4 Reasons Why I STOP Dating Filipinas

4 Reasons ( through my personal experiences ) Why you should not be dating that Filipina. #dating #travel #philippines #expat
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[@23zchris]

What's he's saying applies to women in general, not just Filipino women.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you ….🙏

[@evelynfrancisco9751]

AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@keremcagintv]

Key issue is that to have strong relationships, both men and women alike need to be transparent!

[@crimestoppers1877]

True!

[@ivannovotny4552]

@@keremcagintv - I concur, with mutual trust and respect.

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

No matter what Country you are in, staying single is best for men.

[@SAMLAMB]

I did not think that way most of my adult life…always thought I needed to be with someone….now that I’m older..I have to agree with you.

[@Chris-ts8oh]

Yes but it's so damn lonesome.

[@robertgartner6072]

@@Chris-ts8oh Get a pet for companionship :-)

[@SAMLAMB]

@robertgartner6072 omg Robert 😂

[@neftali1049]

100% Facts Homie.. 😎😎😎

[@TheAndrewShow40]

*I don't think Philippines women are the same as many years ago. Western culture is influencing them*

[@SAMLAMB]

100% agreed Andrew.

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 the whole world is collapsing into Sodom and Gomorrah 🔥 if your traveling anywhere in this world you better be Street Wise or you bettter just stay home

[@borodinomarengo6631]

They watched too much Korean Novela. Plus they have this kind of notion " Filipinas are always right when it comes to relationship.

[@randomcommenter7414]

Modern, Western sensibilities, just bring to the surface what underlies the culture, ways and thinking of Filipino women today.

[@xtrm2009]

Indeed they are influenced. From what I saw, they are worse than the western ones. Imagine such thing. smh...

[@WineSippingCowboy]

I agree 👍 1 No single moms. 2 No bar girls. Add: 1 do not bring the woman to another nation including your nation. 2 avoid online dating as much as possible. 3 no tattoos 4 no limitless paying for the woman. Passport Men follow most of these guidelines.

[@SAMLAMB]

Very smart Cowboy…we should all adopt some or all of those rules….

[@Panda-gu9wz]

Looks like I am violating those rules now…😂😂😂

[@PaulMcB873]

You're basically saying. There are no Filipinas that meet your criteria.

[@SAMLAMB]

@Panda-gu9wz 🤣🤣🤣🤣😎😎😎 Love It….

[@SAMLAMB]

@PaulMcB873 hmmm, no im saying I was a bit immature and looking for love in the wrong places. I’m happy now with my current Filipina gf of 6 yrs. Thanks for joining in , Paul.

[@ardshielcomplex8917]

I've travelled regularly to Thailand, Cambodia and Philippines for decades and can state that all women have their own agendas; (just as we males do) and they all well know how to take a man down Asset and Money wise. Some are easily recognised that way others not so as they play the longer game, but theyre all going in the same direction. We heterosexual guys are at a distinct disadvantage when it comes to a serious involvement / relationship, dont make any woman the centre of your life, maintain your Man frame and personal interests , sports, hobbies and daily/weekly routines; dont neglect your proven friends or career /retirement rewards. Restrict any and every woman as an adjunct to your life, dont allow her to dominate it. "Men love idealistically while women love opportunistically" (Rollo Tomassi. MGTOW.) Embed that in your mindset and women are placed in their appropriate context.

[@reigninblood123]

You mentioned Thailand, Cambodia and the Philippines. Out of those three which do you recommend?

[@SAMLAMB]

@reigninblood123 I would recommend Philippines. You’ll love it here

[@gobfranklin6759]

Great comments.

[@reigninblood123]

Well it’s not the case with women only being after your money these days. Women can make their own money and date men they really like. Women have been empowered and are self sufficient. That may not be the case in all of south East Asia but things are moving in that direction.

[@reigninblood123]

Well it’s not the case with women only being after your money these days. Women can make their own money and date men they really like. Women have been empowered and are self sufficient. That may not be the case in all of south East Asia but things are moving in that direction.

[@legacyrydeshare3478]

I’m too lazy to marry anyone 💚

[@SAMLAMB]

There’s nothing wrong with that…be safe Legacy…

[@kentruck1334]

😂 I feel the same way

[@lip1599]

Lol same even at age of 30’s

[@rodan2852]

I just dont have the patience to baby people.

[@MrSamadolfo]

😒👍 FACTS, Slackers Unite! 👊😏

[@frank88ster]

Having a 'temporary fling / paid sex worker doesn't break your bank or property split. You can walk away and have your fantasy fulfilled without the baggage. A lot cheaper and no hassles.

[@SAMLAMB]

Great comment.

[@TeflonDon_45]

Ask Trump how paying for sex worked out smh

[@sugoidessho]

Amen. IMHO Filipinas are for recreational use only.

[@rp7r54]

SOME PEOPLE HATE THE TRUTH

[@marlyngunschannel523]

It doesn’t break your bank but consumes your soul 😂 end up feeling empty

[@roderickcortez138]

Never understood why men think that women in other countries are gonna be different.

[@MrSamadolfo]

😒 thats on the dudes for being Stupid and Never Growing Up, its a Money World just like the song by Luni

[@josephmontezuma5089]

They are different

[@jackieruso6493]

Yeah, I never understood that either. Apparently, they've never heard of the hit TLC show 90 Day Fiancée. There's a whole franchise on that show (along with the spin off shows) and that proves why dating internationally can also be a hot mess.

[@MrSamadolfo]

@@jackieruso6493 😏 how about: aint nothing going on but the rent, gotta have a jay o bee if u wanna bee with me 😅 shiiiii

[@SAMLAMB]

@jackieruso6493 I’ve heard of it. Watched a few episodes.

[@PhoenixwayNet]

Divorce is actually illegal there, dude...it's not just that they don't believe in it. She just wanted someone to pay for her annulment.

[@SAMLAMB]

At the time, 12 yrs ago, no one told me divorce was illegal…I’ve learned a lot just by reading your comments…thanks

[@martialway81]

It Was Legalized the other day

[@happysolitudetv]

Wait...

[@pleaseactright1]

@@martialway81 No not yet. It still hasn't pass the Senate vote. I just checked with a Philippines lawyer yesterday because a friend of mine asked.

[@SAMLAMB]

Ok so still no divorce?

[@vincentwalker4738]

When I was stationed in the Philippines from 1988 to 1991. When the bases were starting to close down in 1991. The women were getting very aggressive in trying to get Navy guys to marry them. Those who did get married to the bar girls. When they bought them back to San Diego. Their wives started hanging out with the other Filipina bar girls in San Diego. When the ship went to sea their Filipina bar girls , was hanging out at the officer's club . And they were sleeping with officers when hubby was away. A lot of them, when they got to San Diego, showed little interest in their marriage. They got what they wanted a sailor to bring them to San Diego.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’ve heard those stories from My dad he was based at Clark airbase back in the late 60s. That’s one of the reasons I visited Angeles back around 2010 just to see his old stomping grounds.

