others at 30 and once you let that shit go and be happy for all the things you have, and have achieved, grey clouds really do become blue skies :)

[@bulletbex]

Hi Em showed your video to my folks about getting through my anxiety and they now get it. I'm glad to see a light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks Em it really helped

[@JeffDS3]

I learned being 30 isn't as scary as I thought it would be.

[@sjent]

Good points, most of them. 8) Yawn is actually sign of interest, as brain needs additional air cooling to keep temperature down for processing information, eg at least youre trying to be interested. Exercise gets harder because body functionality decreases(same with alcohol, hangovers becoming more brutal as well). In 20s its couple of days to recover, in 30s it can take 3-4+ easy . *sigh* Men are weird ?!?! Look, whos talking. 8) And goals and knowing what you want... go get em, girl ! Personal view - maturity consists of two things: having your own informed opinion, instead of relying on opinions of others and being willing to take responsibility for your own life, instead of letting others to dictate it for you. Rest is just bullshit. One of keypoints of what i learned by the time i hit 30 is that people fear people. We fear anything we dont understand in general, but this is actually useful. Once you realized(and actually accept) that they fear you as much as you fear them, you stop being afraid, as information is power. Another thing is that there is no point in dwelling in the past. Yeah, would be nice to do thins and this and this and this differently. But then again, if you did all those things differently, your life would be different and you would feel sorry for a whole another pile of events. Perfection is a myth. Learn from past, live in the present and look into the future.

[@dummyregister]

I learnt at thirty that being nice is more productive even when life/people give you lemons

[@stevetaylor1312]

Your honesty, humour, insights and self-analysis crack me up. You have a wonderful way of expressing yourself and it cheers me up. thank you.

[@j.j.j4859]

And when you're 40, you won't believe how goofy you were at 30! You're GREAT Em, and getting better every day!

[@unclefester9265]

No 40 for her.

[@barbarasena7514]

that video was really inspiring to me!! specially the part when you said that things arent always according to plans and its ok. I'm in this phase right now and its a bit scary not to achieve what you've planned years before...

[@cosmonott1]

Emily, the best thing about you is you.

[@ki11a]

I LOVED THIS ONE.. 27 now and the dreaded 30 is almost here, nothing i planned ever goes to plan days or even minutes later... much less when i was 15! keep up the wkd content Emily x

[@Metalpazallteway]

I'm not 30 I'm 25. Although, I must say I have learned half of things you've reviewed in the video. Still living with my siblings, have already graduated from the university, still trying to understand life not so much from the intimate aspect to the logical end of things has been tedious. One, my parents are a bit hard headed and provincial. I've learned that even when you do in fact listen to your parents you don't exactly find success as opposed to taking risks and actually growing? On the other hand, I've learned a thing or two about saving up. I have never had an actual part time but through having a large extended family, I have managed to save up and I can actually by a used or new car. I've also learned that making sacrifices for your siblings doesn't always bring a rewarding outcome in ones life, especially when I've received the short end of the stick for the passed 6 yrs. I've also learned that happiness is found and accepted within, regardless of religion, people you meet and experiences. I've also learned that finding the one for you is harder then one thinks because getting to know one person takes an actual lifetime (including oneself lol) so it technically is a suicide mission to accept that vague reality. So, I've also learned staying single is loads of fun. Although sometimes I do want a pet.

[@Ade2bee]

Love ladies who let me know what they want, it would be like force feeding someone food they hate other wise ... keep up the good work

[@cmclaybird214]

I'm about to be 30 and I'm working on my masters in engineering, going in the navy and learning the fine art of driftcar racing. life goals yo. I just recently discovered your channel and I like it ,keep going and hopefully one day I will see you on travel channel touring the world. I can't wait to get out of America and go see the rest of the world.

