To all empaths spending their time alone indoors - don’t feel bad about doing that. It’s perfectly okay.
@bobbymoin41825 жыл бұрын
Thank you, that made me feel better
@katym.ibarra27835 жыл бұрын
Celeste S. Love solitude
@lupegaehring23625 жыл бұрын
I am indoors alot at the moment...i don't know what it is, depression, exhaustion, or just not feeling outdoorsy.. I don't know
@sirkylebruce5 жыл бұрын
❤️
@mzmodest5 жыл бұрын
Thanks I such a hermit if I'm not at work
@kristicreasey74443 жыл бұрын
The hardest part is longing for friends but craving isolation. Isolation always wins
@tonyg7023 жыл бұрын
This is so so true...
@maimunaisah75663 жыл бұрын
Soooo true
@gloriakurkowski1013 жыл бұрын
It does, yet, I want friends but relationships are difficult.
@gregg96723 жыл бұрын
You are so right
@oldtruckersneverdie39163 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Doobsy3573 жыл бұрын
It’s even harder to date when you’re an empath because you can feel an energy shift instantly and it hurts when you’re in a relationship
@jennifergraceh3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! This torments me on a regular basis
@bernie7153 жыл бұрын
How would you describe an enegry shift?
@HealthyLifestyled7883 жыл бұрын
Yep, I literally want to date only empath like me🤣🤣🤣
@youbettaglowgurl15003 жыл бұрын
Omg!! Yas!!
@Miafunfactory3 жыл бұрын
to the nano-second... its a bit much...
@justin241313 жыл бұрын
I love being an empath and sometimes I really don’t. We get taken advantage of so much. People tend to share their personal issues with me a lot and it’s very overwhelming at times! Sending love to my empath family.
@elainedownes44882 жыл бұрын
That is so true!
@lorirose83252 жыл бұрын
Yes
@jenniferhyde53892 жыл бұрын
I still get a feeling of "let down" and cry when I'm taken advantage of.
@k.k80002 жыл бұрын
Yes it gives me anxiety I can read thoughts as well and don’t know how to manage. You can sit with me and I can feel a depressed energy if that person is depressed.
@yourstrength1314 Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@marilynmian58114 жыл бұрын
I feel uneasy when I am around certain people.I also can sense when someone don't want me around.
@JustKate434 жыл бұрын
Marilyn Mian me too!! With both.
@DELTACO..UBERDRIVER..STOCKS..4 жыл бұрын
Y'all could be tripping too..
@marilynmian58114 жыл бұрын
I am not tripping and I can sense when someone isn't safe or trustworthy.
@ellendolber27654 жыл бұрын
I can feel if I meet someone new, like me or not, first impression don't lie.
@alleytovar11944 жыл бұрын
Same I hate it cause it makes me feel uncomfortable and then my body shows it then they think I'm scared so it's hard feeling other people's feelings especially the dark heavy energies
@datboi28864 жыл бұрын
Anyone else get a pain in their chest when you see certain people going through something?
@wildangel02294 жыл бұрын
dat boi YES! I often feel the pain physically of those close to me
@ravinswoodfairies30014 жыл бұрын
Do you also feel a pain in “your core” is the only way I can describe it, if you see someone fall or hurt themselves or even almost fall.
@doggette24 жыл бұрын
Yes,that's me! When someone is physically hurt,I get a pain in my chest too.
@SuperSam4444 жыл бұрын
dat boi, - I put it down to maybe their heart chakra is blocked with maybe with some sort of heart break. I feel which other chakras are blocked in my body to try and work out why. Or it could be that they have a check infection/cold. Experience and other signs tells me the difference. To do this though, I have to meditate and balance my own chakras regularly and keep myself balanced and grounded.
@beyourself87014 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily in my chest but through my torso, in my core.
@Troveguide2 жыл бұрын
To anyone who needs this: I found that saying the phrase “Let all emotions not my own return to their rightful owner” aloud to myself helps me center myself when I feel emotionally overwhelmed.
@beckyestrada7339 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm going to try that!
@dougww1ectebow Жыл бұрын
Thank you, that's awesome and I just did and it works. Dealing with someone and THEIR emotions currently. I suddenly feel much lighter again.
@dawnmarie648011 ай бұрын
That's crazy because I was thinking spirit attachment because it's been so over welming to explain the feelings I've been expressing when they're not anything to do with stuff around me so I've been saying that all things that aren't mine be evicted because they're trespassing
@melissabozarth-mn4yq11 ай бұрын
❤ thank you
@crystal143222 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard for us to actually be heard, we constantly are helping others and trying to fix their problems. I tend to hide and isolate when I’m overwhelmed. Also, our intuition is crazy accurate. Beware of narcissistic wolves out there because they feed off us.
@sheliashuck1633 Жыл бұрын
You said that so perfectly.
@vickiebrewer5898 Жыл бұрын
Married one. Getting a divorce.
@MusiciansWithVision Жыл бұрын
Have you any idea what delusions of grandeur are, do you know what self-righteousness means?
@ExtraordinaryLiving Жыл бұрын
@@vickiebrewer5898 Got one (the narcissis) as a parent ... unfortunately I can't "divorce" her, and am "forced" to be a care-giver to her now that she's so old that she no longer can take care of herself. Not sure how long I'll need to do this. 😕
@ExtraordinaryLiving Жыл бұрын
@@MusiciansWithVision What were you trying to get at by your questions? What were you implying?
@tikamccook90654 жыл бұрын
Going through the comments like...”Wow I finally found my tribe. I can relate”
@sharonpretorius11714 жыл бұрын
🤣 your "tribe"
@detyqueriouswells14664 жыл бұрын
@gumshoesoul I swear me too! Lol.... y'all making me so happy and peaceful and calm on the inside.
@jverenini4 жыл бұрын
Yes my family
@jverenini4 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to figure me out this is me my dad and grampa the same. Trying to learn this
@diannerussell17964 жыл бұрын
I was wondering whether there is an empath social group for us, I might have a look on twitter or Facebook. 🌻🦋🌻🦋
@Axljaurigue4 жыл бұрын
When I surrounded by toxic people I feel my energy was drain.
@rbml64084 жыл бұрын
Same 😢
@audreymayjolly74693 жыл бұрын
Yes. Physically drained
@moonshineall41523 жыл бұрын
Me too
@adrianarivera41943 жыл бұрын
Same!! I feel so anxious and headache and just want to lay down
@tiarekahai43683 жыл бұрын
Are these the only comments? How common are empaths?
@doja1053 жыл бұрын
It’s hard being like this. You can tell how people feel towards you
@yellowball3 жыл бұрын
There's so many things wrong with this lmao.
@doja1053 жыл бұрын
@@yellowball huh
@redtickhound3 жыл бұрын
So true.
@BigBoss23-y5n2 жыл бұрын
Right off the bat
@YouDontKnowMebro692 жыл бұрын
Yes you can and it’s so draining
@shaunaellis66192 жыл бұрын
For me the hardest part about being and Empath is knowing what others really think of you and what's going to happen.
@suesaville3160 Жыл бұрын
For me it makes trusting people very hard
@brendadouglas5269 Жыл бұрын
I already know to sometimes .... if I mess up somehow they let other people know it even tho the narcs do the same thing 😂 but my sin has to be broadcasted ... it does bother me but it's getting where it doesn't bother me as much because i think i finally starting to understand
@christinetilton45625 жыл бұрын
I can even tell when someone is feeling off in a text.