[@eQuariuz]

Memories. One family who had a young 18 yr old navy son, sent her back without him knowing til it was too late.

[@FernandaCabellon]

its not bad to learned your lesson. you have a choice to send her back, if you think she's not treating you right. look not only filipina does that! so many women in this world are like that!

[@SAMLAMB]

@FernandaCabellon I agree with you Fernanda. It’s universal.

[@ThaGOTE]

Thank you for this….I have officially made my mind up on marrying ANYONE at this point. Its an absolute “NAH” for me. Apparently it’s never your woman, it’s just your TURN.

[@SAMLAMB]

😅

[@josephmontezuma5089]

My buddy has been married to a Filipina for 38 years and have 3 kids together so no. It only applies to a few.

[@SAMLAMB]

@josephmontezuma5089 100% agree, Joseph.

[@fruitloops3718]

You know the saying; you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl.

[@SAMLAMB]

🤣🤣🤣

[@EyeSpy-pg5cw]

I was almost gonna write the same thing.😁

[@reigninblood123]

I actually think that line goes back to the 1990s or possibly even earlier

[@alanforrester6900]

Another saddo who can’t get a woman

[@penguinvic9892]

I’ve got a true crime storybook of a nice kind-hearted Christian man who attempted to make a good woman out of a bar girl … it didn’t end well for him … she won his estate but then went to jail !!

[@user-qq4nb8qz4x]

Good advice Sam. Too many expats are misleading women and damaging them emotionally, they fail to understand how these women take a relationship seriously.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you so much for your comment. We appreciate you.

[@user-jq4fz6co8b]

I agree. The whole passport bros thing tends to be a dogwhistle for going over there for sex tourism. Of course it’s not true of all, but I continuously see those channels operating as such….they’re not immediately trying to settle down, as they like to make claims. It’s about leveraging the novelty of being foreign to get easy sex that they wouldn’t get in the West. Ultimately, those men will turn the women of other countries into exactly the kind of women they’re running away from. Single mothers, promiscuous, etc. Makes no sense.

[@cjjaxxon]

Not true. Everybody saying that men are misleading these women are being disingenuous.

[@piotr5338]

Blood not water use to say my grand mom .

[@mhoadievdelapaz3703]

To tell the truth,Filipinas are fast becoming American women 2.0 with crass materialism.Im talking from first hand experience.

[@SAMLAMB]

I hope not. There are still a lot of beautiful minded women in the Philippines. I have one now.

[@kingmaafa120]

Say it again I see many now have their own KZbin channels 😮

[@randomcommenter7414]

It’s much more worse than that.

[@kingmaafa120]

@@randomcommenter7414 in which way

[@randomcommenter7414]

@@kingmaafa120 - Keep studying Filipino culture and history especially expats stories on practical matters in addition to their personal experiences. After a while you will begin to see how harsh Philippines culture can be. There is a brutally to Filipino culture that frankly is too hard to believe. I always tell guys to aim higher.

[@yaimavol]

Because of the insanely high rate of single mothers in PH, you should assume any girl you meet online there has kids, so it doesn't surprise you when it comes out. I think after a few dates, a man who is serious about a PH woman should bluntly tell her she needs to submit to a background check to make sure her story is true. This story is not as crazy as the women still living with their ex and in some cases living with him on sugar daddy's dime.

[@SAMLAMB]

I do know there’s a high rate of single mothers in the PI…The law in the Philippines really doesn’t protect the women. If they have a law that forces the father to pay child support I guarantee you there will be less single moms in the Philippines.

[@yaimavol]

@@SAMLAMB They probably don't have the system to garnish wages like they do in the US if you don't pay. US courts will find your money one way or another.

[@SAMLAMB]

That’s why I said that law will curtail the single mother. If a Filipino know they have to pay child support, I guarantee you they’ll be less men going around having unprotected sex. As of now, many young Filipino men goes around having sex with multiple women, getting them pregnant with no accountability.

[@mikesolns1364]

@@SAMLAMB We have such law in the US and yet our number of single moms is exorbitant Stop trying to make men responsible without demanding the same from women Do you not know she let him hit it raw She had no second thoughts Now she's a single mom? Geesh, shaking my head

[@SAMLAMB]

@mikesolns1364 I have my thoughts on why there’s so many single moms and how you can slow down that trend. But that’s for another video.

[@breatheliveandthrive7404]

Men, Female Nature is universal. THES women are not much different.

[@beekeepermariadelgado6806]

And desperate men with visions of a subservient wife massaging him for life, not happening!

[@poeticprincee9750]

Absolutely!

[@Anonymint-vj7bt]

They are not divorced because there is no divorce in the Philippines.

[@nikkibelmont9199]

You marry a Filipina you also marry her family. Makes sure you have lotta dough to support every one in her family including her ex- Filipino boyfriend or exfilipinohusband. YOU WILL BE THE WALKKNG ATM.

[@SAMLAMB]

😅

[@penguinvic9892]

You should choose a family where everyone has a good job and / or their own business … and even then DO NOT BE TOO GENEROUS !!

[@SAMLAMB]

@penguinvic9892 once again thanks for the advice, Penguin.

[@rp7r54]

A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY THE SAME STATEMENT. ANOTHER PERSON SAID THAT THAI FEMALES WILL AN OLDER MAN, SO THAT HE CAN SUPPORT HER AND HER BOYFRIEND.

[@monas]

Ex Filipino husband? Lol there is no divorce in the Philippines. Lots of foreign men go to the Philippines and don't realize they are trying to marry a woman who is already married, therefore breaking the law. And the woman most likely won't tell you she is still legally married. And marrying an already married woman, that can land you in prison in the Philippines.

[@violetaaquino169]

I'm Filipina,but I agree with you about your reasons for not dating Filipinas.👍👍👍

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you , Victoria. The stories I shared happened mostly when I first came to the Philippines. And the last thought on my video was a combination of my feelings from a comment one of my ex gf shared with me. And that’s don’t start dating a Filipina and tell them you love them if you have no intentions of committing into the relationship.

[@MuhammadAli-xw4yc]

@@SAMLAMB interesting, I'm hispanic and muslim. It is disgusting to a believer this dating satanic nonsense, Dating is forbidden to all believers in God. For the Godless people who follow desires this dating is normal behaviour. Satan loves this degenerate behaviour. You see that is the test, follow God or fall into the traps of satan. Any woman who spreads her legs before marriage is a red flag and any man who wants to to fornicate is not to be taken seriously because he should be a leader and love God and not follow satan.

