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@brightpage10203 жыл бұрын
Ladies, if he’s married - even if he says he’s “getting divorced” or “but my wife is crazy...” or whatever - if he is still married - let that be a hint that he is unavailable for sustainable relationship with you and it is likely to bring tumultuous drama to both your lives - not worth it.
@marciavernor18493 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@Sloan3413 жыл бұрын
This is for all ladies stay away from Married men.They are not free they are not single they are married. By you messing and meddling with a married man you are destroying his marriage. You’re nothing but a side skank.
@AlternateHistory2 жыл бұрын
It depends, sometimes men also suffer from an abusive partner and that partner will not be easy to divorce.
@sarebear43512 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Same goes if he just had a baby or came out of a long term relationship under 6 months.
@sarebear43512 жыл бұрын
@@AlternateHistory yeah but it still means he is unavailable. Great time to support him from the friend zone until he wraps that situation up. If he is proactive about finalising it to be with you is a good sign. But if he has been abused he may be traumatized so may need a bit of professional help 💖
@sofiaroiz11523 жыл бұрын
It brings me tremendous joy to see you so enamored with your partner, Mat. I know that you are the type of man who will nurture your precious relationship and will never get complacent. It makes me smile as I can really feel how content you are in this beautiful new relationship.
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
aw thank you Sofia that's so sweet! Yes I am so happy with her
@patriciakey-xc5bs Жыл бұрын
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@patriciakey-xc5bs Жыл бұрын
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@janetshanbacher17373 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! I am always finding myself in a relationship with unavailable men. They start out thinking they are and realize they aren’t as far along in their healing from divorce or losing his wife. Or even have lost their job. I stay too long trying to be compassionate and waste a lot of time 😞. I was 36 when I was divorced and 49 now and still not remarried. This is excellent advice and will take it and hope other do as well.
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
thanks my dear appreciate that share and your feedback
@apple49143 жыл бұрын
I have my ripe relationship! I am so happy with my partner and all this is in it!!!!
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
YESS love it!!!
@Sloan3413 жыл бұрын
Sometimes Patience pays off I got my partner back. Communication is the key
@pricesunbury596 ай бұрын
He is ready. Emotionally with his heart, diesn't have past relationship.he is physically ready. He is grounded in his life, career. My king is ready for his queen.
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
Amazing! love hearing that!
@boomboom12583 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. It doesn't matter if he has been enamoured by me, wanting to integrate our lives with each other and feeling very inspired to wanna make me happy and smile, if he can't physically be ready for it and he has past baggage to release, I'll do myself and him a favour by walking away and we can do our thing first before coming back to this relationship again.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much dear! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! :) ♥
@ladylibrum71453 жыл бұрын
Ready, Inspired, Proud, Enamored
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
I so appreciate you saying that - that was so sweet of you!
@Nicole-is-global3 жыл бұрын
Your insight is always spot on. I was "this close" to flying back to the U.S. until the INTENSE EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT my guy had for his ex laid a hard hammer on that illusion of commitment. Because of your course, I was prepared.
@starlasuzannerutan76242 жыл бұрын
I have been following you for quite some time now, and I have to say how much I appreciate you sharing honesty about your own life with us. The fact that you were able to share with your audience that you lost your job, and was not able to commit to a relationship at that time, really helped me connect with the advice you’re giving us. Keep up the good work, I am so impressed with your channel!! ♥️🥰♥️
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy this resonated with you!
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@tressielassabe57793 жыл бұрын
I would just like to find a good man.
@annamariebraxmeier25822 жыл бұрын
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@ljroberts37393 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS very well done, Mat. The conciseness of your messages is so practical. And as always, the "recap" truly makes it stick so I can put it into action!
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated!
@femmeninja3 жыл бұрын
Great topic! Both partners have to be ripe indeed to really get the healthy relationship going. I know its hard to get over deep betrayal and hurt and i can totally understand heartbreak can consume also men a lot to be truly present to a new partner. I am sure I scared many men away already mentioning my ex. I keep trusting my vision and lately in one succesful date I ordered a rainbow jokingly while ordering drinks and it was heavily raining..so it show up like magic front of us after a while like i had ordered! 🌈There is a lot good men available. We just have to truly see and recognize them. I am so glad you found your Becky Jean that lights your heart and soul 🌠
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing dear! :)
@tressielassabe57793 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt im 63 widowed and and we could use a coach for us older folks that still need to find someone.
