How To Become A Stronger Empath

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@catmagic2226
@catmagic2226 5 жыл бұрын
I dont judge, I FEEL. It's IMMEDIATE. Then I observe.
@ysanchez7292
@ysanchez7292 5 жыл бұрын
mostly cats 222 yes that's true...I've been doing this and it's helped me later to know I'm right ,wish i could listen to my inner voice more..
@catmagic2226
@catmagic2226 5 жыл бұрын
It's more normal to feel than it is to think. Trust heart/gut, and listen to Eckhart tolle on youtube...I have a playlist on my channel. The younger a person is when they find Eckhart Tolle, the better off they'll be. So many of our thoughts and worries are just our thoughts messing with us.
@KevinontheroadFr
@KevinontheroadFr 5 жыл бұрын
Observing is key... I spent hours watching people walking in the street for the sake of doing it
@Melodylynn69
@Melodylynn69 5 жыл бұрын
@@KevinontheroadFr It's fun,huh? Been doing this all of my life.
@carolprice1389
@carolprice1389 5 жыл бұрын
As do I.I feel a person before I see them.Be careful there is MORE to empathic abilities then people's feelings.
@GodisLoveTV1
@GodisLoveTV1 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so lonely being an empath because everyone is in the matrix and just goes with the flow. And I want to build an empire and create. People don’t get it
@knottydizziedevil9425
@knottydizziedevil9425 5 жыл бұрын
Totally! Even im a room full of friends it can be lonely. Ugg
@travissmith5037
@travissmith5037 5 жыл бұрын
New Earth baby
@mrsmith787
@mrsmith787 5 жыл бұрын
Lol u right but it's so sad
@putin2918
@putin2918 5 жыл бұрын
I get it Sorry I mean we get it
@magnoliahampton7298
@magnoliahampton7298 5 жыл бұрын
Create the empire and they will come. Don't talk about it . Show them.
@amandagraves3024
@amandagraves3024 5 жыл бұрын
If you want to fix people, fix yourself first. One of my favorite quotes : I can show you better than I can tell you!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
For things to change, you must change! One of my favorite quotes.
@dreafitzgerald1070
@dreafitzgerald1070 5 жыл бұрын
Amanda Graves amen 🙏 ❣️
@brianpenner1623
@brianpenner1623 5 жыл бұрын
I want to know how to protect myself from negative. Do many empathssuffer addic tions
@brianpenner1623
@brianpenner1623 5 жыл бұрын
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@KevinontheroadFr
@KevinontheroadFr 5 жыл бұрын
And empath is very good at guiding others but helpless regarding himself most of the time...
@cesarplaza8299
@cesarplaza8299 5 жыл бұрын
For many years I thought I was crazy since childhood. Now I know it’s a rare gift from God to help others.
@chrisfulcher1151
@chrisfulcher1151 5 жыл бұрын
This ability to let go of judgement has improved the way I feel about myself and others so much. Thanks Kirk.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is, Chris! Thank you for watching.
@Xevoguy
@Xevoguy 2 жыл бұрын
NUMBER ONE really resonated with me. For those who may not completely get where he is coming from, the type of Judgement he is referring to is the "Wishing things and people were different". It doesn'texplicitly sound like -"why can't I be different" "why can't they behave this way instead" "why can't they make better choices" - but the undertone is definitely there. Judgement is different from evaluation. Evaluation is seeing things as they are and making decisions based on what is. Judgement is liking/or not liking how things are, condemning it/them for how it is and wishing things were different.
@missestomlinson99
@missestomlinson99 4 жыл бұрын
Up at night can’t sleep because I’m thinking about my family members individual issues that they’re not even aware of. I just want to fix them and fix everyone. I know this isn’t right, I deserve to have my own peace of mind but I SEE everything. I will find balance.
@soulshaker9018
@soulshaker9018 5 жыл бұрын
I already am an empath and never wanted to admit it to myself or anyone. It drains me and because of the negative people I've crossed paths with , I stopped trying to help ppl.
@teddi111
@teddi111 5 жыл бұрын
I totally understand. It's good to learn where your boundaries are & where your limitations take you. Its all a delicate matter of fine tuning your guidance system. When you use your gifts appropriately based on what ur guidance system has taught you then you can have a beautiful life of your own... leading by example is also clearly being giving of yourself!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. I've shared some of the steps I use to protect myself in this video, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKfXg62EnruXrac. They're my first go to's.
@timwhatever1
@timwhatever1 5 жыл бұрын
Help yourself first, Theres no positivity without negativity. Embrace yourself raise your vibrations and frequency. Once you grow mentally and spiritually. The better and more positive are the people you meet. You will get better perspections in life. ❤️
@normaortiz7977
@normaortiz7977 5 жыл бұрын
@@teddi111 Hi can a empath get occasional premonition ? Thank you and God Bless
@heatherdunbar5886
@heatherdunbar5886 5 жыл бұрын
same here, esp, I walked away from people whom dont love themselves. They are so draining. I have to soak epsom 10 min tub, once a week.🙄Drive ya nutts.
@artemisjr1237
@artemisjr1237 4 жыл бұрын
i am an empath and I value my judgments. I judge for the reasons of seeing who I want to keep in my inner circle and who are not allowed in. I will listen to them and try to help if I can and realize when it is not my place to help and have them learn or not learn on their own. I believe that everyone has potential and many people do not live up to it. Most people would rather be like everyone else. Though I don't understand it it's their journey not mine. I have lived like this and kept a lot of toxic people out of my life and as an empath I feel I need to do that for my own sanity. What I don't do unless the person is just extremely awful is I do not condemn. There are only 2 people in my entire life I have ever reserved that honor. I used to let everyone in and it was taxing to my soul. I need to judge to take care of myself and the ones I love.