[@xtrm2009]

filipinas the worst, compared to western women

[@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh]

Salamat, ate Victoria... I also felt like walking ATM while dating Pinays, so I said to myself - single naman. Pozdrawiam serdecznie z Polski

[@SAMLAMB]

I actually feel western women are much worse than Filipinas. And I feel the women from the Philippines are the best if you are looking for a serious relationship.

[@michaelrandle8316]

I've noticed that a large contingent of Passport Bros from the US go to the Philippines, looking for wives. While I support them doing this, your story is a cautionary tale, which exposes the pitfalls that exist (there's always a dark side). Awareness of the place is necessary.

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 Having a passport doesn't really mean anything, your basically a stranger in a strangle land and theres a million ways that things can go sideways for you, if you are in trouble who are you going to call to bail you out?

[@Moohanjagoodaroos]

Anyone going overseas to find a woman could be a winner. But still be careful. Some women regardless of the country, could play you, waste your money and time, and in the end leave you heartbroken. Pick someone who likes you and wants you.

[@davidjohnson6734]

Providing she is the right person 😮

[@acw2237]

Low eye queue comment

[@keremcagintv]

As long as they find someone that is high value and trustworthy!

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Facts ... I'm on the hunt for miss Bulacan miss Philippine universe 2024 that's a fine women 😆

[@rodan2852]

Lower mileage and less rust 😂

[@kamadotanjiro3689]

Filipino men here I've dated few filipinas before all of it was nothing but an awful experience. I have good experience dating japanese women if I'm going to date again it would be japanese women not filipina.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks for joining in the comment kamado..

[@davidmays229]

i'm 62 , never married or had kids, but from what i have observed and by the way i hear so many married men or those in an ltr, talk about their experience , it seems to me that both of those things do more to make a mans life more stressful than it does to make it more enriched, no matter the ethnicity of either person or where they are from.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining in David. My life and my travels through the Philippines in the last 16yrs has been an exciting one. I wouldn’t have traded for anything. Come join me my friend. 😎

[@rodan2852]

Me and my buddy from highschool are taking a trip there this summer. He wants to see some girls, I wanna ride motorcycles, explore and see some ww2 history

[@SAMLAMB]

@rodan2852 Phil/Am war memorial is worth seeing. Here in Dumaguete we have a small ww2 museum

[@MrSamadolfo]

😏 Dam, that was direct and to the point, you focused it into a laser point, that pretty much sums up Red Pill and Mig Tow and Black Pill, nice broh 👍

[@roymoxley2587]

Damn straight I’m 62 as well been married to a America women for 11 years she of coarse wanted out in 2006 No kids I dated but all the women I dated in the USA were horrible. I now live in Thailand with my long time girlfriend which she is close to my age and hell no I won’t marry her and she is fine with that. Her daughter is now 28 and her husband died many years ago with cancer She is a good women No drama no cheating she does not drink ,smoke, and takes care of herself .I really am lucky now retired and have a good women

[@rhitaagrg1250]

It's true Sam. I was in the Philippines (Subic Bay, Angeles City) for many years. I saw those kind of love thing many times. Anyway enjoy your life and stay safe. Love from Nepal. ❤

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for the comment Rhita…we appreciate you. Be safe

[@MrSamadolfo]

@@SAMLAMB 🤔 His name is Sam, im Sam too 👊😏

[@PhoneNHe]

HI Sam, just stumbled upon your channel. Just wanna say that you are an incredible human being. Your actions are wholeheartedly positive, and it's sad that you were screwed by those ladies. You deserve receiving a better long term opportunity to find your lady. I am Thai and grow up in europe, thus I am able to decrypt the mentality and communication on both side of the nation. There are similarities between Thais and Filipinas. I wish you best of everything.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you so much for the comment. These experiences happened to me before I found my special Filipina. RAZEL and I have been together for the last 6yrs and we are going strong.

[@FernandaCabellon]

excuse me, not only Thai and filipina works at the bar. many women all over the world that works at the bar for some reasons. like they have kids to feed or put food on the table. they are not dirty women. guys now a days do the same. actually I am proud of them is not decent but they are good mother. at least they are not thief. they just want to survive.. stop putting them down.

[@easterlily6803]

Divorce is illegal in the Philippines. You can only get an annulment which is very expensive and a very long process. It's not about beliefs.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Easterly…I appreciate your input. I’m learning, lots…

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Easter lily

[@docAllen]

Despite these advancements, with a population of around 113 million people, the Philippines, alongside the Vatican City State, is one of two countries where divorce remains illegal. Executive order no. 209.Jan 29, 2024

[@paulruano1903]

​​@@docAllengood, lets hope it will remain illegal for a very very very long time.

[@docAllen]

@@paulruano1903 Why do you want that?

[@Mcdapa]

Most Filipina women with kids have been ditched by the father long ago, probably 80% , so right out of the gate your way off reality.

[@Don-mu2qh]

I had a similar experience. Dated a Filipina, after a year or so found out she was married, paid for an annulment, but it just didn't work out. They all think American guys have endless money.

[@SAMLAMB]

Sorry to hear that Don…looks like you went a step further than I did…keep trying, it took me 12 years to find mine…good luck…

[@JonSudlowpc]

Is there a database you can check to see if a girl is married or not that you know of?

[@Don-mu2qh]

@@JonSudlowpc Ask her to let you purchase a certificate of no marriage for her. It doesn't cost very much. 500 - 1000 pesos.

[@acw2237]

On-line about 300 peso​@@Don-mu2qh

[@FekalistaGrzybowory-lz8lh]

Not only Americans, man... They think that all whites have money like Bill Gates or Elon Musk. Greetings from Poland

[@JimmyJohn.3563]

The first 3 yes, the last one. . . . Not so simple! And I think most of us older men know, female weave a complex web when it comes to the matter of the heart.

[@SAMLAMB]

You are absolutely correct. I’m still working on #4. He’s A mess 😂

[@jonshannon1025]

Excellent video Sam. I agree with the last part of your video completely.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks Jon …you have a great day!

[@llothar68]

My rules was i don't date a Filippina with children or parents. It was easy to find one when i looked at the end of 30 age range.

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

I was stationed in Seoul Korea for a year while in the military. I really enjoyed it there. Great food and beautiful women.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m in total agreement with you on both points…what a beautiful country..

[@marijolivitzky4336]

@@SAMLAMB Great video. BTW, are you Korean/American yourself?

[@SAMLAMB]

@marijolivitzky4336 thanks you for watching our video. Marijo, I was adopted by an American soldier at a very young age, my biological parents are from Taiwan. I am one of the very few aboriginal people from Taiwan. The Atayal tribe.

[@josephjoly9442]

In Philippines divorce is illegal

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

@@josephjoly9442 -I think they are changing that

[@Dus306]

similar story with me. She waited almost a year before mentioning she was still married lol. Learned my lesson on how to approach things and will purchase that form to make sure she's actually single.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’ve been with my current gf for 6yrs. All is good now

[@MrSamadolfo]

sure, thats the risk you take when ur dating strangers, its called the Long Con, they hide stuff so that the money keeps coming in OR they hope they can soften you up with time before they tell you the truth, hoping by then you will be sucker still, its shady broh, Never Trust A Stranger

[@paulruano1903]

You can request the public certificate. Its available for anyone, and it has government info of her age, marriagestatus, etc.