[@kirk1363]

Seek balance: fitness - finance - family - friends - faith, keep these five things in balance and you will always be right where you should be. Don't get hung up on the faith bit - it is having values and beliefs that center you, what you do and how you do it. I heard the same things in your video spread over your 30 items.

[@zaineridling]

OMG, story of my life! I'm not interested in anything that lasts more than two hours, and I respond to most fits of anger with the thought: "Life's too short." (I hope you'll do this same topic every year or five.) 😄💘

[@donnalynne1813]

I learned at 30 that "adult asthma" is not a real diagnosis. Sometimes those breathing disorders that come on suddenly and hospitalize you are temporary. Just move out of that pollution and start life again and most importantly do not use your new inhalers every other hour or whatever. Why do nurses make us think we need to accept a life sentence commitment to a new problem? I tried my best to admit that I knew it was a condition that would one day pass. Hospitals are great for the ER to help and all and of course I had to go and spend the night bc I could not breathe anymore. Yet today I am 20 + years older and never needed those inhalers once I moved out of the polluted city. Take the advice of the doctor sure and then expand on it by using good judgement or intuition. They made me sign up for Adult Asthma classes before they allowed me to leave my bed and go home. Oh, and the treatment inhaler mask they make you wear will tire you out by speeding up your heart rate to like 200 cups worth of coffee and then they hand you a clipboard to sign forms and you won't be able to control your jitters. You will vomit hours later from the mask, trust me, the medicine goes into your sinus and brain and it's all you can taste or think about. On an empty stomach all night, it was sheer misery to smell that funk and I finally vomited it all when I got home. Hey I love your take on things Emily and thanks for your webpages. I really laugh and agree with ya! What a fun bunch of people to get involved with. Makes being a Brit look so fun!!!

[@2naturesownplace]

@ age 30 ( so so long ago ) I actually remembered early knowledge. 1: Be humble, always be humble. 2: Those that wrong you, just burn the bridge and move on. 3: Everything happens for a reason, everything. The fun is trying to make it to the end to see why!

[@Rick_Cleland]

I've done nothing and I'm thirty-two. Although I do some Artwork if you want to have a look at my Google+, people say I should sell them. I am also single and stuck taking Prozac. But, things could always be worse, plus, an asteroid could wipe us all out tomorrow.

[@Prashant123471]

didn't even realize u were 30 till this video...u really look your in your early 20s ...keep working hard and do make videos like this..love them alot

[@emilyhart]

aahh thanks! That's the BEST thing you could have said to me

[@aditorium1]

We don't text back right away. To make you think we have...you know....like stuff going on

[@1978jimmyc]

Who says its just guys who don't text back, I have a few gal pals who are THE WORST for not replying.

[@webuser2014]

Well it would feel kind of awkward if the man instantly replies, but the girl doesn't ...also its like you are pushing the girl to answer immediatly too....so its better to wait a few hours, so the girl feels comfort in taking time to answer....not that i know, since they never anwser back xD

[@willythemailboy2]

Because texting back immediately reeks of desperation, unless you're actively having a conversation via text.

[@mcpartridgeboy]

Loveeven, are you a woman ? it sounds a bit like you are with these lies, see women hate men who text back instantly yes they will all lie and pretend not so they look good at the expense of their male friend being single possibly forever ! let me guess you just want a nice guy but somehow always end up with the abusive guy, having nailed lots of abusive men miraculously just as you get too old to attract the abusive ones, suddenly nice guys dont finish last because you married one rght ? nice guys win right ? text back imediatly right ? what else is there, be sesaitve and show her you really care right ? erm tret her well right ? isnt it strange how all women say this terrable advice that does genuinly ruin lives, then its these very women that get abusive when men act like assholes to get women, and it works ! ahahah you literally ruin good mens lives while helping out every woman beater, then you abuse the living shit out of the nice guy who is frustrated, let me guess, that guy isnt really nice ? , he is entitled because he thinks he is owed sex for being nice ? while the arroangt piece of shit thinks he is owed sex for being bad mannered and arrogantAND GETS IT, let me guess someone will come along for the nice guy , let me guesss all women arent the same, sure you always end up with the asshole but plenty of other women like the nice guy ? !!! hahaaha you really are filth arent you, if you knew the pain and misery of all these lies maybe just maybe you would stop and think and begin to tell the truth, but sadly you definatly wownt and youl contien to ruin good mens lives because of your own selfishness ! ! WELL DONE WOMEN