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@WarriorZ172 жыл бұрын
Wish I found you years ago! Would have saved me a lot of pain, time and money. Thank you 🥰
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@amandabotafogo57383 жыл бұрын
I had everything, but as you, he lost hist job and things got messy... he became distant, a big lack of everything... its so sad. But thank you for sharing this, specially the part that you told about the "losing a job experience" thing, now I can understand better at least :(
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@yurina47703 жыл бұрын
You're so amazing ! My bf gave me a single red rose on the second date It's really happy 😊
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@shelleypetersen16083 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I had a relationship that the guy was great about being proud to be together and tentative but he was so angry about his ex. Now it makes sense. 🙃
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful glad it served you!
@kyoungbare3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!! Love ya Mat...been watching you for months..not commenting but..this hit home!!
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome... glad to see you in the comments! :)
@crose550823 жыл бұрын
This a good video. I enjoyed it. I just had my first date with my first high value man. It was completely different than the guys I was dating. He encouraged me to talk. He drive up to the area I live two days earlier to look at a snowmobile trailer and found the restaurant. He did that just, so he knew where it was. I am in the middle of moving to the area he lives in. He said you move in August right, I would really like to see you again. I know you said you were going to be busy packing, I told him we might be able to do that. He said in the car when he was bringing me home he liked my bubbly personality, and definitely to see me again. He was the first to text me after the date. We have texted off and on, we shared some pictures, and sent me a video of his front yard, because he was finished mowing it. He POF profile says he isn't looking for anything serious, it was just nice to be in a real date. This video will help later with future dates of guys, now I know what to watch for. I do want a long term relationship, but I don't think a second date will hurt.
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thanks for sharing.
@hazelzelisko16443 жыл бұрын
What is happening after 15 years being connected, few disagreements, But cards , flowers,gifts, etc. but still sparse words spoken, or physical in ~emotional ,connections!
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@cristalhumphreys44723 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with your list 🌞 + I also think a way that’ll prove to you that your man has NOT rebuilt any brokenness with a recent X if he’s ALWAYS mentioning her name almost on a daily
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@blancasalgado95683 жыл бұрын
Basically until the dude is ready!! Got it lol
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
YEP! :)
@jenniferle4722 күн бұрын
Like your topic❤❤❤
@tiniliciouz3 жыл бұрын
great new video, mat. insightful. you're my favourite in the field of love advice! ❤️
It’s still very new. I’m praying. R is definitely achieved. I’m hoping with time we’ll get to experience IPE as well.🙏🏻
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@brightpage10203 жыл бұрын
PS love your intro! It’s so ‘80’s prep tart! Cute!
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
aww THANKS I really appreciate that!!
@marciavernor18493 жыл бұрын
Mat thank you for this wonderful video about the 4 things men have to have to be ready for a committed relationship. 💝🤗❤️
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@DaisyAruba Жыл бұрын
Lol I remember you from a course I took with Aaron which featured you and some other cool people but you’re my fav one. I feel that your much more calm and easier to understand bc I’m high energy. I wonder how you’re Aaron’s teacher or mentor as I remember and you have less subs but maybe you started yt earlier? Idk but I think you should have millions of subs I hope you get there.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
That's very sweet. Thank you carissa❤️
@pearlgeneste1890 Жыл бұрын
ripe... that is a hoot but so lovely! Loved your reading, thanks much!
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@jennifermwangi35413 жыл бұрын
Thank You 😊
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@marajohnson80133 жыл бұрын
I think you & Helena Hart would make an insane team!! Any time you make a video together I listen & love it!!!!!
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@aimeeleroi49163 жыл бұрын
Great, insightful video
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@delululoompi3 жыл бұрын
you know i was a bit worried bc he had mentioned his ex, but he was actually talking about why we couldn’t get an apartment yet and how his credit got that way. but i feel better now. i think that it’s fair to bring her up and i didn’t really get much emotion from him other than worry when he was telling me everything that hindered our plans to move in together.
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@valerierubin42253 жыл бұрын
Thank you king! Love ya!!! Amazing video ✨🤪💛
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
Boom!! So glad ya likes it!!!