@muthannamakki
@muthannamakki 2 жыл бұрын
Very true. I just don't see the point behind not judging others. Isn't judging the same as evaluation, and perceiving the reallity of people?
@marya.pierce5236
@marya.pierce5236 2 жыл бұрын
Profound wisdom from someone who obviously has walked this path! I also have made some of those choices for my own sanity and my own survival. It's not an option! Thank you for sharing. 💖
@mozellm3814
@mozellm3814 Жыл бұрын
Help me as a beginner of this.what to do how to use this for my life
@SusanGypsyPlyler
@SusanGypsyPlyler 8 ай бұрын
AMEN! Yes
@ultravioletpisces3666
@ultravioletpisces3666 7 ай бұрын
That’s called discernment.
@wernerweyers7603
@wernerweyers7603 4 жыл бұрын
My friend asked me to find out if I was an empath just yesterday, because she is one. After 3 divorces at 51 years old, I found out she was right. This is the second of your videos that I watch and i am only now learning to understand myself. I know already understand things that happened in my life that I could not explain. Thank you for taking the time to help others in growing.
@sharicrocker5841
@sharicrocker5841 5 жыл бұрын
My mother was a true empath. She would connect with me, always. She was very protective of me, throughout my life.
@nathaliecomsa3509
@nathaliecomsa3509 5 жыл бұрын
My mother lives across the ocean, is a teacher, and always gives me hope, and says she understands I do not want to be single anymore. And she taught me to not to judge (just observe).
@kerrymillar1267
@kerrymillar1267 5 жыл бұрын
You were truly blessed 🙏
@asmaemahfoud7801
@asmaemahfoud7801 4 жыл бұрын
@@nathaliecomsa3509 my boyfriend tells me same... Just observe
@caribaez5711
@caribaez5711 4 жыл бұрын
Lucky. I am the only empath in my family. No one understands me.
@Evajeanfreedom
@Evajeanfreedom 5 жыл бұрын
Interesting points, thank you. I need to stop trying to 'fix' everyone! We're so sensitive and we see and feel so much 💖
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching Karen, here's some more insight for you kzbin.info/www/bejne/banEl2iQobiipK8
@mynameisirrelevant7000
@mynameisirrelevant7000 5 жыл бұрын
I really do agree. I think i am a naturally born empath. I've always felt other people's feelings and I think I can spread my energy.
@cynthiamarston2208
@cynthiamarston2208 5 жыл бұрын
I just never have any solutions to fix a person except positive reinforcement and saying stuff....you’ve made it this far you must be doing some right things. Keep up the good effort!
@carolprice1389
@carolprice1389 5 жыл бұрын
Remember you can help people and that's not trying to fix them.
@rosie_amo
@rosie_amo 3 жыл бұрын
I spent years trying to fix people
@garymartens9151
@garymartens9151 5 жыл бұрын
This is easily one of the most important videos I have ever watched
@justsomeguywithamask2784
@justsomeguywithamask2784 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad I didn't skip this video, I honestly have been doing things wrong for far too long.
@dahlenepretorius4380
@dahlenepretorius4380 5 жыл бұрын
I was born an empath and would like to ask something: Why is it that I seem to attract narcassists?
@melz73
@melz73 5 жыл бұрын
I was born a empath too and attracting narcissists is one of the worst parts. Recovery is really hard...
@slightlyplantobsessed4194
@slightlyplantobsessed4194 5 жыл бұрын
same.... I did the same thing for years now I know what a narcissist is I don't attract them anymore I think we need to work on are self and know exactly what a narcissist looks like and acts like and stay away from them. We cannot help everyone nor can we change any narcissist for the better.
@WhyCee74
@WhyCee74 5 жыл бұрын
I wonder why too. I am going through an awakening at the moment and recently realised that I was born into a family of narcissists.
@slightlyplantobsessed4194
@slightlyplantobsessed4194 5 жыл бұрын
And don't forget it's not inpaths that attract narcissists it's codependents that attract narcissists.
@queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247
@queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247 5 жыл бұрын
Dahlene Pretorius I too am experiencing narcissistic people that are very manipulative. But I am not a codependent person in fact I am independent.
@jazzmenfox612
@jazzmenfox612 5 жыл бұрын
when there's dialogue it's called telepathy. when it's a strong feeling like moms it's called intuition.
@catchingpearls-7778
@catchingpearls-7778 5 жыл бұрын
Not everyone can be empaths... unfortunately. Most true empaths were born that way.
@normadeluna3349
@normadeluna3349 5 жыл бұрын
Amy Elizabeth I agree
@korpoa3888
@korpoa3888 5 жыл бұрын
It's weird I'm a partial empath. I can change personality with different people and I had a identity crisis for a couple years. Although I can't read people.
@anthea559
@anthea559 5 жыл бұрын
@@korpoa3888 it's because somehow ( even unconscienaly, I don't know if I use the right word, hope you will understand what I mean, I'm french ) you told yourself this ability wasn't normal or didn't serve you, or put yourself in trouble, etc... If you don't want this thing and tell yourself so, your subconsciens ( don't think I write this correctly but whatever ) hear you and do the job so that doesn't bother you anymore you know. It's the human brain, if you think something you have is bad for your life than it erase that, it's that simple. You have the choice, it's yours to decide if something is good for you or not. It's up to you. That's the beauty of our specy. If you want it back, just ask. And be patient. Keep going, not trying too harsh. Things come in time, trust. Hope I helped you.
