3x16 Damon & Elena "If you keep pushing people away, you'll end up alone."

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[@anja5172]

You gotta love Damon's obsession with squirrels! He mentions them every now and then 😁

[@petraleopold2713]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@winterspirit3734]

& chipmunks

[@jn3550]

You forgot Stefan 😂

[@marrymarry9785]

She’s obviously into him, but she’s not ready for a relationship though. Therefore, when Damon acts like an overprotective boyfriend she doesn’t appreciate it and tells him to back off. Then, he gets mad and distances himself. Then, she gets upset because he’s being rude and distant. Thus, that cycle goes on for some time.

[@Hiratjea]

THIS MADE ME LAUGH SO HARD

[@i.love.you.lots.]

"Feed it to the squirrels sksksksks" 😂😂

[@Cupcakeeproductions9]

"If you keep pushing people away, you'll end up alone" What was that Elena? Sorry I couldn't hear you over you screwing him 13 episodes later

[@itspaige7794]

no chill nina nice one!!!

[@witchf4ce310]

no chill nina it's called fan service

[@Targ_Obsessed]

Lol

[@rcciit9226]

@@witchf4ce310 season 4 and 5 stelena was fanservice

[@gm.8805]

@@witchf4ce310 how’s that fan service?

[@cara9680]

I like how in the end after she says it and walks away Damon's expressions kinda goes from "what is she talking about" to "oh crap she's right"

[@vntxblvck3254]

“I’m mean, you hate me. The Earth is back on its axis.” I FELT THAT ALOT 😂❤️ #delena

[@apples8872]

Ian's face has a lot of makeup on it in this scene

[@isimp9231]

0:55 expecially here

[@katiebrooke9040]

Yeah too much base

[@joisyhearts]

Lol Elena... I love how she's like: "you're going to end up alone Damon if you keep pushing people away." which is exactly what she's doing. Shes pushing Damon away. Its so frustrating how she's still really in denial. But seriously, if she really loved Stefan, she wouldn't have fallen for Damon. Oh Elena, I think you're beginning to lose it, LOL

[@bertrandmarie2748]

Jis9v and

[@Hansraj78460]

And she lose it

[@Excitedtree]

I love his squirrel impressions

[@Ambereigh]

Have you ever noticed that she is only seriously irritated by Damon when Stefan is around.. whenever he's gone they can have good and enjoyable time together..when she LETS it happen. she chooses to get irrateted when it's not even needed. she doesn't let herself just feel what she wants around him which is safe and happy. like episode 3x10 WHOLE episdoe she was nice and sweet to Damon. THAT is how she really feels about him. When she's not being stuck up his one liners make her smile.

[@elenasal1652]

Omg holy shit the looks from Damon the eye wink the stare the smirk mmmmm melt!!!!!

[@katrinasantos9175]

I think elana told him that because she loves him more than just a friend

[@creepymaiden]

I love the way he acts and his face expressions.. honestly, it was mainly him that made this show so popular

[@Ambereigh]

my thoughts exactly EXACTLY !! Stelena is literally that.. Elena and Stefan meshed together as one brain.. both boring and unlively characters.. at least Damon and Elena can have different personalities and disagree and still coe-exist in an entertainingly sexy adorable way.. honestly i can't wait until season 4 when Vampire elena realizes how boring being with stefan is lol !

[@jalecd]

I laughed so hard at the squirrel part, I had to replay it!

[@babyunicorn347]

Why elena is acting that she didn't do anything? She was the one who rejected damon and then she gets mad when he don't want her anymore. Well too bad. What she thinks she is "if you keep pushing people away you'll be alone" says girl who pushed him away

[@heysam22]

He is so ATTRACTIVE!

[@RothCirce]

YOU KIDDING ME ELENA?! You're the one who's pushing HIM away?!

[@Xx791xX]

hey, at least elena's character is realistic. i mean we all say the wrong things or do the wrong things at some point in life. i just hope that elena will realize that damon is amazing and love him with all her heart.

[@ThatsSoTrue21]

LOL Damon's squirrel face

[@Tazmina266]

He'l never be alone! He'll always have me! ;)

[@nayantyagi6166]

The thing is that she is the one saying u l end up alone... both women in his life lily and katherine abandon him but elena never did,,,,season 6 episode 18... ("elena told damon it's ok to get hurt damon lily is the 2nd women to abandon you, then damon said says the women who never has".... then damon smiles and elena blushes... this is a very beautiful scene plz do see)

[@timelapse_331]

How ironic is this considering she is the one who won't admit her feelings to him and is ultimately pushing him away.