@hotpotato76095 жыл бұрын
I've had those experiences, that I was picking up the emotions from a text before reading the content.
@novinawright12285 жыл бұрын
Me2
@entitled76655 жыл бұрын
😯 wow! Me to
@entitled76655 жыл бұрын
I thought I was crazy
@christinetilton45625 жыл бұрын
Lizzalizzette Alexander it’s comforting finding others who also feel the same.
@Lincolnberries5 жыл бұрын
I do not like being an empath at all. That’s too much power to have. I can’t be in crowds of people, I can feel people all the time. I’m often depressed because I unknowingly absorbed another’s depressed state. I can feel people through walls. I can literally meet a person for the first time and in a few minutes, I completely know the person. I can tell when a person is lying to me. Everyone always seems to come to me for advice. It was fun at first, but it’s extremely overwhelming. I literally shut myself inside the house.
@3KeyElements5 жыл бұрын
Lincoln try the steps I suggest. It can get easier for you when you learn how to balance. Here's another video that may give you more insight kzbin.info/www/bejne/en2ucqeHrNJ-os0&lc=z23lhfyqqkeoxdatiacdp43bbgviposfnuzluu2fqmdw03c010c.1547155804574698
@debbiekinney28245 жыл бұрын
Learn grounding to protect yourself
@torithepisces74655 жыл бұрын
I can relate so deeply with this comment. Its sooo overwhelming
@saraa43535 жыл бұрын
i deliberately dont read the news because it affects me so profoundly. Reading about people dying or undergoing hardships and strife always leaves me crying my eyes out. When I tell people I don't read the news for this reason, they look at me like as though I'm insane. That they want to know what's going on in the world. That they've become desensitized. People tell me their problems and I absorb their emotions and take them as my own and it gets so mentally exhausting that I sometimes can't differentiate between my emotions and people's emotions. My problem is that I have a nurturing, healing soul. I always want to help people no matter what. To ease their suffering in any way I can and when I can't.. it makes me despair.
@saraa43535 жыл бұрын
I am the same. I try to have a lot of ME time. As many hours as possible. Just so I can recharge my energy and stop feeling emotionally overwhelmed. It's a dilemma: I have this innate drive to help people because it's my purpose in life and at the same time I try to avoid people only cuz I end up feeling emotionally worn out to the point where I end up crying and feeling profoundly sad. I often have trouble breathing cuz my chest feels heavy when I am sad.
@hairhealing54373 жыл бұрын
Being an Empath can be very draining. We have to take a break from people because we intake so many emotions. I can feel when people are jealous and hateful. But I can also feel when people mean well.
@arlinaencluna5174 Жыл бұрын
agree
@michaelmcgee335 Жыл бұрын
Most people can sense hatred and love. It’s not really that special.
@Birgitta123 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelmcgee335how about feeling it so much it makes you ill?
@ricksanchez39763 жыл бұрын
The worst part about being an empath is being near someone and not feeling anything. It’s truly sad that there are people living with no feelings at all.
@racquelroye Жыл бұрын
I feel those persons hearts and emotions are frozen on ice😭😭 Worst feeling ever!
@pinayganda777 Жыл бұрын
I hear you 😢
@micaelamontes7311 ай бұрын
Omg! I know what you’re talking about 😢
@goldendiamon3 ай бұрын
I do pity those people because they might be people diagnosed with Anti-social personality disorder which is caused by traumas in their life that broke the frontal lobe of their brain which is responsible for empathy,so doing crimes and being cruel feels addiction to them like a pleasure even if they don't like the bad things they did and they know they'll regret in the end cuz when they get called out they always hurt themselves and said:"I want to feel!" So maybe there's part of childhoods trauma where they were taught that emotions are weakness...So doing crimes is like a drug to them and their struggles are like of a drug addict because they might crave it but will regret they did it
@avesaryanna28654 жыл бұрын
the corona virus has literally saved me in a way. I’ve never felt more free only having to deal with my thoughts.
@sylviakanz80884 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I'm finally finding out who and what I am I happen to be a light worker, you'll be one to. Check it out. Really interested as well. Xx
@420Download4 жыл бұрын
At 49 I'm just realizing I may be an empath.
@7iconiclegends4 жыл бұрын
Omg THIS
@giuseppinastella93104 жыл бұрын
I live with my emotionally draining mother who loves to make me have guilt trips. It’s not fun for me
@420Download4 жыл бұрын
@@giuseppinastella9310 OH , I KNOW EXACTLY HOW MUCH FUN YOU'RE HAVING, NOT! My home burned down a year ago and I've come full circle back in my childhood bedroom. We should share stories. My Son talks to her, but not me. It's lovely
@immacu-latte13124 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else get random people or acquaintances talking to you about their problems when you meet them? And they thank you for listening and they feel better and they leave?
@shahadah14513 жыл бұрын
I do.
@treasurecassidy63573 жыл бұрын
All of the time.
@lunajaguar68073 жыл бұрын
Definitely I feel like mission accomplished Then I feel happy 😃 and free
@treasurecassidy63573 жыл бұрын
@@lunajaguar6807 I know , right?😇
@aaoiap32473 жыл бұрын
Happens..to me all the time..but I am married to a narc and slowly loosing myself...
@tynishabradley82332 жыл бұрын
Yes, I've learned that I'm an empath with a fearful avoidant attachment style. I always thought something was wrong with me. Nothing is wrong with me, I was just raised by a narcissist who groomed me to be complicit in the abuse and manipulation. Now I am self-aware, more empowered, I know my worth and now have boundaries. I've grown and healed a lot, and I love myself a lot more now, so I'm very grateful for who and what I am.
@Ann-rl3wt Жыл бұрын
Me too
@lifecloud2 Жыл бұрын
This is wonderful, tynisha. You are still younger than I was when I finally figured this out. This is such a huge benefit.
@laughoncomedy2923 Жыл бұрын
Me too dear.
@ciancoyle9913 Жыл бұрын
Right I have a narcisstic mother I am out in public wonderin and askin myself why am I side-eyeing other people- a horrible trait to succumb yet I get home and now I see my mum side eyeing me I'm doing it because of her I always feel like saying sorry to people. It's sad kinda but we will all prevail empaths-
@thesmilechannel36473 жыл бұрын
My wife always be confused when I tell her that I sense something different when someone say something but their eyes and body language movement tells me something different... and my sensitivity is always on point..
@bernie7153 жыл бұрын
Me too. I know how people feel.
@sheepdog38283 ай бұрын
and wife gaslights me telling me, I don't see that in her, I don't se that in him....I'm fine what are you talking about, what makes you say that....yeah.... because all small talk and trivial conversations are shortly turned and made about her....sigh...
@laraoneal72844 жыл бұрын
I’m an empath but WITH BOUNDARIES. I learned that bc we get taken advantage of.
@diannerussell17964 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Hamster-ie8qz4 жыл бұрын
Never trust anyone is what I've learned
@Mia101074 жыл бұрын
I'm always taken advantage of that's why I never wanna be around people. I prefer myself alone
@robinelliot95314 жыл бұрын
I’m empath that can pick up on people’s vibe. I can see spirit sometimes and here things
@gtrrohit50784 жыл бұрын
But taking advantage of others...its human nature so it's understandable. If you want to survive in this world you have to stay firm
@towandareid91455 жыл бұрын
This is why I isolate myself from people and large crowds.