@autumnraine5196
@autumnraine5196 5 жыл бұрын
Amy Elizabeth you’re absolutely right, every bit of it feels and comes naturally
@Sapphirezkillahitz13
@Sapphirezkillahitz13 5 жыл бұрын
Amy Elizabeth I am it’s been very hard especially being born with no thyroid
@Latoree33
@Latoree33 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, I've been out of control. Recently had a spirtual awakening.. Detaching from others and wanting emotional freedom.....thank you I needed this so bad.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
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@carolprice1389
@carolprice1389 5 жыл бұрын
Look into a mirror and do not be afraid of what you feel use it as a way to confront what you feel inside of your self.If you are willing to see and fell the good and the bad and not judge yourself then you can do the same with people you meat and people you know.
@Anuagnes7777
@Anuagnes7777 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way....
@tuckjess30t59
@tuckjess30t59 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 37 years old and have known (not understood) about my abilities my entire life. I cannot count how many times I've been taken advantage of and been called "naive." I have gotten much better about not allowing this to happen anymore and has certainly been an interesting learning process.
@sll110
@sll110 2 жыл бұрын
me too
@Samanthax1221
@Samanthax1221 Жыл бұрын
tuckjess that is interesting i wish you well, narcissts can be hard to spot, they can appear caring and like they are nice people, how do you discover if someone is a nice person so you dont get taken advantage of i am curious thankyou!
@Samanthax1221
@Samanthax1221 Жыл бұрын
@@sll110 mark hey how are you doing, i guess you are an empath as you clicked on this video, hows life treating you,
@hannahfayard1233
@hannahfayard1233 5 жыл бұрын
Being an Empath I feel like I’ve lost all my abilities after being married to a narcissist and finally divorcing one. Hopefully this helps me get stronger again. I use to be scary good at being one.
@demonkingpiccolo6667
@demonkingpiccolo6667 4 жыл бұрын
I was dating a covert narcissist recently and it made me question myself and I started believing it was me from the gaslighting
@bendemare5270
@bendemare5270 3 жыл бұрын
❤️ You will get there
@suejacobs8531
@suejacobs8531 2 жыл бұрын
Going through that now
@Samanthax1221
@Samanthax1221 Жыл бұрын
hannah have you managed to heal from your past narcissist relationship how are you now, have you got your abilities back,
@michellenicol9583
@michellenicol9583 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness just what I needed! My main struggle is judging and be critical of myself. Something I'm working on with my mentor. Thank you, Kirk!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
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@lucilleresic879
@lucilleresic879 5 жыл бұрын
I think our path is to slow down. Slow down. Process information and stop holding responsibility for others. Best tool I came across (newbie) defense strategy. Challenge negative thought. Be critical to yourself should be critical of your thinking. I found myself communicate with a low vibration. We did not have a positive conservation. On the upside I'm positive.
@hokuponopono4415
@hokuponopono4415 5 жыл бұрын
Yah me also. I am an aggressive empath for sure! I am all about whatever it is is about me somehow, because I am already in it! And sorry but the level I am at if I'm heard, is the right way. Universally that is!! So I'm screwed.
@marleneisnarcfreepeaceful7060
@marleneisnarcfreepeaceful7060 5 жыл бұрын
I completely shut off the world for 8 months!!! One of my friends reached out to me and revealed that I was most likely an empath. I looked it up! Oh!That made alot of sense! Thank you ! I'm now learning how to be who I am! Yay! I do hear messages from my children. Wow.
@blessingsoflight
@blessingsoflight 5 жыл бұрын
I was born this way, so much that I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia years ago. I never judge because I can feel how they really feel and try to help. Thank you. I use my gift in my field of law Enforcement and it has served me well. I always knew I was different and have just learned what this was called. My husband and myself are always doing this since day one.
@kianay3875
@kianay3875 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so exhausted and drained from my work as an in home health care provider and I am in search of some relief. I found your videos and I can tell I'm in the right place. I love your energy. You give me tingles. Ty
@TheHumbleOak
@TheHumbleOak 5 жыл бұрын
Judgment and the need to fix are the two things I've struggled with throughout my life.
@knottydizziedevil9425
@knottydizziedevil9425 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@TheEclecticEmpath
@TheEclecticEmpath 5 жыл бұрын
When it comes to judgement, I try to see the differences like color hues. Your beliefs, values, and fears make you your own rainbow. Hate (bigotry, etc) and evil (inflicting pain on living creatures) Is not part of a colorful array. To me, it is the black cloud that keep colors from shining their brightest. Be authentic, be YOU. Embrace the differences as color variations, and never try to change another person's rainbow. Be compassionate and use your incredible empathy to understand others better ♡♡♡ Great show!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
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@Pixelpixie42
@Pixelpixie42 5 жыл бұрын
Anybody else notice that he didn't write "judgement" but "judgemeat"
@frequencyhertz2153
@frequencyhertz2153 5 жыл бұрын
Ashley Hickman 😂😂
@effie8993
@effie8993 5 жыл бұрын
Ashley Hickman his a, is actually an n, if you notice how personal is spelt as well.
@sellomphanya8808
@sellomphanya8808 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@destree6348
@destree6348 5 жыл бұрын
Ashley Hickman lmao
@waitwhat6882
@waitwhat6882 5 жыл бұрын
It’s an n. It’s just the way he wrote it.
@Urshi9
@Urshi9 4 жыл бұрын
I used to try and fix people. Finally the penny dropped when I kept getting damaged in the process. Now I’m on a journey of fixing myself 😁
@Al3jajandra
@Al3jajandra 5 жыл бұрын
Lol...I judge all the time.... Because I see everything. I will stop.
