5 CLEAR Signs She Is Seeing SOMEONE Else

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

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[@antuancooper6716]

What if you married and these things are going on what’s your philosophy on that??

[@user-ln3dr1rv7o]

Questions I wanna ask you about personally when you have time please give me a shout

[@GMCTIM]

Its a Challenge for a Woman to cheat & NOT get caught ! She's NOT yours, its just your turn ! 🤔

[@Layerlol]

When you feel that something is off, Dont involve your feelings. Protect your heart.

[@a-port9997]

Agree

[@gloryBE-o1w]

easy said than done

[@NegusUchiha]

Of all the comments… this one feels the most sense

[@classicrocker889]

Never go against Your Gut Feeling !!!!! If you feel someone is Cheating from deep inside . Don't Go Against your Gut Feeling !!!!!

[@benjaminbuttin3451]

REALTALK

[@MrNanah38]

What if your gut feeling is wrong?

[@bjsheppard4597]

​@MrNanah38 you never wrong listening to your own self I feel like. Your own genuine self, u can't go wrong w how u feeling

[@4363HASHMI]

@@MrNanah38nasty people do nasty things

[@Woody2Times]

@@MrNanah38even if she isn’t cheating it could be other reasons that you just didn’t know about or, just didn’t consider to be deal breakers “not cooking, being lazy, needing too much attention etc”

[@drjlm34]

5 CLEAR Signs She Is Seeing SOMEONE Else 1. She is seeing someone else 2. She is extremely private 3. She starts acting funny 4. She stops putting effort into the relationship 5. She doesn't bring you into her world

[@retsej515]

Thanks for the outline. Your saved me a lot of wasted time.

[@fattyskan2]

😢

[@johnathangreay987]

I always knew everything was in the phone.

[@angiesnipes7443]

the part that says he or she is hanging on to the marriage but moved on with someone else in the dark. that is holding the other person hostage. and he didn't allow me on his page because he was doing a lot and disrespectful shit.

[@obailey973]

​@@retsej515that is not accurate. Glad I continued watching.

[@BasilFJ19]

She's not yours, its just your turn. know your worth kings.

[@MrJaysoul13]

Fact

[@lisheltonanderson8645]

Facts, get your passport

[@sp_staytatted3799]

Amen💯

[@stanmoney8470]

True reality!

[@jaykisuke3397]

Gems right there

[@tramayneharris7044]

Most women tell on their self and play crazy when you bring it up what’s done in the dark always comes to the light …

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@benniebaber1380]

Bull shit I lived in the dark for years and it still ain't came to light

[@tramayneharris7044]

@@benniebaber1380 you was blind to it that’s why lol

[@coollibra3644]

​@@benniebaber1380thats because you don't want to know. I was in the dark too but I started to pay attention and caught her.

[@DucAnh263]

got cheated on once. she came back and said she's terribly sorry and that was the biggest mistake of her life. life was great after that for 2 years. then this year things hit me hard. dad got cancer, financial situation gets real bad, can't provide for her no more. started seeing these signs. then BOOM, break up out of nowhere. doesnt mention anyone, but after some time i found out she has been keeping her eyes on some other guys. she didn't date this guy until she broke up with me - i think she did this to feel less guilty and not to consider it "cheating". now after only 3 weeks of the relationship they moved in, having sex, doing all the things that me and her were doing. lesson here is: never take back a cheater, no matter how much remorse they show you. eventually, it will happen again guaranteed.

[@Lordinfamous91]

Move on bro

[@enjinman]

You were dumb enough to take her back that’s on you .

[@natas12rm]

I had one that bought me hallmark cards. Yep she did it again after, probably like 5 more times.😂😂😂

[@naaopoku]

trust me.... she did it more than once. It was just a matter of time for a Reoccurrence. Run for your wife. She did it not because u stopped providing or things got tougher for you.... it always her nature

[@RevealedFilms]

If you take her back it proves to her you lack self respect and lack options.