[@MrSamadolfo]

@@paulruano1903 🙂true, what i actually do in latin america is i ask whoever im dating to hand over he national id card so i can make a copy of it, in case u mess with me i will report u to the authoritys

[@FoundingYouTuber-2005]

Excellent presentation. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell.

[@SAMLAMB]

Wow! Thank you so much..we really appreciate you joining us today…have a great day!

[@floribertosousa2251]

Hi Sam,..great 👍 video. Thanks for the important advice. Keep up the great work and take care.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks Flori, you have a great day!

[@judemcbain606]

That was from the heat Bro 🙏. Bless up ya'self. You just confirmed to me to give them SE Asian scammers, a WIDE berth.

[@Dee-pv8lb]

Great listening to your experiences. Made me reflect- after 3 marriages to good girls with bad divorces at the end, I never had problems with bad girls.

[@SAMLAMB]

I can relate. I almost made it a fourth. What was I thinking 🤔

[@BarnabyBarry]

Me too-2 ex Flipinas-now I am in Thailand! Now I pay monthly severance pay-much better and cheaper than a divorce judgment!

[@jtuneddc5428]

@@BarnabyBarryhey what do you mean? 3 good girls turned out bad? And you never had a bad experience with bad girls?

[@SAMLAMB]

@jtuneddc5428 I think I’m attracted to bad girls 😂

[@Dee-pv8lb]

@jtuneddc5428 I really never had real bad experiences with bad girls. I always get rid of them ASAP. But I still go for good girls because it is always better being with someone you like. Hard to develop anything (mostly trust) with a bar girl.

[@dragonangel194]

Women in general are all going to look for a certain amount of security and resources. They are biologically wired to do that. As such, entering into ANY relationship is a negotiation, and as it goes on, it is an ongoing negotiation.

[@SAMLAMB]

Never thought of it like that. Wish someone had told me that when I was younger. 😁

[@ronwilliams621]

Super duper, thanks for the advice Sam. A very straightforward video, very informative w/no BS !

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for taking your time to comment, Jon

[@SAMLAMB]

I meant Ron

[@paulruano1903]

Good video. But the title was misleading. Part clickbait and maybe bad english.

[@DimitriosSpada]

First is to learn what is the 'less' i want for a woman to give me so i ll be pleased. Second is what is the 'more' i will give to her to be pleased. After, i make the relationship and stand to my limits. If she is press for more, the road is open to go to the next and me to take the next chance. The women teach me to be in love with the relationship i want to be and not with the person. In any case, its better to be alone than in a relationship with the wrong person.

[@EricR-]

I think some of these women are breaking the man's heart. After dating one of these women for a while, here's what you learn. Last minute surprise, oh, by the way, I have children. The next moment surprise is,oh, by the way, I'm still married. Make that make sense!😮

[@SAMLAMB]

In my case only one and that was enough. 😎

[@FernandaCabellon]

there's is so many guys are like that as well not only women

[@DennisSleeswijk]

Valuable lessons that just need to be told. And spoken from actual experiences. And even for those who knows it already, it never hurts to hear and repeat those common sense lessons. Afterall, some man make those mistakes also repeatedly hahah

[@SAMLAMB]

So true Dennis. That’s why I settled down 6yrs ago with Razel…she keeps me out of trouble 😀

[@ikgamer1]

Women has everywhere the Same Nature

[@ejtaylor73]

That's because so many are lacking common sense now-a-days. We learn best through pain, no matter how many times your parents told you not to touch a hot stove, it wasn't until you actually did it and got burned did you realize it hurts, and LEARNED not to do it again. Some of these guys will just have to get burned to LEARN to stop doing it.

[@icecreambeats101]

You were not wrong for breaking up with her. I’m proud of you. A friend of mine he dated a bar girl and they broke up a month later. She got pregnant with another man’s baby and caught HIV because she had a train ran on her.

[@SAMLAMB]

Ouch , now that’s bad…thanks for joining in

[@stevenr1354]

Solid advice. Hope you are enjoying some great Korean food. I spent a number of years in Seoul

[@SAMLAMB]

I love Korean food. A bowl of kimchi stew and some side dishes and I’m good to go 😃. I spotted some large fish along the Han river. I’m thinking of bringing my travel fishing the next time I go to Korea. Catch and Release. They looked like Carps. Any one out there with some ideas?

[@stevenr1354]

​@@SAMLAMBThat would go great in some Haemul Jjigae. I'm also thinking about 2 of my favorites: Nakji-bokkeum and bossam kimchi. There was a little place in Kumho Dong that had great bossam kimchi

[@Larry-vc5qv]

@@SAMLAMB world class filth in Sokor.

[@SiegPal]

It's not that she doesn't want to get divorced, it's just that there is no divorce in the Philippines. All they have is annulment and it's very expensive and almost impossible to get approved. What they have is legal separation which is very common, only thing is neither party will be able to get married to another person.

[@SAMLAMB]

Wish I knew that 12 yrs ago it would’ve saved me alone of time and stress. Thank you for the clarification Sieg

[@ivannovotny4552]

@Sieg Not like in Saudi Arabia where one can get divorce over the phone or after repeating "I'm divorcing" and taking shower 3 times. 🙂

[@SAMLAMB]

@ivannovotny4552 really? I’m moving there🤣

[@MrSamadolfo]

😏 this sucks for all these husbands too, so basically they are running Harems, thats crazy broh

[@differentmindset7924]

I was in the U.S Navy on that side of the world and everything this man is saying is true!!!

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you. Appreciate that.

[@rickg882]

Being in Subic Bay PI was enough for me.

[@SAMLAMB]

@rickg882 been to subic many times. Had a lovely time.

[@MrSamadolfo]

😏👍 YMCA - In the Navy 🚢⛵

[@rickg882]

@@SAMLAMB When I was there I was chased by monkeys coming out of the jungle, chased by by women/bar girls, chased by Jeepney's with people trying to rob me, I was glad to leave the PI.

[@nev634]

Point 4 applies when contemplating any sexual relationship with a woman of child-bearing age. Something I found out from experience as a young man.

