5 Body Language Rules To Read Anyone INSTANTLY! | Robert Greene

[@stellarhope6954]

1. attune to their energy, or emotions, an overall feel. 2. their eyes 3 their voice 4 their smile 5 body language, positioned towards or away 6 detect first micro expession - approach from side

[@eliseross6885]

Feel the energy and experience their essence... Your eyes will lie, your thoughts and their words are spells. There is only souls and soulless.... The light and the dark..

[@SoTiredoftheToxicBS]

I use the term..dead eyes! I notice that and leave! My mom had a saying..actions speak louder than words! Watch them!

[@Funnyfunnyfrenchfry]

Spot on​@@eliseross6885

[@donwrinkles717]

Thanks. I'm outta here! 🏃‍♂️ 💨

[@valcurley5010]

Watching body language was how I quit smoking decades ago. I noticed that I wanted a cigarette only in the company of other people so I needed another habit to replace it. Watching people totally worked!

[@julieterrell1973]

Ima try this!

[@gustavo15798]

Interesting. I've struggled to quit smoking for years. I also enjoy observing people's body language. I'll try to change my mindset in this way.

[@BEFREE3]

Its tough, especially when you want to genuinely trust everyone. observe observe observe. I love watching people when they dont think anyone is watching. tells you everything about that person.

[@tommymarco]

Smart !

[@Beardybuds888]

I feel someone energy and 9/10 I’m right about them

[@thecarolineway555]

scary how right he is and how we deny how right we are about our intuition....specially when folks who are good at at deceiving are good with smoking mirrors and creating illusions.

[@dary369]

Once thinking is involved, the intuitive knowing is already gone.

[@Ot-ej5gi]

@@dary369 Right, so analyze them AFTER meeting them.

[@austinhobson5489]

RG has completely changed my life. I’m ready Stoicism and it’s just as good as all his books.

[@farooqbinadam]

There is a fine line between someone not being present when you’re talking them and it being narcissism, and someone having ADHD.

[@wakegary]

sorry, what?

[@vanessita4138]

Or someone with Asperger's.

[@liljohnson3413]

ADHD can definitely make you not be able to listen sometimes , we get bored so fast so if the conversation seems shallow then we zone out

[@Steve24527]

I got rid of a fake best friend recently after 17 years of untrustworthy treatment and disrespect

[@te9591]

This kind of thing is hard because you erase the mutual memories that might help define your sense of self. But remember, some of the greatest abusers mix affection and disrespect to confuse you. A true ally may challenge you but not disrespect your boundaries.

[@Malaakies]

Me too I just found out that who I thought was my best friend sister and all was only a jock and that I was a fool for almost 18 years she was only using me and wanted me down cus I saw the joy and happiness in her eyes when I was depressed in had many shocked and problems ,but now that I’m back to my feet she’s playing the bestie again

[@rellj8611]

I did the same. Nearly 20 years. I had given grace to them for way too long.

[@Carolina-r2z1i]

Me too on 1st of this year,after 20 years of best friendship and learning about narcissism

[@Steve24527]

@@Malaakies Don’t let her back. She doesn’t deserve you

[@gretchenburton7184]

The energy of deception. I feel it in my body.

[@ritaauld3331]

Love these shorts. Thankyou. I want to watch all your interviews but dont have the time. Now I can choose.

[@observingsystem]

Funny what he says, in Dutch we say "waar je mee omgaat, daar wordt je mee besmet", which means basically "what you associate with will infect you". Yes, very true. Some people are unlucky and have a lot of bad things happening in life and still maintain a level of optimism and kindness. Some people go around in life leaving a trail of debris in their wake and complain about how hard they have it all the time. It's important to know the difference, their attitudes often give it away and otherwise: look at the debris.

[@Universal_Knowledge369]

I'm a bit "nuts" not when it comes to relationships. I have a wife and kids and many associates but practically no friends. Probably because I go on and on about government propaganda, fluoride in the water and chemicals in our food etc 😂

[@Rudimentary007]

I’m right there with you.👍😂💪🙏🏼

[@sollovinlion]

💚 this.

[@TheFoodie77]

some people are genetically predisposed to believe in conspiracy theories. try studying more about the scientific method and critical thinking? it can be hard to decipher real threats these days though I agree

[@phoenixrisin2269]

💪

[@household6098]

​@@TheFoodie77 Conversely, some people are also predisposed to thinking, whereas most people are not - regardless of how much evidence you put in front of them. The tricky part is seeing the difference between those who do think and question and people who are prepared to believe anything just so long as it is controversial. In the eyes of mainstream media though, those 2 types of people are one and the same.