@LOVESTORY-vm2id Жыл бұрын
"""The right person in the wrong time is still the wrong person "" it's simple yet I never thought about it this way if i did I would've avoided alot of heartbreak
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Don’t give up on love sister! 🙏❤️
@enelrahcreivaj3 жыл бұрын
The quality of your videos is amazing, Mat! Content-wise, presentation-wise and I also love the conclusion you put towards the end plus taking time to indicate the time stamps on the description box. Keep up the good job and all the best! More vids, please?!
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
Hi I got my ex| lover back with the heIp of a powerfuI man who can heIp you restore your broken reIationship back
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! :) Many more to come!
@littlecat2222 Жыл бұрын
Love this content ! Makes so much sense and practical ! Thank you
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! ❤❤❤
@renoaczhary12324 ай бұрын
Thanks for this❤
@Mat_Shaffer4 ай бұрын
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@sjgbrighton2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos and your accent. Your kindness always shines through aswell.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
@larsstougaard70973 жыл бұрын
I love this man, so knowledgeable and helpful for both genders and relationships 😊🙏❤🌟
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
@junegarner1413 жыл бұрын
Thanks again! Have a great day!
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
Thank you too!~
@janicerockwell84173 жыл бұрын
Your youthful enthusiasm is inspiring.
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it!
@anitamoses40713 жыл бұрын
Good to know this thanks
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure
@SelinaWolmby-e6u6 ай бұрын
Thank you Matt
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@rebeccaly2 жыл бұрын
This video was so helpful thank you Mat! I think the examples you brought up were very insightful. I think the lack of R was the reason why someone I dated (but wasn’t in a relationship with yet) decided to break it off.. he got some bad news at work and the same day he called it off between us. It was so heartbreaking and confusing, but it’s very true that the right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person. Unfortunately a hard lesson to learn, but this’ll really help me for the future :)
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
so sweet thanks for sharing! its a great connection🙂
@elizabethpettigrew78042 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed another session Mat. Taking your advice and listening carefully. I keep having the wool pulled over my eyes. This time, with your help, we have every intention in taking it slow. Excellent foundation of clicking first and due to circumstances being there for each other over the phone for the last approx. four- five years. Each others support with confidential matters. It's been very important to us. COntinueing to follow your instructions with an open mind and experience. Joined your course and would like to break old habits. Thank you for being her, Mat
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you :)
@evan124953 жыл бұрын
As always such good insight. Thank you Matt. Hugs 🤗 Rox (MoM5)
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
aww appreciate that Roxy!! MOM5 in the HOUSE, love it!! :)
@annewebbjohnson41573 жыл бұрын
Ah I had the rip but not the ripe. Thought the E would come but after 27 years I am done and now I have walked away. Ready to get out there and hopefully meet MR RIPE or am I expecting far to much?
@dimpholetsie41233 жыл бұрын
Well-said Matt👌
@agathajoseph3886 Жыл бұрын
Hi Matt love your examples thank you
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@corry2033 жыл бұрын
You are awesome Matt
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
thanks!!
@Sloan3413 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your information. I’ve been watching you for a while now. I love your inspiration
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
*Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately*
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@melodymac1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking to the primal nature of relationships and the natural dynamics between the feminine and masculine. Without kowtowing or pandering to “woke” culture.
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@mariarossi67193 жыл бұрын
Great to hear these insights from you, Mat. I remember being backed into a corner by a man - figuratively speaking, not literally! - because he was asking for serious commitment from me after only a few months. He said, 'The thing is if you don't commit to me, you're going to have to commit to someone someday.' He was 24 and I was 21 and let me tell, you as a woman, that felt like too much and part of his appeal was really lost for me after he said that.
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
wow yeah forcing commitment is definitely not attractive! hopefully hes matured since then
@yelenaned42292 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matt! , for very helpful insights!🙏🌞
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Glad it was helpful
@stephanielau50243 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this Matt!
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@MutuAdinani8 ай бұрын
Like your video.watching you from Dr congo❤ Africa
@Mat_Shaffer8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my dear!
@VeronicaLaMonica2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love learning from you ❤️
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@maureenmuller-jj7pf Жыл бұрын
Eye opener. I've been flogging a dead horse😂
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@Helen-bf7ze3 жыл бұрын
This is a fantastic list, such insight Matt. I always enjoy your videos and your energy. Question: do you think it's possible for a man to have/express all these in an online LDR (it's been LDR for just over a year with us in an inline dating website), but having not been able to meet in person yet, or skyped, or spoken on a telephone??! So we are glorified penpals it seems. He says he will skype 3 weeks prior to him setting up dates for flights/ times to quarantine then meet.
