5 Attractive Things That Tell Men You Have Class | Mark Rosenfeld

[@footyfan101ful]

A classy man is a man that is respectful to the woman he is dating. He doesn't hurt her in anyway.

[@ava-jl1ll]

1: judgement free standards - still Show respect if you don’t agree with someone’s behavior. It’s ruling someone out if they don’t meet your standards/wants /values without any judgment. Just saying “that’s not for me but I wish them well.” 2. Clothing choices - classy clothing choices. Using posture etc and clothing choices to make classy choices with moderately covering clothes instead of using as little as possible. 3. Being unapologetic about your needs vs wants but never forceful - (without using words like “you need to, you have to, you should”). Never control a guy, allow him To step up or show you he’s not capable. 4. You put your values before tit-for-tat: you hurt me so I get to hurt you. Stick to your values even if you have to call someone out without tit for tat’ing them and hurting them back. Always put your values above any beef. 5) self-assurance: you don’t need to bring others down to affirm your value/make yourself look good.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks so much, Ava! x

[@llehsir]

A classy man to me is one that has integrity!!! So un-classy when I'm with a man who thinks it is cool or savvy to "get over" on someone or something

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Amen.❤

[@steffidoc]

Classy men to me are similar to classy women. I‘m impressed when a man can solve a conflict in an empathetic way. That is, he can set boundaries without putting the other person down. Having character and being honest is classy. A classy man would be open about his intentions with me and would tell me if he is interested in something casual or in a serious relationship. He treats people fairly even if it’s to his own detriment sometimes. Also a man with class does not ghost women, but he would instead break up in person, even if it‘s uncomfortable. This type of man doesn’t show off his wealth too obviously to impress women. He knows his value doesn’t come from his Porsche and his bank account is not the only thing he has to offer.

[@ChelsieMaxwell]

A classy man will never hit or call his woman names. He will be caring and thoughtful with his time and deeds and resources to others in need around him (in a way that doesn't take away from his own needs) whenever he can be helpful. But without expecting things or praise or acknowledgement in return. I think also that the heartfelt directness applies to men. When a man can be considerate of my feelings without "protecting them" (only to hurt them later on as the truth of some matter inevitably unfolds) i have so much respect for that and it deepens my love and trust.

[@AdrienneMint]

I really got a lot out of this, Mark. Sometimes it’s hard to do the right thing, but it’s so classy when you do!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Glad you did, A. Thanks for watching! x

[@AdrienneMint]

@@Markrosenfeld ❤️

[@truthful2293]

Wonderful video thank you. A classy man will hold the door open for his woman. Classy men will not allow other men to use curse words while their lady is present a classy man does not use, swear words to make a make an emphasis to portray his point. Classy men stay cool and collected in face of stress and stay in control of their emotions.

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Give thanks for what you are now, and keep fighting for what you want to be tomorrow.

[@nazia2151]

According to me a classy man is someone who cn garantee loyalty without being controlling n possessive bt being kind n understanding .... love ❤❤this vdo of ur ... frm India

[@yaqoub25]

When I think of classy, I think of Gregory Peck as Adicus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird. He made integrity look sexy.

[@tess7798]

Classy is getting your needs met and following your beliefs of right vs wrong, without detracting from others. Love it !

[@vandnasingh8262]

Absolutely agree:) Thank you. For men: FIRST & FOREMOST Mark you embody class!! Still I'll mention a few character traits which look good in men and women too ........1. Emotional equanimity - Never raising their voice in anger to put across a point - quieter the better in moments of conflict. 2, Calmness and a great sense of humour (in a sensible way) in diffusing tense/stressful situations 3. Humble/Humility is very attractive especially in highly successful and influential men but nonetheless in any man it is attractive. 4. Graceful in company i.e., a great sense of humour but no lewd/loud/boisterous comments ...good humorous ribbing is ok at times depending on the company. 5. Courteous ....I hope this helps:) ...Thank you

[@franchic9565]

"You'll get attention. It might not be the BEST attention...." The crux of this video's message! You're a class act, Mark. Great video and I'm re-reading your book! So many wonderful nuggets in there.