[@sharonadams9721]

The best negotiators watch body language first & only listen to speech second. 80% of what we convey is done through body language.

[@TheyCallMeJesse]

Robert Greene - the big brother everyone wished they had.

[@gearldinepoteat2482]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@beyondfitrd]

Please interview Stephen Porges, or Seth Porges, regarding Polyvagal Theory for insights about how our nervous systems “read” each other for clues of safety and coregulation.

[@mariepetterson7281]

The best way to get a genuine smile is to think of something genuinely funny.

[@rowan7658]

If you have to do that then by definition it isn’t a genuine smile 🙄

[@observingsystem]

@@rowan7658 It becomes problematic when people don't know the difference, huh?

[@richardgregory2020]

1. Emotions/ Feelings 2. Eyes 3. Voice/ Tones 4. Smile 5. Body language

[@faysalAub]

I’m going to dislike your comment because I want to

[@claudiamanta1943]

Do NOT sneak up on me and startle me when you see me working on something. I’ve been told my look could pierce and shred your very soul. Translation of my look- Is there anyone dying? No. Is the building burning? No. Then, why do you interrupt me? No, I don’t have your loud attention span of 2 seconds and no, I am not rude like you. I, actually, desperately try to do some real work.

[@Steve24527]

Excellent analysis

[@DươngĐìnhKhoa]

It's crazy how nobody is talking about the banned body language eBook Arcane Stance

[@bonkoo5978]

What is that book about?

[@essiebee3187]

People who are on the autistic spectrum find it hard to make eye contact and can be uncomfortable with one to one conversations. A friend of mine only just found out she is on the spectrum she is 61. years old. She always knew something was different and would often ask why she did things that were not 'normal'.Statistic show there are far more people who haven't been diagnosed especially those in their 40s -60s since neuro divergent conditions were not being studied like they are now. It might be wiser to consider whether someone is neuro divergent rather than anything sinister or weird.

[@matildafaltyn6253]

@jessiebee3187 - no there is too much pathologising human behaviour like the dumb ADHD diagnosis when most of the time it’s just frustrated boredom and excess energy. Diagnosing everyone just eliminates differences between people and makes them bland.

[@essiebee3187]

@@matildafaltyn6253 not sure how you can make a statement like that unless you have statistics. I would not say most of the time, I could only speak on my experience.

[@matildafaltyn6253]

@@essiebee3187 There used to be a saying, "lies and statistics" - when people weren't as dumbed down as they are today. Just because 5 people out of 10 in your street catch a cold doesn't mean your chance of catching a cold is 50%. Why? Because people are not exactly the same when it comes to their health. If they were, THEN you could assume you have a 50% chance. Use common sense instead. People can fix themselves, like poor attention span, if they just make sustained and consistent effort. The brain is exactly like a muscle. The more you use it the fitter it gets.

[@superkb172]

Lol, the internet is filled with opinions and everyone has one: There are many different types of nonverbal communication or body language include: Facial expressions. The human face is extremely expressive, able to convey countless emotions without saying a word. ... Body movement and posture. ... Gestures. ... Eye contact. ... Touch. ... Space. ... Voice. ...

[@WillBrooks-h9d]

People can be fake! Their face ,voice, Good Byes! Concentrate on oddities! Thanks Sir R.Greene!🙂

[@Gods-warrior.forever]

That "less than a second" moment, I often use it and From there, I know we've got nothing

[@zoecoote3746]

Robert Green is a fantastic writer and has a degree in literature. It’s important when presenting people as experts that you identify that this is the persons personal opinion and not based research, education and personal experience. He is saying sone absolutes here. My neighbour could do the same thing.

[@JoeMaama190]

Wow,so r u concluding that,bcuz he's a fantastic writer, he doesnt have any personal experiences or hasn't made research (for characterdriven material) that leads to expertise -- & all this bcuz u have personal experiences with fantastic writers that leads to u knowing how they as a demographic work? Or r u just saying something that ur neighbor told u?

[@sannajohanna5579]

I think that people who understand animals, also ubderystandt the humans. I feel wonderful when I know that I can communicate with my cats. I know eacrly what they need. They ”talk” to me and I undersand it. It is wonderful! And I’ve met foxes nearby. I keep my cats safe, in any way. 😮

[@donnabu]

5:42 So I knew someone like this. Theyre mostly seem like the charming narcissists Ive met. One of them was a doctor (psychiatrist to be specific) and I think he was the worst one… This doctor who was close friends with my s.o. are sadly not close anymore. He was always seen as competitive, he seemed to gossip about his other friends to us alot. He ended up being someone completely different from the person I thought he was, and I wasn’t aware of the signs at all.