[@SAMLAMB]

Hmmmm, I’ll agree with that. Thanks for joining us Nev

[@morlandoemtp]

No hymen, no diamond

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

There are no virgins left

[@morlandoemtp]

@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 then non are worth marrying

[@R-L-I]

I’ve never heard that one! 😂 I’m a use it! 🤣

[@SAMLAMB]

🤣

[@marcusmoyses3809]

VIRGINITY COULD BE POSSIBLE, BUT TODAYS REALITY IS THAT WOMEN VIRGIN OR NOT IF THEY HAVE DREAMS, ATTRACTION, LISTENS TO ANOTHER FRIEND WOMEN OR ARE SEDUCED THEY MAY TRY NOT ONLY ONE MAN OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP. MARRIED OR NOT A WOMEN MAY TRY SEX AND HAPPINESS WHENEVER THEY WANT TO. NO ONE CAN STOP THEM. LIKE A WOMEN CAN NOT STOP A MEN. ASK YOUR MOTHER TO CONFIRM. SHE WILL TELL THE TRUTH.

[@papabear007]

Your not wrong and good thing your older and have it together could if gotten ugly but nice job lot of the things you talk about spot on! Except I was married to a Provence Filipina and she cheated with a co worker here in the USA 🇺🇸 I’m scared for life lol 😂

[@SAMLAMB]

Yeah, I would like to think I’m older and wiser 🤣🤣..be safe Bear…

[@findouthere8735]

Haha nice story bro That's right

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks for the comment, Find…you have a great day!

[@maryclairecruzado4288]

Oh sad

[@povdiaries]

Good for you Sam, thanks for the great info.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you POV. We appreciate you..

[@jeremeolson5555]

based on my understanding, the father usually is not in the picture

[@MotivationalMovements]

Filipinas and the Philippines is way too overrated. Can find better quality girl in Japan!

[@Abdul..]

But you need to speak Japanese. If you don’t. Then you can’t find a women over there.

[@SAMLAMB]

I think Abdul has a point😅

[@MrSamadolfo]

😒👍 sure, go for the Porcelain Dimepices that have Money and Connections, get yourself something really nice, you deserve it

[@stst77]

I’m in Japan, the Japanese women are more honest, you won’t run into the problem of married women marrying you, or Japanese women taking a chunk of your salary every month to send to their parents, and Japanese women tend to act more wifely and decently BUT there are other serious cultural differences such Japanese women tend to control the household purse strings and can be very stingy with you. They can go out with their friends but might be tight on the budget with you. If you like to control your own salary this might be a problem. Japanese people in general are not as verbally or physically affectionate as westerners so you might feel deprived. Sexless marriages are a real thing in Japan. Japanese women can be very critical. Culturally they are more likely to tell you what’s wrong with you than to praise you so that can be a problem especially for westerners who grew up in a praise culture. Japanese people can be very particular about things. Someone described Japan as the land of OCD people and I think it’s a good description. Everything from childhood has been carefully taught and indoctrinated into the people as to how to do each task so any deviation from that one way of doing things can upset the woman especially. Every culture comes with its own specific problems on top of individual personality problems. People need to consider this when dating outside the culture.

[@SAMLAMB]

@@stst77 great comment stst. Really appreciate you joining us and sharing your thoughts. Thank you. 🙏

[@jtuneddc5428]

You seem like a honest reasonable guy. Maybe one day we can sit and drink tea together.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m in Dumaguete..drop by

[@Facts.Are.Straight]

Excellent video and information. Single moms are not in my interest, because of the many hassles it could entail for the relationship. IMHO, regardless the age, one should look for its Spiritual Counterpart to find the Real Bliss in life. Thank you for being so open.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Fact, I appreciate your comment.

[@Facts.Are.Straight]

@@SAMLAMB Thank You Sam.

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

You don't want the government sleeping in the matrimonial bed.

[@SAMLAMB]

Now that’s a great comment. Thanks sunrise.

[@natashadickson4819]

The government will always be involved in matrimony...to prevent minors from being married off, to prevent bigamy/polygamy, to make rulings on jointly own possessions, inheritance, taxes, immigration status of the spouse, etc.

[@Gregory-Masovutch]

I took my wife from the Philippines to America for one year and she was anxious to move back to our home in the Philippines. We’re happily married near Tagaytay and she’s a green card holder.

[@SAMLAMB]

Tagaytay is a beautiful place Greg. Now you have two beautiful things in your life. A beautiful place and a beautiful wife. Congratulations.

[@eleanorhernandez2348]

If you will get involve with a Pilipina girl, make sure that you check her background.. She must be professional, can stand on her own.. financially..?A woman whose educated enough.. anyway, its all up to you guys!!

[@SAMLAMB]

Eleanor, I’ve never done that with any woman in any country. Now, are you saying we should check the background women in America or just the Philippines

[@michaelkessler2852]

The Philippines is good for a vacation, Nothing serious,I would just clap as many Cheeks as possible before I return.

[@SAMLAMB]

Omg , Michael. Thanks for joining in 😉

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Awesome video Sam i know exactly what u saying i dated a few fillipino women for that reason i never got over excited because i found out 2 of them were still married. I just stay single and just date your money stays in your wallet longer.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you guy. Appreciate your time.

[@MrSamadolfo]

😒 just rent or lease them out for a while and then bounce

[@wendellbarcelona4797]

Hey bro, where are you based at? Are you in the Visayas area? I’m going back to makati in November, would be great to meet a fellow Filipino-Am and compare notes on what it’s like being there as a Fil-Am in Pinas. The culture is very similar to Hawaiian culture that I grew up in.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m in Dumaguete.

[@gregoryhalvorson8679]

How about just being an old guy and living in the pilipines without a dating? Is that possible? Sounds like a good place to live cheaply. Any VA facilities in the P.I.s?

[@SAMLAMB]

Clark takes tri care

[@philippinesdreamorreality]

I'm like 20 years separated

[@Kory8611]

If you and your Spouse can talk peacefully you can get a Writen Separation Agreement 🤝 in Writing ✍️. Have a Lawyer Notarized or go to Barangay and get it Notarized.

[@SAMLAMB]

Wow! If you don’t mind me asking. Your reason for staying separated. Financial reasons or a chance for reconciliation?

[@philippinesdreamorreality]

@@SAMLAMB in the beginning fear of loosing everything.Still lost it. And then plain laziness of not wanting to go to the courthouse

[@SAMLAMB]

@@philippinesdreamorreality I get it…my third marriage I felt that…won’t go in details…thanks for the reply.

[@TheRebornofSocialVietSub]

Move to thailand😅

[@SAMLAMB]

Maybe

[@TruthFinder7839]

It’s always a twist of fate that entwines a couple together. To have control over your emotions is a difficult task, and it is a lesson what can go wrong given time for the person to give her full story, of her life and possible past issues that still need to be resolved.

[@victoriafediuk362]

Sam Lamb, I'm sorry for what happened to you. so, I don't blame you. and I agree for other reasons that you mentioned. I hope you'll find somebody that will trait you nicely and who you are.There's no divorce in the Philippines just annulment, or separate for me, if I separate with my ex, I have to live far, far, away not close to my ex...

