4 ways to build a better connection with your child | Parenting - 106

Do you feel emotionally distant from your own son or daughter? In this video, I highlight 4 common mistakes made by many parents in building connection with their child. I also discuss how to avoid them.
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[@ZeHarrisFamily]

I am venturing in to a new chapter of my life, being a step mom. I have two grown daughters, and now have a 10 year old. I reeeeally appreciate this advice, these reminders 🤗❤ one of your best topics yet, thank you!😊 hugs from Oregon

[@g.agaekwad7612]

Your video ideally good .All dominating aggressive and unstable parents should watch

[@dipakshah8001]

You really made me clear about what wrong i was doing and what should I do to correct it. Thanks lot.

[@archanazulfiqar4488]

Got two children Son 24 daughter 19. On a scale of 10 I score 10 .....seriously :) good to listen to you Sridhar I am an educator and take pride in being successful in interacting not only with my own children but a whole lot of other children !! Thanks you're doing great service to humanity .

[@shikhathakur4353]

Seriously your channel is so underrated. I hope people share your videos so that it can reach out to as many people as possible. Never came across such high quality content. You suggestions and observations are commendable !! Kudos to you for doing such great work.

[@shubs4sats]

Just fabulous! I am improving a lot to be a better parent by watching your vids. Thankyou!

[@JERRY-ys7ei]

I m really in tension with my 14 year old son because my husband has no time to be with us since he is doing government service but now I am so much happy this video helped me a lot thank you so much may God bless you and be a good father

[@sunainaamit8491]

The way you talk I liked as parent and your energy in ur words gives power gives positive energy. It's great job what you are doing thank you

[@loislane1957]

I really like your content! But i really recommend to look up didactically alternatives. You are talking so extreamly fast that the content isnt able to reache our mind. Pause between the ideas and breathe in between... In my opinion this will increase the learning effect of your videos (maybe the klickrate/ likerate too?)

[@lalithavalli5755]

Excellent and simple approach.

[@ismailshaikh9875]

Your suggestions.make sense. Thanks for your support.

[@patilsonal47]

We both do same with my both sons as u said My both kids r very close to me.shares everything with each others.

[@rekhabenahalkar6075]

So clear cut behavioural solutions...thank you!!

[@pussywillow2957]

Absolutely agree! A 💯 👏🏽Thank you!Its about having a harmonious Balance! My children are 15/18! They can’t wait when I get home! We talk about our highs/lows about their day. We talk as I would talk with my adult friends(with a lil tweekin) YesWarm & friendliness-when poured into them they give you the same thing right back! MULTIPLIED!!Being Harsh/belittling you create not Only distance but creeping hostility 😡

[@anona1443]

Superb flashback to mistakes of my far right parents and I plan to be on left side.

[@tbh_thebrand]

You probably just saved my life 🙏🏽

[@lakshmiprasanna796]

Sir your are super speaker..... keep going.. all the best

[@yasminealliu8503]

Thank you for the advise, I am trying to make sure I be a better parent. 😊

[@suhanasiddiqua844]

Thank u sir I was very upset with all the circumstances going on with me, but I got hope from ur suggestions to rise me up. Thank u once again.

[@madhurimachakraborty6661]

Amazing advice. Much appreciated. I am more towards the friendly side may be 8 on a scale of 10. And though I am very busy I make it a point to spend quality time with my daughter and focus on building happy memories.

[@yashgowda1696]

It is surely help full for parents and upcoming parents too

[@anaghaunawane8605]

I love ur way of communication ... Ur word language is awesome ❤️

[@shantinair1576]

Good morning. Bingo.. Honestly, U r absolutely right. I am a mother of my daughter. I follow this principle with her. In fact my parents followed this principle with my brothers and myself. It is very straightforward and simple. No complications at all. In fact my daughter says that people/parents/anybody have a tendency to make matters complicated whereas it is not. So let's be simple ,honest and straightforward and not complicate matters. Thanks to u for wonderful videos.

[@sbiswas9521]

Sir ,its true we cannot share everything with a child, except this I really feel good to hear this vedio

[@India11646]

You are amazing, your tips are very valuable and helpful. God bless you brother.

[@manoramabasak7948]

First time I heard your speech that was amazing.In future it will be very helpful to me.Now my baby is 3 months.Thanks a lot.Good morning.

[@pinkypinkuommagarwal]

Thanks a lot for giving so much precious knowledge.

[@anumunshi1123]

Been listening to many of your parenting videos today. I do want to add that it’s one thing to discuss “adult” topics with your child but another to dump your adult problems on them. They should not feel like they have to raise the parent. Just sharing my thoughts 🙏🏽

[@gssahniq3019]

10 marks i will give my relationship with my child

[@Kj-mt7we]

What u suggest us. It's all true. I will follow it as a parent ..pls continue like this videos

[@yogitagosavi4726]

Very well said. Thanks for sharing

[@sanarafarooqi4627]

Your videos are so coherent and cover every detail. I am glad I found your channel.