[@coffeeli4417]

I had one in my family. Devastating.

[@MaitLember]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *🕵️ Understanding Body Language and Non-verbal Communication* - Reading non-verbal communication involves attuning oneself to others' emotions and overall vibe. - Specific cues like eye contact, tone of voice, and smiles provide insights into people's emotions and intentions. - Body language, including posture and facial expressions, can reveal genuine feelings or deception. 05:00 *🔄 Importance of Surrounding Yourself with the Right People* - Surrounding oneself with the right people is crucial for personal and professional success. - Beware of individuals who spread negativity or drama, as they can infect others with their negative energy. - Seek out confident and proactive individuals who inspire positivity and productivity. Made with HARPA AI

[@balpreetsingh4445]

Sir Robert Greene at 3:07… When you know you have it all😎

[@OopsiDazie]

l choose solidarity for this v reason. In my selective view - silence has always spoken the loudest. Besides that, the truth about most is usually masked and there is no real authenticity because this mostly feels like an imposter or otherwise known as fake. It’s uncomfortable. It also,spikes my nerves and my sensitive BS radar.

[@Eudaimonia88]

Robert Greene - as unscientific as his argumentation is, based entirely on perception and gut instinct - fits perfectly with the theme and intellectual standard of Diary of a CEO.

[@AnujShaw-u5f]

Are you trying to mock him? I'm not offended or anything, just curious

[@Eudaimonia88]

​@@AnujShaw-u5f I'm not mocking anybody. I simply stated the obvious.

[@AtomicZ73]

Same??....

[@Telle875]

Words: Trauma, autism, annoyance, interference, toxic positivity, self control. I’m sorry but while some of this is relevant a lot is not!!! You have to know the person, your own person, what is happening situationally, variance in situations etc!! If people smiled all the time that’s a problem. If people smile when you’ve just sucked punched them that’s a problem. Also to say you don’t want to be around insecure people, most psychopaths are very secure!! Probably don’t want to be around those either. I’m sorry but I personally don’t take this guy seriously.

[@alaalfa8839]

As some say superiority is a sign of inferiority.That the pesron uses aggression to hide his/her insecurities. They just look confident.

[@John-rb3yv]

Yeah fuck this emotionally perfecy guy lol

[@jeanleduy9923]

Summary In this video, Robert Greene reveals techniques for interpreting body language to better understand people's intentions and feelings. He emphasizes the significance of non-verbal cues in communication, and illustrates how observing gestures, facial expressions, and posture can provide insights into someone's character and emotions. Key Points Understanding Body Language 00:00 Robert Greene introduces the concept of reading body language as an essential skill for understanding others and enhancing communication. 01:30 He explains that non-verbal cues often convey more than spoken words, and highlights the importance of being attentive to these signals. 03:00 ​Greene stresses that learning to decipher gestures can provide not only insights into people's emotions but also their true intentions.​ Importance of Observation 05:00 Greene encourages viewers to practice keen observation in social interactions to detect subtle behavioral nuances. 06:45 He mentions the utility of gestures such as arm crossing or leaning back as indicators of defensiveness or openness, linking these physical states to emotional contexts. 09:15 Observing a person's face, particularly their eyes and mouth, is crucial as these features can often indicate their mood or level of engagement in a conversation. Practical Applications 12:00 Greene shares practical tips on how to apply body language reading in various scenarios, such as negotiations or social encounters. 14:30 He highlights the significance of context in interpreting body language correctly, advising caution when making assumptions based solely on gestures. 16:00 The video concludes with Greene’s message to viewers to continually refine their skills in observing and interpreting body language to enhance their interactions and understanding of others.

[@DouBBy-The-Great]

I smiled too when Robert smiled 😂

[@scorpiohughes2383]

So did I

[@Betterworldforyou.]

Great episode to come .

[@Sjsjhxjsdhsusydh]

eye they never lie 🖤

[@janhirahara9001]

I look 👀 I see ..I hear 👂 🔥🔥🔥Ty 🙏♥️♥️♥️☮️

[@Irisseesall]

It's a MULTI FACETED ANALYSIS* People with little to no understanding of compassion/empathy can not gauge others. Authenticity supersedes and trips up the dishonest.