[@mcpartridgeboy]

Inky you MUST be a woman, whats fun is a a woman, you just simply cannot tell the truth listen to you as you squrim and even lie to yourself, NO obviously being nice isnt being angry and hatefull, why do women always say this evil nasty shit, instead of saying women dont like nice men because they obviously dont OBVIOUSLY, google backs me uo here as well as reality, women just will not tell the truth, they would rather say the most idiotic see through lies to avoid it , the lastest trend that literally all women say is oh nice men arent nice thats why we dont like nice men, and we are supposed to believe that ? really ? so me being nice and listening to women means im not nice is that your proposa ? can you see how this makes good men full of uncontrolable rage ? so heres me im nice i never got a woman while rapists got women while murderes get women while child killers got women and now your saying its because im not nice because i was nice ~? can you see how as a man it sounds like your having your cake and eatign it ? so those evil abusive men that all got women were really nice and me being nice was nasty ? come on this isnt realistic, its madness , you cant seriously think thats an acceptable answer , and if it was are you then admitting that all women lied to me when they said they wanted nice, my entire life was based on a lie that all women said because after all if they said be nice and being nice was evil then all women lied to me right ? so all those women telling me to be nice were telling me that this is going to be percieved as angry hatefull week and desperate ? wow , so all women were lying to me ? and thats why ive been single forever up to age of nearly 40 while all theoverconfident abusive men were seen as the real nice guys ? THANKS WOMEN, THAT LIE DESTORYED MINE AND EVERY OTHER NICE GUYS LIFE, , can you now tell me why i was lied to so brutally, and why i was punished wituh a life of pain misery and frustration that you literally cannot contomplate, just because i wanted to be kind and loyal to a woman and be a loving boyfriend ? wow man women really are the fucking scum of the earth, they tell good men to be nice so they can be percieved as not only evil nasty and hatefull but als desperate and week, THANKS WOMEN, so what your telling me is all the nicest guys are evil and weak, and all women say they want a nice guy, well THANKS WOMEN, , you punished me so badly because i was nice oh sorry i mean when im nice inm evil ! my god, what fills me with rage so much so that i cant focus anymore is that womens lies havent destryoed womens lives you still get all your abusive child murdering boyfriends, the child killeds and abusive men still get all their women cuzz they are the real nice guys, and kind honest loving loyal caring men get shat on by all women told they are the really evil ones and left for dead ! THANKS WOMEN ! !

[@Coasterr200145]

I can not recall what I learned at 30 (as I am somewhat past that point) but I can tell you that getting older is good. Stay healthy and things get better and better.

[@tinplategeek1058]

30 is a different country for me. At that time, had little kids running around, high pressure job, life was so hectic that I never had time to think about how my life had changed.

[@sorooshusa]

I just turned 30 and here is what i realized. it gets too late, too soon. That was the truth, the reality, a fact, though negative. If you want a more positive one, think of it this way, hurtful surprises from when you were younger, like a closure to a relationship, or being cheated on, or the girl you have feelings for just doesnt feel the same, or she leaves you for reasons she only understands, etc etc ... are just surprises now. (aka not hurtful as much). so yeah, at least those life events spot tasting bitter, or you are grown more tolerant. This is inherently and naturally a good thing though sad. idk which one of the below is worse: 1) to see a relationship die 2) to not care if a relationship died

[@stevenwest3555]

Rip beautiful lady . Xx

[@nirmalshukla4132]

Very inspirational. Especially the last point regarding achievement. Recently taught myself how to cut my hair at home.