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is possible in an online LDR! However the fact that he wont video chat or even get on the phone with you is a massive red flag, thats the sort of behavior scammers often do. If a man wont directly connect with you like that id move on
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@vitabuonavita25653 жыл бұрын
This was the best advice.. Thank you
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@lynnclark25602 жыл бұрын
Ok sounds fair to me Ty so much for ur help
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@littlemisswowzers71882 жыл бұрын
Career one is hard...im married and he's doing really BIG THINGS! I'm so proud of him but... we have been off and on our whole time. And...I just wanna bring him back in, he needs to want to wear his ring. Hurts that he doesn't anymore.....
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Don’t give up on love sister!
@nalubegamariam8980 Жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Welcome
@brightpage10203 жыл бұрын
Are you teaching us to qualify the buyer? Cool.
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS haha
@bettyharrison10063 жыл бұрын
Hahaha funny
@83androidJJ3 жыл бұрын
Well said. I believe these are the same for women.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@theservinggirl3 жыл бұрын
Great video!! Thank you 💕
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
Hi I got my ex| lover back with the heIp of a powerfuI man who can heIp you restore your broken reIationship back
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@paula-elizabeth3 жыл бұрын
I definitely feel that’s all spot on Mat. 👍🏽 - It would be interesting for you to do a video with your girlfriend in it so we can get a feel for the vibes and nuances she remits? 😊🌈✨
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@paula-elizabeth3 жыл бұрын
@@timbonney6754 I don’t have a broken relationship. I’m single and happy and only interested in dating someone I feel is right for me, thank-you.
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the idea!
@key.k2 жыл бұрын
Ready emotionally and financially 😉
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
@helgad64013 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@christianpulisic77843 жыл бұрын
Helga D,You look stunning 🌹🌷
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@BarbaraMerryGeng3 жыл бұрын
Well - that was helpful 💫
@macrosmarry69863 жыл бұрын
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.......
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Happy I could be of help.
@cherylross3933 жыл бұрын
Great advice .
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
Hi I got my ex| lover back with the heIp of a powerfuI man who can heIp you restore your broken reIationship back
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@nitathonglertlam48143 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much good idea 👍
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
*Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him*
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome!
@diavionstarr3 жыл бұрын
Well I got 2 out of 4 of RIPE 😅 so far!
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@Tam4383 жыл бұрын
Brilliantly enlightening, as always!
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@suphanutsunnebrandt93893 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@pricesunbury596 ай бұрын
His physical live is just the way it needs to be. He has his life together. He is inspired by me and our future. He has planned for our future. He claims me as his. He's telling his family and friends about me.❤
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
Awww! So happy for you, beautiful!😍
@isabellairaca16693 жыл бұрын
He was ' ripe' but then he got cold because of life issue and I became clingy and now he broke up and sometimes reach out me to invite me outside just as friends..
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@pascalledouven70223 жыл бұрын
I had two dates , every thing you name seems there , proud , inspired , into me listening, happy to see me , and then suddenly doubt , did not hear anything today .. i guess best thing that i do not tekst or call , i did message him after his doubt app , where i stay in my power; telling him could be okay before you commit that you also can feel some doubt .... and told him how much I appreciate some things he did .. i guess after that message yesterday evening he may make contact with me now )?)
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@roselleanncasiano15293 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing..
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome!
@maryjoymasangay78533 жыл бұрын
When I watched this video..... I missed my late husband....😥😥
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@sweetsimpleslowlife27093 жыл бұрын
👏 👏👏Bravo! Maybe you could start a roses movement 😉 So many women would appreciate that small and powerful gesture 👌😍
@timbonney67543 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Great idea!!
@christismith80523 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! 😁😇I have been talking with a guy online for about 5ish weeks who is already exhibiting all these four! He told me a couple of weeks ago that he had a big project at work coming up that would make him less available during that time…and we have plans to meet in person in about a month, when this project is over….this has ended up being true (him being distant as he is doing this work project)…. and now that he has been less communicative, I can’t help but feel that I am being ghosted or he changed his mind. Can a man have all these four signs and then change his mind and back off?