[@AidanDoesStocks]

He should write a whole book on body language

[@RecreationalUseOnly]

Stay away from Pro Victims who are constantly complaining about their “ex narcs” and gossiping.

[@jessejarrett8981]

As if him almost running out of the court room after the incomplete verdict wasn't all the proof needed. The body language gave it away. I was told it would be addressed there was no need to wait. Her mom and I agreed on a schedule in mediation and another schedule was introduced at some point. After having proven so many lies in original paperwork it should have been addressed. Sending a kid to spy on a parent was twisted. She said she asked what she could do to get a little more time with her mother. All she had to do was ask for one more weekend. I would have had more time to live an adult life. I didn't just drop her off at moms and do as I please.

[@sallykins3800]

Interesting

[@chachatruth]

I cant lie I tell you before conversation is over

[@FunLifeTransform]

He doesn’t know anything about trauma people that suffer from CPTSD and narcissistic abuse tend to attract the same kind of abusive people until they get therapy. They have to learn mechanisms in their belief systems that need to change to stop at those type of people. So Robert Greene is making money off of some observations, but there’s more to it than that.

[@lorilynnahrends5464]

RG is very helpful and I appreciate him. But one thing I need to say. Please stop advising people to walk up to the side or to the back of people to ‘test’ their reaction. People who have been SA d and or abused will be triggered by that. Anyone with CPTSD will….Such as a vet who might have it. It can set them into fight, flight, or freeze. It can set off high heart rates and body shakes. Surprising/frightening someone like this is mean, bullying, and unnecessary behavior simply to ‘test’ if someone likes you or not. Thank you

[@mp37390]

If I actually tried to follow this man's analysis process, I would rapidly become deeply paranoid and probably psychotic.

[@stevenjohns-savage7024]

Predatory gaze. Like the vibration off the person 😊

[@shankarbalakrishnan2360]

So much about lying people write about genuine people haha ❤❤🎉🎉spare me

[@x_MrYAYA_x]

❤

[@a_gdia2300]

What happen to his left arm?

[@nickyw4669]

He had a stroke

[@Shannon_Robbie]

@@nickyw4669 Perhaps that's why his voice sounds hoarse.

[@allentubman8052]

He's talking about my ex....pay attention to your gutt energy when you're dealing with people. I saw this and tried to ignore it.

[@Taranis2b]

Cool, I’m insecure. Good to know, people should be avoiding. They are very successful, so far.

[@aryankarki7900]

🙏🙏🙏

[@thenatureofnurture6336]

This guy is like a first year student at the bar after lecture

[@cindyrodriguez689]

I wonder what he said triggered you

[@forapps9364]

I had that. I approached at a 45° angle and then quickly looked back and I saw the look of disgust. It was so heartbreaking for me because she has such a lovely personality. Everyone likes her and she seems to know the perfect thing to say in any situation. What is particularly hard for me is that she HAS everything. A good husband who makes enough to support her and their two children. A beautiful home in a beautiful neighborhood. A pretty nice family - a huge one that makes Christmas, Easter, etc, chaotic and fun. She's a gifted writer, and she's gorgeous. Beautiful blonde hair, pretty blue eyes, gorgeous smile. Me? Her coworker hired me because I was trainable, and that's true - I can learn just about anything. I struggle with writing, but I'm getting better. I learned html, access databases, the nuances of social media, and much more without taking classes (I do have 3 degrees). I don't have any family. My husband is dying and his children are mad that he left me the house. The house will be used to pay his medical bills. Anyway, I don't have a lot going for me but why this coworker that everyone likes, doesn't like me is hard to take some days. I don't have a pet that's happy to see me at the end of the day. My brother is dead, and he didn't have kids. My husband is fading away into his terminal illness. All my friends are spread out over the country because my dad and later, my first husband traveled and moved every two years. I never had children because of pcos. Like I said, I don't have anything except 1 thing. Everyone sees it too. There's nothing I can do to hide it. It's not my fault. I guess I could gain weight, wear oversized clothes, ditch makeup, not style my hair. I like these girls so much and wish I could be a part of their club but I'm missing the supportive family, the kids, the husband that's not dying and the "cool" factor. I guess my 36 DDDD breasts get in the way too. Do you think it's that- the big boobs? Maybe I'm too nice and maybe they don't want to be friends with someone who likes them.