@van1825 жыл бұрын
Towanda Life Isolating yourself from people seems like a lonely existence. We need to bond with others and share love with others. Our feelings should not govern us; they are tools that we must manage. Never allow your "feelings" to be in the driver's seat, they will usually steer you in the wrong direction. Incorporate more logic in your thinking. Being sensitive to others is a wonderful thing, but keep it wholesome and balanced. God bless you.
@barbusie52174 жыл бұрын
Me too ...
@AnnaSweden4 жыл бұрын
Towanda Life I feel U
@ashleys89114 жыл бұрын
Same I isolate myself from the world my husband and daughter are pretty much all who see me everything from working at home I don’t like being out around large crowds it makes my senses go crazy and then I’m emotionally drained
@merk10034 жыл бұрын
Wooo.... me too
@asmera45472 жыл бұрын
omg...this explains why I avoid funerals at all costs if possible. Years ago, I went to the funeral of a father of a friend, I had only met him once. But at the funeral I found myself weeping uncontrollably to the point where the pastor came up to me and said "what is wrong with you you barely knew the man!" That scarred me for life. It took everything within me to manage my fathers' funeral. I have learned somehow how to manage it. I thought I was just a heartless person not wanting to go to funerals...now I understand. It's because I can FEEL THE PAIN OF ALL THE MOURNERS......pray I have the strength to go through my Mothers...whenever that happens...
@celine401 Жыл бұрын
Same for me I avoid at all costs x
@Leothelion8288 Жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s sad
@tomcoryell9 ай бұрын
The pastor is a jackass.
@ElsieDee0018 ай бұрын
Same here. I get to crying for strangers.
@raelaurenmccoy8032 жыл бұрын
My workplace can literally be crippling for me. Their negative vibes and attitude can be not directed at me but I feel it and it throws me off. I've felt these things for years and when I finally realized I was empathic and sensitive I started adjusting. I became more of an introvert due to this.
@lifecloud2 Жыл бұрын
I hear this!
@harkon6569 Жыл бұрын
OMG, exactly what I'm going through right now. Still trying to figure out a way to get in there every day and not flip tables.
@christinacatalano Жыл бұрын
SAME SAME SAME
@maverickbourne2.0rph. Жыл бұрын
💯
@tylercooper15515 жыл бұрын
As an empath I wish i could give as good a guidance to myself as i do for other people...
@3KeyElements5 жыл бұрын
Right? Here's a tip, what you are helping others with is ussually great advice for yourself as well! Keep looking for the coorelations and you'll find them!
@hollischoate27714 жыл бұрын
You can💌🙋🏼♀️
@bethany-b2pkfilms7924 жыл бұрын
Same
@penelopepitstop1974 жыл бұрын
Me too
@richardlandis7934 жыл бұрын
Tyler Cooper I often have been able to give great advice to many over my lifetime. It goes without saying what I've done for my life. You know.
@themissingpeace79564 жыл бұрын
I can tell a person's mood just by the tone of their voice.
@alfordromney87843 жыл бұрын
Me too
@marykay85873 жыл бұрын
Yes and body language and they don't even have to speak
@n0rahh3 жыл бұрын
same
@MamtaNarang3 жыл бұрын
Being a writer , I also get it by the words.
@christylove9243 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Barbara-iv9qb2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I did not know I was an empath until I asked my chiropractor why I felt real physical pain whenever I saw someone get hurt. The pain would start in my chest and sometimes go down my legs to my ankles. He told me I was an empath. Now, I have to say I am 71 and have always felt not quite like everyone else. It is interesting because being an empath explains so much. Life for an empath can be quite challenging. It has been for me.
@maevemaiden2 жыл бұрын
This happens to me too, also when people are being cruel, i feel it as an aching that starts in my hands. When I see someone get hurt or even hear someone describe it i feel the aching in my groin and legs. It had been very challenging.
@jenniferevans3922 Жыл бұрын
I thought I was crazy. This happens to me all the time. As a medical caregiver, it has become a very big challenge. Thank you for sharing this.
@rogerhall4303 Жыл бұрын
My chiropractor was the one who diagnosed me as an empath! She performs N S A, natural spinal alignment, turned my world around.
@lifecloud2 Жыл бұрын
That's so cool that your doctor talked to you about this.
@ldbobay Жыл бұрын
This is me!!! I just found out at 63. You explain me so well. Man. You get me. I'm married to a narcissist and my kids take advantage of me. I almost lost everything.
@jackiespence4 жыл бұрын
I get frustrated with friends who can't "sense" or read people the way I do. I spend a lot of time alone because I feel and see too much.
@bettymcgee25134 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is an empath......he has taught me so much!!
@awesward44544 жыл бұрын
Same; you have to really step back and understand that most people, the vast majority, don't see things the way we do. For instance, when you hear a story of someone who trusted someone who clearly should NOT have been trusted, and it ends badly for them. For us its frustrating because we clearly can see, in an instant what kind of person this individual was and that they never should have been trusted under any circumstances. What we have is a SURVIVAL instinct, we sense the predators among the herd.
@paolaaavalos4 жыл бұрын
I feel the same 😭
@lizzyjones84183 жыл бұрын
Yes this! I wish I knew more empaths!
@Hi-ys1ss3 жыл бұрын
Same
@mitchevans93155 жыл бұрын
I am always anxious about the world while others don’t seem to care. I cry about painful world calamities.
@Scottlongley6325 жыл бұрын
Hi Mitch, hope this message finds well and healthy. i read your words and understand all you said. if you don't mind, i will tell you what i do everyday. every time i hear or read upsetting news from around the world or close by, is, i say a pray, just quietly to myself asking for my unconditional love healing prays to go out to all that needs my prays now. i believe the power of pray can heal anyone or anything even move mountains... after my prayer, i always feel so good about myself which raisers my vibrations to myself and others around me... sorry for such a long message but i just want and try to help... god bless you always ....
@matronarona5 жыл бұрын
I would cry everyday as a kid due to this. It is such a weird feeling and I'm glad I'm not some crazy emotional person and that I'm not alone.
@MrJmuno5 жыл бұрын
Same here friend....
@nancyromero30575 жыл бұрын
Me too. ☹️
@MrJmuno5 жыл бұрын
I want a video about how to cope with this world. I feel us empaths have a deep responsibility to save this world... We are in an extremely bad place with climate change. Inequality. The suffering that capitalism has caused around the globe. The looming idea of fascism. Its too much....
@judytaquino6412 Жыл бұрын
I have been a nurse for almost 50 years. I call patients emotional and energy vampires. I always felt drained after shifts. It took me a few years to realize that I am an empath. Now I pretty much stay in my home. I'm never bored. I'm writing a book at the age of 80. I also cannot tolerate negative people. I have a male friend that is a glass half full guy. One day he came over in a tizzy. I asked him if he could not complain. He said not today. I said, then please go home. I cannot tolerate the wave of negativity around you today.
@amberv42232 жыл бұрын
Yes I feel it..so sensitive..I also get these “flashes” or “glimpses” throughout the day of the feelings of another place or time. In that second I can feel everything, mixed with nostalgia, then it’s gone again.
@Barbara-iv9qb2 жыл бұрын
I get that all the time. I do not understand it.
@gwenduckett30912 жыл бұрын
To Amber Vegangirl I thought something was wrong with me and that I was the only one this happens to frequently!!! I see small snatches of pictures that actually will happen. I feel the emotions. IT SCARES ME! People don't understand to see and feel the pain of others experiences in your head and heart.
@pamelapeterson2987 Жыл бұрын
This happens to me a lot, too.
