4 Tips To Find A Godly Man

[@hannahjones7098]

I just broke up with my boyfriend and I realized that I absolutely need a Godly man that can lead in Godly conversations and practices, loves to worship...

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen, yes Godly leadership and fellowship 🙏

[@emptyvesselministries]

Hannah - praying for you in this journey. I created a relationship series on my channel because that’s something that I realized as the years went by as well so I hear ya. I hope your day is going well💕

[@brianivan.]

Hope you find and give a chance to a good person that doesn't necessarily thinks exactly the same way you do. But still cares for other living beings, cares about you, and has real qualities that appeal to your likes, happiness and motivation.

[@abigailtorres5162]

Hannah jones same here

[@trishataylor2837]

I too just broke up with my boyfriend of 16 years! Although he actually went to church with me He is not a Godly man and that was really hard for me to accept.So either God Himself works a miracle in that man's life Or I keep going forward Hoping to meet a true genuine Godly man! A man who He's not afraid to be open with his praise and worship.And actually does read his Bible and wants to go to Christian activities and classes.

[@deion312]

I'm being patient in my singleness. I'm really fighting against sexual immorality in my life. I am surrendering everyday to God through daily Bible reading and genuine prayer.

[@faithbreathes9598]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/nn_Gl6CoYrh1nac Here you go brother, hope this helps :)

[@wellwhoknows9567]

keep on going brother

[@brianivan.]

I don't know if your a man or women, but that's irrelevant. In this world it kinda does matter what you believe when sharing your life with another person, but at the same time it doesn't. You can meet a person at your same church and think differently, as you can also find someone at a party that doesn't have the same believes as you but still think alike. It's a 50/50 chance, probably less than that. But the important thing is to be open, be real, express what you think or believe since the beginning so the person that decides to keep going out with you knows exactly what you stand for. And ENJOY, HAVE FUN, go out, dance or try to, laugh, be you, enjoy this mistery called "Life". With or without someone else, with or without god, you should just, look to be happy. If you're happy with yourself, you'll get comfortable with yourself, and that's all you really "need". When you get to that feeling, you won't be thinking about the best experiences of your life as "lust" or "sins". Love yourself.

[@preciousmatlapeng9497]

God bless u

[@KL-zm8pp]

m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJS4pWWdj95nfqs maybe this could help

[@NasEllis]

To answer your question, a quality I look for in a potential spouse is a guy who's actually serious about God because saying you're a Christian is one thing but then actually reflecting that is another so yea :) thanks for the advice as usual sending u guys love from another Christian youtuber 💕

[@PaulandMorgan]

So true :) Thanks for sharing😊😊

[@brianivan.]

Hope that godly man your looking for doesn't end being a sexist nor homophobic person. Bests of wishes and luck 🖤

[@sirenenoire4091]

Brian Rodriguez Straight pride.

[@CharmedVigilante]

I am married and coming up on two years of marriage. In my experience at least, when you are looking for a husband or wife, I've found that the best place to be personally is to make sure you've reflected on your own spiritual contentment in the Lord. In every case I've seen, whether they were friends or family to me, they found the person they married only once they had given up trying to actively seek and we're focusing on being content in their relationship with God. God definitely wants not only your heart to be right with him but to also have your priorities in order and God has to be first before anyone or your relationship with your spouse will also be all out of balance. God has to be center for there to be harmony and true contentment in a home and a marriage.

[@SCxoxx]

So true

[@Brianna-yh7iy]

A Man that loves God and shines with the love of Christ and bears fruit. His words match his actions. Honesty. Boldness for Jesus. Knows his purpose that God has given him. Not easily angered. He can hear Gods voice. He reads his bible daily. ❤️

[@lizm9863]

I echo those ❤️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen, that’s a fine man right there!😊

[@judycolin]

Yes!!

[@livingunashamed4869]

Chase after God with all you've got and the guy will come :). Just seeing a girl in love with Jesus and really living biblically is attractive. The problem is the lukewarmness out there.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good stuff, Kevin. That’s very attractive 😊

[@nicolerice3151]

So true

[@Bellasmombudgets]

I agree, that's also attractive to see men doing the same thing!

[@didyouknowpodcast]

Amen.

[@EVERGLOW828]

Amen brother

[@Chryslerdealership]

This just came at such a perfect time for me! Honestly, even though I'm still in high school, most of the guys that like me and talk to me don't have any respect and I was talking to a guy today in one of my classes who likes me, and I just felt so uncomfortable because he just kinda talked down on me (which is something that I've noticed guys like to do... Lol), and it was just so discouraging. On the other hand, a few weeks ago, my church had this youth gathering and some people from a dif state came. Well we were having a bonfire and everyone that was sitting around me just randomly left somewhere so I was sitting alone. Then this guy sitting across from me stands up and walks over and starts talking to me. It was just soo sweet and made me relaize that not just 'bad guys' are attracted to me. We never exchanged numbers or anything but I always have him in mind when I get discouraged that there are good men out there who truly are insterested in PURSUING me. And that applies to all of you girls, not just me. You're all worthy of commited, passionate pursuit. Don't get discouraged by some guys along the way. Just thought to encourage someone. 💕

[@PaulandMorgan]

Christina D. Thanks for the comment :)

[@nicolerice3151]

Very wise

[@brianivan.]

