🩰 30 year old ballet beginner is violently humbled by FIRST POINTE CLASS ✨ *EMOTIONAL*

[@christievozniak9717]

Congratulations on beginning your pointe journey! It is a huge right of passage and testament to all your hard work and determination. Beginning as an adult has its challenges in balancing real life responsibilities while balancing training, but it is that resilience, work ethic and passion that will give you longevity in your life in this art form. I am a ballet teacher who teaches pointe and wanted to share an exercise that may be helpful for practice rolling through the shoe when coming down from pointe! You can start in sixth position/parallel and progress by trying from first position, once proper foot alignment is maintained in sixth position: Plie on count 8 1- Releve over the box 2- Release the toes through 3/4 pointe to Demi pointe 3- Let Heels Touch the floor flat 4- Plie Repeat for counts 5-8 and repeat the entire exercise for 4-8 repetitions If you feel like you are slipping out of the box, that may mean that the shoe is still super hard/not broken in and your intrinsic muscles are trying to break down the material in the shoe but can’t yet. So the only two options right now are to feel like your sliding/slipping against the floor or your feet are sliding away from the box from inside of the shoe. Adding theraband exercises focusing on articulating through your Demi pointe might be helpful as you continue to break in your new pointe shoes and your feet get even stronger (you have beautiful flexibility which is half the battle!) Also, there is a great exercise I sometimes use from Lynne Charles (creator of 4Pointe) called “jogging” which helps for building those intrinsic muscles and isolating the Demi pointe to help with a smooth roll down through the shoe :) You can find her on KZbin, but Basically, the exercise goes like this: 7-8: Step up onto pointe or you can plie releve in sixth position +: release the right toes to Demi pointe, keeping both heels high and pressing through your ribbons 1: press the right toes back over the box onto pointe +: release left toes to Demi pointe 2: press left toes over the box Keep repeating 8-16 repetitions. You can progress by doing the exercise one first position, focusing on maintaining foot alignment and turnout :) You are doing amazing. Keep going! The journey is worth it ❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Omg this is INSANELY helpful! Thank you so much for take the time to share such a thorough explanation! I can’t even express how grateful I am! You must be a fabulous teacher and your students are so lucky to have you!!

[@christievozniak9717]

@@VeronicaViccora you are so welcome! I love watching your videos and your joy, optimism and dedication to mastery in ballet are already making an impact for so many. Your voice and journey matters- happy dancing :)

[@Janiesindall1981]

What a kind-hearted you are. Bless you 🙏

[@dianea3600]

If you "can't be the dancer you want to be" there isn't any disgrace in trying. I started at age 6. Worked relelentlessly torturing my body as I wasn't born with great feet. In fact they were flat with huge bunions. Super painful. Had my mom stand on my feet every night . Practically slept in all variations of splits. Went to fine arts school for high school. Was on several ballet scholarships and was supported by my loving parents thru it all. No. I never became the pre-pro then pro ballet dancer I wanted to be after 13 yrs of dedication to ballet but I learned about life and the importance of the struggle and not just the final outcome. ❤ Wishing you every good thing!❤

[@pheona1000]

Great advice and very encouraging. Please let us know when you start a KZbin channel.

[@evoandy]

I used to teach adult beginner violinists. People do not realize how much guts it takes just to attempt something so difficult for the dust time as an adult

[@VeronicaViccora]

That's beautiful, thank you for saying that

[@taralll]

I learned violin at 51.

[@balletforlife3]

Hey! 15 yo dancer here, just wanted to say theres no “right” sewing method for your shoes, because everyone’s feet are different. the way you sewed the 2nd shoe (the one where you could not see the stitch marks on the satin) is the one I personally use. Please don’t get in your head about sewing methods, because everyone is truly so different lol. I got my first pair of pointe shoes at 14 and I already thought I was too late, but seeing you live out you’re dreams despite what other peolle may think is really refreshing. Good luck on your ballet journey en pointe 🩰💖

[@VeronicaViccora]

that's so helpful! thank you for taking the time to share that! Sending lots of luck and love to you on your journey as well

[@burdburd2787]

You are awesome! It's refreshing to hear a young lady your age making respectful and encouraging comments! Thank you!🐦🐦❤️✌️🩰 YOU GO VERONICA!!

[@miku709]

hi, i’m 14 and i think i’m starting pointe next month! i’m so glad to hear that i am not the only one starting pointe at 14, because of covid i couldn’t dance for 3 years and there are so many times when i would compare myself and overthink, but i know i have to power through because at the end of the day it’s my life and my passion!

[@balletforlife3]

omg 😭😭 pleaseeeeee dont compare yourself to other dancers (especially ones older/younger than you)!! and congrats for about to go en pointe!!!!!!!!! seriously its so much fun but fair warning it is painful. my first shoes sucked for me (bloch european balance) and i actually had to get re fitted for a whole nother shoe before the first ones died… still in the 2nd pair (Rubins cant remember which specifically) and they sre working much better. when you get fitted try as many options so you wont have to bother you’re parents to get an entire new pair like I did 😭 wishing you so much luck and congrats

[@miku709]

@@balletforlife3 thank you so much! i’m so excited to start, im currently in a demi-pointe class and a lot of the older dancers who’ve also been in demi-pointe say that the transition to pointe is a lot easier. obviously its still going to be painful😭

[@rebelmama37]

I went back to ballet recently at age 66. I danced most of my life and a total of about 10 years of ballet between 12-60. I have found that now I am a MUCH better student and, while I haven't gotten my strength back yet, I am confident that it will come because as an older student I know how to work harder and better. ENJOY IT AND KEEP DANCING!!!

[@ritawing1064]

Me too! We can do it!

[@ladynicole888]

👏👏👏👏👏👏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@kathleenprice662]

Brava!

[@lynnealuebben1967]

Why would anyone discourage any one for trying a form of dance. We don't discourage people from swimming, the gym, taking self defense or creating art... As dance is the number one thing people have said that brings them joy...why aren't more of us doing it? Good Luck and enjoy with all your heart.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you, and I couldn't agree more. There are so many elements of our culture that don't make sense, haha but we have to keep following our joy!

[@ladynicole888]

I took dance as a child. I bought point shoes. I’m 53! I would say I’m afraid to break an ankle, but they say that for good luck.🍀 I agree keep learning always .

[@em1lyxxx]

dont let anyone say its to late to start. your alive so no reason to not enjoy life and do what you love

[@VeronicaViccora]

couldn't agree more, thank you so much for this

[@OvcharkaShepherd]

Oh, dar’lin never ever give up. I’m a 66 year old former dancer getting back to the barre. If i can do this YOU can do it. There is a world of ballet Moms who would gladly sit with you as you stitch your shoes.