@micaelamontes7311 ай бұрын
I hear ya!
@anemostrofylos4 жыл бұрын
I love to spend time with myself.... Staying indoors is my sanctuary!
@samwinchester614 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@zyieshamarshall-carter82094 жыл бұрын
anemostrofylos DITTO !
@tanyamurray6954 жыл бұрын
Me to and I always think something is wrong with me
@PadmeAmidalaEdits4 жыл бұрын
anemostrofylos same
@davidsigman3244 жыл бұрын
I have to be outside. The "feeling" overload is not as great and that helps. I mean, I can still home in on that one person who needs to talk, or needs that simple smile and a hello.
@jalisarose59274 жыл бұрын
For some reason I think if only empaths lived on earth it’d be such a peaceful and kind place ❤️
@awesward44544 жыл бұрын
Indeed, empaths cannot abide by cruelty in any form.
@nolongeravailabletothenarc64403 жыл бұрын
Indeed it would!
@chynaii13 жыл бұрын
It really would
@human15053 жыл бұрын
Yes because our DNA is of the angels. We are the 'starseeds' from other dimension and we're all here to being changes in society as well as to raise frequency of the this planet. We live in other dimensions all our lives and that's why we love to be isolated.
@jt20023 жыл бұрын
Human you’re very true 😊
@sirraulo90023 жыл бұрын
My family made me an empath. It's like a defense mechanism. I have to be "sensitive" when I'm around them in order to avoid being taken advantage of. After years of gaslighting and scape goating, I've developed some sort of intuition skills. 😩
@dawnorwig1567 Жыл бұрын
My main problem is attracting men who are narcissists and making my life seemingly more miserable. It's really hard to pinpoint a real man who isn't out to use you, abuse you, or hurt you. I've had all this happen to me from narcissists, scocipaths, or psychopaths.
@user-ey3tk1oz5j Жыл бұрын
How about your beautiful loving confirming positive affirmations you say out loud about what you want and need in your life right now. For example- I am .......It works dear friend. Love to you.
@dawnorwig1567 Жыл бұрын
@@user-ey3tk1oz5j thank you!!! I'll definitely do this!
@MusikAfrica.01 Жыл бұрын
@@dawnorwig1567hi❤ Hope your doing good now. Was scrolling by reading comments and pumped into yours😊
@septdaisys4 жыл бұрын
im an empathy and it can be mentally and physically draining. I feel like I need more sleep than others!! Thanks for sharing.
@Sandromeda.4 жыл бұрын
Me too. Lots of people I know sleep 6-7 hours per night; I NEED 8 hours, but I feel best when I got 9 ... and sometimes I am perfectly able to do 11 hrs or so;-)
@lynnfaraj90514 жыл бұрын
I agreed 100%. I have to get at least 12 hours of sleep because even when I'm sleeping it's had for my mind to rest.
@jldgimhani42194 жыл бұрын
Me too..
@90sbaebee594 жыл бұрын
Mee
@moonchild10354 жыл бұрын
Me too..like no matter how much or little, it's never enough
@1KingJacob4 жыл бұрын
Im crying i litterally thought something was wrong with me.
@missestomlinson994 жыл бұрын
Maestas ur a gift
@user-fr6pt1kt8f4 жыл бұрын
Same
@user-fr6pt1kt8f4 жыл бұрын
@@christyanderson4595 so what are your plans on your life? On how to improve yourself
@kulveerkaurgill20774 жыл бұрын
Same
@franklinauguste4154 жыл бұрын
Im an empath i can feel your pain
@pkp6791 Жыл бұрын
It has taken me over 50 yrs to understand, accept, embrace and manage being an empath. As a young child, all I could do was cry when I was overwhelmed with trying to process so much info coming in. This is a personality profile that can be very difficult to manage. Thank you so much for posting this video! I wish I had seen it years ago!!!
@authenticme57082 жыл бұрын
I can walk into a room of people and hear and feel everything. I get anxiety. My anxiety increases when I can hear and feel their childhood wounds and experiences. Reading the thoughts and analyzing, my body absorbs it. I can tell who the narcissist and empaths are. I find kayaking on a lake brings me back to clarity.
@kerrymillar12674 жыл бұрын
I question the things I know all the time. I know when someone is annoyed at me and why, but then tell myself I’m imagining it. Even if they are being pleasant to my face. Makes me want to avoid others. Does anyone else get that?
@dawn46814 жыл бұрын
Definitely...
@tiyana82954 жыл бұрын
kerry millar omg yes! I hate that feeling sometimes it makes me anxious when I confront them about it & they lie but I can feel they’re annoyed :(
@AlexVinder4 жыл бұрын
It's spot on👍
@sherrychester38754 жыл бұрын
Nailed it!
@nicoleleckner79024 жыл бұрын
Me 💯
@GrahamRodgers4 жыл бұрын
It seems a lot of us stay at home and feel that something is wrong with us! I now see that this is normal and I feel better!
@elenaappleton29324 жыл бұрын
Same!
@barbaraguzmics82934 жыл бұрын
Graham Rodgers ..the number of times Iv been told I’m wierd because of this ...now I know I’m not ..
@unapologeticallyme76643 жыл бұрын
Same here💙
@thomasinedouglas12803 жыл бұрын
Yes, this message is on point.
@erturtemirbaev52073 жыл бұрын
Yes
@beatrixbrennan1545 Жыл бұрын
Empath is just a more covert form of extreme codependency. I was an empath for a long time until i realized it was codependency and i started healing from it. I no longer "feel" other people in the depth i once did and it's so freeing!! I no longer look to solve everyone else's problems and work on my own instead!
@maryfloradolfo47763 жыл бұрын
This is me, I can feel 10 times the emotions of others, at a very high rate
@BigBoss23-y5n2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@ssshortstuff66 Жыл бұрын
Sometime it hurts so much what those around you are feeling the hurt and pain the sorrow.
@brianmarshall39315 жыл бұрын
Some of us tend to avoid conflict with humans, much easier to manage emotions around animals, plants and trees... animals are honest.
@djmikeylove5 жыл бұрын
And babies
@fordgt4024 жыл бұрын
Animals are more honest
@sal29754 жыл бұрын
Whenever I'm honest I get called rude. But tbh, you only like animals because they cant talk back to you. You'd rather not exert effort in socializing with people realizing people have both good and bad in them, even you.
@Shari-Attarian4 жыл бұрын
I do that
@paragon_moon84004 жыл бұрын
I’m a groomer. Dogs can be calming but if they get anxious I feel it then I get anxiety. I’ll have to calm down center myself and reassure them they will be fine. Many times they do calm down so animals can pick up on our senses too.
@beth74374 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how many times someone has asked me how do I know something about a person and my response is,.... I just have a feeling.
@mannbrandyburg4 жыл бұрын
Thought iwuz the only one that felt like that..
@Kappucinokiss14 жыл бұрын
Same I've felt things were not right at times, and come to find out I was right it's like a over whelming feeling of somethings wrong, and it's in the back of my mind, and in my chest.
@Holyhermovement4 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@thomasinedouglas12803 жыл бұрын
Yes, I just know.
@moisemensah82333 жыл бұрын
My friends call me Final Destination
@tarapezolano12183 жыл бұрын
Im Just finding myself ...little scary cos I can see narcissistic people immediately and they know I know !!! I feel it's a power
@RashmitaChakraborty3 жыл бұрын
Nothing feels better than hearing from another empath about empath things, especially when people around you doesn't understand the slightest bit of it. This video was a treat! Thanks, I loved your energy, could resonate so much!
