4 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Teen

If you want to get through to your teens, there are specific things that you need to stop saying to them.
In this video, I’ll walk you through the 4 things you should never say to your teens.
If you say these things to your teens, it will hurt the relationship that you have with them. They’ll be less likely to communicate openly with you, and they’ll be more likely to become unmotivated and disrespectful.
I’ve been working with teens for over a decade, so I’ve discovered exactly what parents say that teens find annoying and frustrating.
The more you annoy and frustrate your teens, the less they’ll be willing to listen to your advice. In addition, they won’t be in a position to maximize their potential.
If you avoid saying these 4 things to your teenagers, their attitude and behavior will improve. These 4 things are what most parents commonly say to their teens, because it comes naturally to parents.
So I’m confident that all parents of teenagers will benefit from watching this video.
If you apply the tips in this video, your teenagers will start opening up and developing a more positive mindset. So watch the video till the end - you won’t regret it!
🕛 TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Intro
1:11 Thing #1 that you should never say to your teen
2:30 Thing #2 that you should never say to your teen
5:25 Thing #3 that you should never say to your teen
7:59 Thing #4 that you should never say to your teen
11:04 Conclusion
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[@521SFarla]

im having a challenging time getting my 13yr old grandson just to do basic chores like putting items in the trash or cleaning up behind himself. it so bad that we wind up fighing about simple things like washing a dish or cup my patience is wearing thin i am trying to find ways for him to open up to express why he feels like he does not have to help out around the house especially when its his mess.

[@AR-pb2zh]

I have the same issue with my kids. My 16 year old son is coming around, but my 13 year old son won't do anything. Part of the problem is I'm not consistent with asking them to do things at a particular time everyday. However my eldest is mowing the lawn which is great! I give him "currency" which means a monetary "worth" for completing the job and when he builds up enough currency, I'll buy him what he wants for the net worth if the work. So if he wants and item worth $200, he has to mow the lawn 10 times. Still working on the younger one.

[@leetos.4915]

Thank You Sir Dan. I much value your channel and find myself as a step Dad on a need of progress for my 3 step daughters. Being educated first is the 1st step for strong family values and I’m in 100% agreement to you, sensei 😊.

[@melsmartie123]

My first time here and it seems as if you are speaking directly to me...the superpowers you have...haha. Thank you so much for the wealth of information which helps me with parenting. This is greatly appreciated.

[@agnesodonnell4945]

Great video and advice Daniel. A life saver. Thank you. 🙏

[@AskDanielWong]

You're welcome!

[@traceyreynolds8978]

Well said and easy to follow. Thank you

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[@lisac.custalow6689]

Thanks for the presentation! :)

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[@itz._lovise._0104]

Thanks. Very useful.

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[@moresloppyjango6567]

These are great idea and easy. I will just have to work on remembering them.

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Surprisingly few subs, your channel is so helpful! Thank you

[@AskDanielWong]

You're welcome! Yes, I haven't published that many videos yet, but I hope to produce more content going forward. Thanks for your support!

[@Cydney2David]

I completely understand what you saying so far with this video. I see that my son has become outcome-oriented recently and I hope to changed this because he become anxious and depressed and missed a lot school. We are currently in counseling because of this individual and family. Your video has open my eyes to some my mistakes that I have made without meaning to. My son calls my nagging - yapping because he's a little jerk - I asking to do chores around the house he treats more like a suggests and complains that he "too busy or too tired" this including the days the he does not even go to school. I will be watching your video on Lazy Teenager and Getting Your Teenager out of Bed soon.

[@ayeayehan307]

Thanks for sharing

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You're welcome

[@algerianpodcast]

“ you can do better “ destroyed my personality 🙂‍↕️i hated myself because i could never know what my better is. I will never say this to my kids .

[@sanbrunofriend5968]

Great advices! is practically what we do as parents our children, will learn , we are the role model , I need to change if I want changes in my teen! 😊

[@AskDanielWong]

Well said!