[@VeronicaViccora]

aww thank you so much, this is so sweet! Totally made my day

[@ladynicole888]

Awe,🌸

[@hannahparker9715]

Hey Veronica, you are NOT making a mistake, I promise. I began ballet at 21 and pointe at 23-ish. At 28, I dance in a school and a small contemporary ballet company, performing at least 2 bigger shows a year and several small ones. Eventually pointe kinda clicks; it just starts to feel more normal the stronger you get. At this age I can feel some of the strain on my body, but it's been 100% worth it. Even now though, your struggles are SO RELATABLE. There are days when I ask, "what am I doing?" ..... but you just gotta move on through that. (Btw one of my classmates started pointe in her 50s. Another started in late 20s, and she is legally blind. Both have done their 1st pointe performances within the last year.) Based on your clips of dance in this video, you are clearly a natural at ballet. You absolutely have what it takes. The same passion that has taken you this far in your technique will take you to where you want to go. Ballet is for believers. Keep believing!

[@thebusybeanhomecafe4035]

That's so cool! How often did you practice when you first started?

[@hannahparker9715]

@@thebusybeanhomecafe4035 I took adult beginning ballet 1x per week for a year. I improved very quickly, but part of that is the quality and detail of the classes I had. I think 1 or 2 classes per week would be an awesome place to start for most people!

[@thebusybeanhomecafe4035]

@@hannahparker9715 Thanks! Also, how did you find a company to perform with?

[@Specters0rd]

As someone who stopped ballet in my sophomore year of high school, this comment makes me want to get back into it even though I’m 21 now.

[@hannahparker9715]

@@thebusybeanhomecafe4035 Google :) I picked the place that offered the most classes for beginner adults

[@sierrabarr1702]

You’re gonna look back on this video once you are a pointe-pro and be so happy at how far you have gone. One wonderful determined day at a time! Thank you for sharing the first steps of your journey, it is an inspiration!

[@VeronicaViccora]

Wow

[@miruschkac7880]

I also want to add that your dance journey is yours and that therefore you can‘t disappoint anyone else. For me, your journey and passion are the inspiration I‘m looking for when I‘m watching your videos. I don‘t need you to arrive at a certain place. That said, congratulations to the beginning of your pointe journey! That‘s an amazing milestone!

[@VeronicaViccora]

that means soooooo so much more than you know. Thank you so much for being here and being so encouraging! It's very relieving to hear that and helps so much

[@Janterjay]

^^^^THIS^^^^. Set goals, but don't feel rushed. Enjoy the journey! Take pride in your efforts!

[@oliviapryor7057]

I am also a beginner ballerina at 30, and it's hard for me to not compare myself to you flexibility wise! In your footage, you are usually the most obviously flexible person in the shot, getting your leg significantly higher and straighter than others. I wish I was starting with this skill already brought to the table, as you have. I feel like not only am I starting as a new dancer but I ALSO have this other massive hurdle to overcome - the flexibility issue. And it really, really has an effect on the aesthetics of dancing and the poses. You are a beautiful dancer and I would never clock you as a beginner. You really seem like a natural.

[@gianna3928]

Hi! I’m not Veronica, but just wanted to say that when I started ballet, I also wasn’t flexible AT ALL. After only two years of dancing and stretching regularly, my flexibility has improved massively! I now have my splits on both sides which I though was almost impossible, and my overall flexibility is better. It’s totally possible to improve your flexibility and strength!! Don’t let it be a setback or an issue in your ballet journey, and remember it’s a process!

[@ingrossa]

Please also keep in mind that she was a yoga instructor at some point. Flexibility isn’t entirely new to her.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Couldn't agree more with everything everyone else has said! That's so interesting to know, thanks for being vulnerable enough to share that. Yes, I was a yoga instructor, so I already have 6+ of experience just working on flexibility alone. That took a very long time as well, but that's part of the journey is already in the past. Also, the shots where you see me being the "most flexible" in the room are generally from my basic adult workshops where this is the very first time many of those dancers are dancing EVER. Usually, in the classes I'm not allowed to film, I'm one of the least flexible! It WILL come with time and patience but I totally understand how challenging it can be to not compare yourself. I always try to remind myself not to compare someone else chapter 10 to my chapter 1, but it's easier said than done!

[@mingfei1622]

You can gain flexibility at any stage of your life. Consistency and patience are key👌🫰

[@anniebe4992]

​@@mingfei1622I started yoga not too long ago (regularly for one year now, before that there were pauses) and I wonder how often you have to practice for maintaining the flexibility and how long the breaks are allowed to be

[@Mialiaaaaa]

It’s so disheartening to see dancers tell other dancers not to dance anymore. I mean aren’t we all in the dance community, we have to stick together and help each other out. I’m so proud of you for chasing your dreams. I love to see people passionate about doing things they love even despite the odds put against them. I’m 20 and I’m about to begin my beginner ballet journey. Seeing you start ballet despite your age has inspired me greatly. Please PLEASE PLEASE never give up, so many people are rooting for you, you’re strong, beautiful and so talented. I pray that you’ll reach all the goals that you have set for yourself🙏🏾❤! Ps: you only fail when you give up!

[@wandadawnmiller1552]

I'm 57 and I'm thinking about starting ballet again. I don't care what people think and neither should you. Do what you want. It's your life, not their's!❤

[@bizema2003]

Go for it! I took a year of ballet when I was 13, and I returned a couple of years ago at age 66.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much to you both!

[@beago0810]

Please do...I started at age 57 too. Now I'm 66.

[@ladynicole888]

Yey, 53 🙏🏻 got my shoes Monday, got the virus, again . Day 3 of 🤧🤪

[@ladynicole888]

@@beago0810🌹🌹🌹

[@jessicatatum7769]

"Bad Ballet Days" are the absolute WORST. I think everyone gets them too - from young and old beginners all the way up to us professionals. All it takes is a day where maybe you didn't get enough sleep, or enough good food, or maybe your body decides that your period is gonna be extra painful, or to just stop doing what felt great yesterday for no discernable reason at all. Our bodies are not machines that can perform at 100% all the time, and I've found that ballet takes a bigger physical toll the more advanced you become. I hope you keep fighting through all the difficulties on this path you've chosen, because you're such an inspiration to me; you remind me why I dance and why its been worth all the trials.

[@sebumpostmortem]

So true. The PMS literally blocks the pelvis. The stiffness is real, we loose a bunch of split degrees. The body is in mode Cocoon ON. 😤😭 Not to talk about balance. Our axis leaves the chat. I know that my period is coming because I can pirouette. Post-period, I can do my bun and wash my teeth in retiré relevé😅.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Okay thank you for saying this because mine also DESTROYS all sense of balance I have, so frustrating but also good to know it's totally natural. Thanks to both of you for all of this wisdom and encouragement!