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining in Victoria, I originally thought by making this video I could help those foreigners who are coming to the Philippines. But after reading yours and others comments Ivery much learned so much more about the marriage and annulment laws in the Philippines. Thank you so much.

[@frank5436]

I enjoy your videos Sam. It's not just that they don't believe in divorce. Divorce in the Philippines is not legal. I plan to move to the Philippines this November from Charlotte County. Good luck selling your house.

[@SAMLAMB]

Wow, you’re right below me. I was just down there. Had dinner with another subscriber, Pete Bear. He’s in the process of selling his house in Punta Gorda. He bought a house in Iloilo last year. Contact me on messenger, maybe we can all get together before I come back to the Philippines.

[@SAMLAMB]

Wow. I didn’t know it was illegal to get a divorce. Good to know.

[@marcprobin1659]

@@SAMLAMB She needs to file an annulment but it's expensive and takes a long time. I married a Filipina for 21 years and known her for 26. Everything was fine till she passed away of cancer. She had a daughter and was 14 years old when we first met. I miss her very much and thank god that her daughter and I get along so well! So, the moral of the story is that not all Filipina's are bad. Like anything in life, ask the questions!

[@SAMLAMB]

@marcprobin1659 I agree with you 100% Marc. I love your story. God Bless ..

[@martialway81]

@@SAMLAMBThe Philippines Just past a law the other day legalizing Divorces. 😂

[@danielhuntington2116]

Sorry Sam for these situations........however you need to take a good look at your choices and decisions. This is not to condemn you. Ive been there. Truth is good especially when we look at ourselves through the grace...mercy....and love that God has for us. This allows us to see our weaknesses and challenges without condemning ourselves and others. It also helps us discern better as we go forward in all areas including love. God bless you and good luck!

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for the inspiration Daniel. I know exactly where you are coming from. Once again. Thank you.

[@jessicacalamba8581]

I agree with you ,@danielhuntington.

[@vernoncarroll9839]

Awesome video! Everything you said is right. !!!!

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks for joining in Vernon

[@Recon6]

SAM VERY GOOD VIDEO. YOU SHARED YOUR LIFE FROM THE HEART. LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE DIVORCED TRYING TO FIND LOVE WITH SIMULAR. STORIES THANKS!

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Recon6, Hopefully watching my videos will help some of you guys identify the pitfalls of certain relationships before you get yourself too deeply involved..

[@Recon6]

@@SAMLAMB actually Sam, I filed divorced 1 year ago final for 3 months she was evil, controlling me and if she did not get her way she would walk away from you during conversation so I am happy now. I know what to look for... She was from Central America

[@SAMLAMB]

@Recon6 Im glad you’re out of that old relationship, and good luck on your future relationship…I’ll be praying for your success.

[@charles-ul9uo]

feel the sincerity. nation of scammers.

[@SAMLAMB]

I wouldn’t go that far Charles. I’ve lost a lot of money in the USA too.

[@charles-ul9uo]

@@SAMLAMB the beauty part of a losing hand is that no matter what you do it's lose/lose. how come you don't have male flilpinos making youtube videos? not a one. it's because they have to go along with the scam of fleecing foreigners. scamming people is their national sport and naturally they also do it with the natives.

[@davidwright5619]

Don't break her HEART BUT it's ok for her to LIE and break your heart. Ooh ok..now I get it.. I'm a SUCKER🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SAMLAMB]

I think one of the of other comment was nicer to me…he called me gullible…same thing , right. But gullible sounds a bit nicer 😂

[@davidwright5619]

@@SAMLAMB Ok...your probably right but the good thing is you've learned a/some valuable lessons. Good luck to you in your search for love.

[@davidwright5619]

@@SAMLAMBPs.. I mean this in gest. Maybe 'LAMB' isn't the best name choice. Some may see it as a juicy target 😆

[@SAMLAMB]

@davidwright5619 😂 can’t change that. It’s my name. Maybe lamb chops is a better name for Me.

[@SAMLAMB]

@davidwright5619 I’ve been with Razel the past 6 yrs…so all things are good…that’s one of the reasons I can talk about my past experiences.

[@user-un9lx4kp6u]

I could live there happily without dating or getting serious with a lady. The more I learn, the less likely I am to move there for any other reason but to live alone in peace. I might take a partner to care for a small homestead and to earn it while I'm still alive. I guess we might be friends but not lovers. If I date, it will be for social interaction. Romantic involvement is outside my field of interest anymore. The best woman can't bring me back from this. It's not a protective mode. It's a preference. I realize that I stand to become incapacitated at some point and I'll need help dealing with that so a friend with no romantic interest is ideal. I don't want someone who has a vested interest in keeping me alive.

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m not there, YET…but I get your point. I probably would do the same as you if I’m not in a relationship. Being in a relationship with RAZEL has been good for me…all the crazy stories I’m sharing happened to me prior to meeting RAZEL.

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 i agree 100% , i have a second home down in South America that I inherited, im basically the caretake of my families entire estate, I use it from time to time and when I go there I see non family ladies pretty much the way you say, I honestly will not trust anyone, i maintain a very small circle of people that I trust, I can't afford to risk losing what has been given to me, confiscations and extortions and blackmail are a real thing that u have to always worry about, but yeah, some guys call it red pill or mig tow but this is a little bit different since they dont really take about caretaking the family estate

[@lifewithkrisb]

Go SEC Sam! Great video!

[@SAMLAMB]

Looks like it’s going to be another great year for SEC. Can’t wait… you have a great day Kris

[@user-qs5hz4mf3p]

Who wants serious? Seriously?

[@SAMLAMB]

🤣

[@WAdelstein]

People lie to survive. Honourable people lie less but still lie to meet and enough of their needs. If you date a middle-class woman which is hard to penetrate as they usually won’t date (white) foreigners as a rule you’ll probably get a lot less lies. If you date a poor woman and that will likely will be available for you expect a lot of lies. I have a friend, for personal reasons after a devastating experience decided he didn’t want a woman in high demand. he wanted a woman a little older and not a hottie. He found one who was aging out from a provincial farm. I think she’s attractive enough but maybe its because I have a high opinion of her. She’s a good mother and good wife. she doesn’t flirt. she’s educated so she couldn’t have been too poor to pay for credits and she lets him do his thing. The crash and burn thrills are waiting for the fools and the good ones are still out there for the wise.

[@user-qd4td7yb8e]

No liar is honourable.

[@WAdelstein]

@@user-qd4td7yb8e in an absolute sense I agree. But who’s so perfect?

[@user-qd4td7yb8e]

@@WAdelstein The only lying justified is for the greater good such as, to an Israeli, saying: "The Palestinian woman you seek to rape went that way." Perfection is the goal.

[@BarnabyBarry]

Cool video-Go bull dogs-still waiting on Stetson but Stafford was the man a couple of years ago!