[@InflamedGut]

Another sign is if she suddenly starts dressing differently, or having another style. It's possible because of the influence and interest from the guy she's seeing

[@JesseEdwards-d1x]

Or stops smiling as much as she used to wen she sees you

[@anointedone1995]

As a woman, I can confirm that I do focus on my appearance more when interested in a man

[@yawillykwily7179]

a lot of us man, are too nice, gullible, lacking options to walk away from bad relationship. Some Men hang on to false hope that she change and turn around. Best way is to have the strength and conviction to walk away without any further discussion. Just leave her alone, move on to better things in life.

[@ernestagyemang-botchway108]

Married for 15years and I saw these signs play out just like you saying and I just had to walk away,Trust ur instincts, when u feel it ,90% of the time its actually happening .

[@Icebgriz]

BET YOU WANT GET MARRIED AGAIN THATS THE ONLY GAME A FEMALE PLAYS AND WINS MARRIAGE SHE CANT EVEN WIN ON CHILD SUPPORT MOST DON'T NO THE NAMES OF THE BABIES DADDIES

[@entrthedragon]

You ever find out?

[@gouzanzei254]

I'm curious too. Did she deny ?

[@Megoo1]

200%

[@oneloveoneheartonedestination]

😂😂​@@Megoo1

[@antilaw9911]

They pull away and have excuses all the time. Very easy to read behavior actions

[@Tarantulisimo]

EVERY woman is simultaneously texting a squad of assorted exes, friend-zoners, work hubbies, old crushes, former flames, bar buddies, gym pals, guy friends, & past booty calls at the same time that she's supposedly talking to YOU -- and you're supposed to be OK with all that, otherwise she'll label you as controlling & jealous & not wanting her to have any friends...classic guilt-trip & manipulation

[@hungtung-nn1kr]

💯

[@SexiiLexxii]

❤ no lies told

[@dark196]

Urgh, exactly my case with my girlfriend right now. I said it wasn't appropriate to be hanging out and messaging her past f buddy. She called me jealous, controlling, and manipulative. And said she didn't need my permission to talk to her friends.

[@SexiiLexxii]

@@dark196 leave her asap. She’s still getting it in with that person. She already gave you reasons not to be with her. Why stick around? Never be that desperate. This is coming from my own experience of ignoring the red flags 🚩

[@Tarantulisimo]

@@dark196 And there it is...Trust me my man, it's never gonna change, so don't think,hope, or pray that it is.....so you can either deal with it & TRY to act like you don't care & are cool with it (which is BS to have to do), put up with it (& get high blood pressure), or bounce. Relationships are SUPPOSED to be about compromise & sacrifice from BOTH people, not just the guy. I know you will probably get the urge to play along with the game too & start messaging or hanging out with one of YOUR old booty calls, but then she's gonna use that against you too & say that you are deliberately trying to make her mad or start a fight

[@a2a918]

Get in that gym and stay in it. Never leave it. That's your real woman

[@kjthomas4553]

Facts

[@MrNanah38]

Stay in the gym? Silly

[@Sgtvalentini]

Why? So I can watch females lift 10 lbs and get showered with attention and hate me for existing

[@oneofthoseguys2019]

Just gym bro

[@Bruglie]

@@MrNanah38that gym is just a solace from reality

[@Tarantulisimo]

men always get the bad rap when it comes to phones, but there are so many women who move more shady & sneaky with theirs than most guys

[@chinadoll534]

Not true!!! Men are the dominant ones in regards to cheating

[@Tarantulisimo]

@@chinadoll534 nah that's the great myth -- that it's always the men who cheat. i will grant you that maybe men do cheat sexually more than women, but women always got various men they are flirting with, texting with, keeping their eye on...

[@mrsam3267]

Most Smart women don’t Cheat with their phones cos they know you can easily hack their phones. They cheat through Google docs on their Pc’s and Encode it so you can’t Decipher it unless u are Tech Savvy

[@BLOCSTARRENT]

Check her phone

[@chaucerparks1713]

AN ACTUAL AND FACTUAL MESSAGE..💯💯💯✌

[@mrstanbmw]

There an old saying "love is blind but the neighbors aren't " sometimes your mom, close friend can see things you can't take heed to what they are saying sometimes

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@antoniodavid2253]

Exactly!

[@markour-parkour1918]

If you caught her and confronted, there is no explanation or talking, you are GONE.