@MarcoGuedes-r9h3 жыл бұрын
Hello Christi how are you doing? I hope all is well and that you are staying safe enough! You have got a nice and sparkling smile, haven’t seen such in a while always wear that beautiful smile. I would really love to get to know you! Hope you do not mind?
@cookiebabyd3 жыл бұрын
Yeah...once the thrill of him chasing you died down...just when you are showing more interest and decided that you want to get to know him better...then he will ghost you...somtimes... guys are just that...players...not to be taken seriously.
@Sloan3413 жыл бұрын
Sorry to say but I bet your man is a scammer
@pritalaras3 жыл бұрын
All the R are checked, I am feeling down already to continue 😅
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
I hope it helps!
@marilynmeyer6731 Жыл бұрын
What if the man has lost a previous love to death? For example my guy was going to marry his former love but she unexpectedly died. This happened years ago but he still has feelings that are unresolved about it yet asked me a year ago for forever. Do I believe in his “forever” or is he unable to commit?
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@theresarubino55565 ай бұрын
What about a widower?
@Mat_Shaffer5 ай бұрын
Don’t give up on love sister!
@sherrywillis85553 жыл бұрын
Yes appreciate your opinion happy 4th July 2021
@ishaqsalisu31553 жыл бұрын
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@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Many thanks!
@cynthiaholmes44003 жыл бұрын
Mat, thanks for the wise advice!
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Any time! Glad you like it!
@claraht.69993 жыл бұрын
You have to allow him to feel like he has aged out of the relationship pool😉
@coppersulphate0023 жыл бұрын
What does that mean?
@Mat_Shaffer9 ай бұрын
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@tressielassabe57793 жыл бұрын
How do we remember and do to make all this happen
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@pricesunbury596 ай бұрын
He is filled with romanticly invested in me. He offers a massage, cooking for me . Etc. He getz me roses cause my middle name is rose. He likes that name and calls me by it.This is Libby from Sunbury, Ohio
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!
@lynn77753 жыл бұрын
What are good topics to talk about on a first date??
@Mat_Shaffer6 ай бұрын
On a first date, you can talk about hobbies, movies, travel, food, and future plans.
@WillieCotton-n5y Жыл бұрын
My long distance man call's me his wife and afraid of losing me he tells me he's taking me around the world and he wants to buy me a home and love's the kids
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@EtherealStar12 жыл бұрын
RIPE Ready Inspired Proud Enamored
@Mat_Shaffer2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@marialourdesb.bobier51643 жыл бұрын
My bf said he's sexually attracted to me should I give in or make sure he's in.love
@sansadrake41333 жыл бұрын
Do what you want. But he won't stick around necessarily
@Mat_Shaffer3 жыл бұрын
what does your intuition tell you?
@kayligo3 жыл бұрын
Lust and love are completely different things
@cookiebabyd3 жыл бұрын
How old are you by the way...if you wont mind? Guys would often say they love you so early in the relationship even if you hardly know each other. Ofcourse they are attracted to you physically...or they wont chase you ...sex usually is part of most relayionships... although men and women...may have different expectations as where the relationship is going when sex com into play. It is hard if one loves more than the other ..sometimes it's the woman who's left out in the cold once men have gotten what he just wanted and moved on You got to be ready.. Emotionally ...just in case.
@hawaiigirl80892 жыл бұрын
I think I ruined it with a great guy by holding him at arms length from my own insecurities- he’s quite a bit younger than I
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@tabathiagaskin79923 жыл бұрын
Do you have a video on red flags?
@Mat_Shaffer Жыл бұрын
None but that would be a great topic!
@skylerwilliams93792 жыл бұрын
Men “sabotaging” their relationship with a woman because of their job or because they can’t be the “providers” is kinda 🤮. Like if everything in the relationship is going good and he hits a hiccup professionally like damn, the first thought is to ruin the other good thing going for him? Come on guys. Women have actively been separating from their gender roles regardless of how we evolved, and it’s the fact that many men can’t seem to do that, that makes us women upset. That all being said obviously this would mean that this partner isnt for us. But what a shame to ruin something good, where she is willing to support you and uplift you until you can get back on your feet, because of the man ego. Can someone explain this to me with reasons other than “it’s evolution” or “it’s just how men are wired”? Again because women are wired to be mothers but you don’t see us conforming to that. No hate it’s just something I find frustrating.