[@ladynicole888]

@@sebumpostmortemI used to drop things w/ PMS . 😂

[@Specters0rd]

That explains why I had my moments where I’m not feeling it… Well, JROTC and Martial Arts didn’t help either back then…

[@danni820]

You are absolutely right about one thing, you’re not the person or dancer we all think you are.. you’re much more! 🩰🫶

[@VeronicaViccora]

oh my goodness thank you. seriously

[@SensationallySilky]

I am not a dancer, but I am a middle aged woman who started playing roller derby at 50. I can relate to the "struggle" ... I wish you greatness, and I believe in you.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much, you honestly sound incredibly cool

[@KUKAKYOTOTOKYO]

People who are sending all of those hate messages are insane, my God! 🙄

[@VeronicaViccora]

it's the price of being on the internet haha for the most part, this community is seriously so cool and supportive

[@bizema2003]

Definitely.

[@DanielleStJohn]

I am not at all a ballet dancer, but rather, a classical singer. As someone who has taught skills to older people (though the muscles and physicality involved are *very* different), that imposter syndrome hits everyone hard. You are Doing The Thing, and that is awesome. And being gentle on yourself is going to serve you *so much more* than you (or anyone on the internet) giving you a hard time. You've got this.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much for this

[@catobrien837]

We’re not inspired because you’re a quick study (even though you definitely are!) we follow your journey because you’re going at your OWN pace. Most of us have never seen anything like it and that’s exactly what inspires us. Keep doing what you’re doing because it’s pure magic! ✨

[@VeronicaViccora]

Omg Cat thank you so much, I have been thinking of these kind words for weeks and they're so encouraging, thank you so much

[@rachelcampbell8541]

I'm a senior, you inspire me, our youth culture is nuts. Your point shoes are beautiful!

[@Woodmukwood]

I am 28 and just registered a ballet class. Thank you for your encouragement and makes me believe I CAN!

[@mrstarr2619]

Your feet look fantastic in those shoes! It’s an incredible accomplishment to reach pointe and a wonderful milestone in life. Just a few tips from a fellow dancer: - using dental floss to sew is stronger than thread and you won’t really be able to see it - having two elastics that cross over is a great way to have the shoe stay on and give you more support, especially as a beginner - as you progress in your pointe journey, don’t be afraid to experiment with different paddings because pointe should not be deathly painful! I wish you lots of luck! ❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

amazing tips!! Thank you so much for them and for your encouragement!!

[@TheKeyMargo]

In my 70s and very happy for you. You are a dancer and can only grow better each day. You don’t have to become professional, just dance your heart out because you want to.

[@burdburd2787]

Yes! My thoughts exactly! From a woman in my 50's.

[@VeronicaViccora]

thank you for this

[@pheebear]

As a former ballet teacher, I want to offer you a little bit of advise and encouragement. First of all, you did so well in your first class! And don’t be so hard on yourself! Everyone grips onto the bar at first, but give it a consistent month and you’ll be surprised at the difference! As for the difficulty of rolling through your feet, maybe check with your teacher about how/if your shoes need to be broken in. Just keep up with ankle exercises, rolling out your muscles and icing your feet! As for the toll on your body and mind, I recommend looking into some vitamin options? Definitely collagen can help with muscle stability and ginkgo can help with your mind or magnesium to help with sleep? Obviously do your own research on all that to decide what will work best for you 😊

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you soooo so much for these awesome tips and your encouragement. Your students are very lucky to have learned from you

[@ekhothecat]

I'm almost thirty now and haven't been in dance since I was a teen, but I had been taught at the Houston Ballet Academy and had been en pointe for about four years when I stopped. That said, her outer soles appeared to me as though they were separating from the soles of her feet when going onto to the box and down to floor positions. Also, they do not appear snug on the heel at all. It looks like they may not be the right size, especially since she said that she feels like her foot is slipping off the box. Of course, they could just require some breaking in. It's been just over a decade since I did ballet, so some things about pointe shoes may have changed in that time, but what do you think, as a former instructor? I'm genuinely curious.

[@guppy0536]

Im reading through as a non dancer but problems with ankles and thigh muscles bad arthritis and cant get down on floor so how would i be able to roll out mucles which is a new thing to me i still dont understand that concept YET open to any vitamins for muscles

[@LadiiLush]

Thank you I'm just starting out and I was wondering what's the best vitamins to take during my journey

[@pheebear]

@@ekhothecat You make some really good points! I was focusing on if she was getting over the box (which a lot of beginners are scared to do), and I didn't notice the heel! I think that either the elastics are not sewn in the right place, or you might be right about the shoe size not being quite right. Of course, it's also possible that it was because of the shoes not being broken in enough or correctly. It's certainly something she should bring up with her teacher or pointe shoe fitter. Well spotted!

[@mll1208]

Former ballet student here, same age as you and haven't done ballet consistently in years after an injury (and frankly because of the toxicity of the energy I was met with it in the world of ballet in Paris). I am now pursuing completely different endeavours professionally and dancing in more forgiving genres for fun, but thinking about trying ballet again. You are a model of a healthy attitude. Everything you say is so relatable (and the trolls are only feeling it too strong). Your effort to brighten dance up and never give up and make space for amateurs trying their hardest is deeply courageous and much needed. You're inspiring.

[@alesworld1]

I’m a 12 year old dancer and all I can say is wow, this is your first point class and you already have great balance, and you’re right over your box. I started point at 9 and I definitely didn’t get on my box like that. You are doing amazing keep up the good work!

[@becciemarshall6791]

I envy you. I'm 67years old and would love to attend a ballet class. I took ballet lessons when I was young and loved every one of them. Ballet is beautiful and is a fantastic way to keep fit . Keep enjoying your ballet and never listen to anyones unnecessary comments. This journey is YOURS... ❤️XXXX

[@candycottrell6469]

I am 67 yrs old and take adult beginner ballet classes and intermediate classes. I find ballet excellent exercise that I really enjoy. It is both good for our mind and body. I encourage you to give it a try. It will keep you healthy and fit. I was 47 when I took my very first class.

[@rebelmama37]

DO IT. I took ballet on and off for a total of 10 years from age 12-60 and finally went back to class recently (age 66) and I am obsessed and, while not strong yet, am a WAY better student. DO IT!!!