[@TheMinarus]

playing the part when damon does the squerel over and over again it makes me laugh so badly

[@kiarayadav5205]

the way he acts omg superb especially the squirell part

[@l33raine]

yea well Elena you're the one who told him that loving you is a problem. how was a self destructive guy suppose to react.?! DAMN IT!

[@Ambereigh]

Elena was stringing the hottest sweetest most wonderful vamp man along that's why she got the hate.. when Damon Salvator says he loves you DON'T say maybe that's the problem ! :)

[@anum103]

I think what Elena meant was that if Damon pretends like he doesn't care anymore n puts on a mask n pushes her away he'll end up without her. Honestly I hate when Elena n Damon fight but then again an epic journey is full of hardships n struggles but what's important is that no matter how much they push each other away, in their hearts they r always close to one another

[@karenbee1996]

Right back at chu elena, if you keep pushing damon again, you'll end up miserable"

[@l33raine]

urgh this scene pisses me off! it's make me angry how Damon is always viewed as the bad guy when Stefan don't even have the guts to tell Elena what Damon did for him. if she doesn't see the light and chooses Stefan then they deserve each other. they can bask in their self-righteousness.

[@arlinycruz6734]

exactly

[@Ambereigh]

I agree with you... but i think that Elena makes herself uncomfortable around Damon because she has this ever going stream of thoughts in her head telling her it's wrong to relax around Damon or to just have fun with Damon... the last time Elena was truly happy imo when Damon saved her from the car crash and they were in "atlanta" before someone tried to kill Damon Elena was ACTUALLY having fun.. she let loose and let all of her worries dissapear.. that is the difference between Damon and stefan

[@girlycs]

Damon is So funny! Elena needs to face the truth and admit that she has feelings for this awsome guy. Tvd 3x19: I'm counting the hours! -3

[@matthewmann8969]

Elena pushed Damon away not the other way around she should have said that she was sorry and that she did not mean the problem thing in the way he thought

[@LittleStrawberryLove]

'Elena, if you keep being such a self-righteous hypocrite, you'll end up without fans.' (still loving Nina Dobrev, of course)

[@reallyjam]

did you really just scroll through a year's worth of comments? wow. love the effort!

[@deborahjean6598]

You can't hurt someone who's alone because they're prepared to stay alone. There's no disappointment, no heartache to feel. That's why they repeat the same concept with Stefan and Damon. Stefan: You're angry... good. It'll be easier if you hate me. Damon: I did it for a… I did it for a very long time and life was a lot easier. Elena: He wants to be hated. It's just easier that way. When Damon feels, he breaks Jeremy's neck. Feelings make you impulsive. You don't think, you just act.

[@Ambereigh]

Yes Damon changes her in a positive way.. makes her think better and be smarter.. He treats her like he loves her. oh are you referring to the episode where he saved bonnie's life? i remember that.. and she needed Elijahs help because he was the only one who knew Klaus and the only one with a way to keep her alive..and she didn't want everyone sh eknew to die.. Damon ALWAYS lashes out it's his thing..he kills people...not boring.. w/ or without Elena Damon is still a funny and lively character

[@roshnisingha1540]

Continuously distracted due to his ghostly eyes.... :/

[@smhnicka]

what's wrong with them?

[@ananbrooke189]

Roshni Singha agree 😍

[@biancahercules1257]

Roshni Singha ikr 😻

[@MariaMacedow]

0:32 LOVE IT ! he's so funny xD

[@eighteensixtyfour19]

WHAT WAS SHE WEARING?! OH GOD

[@biancahercules1257]

eighteensixtyfour19 LOL

[@gabynais]

eighteensixtyfour19 i got ofended,i wear that everyday 💀 oh man the 2013

[@gradybaby_kv]

Gabriela lmao

[@purplelove010]

It was the 2010s. Dressing down was in style

[@Ambereigh]

I KNOW RIGHT ! i jumped for joy when i saw it !

[@TheMinarus]

this episode reminded me of season 1 when i watched it on DVD

[@MissDeeDee94]

a million thumbs up to the haircut! haha

[@pmnsoccer2010]

Lolol the squirrel part

[@sr6191]

thank you for uploading this so quickly :)

[@nychik303]

Praaaaaaaise Him for Damon's hair cut! DING DONG! The quasi-mullet is DEAD!