[@jamilarasheed3927]

My emotional engagement with my children is 10/10. Ur ideas and thoughts are awesome and the language you use is very respectfull as well as clear. Even the thougher words are explained with easy. The course which you have started who so ever are interested in your skills always shows that there is no space plz take a look about it. Thank you

[@preetujesus4880]

Thank you so much Mr.Shridhar!👍 I can be very authorative and focused only on discipline and dictate stuff! Sometimes I feel my kids are helpless with this behavior ...Will definitely try and make up with my kids for the lost time.

[@vidyabhat6062]

very good content and good explanation, very true

[@prabalroy8107]

Good guidance and helpful 🙏

[@sugiaquas]

On the scale of 0 - 10 I don't know to judge myself where I'm.. but so far I understood I have set of bad rules to make them rite... Our biggest mistake was a Big NO to everything and deciding everything by ourselves instead of giving a choice to them fearing loss of money and time... Tnk you so much for your tips and advise...

[@indusharma120]

Hello shridhar wonderful video my princess is 6 now her bday on 29 of this month my emotional score 8 as I told I m a single parent she is close 2 me score is not 10 due to my busyness n her small age I can't share wid her negative phases of my lyf she's my everything I m surviving just 4 her

[@shantal261]

You are fantastic ! Love your advice. One of the best parenting advisors I’ve ever seen. You break everything down in a way I can understand and implement. Thankyou

[@priyathakur9333]

I like your voice & pronunciation. Some words are new .

[@remeekhharje]

Hello. Your, way, of conversation about parenting topic which is, very, important not only, for parents, but simultaneously for all, kids, It is commandable. Hatts, of to you and, your attitude God bless you

[@zoobydooby31]

thank you for the wonderful inputs.. i am a learning parent . would love to hear more from you ..

[@ravitapandey7698]

All thoughts are great

[@veenavnair8410]

We are more towards the friendly side. Very very informative video.Wishing you god speed in your progress. Thank you once again.

[@swatig731]

5 out of ten because intentional distance like getting aggressive and authoritative when he can't listen what the command is like please switch off fan in bedroom he rush n pause switches off which is near to him rather in bedroom. Really helpful me watching for first time but subscribed.

[@priyanshusingh-kq5xl]

Really very useful information

[@Krupashree-s3d]

Thank you so much😊

[@coasttocoast1140]

thank you for your advice,will give it a try

[@vidhyaiyengar7920]

Perfect insight

[@brindhagopal294]

Super Sridhar sir. 👏👏👏👏

[@rani2770]

Very nice speech, thanks for reminding us.

[@siddhikshadevanand8140]

Your speech is nice. I learned many things. The thing is if your voice is towards us, seeing the video straight i may feel like my friend sharing with me.

[@monikathakur4155]

Thank u so much 🙏🏻

[@mpl1234]

The balance is difficult to implement. If our child spills something, immediate reaction is to scold him. But if one adopts the friendly side and control one's reaction and instead say its okay. Sometimes it makes them used to such nice behaviour atleast from us. Then when they interact with their teachers or other adults they expect the same level of patience and understanding. But not everyone outside the child's family will be that way.Which makes them upset and confuses them. Also sometimes we also get tired of trying to respond correctly to anything and everything they do or say. Then momentarily we may snap.back or something. This also upsets them. Shouldn't parenting then be instinctive instead of a practised style? One thing for sure is extremes can be harmful. ButI hv seen children of authoritarian parents grow up later to have lot of respect for their father. In some cases.( I am not in favour of authoritarian style personally) And children of friendly parents , sometimes grow up unfocussed in their life and disrespectful of parents due to friendly parents. When to be friendly and when to be authoritarian is so dificult to decide. Some may say...where we feel they may be going wrong. But again are we not controlling them , instead of allowing them to grow , make mistakes? Should we intervene only when they ask for help?

[@thevideomakernaman]

Sir,every word excellent

[@DS-md5vd]

Very nice video ,every point very nicely and very simply explained.

[@sowmyar124]

You are just amazing, hitting the nail 👏👏

[@sometimessumit6784]

Thanks sir... child is our priority ..alongwith our old parents and the spouse.! Such detailed exposition and solutions will sure help us..

[@tejaswinighatge3575]

Fabulously explained .. it is going to be very helpful in our parenting journey .. thank you for sharing such a wonderful video 👍

[@manvi330]

Your channel is absolutely fantastic that delivers the best of parenting tips. Thanks to u . I can relate to what u say and pick up the advice which is required for a particular situation .

[@ManojKumar-pc9oo]

your way of speaking and explaining is super awesome. I watched your video today for the first time and I have become your fan.

[@meherbaker2662]

I am more on the friendly side. As my child started growing up I moved from authoritative to friendly. N yes I hv had talks with him on diverse areas n the children do understand. Sharing childhood memories is also important both theirs n yours.