[@VeronicaViccora]

I love this whole conversation happening

[@becciemarshall6791]

@@VeronicaViccora You're welcome. I'm actively look for a class near to where I live. Fingers crossed 🤞😊

[@beago0810]

It's never too late. I took my first ballet class at age 57 and I'm now 66.😊

[@rachelsoubra4545]

I'm 31 and just got my first pair of pointe shoes thank you for sharing your story and I think you're amazing ❤😊

[@Steviiejean]

I’m 20, turning 21 and starting ballet for the first time in the fall !!! Your channel inspires me so much

[@VeronicaViccora]

Awww I’m so honored! Congratulations!! Wishing you the best of luck

[@AlenaFenomena]

As a former ballet teacher I want to thank you so much for sharing your whole journey on your channel, hard parts and all. Your experience is so relatable for so many new pointe students of all ages. It's typical to build up expectations and then struggle with the reality of how far you feel from where you want to be eventually. You are learning new coordination and strength in ways in which you never have used your body before, and you are doing WELL. Adult ballet students were my absolute favorite students as a teacher; I I'm so grateful you are demystifying so much of the learning process and struggle. You are absolutely on the right track, and you are helping so many others as you work through your own struggles. I love seeing the reality of how difficult it can feel AND see you feel on-mission by the end of the video!

[@VeronicaViccora]

that's soooo so encouraging! Thank you!! Your students are extremely lucky to have you!

[@marinalodi6313]

You did so good on the first class!! Almost over the box!!!! Stunning balance!! I'm shocked ahahah I'm gonna start pointe soon (I'm 26) and I hope I get a pinch of what you acomplished lol Trust the process. My teacher said "pointe will never be comfortable, but you'll get used to it" and perfom beautifully!! There is no shame on being behind (I feel this too!!), and I trust your colleages will respect your pace. Be kind to your body, nourish your muscles and soul, don't let the fear take away your joy!! I'm rooting for you

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much friend, I'm rooting for you too! You're spot on in everything you've said!

[@lisamaranto353]

Mama! You are a dancer! Ignore the imposter syndrome feelings. Just hold your head up, lift through your core, turn out & dance like you mean it! You give all of us older dancers hope & your grace ❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much! This was the kick in the pants I needed!

[@sEaSoNaLMiLk]

I started park and street roller skating at 30. I didn’t plan to go as far as I did, I just loved skating and did it every day and my body responded. If you love it and do it every day you will get to where you want to be. You are obviously a natural and have beautiful lines and posture for a beginner! Keep at it sister. I also relate to the breakdown. I hit a plateau and lost momentum, started getting into my head and it made things that used to be easy, all the sudden difficult. Much less learning new tricks or skills. Because of that, it became less enjoyable and I stopped skating as much. It’s good to have goals and a plan, but I would recommend to try and be easier on yourself, and focusing on where you are now, not where you want to go all of the time. 😊 I was also going to suggest journaling and more sleep, but sounds like you’re on the right track.

[@condensedmilk9310]

You're not alone! I too am consumed by the Fear and the Perfectionism😭. I've been on pointe for about a year and when I started I was hanging onto the barre for dear life. I still can't get over the box entirely, but I think my shoes may not have been fitted properly. But it does get better! Your feet get stronger and you gain confidence, and eventually you don't feel like your toes are breaking off anymore 😅. Don't be too hard on yourself, you're an amazing dancer, your feet are gorgeous, and it looks like you're getting over the box pretty well, so you're starting off strong! ❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you soooo much! it's really kind and encouraging of you! sending you big hugs!

[@MrBeetlejuice16]

I just started powerlifting a few months ago where I joined a club team and I can relate to the imposter syndrome. Even though my sport does not require you to start out young, putting yourself out there as a beginner at 30 (I'm 29 so almost the same) is super scary, especially when I see teenagers lift heavier than me, but you just got to stay in that fear and tell youself "you know what, I'm super scared, and I feel like an imposter but I'm still here doing it!". I'm so greatful that you're sharing your journey and the beginning stages because we're taught that your sport will just come to you naturally and you'll just suceed right away, but that only happens to some people, and far from all. These videos are so encouraging for those of us starting a sport at a later stage in life. Also, sidenote: I think the ballerina core that you're doing is super cute!

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you sooooo so much! that's awesome! Powerlifting sounds really exhilarating! And you're absolutely right. That's a great mantra "I'm scared, but I'm still here doing it," I'll remember that one

[@stellafiebig173]

As a dancer I would just like to say I have seen a lot of beginner adults you are SUBSTANTIALLY better than most of them Like seriously you’re very very good for a beginner!❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you! You're definitely seeing the highlight reel though haha

[@MTetzke]

I am very impressed with what you did in your 1st class on pointe. I am so proud that you listened to your body and knew it was time to go back to your flats. You avoided injury. Smart woman! Also everyone had to start on flats for a while before pointe. Give yourself a break. You're doing really well. Keep it up. Follow your heart.❤🎉

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much, I'm trying to be very careful and gentle with my body! I want to dance forever and ever! Sending so much love

[@SkylarWinderland]

You are truly an incredible, brave, inspiring person Veronicca!!😊 Thank you for being honest with us and showing us your realistic ballet journey. I know from myself, that some days are going to be more challenging. But when you feel like you're about to give up and that you're not enough, remember how far you've come and how much stronger ballet made you. And yes, it's okay to slow down and take days off. I learned that myself recently as well. Please take care of yourself and continue being your amazing self. You are enough, you do enough and you have enough!! You're doing wonderfully!!🥰🥰

[@VeronicaViccora]

gosh what a kind kind soul you are! Thank you so much for being here and for taking the time to leave such a sweet, supportive comment. It means the world

[@angel_0025]

I’m starting ballet at 16, and I’ve faced a lot of discouragement from people around me, even from other dancers. But I’m pursuing it anyway. They don't realize that I didn’t start earlier not because of a lack of willpower or desire, but because we couldn’t afford classes when I was younger. Now that I can finally afford it, I’m excited to follow my dream. I can’t wait for my first pair of pointe shoes, even though I know it will take some time. I bet I’ll be as happy and excited as you seem! Thank you so much for this encouragement!

[@dilldes]

I LOVE THIS!!! I just turned 30 and I've been looking into getting back into ballet. Thanks for the motivation, lovely lady! And you keep going! You're awesome!

[@VeronicaViccora]

Do it!! 30 year old ballerina club! (And happy birthday)

[@dilldes]

@@VeronicaViccora thank you 😊

[@Rainbowbrite10]

Congratulations on get on pointe! You go! I’m 41 and just started ballet 3 years ago and I’m working towards that goal as well and I’m not giving up. Just going to keep going I don’t care how long it takes. I appreciate your videos and all your helpful thoughts. I love yoga as well, it keeps me sane in this crazy world.