[@SAMLAMB]

I’m in the same boat on Stetson. I’m thinking he’ll have a great yr. And if anything happens to Stafford, he’ll come through. Can’t wait to see him play some pre season ball.

[@joemaguire5575]

if the husband is a cop run to the hills

[@SAMLAMB]

I almost ran back to the USA 😂

[@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114]

Some single mothers are awesome depending on circumstances. Always remember, in life one must experience heart ache if one is to reap the rewards of a wonderful and passionate relationship eventually. If you have never had your heart broken you probably have never really lived an exciting life. That said, use some common sense and avoid the hookers if you are looking for a keeper. Finding a special girl is like fishing. You seldom catch a trophy fish without first throwing a lot back.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for the inspiring thoughts. 😅 I’m smiling base on your comment of: your heart has to be broken to have really lived an exciting life. I’m thinking, so that’s why I had such an exciting life. I’ll hold that thought every time ( I hope it doesn’t, I’m getting too old for that stuff ) it happens and think of your comment, grandpa Pete. 😅

[@Lovecatholicfaith]

Don’t get me wrong but we will never found happiness in nobody! Only in Jesus . Once we found it the other going to be a plus😊.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining us , Love…we really appreciate you. Have a great day.

[@RealJayNice]

Hey Sam Lamb KZbin algorithm brought me to your channel. Ima be honest dating overseas has gotten worse ever since social media and the simps especially during 2020 pandemic.

[@SAMLAMB]

I agree with you Jay, 100%

[@redpilldh]

As a Man in a relationship your life & pockets will revolve around her feelings. U will spend 24/7/365 trying to keep her happy. Now that I’m 41 it makes absolutely NO sense to be in a relationship. 💯

[@bornonjuly7052]

I had known many expats especially the westerners that are so successful in their relationships with Filipinas . I think its the the kind of choice of everyone when such relationships will succeed or not. It is unfair to those women and a kind of discrimination by saying that it is the same with all Filipinas which in the first place men are free to do its beautiful choices.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you for joining in on the conversation, Born. I agree with you 100%

[@mikesolns1364]

Bro, stop simping

[@SAMLAMB]

@mikesolns1364 Simping?

[@MrSamadolfo]

😒 broh it is the same with most, u have to assume the worst case senario, stop being Naive, its a Money World

[@alals6794]

This is the first video I have come across which says do not date a filipina....and I have been looking at videos about filipinas for 2 years now. Interesting....

[@SAMLAMB]

Don’t get me wrong, I love and have a beautiful Filipina gf. It just took me 12 yrs to find her. And the video gives you a glimpse of what I had to go through to find her. Is it worth it? 100% yes

[@MrSamadolfo]

😏 Broh you don't know? Its because either youtube workers OR ladies that are offended get the videos taken down, theres a war for your minds, your not allowed to criticize the ladies of the world

[@paulruano1903]

​@@SAMLAMByes... lesson learned? YOU made all the classic MISTAKES. It was nothing wrong with the Philippine... you just could not avoid going "suicidal". This comment is NOT to bash you :) I actually enjoy your vids. But thus comment is for others to understand that thry do not have to REPEAT doing same dumb mistakes. Many people think that others wisdom do not apply to them, so they never listened in the first place. Never did their due dilligence. ------ Sooooo.... Dating a bargirl? It should not even been necesary to tell a guy how STUPID idea that is. But ok, you were young and naive... and STUPID. Probably got blinded by all the impressions overload!. And just got s..kered in. Or you were thinking with your small brain, instead of your big brain. So THAT fault is NOT on the Philippines. THAT fault is on you. The world can not save stupidity... some people just have to learn by getting their feet deep into the mud:( 2. The single mother?. That is also something you SHOULD been analyzed beforehand. Remember that ALL relationships ends with some baggage. And any relationship endings has at least 50% likelyhood that she was at fault. Or at absolute minimum risk that she is a bad decisionmaker. So when you KNOW she is a single mother... then you allready should understand that RISK of 50% her fault for the breakup with her ex, and that she probably is a bad decisionmaker. Etc. Do not think that "all the fault is the filipino men". Its no different that western women whom will always blame the western men;) So ANALYZE. Be REALISTIC. That mistake was easily avoidable. But i can understand that its possible to be naively. And especially since you grew up with a father who actually did successfully take on the role as a stepdad!. But the risk IS much higher. Which means you would jeed to at least QUADRUPPLE the analyze and "investigation. 4. You dated that last woman for many months... before you found out she lied about children and being married. Your big mistake was that you SHOULD have investigated how things works in the Philippines. Conservative country. Catholism. No divorce. Expensive annullements. BUT your big mistake here was... IF you HAD done proper pre-research about the Philippines... then you would have kniwn that ALL marriages in the Philippines are public record. And you could just gone to a government agency and asked for her public record. The CENOMAR. "Certificate of No Marriage Record (CENOMAR) is a certification issued by the Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA) stating that a person has never contracted any marriage. A wedding checklist is never complete without a requirement for a CENOMAR." Everyone will have such records. It will state her singless, married, widow. And her age and certain other information. So there you can VERIFY if she is actually single. And you can VERIFY her age, if you were ever in doubt (you never know with so youthfull looking filipinas). ----- Do your video was good. As a lesson learnt to others, to not be a fool. To prepare, and do not make rookie mistakes. And nice for others to hear life experiences (which hopefully will avoid others to do the same dumb mistakes;) Because they were dumb rookie mistakes, that almost all could have been avoided!. Do hopefully others will not think tjey are the exception whom can have a happy married life with a bargirl. The successrate is abysymal low (as in a less than 5% from last time i saw statistics on it). Never worth the agony. You have thankfully found your girl now:). But fir others... here are a few more Golden rules: 5. Do NOT marry a tattoed filipina. Conservative catholic girls will not ink themself like that. Tattoos are almost always troubles: - she us a bargirl or former bargirl. Enough saidm walk away!. - she has mental/psychological issues. Yes many do get tattoos or scars due to depression or other unstable mental issues. - it is nit feminine. - and tattoos defile Gods creation. So it contradict her being a good traditional religious girl with strong values. There will always be exceptions to any rules. But do you want to gamble your life on something where everything gets stacked against you?. Adults do not gamble. Inmature boys will gamble, and fail over and over until til they wise up from life experiences. 6. Never go to a Capitol city to find a quality wife. Capitol is the worst of the worst. Can write a book about how dumb it is to look for a quality girl in a capitol. Yes there are many, in numbers, there. But the likelyhood of finding them is TINY as they are very few in %. You will have to kiss thousands of frogs, to maybe find that 1 quality girl in a capitol. Very much NOT worrh the hassle. You will just destroy your own mentality when having gine through so many obstacles. 7. Walking street cities like Angeles, Pataya etc. Avoid them like the PLAGUE they are. And avoid the WHOLE REGION around it. Fast corrupt money will spread into the nearby provinces and corrupt the locals!. Money talks.. and gets influenced and triggers greed there for easy scam etc income. So avoid those nearby provinces. 8. Avoid tourist destinations. Dumaguetti, and tourist areas which is very hitzone for many wastefull tourists. Again "fast cash" will corrupt the locals in those areas. It changes their mentality.