[@carlporter]

I remember 8/24/98. I turned 30 a couple days after arriving to Beijing to teach: my new employer prepared a cake and everything. I'd been teaching for 3 years, but that was my first full-time contract: 300 USD a month and the money was plenty for me. I divorced 2 years later. I learned not to be married to someone who treated me poorly. Kindness is key as you said. I didn't want to be treated like a dog all my life.

[@christophe_atx]

At 30 I thought everything was going to kill me. Weird heart beat was a heart attack, any cold was bird flu, aches meant cancer and forgetting anything was Alzheimer's. All of my male friends seemed to go thru the same thing but we didn't talk to each other till we were about 32. It was just fear in silence. One other thing. Earlier in life I spoke to a Dr about being too wound up. He gave me a prescription for a medication some use as an antidepressant. I filled it the same day, took one and started back to work. Then the world closed in on me, everything was wrong and it was all I could do not to end it all by driving into oncoming traffic. I spoke to the Dr the next day, cut the dose in half, took it for 6 months and worked on the change I wanted to make then stopped the meds. I still can't believe they turn anyone loose with meds like that. Luckily I had drank and smoked pot before so I could differentiate that the thoughts were from the meds not me and rode it out.

[@henrydowes893]

Emily, by 30 I found out the secret of good health that your health depends on what you eat. "You are what you eat", Paul Bragg used to say. His book "The Miracle of fasting" changed my life. This knowledge is so important, I'm still grateful to the old woman (now she's late) that she taught me that.

[@alexwolfe3419]

I learned ... That naps are essential. That people need to earn my trust. That sometimes it's okay to be alone. That laughter really IS the best medicine.

[@thuthuka1181]

well done the channel is growing again!!!!

[@emilyhart]

wahooooo

[@MikeyReadman]

+Emily Hart Your voice is annoying as Hell, which is where you're headed with your right eye covered sellout witch!

[@breshonjaemoore5522]

f you

[@JJ-bo4ir]

I gonna so so so fucking miss seeing Emily doing you tube vlogs 😢 R.I.P Emily

[@joeyoliver579]

My Life Lessons Learned... One: You have to be happy with yourself first (otherwise you'll never be happy with anything) Two: Don't be one of societies sheep (use your mind, think for yourself) Three: There is more to life than pubs and alcohol (get outside your comfort zone and LIVE your life)

[@writeadventurejulia1295]

Joey Oliver I like this one!

[@billdelahunt2850]

Working in the service industry is character building. God that is so well said.

[@vollyman1962]

Things I've learned: 1. The older I get the easier it is to get injured from doing things my body can no longer handle. For example - no more playing aggressive volleyball like I did when I was in my 20s. (Going for digs and eating the floor with my knees...) 2. It's ok to ask for help. Just ask from those you trust. 3. It isn't a big deal not getting that invite to the event that others are going to. 4. Other people can't make me happy. Only I can do that. 5. The real reason I was envious of successful people was I was afraid to try to succeed for I was terrified of failing. Fuck that! I'm now of the mindset - nothing ventured, nothing gained. I want to gain!!! 6. The world does NOT owe me anything. It only cares about what it can get from me. 7. When it comes to friends - I'm interested in a person's character, not the gender.

[@sheryar4598]

Ever since I found your channel it's addictive and I'm first here haha

[@emilyhart]

Sheryar ahhh thanks xxx

[@henrydowes893]

Sheryar_ Yeah that's true cos when i've seen this channel for the first time my only wish was to immediately unsubscribe. Then, I put my wish off for another, another and another time, and so half a year passed. It's amazing what she's doing to us !

[@amarijayamari]

... yes- the little words... "thank you" can go a long way and it's so easy to say. Thank you for the vid.