@ninanickel3103
@ninanickel3103 5 жыл бұрын
Alex truth. I try my best not to.
@Sapphirezkillahitz13
@Sapphirezkillahitz13 5 жыл бұрын
Alex I do too
@thiscommentsays3248
@thiscommentsays3248 5 жыл бұрын
I will limit
@yoda4204life
@yoda4204life 5 жыл бұрын
Something I'm working on myself
@angellangell2576
@angellangell2576 5 жыл бұрын
so true
@louann1958
@louann1958 4 жыл бұрын
I have searched the internet forever for THIS!! Simple and spot on. Wow.
@teddi111
@teddi111 5 жыл бұрын
The four agreements! My favorite book! Helps me tremendously... wonderful messege Impeccable dialogue really helps me to truly engage in the presence of each moment and any judgment really is a waste of focus! Thank you for your video. Great content!
@Amy-li5uv
@Amy-li5uv 5 жыл бұрын
The Messy Messenger - Teddi I love love love 4 agreements. I work with them in every situation and with people around me , even my thoughts.
@Samanthax1221
@Samanthax1221 Жыл бұрын
they messy messenger what is the main key points of the book the four agreements, how can it help an empath thanks
@Samanthax1221
@Samanthax1221 Жыл бұрын
@@Amy-li5uv what is the main key points of the book the four agreements, how can it help an empath thanks!!
@Amy-li5uv
@Amy-li5uv Жыл бұрын
@@Samanthax1221 it helps me take a step back if I feel overwhelmed, or even super excited. I answer each “key”. Impeccable word (for the situation and myself or others) make no assumptions (again looking at same myself, situation and others) don’t take it personally, take yourself out and look at what’s happening and then do YOUR best. No more no less. Doing more or less, your are not true to you. It truly helps me to step out for a moment and look at it. Cheers.
@alisongoeller8461
@alisongoeller8461 5 жыл бұрын
My mom and I have been called uber empaths. August a year ago she passed and I barely made it, she has been with me since in ways people don't understand. My abilities have become so strong it's been very hard but God sees different. Feeling other people's suffering and my own made me need to fix them. I didn't want others to feel bad. But now I can contribute more productively knowing who I am and my worth.🌈💜🔥💜
@hindsfeet2721
@hindsfeet2721 5 жыл бұрын
I am an Empath and recently came head to head with a covert narc (my SIL). I called her out for the first time after 23 years. It was ugly. She had finally caused my brother to have a psychotic break. He stayed with me for 3 months. He eventually went back, after seeing clearly. I’m so concerned for him. It’s as if the addiction to her got the best of him. I can see ahead and I see much trouble in the horizon. The one thing I’m learning, I can’t fix it. It’s so true, the Lord has impressed on me to start journaling more often. Narcs do find their way to me, I’m learning to distance myself as soon as I’ve been shown what I’m dealing with.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Tonya, try the steps in this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5yrepp-hJiLbpY&lc=UgxGH2fpU-HxW31Yeox4AaABAg to protect yourself as emapth. Thank you for watching.
@lindablackwell4852
@lindablackwell4852 5 жыл бұрын
Tonya Davidson, hope your brother is stronger. I have a Covert Narcissist sister( did not know until I read an article 2 yrs ago on narcs) and sorta ex Narcissist boyfriend ( he goes from Dr Jekyl to Mr Hyde- mean). I am afraid of what sister has done in past and have met other people who are narcs but not covert. It's over with boyfriend ( he's not talking to me and thus time if does I will not talk to him besides he's on to someone else which cannot warn because she has me blocked by my gossiping CN sister. Thanks for your story; it helps.
@alieviner8187
@alieviner8187 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen someone talk about empath this much clear and great on KZbin thanks!
@justChrisjones
@justChrisjones 5 жыл бұрын
That No judgement interfers with the BOUNDARIES you talked about in another segment. Some judgement occurs when that person out there does not belong anywhere near you.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
This video explains more about creating boundaries kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIrCh2CBobWLnKs Thank you for watching.
@venuspenistrap
@venuspenistrap 5 жыл бұрын
Judgement is seeming someone as a good person or bad person. Who knows why people are the way that they are and if we would be the same way if we had their life? Judging is usually saying how someone "should" be. Discernment, on the other hand, is just saying, this isn't safe for me. It doesn't matter why they are unsafe or qualify it, but you can protect yourself without condemning them.
@ginaloscutoff2023
@ginaloscutoff2023 4 жыл бұрын
Empathy follows "Self-Awareness"
@777hasdoneit
@777hasdoneit 5 жыл бұрын
I'd love to have an empath chat
@cathyhuffman7611
@cathyhuffman7611 Жыл бұрын
It took a friend to talk about empath. I feel I am, am helps me to better understand myself. It is hard being an empath...I work at a goodwill outlet, so many people, if they are angry I feel it, and it hurts me. This sure makes sense throughout my whole life...
@wendyopthof5349
@wendyopthof5349 5 жыл бұрын
Applying these steps you explained is going to make my life so much easier, help me feel more joy and serve others in a far better way. I have been doing a lot of this wrong and it made everything harder.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
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@EarthlyFallanWisdom
@EarthlyFallanWisdom 4 жыл бұрын
I will thank you
@bradyadams2451
@bradyadams2451 5 жыл бұрын
I really dig this! I can totally see the experience in his way.
