4 Steps On How To Get A Guy Addicted To You

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[@MsKabooom]

Damn! You hit the nail on the head, yet again!! So true that guys want you as their escape, there is enough drama & crap going on in the world. They want us to be like an escape/refuge for them & I think we all want the pleasure aspect. Got to say, I think I'm addicted to your videos! 😂 always come away smiling & thinking 'fuck, this man is a genius!' 👌🏻✌🏻️

[@kaylarose9760]

I'm addicted too! He's so smart and personable.

[@ainiyusahmad7666]

Kayla Rose h

[@tracyalexandrayeager4405]

Ana Style Elliot Scott, is truly one of the best Dating Gurus out there! I sense he'll become pretty famous & it won't take long for that to happen

[@Allygran1]

Ana Style yep was thinking the same. Elliot is an awesome coach I think 😊

[@karenscales5517]

It is not hard....just do everything he said and it works everytime. A no fail system. Men are looking for women that stand out.

[@chulapnta]

Hehe he's addicted to me. All he wants to do is hang out with me, play with my hair, hug me, and gaze into my eyes. And what do I do? Just act cool 😎

[@abisantos263]

Teach me lol

[@Darmstadtgirl03]

Seriously you crack me up in every video! 😂

[@ElliotScottDating]

That is good to know :)

[@mitchellstudiosinc]

Great advise Elliot! I am an older women and I could not agree more! Listen up young women, he knows what he's talking about!

[@lesliemarieTX]

OMG when you pulled out that tag I THOUGHT you ripped out a NECK hair. *cringe* lol. Great Video btw!

[@kaylarose9760]

Haha I was wonder-cringing too just Incase. Phew it was only a tag😅

[@Anna-ml7rm]

Leslie Sharp lol i thought it was a hair at first too 😂

[@PrincessMultiracial]

Hmmm...interesting. I assume this ex was also the same female that you spoke about in another video how you two had sex, she praised you on a good job, went out to have a smoke, and then played Mario Kart. I love it when men cut to the chase and just illustrate why they liked/loved a certain female. It serves as an example of why certain things work and why others don't

[@tracyalexandrayeager4405]

You break it down so easily, and everything you've stated is 100% true! Men are more logical and less emotional than women. I love that phrase, "Sniff that cocaine of that machete & get him addicted to you!" I Love your videos, very helpful, and you always make me laugh. 😊😉

[@nofybn7794]

Wrong, men are NOT more logical and less emotional. It seems like it but actually it is NOT true. Women have a more rational brain. Women are seen as more emotional most of the time but actually guys are, usually anger or jealousy.

[@hukeaz]

haha, adds coke and machete to shopping list

[@ChelseaReynoldsofficial]

You are hilarious (and so informative), I could watch you all day!!

[@kimsikorski5691]

my boyfriend at the time but now is my ex, told me he was addicted to me lying in my bed with a smile on his face. I believe I was folding clothes at the end of the bed and I said, I don't think addiction is a good thing. I can remember him saying to me just live in the now, but I had no clue what he meant by that because I haven't been in many relationships. I remember I asked what we were and he said that to me. but after being together aprox a year I would think we would be a couple. I believe women ask men because we want to protect our hearts. if we know that we don't really mean anything to him then we can close down our hearts so we don't get hurt. so living in the now is hard but I guess I was doing it until my heart got involved. just wish I could rewind 2 years and just live in the now.

[@sanctuaryspothome]

Players or guys who dont want to commit to you are often known to say "Just live in the now", which sometimes undermines or bypasses your concerns. On the other hand, coming across as having the "live in the now" attitude simply means you love life and are not constrained to what a guy can provide

[@kimsikorski5691]

***** that is the problem, he was there for me through some very tough times and even let me borrow a large sum of money to help save my yorkie. He had to have a MRI and a Spinal tap done and was very exspensive. Only thing he asked me when I asked to borrow the money was when do I need it and gave it to me no questions asked and I tried to give him something to hold until I got him paid back in full but he wouldn't take it. I'm still paying him back and will continue to do so even though he broke my heart. I just wish I knew what he really was, as in a good man or a user. And I only say that because he has been there for me in my weakest moments but he has also done something to me and said some pretty mean things to me at the end when he was mad at me. But then he said he said those things to me because he wanted to hurt me because I hurt him. I know I could never say the things he said especially just to hurt someone but maybe people do that, just not me. But thank you for commenting. God bless.

[@kimsikorski5691]

***** thank you.😊 I hope so too.....

[@nofybn7794]

not constrained, what do you mean?