[@EdwinCV-dh8qc]

Great advice,and story brother congrats.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks Edwin. I appreciate that.

[@Unknown_rbnx19]

They are so maarte, and act really childish. Very clingy too. Once you start supporting any Filipina, you must also support her family too. Remember in Philippines, parents use their children as Retirement plan.

[@seasian-cr2wr]

The title should be Your Bad Experience with Dating. It's very misleading and it seems you are generalizing every Filipina

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you sea. We appreciate your comment. I’ll use that next time.

[@bfdee1603]

From your appearance on d thumbnail, i will not go on a date with this guy. You should count your blessings if a filipina date u. It means they r not judging a book by its cover 😂😂😂😂

[@SAMLAMB]

@bfdee1603 😂😂😂😂love it. So that means I still have a chance

[@billywelch4611]

Shout out from Atlanta lol but this definitely be happening… my uncles married Filipinas and it be a whole lot going on lol from kids to crazy secret husbands

[@eduardochavacano]

why so affected. the world doesnt revolve around Filipinas.

[@user-cz6hr1yz7u]

Thank you Sam.

[@HumbleTravels]

Good video. Very interesting

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks fever…welcome to the video

[@methemonkeyking]

#1 reason; TAMPO

[@ChristianCarpesoChannel]

It's not like a girl would immediately blurt out on the first meeting, "Hey, I have 2 kids! And I'm still married!"

[@SAMLAMB]

I agree with you Christian. Thanks for joining in…congrats on the kids and marriage too… you be safe.

[@lendlalfred7870]

She should in this case! Because it will allow the guy the decision to walk away or continue to get to know her. Secondly, adultery is punishable in the Philippines, therefore a woman must be truthful upfront regarding her martial status.

[@SAMLAMB]

@lendlalfred7870 Lend, I’ve learned a lot after making this video. I don’t know if my past experiences would have turned OUT any different if I knew the law…what’s that phrase. LOVE IS BLIND…

[@addictcar69]

@christian.....a woman looking to date should inform you if she's married, separated, debts, or has kids bc these are big red flags dude

[@addictcar69]

No bar girl, married or separated, debt and kids are no-go zone for me 😅😅

[@Kory8611]

If Your going to get involved with a Separated Women (Papper Married).You got to get a Mutual Separation Agreement 🤝 in Writing.. Basically stating both Married parties have decided to live separate lives and have permission to date other people.A long as the Husband has move on he will sign the paperwork..Now this doesn't annulment the marriage just a Mutual Separation.

[@SAMLAMB]

That sounds great, Kory. I’m still not sure I would have stayed with my relationship…as much as I wanted to make my relationship work…once she told me her ex was a cop I decided to call it quits.

[@Kory8611]

@SAMLAMB Yeah with a COP 👮🏾‍♂️ I understand totally.But if he move on and have another Women it would benefit him to get a Writen Agreement 🤝 as well.But if you can find a Single Women it's still better because the Annulment Process is long and Costly..

[@raikey2176]

It's not that we don't believe in divorce. It's that it was removed by the Congress in the 60's but we still have annulment but has a long and costly process.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Raikey…I appreciate you taking the time out to comment

[@Louisa-Reyes]

Sam Lamb!!! I’m gonna ring your neck!!! I have kids and I’ve been bartending for 31 years now. So does that make me a bar girl??? Your video just excluded me from having a potential future husband. Lol....this video is too funny though. You should reach out to me when you get to Florida. I’m in Miami. Let’s hang out.

[@SAMLAMB]

You know I’m not talking about the bartenders and the waitresses 😂I’m sure you’ll find plenty of suitors in Miami. Man I wish I can go to Miami. One My daughter’s modeling agency is located there. I’m just trying to sell my property in Sarasota. Once it’s sold I’ll be heading back to Dumaguete. If I’m ever in Miami I’ll stop by and say hello. You be safe Louisa

[@goatman3828]

No. But living in Miami sure does!🤔

[@SAMLAMB]

@goatman3828 lol…hope all is well goatman. You have a great day!

[@goatman3828]

@SAMLAMB Thanks Sam. Have a great day. Always appreciate every vid you do. It is a bit of reality and sanity.

[@marcusmoyses3809]

A BAR GIRL WORKING IN SOME COUNTRIES ARE GIRLS THAT GO TO THE BARS TO MEET MEN AND MAKE MONEY BY HAVING HIM SPEND LOTS OF MORE MONEY AT THE BARS OR GOING OUT TO HAVE SEX FOR MONEY. IT IS NOT LIKE A U.S. BARMAID!

[@edkolly7147]

The bar girl lied to you are correct the end the relationship when you found out she broke her promise to you as well as lying to you !

[@SAMLAMB]

I did feel lied to at the time, but I was no saint either. That’s why I mentioned do I have the right to be upset. At the time it was very confusing. sometimes I’m wondering how is she doing. Has she changed her lifestyle or what.

[@rolfpoelman3486]

I want to know what can happen legally for a guy's assets from each country when overseas and having a gf in any country.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thanks a bit out of my realm of knowledge. Maybe if you just couple of countries, others may be able to help you.

[@user-xn9ep2vy9z]

Good job man, you gave her a fair chance to cleanup her act. You deserve better. Great morals.

[@SAMLAMB]

Thank you Hassan. You have a great day!

[@user-sq2no7gr8b]

You’re putting all filipino women in one Basket from your experience. Go find yourself a Chinese, Vietnamese, Indonesian of Malay and have a good life with any one of them.

[@ThatGuy-sc5rx]

I didnt think good woman existed anymore until i met a Vietnamese woman 😊

[@lesage428]

​@@ThatGuy-sc5rxI agreed Vietnamese women seems more legit and trustworthy. They're honest. Hard working and so caring for their families..

[@SAMLAMB]

Korbel, hate for you to think that way…thank you for joining us today. Be safe and have a great day.

[@JamesLtc-uz9vt]

Chinese sound terrible too. Thialand is where its at

[@sallycapili8046]

Just date women from the country you live.

[@SAMLAMB]

Sally, I live in the Philippines. You have a great day.

[@ChrisChris-yr2mq]

your comment is stupid.. You must be single..

[@alickak8346]

How about a security officer I am dating.. is it risky? I am also worried because she has a gun..and told me her first child in province with her mother..

[@SAMLAMB]

I wouldn’t worry about that. Unless you cheat on her. No telling what any women will do with a gun in the world 😅

[@JG-ke7gj]

I don't even date girls who's brother are police, military or similar. If shit goes wrong it's a big risk..