That is so nice!

[@carolineatieno4365]

Aww thanks so much dear, I really feel encouraged by your words

[@kallibrooke8279]

I really needed to hear this. I just broke up with my boyfriend because he faked having a heart after God and over time he started throwing up red flags over that’s not even close who he was. And this video really helped. Thank you so much Paul and Morgan for being an inspiration ♥️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Kalli Hurley awe I’m glad this vid could encourage you :)

[@kaycee6786]

I've been through this a FEW times. Ugh!

[@lilyflower1168]

Oh yikes, been there!

[@anaday11]

Same for me

[@user-wj9jh4iz5e]

At age 44 finally found one, he is amazing but nothing within the standards I thought originally. There is 14 years difference! Such a gentleman though and loving father to my teen son. What a relief from the immaturity and selfishness I was finding before. Patience ladies and be open minded but dont settle for less. God loves you and will bring you the best but in his time not ours.

[@zogly9469]

I’m looking for someone who has a goofy and wild side, but who can also listen and work to understand the other person’s view when a deep topic is being discussed, or when someone is sharing something. Someone who wants to recognize and work together on problems as they come up instead of avoiding them. Someone who can put up with my dad jokes, bad puns and other weird humor stuff. And finally, someone who loves God more than she loves me and who will be a good mother for any children we’re blessed with.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Sounds like the perfect woman!😁 haha but for real those are great qualities!

[@annmathews]

I resonate 🙌🏼

[@emilymeyers6069]

How old are you 🤨

[@zogly9469]

@@emilymeyers6069 @emily meyers Wow. Old comments still notify! I'm almost 25 now, and most of what I said 3 years ago still gives an accurate taste of who I'm looking for.

[@madelynwinslow6213]

This last year I found a godly man whom I'm now getting to know in a relationship =)

[@PaulandMorgan]

Madelyn Almond glad to hear it!

[@dashleyvenezario9396]

One big quality I’m looking for in my future husband is a person who is family oriented and has a ♥️ to help people

[@PaulandMorgan]

Dashley Venezario good ones!

[@arianamartin7391]

Besides being passionate about his relationship with god, a quality I’m looking for is a great sense of humor.

[@brianivan.]

What if a person has all those qualities you're looking for but doesn't believe in God? Believes in another god or none. Do you give a person like that the chance to get to know each other, or do you prefer a person that doesn't have any of those positive and appeling qualities but still believes in God?

[@hanaha.7610]

@@brianivan. Hey brian, I know the question isn't directed at me but thought I would give my 2 cents. Being a Christian is a prerequisite but it is not enough. There are wonderful guys out there and a lot of good people who are not Christians(I personally know some great people who are atheist). So there indeed exist guys with all these qualities, but are not Christians. Having a real Christian spouse is more to be able to lift each other up spiritually, pray together, have family bible time,... not walking alone in our faith. It is about believing in christ's sacrifice, salvation and in the promise God made to us. For us Christians, our faith is what gets us through the hard times, the pain, the lost. If tomorrow the one I marry dies, cheats on me, etc. , I will still be OK, even if I am sad because I have my faith. There are billions of people on this planet... does a true believer really think their god is so small that he can't get them a man who is a Christian and with whom they have great chemistry and common values? ;) So to answer your questions, the answer is no to both.

[@brianivan.]

@@hanaha.7610 Well, I'm soory to say that you *may* loose the opportunity to build a life alongside a person that could be "deserving" of your time, support, and love simply because he (or she) doesn't believe in the same god as you. The person could be more than willing to always do you right, be loyal and so much more. Let's be real, anyone can be a "real christian" now a days by their own standards. If they cheat, abuse (physically, emotionally or mentally), or commit any other wrong and disgusting doings, they'll still keep praying and going to church. Don't discard a person with the purest of intentions towards you and the rest of the people just because the person doesn't believe in the same god as you. Or if the person doesn't believe in any gods. Or even doesn't believe in god as strongly as you do or would like. It's sad to let go of someone that may be "best" for you just because they don't think exactly the same way you do. We all have differences. Different tastes, different views, we're all different. Not believing is just another difference in opinion. And its sad to do the same the other way around. A person that believes in another god or doesn't believe in any other gods discarding you simply because you believe in God is just as bad in my point of view. When you really are interested in giving all your support and love to build a life together, it doesn't matter if you pray saying the same lines and words. Or if one prays and the other doesn't. It's like getting to know a person who speaks spanish for example, he (or she) will obviously have a different culture. You'll get to discover different things about the person, you'll like and dislike some of the things that person's culture has.