[@Tarantulisimo]

Women never make that big exit move until they get their "new situation" locked in place, so YES they will keep guy #1 as a security blanket/fallback until they pull the eject button -- and then to add insult to injury, they still want to be friends with the dude they just dumped, in case the new situation goes south....

[@gaming4life713]

Soo true

[@alegnarolyart5133]

Not this woman.

[@averyt6521]

​@@alegnarolyart5133where you at? We need to talk.

[@weareallbeingwatched4602]

Only one of my girlfriends was a coward and never spoke of what was really going on. The rest were openly bitchy, and I respect these women far more. Don't hide what you do / are, simple really. Cheating is acting A while doing B.

[@mrquick6775]

@@alegnarolyart5133The exception proves the rule.. so you one in a million unicorn 🤔 yea right!

[@therealliveguy]

Also...always keeps her phone face down, accuses you of cheating when you make it a point to be solid with her all the time, her life revolves around social media and need for outside validation, starts random fights on days y'all are supposed to hang out (assuming she don't live with you)

[@NebulauxPrhyme1979]

Dealing with someone like that now 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@ReddFoxx165]

Smfh ! This is coming from a whole NARCISSIST WHO CAN'T ACCEPT ACCOUNTABILITY AFTER HE GETS CAUGHT TEXTING WOMEN BEHIND MY BACK EVEN IF I HAVE THE PROOF . YOU HAVE NEVER CAUGHT ME CHEATING AND THATS BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON YOU. YOU STAY DISRESPECTING ME ALL OVER SOCIAL MEDIA TELLING LIES, FLIRTING WITH WOMEN , MESSAGING WOMEN AND I still show you LOYALTY! SOMEONE CLOSE TO ME SEEN THIS COMMENT FROM YOU UP HERE AND SENT IT TO MY PHONE ASKING ISN'T THIS MY LYING CHEATING HUSBAND ? HE'S ON YT PLAYING THE VICTIM AGAIN ‼️ THIS IS EMBARRASSING AF ‼️ AND WHILE IM TYPING THIS ,YOURE LAID UP ON MY RED ASS HOLDING ME FROM BEHIND. LET THE WORLD NO HOW YOU CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF ME ‼️😂 ( TOXIC ASS ) I HAVE EYES EVERYWHERE TOLD YOU THAT LMAO.. STOP TELLING LIES RA ,YOU PLAYING YOURSELF INFRONT OF PEOPLE WHO KNOW US BOTH ON A PERSONAL LEVEL.. STOP SEEKING VALIDATION FROM STRANGERS ON SOCIAL MEDIA. YOU NEED HELP SIR. ​@@NebulauxPrhyme1979

[@ackeemwilson1148]

​@@NebulauxPrhyme1979 Run

[@therealliveguy]

@EricLashawn sorry to hear that brotha. Shit sucks but you will learn over time that God is doing you a favor. Let her go and do NOT let her crocodile tear her way back in.

[@superflyyeddie940]

I left because I need my peace of mind … sneaky 😏 … and lying 🤥 .. couldn’t deal with it …

[@tikalmains-xi6yg]

Just leave don’t let any confused woman ruin your peace of mind.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*When she’s emotionally checked out, you’ll notice less interest in sharing moments, fewer deep conversations, and a general sense of disconnection. That’s often a clear sign her attention is elsewhere.*

[@SteezeThePlug]

Man relationships just ain’t worth it these days. Rather just be single lol

[@POPJack1717]

Same bro. I just dropped my gym crush who I was official with all of 1.5 weeks. She felt the need to invite me to Salsa night with literally 7 dudes who she claimed were "friends". Then she did some disrespectful shit that night that caused me to leave her. Being single is so stress free and I can do whatever the fck I want and I can sleep well at night not worrying if a significant other is cheating on me. I'm almost done with dating.

[@grantberdell4872]

Big facts

[@82jakesteed52]

Exactly!! Relationships are becoming extincted in the near future.

[@gloryBE-o1w]

@@82jakesteed52 love hurts , it can send you in a world of depression , especially if your so called mate is playing head games , NO DAMN THANKS

[@bradmiller7741]

Yup .. get everybody else, girl ‼️ & still have yo freedom, relationships only benefits them

[@abdouldieng3317]

You're spot on. The 2 relationships where I got cheated on went exactly like that

[@Betterdailyy]

Same here!!!!