[@dannybolton6065]

She was exercising!. ;)

[@RN1085]

Elena is the one pushing damon away everytime they get close she's the one that will end up alone

[@soha07100]

elena so cut when she heaving her hair it's very beauty on her

[@bertrandmarie2748]

Dieorhr8ur

[@bertrandmarie2748]

F8e8ek

[@BiBoFan]

Anytime:)

[@GloryOfDamned]

I still love Delena. No matter what. ♥

[@gegerenai_]

“Stop it Damon” 💀💀😭

[@dannybolton6065]

Yes!. ;D

[@ranooshalkhafajy5657]

.What Elena said was so right

[@Brucasxo]

i think its obvious that delena will be the finale but i really really want it to be that the salvatores choose eachother over her :')

[@Ambereigh]

because Elena is trying SO hard not to let him in, not to accept him. Damon and Elena have had there own little understanding since season one elena said it herself. That's why she felt bad when lying to him and it hurt him when he found out. They have a friendship they've builded a relationship. You might think that Delena won't work but Stelena will never be the same after Delena has happened..it won't be stronger because stefan will be even more insecure and she'll never stop feelin for Damon

[@jakaylabrown8691]

Love

[@Ambereigh]

Damon isn't pretending to be nice...he truly is anyone watching tvd would know that whole evil killer thing is a mask that he wears so he won't get hurt..a way of him turning off the pain and not being able to get hurt. I don't agree with the whole now she's a vampire she'll be all dark and fit him... if she didn't fit him when she was human screw her. actually yea screw her. but anyway. i didn't mean she changes into a dark person i meant that Damon makes her not just live but feel alive.

[@hayleeblethen4290]

She loves both of the savlotore brothers in different ways

[@MsPurefunk]

I know right! 1st he doesnt care enough, then he cares too much and back to... so frustrating! Just love him already! Delena fan. I hope tonight it all comes together.

[@Ambereigh]

Stefan helps her to live with what she feels..makes it livable.. while Damon makes it so what seh feels don't weigh her down he lifts them off of her..and he consumes her making all of her problems seem so small.. Stefan saves her emotionally... and Damon saves her physically.. and also changes her. Stefan and Elena can stay who they are with each other... while Damona and elena Grow together.

[@littleAliengrl]

@ZimmiaS lol i read an article similar to what you said. nothing direct but ian somerhalder did say we can expect some pretty cool stuff coming up for delena and some "powerful, passionate" scenes between them.

[@Naomiiiii]

I LIKE HOW ALL THESE COMMENTS SAY SHE NEEDS TO ADMIT TO HER FEELING ABOUT DAMON, BUT CLEARLY IN THE END OF THE EPISODE SHE TOLD MATT SHE COULDN'T SHAKE DAMON!

[@blablabla7kp]

ofcourse he won't stay out of that...when did he? and she says he could show a little compassion....SHE should say THANK YOU...for saving her life....

[@Ambereigh]

lmao !! so true !

[@MaemiSaemiNaemi13]

Haha ok just making sure. Thank you.(:

[@reallyjam]

0:30-0:33 LMFAO!!

[@83Delena]

Yeah, you'r right. Let's see where it goes with them.

[@mariatvd7]

God... 0:30

[@binababy113]

"pushing people away"? Is she NUTS?! Elena is the one who rejected Damon. SHE pushed HIM away. GOD! *punches Elena in the face*

[@delulaby]

@subikutty I'm sorry but I don't get it xD Stefan and Elena are boring as hell, life is about having angry, sad, good moments not only rainbows and unicorns lol... Delena is more similiar to real life than Stelena ;)

[@asifiliztuba]

@TheDrinkjuice i agree completly with you!!!

[@Dsmommmy]

0:08-0:12 - might just be me but I cant stop smiling at this part. Elena's look (in my opinion) , was that awkward, "oh my god he's here" "GIDDY" look because Damon was there. lol Just sayin'

[@Naomiiiii]

I like in the promo it made the whole episode seem like Sage was going to be in it the whole time through flash backs, but she was only in there for like three

[@TheDrinkjuice]

Elena is such a hypocrite. Come on Elena admit you have feelings for him. She is saying that Damon will end up alone if he keeps pushing people away from him. Elena is pushing Damon away from her when he constantly tells her he loves her. I think Elena doesn't want to admit her feelings for Damon because she doesn't want to be another Katherine. Like Katherine said "It's okay to love them both. I did". I'm glad Matt is slapping some sense into Elena. She needs to admit she loves Damon.