[@morgangreenlee2091]

One big quality: humility

[@PaulandMorgan]

Oh yeah! That is big

[@Gigi-en5xw]

I sometimes literally give up in the idea of marriage especially when I'm like the only young Christian girl at my church , but hopefully someday a godly guy will come.

[@Jessie20032]

Gigi Flower enjoy being single and let God use you for His glory and the work He has for you to do, keep your eyes fully fixed on Christ, don’t worry about getting married ,it only distracts you from God, let God be the wheel, and you let Him drive. If it’s Gods plan for you to get married then so be it, if not, then be content the way you are. Hope this helps in some way. God bless

[@PaulandMorgan]

🙏😊

[@wellwhoknows9567]

You dont have meet him at your Church (but you could meet Him there). God has a plan and He will work it out x

[@reginaf1811]

Waiting on God! I want a genuine man, ready to serve God together. He's commited to Him and us. Equally yoked, our purposes align, he's kingdom focused. Ready for fun, spontaneous new experiences, passion and laughter!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊

[@sally-kella]

I’m praying and waiting on God for a man who will love God more than he will love me. Every other thing (looks, goofiness 🙃, and common interest) will be an awesome Bonus in the God given package. Never the less, I’d love someone who’s spontaneous. In my wait, i live a set apart life for Christ and place my pen 🖊 into His palms to write my love story ...for His plans for me are for good.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen, thanks for sharing😊😊

[@ailsa2434]

Awesome! Thanks Paul. I especially love the idea of writing a list of what you don't want. I never thought of that. There are actually a number of godly guys in my church, and I get along well with all of them. It's mostly just a case of all of us needing to mature before we're ready for the next step of marriage. For me, one of the big things I'd be looking for in a man is someone open to go and do whatever God wants them to do, even if doing that thing or going to that place (or both) is massively uncomfortable. I wanted to challenge you (just a little bit) on your point about putting yourself out there. While I completely agree it's important to get busy doing God's work, which also involves interacting with others in the church, I don't necessarily think we as girls need to try to manipulate the situation. Disclaimer: you may not even have meant that we need to, but these are my thoughts. I don't even see that we need to be actively looking for someone when we interact with others. For my parents, it wasn't until my mum stopped looking that she met my Dad, and from there it just happened organically. They became friends and the rest is history! On the other hand, if we are actively a part of the church and doing God's work, we will meet people as a byproduct of that. (Assuming it's God's plan for us to marry, which it may not be). If a guy is interested in me, it's important to me that he has the courage to make the first move, but I don't feel it's my job to try and push the situation any more than simply being friends with him. Otherwise I may end up pushing too hard to "win" a guy that God doesn't even want me to be with and missing the man he does want me to marry! I'm a huge believer in God orchestrating our love stories depending on what he wants to do with us for his glory :) God bless, and thanks as ever for your channel!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thanks for the comment :)

[@danielbarker7685]

My main quality I look for is someone who takes care of themselves... not necessarily weight or anything, but keeps up their hygiene, showers, and tries to look good

[@SheillaOlga]

Say it louder for people at the back.

[@danielbarker7685]

@@SheillaOlga I mean, don't get me wrong, I like a pretty gal... however, hygiene comes ahead of that

[@SheillaOlga]

@@danielbarker7685 Couldn't agree more 👌

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊

[@danielbarker7685]

@@PaulandMorgan sorry, don't know another way to get a hold of y'all other than public comments... so, I've been listening for 2 months now, and I keep hearing about the list right... would you actually recommend these? Wouldn't these cause more of a disruption in allowing God to just bring someone into your life? I understand the ideology od intentional dating and I like the list idea, but would like a little bit more information about it. If you'd rather email or text, that's fine... I'm just curious

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hey Famalam! Comment one big quality you’re looking for in a potential spouse :)

[@asdfg12383]

A man who loves the Lord❤️

[@godsdaughter_1234]

A man who is trustworthy, who respects women and will love me the way Christ loves the church.

[@evysy9253]

A man who respects. Who respects God, his family, friends, himself, authorities, etc. And a man who shows where he stands and what his boundaries are and that he won't allow someone to cross or disrespect those boundaries

[@bee.bop.bri.]

I’m looking for a guy that would be willing to travel the world with me. Over the past six and a half years of my walk with Jesus, God has made it pretty clear that He wants me to something in the missions field like my aunt. I would really like if my future husband shared that vision.

[@hopetikvah4906]

A kind, honest, intelligent, and respectful man :) obviously he also needs to share my faith.