[@amaka747]

🤣🤣

[@nicholasgigaba2779]

Me too😢

[@wilsmith3898]

Trust your intuition... I've had a whole scenario in my head that she denied and 4 months later I found out I was right about everything.. my daughter brought me her unlocked phone while I was sleep.. no biggy.. just give em what their worth..n she went from someone i wanted to marry to a bust down 🤷🏾‍♂️ and im open to new connections.. i actually would like to get married...just not to her

[@patienceacheampong9542]

Yep

[@Ken-iu2zp]

I have that intuition rn....i suspect she is seeing someone either on her job or not on her job. She's swearing it isn't anyone and she only has eyes for me. But yet when we argued she said "i can be in a relationship right now"

[@Ken-iu2zp]

@Diamond Augello alright I am. She cried and told me I can pop up on her anytime or go through her phone she said she in love with me and wanna have a baby with me. Idk man.....

[@Ken-iu2zp]

@Diamond Augello OK bet...thanks. I'm gonna go through the phone when she least expect it

[@Ken-iu2zp]

@Diamond Augello if I see that she's texting, dealing with, flirting or gave her number out to any dude I'm breaking up with her right there on the spot and blocking her because we actually talking about living together.

[@danielzaharick6652]

your best bet is to keep your emotions in check and keep your mouth shut until you know for sure. By confronting her ya just make her more cautious. Then its harder for you to find out what shes up too.

[@Brotherhood-of-The-Skallywag]

I did exactly that with my first wife. I got suspicious, bought a semen test kit to check out the underwear she stuffed at the bottom of the clothes basket. Did the test, got a positive. That was Friday and I kicked her out of the house - Filed for divorce Monday.

[@guttaboyzayy]

Facts I seen another video, about being on good terms and ask to check her phone not when things rocky if she acting sketch then leave her

[@dameongreen3733]

Always walk away. It’s the only weapon you have. The discussion doesn’t work. It’s perceived as accusation. They are adults a know what they are doin. And the same for yourself.

[@yawillykwily7179]

that's it, unfortunately a lot men are too weak and desperate to walk away from a bad relationship.

[@chalieventsphotography1960]

Super

[@jroc2k]

Shid!! You got that right!!!

[@philippinesfunwithjlb7193]

The no.1 thing is they start to become hypercritical of you...

[@jayt5346]

Yeah cuz they think it’s something better; be gone than b*tch n don’t come back

[@Burrburrcloud]

That doesn't mean infedelity...😂

[@philippinesfunwithjlb7193]

@@Burrburrcloud usually does and she certainly thinking about it as she has lost respect for you

[@Burrburrcloud]

@@philippinesfunwithjlb7193 Because she doesn't like the things that your doing doesn't necessarily mean she has a lover...

[@philippinesfunwithjlb7193]

@@Burrburrcloud Its a strong indicator and if not she is thinking about getting with someone else.

[@jroc2k]

It aint no point discussing with a woman, she'll blame you for her mistake

[@dogartoppenheimer]

Every single time. Haha

[@treydaypnw]

Yep

[@jroc2k]

@@dogartoppenheimer you know it!

[@jroc2k]

@@treydaypnw facts

[@robertmorrison3874]

Sometimes u talked to them about issues like this they get mad at u for even bringing up the conversation. And then they flip the hole scrip and put it on u lol

[@guttaboyzayy]

I swear

[@ajjohnson3416]

Then that's your answer & all you need to know, a real woman will sit & underst& your feelings & work on tryna change things.

[@anthonyadkins321]

Tbh these videos are good but they also can make you go looking for these exact things boosting your anxiety levels even more. Just ask God to remove whoever isn’t for you, and I promise you’ll see it on your own.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@jy5334]

Im all over the place

[@animus_veritas]

@anthonyadkins321 unfortunately, these days, relationships are becoming transactional. You just don’t know when a women can stray unfortunately. Never hurts to grab her phone out of her hand and start scrolling!