@valaries3388
@valaries3388 5 жыл бұрын
You just spoke my language. I pray that I can get to your course in the near future. Thanks, for making this video. I wish I knew about you sooner - my life would have been much better.
@lunamarie1162
@lunamarie1162 5 жыл бұрын
OMG seeing this video is like a fresh clear glass of water 💧 THANK YOU!!!!!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
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@kinipelajencat3575
@kinipelajencat3575 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful information...... I forgot about these points because I got so overwhelmed with studying my past .... I tried to numb my present. I got burned out helping strangers, i.e. brothers and sisters in humananity... they didn't ecknowelege we were brothers and sisters, I gave the x up on them and myself in the long run. I tried isolating. Numbing the energy field with alcohol... Bad idea btw. The intensity of it all coming back after numbing it could make an empath go bonkers. Plz you guys don't numb it down. What we focus on gets bigger than it actually is. And omg our imaginations and what can create! Take his advise. Don't judge! Let everything be and live and process and learn. And stick together! Much love. Thank you for the channel.
@OmariMaldini
@OmariMaldini 5 жыл бұрын
It's pretty interesting how when I was younger with less knowledge, I did things instinctively and was right most of the time but always got criticized for being myself. This was even before I knew about being an empath. It hurt my feelings and I hated the criticism so I tried to do things differently like other people would want me to but I hurt myself even more because I was trying to act like who I wasn't. Now, I'm more conscious with my actions and trying to tune right back in and I realize everyday that I'm just trying to be who I used to be once again. I'm learning to make my present conscious mental state to act like my previous subconscious mental state. It's a bit difficult and quite confusing. They told me something was wrong with me, I never believed but after so many years, I began to believe "maybe something is actually wrong with me" (in turn trying to change myself) then I find out that I'm not the only one like this and I'm perfectly normal, just different. Then I want to revert back to my default self, feels like a loop, a bit confusing and has affected my mental state. Like, I'm going back and forth and it's a bit frustrating and quite annoying.
@penelopelambson9128
@penelopelambson9128 5 жыл бұрын
Being damaged by a narcissist causes an empath to develop a more cautious and judgmental perspective. “Stepping into caring” before discerning potential danger is no longer an option. Have you addressed this in a video?
@Rishonable
@Rishonable 4 жыл бұрын
Forgive yourself for the feeling being a failure because of a narcissis and the healing will unfold. Also see what the narcissis this as a tool 🔧 to reference so that way you'd know whether a new person who comes into to your is a narcissis or not. I'm healing as I type this.
@dawnyork2303
@dawnyork2303 5 жыл бұрын
Kirk Duncan I'm so glad I hit on your site because I now know what is going on with me,I thought I was going crazy...now I have to heal myself because I have taken to many hits!! I've been in a really dark place for a long time, I'm going to work on me and honor all my spaces. Thank You so much!! I hope you get to see this.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Dawn. And thank you for watching. Keep doing the work on yourself. Go to 3ke.to/lifeskills for a Live Online Monthly Program that I have. I would love to have you be a part of that program.
@sylvielockhart7681
@sylvielockhart7681 5 жыл бұрын
You should teach them self love that's the only way
@NetiNeti-gm5bz
@NetiNeti-gm5bz 5 жыл бұрын
Self love is the highest form of Power, because self love is equicalt to loving God/ Universe
@silentlyrics7085
@silentlyrics7085 5 жыл бұрын
In deed , we are gifted . We should honor our soul desires and needs so we can love ourselves .
@adnanalam2006
@adnanalam2006 5 жыл бұрын
exactly
@laraaltinok5332
@laraaltinok5332 5 жыл бұрын
Sylvie Lockhart I don’t know how you got this conclusion from the information given. It’s like everything he said went over your (and those below who agreed with you) head so fast that you are not even in the same zone. An empath doesn’t “not” love themselves. It actually has nothing to do with it. You’re missing the whole point.
@sylvielockhart7681
@sylvielockhart7681 5 жыл бұрын
This is to Lara not to be rude, but it seams that something got over your head .all I'm trying to say about this is that before we become anything or let our self be told of what we are ,we should find our self love just like Jesus teaches us most ppl miss understand the teaching when it says love your neighbor as your self key words (as your self ) an empath doesn't love them selfs truly they feel only loved when the do for others. I was an empath for a very long time not understanding that what I really needed was self love ,not from others coz they can't give you what they don't have for them self and that's why we get hurt and never feel good enough
@maryjflanagan1922
@maryjflanagan1922 5 жыл бұрын
Become a service employee. I love teaching!
@joytv2839
@joytv2839 5 жыл бұрын
im a very sensitive emphat, because i am a clairvoyance and clairsentience... I don't think all people have abilities of emphat...because emphat is not just feeling the emotion of the people around you,its morethan than that....and idont think all people are introvert because majority of emphat is introvert...
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your insight. If you like what I've shared here, be sure to subscribe to our channel to get notified of the new videos we are posting each day. Here another video for you kzbin.info/www/bejne/mHfFin2Chr99fpo
@lonerEmpath
@lonerEmpath 5 жыл бұрын
Yes preach it , I also don’t believe being sensitive means your kinda like an empath , it’s very rare being an empath for me since I was born this way is knowing stuff that I shouldn’t know getting information without knowing how but knowing it’s true and so much more things
@dahlenepretorius4380
@dahlenepretorius4380 5 жыл бұрын
@@lonerEmpath Wow thanks, I never thought by 'knowing' things had anything to do with me being an empathic.