[@JessicaenIngles]

OMG I'M SO HAPPY I found this channel, I never imagine to find this community here, I loved it, and since I'm from COLOMBIA I'm more than delight with the salsa song at the end! thanks for this amazing content.

[@jay8128]

I GOT THIS NOTIFICATION AS I'M WONDERING IF THIS GUY IS WORTH MY TIME This is a sign

[@PaulandMorgan]

WhiteWolf Yin hope this was helpful for ya :)

[@wellwhoknows9567]

NO WAY

[@brianivan.]

Sign, coincidence? Doesn't really matter. Just be careful, don't rush.

[@jay8128]

@@brianivan. to clarify, I didn't mean that as it's a sign that he's the one for me. I see these videos as a reminder to stick to what I believe instead of what other people, typically men showing interest, want of me😁

[@brianivan.]

@@jay8128 Perfect! Its just that I've seen so many friends say "this is a sign" and they go all the way for the "wrong" person. The other way around too, thinking something is a sign and then not letting things go with the flow. I'm a complete stranger but I do care for other people whenever I read these kind of comments, even when I souldn't even be caring tbh. Haha.

[@EBThisThat]

This was timely because I was so close to just giving up or having any prospects of having a family. I won't give up ! Right now I'm going to be focusing on my businesses.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊

[@lhughes6656]

Focus on both

[@SyrenthiaRice]

I am intentionally living my life with God. But I want to be found by a godly man. I go to church not to find a spouse I am involved in volunteering because I love it. But I have never had the man god has for me pursue me. Everyone doesn't meet their spouse in church also I hope I am pretty enough

[@cassandrahaeuber3383]

So encouraging! I was really convicted by the verse be anxious for nothing.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊🙏

[@miaramona6257]

I've had "Christian guys" act like they are all that.... then they dont treat me well, dont respect boundaries...so forth, I'm at a point where I dont really even want a relationship dt my bad experiences. I've even been told, by Christian guys I'm not worth pursuing , that my standards are too high.. #singleandthirty #singleforever

[@julies5944]

I'm pretty much in the same boat. 31 and still single. You are worth pursing! I cant believe someone would have the audacity to say you weren't. They say your standards are high because they don't want to be held accountable for what they aren't. Those christian men need to rise up and truly seek God. It's okay to not want to date or be with someone who isn't truly seeking the Lord.

[@miaramona6257]

@@julies5944 thanks !!!!!

[@lilymonet9702]

PLEASE HELP: ive just always been the type of woman that doesnt care about having tons of money, the nicest car, expensive shoes and clothes, and the biggest house. i mean those things would be a nice bonus, but i really couldnt care less. It drives me CRAZY that alot of girls need their potential future husband or boyfriend to have these things or its a deal breaker! Like i want a man to have a good heart, and honest, caring, gentle. I desire someone that doesnt care what i look like and understands and doesnt care that im not perfect. That loves and trusts god and wants to serve him. I have many flaws and sometimes can come off as weird or stupid...i just want a guy who doesnt care if i dont have a perfect body. But it doesnt seem like there are any guys in the world that want a woman with a kind heart, that loves god, thats goofy.

[@melissafourie1388]

As a single girl there are quite a few qualities that I look for, but I think the biggest stand out quality is SERVING. If a guy is serving in the house of the Lord, volunteering his time sacrificially and actively making a difference by serving others, he attracts my attention. It is important however to determine whether he serves intentionally and not just because he feels pressured to serve or because he knows it’s the right thing to do.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Ooohhh year, serving/ a servants heart is big!🙌

[@faithandfelix9465]

Could you do a video on overcoming shyness and nervousness when putting yourself out there? There is a guy at my church that I am really interested in and i get so nervous to talk to him so I just don’t because I’m afraid of it being awkward or making a mistake. I really want to overcome it. Also, can you talk about for a girl, how to be intentional without coming across as pursuing the guy. That’s another thing that I’m worried about. I want to intentionally be open and make a point of being friends with this guy but I don’t want to seem like I’m pursuing him and pushing for a relationship. Thank you so much! I love your videos!!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hey :) you should give this vid a watch kzbin.info/www/bejne/foqpmnuHd9yHj6M

[@theyoutubertoad]

A quality I'm looking for is a godly man who can lead me!

[@PaulandMorgan]

🙌😊

[@lhughes6656]

Same

[@Rachellesmusic29]

I’m 25 years old haven’t had actually real boyfriend before. I sometimes wonder if god will ever send a godly man to me. A big Quality I look in for a man is caring and patience. I go church but all older people not many young people.

[@vivaeuropa]

Yay Rachel this made me happy there's still women not just sleeping around like crazy at your age.