[@vijiraja6957]

Sir i really want to know how u did this course and learnt so much. And u r an absolute genius

[@rajwinderkaur3925]

Useful for present parents and future parents 👍

[@rubyrawat2681]

I learnt too much with the same😊

[@santhielango9924]

Hi Sridar, I liked this video, the reason my son finished medical school, trying to do USMLE steps, omg very stressful situation in my house. I don’t know my way of asking is bad r he is very stressed, that makes everybody unhappy in the house, every word he take it wrong n get angry on us. I’m also get mad. There is no happy n quality time in between us. I don’t know how to handle 😔

[@santhielango9924]

Also he was in good relationship with a girl from his school n now there parents wants her to Mary some one, not my son that made another problem in my life , I was fully supported him, my husband too. But what can I do since girls parents blaming on Jadagam n all. So he is very upset for that to . Showing on me that stress, which I understand. I don’t know how to handle him and get friendly connections with my son?😭

[@vineelar2148]

In your every video iam learning something new sir thank you

[@a.s1879]

Awesome. Very nice information. I think iam more on an authoritarian side as a mother. Definitely I will work out on it for the good. Thanks again

[@kasakshah1031]

Your speech is super duper .. but plz upload some on the kids growing means 5 yr.. thnx

[@padhsful]

Very crisp and clear expression of your thought. Really liked it. I have just gone through this one video and will watch all other things here.

[@dipaliacharekar]

This topic was so necessary for me.🙏

[@RC-infinity]

You are awesome..

[@pashupathispashupathis9600]

Nice words ......we should fallow this things....

[@butterflypink9476]

Please make a video on single parenting.. how they should be, friendly or authority..???

[@_poccgo_gaming_]

Amazing speech

[@blessj27]

Awesome wow wow just wow .....

[@Anjli_Jain]

This is really good❤❤

[@charupahwa3225]

Sir a very much helpful video

[@navgill6576]

Great

[@komalsoni3316]

These eloquent talks are perhaps made for sensible, humane and sophisticated people. My father is a complete patriarchal misogynist. I feel that even my thoughts are being controlled. I feel that my brain, heart and body is confined by my parents. I feel handicapped. On the contrary, they have given me education BA, L.L.B and LLM. Still they are not ready to make me feel free in proportion to what kind of education they have tried to give me. I feel trapped. Because of their such behavior, I've always had self doubt, self hatred, low self esteem and lack of confidence ..and also problem maintaining relations with people in general. I hesitate going anywhere or talking freely. Even I feel severe panic anxiety attacks within, which nobody believes. I hate my father for treating me like this And the worst part is, I'm considered even more bad girl if I don't get engage in him and let that toxicity hamper on me. I feel shit.

[@cakeland5498]

My main concern is that M harsh with my child. Very strict with the schedule. She probably hates it. But thank you so much for the excellent piece of information and advice. God bless you

[@pritigokani6921]

So true!!!! I think im inbetween. I have been wrong many a times but as a single mom have tried to makeup for the other parent too. I think i belong to the point where you mentioned abt being negative. Thanks for this video it Will help change the perspective.

[@priiyachand2011]

Thanks for ur wonderful videos sir it is helping me to understand my mistakes and how to be close to my kids .

[@rajyalaxmi5487]

Truly helpful... And surly very encouraging... Makes me happy to find out I'm trying to get a 50/50 or may be 60/40 balance with authority and friendliness with my 13 year old ....

[@priyankasundaraj8185]

Excellent speech.. I understood my mistakes... Thanks a lot

[@suganyahari1569]

Excellent 👍Also give some tips for handling husband who envys wife growth and constantly take some reason to cheat wife.

[@supriyajoshi9325]

Sir can you please make a video about parenting along with your in laws at home. Because with in laws at home kids they get pampered a lot and sometimes becomes difficult to manage them. Please please make a video how to handle this stress with inlaws ....

[@bhuvaneshwaris1298]

Sir same thing to be explained in Tamil is very very useful for Tamil parents.to apply and follow

[@daphnechris5720]

Thank you for your wise speech , it helps me, keep going

[@wolfgamere7059]

Sir u r doing great job, God bless you. Its really helpful.

[@shivani9239]

Thank u so much for making these vedios . Your suggestions are superb and help to understand our kids better

[@12380995]

Sir, awesome video, my daughter will be completing two in sept, I am very close to her but from last few months she is not ready to eat, don't want breakfast to eat, I mean to say kids do dat, so I am getting strict wen it comes to home food becose till now I have not given outside food, so I shout at that moment to her, I have to do that I think. Thank u

[@mugdhanaik7241]

Superb pointers and thanks for sharing the vital information!

[@allaboutfacts8389]

Plz make some vedio for adult who are going through stress of work and career and marriage that was forced by family

[@karthikarani4629]

Super

[@jenniferfernandes4239]

Thanks Shridhar. You are doing an amazing job. Parenting is a skill which I intend to get better on everyday basis. Your videos are very insightful and honest. Please continue the good work 👍🏻

[@babithabanahatti4593]

I could relate myself with this topic n could actually make out mistake that I was making. Thanks so much for your guidance

[@sakshijadhav3204]

You have explained very well all the nits and nags👍

[@DS-md5vd]

I can understand English but I am more comfortable with Hindi,Can u plz explain in Hindi sir .thank u

[@sudeshnam1672]

I am soooo impressed with the content of your video....