@mindyourowninnerg
@mindyourowninnerg 5 жыл бұрын
Omgeee same here!!!! Nice to see & FEEL I am not alone!🙏⚡🦄
@BaghavathiJ
@BaghavathiJ 5 жыл бұрын
being a clairsentience... People disagree ma thoughts and what I feel abt them.. make me feel guilty.. Tough 2 handle it.
@KevinontheroadFr
@KevinontheroadFr 5 жыл бұрын
I figured it all when I was 16 years old. I am 31 now. 1- Judgement is a very important to understand the wrong in what you do. 2- I almost had a mental breakdown due to empathy. I was feeling EVERYONE'S emotion simply I was walking in the street... knowing what was happening to them just by looking to their way of walking....a simple gesture gave it all to me. A lot of suffering around and it was overwhelming for a teenager. I stopped it by myself and I learnt to drain it all by creating a huge virtual library in my mind where I store all this information without letting it submerging me. For the last decade and more I do not recall me suffering at all as I filter it all. I use it and transform it into positiveness towards myself and making sure everyone get the same chance to have a taste of this positiveness that everyone can achieve.... ``Taking it personal`` can be channeled into good. 3- dialog is essential. No dialog no solution for anyone. Others and yourself. 4- I understood a long time ago. I ain't Superman. Helping and saving everyone is not possible. It is called the superman syndrome. Make piece with it and you will leave better. Guiding others towards positiveness is the thing to do. A little bit complicated to explain in a KZbin comment but it is me...
@rh2378
@rh2378 5 жыл бұрын
I swear i thought me and my brother hearing each others thought once and responding but with no words was imagined till just now. I felt like it happened and me and my brother realized it happened and asked did we really just hear each others thoughts but it only happened once.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
that's awesome!
@Mk-ky4hh
@Mk-ky4hh 4 жыл бұрын
Hey that happen with me and my cousin but like 6 times
@wangumungai4210
@wangumungai4210 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ive learned so much, no judgment is very powerful.
@karenburke448
@karenburke448 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information, I'm older now and judging less I'm not taking things as personal as I used to but hearing you say this I'm going to get better at it
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work Karen. Thanks for watching.
@ruthbygodsgrace1621
@ruthbygodsgrace1621 5 жыл бұрын
I am so guilty of number 4 :( This was a VERY informative video! Thank you!!
@karenraedoll3064
@karenraedoll3064 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome content. Actually accepted this empath concept a few months ago. How does an empath learn to not judge a blood Brother ,when all you feel is pain and, anger when around him? Everytime I travel to visit him, I always go with an attitude of "Maybe he's mellowed a bit, since Mom passed away. Yet he's always putting me down, for hours. Just this past Thursday, I ended up saying nicely, "no one deserves to be treated like this, not even myself. I'm not angry with you, I love you, but I have to go home". Even though I traveled from Wisconsin to Illinois (my hometown). By the time I get home, within our last two visits, he sends me a text explaining "I'm sorry, I don't know why I bring up the past, and I have been drinking". Even when he does not drink, he always has to mention something negative about our past, or get in some mean thing to say, and with such anger, painting pictures of some pretty violent acts, that my brain never would think about. It took me a week to finally let everything he said to me, go.
@marya.pierce5236
@marya.pierce5236 2 жыл бұрын
Either cut off the contact completely or reduce it to a very minimal amount. Blood family or not! You really can't afford this. And he will make it on his own. Much love and encouragement to you. ❤️
@ScottishLeo
@ScottishLeo 5 жыл бұрын
Loved the vid, I've found when I "try" to read someone especially my S.O. it does alter perception of what I'm seeking--truth. Allowing myself to just receive instead of search mode, I do get truth & all it includes the why, how, what etc etc 😁 Thanks for great coping skills!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Here are a few more tips I've shared to help kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5yrepp-hJiLbpY Thanks for watching and be sure to subscribe for the new videos I am posting each day.
@ScottishLeo
@ScottishLeo 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@nyvomiech1624
@nyvomiech1624 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you i! You are spot on. Amazing sending you love 💘
@vivian4949
@vivian4949 5 жыл бұрын
Not sure if I can handle being a stronger empath.
@lucilleresic879
@lucilleresic879 5 жыл бұрын
Being a stronger empathic is learning to cope with be an empath.
@elioselectric468
@elioselectric468 5 жыл бұрын
That was my 1st thought when I saw the title of his video but that's not what his video was about to me anyway once I watched it because Maybe it's different for others but all of this stuff is what I've been going through since elementary school and I wish this information was available to me back then and because I did not realize I just wrote it on Facebook the other day that I was sending messages back-and-forth and I was picking up a people's information & feelings from others & taking it as it was about me..
@carolprice1389
@carolprice1389 5 жыл бұрын
From one empath to another the best thing to do is to use the tools that you know how to use and don't sweat the big stuff.You will be able to use stronger tools wen you are ready.YOU WILL KNOW WEN because you will use them.
@Becky4grands
@Becky4grands 3 жыл бұрын
I so understand this
@zacharydavis4398
@zacharydavis4398 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for spending the time to create and share this content awareness/perspective❤️🙏🏾
@megNbaYb
@megNbaYb 5 жыл бұрын
I always know when my boyfriend isn’t happy. I just feel it. And I then feel it too
@sherihartman1166
@sherihartman1166 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this is great - please please please give us more!!? 💚
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Sheri. If you subscribe to this channel, you'll get notified of each new video I post. Here's another one with more insight on empaths, kzbin.info/www/bejne/en2ucqeHrNJ-os0
@inesoliveira7418
@inesoliveira7418 4 жыл бұрын
true... I try to fix people all the time... and I take everything too personal too...