[@rachelmclaren4904]

I’m in a relationship now, but for a long while it feels like I’ve been slowly lead to break up with him (it’s been hard because we sexually sinned and ended up having a kid together early on in our relationship) but it seems heavier and a decision I need to make now more than ever. A quality I want is yes someone who is totally after God’s heart. I want someone is on the same page as me. I need someone that’s going to lead me and guard my heart. I realize this because I haven’t had it before, with my relationship now it seems like I’m the one leading.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊

[@vivaeuropa]

Rachel how did things go?

[@namelesscurmudgeon9794]

I am a Christian man. I prayed to God for years for someone to love. The silence was deafening. Rejection after rejection was soul crushing. I gave up on women years ago.

[@jakuteng]

Her heart for God and for people.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Yes!🙌

[@gabrielatomkova4775]

Anyone else in a church where theres literally no people your age, let alone single guys ?

[@Killermillerstudios]

Thank you❤️ I am friends with this guy and we are both homeschooled and we have got to work together and and i have known him for so long that feelings for him just got bigger and bigger and that is when he asked me to go to homecoming with him and i was so excited cause that is when I knew he liked me too and so we are both to young to date but he and I will probably date in the future so thanks for all the awesome advice hope you have a great week🥰☺️☺️☺️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thanks for sharing😊😊

[@carrie637]

I would look for a dry, morbid, sarcastic, or flirty sense of humor in a potential spouse. I don’t look for people who actually flirt, only those who do it as a joke with their crush. I also look for people who are open minded and don’t completely dismiss the possibility of their beliefs being wrong.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Much love, Carrie

[@talesoffolkloreandcoffee3835]

When I've been doing this stuff since I've been in highschool and still have never been asked out. :(

[@funnygirl8750]

Do you have any extra advice from praying? I have been putting myself out there since I'm in my 30's and ready to settle down but I'm running into two common issues with church guys: 1. They still aren't looking or interested in a serious, committed relationship- marraige- even though I am looking at 30's or older age range! 2. They are godly men but they are attracted to women who are NOT saved and not godly. I don't really want to lower my standards and dress immodestly to get their attention because i want to honor God with how i dress and conduct myself. It is very disenheartening to try to talk to a godly guy, only for him to be more enticed by a girl who is of the world or not wholesome. How can i get them to notice me extra apart from the things covered in this video, and without me having to compromise my image and virtue?

[@wolfgangamadeusmozart7505]

Honestly by the way you're describing these "Godly men" they don't sound like it. A true godly man will want a godly woman in return.

[@meandmyfamily9888]

You will get someone amen

[@lhughes6656]

You can be alluring and sexy without dressing scantily clad. Work on your femininity, your smise, graceful movements. Do your best to put out an energy that is fun and exuberant. These are things that men find attractive and work on your shape too. Since men are visible creatures, being fit is a great asset regardless of how you dress. Try these things if you haven't already and always be confident. Men and women alike can sense desperation so always put out a subtle confident energy. Hope this helps!

[@samissac537]

A lot of Christian men give up on Christian women and I'm one of those guys. I'll probably never date a Christian woman due to their high unrealistic standards. The rudest women I've ever met in my life are Christian women in the church. The nicest and sweetest girls I've ever met are agnostic/ don't pay much attention to God. A lot of Christian guys date non believers because they can't meet these "high standards" that Paul promotes and most millenial man-bashing churches promote and then you have countless single Christian women sad and lonely and you got Christian guys like myself going for non Christian women because we know she won't be "ticking off a list" if I meet or don't meet.

[@KAyLA_K]

Maybe it’s just me, but Morgan seems a bit pale in this video 😂😂😂

[@PaulandMorgan]

Haha😼

[@KAyLA_K]

Paul and Morgan 😂😂😂

[@Chryslerdealership]

😂😂😂

[@nellapenelope3240]

A quality I want in a man is strength. He should be the one who leads my family, and protect me. And hr should be fun. He should be your and your kids best friend ever!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@jennsmith77]

Hi! This is a great video to show my teenaged daughter. Back in the 90s they didn't have social media or dating sites. You had to meet someone the old fashioned way. The problem I noticed with meeting godly guys at church back then, was you would have about 5-10 decent looking godly guys and about 25-30 young women in the youth group or college and career group kind of fighting over them. Then those guys could be extremely picky abt who they liked and always went for the "hottest" girl, not necessarily the godliest woman. So then the "sweet girl next door" type would have to wait years to meet someone or settle for a bad boy. I saw this happen time and again in church. You would have a bunch of beautiful, single thirty-something year old women still waiting for their Boaz. Unfortunately, I didn't want to be like that, so I settled for a couple of bad boy relationships. Maybe finding a godly guy is easier now a days for women. I read all the books back then like "Passion and Purity" "Lady in Waiting" "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" etc. and still didn't meet my Boaz type guy. Maybe I was too picky or maybe God would have brought him when I was older, but when you're a woman in your 20s and all your friends are getting engaged and married, you definitely feel the pressure to compromise. I hope my daughter can find a great, godly husband and avoid all the pitfalls I went through.