[@kayl-6073]

I'm extremely proud of you for deciding to dance!! I took ballet for many years when i was young, and was on pointe for many years. Im almost 60 now,but im going to take ballet lessons simply for the exercise,and making myself feel better about myself. Ballet is extremely difficult,but it will make me rebuild muscle,lose weight and feel great. Im hoping to work back up to pointe. I truly commend you for your choice,and please don't let others affect your decision making. Keep going. Do it for yourself, and im not sure what you're using for your shoes,but use lamb's wool. Youll learn to pack them correctly. Good luck,and you look great!!

[@judithgarcia5137]

Keep dancing for the love of it…your whole life …never stop. You will only get better every day.🥰

[@mermaidopulence8539]

Hey girly I was in the same exact boat that you are in. So when I decided to return to ballet after leaving the ballet scene for so many years, the past ballet trauma started resurfacing. With that it caused some depression and body image issues and bad eating habits. Thankfully with the help of my friends and my awesome ballet mistress that has calmed down. I was being so hard on myself thinking I wasn't good enough and that everyone was so much better than me but my instructor let me know that no one is better than anyone and everyone is always learning. Just know that you progress at your own pace no matter how fast or slow that may be.

[@VeronicaViccora]

wise wise words

[@joebloggs619]

One can aspire to be good at any art, especially performing arts, like ballet, singing,musical instruments and you should do your best. But you don't have yo be some duper, diva etc to benefit from doing arts. Just do it for sheer hell of it, because you love art, life, culture, whatever. All you have to do is do it. If in a group, I never compete or aspire to be 'the group star', though sometimes it just happens that way. If I know I'm not brilliant at it eg ballet, I just aim to keep up with the rest , not do wrong steps, sing off key etc and thereby stuff up the entire group performance. Easier to do this if you are happy playing non attention grabbing roles I. Shiny costumes that highlight your lack of ability. The audience will ser it and judge your performance.

[@jessicabloxom2754]

You are an amaaaazing dancer! I started at 30 too, and took my first pointe class at 32. The post 1st pointe class nervous breakdown is real! Omg it was like realizing how tall the mountain actually is.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Haha yessss thank you so much for validating that! I love the adult ballet community so so much

[@mazi2646]

You are awesome and give me motivation. Please don't give up your dreams because others are mean. ❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Awww thank you so much! I never will :) even if it hurts in the short term, it can’t stop us 🥰

[@joeyzinx]

I’m not lying to you AT FREAKING ALL your arches are to die forrrrrrrrr 😭

[@VeronicaViccora]

aww thank you!!! :)

[@lisacliffe9792]

You are beautiful. I love what you’re doing. It’s really hard to be gentle with ourselves. Sport/dance is a whole lifestyle. It’s sleep, eating right, working hard, rest, stretching, massage, mental health. Usually we only get to see the pretty exciting parts and not the behind the scenes life. You’re amazing, it’ll work out, well done. Enjoy. ❤

[@elainesutton7183]

Clearly you love ballet so please keep going. You'll progress at your own speed and no need to rush or compare yourself to others. I myself, started beginner ballet at the age of 50. I've been at it for 14 years taking 2 classes per week and sometimes 3 classes per week. My pointe journey was much like your own. I experienced fear and misgivings but I continued none-the-less. Today I'm very comfortable en pointe and I am able confidently do everything asked of me during class. All of my peers are considerably more experienced than I, having danced as children, however, I've come such a long way and through perseverance I can now dance at a comparable level. The thing is to enjoy it and just keep going.

[@francescarobusto7387]

I can relate so much! I started Irish dancing at 30 years old two years ago, and even though I've been dancing almost all my life in other styles like ballet, sometimes I find it so demanding that I just want to cry and quit. Today is one of those days, after a 4-hour class. I think it's normal to doubt... anyway, thank you for sharing your experience. You are going to improve very soon, no doubt. Just keep going!

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank YOU for sharing that! It's so important to surround yourself with likeminded people to know you're not alone

[@francescarobusto7387]

@@VeronicaViccora Thank you, you're really kind! 🥰I try to train as hard as I can, but sometimes, as you know, it just doesn't seem to be enough... Then, I completely understand the pressure to learn as quickly as possible and the feeling of entering class super excited only to leave feeling defeated and with feet begging for mercy. Seeing you so discouraged really touched me... but it's not true that the body at this age can't improve or learn new and complex things, the key is to get back on track and understand that the heaviest burden is not physical, but mental. You're a fantastic dancer, and your passion will drive your progress! This channel truly provides support for all those who challenge themselves and have a real passion for dance. 💃❤‍🔥

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much for all of this! ❤ you’re so so right

[@gooner1ization]

be proud, don't stop and stay calm. The emotional outbursts wont help. Your doing great and being scared and failing is part of the process. You are enough.

[@carlinespence3104]

I am sitting here nearly crying for joy at you taking this leap of faith to pursue your passion. I danced ballet on and off from a kid through to college. I'm now launching a dance ministry at my church and working to get myself back in shape. You are an inspiration to many of us former dancers who know there is still a desire stirring in us to get back out there. All the best in your dance journey. You're right where you should be. Keep dancing! :)

[@GiannaAragona]

Congrats for starting Pointe! It is a great achievement! It does feel very overwhelming when you transition from a beginner to an intermediate dancer because you're more exposed to the realm of opportunity which also brings a lot of self doubt & comparison to others. I believe that almost every dancer has struggled with this feeling of inadequecy because we all have insecurities & we are all just human. Set goals for yourself to achieve & continue to believe in yourself. Continue to build connections & shed your light & positivity to the world! I promise you, good things will come! 💘

[@Travelerorigin]

As a true admirer for ballet, the Art and history of it, I really enjoy watching you dance and your barre work. It's very inspiring, and has helped so many of us. I'm starting late too, at 17, but a year later I don't want to regret not starting the year before. And if you ever notice, it's always the people who are at the bottom who will try to put you down and the teachers who have years experience, will tell you from wisdom that it is never too late. It's never to late to learn something new, and to do what you love.

[@VeronicaViccora]

soooo much wisdom! I wish I was as wise as you when I was 17

[@mandycleezehappyhour4238]

Trying something new is NEVER something you will or should EVER regret. What people regret is NOT trying things, not taking the chance, not facing those fears and anxieties. Regardless of the outcome, years from now, decades from now you will feel soooo satisfied and proud knowing you had the courage to start this journey. I have crushing regrets about something I never followed through on...I have to live with that, and it's a feeling I don't wish on anyone. Putting yourself out there, even at 30, means you will never be left wondering...."what if?" I envy you, that.