[@RichardGillard321]

Nice one, Emily! You're absolutely right about the medication. I'm bipolar. If I had taken the Lithium, which I was once prescribed for to "enable me to deal with that condition"' I would be a mere shadow of the person I currently am. Medication is good for Big Pharma and the people who have shares in it. It is often not all that good for the people who are being medicated. I like your attitude to haters, too. I'm referring to point 24, "Life continues to feel like school at thirty ..." As you say, the haters will always be around. After a certain age it becomes much easier to ignore them. This is, in part, because it becomes increasingly apparent that the people doing the hating are usually the people with the problem. For example, people who have never made a success of anything in their entire lives will be the first to lash out at those who have.

[@Jarski225]

You're getting it more right than wrong, what more could you ask for

[@DoingaNewThing]

waiting in lines is the same wherever you are and whatever you're waiting for...so it's best to make friends

[@stuff7250]

YES! I'm nearly 31 (or 30 again, which is now my age for as long as I can get away with lying about it) and everything on this list is so spot on. particularly the makeup and candles

[@michaelterry1000]

30 was a long time ago for me but here is what I remember. I remember realizing at age 32 that if I kept on drinking I was about 10 years away from an intervention. So I stopped. That was 22 years ago and even though I know it was the right decision, I still often miss the sensation of being drunk.

[@guitarnut97]

Despite your penchant for swearing, I find you so adorable 😍

[@jennalouiserodger]

You're brilliant Emily! Love the comments about men being weird and finding someone who is nice. I've still got 2 years, 2 weeks and 2 days to go until I'm 30, ahh the countdown begins 😐

[@CraigPDM07]

Hey Emily, I've recently started watching your videos and I have become HOOKED! I love a lot of your videos and even though they're not always accurate and sometimes just really silly, they're your opinion and your experiences! I feel like I've learned a lot from you. You seem like a fun person to be around, would be amazing to have someone like you to turn to for advice. And if I could, I would like to date you. Thanks for all that you do with your videos, especially on the ones about anxiety and depression. Keep up the good work! Keep your chin up. You give us all hope. All the best! :) x

[@badbiker666]

This had to REALLY hard to write. If I tried to list 30 things it would take me months to figure it all out! Also, regarding number 28, Emily I think I love you for you. You put SO MUCH of yourself into your videos that it feels like I know you. And what I know I like. I sure hope that doesn't come across as creepy stalker shit.

[@redsands1001]

yeah going out is more for sitting and catching up with friends rather than meeting someone new these days

[@bearofthunder]

I agree. 30 is really a milestone, like it is the end of adolesence. It is about the time when you stop "trying things out" and start to "get something done".... like you have finally "grown into your own skin". Maybe if you miss this at 30, you may start to panic at 40...

[@BoberMcBoberson]

I think the biggest thing I've found is life has sooooo much more potential than I thought. And not to let others limit you. Because a lot of people have no idea what they are talking about, and even more are just plain full of crap.

[@jgcigar]

Your best stuff yet. What did I learn by thirty? Nothing, But, I was taking a lot of notes during your video.

[@kevinporter2933]

I have only replied to Emily's videos twice over the years I have been watching. The first reply referred to a "Boob Jiggle". I am a little more mature now (but not much more). I feel compelled to say these revelations are classic. You learn so much as get older. I can't wait for the 40 things you learnt at 40.

[@0075KP]

308,705 subscribers and rising... it wasn't that long ago we celebrated 300k subs Emily :-) Your star, just keeps rising!!! I learnt that it's ok to fail... to never make the same mistake twice. Both in business and in life. #PowerWithin

[@TheGogilily]

23. and 30. are the best :) all in all, well said. At 30, I learnt that actors go to around 50 auditions to get their first role, meaning I will not quit my dream when I fall or feel like shit :D

[@caseyheath8131]

Something I learned when I turned 30 is that now the classic rock station is playing my high school playlist!