[@sanctuaryspothome]

samantha wilson By constrained, I mean we shouldn't have to react or be according to what the guy wants (especially if or when he's not consistently showing that he's worth investing in). Too often, women ignore red flags or signs that he's not that into us because we like him, which rarely ends well :/

[@chiquitacyborg]

These scenarios have all happened to me. Now I understand what was happening; Thank You Elliott 😗

[@stephaniemayers4329]

These videos are honestly the best on KZbin for help thankyou!

[@ElliotScottDating]

That means a lot. Thank you

[@ninjacat508]

4:00 minute mark, "what you're doing is great. i like it. let's do more"... my favorite elliot scott quote. its so funny yet simple and true. 😃

[@Chillalot]

i naturally do all this!!!!. yet HE has phased me out..his loss

[@lydiam9323]

8 dates in. He has told me that I make his day better. He said he always has fun with me. No sex yet, but a lot of sexual tension. I’m roping him in!

[@River-be3lp]

Elliot!! finally! I did the right things.... thank you!!

[@ElliotScottDating]

YESSSS!!

[@northstar1432]

This was posted 2016 so 10 years ago I didn’t think Facebook had a green button yet! I’m not a troll I promise I just notice everything lol

[@fanvoid]

This is interesting but I would like to know what steps you took to get over her? Can you make a video for that? It's really bad if you're the addicted one

[@ElliotScottDating]

That would be a good topic!

[@passionatebraziliangirl.4801]

Meet n date someone else.

[@amelianaire1384]

Elliot you've got to do a video on shy guys!!!! :))))

[@reddecember02]

This is the first video that I ever watched that gave me the confidence to actually think I could get the guy. You made it seem so easy!

[@ElliotScottDating]

it's because our minds are so fogged with social constructionism, standards, "perceived value", and many other things. If you keep it simple and don't get in your own head, you can get a lot done with men.

[@kaylarose9760]

+Elliot Scott Dating You are a Relationship Genis

[@janaulicna9956]

i have not yet decided if i continue watching your videos more for the advice or for the fact i crack up on your comments and gestures.. :D :D

[@FuzzYKittens777]

What if he won't even get together with you for you to SHOW him that you're fun?

[@pappico]

You are a godsend. I'm binge watching your videos everyday to help make the right decisions.

[@naviifra2374]

You are a really smart man. You've helped me so much :)

[@michelledelacruz9037]

I already have like 2 guys addicted to me

[@ba6ybunny]

THIS WAS GOLD!

[@MrMrscoffey]

Wow.....going to have some superficial relationships.... the flags will come eventually. WITHOUT Some SPIRITUAL COMPASS THIS WILL NOT LAST

[@pgirl9959]

"Get him to snort that cocaine" 😂🤣😭CLASSICCCCC!!!!

[@MsSimsima22]

very nice :) I like everything your saying and yes I will make him addicted to me ;)

[@renoaczhary1232]

What about long distance? At first i told him i want friends first til we meet in person. But he showed affection and planning for the future. Until i reciprocated. I thought we head at to something. What made me confused is him no contacting me for few days which i trusted him but i found out him being active on dating site so i asked him about it. Until he admits he wants to look for other women and wants us to saty friends until we meet. So i agreed. But i feel he is stringing me along he doesnt contact me for few days. So i wrote to him i reconsider his perspective but i want my space to have better perspective and i want to focus on myself. I never contact him anymore. But seems hes moving on with someone else now. Why he is like that? Seems he never value me?

[@lalagirl211]

I have a problem like i do not want to go out more often especially in the winter ... i just want to stay in my room and hibernate

[@gloria5783]

So women are a vacation for men? wow. Since when? I thought love was love. you talk to each other about your problems, dreams and ambitions. you have a strong connection mentally and are on the same page in life. why do we need to be superficial and be an escape? why cant we be intertwined together?

[@ElliotScottDating]

Looks like you bought into conformity and social constructionism and thought love was like it is in the movies and all lovey dovey. You're thinking of it the wrong way. I don't mean vacation as he's going to use you. I mean it in more of a loving way like you suggest. It's nice for a guy to hangout with the woman he likes and has other things just not matter anymore or fade away. That is what I mean.

[@gloria5783]

I didnt mean it like the movies. but why should we ignore problems, like why cant men open up and say their issues? doesn't that save the relationship, you know talking... I dont know, maybe im just dumb.

[@kaylarose9760]

Gelareh if you can say you're dumb so easily then you have to worry about being a problem to men instead of a vacation

[@nofybn7794]

You are right!

[@nofybn7794]

She is right. Why ignore problems? Why can't men open up and say their issues?

[@mssummerrose1]

4:51 the core of it all :)

[@jisookim2178]

Thank you. This is absolutely helpful

[@shitherdadsays9296]

Really good video! Thanks a lot!!