[@vivaeuropa]

Jenn did you never get married? It's different nowadays because the average looking women can get like 1000+ matches in a few days on a dating app lol but of course those are plagued with horrible men so many women get caught up in that.

[@coffeechocolate1026]

I want loyalty in a man. I want a man who respects me. But first, I need to respect myself which I will admit I don’t think I do

[@PaulandMorgan]

God will help you, take it to Him :)

[@coffeechocolate1026]

Paul and Morgan I’m in Medjugorie and the experience is bringing me back to God. Firstly, I’m going to begin praying to Mother Teresa and she will intercede on my behalf to God. She was a wonderful woman and I am so glad to have known about her growing up. I did a report on her for school and I really feel a spiritual connection to her. Once I’m back in the States, I’m going to make a huge change in my life and the lives of my family members. I am needed and I will make myself useful and finally grow into the woman I can be proud of. Then, my man will come. I just know it!

[@wellwhoknows9567]

@@coffeechocolate1026you dont need to get anyone else to intercede on behalf of you and God. In fact, that is a very dangerous idea. God wants you to talk to Him. Just go straight to Him. Read your Bible and pray everyday and grow close to Him. He is your Heavenly Father and wants to hear from you. He loves you!

[@gracehardingham]

2:50 this is exactly what I did with the guy I met at church before he left for uni. We're talking still over instagram but I don't know if anything is going to happen... I'll just have to wait and see

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good job putting yourself out there :)

[@jenessa4jesus]

The struggle I have is I am a sold out passionate woman of God, but the guys that show interest in me are not to that par.

[@alwallenjr88]

I know the feeling but genders reversed. Finding a woman that reflexes the character of God is impossible to find in my area.

[@heatherfeather7199]

Here’s the tough thing: Not only am I 38 years old, I will be officially divorced in about 1 months time (domestic violence survivor) and I have 2 special needs kids. Do to Covid and job loss, I have moved back with my mother. What man my age would not only be available, but would find any of my life circumstances appealing? Most solid, healthy, creative Christian men are snapped up before 30. I’m pushing 40, and most single men my age are single for mostly not good reasons. How do I navigate these obstacles while also wanting a genuine connection?

[@vivaeuropa]

Heather what is your age dating range out of curiosity from the youngest you'd date to the oldest age you'd date?

[@heatherfeather7199]

@@vivaeuropa I’d say 10 yrs max younger and older, but it would have to absolutely be what God wants.

[@lavonnewells6003]

I want a man who shows society that I am his, and first that he loves God more.

[@heathern.6124]

Quality in potential spouse: tender-heartedness 👍🏻

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good one😊😊

[@gaibleszter]

Paul , thanks for this video 🥰☺️For me, it's very important in a guy to be the spiritual leader in the relationship or marriage...I want to see how he producing friuts for God...and I want to see how he spend his single time...if he just waiting for a Godly woman, or he uses his single time to be closer to God and have a deeper relationship with Him.💓

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen, well put😊😊

[@funnygirl8750]

Also, do you think it is wrong that I have changed my mindset about how I pray for a future husband? I used to pray about a man who was involved in ministry since i am called to missions and have been active in ministry as well. I thought i would meet a guy who was in ministry. But all the suitable or eligible men in church that I know won't give me a chance or do not seem interested in me at all whatsoever. So i have been praying that if my future husband is someone that hasn't gotten saved and in church yet, that God will bring him to know the Gospel and maybe later, we may meet one another. I don't believe in dating a nom-Christian, but it seems like guys who have come out of that lifestyle to know Christ appreciate church girls because they've "been there, done that." They seem to recognize the difference between what the world has, and what God has to offer. Whereas sometimes in my case in particular, i feel like church guys haven't really been in the world in that sort lifestyle, so they are drawn to women perhaps that aren't in church? Does that make sense?

[@febe5118]

I once had this thought, too...and had felt more connected with guys outside the church just because they would discuss real-life struggles (compared to some of church guys I knew who would only recite what the pastors said and not all of them examine their own lives according to the hard truth of Scriptures anyway). But years passed by and I think it comes down to a person's character. A (potential) true Christian would have genuine desire for truth, less desire to judge others too quickly. When being presented to a mindblowing fact from the Bible, he/she would probably not immediately believe, but still, appreciate and ponder about it. (I will actually question people who immediately believe without having that 'clash' with his/her former worldview, but again, there's no fixated formula when it comes to see transformation in people. We have to be patient) After all, changing hearts is Holy Spirit's works, we just gotta do our part :) and let ourselves be sanctified too,, day by day!

[@danielnilson6115]

Are we going to get a 4tips to finding a Godly women?