@jamesgraham1809
@jamesgraham1809 5 жыл бұрын
It's born in to us
@stellaperez3113
@stellaperez3113 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for advice
@stcentury-ns3zy
@stcentury-ns3zy 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the enlightenment. Needed the guidance. Means alot
@effie8993
@effie8993 5 жыл бұрын
Yes #1 and #2 lower our vibrations. And yes I am working on #1 as I see/feel people intent. Which leads me to judgemental.
@lucilleresic879
@lucilleresic879 5 жыл бұрын
My interest lies on question the intent. Like seeing someone trying to fill a bucket. Never be able to.if you help me get out and realized the task is quite daunting despite how easy it is. If question it, will they realize theirs hole in the bucket.
@victoriapalmer5146
@victoriapalmer5146 5 жыл бұрын
My mouth dropped when you said moms having the ability towards our children I have a 22 year old daughter who lives on her own the other day I called her to tell her something that was upsetting me and worrying me about her in a very calm voice. Needless to say 45 minutes later I was off the phone and crying and physically and emotionally drained because she continue to talk and talk and talk and I was empath to the point it was overwhelming me I actually felt sick to my stomach and mentally exhausted at the end of the conversation. It has been like this since she was a teenager. It is finally finally making sense to me and it's nice to know that I'm not crazy 😁
@ljmarshal3178
@ljmarshal3178 5 жыл бұрын
I don't want to be an Empath anymore
@lucilleresic879
@lucilleresic879 5 жыл бұрын
Not being an empath is driving a car, saying "I don't want to drive" Thinking the car will stop. Unfortunately it will not, crashing is more likely. Ask yourself or better yet your spirt guides " why? " We are here for a purpose . We are awaken "why"
@margaretno211
@margaretno211 4 жыл бұрын
Being an empath is a great responsibility however it is something we can't throw away because it is as much a part of us as our skin. I have felt that being an empath was a burden however as I have come to understand and accept this part of me being empathic is becoming easier to wear.
@johnnytightwad3784
@johnnytightwad3784 4 жыл бұрын
You can learn to close doors thru meditation.
@Vbee3
@Vbee3 4 жыл бұрын
I like being who i am, even how i am, i just feel very confused at this moment because i feel that, now something has changed in me, theres so much more i see, and its all to much and when you realise, people were never who you thought, i feel i just can not trust anyone, and there are so many things i dont understand, all getting mixed up in my mind, i get things wrong? but i have no one i can talk to about this without sounding like ive gone daft, so i just keep to myself, and go daft anyway! We all need someone, dont we? I wish i new someone like me? 😞
@nishobit.1293
@nishobit.1293 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your statement..
@fauna423
@fauna423 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So grateful for you!
@josesantana27
@josesantana27 5 жыл бұрын
I am a empath, and I am truly grateful for this video. I have noticed this internal dialogue before but didn't have the conviction in embracing it. Great Insight Kirk. Thanks for sharing.
@janellemedveckyulickey
@janellemedveckyulickey 2 жыл бұрын
Second time around is going to work. As for children mine are grown Ive had this my whole life, my 36 yr old daughter will state it matter of factly my analytical son knows it but will not admit out loud but he relies on it. TY for your communication skills on this and helping us to help others.
@Beautiful_Dreamer
@Beautiful_Dreamer 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. Can you use this for animal training?
@BarkedBeans
@BarkedBeans 5 жыл бұрын
Irini Adler I'm a dog trainer and I thought this was fantastic.
@josesantana27
@josesantana27 5 жыл бұрын
Great point on judgement, very convicting but enlightening at the same time. Thanks again Kirk.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I love that you are gaining so much from my videos.
@alart977
@alart977 5 жыл бұрын
I think I've blocked my abilities effectively. Sometimes you just can't see the line between you and the other person.
@luishenriques7246
@luishenriques7246 2 жыл бұрын
So true every word you said, and yes, I'm an Empath 🙂
@Sapphirezkillahitz13
@Sapphirezkillahitz13 5 жыл бұрын
Me n my husband can do this we know we are twin flames when we met we both went into an outer body experience... we have been together 17 years... I will think something and he will say it or vice versa
@Melodylynn69
@Melodylynn69 5 жыл бұрын
wow....awesome!!
@tatucorreia
@tatucorreia 4 жыл бұрын
I wish...sounds like a dream only few have the opportunity to go through.
@G3.9-6
@G3.9-6 4 жыл бұрын
Soul mate
@ilhammohamed1939
@ilhammohamed1939 5 жыл бұрын
Iam tired feeling other people emotions and not apple to block it. So draining , especially people who are feeling angry and sad all the time. Worst thing that we can feel is hate. people who having hate in their hearts and they don't know how to forgive and move on.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching. Try these steps, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5yrepp-hJiLbpY&lc=UgxGH2fpU-HxW31Yeox4AaABAg. They work for me.
@yea.hii.1202
@yea.hii.1202 3 жыл бұрын
3KE I love your energy you made me smile and I’m grateful to be listening to you so I can develop my empath skills. :)
@lehtyerkimchew
@lehtyerkimchew 5 жыл бұрын
All my friends turned their back against me, recently I felt so drained 😢😢😢 I feel alone. I felt used
@carolprice1389
@carolprice1389 5 жыл бұрын
As sad as this is it means they were never your friends.Live and learn from this and don't let them drag you down with them.I am a empath and I care even though I am a stranger.
@jde-jj1lu
@jde-jj1lu 5 жыл бұрын
Same, sometimes some time after you realize it was for your own good
@missred2401
@missred2401 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much it hasn’t been easy
@robertandrews6956
@robertandrews6956 5 жыл бұрын
Nice work Brother. I'm one of those Dad's my Bro.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watchign Robert!