[@mywaymyself7873]

Very informative, just wish I saw this years ago, very interesting, I appreciate this tip.

[@AskDanielWong]

Glad it was helpful.

[@user-nn7zs2eb6v]

Great video, really learned alot.

[@AskDanielWong]

Glad to hear that!

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Daniel,l just want to say Thank You so much! With Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️

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You're most welcome :)

[@deepan8783]

Very much helpful tips and I feel we dint know so much on this earth to raise a teenager. Appreciate your effort to give us the apt points. Thanks a ton Sir Daniel

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You're welcome!

[@joshmetz9192]

I noticed you have worked hard making this video. I didn’t click like because I want you to remain focus oriented

[@AskDanielWong]

Haha thanks!

[@10anplischakjou33]

Keep doing what is good brother

[@oar-N-oasis]

Thank you..

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You're welcome

[@jemimahnchinga4005]

I love your videos, I am keeping my teen siblings since the passing of my parents and OMG do i get frustrated sometimes......thanks for these helpful tips!

[@AskDanielWong]

You're welcome, and wishing you all the best.

[@kazimafzal4634]

Informative

[@AskDanielWong]

Thank you

[@ElizondoTribe]

I always end up nagging about chores. Trying to come alongside them instead and provide company in doing them together.

[@AskDanielWong]

I hope that works!

[@user-yk4jz6mg3l]

Very impressive super correct

[@AskDanielWong]

Glad you think so!

[@katthefantastic]

How do you get teens to stop saying inappropriate things for shock value?

[@neelamwaheed3377]

Ur videos, pdf 📚 really help me alot in my routine functioning. ..

[@AskDanielWong]

I'm glad to be of help.

[@Lima3578user]

Please provide tips on how to motivate a teen under treatment for depression

[@courtneyskyla]

Big thing for me when I was depressed teen was if you wanted me to do a chore or help, give me a time frame to get it done. Say "I would like help emptying the dishwasher today...could you do that sometime in the next 2 hours please?" That would make me feel way less resistant as I have more control.

[@C-G183]

once again great vieo daniel

[@AskDanielWong]

Thank you!

[@DeborahVahanian-nx9ir]

Getting their chores done.

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[@nayeemahassan3977]

So they don’t study and exams are coming up then what let them fail

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💗💗💗💖

[@stanmoney8470]

Good video! But I disagree with not telling your kid good job!

[@bongilevellem9003]

But he gave an alternative of what to say.

[@michelleensley7846]

yes ❤

[@aniteamina1012]

Like that

[@charlee11127]

Hello, first time watching this video or any of your videos, question, do you have children?.

[@charlee11127]

My apologies, just starting watching an heard you say you do have children.

[@AskDanielWong]

@@charlee11127 No worries. Yes, I have 3 children and I feel like they make my life feel rather full!

[@annmarieanderson4695]

I’m nagging about their tones and phones

[@jesserodriguezhammond1763]

I work with teens daily. This is ridiculous! Lol I would be curious which studies you have to prove anything. Also, I can guarantee this will not work with any teen with behavioral issues.

[@LB-hi6zc]

Getting them to hurry yp

[@rebeccablossom9823]

Thank you

[@fatimmagas4148]

How can you be my teenager counselor?

[@AskDanielWong]

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[@amrutavadanagekar1737]

I all the time nag him for studies

[@user-sb9es3ed5v]

I have a 46 year old teen

[@MD.orion1]

You've been coaching teens for 10 years.....well they di not behave and abuse you like they think the can do at home to their mother

[@Airfriedfroglegg]

If your teen is abusing you you should get therapy for yourself for how to handle it

[@virginiawatkins2321]

Clean your room don’t leave like a rat

[@ronnyhotive5256]

My friend i dont know which planet you come from but what you are asking people to do is make the 17 year old be the parent and we the parent be the father.. that wont work

[@Lukdaman]

you are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

[@louisepasquill3837]

Brush your teeth