[@mathildas757]

Real talk starts at 3:00

[@lindalemoni5428]

there is a lot of logic in that.. but then.. once you're in a relationship.. and shit happens to you.. does that mean you can never show your true emotions? never lean on your partner? cause you always have to be his happy getaway chick?

[@ElliotScottDating]

the more time invested you have the more things you can reveal

[@lindalemoni5428]

Elliot Scott Dating that makes a lot of sense, thank you.. and it wouldn't feel like you were manipulating him in the beginning?

[@nofybn7794]

Woman not chick.

[@strongertogetherfitness193]

What a great question. Here’s the thing I was in a 4 year relationship. I was fun, outgoing, and I brought the fire to the relationship. He was addicted. But after 4 years I wanted to know where this relationship was going. Which I till this day have no clue why I wanted a relationship. He winded up being a narcissist. He would lie and I would call him out on it. And he would call that drama. I said um no that’s called being a liar. You have to watch being the fun time girl. It’s great that he has a blast with you but still watch his actions. Don’t go so hard for being the meantime fun chic. Keep your eyes wide open.Theres always tell tale signs. And of course I was a blast he was a miserable fuck and I was such a happy girl I didn’t notice till years later how miserable he was. I finally walked away in May. Best decision ever. Be fun with the guys that treat you well. 😀... happy dating

[@rachelpereseking]

I like your honesty

[@ElliotScottDating]

Thanks hun

[@user-gy7bg1rv6o]

You're so funny! Great video!

[@truelove7751]

This may be a stupid question, but an interesting one. Do you think a "hookup" relationship can ever become something more over time, following all these rules? The memories, the pleasure, being an escape for a man, fun, etc... Does it ever happen? Just curious. Like if I ever found a man for a real relationship, and truthfully needed to pull away from my "hookup" partner, the hookup guy would chase me asking for something more? No games, just curious.

[@kk-kk352]

i wonder the same

[@anastasia10017]

no because he has categorized you as hookup material.

[@truelove7751]

+anastasia10017 Hi there. Just saw your reply. Thank you. I'm sure you're right... Never did anything like this before, but he's a semi-descent man. At least he doesn't lead me on. At least he doesn't make false promises. At the very beginning he was asking me to go to his place after only 2 dates, and we knew why... but I was so nervous to do so in this day in age. The trust wasn't there yet and all crazy stories ran thru my head, like getting murdered etc. Who knows. He wouldn't even call me when I asked him to, so I could feel comfortable going over. So now we meet on the outside, which is actually fun if you can believe that, but I make sure he also knows I'm dating others and doing this in the meantime with him. Two consensual adults. Being safe having my fling with no strings, but careful not to get attached. Of course "sometimes" I wish it could be more with him due to the MAJOR physical chemistry, but no. I should feel lucky I guess. Should not "want" him to be my boyfriend.

[@anastasia10017]

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” ~Maya Angelou

[@anastasia10017]

truelove “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” ~Maya Angelou

[@Thoraine1987]

Do these apply to a long distance situation? In another country x

[@spearmint4093]

But how do i focus on hanging out and making out/kissing if he isnt so on e for instance? is that really ok to accept if he is perhaps seeing others? or i guess it is like that in beginning of dating stages anyway but yeah.. hmm?

[@everythingoffthewall2479]

I love watching this guy. He's so funny and charming !.

[@ElliotScottDating]

I like you watching me so keep it up!!

[@jeanlemcke6458]

I love you!

[@elizabethseiden1867]

If he ghosts me it’s his loss! That’s why I keep 3 exes lined up!

[@sparkleevenmore9638]

Unfortunately I've got one who's crossed the line into creepy stalker mode. Thank God he was Facebook only and he lives five or six states away. I've blocked him of course but once or week or so I still get an IM request and I know it's him. DELETE.

[@sparkleevenmore9638]

On Facebook IM you can evidently - I keep getting anonymous IM requests so it's either him or another creep I blocked. Scary.

[@irisdanagher]

You the man!

[@yoshysbaby]

one of your best videos in my opinion! Covers a lot of aspects... I have a question though: you always say he's the provider and let him do the work, but what about presents? I bought a guy a bracelet when I was on holiday but didn't give him yet. Should I do it or is it weird? Because I guess guys think they have to give something back and stuf...

[@ElliotScottDating]

Don't give it to him yet.

[@FuzzYKittens777]

But I CAN'T EVEN GET him to spend time with me. D: :(

[@sheen0212]

Hi Elliot I'm just curious....what if this reinforces the fling status for me in his mind, never leading to a relationship?

[@Lija9212]

Hilarious and useful 🏆

[@Tess2650]

Great video :)

[@taronhowell2778]

Yassssss, you make me laugh! 😂😂😂

[@justliz1957]

😂😂😂 the green light!!!