[@lovinlifegirl95]

Hey! I love this ❤ I’m 28 years old with a lot of ballet background but I haven’t danced on pointe since I was 19 years old. I’m 28 now but considering getting back into it. You’re very brave and dancing beautifully! Take your time and you’ll get there! If you put proper diet and exercise and sleep and stretching into your life ballet will follow. I have teachers that still dance professionally at 40 years old as guest stars on stage. You can do it! Please just don’t push too hard and injure yourself. You’ve encouraged me to get back into it 😊

[@susangrewe262]

I have to say I am so completely impressed with you! You are so amazing doing this hard thing. Don’t listen to anyone that has anything other than praise for you and your efforts. Ballet dancing is hard when everything is perfect, much less when you have additional challenges such as starting later in life. You will get this just like the other things you have gotten. You are so graceful. I can’t wait to see your pointe journey. ❤❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much, what a kind and beautiful soul you are, I'm so grateful to you!

[@JourneytoLess]

Your heart and soul is so beautiful that it gave me full body chills and cried with you. Don’t give up! Please! Do it for the people who want to but can’t. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.

[@VeronicaViccora]

@@JourneytoLess I’m rooting for you 🥹❤️‍🩹 thank you for this

[@LoriUnleashed]

You’re the best! You are driven for a reason and it’s part of your life’s purpose and design. You have a natural talent and may all your dreams come true. Life is taking you to where you need to be. You’re a maverick and I admire your courage and journey. You’re being open and showing the journey which will be of help to so many people afraid to try anything. I’ve returned to dance at an older age and it’s beyond rewarding. Dancing provides a lifetime of joy!

[@VeronicaViccora]

You don't know what your words mean to me

[@ChristenSapnas]

I danced for 15 years but never did well on pointe, knowing everything now from watching everyone else I realize how poor my fit was. Thank you for putting videos like these out there as you get to be the one helping us when we search for honest info for beginners.

[@ChristenSapnas]

And not only is your flexibility & form amazing, but your dancing on pointe was incredible.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much, sorry to hear you had a poor fit though! That must have made it incredibly difficult!

[@cooky2102]

Stumbled upon this and you’re inspirational for pushing through. Honestly, when I was 10 i quit ballet (it was due to lack of support form my parents as they thought it’s a waste of time and that I should just focus on my studies) right when i leveled up to pointe has been my ultimate regret up to this day. The desire for me to go back comes and go up to this point of my life, i am now 35 and watching you inspires me that maybe I can still relearn ballet and still dance ballet. And I know i will always love ballet and would want to experience everything again to fulfill my longing for ballet and to dance with pointes on. Every time i watch a video about ballet or ballerinas it always hurts and disappoints me for not pursuing it. maybe for those who say it’s too late, maybe too late to be as good as those same age as we are who had started very early, when they’re kids and never stopped but to learn and dance ballet because it’s your passion and it’s something you fell in love with, you’re inspiring us who has doubts on trying something new even at this age. Adults beginners at ballet doesn’t always mean their goal is to be the (or best) prima ballerina in a company. Sometimes it just means we want to dance ballet the best we can despite every disadvantage. Aside from it will be far more difficult due to our body not young anymore and isn’t as flexible as it was when we’re kids, it takes a lot of courage just to even start to learn or relearn ballet. And I would say ignore those who says you should stop as long as your health isn’t affected and is passionate about it, keep heading forward to achieve your goal in ballet. Be proud of yourself not everyone is willing and courageous enough to go through these and i know i am one who doesn’t have the courage like you do but i know that your journey is inspirational and a testament for those in doubt.

[@susanwilturner2641]

You are Awesome, You inspire us adult ballet pointe students. Viva Ballet!

[@jemminz4561]

NEVER Let others Tell you what to do GOOD JOB You are Beautiful. It Takes Time ti learn. You So got this. ! NEVER GIVE UP!!!

[@ValleighSimmons]

I just want to say thank you. I decided to start ballet for the first time…at 50. I had almost talked myself out of it until I saw your posts. I guess seeing you work through your fears and feelings made me feel normal. Thank you and continue being AWSOME!

[@Ohana1-l4y]

Hiii, I just wanna tell u hoooow much I feel the doubts that you shared with us in the beginning of the video. I started at 14, so pretty late for a total professional career as well, but I realized, that I never constantly wanted something more than this. I don’t know why, and especially why tf it’s ballet, but it’s true. And I agree soooo much with this thoughts of “maybe I’m just too old, others start at 3 years, how should it be possible to keep up with the technique?” And that the brain wants you to give but you tell yourself, that you will not give up. I catched up with the missing technique, I made to the same level as all the over dancers in my school in my age in only one year. And I don’t have the super perfect body for a ballerina as well, I don’t fit in the type so well. The chance that I’ll make it, is so small. But you know what? There is a chance. And I will freaking make it! There is no principal ballerina with boobs out there? Well then I’ll have to be the first one. What I want to say, that I can totally relate to this. We have to keep going and believing and enjoying what we do. And your journey is soooo inspiring for me. When it’s possible for you as an adult to do photo shoots and performances, why shouldn’t I be able to make it? So keep keep going and I think you really are talented tbh. And super beautiful just to mention it.

[@klaradvorak2633]

your filming style makes me so nostalgic of those 90s/2000s dance documentaries

[@weirdspirit2507]

I am an adult beginner in ballet struggling with my first 2 months in proper ballet classes and this honestly was so inspiring. I am practicing everyday and my body hurts all the time. Learning a lot about mental strength. Thank you for posting this. Also, you are a wonderful ballerina.

[@k3d1c]

Im 38 and returned to dance after 15 yr break. I got injured from overdoing it. Hindsight i should have worked my way up towards it and built up strength after taking a long break. i think i totally understand you - it is hard and our bodies are different than they were at 18 and 20s. However, dance brings me joy and i wont give up. Itll take time and now i know i need to be patient with myself. Thank you for sharing your life and this video. It sparked some comments from 66yo who said they also returned to dance. It looks like we are not alone in going after our dreams and it just reminded me to not give up. Right now i have been going through a hard time, with injuries and going back to school again to complete college and working a lot. i am burnt out and exhausted. This video reminded me to not give up bc when i first started the idea of going back to school and dance, i originally said to myself, i dont want to be 100 and on my deathbed and regret i didnt complete all my dreams. So, thank you for this reminder. I really needed to see this and see the community and have this conversation. ❤

[@trenae77]

I don’t care if you were a failure from start to end - YOU TOOK THE CHANCE!!! It’s a step of bravery that takes so much courage, humility and determination. But the thing is you have talent - some natural, some earned. Here’s to successes in time as they come with your continued determination.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much, this is so much more encouraging than you could ever know! Sending you virtual hugs!