[@franchic9565]

P.S. Awesome shirt, BTW

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's very nice of you to say, Franchi! Thanks so much! And thank you for purchasing the book xx

[@Markrosenfeld]

@@franchic9565 🙏🙏

[@missclara779]

Self assuredness really hit me hard wooooow so true 👍

[@debcirillo9096]

I find a man who supports and encourages my indepent objectives, career, health, etc., allowing me growth & success, shows great respect. At the same time, when he checks to make sure I got home alright, or asks how I am - he'll win my vote for "most respectful". He should also be considerate enough to realize that my time is equally as valuable as his!

[@JessE-mr4yu]

Great video thank you for sharing. Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there 💜💥🧡💥❤️💥

[@jacquelynhoagland3371]

Judgment free standards...if I had judgemental about my boyfriend's shaggy beard, I would have missed out on a fantastic guy. When he did choose to shave it off, I told him, "I love being able to see that beautiful smile." He has since grown it out but keeps it trimmed. Dressing classy: I'm not one to dress with everything hanging out. I try to dress appropriately for the occasion or if I feel attractive in a particular outfit. I saw an opinion regarding your shirt. I have to say the skulls appeal to my edgy side. Love it. I guess overall, I'm learning how to get my needs met in a positive way. It really pays off. My guy surprised me with a few days at a resort today. So looking forward to that. So be POSITIVE & KIND in your interactions.

[@newchapterasmr]

I do most of these, good to know!

[@ArenaSoa]

That was a wonderful video, Mark!

[@Markrosenfeld]

🙏🙏

[@Moosewrites]

I agree with your points Mark! At the same time, laughing at the comment about how running an only fans business is easy. Definitely not an easy job!!

[@Markrosenfeld]

😂😂

[@rawgasmiclove]

For classy in a man, look no further than Mr Darcy (Matthew Macfadyen) ❤️ Pride & Prejudice...

[@GraceAndGlamour]

Made a lot of sense. Great tips

[@rezotydnic]

*Classy.* 1. Judgement free standards. 2. Clothing choices. 3. Being unapologetic but not forceful. 4. You put your values before title for tat. 5. Self assuredness. Being classy and getting my wants and needs met, is my weak area. I'm scared of rejection. Its because of the abuse/control in my past. Help.

[@debbieking911]

Please teach men how to be a true gentleman. Up their standards of honesty and thoughtfulness.

[@debramcmartin905]

My idea of a classy man is honest,looks after himself.,is not rude to people,confident,but not arrogant.

[@TaniaSeabock]

I needed to hear this!! Great message!

[@pikachocobo]

Classy = Not as common, has higher standards, respect for self

[@yessievillanueva1766]

Very helpful video, thank you for touching this subject 😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Glad you liked it, Yessie. Thank you for watching and writing in! x

[@melmarusha8073]

Thanks ⚘

[@taramco1110]

Of course man can be classy or not. And of course it probably appears similarly to how women present that way. Not forcing their opinions on others and being able to “agree to disagree” without aggression or arrogance, not having to tear others down or hurt others when their egos are hurt or to make themselves appear better, classy dress, having manners and being a gentleman, etc. Just being a respectful, humble human who honors his word.

[@kathyjimenez4370]

A classy man is protective of his woman! 😊

[@astrialias7605]

Hey Mark, could you please explain the item "Being unapolegitic... and never forceful" in more detail? I am not sure if i get it correctly. 😉

[@Chrissy.H]

I don’t think the word “class” fully encapsulates what a high value man is. I believe the word to be used is “dignified.”

[@shrinidhipatil335]

hey yo I just realised I have class

[@quanyintv]

I love that the guy with a button up skull tattoo wants to tell women how to be classy. Here's some advice ladies, you can't go wrong with black and a man whose compatible with you, will accept you the way you are. Don't try to pretend to be something you're not

[@Aztecadr]

To me a classy man does not shame anyone and does not talk badly about women even if they hurt him. A classy man does not gossip or initiate rumors. A classy man is not lazy and does not need/wait for anyone to figure things our for him. A classy man speaks the truth when he is dating, does not hide things to get her to say. I am married to a classy man❤

[@ahussain2790]