@onethought1123
@onethought1123 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.. Learning more and more about myself. I thought I was a manipulator, but I knew that wasn't me, always felt guilty after a verbal fight. That was NEVER the case...
@lonerEmpath
@lonerEmpath 5 жыл бұрын
Great video ... just one thing I disagree with is what you think anyone can become an empath and I don’t think that’s accurate. Being an empath is rare especially those who are born naturally as an empath , anyone can learn to be empathetic to others but that’s not what an empath is correct me if am wrong I been like this since I was kid and empathy and empath is very different
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and thank you for your insight.
@teddi111
@teddi111 5 жыл бұрын
I do agree some people are born with different propensities... I love that I am an empath & I wish I could run faster & multitask more but that's just not in the cards for me at this time... I guess I'm just going to have to accept that my real strength is in being of service and not as an Olympic medalist or as another Steve Jobs...lol... stay well!
@jazzmenfox612
@jazzmenfox612 5 жыл бұрын
wolf guy I totally agree with you.
@soulshaker9018
@soulshaker9018 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I think he's trying to make it out like "oh come and watch my video, click on it so you can become an empath". Personally I was hoping to get help for how much it DRAINS ME. I've always been this way, and it physically drains me because I am a hairstylist ! I am literally feeling their pain 😓
@trayballa7975
@trayballa7975 5 жыл бұрын
Lisa Hollis look into " grounding " yourself before you start your day- this can be done in different ways - protect yourself with white light before u leave the house & look into crystals - black obsidian and others ... Good luck & much love ( wear pendants or put crystals in ur pockets ) 💓💓💓
@a.scheffer6968
@a.scheffer6968 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@craftycreek
@craftycreek 5 жыл бұрын
My other half and I have those unspoken conversations.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Love it - Here's another video specifically about journalling I posted kzbin.info/www/bejne/baTal3-Cqc-nn7s Thank you for watching!
@angel1521990
@angel1521990 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you,you helped me a lot to understand some things.
@hollymartin2092
@hollymartin2092 5 жыл бұрын
Telepathy is the word you were drawing a blank for I believe.
@Laranel4675
@Laranel4675 5 жыл бұрын
Have you written any books about empath? You explained every detail in so much clarity. There's no coincidence, i found you because i was guided to you. Thank you :)
@barukeemyahduff4216
@barukeemyahduff4216 5 жыл бұрын
Kundlini yoga strengthens the pychic channels
@cataleyacolumbiana8083
@cataleyacolumbiana8083 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!💪 😊
@chunka66
@chunka66 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, but we can't help the narcissist.
@luzzetpetjathomas243
@luzzetpetjathomas243 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much
@MsJones-mc9gq
@MsJones-mc9gq 5 жыл бұрын
This is a birth gift. Unfortunately if it's misunderstood it's a cursed thing.
@jennifergaribaldi7248
@jennifergaribaldi7248 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you much! Not even finished and this is so helpful!!!
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@JOSHUAloves1
@JOSHUAloves1 5 жыл бұрын
Your a churchgoer? That's understandable When you say that people are not broken they just have things happen to them.. According to the word of God people are very broken and lost. they need to know the love of the Father. People are in need of the great healer Jesus the Messiah. In no way shape or form can I fix them and in no way do I want to be that person. But at the same time people are very broken and they need Jesus to heal deliver and set them free from unclean demonic spirits.... the lies of their own thoughts and reason that keep them bound from seeing reality.... according to His will not mine or yours. we need truth according to scriptures and discernment. Godly discernment.
@normadeluna3349
@normadeluna3349 5 жыл бұрын
Jesuslover Warrior praise the lord
@JOSHUAloves1
@JOSHUAloves1 5 жыл бұрын
@@normadeluna3349 Jesus is Lord!! Lol blessings
@lucilleresic879
@lucilleresic879 5 жыл бұрын
The children of god are guides to the lessons are father gives. The truth lies within.
@smhollanshead
@smhollanshead 5 жыл бұрын
God helps those who help themselves. Use the gifts God gave you to help others. Empathy is a form of love. The more you love people the more empathic you can be. Just like any gift, it can be used or it can discarded. It’s up to you how you use your time and talents.
@kimberlyholloway1998
@kimberlyholloway1998 4 жыл бұрын
Wow....now I understand..thank you
@luv4usluv4all98
@luv4usluv4all98 5 жыл бұрын
HOW TO BECOME A STRONGER EMPATH ? BY LEARNING THE WAYS OF CHRIST ....HE HANDLE NARCISSIST AND PSYCHOPATH AND OTHERS WITH AUTHORITY , RIGHTEOUS , COMPASSION, AND HE WAS KIND BUT HE WASN'T A PUSH OVER , AND HAD NO RESPECT OF PERSON....... THE PERFECT TEACHER !
@tailsntrails
@tailsntrails 5 жыл бұрын
Luv4us Luv4All that is so awesome!! Best advice!
@kellieannedickamore8446
@kellieannedickamore8446 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video and all that you do. I invited a friend to join me at your last MYI event. During one of the breaks, we were talking, and before she had the chance to ask, I answered her question out loud. It surprised her, and made me realize that my own self doubt is what gets in the way, and when I don’t doubt, I am more able to use this gift and ability
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, that is awesome. We are so thrilled you attended our Master Your Influence event. That is a great class for people, and Empaths, to get clarity and direction in their lives.
@rhondadavis4285
@rhondadavis4285 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I feel empowered 💕
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