[@tfkvng3187]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY

[@SheillaOlga]

😂😂😂

[@samissac537]

Lol this is a women dating advice channel lol they never really give guys advice I sorta noticed. Oooor guys never ask probably more the case. But I still watch because I like the P&M fam

[@bex_b]

One major thing I'm looking for in a husband besides being a God fearing man, is open with me about everything and feeling like he can trust me. Do you guys have any advice on how to get a guy to open up?

[@katiedrake76]

Be open yourself. Build a solid bond of trust between the two of you with friendship and honesty. Let him know it's safe to be vulnerable with you. But most of all, just give it a little time. You can't force a man to be vulnerable with you before they're ready, just like they shouldn't force you to be. It isn't much but I hope this helps 😊

[@bex_b]

@@katiedrake76 thank you so much for advice,this really does help!!! I'm going to try to just be open myself and be there as a friend he can trust.

[@juliaheisey8589]

My next relationship has to be God centered and the man HAS to be a stronger Christian than those I've dated in the past. Also finding someone understanding because I do have a somewhat dark past. IDK if it'll ever happen but I'm just trusting God in the singleness.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊🙏

[@Yulia.chandrika]

I am here just bcs I was checking their playlists and I saw " vids with cat statue"😂 Omg its hilarious. That weird cat statue instead of Morgan😂😂

[@DailyMaddie]

AMEN 🙏🏻 SO TRUE!! Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Madcauley Fitness for sure!😊

[@christyn1459]

OH YEAH WE GOT CAT STATUE MORGAN!!! 🙌🙌🙌

[@PaulandMorgan]

Christy N happy to be back!😸

[@nadinegomez8858]

Finding a GENUINELY godly man who doesn’t lust after other women is even more rare though... almost non-existent. It’s sad

[@seanicegrace7833]

This is absolutely a message for me n I pray one day one time the light shines upon me

[@kyriegogolin1310]

Thank you for the encouragement. Trying my hand at online dating and I am often finding myself asking “seriously, where are all the men???” So, where is the line between looking for a man and pursing a man? Because it’s the man’s job to pursue right? Also, besides loving Jesus (because that’s just a given) one quality that is very important to me is that he has to be able to make me laugh 😂

[@PaulandMorgan]

Yes, humor can be very important😊 I think a woman can def show interest and even make the first move. But after that I think the man needs to step up and initiate/ be intentional and show some leadership

[@heatherhawn7631]

Am I the only one who was nervous the whole time when Paul kept slightly bumping cat statue, and she would teeter back and forth precariously! 😬 You already killed her once, Paul! Be Careful! 😂

[@PaulandMorgan]

Bahaha sorry 😆

[@hiscanvasofgrace3391]

You can look in all the right places, and be pursuing God, but what matters is, is is Gods will for MY life? And thats where prayer comes in 🙏🏻 also, look to be with someone who shares the same goal/ mission in life or where you can fully support and be supported by your significant other💖💜💞💕

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thanks for the comment

[@eliwiggins6377]

Hey Paul and Morgan. I love your videos. They have been a source an encouragement for me. But I noticed something. It seems as though alot of the videos directed at finding "the one" or a godly partner is told for the women's benefit. For example this video. I'm not complaining, but there are also men who wonder how to find a godly parter. Would it be possible for you guys to help the fellas on how to find the right one? Blessings

[@marypywtorak7798]

This video is so practical and helpful. Thank you 😊

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good😊

[@carosamchwa3081]

I thought he was going to dab in the intro. Thanks for the video. It gives me hope to be reminded that there are good, godly men out there.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@DefensePlayer4]

That’s a good point about knowing what you’re NOT looking for, too. I hadn’t thought about it that way before, but that’s just as important. Thanks, Paul! Great list!

[@vishwantiesingh8849]

I'm a, Christian girl and I want to a good godly man in my life.. It will take a while fine a godly husband for me... I don't to bares and I don't drink, nor I don't curse I'm living for the word of God and we'll mostly I does share godly that's on my status or any other feed back but I really want a good godly man in my life.. Im getting more older every day and I pray to God and reading my Bible and have God relationship with God but it will take time to fine the godly man that I want in my whose living for God and its gunna be hard for to find a good godly husband in my but I'm going to pray for a good godly husband in my life and I will make some good requests for my godly husband and thank you for your advice God bless you 😇

[@Jadestrawberrylemonade]

Love this! Thanks Paul

[@PaulandMorgan]

Welcome!

[@EVERGLOW828]

Tip 3 is everything

[@jesdrew2981]

Where have all the good men gone and where are all the god...ly men

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊

[@lynnjoellegardner10]

Love it 😄

[@KAyLA_K]

Probably on mission trips😂

[@jesdrew2981]

@@KAyLA_K That would explain a lot.