Classy people are also surrounded by classy people. Classy people are not trashy and will not tolerate trashy behaviour. It’s against their code of conduct. This means that your environment is very important. The classiest men and women, also come from classy families OR they have classy friends. You can be classy but you also need to be surrounded by people who understand that you are. For instance, if you’re eloquent, you can’t practice your eloquence if you’re surrounded by people who don’t understand it. If you’re surrounded by people who commit crimes against you and play you everyday, and don’t even understand what f off means, then you can’t be eloquent. You can’t be classy with your words or actions when dealing with criminals. The same goes for being well dressed. If people don’t understand that what you’re wearing is classy, then it doesn’t register. That’s why it’s important to reject the wrong company and accept the right company, who you can be yourself in front of and display your best talent in front of without being misunderstood or judged. So, if you’re a psycho go to a mental ward. If you’re not, find your own kind.

[@underconstruct2024]

Even a classy man can reveal himself by evidences to be a player who only wants to entertain himself with a woman's nativity. While the woman simply feels anxious and unsafe with his mysteriousness and ambiguities.

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Audrey Hepburn❤

[@ashjade86]

Brilliant

[@IsabelLi-cd7kx]

Not looking at your phone during dinner or other social settings.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hahaha yep important!

[@underconstruct2024]

A classy man will look for ways to apologize to you. He'll never blame you for doing what you had to do to stay sane and stay safe.😂

[@underconstruct2024]

I want to be sassy, always, not just when it feels right. How do you moderate sassy? Relational aggression from a woman to a man might be ok with some men, but it gives me a bad after taste. I don't want to stonewall when I'm offended. I don't even want to be offended! I want to be sassy and keep breaking that ice!!!

[@aleksandrakettner905]

❤️

[@debramcmartin905]

I am.endeavouring to be that classy woman some man is looking for. I just don't know how to.dress for my body type.And I am not really confident.

[@christinejones3314]

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[@liztowers2058]

I'm dating a sigma male...he's all class.

[@liztowers2058]

@Cherise Daniels nooo kidding...took me a while to adjust. LoL

[@lisapagliari9232]

If Only Fans isn't classy, why do so many men seem to follow it?

[@BetterTogether300]

'early fans ' is what?

[@Markrosenfeld]

'Only' fans ;)

[@kamfan80]

🇦🇺💖🇦🇺

[@amnahabbas1877]

"EYE FOR AN EYE" is a rule of life if you hurt someone be afraid that that person has the right to hurt you back. EYE for and eye rule is to STOP you from hurting someone. If I am scared of losing eye, why would I hurt anyone else, and therfore if we all stand by this rule, no one will harm the other knowing kt can come back to us. I find the remark eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind, the most half witted and dumb thing ever said

[@jeanettemena1286]

True. I find the quote self-righteous . Just be careful getting revenge on a Narcissist. They’ll retaliate much harsher so sometimes it’s best to walk away.

[@underconstruct2024]

The only tit for tat that is ok, is being in a healthy relationship.

[@heidilehman9009]

#1 Classy lady IMO is Melania Trump!! These are great points to follow. I definitely do not like an unclassy guy. No thank you!

[@cosmicshy637]

💜

[@rezotydnic]

Melania Trump? Classy? How can she be Classy when she's married to the least Classy person alive?

[@brokenpiecesmovement6449]

Wonderful video. But not at at all impressed at ur continuous attempt to bring down Meghan Markle and elevate Kate Middleton. The video would have been better received by a diverse group of people if u kept their family struggles out of it. Trying to undermine the pain and effect of the racist treatment she received really gives a not so great picture of u as a person

[@user-wi2nd2nq8m]

I think what he said is very accurate and a great example! I think she keeps using the race card and hurt that family as a whole, what about the fact that the queen was hurt and other family members. Its needs to be called out more often!

[@wisteria4981]

Definitely not Micheal obozo🤯

[@em77775]

🤣

[@glion7792]

Obama? lol

[@cynthiaarons9373]

Obama, classy???? 🤮🤮🤮

[@debramcmartin905]

From what I have seen Michelle Obama,she has class. She always dresses nicely and speaks well,for a start.