[@Dsmommmy]

First thought when I saw what Elena was wearing for a run "damn , what the hell is she wearing?! That's a lot of layers! " lol although u can tell her iPhone is on the right pocket of her hoodie! =P must've been cold in ATL =)

[@wowmomwow08]

damons squirrel sound Luv it, hes so hot

[@Dsmommmy]

@MaryannMaenad - wow I seriously just cried, reading your comments! Totally agree & spot on!! Oh my DE heart =*(

[@levicanga2315]

Well to late elena i ready am hahaha, Me: on my bed eating

[@1XMarksSpot]

I think Elena mistaken Damon with herself when she said that lol

[@XOMoonlightXO]

[@loveandpeace504]

Vampires Diaries love triangle is like so many other old hit shows like Dawsons Creek Joey, Dawson, and Pacey and Joey choosed the one who was not perfect for her but the one who kept her on her toes and gave her excitement same with Veronica Mars when she choose Logan the bad ass because their realtionship had excitement and passion and thats why Elena will choose Damon all i am trying to say its going to be an EPIC love story example Rory and Jesse Gilmore Girls not together but EPIC

[@mollydess]

@AvL PH Damon the difference between Damon and demon us that damons hot and everyone loves him

[@BiBoFan]

Well i don't ur bipolar... U juss told the truth and i agree with u 100%.. And that's ok that ur statement's long:D

[@Gisoo200]

Who loves damon?

[@ck32pack]

ha "should i send lasagna?" what is he suppose to do? he cant exactly go up to bonnie and say im sorry for turning your mom. i was doing it to save elena. i mean come on. he said it because hes like what else am i suppose to do? elena i love you still but your really pissing me off the way your treating damon!!! he is the best! plus yum so sexy

[@imkrazykate1]

So many haters, go find another show please!. ;)

[@Ambereigh]

He actually does let her make discisions...first he's like HELL NO..then she starts exxplainin and beggin and pleadin and then he's like ok you can do it as long as i'm there to protect you.. and most of time he only doesn't let her make her own dicisions when they will get her killed. They did not change because of Stefan! they may have grown closer in his absense but Stefan actions didn't change anyone. As for loving eachother regardless of what happens.. Damon and Elena have that too.

[@Ambereigh]

I'm not talking about Vampire Elena i'm talking about Regular Elena and i don't mean they have to change their personality or love interest... Damon and Elena are who they are around each other and they accept each other and care for one another despite flaws/mistakes... it just so happens that when they are around each other they change for the better.. not because they tried to..but because that's just the effect they have on each other.. they effect(spell check) each other's lives.

[@gohito456]

god damn his eyes!!!! Fuck I wish mine were like that!!!

[@Teira]

LOL! 0:30 , was that a Silence of the Lambs reference?!

[@littleAliengrl]

@ZimmiaS i know rite? i mean i know hes hurt over what she told him but im sure if he had only heard the way she spoke about him to matt tonight he would rethink letting her go.

[@littleAliengrl]

@ZimmiaS there's literally nothing i can think of that damon hasn't already done to peeve off elena. i don't think damon would ever sleep around once he has elena. i mean once you sleep with the person you love, everyone else is supposed to pale in comparison right?

[@TheFazgirl]

damon is funny

[@Naomiiiii]

@MaryannMaenad HAHAHA!

[@sarahjensenian6]

I love delena scenes...but the first thing i noticed in this scene was the editing mistake...notice when they pan back and too from behind elena to her face..her hair is on a shoulder then all scraped at the bk and vice versa!

[@Ambereigh]

Damon killed Elena's brother...and not only did Jeremy forgive him (on top of that Alaric,Damon and Elena seem almost like a family ie scene were damon compelled him about denver) but Elena still managed not to be able to push him out of her heart/life.. no matter WHAT Damon does the way she feels for him is so rooted in her and she cares so deeply for him that she can not give up on saving him from himself. She feels the same way about stefan.. Delena can be compared to Stelena equally.

[@smhnicka]

oh the irony...

[@TheSusixX]

Elena didn't apologize to him and she didn't say thank you -.-

[@sarahjensenian6]

To TheMikaela1992 :jeez...calm down i was only mentioning it thats all...i love VD!