[@insekta1701]

Such a wonderful message you’ve given us here, and thank you letting us glimpse into your dancing travels and revealing your heart to us. Congratulations on making it to pointe, too! That’s a very big deal, and I’m thrilled for you! I’m a 46 year old overweight woman, 5’9”, and am not what one would associate with ballet, nor any type of dancing at all, due to my weight. I am also planning this fall to start taking what is called at the school I want to attend ‘Absolute Beginner’s Introduction to Ballet’, for people with no experience or past experience but needing to start all over. I fall into the start-all-over category, as I haven’t taken ballet since I was 16, when I quit. 30 years later, I want to go back and give it another go and give myself another chance to be on pointe again someday, and I know it’s going to be a long and hard slog up that hill as I need to lose A LOT of weight for my health’s sake, and to make dancing better and easier for myself, and maybe get closer to my goal of getting on pointe again. I have sat and thought ‘are people going to look at me oddly?’, ‘are people going to be annoyed by my fatness’, ‘will people encourage me in class?’ Maybe all of those things will happen, however, I want to do ballet for myself, and because I adore it. Your video has given me even more of a boost to get ready in the interim and then get to class this fall, and I thank you greatly for that. ❤❤

[@SharonBerry-s4c]

We’re not inspired because you’re a quick study (even though you definitely are!) we follow your journey because you’re going at your OWN pace. Most of us have never seen anything like it and that’s exactly what inspires us. Keep doing what you’re doing because it’s pure magic!

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much for saying that, it’s so much more encouraging and helpful than you could ever know! 🥹💕

[@j.2359]

uhhh I haven't even started watching this but just seeing the thumbnail made me so happyyyyyy

[@j.2359]

corecction excited for the video! not happy you felt humbled just exited seeing your journey an achieving to even go on point

[@VeronicaViccora]

I knew what you meant! Thank you so much for your enthusiasm and kindness and everything!!

[@nguyenrtv]

its so nice to see how many ppl are beginning ballet as an adult! I finally found adult classes and went for it and I'm soooo happy I did! I can't wait until I can get on pointe!

[@jillyferdinand130]

you are a little ray of sunshine watching you go through your ballet journey. you’ve got this! everyone has bad days but it makes the positive even brighter xxx

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much

[@genevacasalegno4360]

I'm so glad I stumbled across this video. I'm so proud of you! I did ballet for 8 years as a kid and the joy from dancing is incredible:) I did pointe for a few of those years and everyone has a different experience but wow it IS a lot of work! Doing a few dance classes a week, it took a full year to be able to do a dance number en pointe for a performance. So stepping away from the barre on your second class is very impressive. Big reminder to be gentle with your body. Take care of those ankles especially as it's easy to overwork yourself and roll an ankle out of fatigue so definitely listen when your body needs to slow down. And hold onto that joy in dancing

[@silvinhabruno]

I just went back to ballet classes at 40. I have no muscles memories of my 10y dancing as a child-adolescent. An seeing you in this very first class as very inspiring and also you looked amazing. I could never tell you were gripping to the bars. You really looked very good. Hope in the 2-3 years be in your shoes, literally ❤

[@missygee531]

Honey dont give up. That desire in you is so genuine and you need to realize it. Youre at the beginning, you just started pointe. YOU WILL GET THERE! Dont give up pretty ballerina! ❤🩰🩰❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much again kind soul!

[@wendytaylor72]

I started RAD ballet training at 49. I'm now 55 and do pointe work. I had never done ballet before, although I had a background in figure skating. If you're willing to put in the time and effort, there is nothing stopping you doing anything. Don't listen to any of the haters - many of them are plain jealous. It's your journey and everyone is different. Passion, determination and hard work will get you a long way. Keep dancing!

[@_Claire_Louise_]

If I hadn't become disabled I would have loved to start ballet as an adult! (Unfortunately no accessible dance classes near me so doing basics through youtube when my body will let me) I was never a dancer but was a gymnast for too many years 😂 one thing my coach said to me was that it's ok to want to quit, but you can never decide that it's time to stop after a hard day. You always have to show up at least one more time and decide to stop after you have a good day. That's helped me with big decisions so many times through my life, not just in sport

[@ZaaZaa-d2r]

I am 75 years old and I went on pointe for the first time at 30 years old and I was addicted. I am so proud of you....when I did it people said I was crazy and some teachers refused to teach me. I had been a dancer and Knotts Berry Farm and one of my fellow can can dancers was a ballerina and a teacher....and Bronwin taught me pointe....I was the mother of a 5 year old

[@erinnorris]

Wanna throw out there that even pros have days where they have "bad" classes and feel frustrated and stuck! Keep getting back in the studio and remember that those "bad" days are helping you get stronger and helping you appreciate the good days so much more.

[@VeronicaViccora]

You're soo so right, thank you so much for this

[@desertnat]

30 year old dancer here. I study bellydance and perform locally, but have always been interested in ballet and fusing those two dance worlds together. The self-doubt is SO real and so is the fear of letting yourself or other people down. But when you said your body is the vessel for music, I thought BAM. That is it! That understanding and being soft with ourselves is so important. I wish you the best in your dance journey! ❤

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you! Bely dance has always seemed like SO much so I think that's really cool. Thank you so much for all your understanding and encouragement. You're a gem

[@MelonDance.437]

Thank you for your vulnerability Veronica and sharing your journey online! Ive told myself the same exact things this past year coming back to dance and starting pointe at 32 for the first time as well!

[@bcgrote]

You have a desire to try the thing, and you are DOING the thing!! You are doing it because you want to test and work your body, enjoy dancing, and all that. Pointe means progress! If your teachers are saying time for pointe, you are ready to try. Do you remember your very first dance class? When you didn't even know left from right? And now you are here! I'm 58 and over 200 pounds, and have had 2 spine surgeries. I'm considering going back to ballet as well! I may only do 2 classes, but I won't know unless I try, right? You are doing this for you, not for the critics and naysayers! Get it! ❤

[@AlyeskaRess]

relating so much, all that wasted time feeling, im 30 and i could have been so talented but i just missed the train and i feel ridiculous when yougner people are already so good and money IS a problem for dancing. BUT YOUR VIDEOS ARE AMAZING AND REMINDS ME A LOT OF SANE AND HEALTHY REMINDERS THANKS! It is like you open up for a whole community on youtube and instagram, and what you are doing is SO amazing and brave and intersting! WE NEEDED IT ! Your content is so authentic and you are so graceful and charismatic! Have a good dayyyyy xxxxxxxxxx

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you sooooo sooo much for this! I’m incredibly honored and touched by your words. Wishing you all the best! 🥰

[@jenniferserenaosborne-will7900]

DON'T GIVE UP! You have amazing extension and turn out and if I hadn't seen the title of this video, I honestly wouldn't have known it was your first pointe class. You're doing fantastic and you WILL improve. Keep tracking your progress and you'll look back and be able to see how far you've come. Pointe is hard but if it was easy, everyone could do it but the thing is, not everyone can do it but you're not those people. You can do this, it will get easier. Every ballet dancer ever has been where you are, thinking it's impossible. You're not alone in that but keep pushing through and one day, you'll do a pirouette, then 2 and you'll wonder how you did it but then realise how fantastic you are. I don't know you but wanna tell you, from across the pond, from one dancer to another, you've got this, I have faith in you and you're going to be such a good danc so PLEASE believe in yourself because I believe in you and your goals.xx

[@May_003]

if no one's told you today Vero, I'm SO PROUD OF YOU ❤️‍🩹

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you my angel

[@cindyrissal3628]

Fo whatever makes you happy. You don't have to be the world's greatest to enjoy doing ballet. Go for it!