[@zenalawrence4138]

I can't get the ebook it doesn't come through 🙈

[@Dana-oo9kp]

Zena Lawrence Me neither. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@kellynorris53]

ya videos r great. ur Mrs is lucky to have a guy like you!! I think u just jokin round (I hope) when ya down yourself, or maybe ya dnt realise u do it... U r faaaaaaaarrrr from ugly. You r the whole package - realise it!! Ha I'm off to find my own Elliot. keep doin ya thing - fucking awesome

[@Who63]

Every dating coach says the same thing. What is the REAL secret?

[@Rosieposieolie]

how can I. cheer him up I never seem to I've known him for 6 years. I like him alot. he gives me. mixed signals. I don't know should I give up

[@almajessica5533]

Your ex was so cool then why she’s now your ex?

[@billylee580]

What if you did all this perfectly and things still fell apart mysteriously?

[@ElliotScottDating]

+Sexy Skye then he doesn't like you lol.

[@joywalsh6150]

Elliott where in the us are you from? I'm detecting some southern but then I'm in London uk so I have no real idea? You sound kinda Texan to me?

[@sparkleevenmore9638]

He said in a previous vid he was raised in the Midwest so it's a middle American twang. If I had to guess I would say downstate Illinois. ;-)

[@ElliotScottDating]

I live in Washington state. Came from Southern Illinois

[@mayaboo96]

Great advice love your videos your really cute ☺️

[@selfcaretoolbox3396]

"snort that shit off a machete" lmao!!!

[@LightBumble]

You're an air sign somewhere in there...

[@siobanethier]

Would you shave the beard if a girl asked you to? I suppose you'd have to really really like her?

[@veronika7003]

What about us then if we need them. That means we gonna be always good always funny just be good for a guy but what about us when we want escape. We want to spend time with guy as well to talk about our problems. Aha XX

[@loadeddiperz]

why do you make videos inside the car?

[@suyi9383]

Why are you an idiot ?

[@bushybatool7405]

How can women raise her value. Please do a video

[@ElliotScottDating]

I am making a whole course on it.

[@zilfariza2010]

Why are they your ex?

[@Theonethatgotaway-dk4tu]

you look cute

[@ElliotScottDating]

You're cute.

[@lydiag9593]

I've known this guy for about two years and we started talking a bit after I posted a picture on snapchat and he commented a flirty comment. We talked literally all night long and it was a great conversation in all honesty about a lot of things and he said I was "his" and seemed to really like me and we end the conversation and he says he'll text me in the morning but he never did. It's been a whole weekend and he sent me a snap picture and that's it. Lol Please tell me what this means 😩 was he just bored and horny??

[@NijaelhsBeauty]

sounds like he was just caught up in the moment

[@MM-ho3qm]

Lydia G He's just playing you. whenever a guy who shows interest randomly disappears again you were just one of his many options and now he's not interested.

[@manolyarowe3794]

Guys are like dogs...thats what i allways say...lol...but you forgot something. ..little kids...guys, dogs and kids...same basic pleasure and pubishment princeples

[@spearmint4093]

what does !"dont get mushy" mean? :)

[@ElliotScottDating]

don't get too soft and relationship on him.

[@spearmint4093]

+Elliot Scott Dating I'm afraid I'm doing it now.. he is very sweet to me so I have a hard time not saying "goodnight good looking :* " back for instance... is that too mushy ? (only met him once yet on a 7hour dinner/drinks/minigolf date but I like him and he seems to be into me..

[@kaylarose9760]

JE ENN how did it go

[@lumintalocke7724]

@@spearmint4093 No that was not too mushy as long as you keep your great womanly standards. In that case he just float your boat. That's cute!

[@marcellacastillo2631]

dont get Mushiiii!!! hahaha

[@spearmint4093]

will you shave your beard/mustache soon? 😉 like you either way

[@tishansmom8519]

ugly truth about guys.also applicable to ladies.

[@smileys1816]

you talk soo much lol thank you for all your advice, but it would be great if you coud just stick to the important points. ;)

[@alexandremoreau1300]

he doesn't bored me ....so🤔

[@anissamohammedi]

liked when you said men Play a lot of mind games and do a lot of bullshit 😁😜

[@crissieroserose]

u funny

[@shallusharma6132]

What was in ur mouth..orange thing

[@mindfulsoundscape]

[@Serena3878]

White is not your color. That shirt does not flatter you like your black shirt does. I like your videos though.

[@mitchellstudiosinc]

Great advise Elliot! I am an older women and I could not agree more! Listen up young women, he knows what he's talking about!

[@Rosieposieolie]

how can I. cheer him up I never seem to I've known him for 6 years. I like him alot. he gives me. mixed signals. I don't know should I give up