@zheneaviabanks370 Жыл бұрын
Omg yes im literally crying because no one gets me
@raemarie39735 жыл бұрын
If I had a $1 for every time someone said to me "you're too sensitive" I'd be a gazillionaire. Discovering I'm a Empath changed my whole life. Once I learned how to boundary myself and sort the information, I'm a much better guide for people who are lost. I also learned to clear myself several times a day especially if I've been in a public place or working with someone.
@evaschonfeld57524 жыл бұрын
Rae Marie how do you clear yourself?
@justamysticalbeing49724 жыл бұрын
Yeah until they NEED your sensitivity, wish I had a $1 for all those times too!
@jacquelinem.29484 жыл бұрын
I truly enjoy my alone time. This is why I love nature and the beach, especially the water. I find it soothing, relaxing, and I can let go all the toxicity in my (from the outer world).
@toodleloo22533 жыл бұрын
Totally!!.. You have to consciously draw firm boundaries; & do self-care/exercise, too!!..
@immasoxfanbaby3 жыл бұрын
Yess thanks for your comment
@judithcoburn51023 жыл бұрын
Yea feel so Connected to nature and water and forest That's when i feel so free
@MamtaNarang3 жыл бұрын
Just wondering if we can be friends.
@tanishafant-warmack42583 жыл бұрын
If I do say so myself... If I do say so myself... If I do say so myself 🤗😉
@hdp88893 жыл бұрын
As an empath I haven't been able to keep a relationship and until discovering the meaning of empathy I always felt like I was the problem but it was because I felt all the wrongs, the lies and deceptive energies etc...I could never address an issue about what my intuition was telling me without the other party being honest about it when I already knew the truth. I always felt crazy and insecure but as soon as I'm with the right people/person that feeling goes away so as soon as my anxiety wears off im with the right people or location.
@Therealone88 Жыл бұрын
Omg this describes me to the t.
@1Haitian3 жыл бұрын
My daughter is a empath. At first I did not understand. I was taking her to a psychologist because I thought something was wrong with her at the age of 4 or 5. As she got older I started learning about bring a empath. Not only can my daughter feel some else’s emotions but she can also talk to the other side.
@imame14334 жыл бұрын
Since childhood people have said “don’t be so sensitive!” so I’ve grown up trying REAL HARD to not be sensitive, but I can’t help that. I cry from movies, tv, hell even commercials! I turn off the aspca commercials cuz I just can’t. I can feel, and explain, how others feel. I’m even sensitive towards words being over used. Every time you used the word ‘literally‘, I rolled my eyes.
@chocolatechipc00kiesmwuah714 жыл бұрын
Mines was so bad where people said I was simply too nice and i’m so sensitive that they would call me a cry baby. Even my own father says that i’m sensitive that I need to toughen up. I’ve had so many people that would tell me I need to toughen up and not only that I love to help people so when I can’t, I feel so so so bad.
@susanw74424 жыл бұрын
lol, I get very emotional when watchin contestants get called to "come on down" on the Price Is Right!
@imame14334 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatechipc00kiesmwuah71 That's horrible and am sorry you went and go through that. IMO those are people you make jealous due to your caring nature and they want to make you like them, uncaring a$$holes. You keep being you, this is the only life we get and we all gotta make it the best we can
@charlottekay7724 жыл бұрын
Haha I cry way too often at commercials it’s unreal. I feel you.
@pureroseangemuse79104 жыл бұрын
Ima Me my parents said why ur so sensitive 😭😂
@susanstanley79424 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to set healthy boundries to avoid getting hurt.
@mollymal96903 жыл бұрын
I'm finding that super hard and people tend not to like boundaries. Have you ever tried a boundary with a bpd or a Covert narrrcist
@mioangel12273 жыл бұрын
@@mollymal9690 no contact with a narcissist works magic! Although they frequently try to find a way! NO is NO
@charlottegrant3272 Жыл бұрын
The feeling of having multiple personalities just resonated with me reading someone’s comments. I’ve always thought when can I just be myself, loads of people around me being themselves and me myself tuning in to everyone, thinking I wasn’t allowing myself to be ‘myself’, when in fact I was. And I’ve only come to realise this by listening to this video. Thank you for making me realise this.
@vedasultenfuss74733 жыл бұрын
It just hit me that its no wonder I turned my emotions OFF from the time I was a child. Because I was taking in EVERYONE'S feelings, of course it was completely overwhelming and not surprising that I sought to escape them and completely numb out.
@phukatsamephoga84285 жыл бұрын
For the first time in my life, I feel understood.
@3KeyElements5 жыл бұрын
That's great. Thanks for watching.
@donnajzenovitch3254 жыл бұрын
@@3KeyElementsThank you, it is a family thing, my Dad, my daughter and my son. It is a subtle knowing of "just knowing". I am so happy your video showed up...It is a Leap Year, it is a #4 year of the Truth...Most important is we have a Spiritual Gift from God, "discerning of spirits". God Bless us all and thank you so much, I feel better about who I am and God's Gifts straight from Heaven. Be kind and love one another...
@booboo78894 жыл бұрын
Same feelings here.. I'm so happy that what's happening to me has a name and is understood
@esme60744 жыл бұрын
@@booboo7889 sameee :)
@shiritamagee20774 жыл бұрын
I thought I was going crazy having all these emotions etc.
@discobitch4 жыл бұрын
When I meet new people, I immediatly feels if I'm gonna like that person or not. It's like I can sense their aura or something, idk how to call it, like animals do when they sense if you wanna harm them or not
@kathyworley44303 жыл бұрын
Me too
@alixhice2 жыл бұрын
This is me 100%. If I had a nickel for every time I was told I’m too sensitive I’d have a million bucks. I’ve finally learned that I am an empath and it’s a blessing, not a curse. Thanks for this interesting video. It’s a very profound confirmation of this phenomena.
@sherryryczek4811 Жыл бұрын
IwS told I was overly sensitive when I was a kid and young adult. Series I feel now that I have gotten what appears to be cold in others eyes.
@sophiahendler8689 Жыл бұрын
❤
@lisaharlan6184 жыл бұрын
When your third eye has no eyelid, the noise never stops
@elijan644 жыл бұрын
Well said
@eatanotherzio68114 жыл бұрын
PRYING OPEN MY THIRD EYE PRYING OPEN MY THIRD EYE PRYING OPEN MY THIRD EYE PRYING OPEN MY THIRD EYE
@bobb40114 жыл бұрын
Could Empathy be actually that Third Eye?
@q.turner76424 жыл бұрын
Bob B An incredibly profound question.
@lisaharlan6184 жыл бұрын
@@bobb4011 awfully bold of you to assume that I don't know the difference.. Thanks tho
@claramcclung88634 жыл бұрын
The feeling of having multiple personalities is so true!!
@missestomlinson994 жыл бұрын
Clara McClung so true
@frankdavis84324 жыл бұрын
This is actually what I thought was wrong with me, thought I had DID, (Discociated Identify Disorder), & have learned a lot about it, and thought my personality fractured into many, but now it's looking like I am an Empath, (like Counselor Troy)
@imaniallen39494 жыл бұрын
This is the one !
