4 simple steps to TRANSFORM out of a negative space

Let's chat about TRANSFORMING out of a negative space. Now maybe your negative space is your physical environment, or maybe you feel trapped mentally and emotionally. Either way, these simple four steps will help you transform out of that negative space. Let's talk about it!
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[@RonaldLBanks]

What negative space are you excited to transform out of?

[@allinone3280]

Procastination... And not taking any action ....jus only thinking🥲

[@Abigail-Hollis]

My marriage.

[@MmM20978]

I give myself extra rest and pamper myself.

[@cathbasilio]

@@Abigail-Hollis I hope you transform out of it :) Cheers to happy life! I don't know anything about your marriage; but what I'm sure of is that what you let in your life will define your peace. xoxo

[@ubaok24]

Fear of failure

[@juliemarkham4332]

Observe. Accept. Release. Transform. Good stuff!!

[@RonaldLBanks]

I’m glad you enjoyed this my friend! Keep growing on your journey!

[@steffij8224]

A number of things here. My apartment is a mess! Partly because I broke my leg (very badly) earlier this year so it's been hard to keep on top of things. Now I'm learning to walk again, so I want to transform out of the mess in my apartment i.e. declutter big time and also transform out of the very limited mobility towards getting back to a 'normal' life again and rejoining society! I have also recently decluttered a 'friend' out of my life who was being horribly negative and rude so I feel much better now I am moving forward from that toxic situation. I am excited for the New Year and to be transforming into a much better person!

[@calsannepotgieter4200]

For me acceptance has been the biggest thing. Rather than constantly fighting with 'shoulds'. Now I accept there are going to be tough times and I plan for them. And by planning for them I have managed to reduce their impact and length of time. And I now know when to ask for help.

[@fivestarsingh]

Bro really has the most calming and relaxing channel on youtube

[@belle6219]

Excellent strategy. Two key concepts that have taken me huge leaps forward are taking 100% responsibility for my life (inner and outer) and attaining emotional independence.

[@Itsalexiusb]

Awesome!!

[@hogarthay]

Wonderful Ronald, loved this message. Much love to yourself and the family. Looking forward to a new year in this safe and productive space

[@RonaldLBanks]

I love that you love this! Being in a safe and productive space is a great way to think about it. Love that! Keep growing on your journey! 🙌🏾

[@Nomoreanons]

Sir, you have excelled yourself once more. Thank you for such well-timed advice; it spoke to me.

[@TGYtco]

Interestingly, I am not transforming from something negative... but this video is extremely helpful for me right now. My oldest child is getting married in 2 days and I am a puddle of emotion. It is a wonderful thing- I am not losing a son, but gaining a daughter, but it is still a major life change, and I needed this video today. I have been trying to walk him through the decluttering process as he moves into a new home with his bride this week. What an experience!

[@isaiahluther1470]

Thank you so much gratitude to you 🍃🙏🏽

[@LivingProcess]

Brilliant as always thank you 🙏

[@RonaldLBanks]

Awesome! Happy you found value in this Stephen! 🙌🏾

[@amyli092]

Your content always manages to be helpful to me in some way, Ronald! Thank you for sharing your insights in such great detail. You're really helping to change lives here 😊

[@ricebaby4108]

the thing that i respect abt this channel is the fact that they provide english captions on. some creators do not even bother to put cc. so i am so grateful because i am still learning to master english listening skill. heads up to this creator! i hope you won’t stop putting captions

[@fdoctor79]

So important to cultivate and be part of a nurturing and safe environment. Anything less would be uncivilized and harmful. Tfs these tips, Ron. Hope everyone have a Prosperous and Healthy 2023!

[@Imani..]

Gotta get my house together. I think that is what puts me in a bad space. I have to get rid of the clutter and mess.

[@pamelajuniel2075]

Same here. I become overwhelmed with the magnitude of the job. I will use this process to declutter my space and negative self talk.

[@Hotchoclate5444]

Same! I think thats my biggest obstacle in moving forward

[@extraordinary_woman]

You have such a balanced perspective..

[@lilienblute3574]

👍👍👍👍👍👍💕💕💕💕Love it

[@pricpc2736]

Honestly speaking..... sometimes I have fear of leaving my negative space since its my comfort zone....like having bad friends but being afraid to lose them since you fear being alone.... I don't know but sometimes getting over your fears could be so difficult. Accept, observe, release....the hard part is release.....like its so hard..... observing and accepting is kind of easy..... For me I feel like I can't journal my feelings on a paper, I can think alot about it but i just can't write my feelings down....also I can't open up to someone since I'll later feel bad. The transform part I haven't really understood that part...... Fear is a killer of dreams. 😔😔 I

[@janiceyoung5958]

You can do it one step at a time. Fear will steal your life away piece by piece.

[@blueredyoyo]

I haven't been on YT in a while, and I've just found out you and Alexus have a baby! Congratulations!!! That is so exciting! Sending love and best wishes for a joyful new year to all of you! 🥰

[@cathylynnpietranton]

Ron your videos are so inspiring and a great learning space to help us grow and be our best selves. Thank you so much. The best to you in the new year.❤

[@ThePhoenixwellnessandhealth]

Im new here and I just want to say that I'm so glad that I have found you! Great video and I love everything that you do

[@mellowwatcher20]

Great video, Ronald! Reminds me of the RAIN (recognize, allow, investigate, nurture) acronym by Tara Brach

[@talksick508]

I feel like I kinda messed myself up more… Short background story- I got sick with health and mental health issues in my 20s and was isolated for awhile Fell into buying collecting horror and movies Props all that Games, fell into habits staying up on phone Sleeping all day Not getting out much Then mid 20s went out more Bought Tons of clothes and sneakers Then met a girl off on toxic for 7 years We break up, Covid happens My dad dies in front of me Fell into weed and alcohol Started seeing my life more Overthinking Who am I? What do I have to change to be with someone good Seeing we don’t keep anything when we die I quit weed, alcohol, got off my psych meds same time (big mistake) cut off ppl who weren’t good for mental Cut off friends who smoked drank did drugs Got off all social media And the. Ended up isolated again Now I’m mid 30s so far behind and tryin to change it all Problem is I feel bored now less I have I never replaced the weed, alcohol, social media Friends Just took away and didn’t add Been trying to declutter sell clothes, games, movies Stop collecting It’s like I don’t kno who I am So much change so quick …. Sorry for the long post

[@nanatiah567]

It feel like I'm in a therapy session. I love it and it help alot, because I have lots of hurts and emotion. I'm dealing with it now

[@Abigail-Hollis]

What if it’s your marriage?

[@amyli092]

Communication is THE MOST important thing to have in a marriage. If that part of the marriage only continues to go sideways, or if your partner continues to exhibit behaviors that are opposite to growth and change, then that would be something to take note of and consider in whether or not it's worth it in the end. Keeping in mind here that while I don't have any personal experience to go off of in terms of how to break off a toxic or abusive marriage, the one thing that I do know is that your life and well-being is always important. Sharing that life with someone on an intimate level takes work, but if you feel like you're sharing it with the wrong person, then please consider your own needs first.

[@Abigail-Hollis]

@@amyli092 Thank you 🙏

[@MmM20978]

Love butboundries.

[@amyli092]

@@Abigail-Hollis You're welcome! 😊❤️

[@iyamom4]

I dont think they were ever married. I never liked him and knew they was a reason why. Rhe darkness is coming to light!