[@brettmarlar4154]

"Throwing the goat" can either face you or the audience/camera. It's the attitude that's important.

[@alexaxline6093]

You know the song "people are strange" yeah at thirty that hit home just have to find the "strange" that fits your type of strange

[@danielperkins3728]

changed my life. you honestly are the highlight of my life. please carry on and know me and my friends are so greatfull for everything. YOU ROCK!!!😎😍

[@muttley9520]

The only channel I'm subscribed to where I look forward to a new video. (Now, what did I learn at 30...Can't say, too sad).

[@stephenkrall7609]

Loved the video. While it has been quite a while since I was 30, it reminded me of the times I came to the same conclusions on some of the points you listed. I got a good laugh out of some of those realizations.

[@diviengii]

one of the most important that our emotions should not be the outcome of life but life the outcome of our emotions. be good be safe be passinate and happy and let awesomeness into ones life.

[@30seven4]

One thing I learned at 18: trying to navigate through life by carrying around a massive bag of loosely-correlated, but ultimately arbitrarily-classified rules, pointers, and observations - as opposed to a lean, mean, tightly-integrated set of scrupulously considered principles - is *massively* counter-productive.

[@WolfmanJim68]

People are different. I am just enjoying life and being happy at 48. Good for you. I love where your channel is going.

[@darrenbradshaw501]

On the men and poop thing, there's a very simple explanation: Our bodies do not work like yours. It does not all come out at once. If we went in, let go, wiped and left like women do, we'd have to go back 2-4 more times to be finished. Sorry for TMI, but you brought it up, Emily. So glad I discovered your videos a month or so ago. Keep up the good work.

[@abbeykroeter]

I learned that turning 30 years of age was similar to what I expected; it's just a number and anything I'd heard about it being bad (or good... okay mostly bad) was, well, not that bad. It wasn't bad at all. That's because everyone has a different physical and mental age at 30. It may sound odd, or maybe even foolish to somebody who hasn't hit the number until that moment, but it's almost meaningless. I suppose if I made a big deal about numbers such as with mathematical games and conspiracy theories based on the number 30, then I would have to pay more attention. You see, now that I'm far past that age (late 40's), and have somewhat of a happy loner life in Las Vegas, remembering what turning 30 felt like doesn't phase me in the least. I was at one time, sort of a decent-looking chap, albeit shorter than most ladies prefer (only 5'7" --GADS!) and not wealthy (I take care of animals for a living), in very good shape and not without talents... but moving to Vegas at around 30 years old didn't turn out to be one big party. I was working all the time, found Las Vegas to be chock full of idiots (of course there are some great people too), but the result was I just let the time I had in that strange age of "thirty something" whip by too fast without enough time off. I worked too much. So I would say, lovely Emily, that you are in possibly the age-range where you can kick the most ass, because you still look and sound in peak form, have a free-sprit sense of humor and don't put yourself above others. I found that to be true of some other women I've met from England... very cool even thought they might be aware they are attractive. That's not always the case in Las Vegas. Anyway.... sorry for the novel above (that's what happens when you're comfortable being alone a lot but don't have an outlet for thoughts), but turning 30 almost went unnoticed for myself. I just wish I had done more before I turned 45. As ever-- the LasVegasLoner.

[@brankomilic3195]

You are fantastic, I randomly came across your channel. Brutally honest and sweet at the same time, keep it up. Wish you the best .

[@vollyman1962]

To get a song out of your head - go on youtube and listen to the entire song without interuption. Usually works.

[@bbyllma]

Glad to see you're not so sad, like in some of the previous installments. Hope you mood stays up.

[@DavidJames-ro2bl]

I've learned that trying to do an all-nighter at 30 is a no no, hangovers are a lot worse than they use to be and slang used by teenagers seems to have changed from when I was a teenager and I have no idea what half of it means.

[@outsideworld76]

I can't wait for the video that says: "40 things I learnt at 40".