@elisabethbowen9683 жыл бұрын
Literally 3 minutes in and I am in tears. I always felt crazy
@Terraraxi2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Mainecoon_Izzy Жыл бұрын
An empath is someone who is an ‘emotional genius’ they feel everything 💯
@miaalbert71554 жыл бұрын
I always feel like certain people avoid me - eye contact, elevator, group lunches and when around their significant others... it’s as if they know I know and they are not sure 🤔 what I have going but it makes them feel very uncomfortable and it makes me feel awful too... like no one likes or understands me and I tend to be a loner for this reason. Glad to know I’m not alone... truth seeker here and that scares people.
@stellarrogala6583 жыл бұрын
I feel every word
@mollymal96903 жыл бұрын
I get you on every level. Just discovered I'm an empath not a bpd. I feel all emotions including happiness. That I think is the distinction
@MarcosCompost3 жыл бұрын
What truths
@alanhigh97093 жыл бұрын
The people that are "wary" of you are likely other empaths that are using their ability in a negative way. They may not even realize they are empaths but they do know they are using their abilities in a negative way. They sense you, your ability, and your "goodness" and are threated by it. 1. Sense of guilt because at some level they know they are doing bad things, 2. you'll see through their games and can expose them. Normally they'll just avoid you for those reasons. If you are forced to interact (say people at work) with them on a regular basis they will see you as a threat so be careful.
@its.roooose2 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone 💜💜
@terrimartinez65474 жыл бұрын
I didn't know I was an empath for the majority of my life. The chaos, low self-esteem, depression, relationship issues, etc. are the telltale signs of being an empath and not knowing it. I have always tended toward a person who internalizes everything and turns inward and blame myself for whatever the issue is...shame, blame, self-abuse...I had a lot of healing to do, and am still doing... That being said, as an empath, the greatest gifts that God has given me are the gifts of discernment and the gift of being grounded. I've known I had the discerning gift for most of my life, but the other one has only come to light in the past year...and has helped me to have more confidence in what intuitively comes to me about and for others. These have been the most helpful to me until I had a conscious realization that I was an empath. You can pray for gifts. I was in a 23-year relationship that had so much cognitive dissonance that it was extremely confusing to me for the first 10-15 years. I ended up doing so much internal, personal work to figure what was really true...what was me and what was the other person. I got so good at it, I was able to immediately discern what was mine and what was theirs. I have studied as much as I could get my hands on about human relationships, emotions, and the body, it has saved my sanity! Now, I can identify so much about human behavior and base my findings on truth and correct principles. It amazes, even me, sometimes when I can meet someone and be clear about why they are in pain and how to find healing...it's really amazing...and I'm grateful for all the relationship and life trials I've experienced because each one has, and still does, give me so much growth and learning! Bless you for what you are doing!
@awesward44544 жыл бұрын
Wow, you are indeed blessed. We have a lot in common, believe it or not. To me nothing is more interesting than humanity.
@jimmiller27673 жыл бұрын
I thought it was all just anxiety. But I have alot of these traits that you are talking about. Thank you!
@ShipC11 ай бұрын
I had no idea for sure that I was one until.. I was at a funeral for a friend. I was at the front of the church and when I went in and I felt like running away. I forced myself in and I was so overwhelmed that I started crying.. I was feeling every one’s energy and I couldn’t handle it! 🙏🏻✝️🛐
@CarmaDee4 жыл бұрын
Makes sense. I’m always running to help someone heal...even if it means ignoring my own need to heal from my personal battles. I came here from feeling a heavy spirit
@srabchun4 жыл бұрын
I avoid someone that is a broken bird. Just because I feel it’s up to them to figure out what’s wrong with them. If I point it out, they listen but don’t accept it.
@DavidHusclehoff3 жыл бұрын
That's crazy u say that. Sumthn happen to me new years eve that told me that it was ok not to help for a while atleast to find my feelings. I guess I can say WE now. We don't think of Us when we know we can help. We dive straight in with absolutely no fear or worries about damaging ourselves. Sorry you don't understand, wait you do understand how I feel right now finding people that feel like us. This is so dope honestly. Everything has been answered for me.
@jonf20432 жыл бұрын
I avoid funerals, viewings and any incredibly sad event. I have to. There is too much pain and sadness for me to take on and I can’t help but take it, from the whole room. I have to limit myself to just a few people when there is that much emotion. I cannot shut it off. I have just learned through time that there are some events that for my own well being I need to avoid.
@heatherlangley19902 жыл бұрын
Yes I feel you. I want to help everyone
@nana820able2 жыл бұрын
@@heatherlangley1990 So do I but when I need help it's nowhere to be found. I don't mean that in a self pitying way it's more frustrating.
@mariatangled5 жыл бұрын
All my life, I've made friends with troubled people who i want to help. This is all making sense now.
@florenciah80604 жыл бұрын
I'm 42. I've encountered the exact same issue throughout my life. I completely relate to you. How ever, it scares the crap outta me! LOL
@catsaccount81094 жыл бұрын
Me too, I thought it was a savior complex.
@bethany-b2pkfilms7924 жыл бұрын
Same!
@catblack40914 жыл бұрын
Yes....sometimes it is VERY toxic too.
@josephg18554 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@KIMjB72 Жыл бұрын
I've learned to set boundaries and because of that my health is stable I don't get sick like I use to
@ericjones98503 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found all of you.... 😥😢.. I'm so glad everyone is here for the same as me... I've been alone for so long I really thought I was loosing myself .thank you all for being here for we all need each other now more then other
@justaman-km1hl4 жыл бұрын
It’s why I spend my time alone. Overwhelming at times.
@VikkiVictoria4 жыл бұрын
I finally found my people I thought I was mentally Ill but this makes so much sense
@lumpystilskin53673 жыл бұрын
Better than being a narc actually
@doracruz22713 жыл бұрын
I also thought I was sick in the head.because I can sense the negativity I’m a person that has no friends I don’t believe in friends,my own family was enough for me.I can read people fast.and that gets me .so I stay to myself.
@catherinematlock42713 жыл бұрын
I have been called that to. But they are scared of people like us. Be careful.
@heatherlangley19902 жыл бұрын
No you not crazy
@bereal65902 жыл бұрын
@@catherinematlock4271 that's the truth! I've seen it on some people's faces like they thi k I can see through them, that I won't conform in the dance of the false self (not in a negative way), I prefer openness. They know it and they can't be
@jimmyhuesandthehouserocker10693 жыл бұрын
I can read a person inside and out, emotions, ,moods, personality types, honest or otherwise, and as a boy, I thought everybody could do this. When I went out in the world, I was astounded in how nobody else could.
@treasurecassidy63573 жыл бұрын
Yes, for sure. I'm a face reader too.😇
@jiMine_3 жыл бұрын
I came here because some months ago, I cried for almost a month thinking about how bad the person (I know) feels to live without a mother from such a young age. Just one voice, one song, one line can make me sink into the feeling. I cried way too many times thinking about others' problems from their point of View.
@janiemartin14084 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I really hate being an empath. I find myself more depressed over other people's situations, than my own..
@HealthyLifestyled7883 жыл бұрын
Me too. I feel I don't belong to this world
@mioangel12273 жыл бұрын
Time to learn to let them go. The creator is in charge of everyone soul!
@peacemakerblessings79853 жыл бұрын
What I do to keep calm I stay away from negative things and negative people, I don’t watch the news am in my own world
@BigBoss23-y5n2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@cotton6302 жыл бұрын
Same here man
@elizabethfreer19485 жыл бұрын
Being an empath at times a curse and a blessings..it’s draining ...this sensitivity is helpful but also painful at times..I am working in better self awareness to protect me..