[@samissac537]

@@jesdrew2981 www.elim.org.uk/Articles/441183/Studies_show_men.aspx Studies show men are leaving the church in droves and the only men in church is either married men or pastors and old men. Young men who are Christian no longer feel comfortable, welcomed or at home in church so we just stop going. Now church is old men, old women, massive amounts of women single in their 20s and 30s and then children. The young single Christian men have left the building figuratively and literally.

[@anuuukii]

Thankyou sooooo much for uploading this video! It's so inspiring! ❤ You guys are blessed to be a blessing!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe so glad to hear!

[@jannyharsono593]

Awesome tips Paul Thanks. Keep up the good work. GBU.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you!😊

[@live_unafraid47]

Obviously the number one thing is a man qho loves God with all his being. But another thing I really want on a spouse is aomeone who loves board games as much as I do. I love board games and card games but nobody wver wants to play and that makes me feel kimd of isolated

[@PaulandMorgan]

The board games one is cool😊🙏

[@priscilaerenu4520]

We are going to find Him! Haha! Awesome video. I look someone devoted AMD passionate to God s word and obedient to Him . Not perfect , but with the radical intention to follow ,Jesus no matter what. Plus that can have a really good sense of humor.. seems like theologian guys does not combine with just.. being goofy sometimes 🤠🤦‍♀️ never mind see ya!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Haha thanks for the comment😊😊

[@susanaolvera4924]

I would like if my future husband is tall and humorous.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@kimberlygower8904]

Paul can I just ask... How do you stop men that you see as brothers in Christ from thinking you're interested in them when you want to just be friends? I seem to have the problem that I want to get to know guys and be friends but for some reason they panic and stop wanting me in their world. I'm not intense or demanding or pushy I just am kind and invite them along to group events or every few weeks might send a message to say hi but they push away which then makes it hard to meet more guys as no one wants to chat or hang or anything. I know I'm not a stunningly gorgeous girl but why do guys do that? I know other girls that throw themselves at men and the men surround them!! What do you think I'm doing wrong? I believe that building friendships is the first step in finding relationships but I can't even find friendships that last long with guys!!

[@Ryan-qc6qc]

Someone who listens with intention

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good one!

[@tfkvng3187]

PREACH

[@elizabethkankam2808]

Thank you Paul and Morgan!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@asdfg12383]

Thanks for this advice, it really keeps me going to have a high standard. I hope I will find my Godly man soon💕

[@PaulandMorgan]

Welcome😊

[@Ruth2twelve]

Thank you for the video. Very timely.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good!

[@jaimiemainberger5039]

Can’t seem to find a man who isn’t addicted to porn, drugs and threesomes or couple swapping. It’s pretty tough out there. Glad you posted this video. I am a quality woman but still no luck.

[@winadabestlife4334]

Looking for the one :)

[@elizabethkankam2808]

Caring, understanding, strong, ambitious

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊🙌

[@leahgriffiths1694]

Paul and Morgan, love your channel. Can you do something related to broken hearts/bring rejected... And how to trust God again that there's still good guys in the world.

[@larrymcnary5224]

Awesome video, Paul ! I think the most attractive quality in a godly woman is the fruit she is producing for God !! It's a lot more reassuring too

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen! Thanks for watching bro👊

[@belovedbenton]

Thanks for these amazing tips

[@PaulandMorgan]

Beloved Friend awe welcome😊

[@angiebarcelona9575]

Thank you for this😊😊Im not loosing my hope and faith ..I believe that there is still Godly man exist...Ill keep praying..Amen

[@wellwhoknows9567]

I believe I already have. God has been giving me signs. I jusy need to pray more for it.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊🙏

[@wellwhoknows9567]

@@PaulandMorgan thank you so much for replying u made my day!!!

[@kaylaa_104]

Would love to have a man I can go on service trips with around the world (I'm going on a medical mission trip with my dad next week to Guatemala)!! Also reading the Bible together.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Yes I like that. Similar life visions is a blessing! God bless your trip😊

[@amyhatnot4773]

I mean be one,I have been in three toxic, emotionally draining on my mental health I have been talking to the lord about me wanting to be married one day.

[@rebeccagonsalves]

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[@northridgerocks]

Preach

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊🙌

[@carolineatieno4365]

I'm praying get a God fearing, loving , caring and a good looking man.

[@beckie5202]

Thank you

[@lucymiles8853]

This is a great video! Loved your advice Paul about making a list of qualities to stay away from list!

[@denamartinez9005]

I like what you’re saying I just subscribed to your channel🙏

[@dustypage2704]

What if you're friends with the guy you like?

[@KidslearnplayNfun]

Amen ❤️Thank you Brother in Christ

[@la8921]

Thank you for this I am trying to attract a Godly man but I was putting out a lot of myself to worldy man no more.

[@jadajohnson7957]

God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted and strength n arms I trust God and believe in him. I need to lead God for me pick him out to be my new future man

[@grace.b.cleveland]

Looking for a Godly, sensitive, caring, man!