[@lauriegoforth8631]

It sounds like a character flaw on her part and I wouldn’t trust her after that. Don’t blame yourself. What’s not to like? You seem like you would be a lovely friend. She likely has something else going on that has nothing to do with you. But trust that look you saw. ❤

[@forapps9364]

Thanks. I appreciate your response. I'll never forget that look of disgust she had for me and the mad scramble to cover it up. I'm trying to switch hours so I don't have to work with her too much.

[@forapps9364]

@lauriegoforth8631 Thanks, Laurie. I pretended not to see it but I can never forget it. It was like seeing a monster under a Barbie mask. I smile and say hi every day, but I will not offer or ask for any help on a project if it means dealing with her.

[@lauriegoforth8631]

@@forapps9364 sounds like a manipulation. I just went through a similar situation with my oldest sister and finally went ‘no contact’ with her. It feels so great to be free of that weight that I did the same with someone who’s been in my life as a friend for a couple decades. His behavior towards me became completely mean and bizarre. I kept making excuses for them both. If they choose to apologize, we can talk. But they won’t unless a miracle occurs. I hope you’re able to emotionally detach from this gal soon. ❤️

[@3rty7]

Everyone got issues, even you son 🤔

[@hamiamiam]

I don’t take Greene seriously

[@sissi5598]

Why?

[@saar237]

Ya please elaborate

[@AngAng-z6t]

Why?

[@hamiamiam]

He has no education on the topic. He also has no credentials on this topic. And now if you listen to what he says in this video, on this topic, it is not relevant nor smart, nor eyes opening. He doesn’t say much here except some very common things. I usually doubt all those selfhelp writers whose success has only been to write a book about how to do things, but not really doing them themselves. I’d put Jordan Peterson in the same category. Just cause you say something in front of a camera with a lot of confidence, does not make it true, does not make you a specialist on the topic.

[@AngAng-z6t]

@@hamiamiam You might be right, you might not be right. Education is one part of things, experience is another. To me personally experience is first. I find his conclusions true because I have experienced most of things he is talking about. Also I can think of many examples where educated people are shaped by a system, that serves certain interests. So, I understand your argument, but I don’t agree with it. It’s your choice to accept what he says or not, but your opinion won’t change mine. My opinion is a choice I make and that is the beauty of experience :)

[@eriamhsl3841]

Lol good luck w nuerodivergent peeps .

[@ukaszpospiech3817]

The CEO's pronunciation is very poor.

[@sadatt7584]

Thats what narc does, pointing out other's mistakes 😮

[@MostlySteve]

Imagine meeting this guy and he's just staring at you trying to read your body language thinking he's clever...ugh

[@oliversmith7820]

You think you've got it all worked out but you don't

[@minkeekat]

😂drama llamas, works for either genders

[@HyeinJungFlanagan]

His body language. He seems like he is in pain. Poor guy.

[@island661]

I can read people in one second.

[@sticks2478]

I can do it in 0.9 of a second

[@karentonks7581]

You'd know if they'd had a death? Their history? Their health? Their thoughts? If they're married? Their career choice or job status? Their age? Their sexual orientation? Their I.Q, Whether they are taking prescription medication? Their mental health? Their financial situation? Their sleeping habits? What they eat?Whether they have good brain health? Whether they are suffering mental health issue's? Whether they are being bullied? In domestic violence? Traumatised by something? ..I could go on and on..but you can read someone in 1 second? You can't do that because no person can do that. Your brain just makes short cuts. Maybe your intuitive nature can indicate good from bad energy buy even that can't always be accurate and then energy changes depending on so many variables

[@island661]

@@karentonks7581 Apparently you know it all, Karen. 🥴 And yes, I can see a lot when I look at people. Does that intimidate you?

[@karentonks7581]

@@island661 I think I just provided evidence as to how we cam not know it all. That means none of us. No it doesn't intimate me because it's not a pure absolute truth. I understand the intuitive side of human nature but even that can be flawed given all the variables I mentioned...in other word's..The human brain is limited , then there are biases. Count me in on the not knowing everything but I will question everything. OK, tell me how you read someone in 1 second?

[@island661]

@@karentonks7581 Speak on your own flaws. I'm sure people can read me too. There's nothing to debate here. But keep on trying to prove something...

[@marykinsella417]

The eyes have it Hmm body language 😂❤

[@JayashreeSreedharan]

Double faced. Carry ing something in the mind speaking sweet things people please r. Run away from such ones

[@poenieratqueen-hz6hu]

Yall got no hobbies

[@alaskalograft]

Bullshit

[@phanquiAuc]

the most shocking book I read on body language is the banned eBook Arcane Stance

[@tpens]

❤