@imeldapenaflor83794 жыл бұрын
True
@patriciaking78924 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth, me too!!
@Sashabean40894 жыл бұрын
I agree completely...I was told to walk away when things get toxic as a form of protection however, I can't walk away from everything. When I stand up for myself or enforce boundaries the toxicity gets worse. I am constantly bombarded with problems and it's way too much to take in.....
@talagamixtv68324 жыл бұрын
it's hard.. it's one reason why I stay away even from my blood relatives.. I know when people don't like me. I know when people talk about me . and feeling what they exactly feel is so draining.. I never go out unless it's necessary, for errands etc..
@des8954 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Freer it’s true, curse if we don’t know how to use it, a blessing if we know how to use it. I don’t know how to manage it yet. I hate it, I even know when my husband fancy a lady, in his thoughts of course. So Painful.
@remensviel23423 жыл бұрын
sometimes when i watch a movie and someone is sad it makes me want to cry
@Maryjane134002 жыл бұрын
35 years of life, finally someone who understands me & can articulate it...this was super helpful. In the past 9 years I've found myself avoiding large crowds like the plague. I've missed all of my kids & family sports games & other events. I feel so guilty but now I understand what's going on & how to "fix it". Thank you. 💜
@gyongyikantajev69745 жыл бұрын
an empath can feel the emotions of animals and even trees and plants, too! and also can help them!
@3KeyElements5 жыл бұрын
Very true, they all have a vibration, too.
@bamp16245 жыл бұрын
This is resonance....what I call equivision.....horses 'see' this way innately and when around them we can 'see' that...they mirror what actually is. They are authentic and in the moment by nature and tuned in turned on for survival. When we become aware that what we feel is a reflection of our perspective we can choose to explore what flows (or doesn't) through the lense/filter/perspective connection or circuit if you will ...tune it....****PAUSE here...am I connecting dots that aren't there because... AMP my best friend and first horse growing up was named Ample Power (official race name with the jockey club c1980) and I was just about to type " and amp it up or turn it down" . you know what I'm talking about? Agh. science
@demiwalton38805 жыл бұрын
I too, attract animals, they love me haha!
@05lopld5 жыл бұрын
I've same vibrations. It's scary I am so drained.
@kueenbee8615 жыл бұрын
I watered a small tree the other day. The wind was howling until I saw the baby tree!
@dawnmalley81365 жыл бұрын
I've felt more comfortable with animals and in nature than being around people. Thank you for sharing... ♡♡♡ I feel like this explains why I can have anxiety to leave my home.
@oddryan88965 жыл бұрын
Same I'm a dog groomer and a pet sitter/artest I hike and dont do go in groups over 5 people...
@loisday44915 жыл бұрын
I can relate for sure. Its therapeutic for me to be around animals and nature. 😊🐶🦊🐑🐎
@Hot80s5 жыл бұрын
thats panic, tough if you are an empath, i've dealt with both
@mariag53065 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you are feeling. I have suffered anxiety for many years but I am slowly learning or paying attention to where it is actually coming from. I also don't leave the house much but that is a work in progress also. Take care.
@SMACKGOOFS5 жыл бұрын
I feel more comfortable with animals because they don’t talk
@candystallworth55473 жыл бұрын
I'm a Prophet due to this ability, I have been very sensitive since I was a child and didn't understand my feelings. We have a 6th sense and I believe I have been created to serve people. I spend everyday making sure everyone is ok . Finding out about empath is truly me . This is so amazing!
@taylordottie5858 Жыл бұрын
I went to a crystal shop recently and an employee told me that I'm an empath. I agree. For years, I've been labeled "too sensitive". Your video gave me insight. Thank you!
@joywatson954 жыл бұрын
Both my boyfriend and I are Empaths .. He often asked me if I am ok. He calls me when I am just thinking about him. We both have dated people that have taken advantage of us.. 💖💖💖
@dnixon16554 жыл бұрын
Joy Watson hope u guys always protect each other
@francine15able4 жыл бұрын
i'm an empath and i just got out of a relationship with a narcissist. its been a year now. I don't rly believe that i'll find someone who won't take advantage of me anymore. im happy for you!
@nohafarida11374 жыл бұрын
it's great that you found each other, you should keep him, it's rare to find someone who gets you, and they say an empath is rare, so it's great you found him, stay with him:)
@1andonlybre4 жыл бұрын
Yes my husband has it as well it's crazy we are very linked. He will worn/ advice me and it is always right but I am stubborn lol and vice versa
@vetollim68844 жыл бұрын
Whooa, I hope I get to meet & date a fellow empathy like me
@loisday44915 жыл бұрын
This explains my social anxiety disorder. I used to be in a toxic situation at work. I was surrounded by negativity and bullying. It's so difficult to be around phony people. I cant be lied to because I see right thru the lies. I want to give people the benefit of the doubt because I feel guilty that I know they are lying and than I realize later that I was correct in the individual lying to me, and I get burned by this person and then I dont trust anyone. Its exhausting. I'm older now and I find I cant tolerate certain people, and situations that I could tolerate when I was younger. I'm even finding out that I will sometimes avoid hobbies that I thoroughly enjoy because it involves dealing with people. I know I cant live like that I just find it very challanging. I know that I need lots of sleep and I guess I need to start jounaling too. I hope journaling will help.
@3KeyElements5 жыл бұрын
Journalling is a great place to start sorting out it all out.
@danashaw84635 жыл бұрын
Yes, I went through the same thing on my last job and ended up leaving. I was a victim of a few narcs. Now I am struggling with anxiety as well. I am researching for growth with this. At least I know what it is now. Wow
@TRINA888able5 жыл бұрын
Lois Day ..Yes journaling helps..and it helps you to grow and understand yourself in the different seasons of your life as you go back later and read what you have written its like gift you give to yourself..sometimes you will amaze yourself...Enjoy your journaling experience it will give you a piece of mind as you write and 'release'🐣
@Iren2225 жыл бұрын
Lois Day Thank you for sharing your experience with the world so we don’t feel alone. In my case, I’ve become so “cold” with people who approach me because I’m scared of their “energy” and many times I’m so withdrawn that I lose the change to meet nice people. In my workplace I couldn’t stand have my lunch in the staff room so I was on a daily basis in the park eating my sandwich holding an umbrella on the other hand (Londoney weather🤷🏽♂️). Doing so, I just made myself look as the mean one who doesn’t like people. The truth is I love people! I just need to built some boundaries so that their feelings and energy doesn’t affect me.
@lindakaymills87465 жыл бұрын
@@3KeyElements thank you! I've been resisting this for years. Have many journals with one line, one page attempts, only to be set aside. Thank you for this video, specifically for recommending journaling. I am sending your link to two new empath friends who are newly on this empaths journey as I am.