[@vvvc9930]

You're right you can't wait

[@unclefester9265]

Well, sadly, there won't be any.

[@outsideworld76]

@@unclefester9265 sadly indeed.

[@amaroman1]

i cant remember what i learned last week let alone 10 years ago. one thing i do remember is you dont need to get hammered to have a good time.

[@meytalmitchellvainstub1602]

I am genuinely proud of you for this video! loved it! goooood for you!

[@mihavovk]

I can relate to most of these (minus female part). Apart for the wine, I still buy the 4.50€ bottle. Not that I'm a cheapskate, I just know that bottle never disappointed me and it's been my favourite store bought wine ever. On the other hand, I'm lucky I live in a country that praises wine as it's national drink and I can get both red or white wine from a private vineyard, which is ALOT cheaper and ALOT better in taste. That be that, my little wine discussion. Fun topic Emily, loved watching it!

[@randomthought214]

Congrats on the shows! Quite an accomplishment. I hope the shows and you are a great success.

[@Jim_Lawson]

I'm afraid I can't remember back to 30 :) Nice to see you having fun !

[@MissyJPHD]

I’m turning 30 this October. I wish I found your channel before you passed away xo

[@anuragsharma2869]

Passed away in what sense ?

[@anuragsharma2869]

I just read on Wikipedia... for the very first time I felt such grief for any celebrity... my throat is full my eyes has waters ... God! This is unfair 😔

[@MissyJPHD]

@@anuragsharma2869 it’s not fair 😕

[@RyanODonnell2814]

Slow....Clap....Slow...Clap. Very well done and LOVED IT!. Be glad you did all those things and experienced life. When I was 30, I was in the Air Force, very structured life.

[@stevetaylor1312]

I just watched your 35 blog, and now this one- I am amazed at the really cruel comments you get in the 35 and the lovely ones in the 30. I would kick those bums.

[@chas4x4]

I agree with a lot of things you said and yet I think some of the things are pretty hard core when it comes to having a relation

[@hansedavion2844]

I'm 57 and you make me feel like I'm younger, because you make me laugh so much it hurts and I pee myself LOL, keep it going !

[@hristinatrpchevska3773]

I can see that you are working very hard, keep it up, i know things will eventually settle down for you, loveeee youuu

[@عبداللهديريه-ث2غ]

emily your channel makes me happy

[@thomaschase1719]

The men not texting you back are busy misleading some other woman[, perhaps not unlike bar stools]. BCT is truly a unique experience when done after your thirties. My favorite drinking game rule is anyone participating, every time they speak the letter I has to consume some of the beverage they have before them. Oddly enough I haven't drank like that or participated in one of those activities since before the Army.

[@Alenyaa]

I like how your channel changes are shaping up quite nicely for you, Emily! I could be mistaken, but did your subscriber count go up by roughly 10.000 since your anouncement video? Anyways, good on you! :-)

[@JeffDS3]

Now what haven't you learned how to do yet?

[@emilyhart]

good idea!

[@breshonjaemoore5522]

love your videos

[@martkt10]

Love you Em :), Not to trust anyone on face value is what i learnt at 30

[@sumeetkumaryadav9229]

You really helped me in understanding girls. And I hope it helps me in my love life. Thank you and keep up this great work.

[@butchs3495]

Great to hear about your presenter opportunities Emily. As the AC/DC song goes, It's a long way to the top if you want to rock and roll. Hang in there. It took Angus and Malcom a while to make it, but they did, and I'm sure you will too. And when you're famous and rich I'll be able to say.., Hey, I knew that pretty lady when she started her youtube channel! Best wishes.

[@Aghoas17]

Love ya Emily, keep up the good work. Always glad listening to you. One thing I learned, Is to keep moving forward with a firm heart.

[@MeanMachineDean]

Agree with the friends one for sure! Great vid Emily...keep up the amazing work you do!