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much

[@morrisminor72]

Wow, gorgeous feet! Demipointe roll through is hard, especially with new shoes. I’m 51 and have been en pointe for nearly 2 years, and you are doing so much better than I am. Took me so long to get over my box on my left foot (needed a wider shoe and some ankle surgery for a naughty bit of extra bone), now I am trying to catch up with the other adult learners.

[@CiaraColette]

When I see you talking to the camera walking down the streets of NY you seem like such a dancer the way you carry yourself and speak eloquently. You’re so feminine and your personality is more like a dancer because you are a dancer!

[@VeronicaViccora]

thank you!!! you're so encouraging!! It means the world!

[@Specters0rd]

I’m 21 now and I’ve been feeling the urge to get back into ballet again. I can’t really recall how long I did it, probably around 2-4 years with a break from 6-16. And damn, I clearly remember the bad days especially given the fact that I did Martial Arts, JROTC, and Ballet (as much as I loved those days, 16 year old me really bit more she could chew lmao and doing Audio Visual production afterwards didn’t help-). This video made realize the joy of just taking your time and savor one thing.

[@beago0810]

Hi... I took my first pointe class at the age of 58 at The Joffrey Ballet School. I see that's where you're having your first class, too😊. Congratulations...!!

[@Magnelan1]

the ballet bad day is the day you don't break a sweat. YOU GOOOOOO GIRL !!! you can do it!! complain as much as you like, do dance angry , sad, happy... this is part of the artistic journey.

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much for understanding

[@kayleighhrf]

don't give up now veronica, you've worked hard to achieve what you've accomplished trust me it doesn't get easier, you only get better x

[@VeronicaViccora]

thank you friend

[@morrisonhannah]

Oh, girl, you look like you've been doing ballet your entire life. You're beautiful! Great job and good luck

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much!! So grateful to have someone as kind as yourself here

[@miruschkac7880]

Oh Veronica, you pointe crisis made me laugh so much. Not at you but at myself. It‘s like looking into a mirror, I know these feelings so well. I think it‘s our egos talking. So I‘m giving you a story back which hopefully might make you laugh the next time you are in a situation like this: A couple of years ago I attended a music and dance festival in which I was taking part in a bellydance workshop. There had been a huge thunderstorm the night before the workshop started and the rain had leaked through in our tent at the exact spot where all my shoes were. So I went to the workshop feeling tired and cold. And the workshop didn‘t go well. I was sooooo upset, felt that I just wasn‘t the right kind of dancer and that I would never get it. I seriously contemplated not going back to the workshop. Truth is that it was just more difficult than I had expected. And I had the impression that everyone was doing better than me. After a day of sulking I also realized that by „doing it well“ I actually meant „doing it as well as the teacher“ (who had trained since her childhood). When I realized that, I felt super sheepish because come on, how conceited was my goal to do it as well as the teacher on my very first class…? Rather a big ego taking, right? So I hope this story helps when you‘re feeling low the next time.

[@VeronicaViccora]

You're absolutely right! It's so unfair to expect to be able to do it all over night when people have spent years training to get where they are! Also, it sounds like you had a lot working against you for that workshop so it makes sense that it wouldn't go the best. I'm certain under different circumstances it would've gone differently I'm SURE you've found better spaces to shine since then! Thank you for all your kind words though

[@miruschkac7880]

@@VeronicaViccora Oh, once I realized that I was being kind of ridiculous I continued with the workshop and had a lot of fun with it. :). But you are right - it‘s often when we are tired/miserable etc that our mind gets to play tricks with us. That‘s why I really like the conclusion of your video. Being gentle and patient with ourselves is so important!

[@jennaostroff3563]

Please never give up! I’m an adult figure skater and seeing your passion is really encouraging me

[@VeronicaViccora]

Thank you so much! Figure skating is sooooo much fun!

[@npats550]

Fluff those people who are making negative comments. If you love dancing ballet, no matter how much ppl criticise, ignore them. You are doing this for you, and as long as you don't have illusions of being a professional ballerina, you do you. Sorry, I am probably projecting as I love the dance world so much, and was also an adult beginner. Unfortunately, I developed an illness which changed my life for the worst, so I encourage you to go for it, because your excitement is radiating from within.

[@GiselleKlara]

You’re right….but here is why people who HAVE had a career in the industry (as in a ft paying one) are bothered by her content : she imagines herself as an “”unpaid professional””. She calls herself a ballerina. This is like calling yourself an Olympian when you just started an adult gymnastics class. And we aren’t trolls- she periodically appears by algorithm. I’d block her content if I could- it’s not for me at all; except that I do teach adults- sane ones who know where they fit in the dance community. She’s a housewife who enjoys ballet classes- nothing wrong with that but no more different or special than if she enjoyed yoga/pilates/figure skating/tennis/watercolors/whatever….and could spend her days paying for classes and making up content about that. I find her rose coloured view of the imagined world of ballet to be incredibly problematic and unhealthy - she lives in a fantasy that people who are equally ignorant- but not as wealthy and supported- think they can also have and are then frustrated when they can’t.

[@poppyblue1512]

​@@GiselleKlara god i feel so sorry for your students

[@briarrose5208]

Please don’t give up! You’re making great progress! My dance teacher told me “You can decide every day to be the best dancer you can be for that day.” Slow and steady progress builds flexibility and strength and helps you avoid injury. Rest, gentle yoga, Pilates. High protein diet to develop muscles. Treat yourself to a massage now and then. If you live near a massage school, see if they offer reduced price massages by students in their last semester.Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@54321Judith]

Always remember, you never stop learning and if you can keep the love for music, and dance alive you can remain happy 🥰

[@VeronicaViccora]

You're so right, thanks a million