@dricka492212 жыл бұрын
Hello Kirk Duncan thank you for this video. It just re-enforces what I have known all along. Let me start off by saying I know there are distinct differenced between having empathy and being empathetic and having the power of an empath. I have always been able to sense certain peoples feelings/emotions. Sometimes I don't even know I have been drawn to someone and have thought it was just coincidence that I have spoken to stranger. It usually gets started by me say hello and asking the person, "how are you doing today?". I have had complete strangers tell me their life story, and then look at me in kind of shock and say, "I don't know why I told you that, I have never told anybody that, not even my spouse." Other times I am acutely aware of whose feelings I am perceiving. With them I simply say something like, "is everything okay?", "are you upset about something?" "you appear/seem to be upset, what's going on?" or something to that effect. LIke you said, most times I get a negative response. To which I reply, "well I am here if you need to talk about anything or just need an ear to listen!" Many times, but not always, that person will come back to me and say something like, "I was not being truthful when I said there was nothing wrong/going on or that I was okay" and then they open up to me. You in a roundabout way said this, but I will put it more succintly, "I don't give advice, I just listen to what they say, taking it all in, then I guide them to solve their own problems with what information they have given me." People don't really want you to tell them what to do, but absolutely want to be able to solve their own problems. I am only a vessel or the vehicle that I allow them to use to solve their own problems. I am sorry that it took you a while to figure out how to separate your feeling from other. It is like I automatically compartmentalize others feelings from my own. I never really had that problem per se, other than if someone is angry around me, I tend to automatically feel angry and have to move away from the area or remove myself from the situation. I have ALWAYS personally been sensitive, and often have been told that I get my feeling hurt to easily. This is always by someone, I have taken into my inner circle and feel that they have betrayed me or are insensitive towards me. Thank you again for the video and re-enforcing my belief that I am an empath.
@sharoncowart22062 жыл бұрын
I'll be 65 soon. It took many years to "collect" my tribe. They love me, and understand when I need an alone day. And when it's just too peopley for me! All of them are genuine! And we have another Empath in our group!
@luhnonato35 жыл бұрын
For those who say its a curse or dont like to be empath: meditate. Try to stay away from news (they are usually about desasters and bad stuff) and start a new home hobby. I love crochet and take care of plants. Also work on your crown and heart chakra
@abundantlife47585 жыл бұрын
Yoga helps with the heart chakra. I've recently been practising yin in a sling aerial yoga- where you hold poses for a few mins- helps me sleep so well, also hot yoga too. They both work to open the heart chakras and rebalance
@mysmirandam.66185 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@margaretsnewtoylynnparks53364 жыл бұрын
Arts and Crafts are soothing too.... I love painting my home every 2 or 3 years.. Home should be attractive and clean..
@mysmirandam.66184 жыл бұрын
@@margaretsnewtoylynnparks5336 yes but it is so hard when you have the opposite of help
@wakeywakey77554 жыл бұрын
Luh Nonato yooo!! I've stopped watching the news for almost four years now! I've always been puzzled on how people start their day with all that negative b.s... I love to draw and create amazing art, but i hate dealing with stupid people so i don't do commissions... Smh it's crazy
@blackgemz2684 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m in shock that I found ppl who I can relate to.
@thomasinedouglas12803 жыл бұрын
Welcome ❤
@stephanycelcis78153 жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@helenbostock23503 жыл бұрын
great to relate It wonderful
@StefanReich3 жыл бұрын
Same :)
@charlestaylor10673 жыл бұрын
I'm a sigma make who is also a pisces an a emphate an that is why I will find a off grid way to live i promise ☺️
@GenXMystic4 ай бұрын
I'm 55 and going through this... about 25 years ago I started seeing auras. That was about 3 years after I got clean and worked the steps. It's been a rollercoaster.
@helenjones66642 жыл бұрын
This is the absolute best information on empaths I’ve ever read. I am at the “ just discovering level”. I thought for years I was just crazy, now I can concentrate on ME. Everything in this video is me and helped me recognize ME. Thank you. 🙏
@pmelody61515 жыл бұрын
I have been crying for two days literally stuck in my house because i feel so overwhelmed and misunderstood it's too much to bare. But this really helped me, I'm going to take your advice and start journaling. I thought something was wrong with me. My friends and family think that I'm weird. Thank you so much.
@3KeyElements5 жыл бұрын
We're glad that this is giving you some insight. We are posting new videos, so keep watching for more insight and help.
@poonakumari60925 жыл бұрын
P Melody wishing you a lot of strength..... N sending you a tight hug
@pmelody61515 жыл бұрын
Thanks😊
@spectranet68825 жыл бұрын
I am same and I feel that . What we need is to get more people like us to get to know each other like a family and move together in this time of crisis .
@michaelcarlin36025 жыл бұрын
And also, while this gift can be described as a blessing and a "curse".... Choose to understand that you /we are special...... At the end of the day, our lives are really amazing. Like a movie. We are truly blessed to have this experience in our lives, we are God's secret wrappings. My advice is to embrace the "suck". Wherein, lyes the beauty. Embrace embrace embrace my sister.
@christinetilton45625 жыл бұрын
This is so me. I’ve started to limit my circle of friends as I always feel the need to try to solve everyone’s troubles. Those troubles feel like they are happening to me. I’m very bad at separating my emotions from others emotions
@Dtella555 жыл бұрын
Exactly...small circle of good people better!
@Robinsnest2195 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness me too. I'm at least relieved that there are others who do this. I find it hard to hear about others problems because I get way too overwhelmed and involved. I feel like it's my job to solve their issues. I can't even watch certain movies because my emotions are way too overwhelming. And I can't be in crowds it's too chaotic for my brain.
@marlissaavedra86795 жыл бұрын
That attitude is toxic lmao
@kimholcomb69435 жыл бұрын
Christine Tilton just tell yourself that those are not your feelings and you are not responsible for them. The only ones you are responsible for are your own feelings. I started to do this and I no longer feel overwhelmed or taking on others feelings. Easier said than done but it can be done.
@christinetilton45625 жыл бұрын
Kim Holcomb good advice for sure. I will do my best.
@laneroberts0072 жыл бұрын
Bro, this is most informative and useful video I've found yet. You say it. I got there myself, but years and years of confusion. I hope many more watch this
@athenadixon21103 жыл бұрын
Back when I was in high school I always voice out the things that I see and feel to my close friends that needs emotional support. It happened way too often to the point that they got mad at me.. They called me a "Know it all" Ever since I try my best to hold my tongue...
@daniizey77024 жыл бұрын
"Literally feel like you have multiple personalities..." Felt that all the time.😂
@MsSugarlips213 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing and thought I was bipolar as well! Scary times
@maganwilliams70173 жыл бұрын
I feel this so much, I think I’m super bipolar
@BigBoss23-y5n2 жыл бұрын
Big facts man
@cherylcarlson33152 жыл бұрын
More like reading many books at the same time
@infamousskater052 жыл бұрын
And I'm a bipolar empath how do you think I feel hahaha
@ashleystump98524 жыл бұрын
When I know that something is not right my stomach hurts like physically hurts
@blanchemaeorge64844 жыл бұрын
I feel you on this.
@haley67244 жыл бұрын
YESSS
@GhostSenpaiEdits4 жыл бұрын
My stomach doesn't hurts but my mind get filled with fog, I can't normally think
@simrahq47124 жыл бұрын
That is kind of like me except it's my chest that hurts. It's feels as if my heart is aching and I can't do anything about it
@zuggy79934 жыл бұрын
Simrah Q I get the same thing, I feel horrible because I can’t help but it’s quite overwhelming
@justin241313 жыл бұрын
I can feel your excitement to share this with us. Just watching you share this info made me smile. Thank you!
@LucyMungaBrands2 жыл бұрын
Great lessons here. Being an empath is a superpower. It’s easy to deal with toxic people because you are a step ahead. Thanks for sharing.
@aol114 жыл бұрын
It is often that I will think of someone for no reason at all, then my phone rings a minute or 2 later and it's them.
@shayjones33813 жыл бұрын
That happens to me too and it really messes with my mind. I question if I'm awake and if I'm alive or dead because it freaks me out.