[@mbalukatv]

If your woman doesn't confide in you start asking yourself questions. Don't allow friends to your house, deal with your friends outside your house. Loyalty is the true measure of a woman. Listen to actions, not words.

[@michaelangelo4147]

My wife of 14 years has failed in all 5 points! Overtime she winged me off out of her social media and literally cut me entirely out at some point over the time of the marriage. Now in September of 2022, she asked me for a divorce for reasons that she is not happy and she has been depressed. She has accused me of being abusive and wanted to move out by November of 2022, but look it’s already March of 2023 and she still hasn’t moved out yet because as I see it, “I am her financial cushion blanket” and now she sees that the grass is not greener on the other side! But, I am done with her shenanigans! No turning back for me.

[@Luka9m]

Get rid of her she's looking for a way out. Whatever her plan was is not working out for her so she's using you and your resources for the time being till something works out for her. You're a smart man for catching on to her shenanigans. She's for the streets give her the boot.

[@fishgrz125]

Bro, SAME SITUATION!!! 13 years!!!!!

[@vickclash7955]

Wow

[@michaelangelo4147]

@@vickclash7955 I am not surprised on account that it is reported that up to 80% of divorces are filed by women today. We men tend to at lease make an effort to show face and work on saving the marriage. But women today, these modern day thinkers would rather just bailout of the marriage and strip the man out of his life savings, pensions plans and not to mention if you have a house that was bought before marriage the home equity will go as well, even when they had never contributed to it ever! My wife will get to live on my city pension, deferred compensations and home equity, non of which she ever help me with! But the men are the bad ones as women continue to say! It’s an unforgivable betrayal, after I took her on as a single baby mother at a moment when her son was only 7yo and now that he’s out of the house and on his own at 23yo I am not needed anymore, my work as a stepfather is complete! It’s unbelievable how much of a “Grimy-Gold-Diggers” she turned out to be!!!! But even that son of hers which I help mentor as my own son doesn’t even call me to see how I am doing! So those who are thinking about getting with a “Baby Mother” don’t even get yourself involved with her! She will only disrespect and despise you as the one who stepped in to take care of her and hers!!!! Like the late Mr. Kevin Samuels used to say it’s a thankless job for sure!

[@meme-zv7kw]

Put yourself first and do what's in your best interest

[@LetsGoforDabash]

Man don't fall for " you're INSECURE , controlling " Don't confront her without any evidence Don't argue , don't fall for blame game just tell her that you don't owe her any explanation

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@MrMahkdi2]

Facts king 🫡

[@seanloewen]

100% don't ever say anything without actual proof. trust should be there until there's a concrete reason not to trust. trustworthy people are themselves trusting. avoid paranoia at all costs, it makes you look weak.

[@LetsGoforDabash]

@@seanloewen Trustworthy people is just term for naive people. UNDERSTAND the difference between trust and blind trust. Blind trust is unhealthy af. In the beginning stages of relationship u should be very clear about your boundaries. You shouldn't tolerate any shit , period !!!!.

[@seanloewen]

@@LetsGoforDabash I disagree I think it is just to trust a person until they give you a reason not to trust them. But start small, don’t loan them your yacht on day 1!

[@justinsorci5998]

The best way to be in relationships is to be immune to being hurt. It took me a long time, and going through a lot of anguish in bad relationships, but eventually you get to a point of indifference. I’m not currently in a relationship, but I don’t care either way….be in my life if you want, or don’t be in my life, or if I’m not liking the way things are, then I leave, but the most important part is to not care one minute later….immune to being hurt, and you’re way better off.

[@mr.charleslifeadvice]

Anytime the person your dating, in a relationship with or married to makes you feel like you need to play investigator. You should immediately end the relationship. The human natural instinct is to investigate and when you go down that road, your going to find out exactly what your feelings, what your gut and your natural instincts had been telling you all along are true and correct! If a person man or woman isn’t securing you in every single aspect of the relationship it’s over. Save yourself the headache and heartache of finding out what their actions already have shown you. No need to play investigator. No need to have to get snacks in the face with it directly. It’s like Trent Shelton said “You know when it’s real when the person gives you know reasons to question them or their actions. It is their responsibility to starve all insecurities and feed everything else. So if it isn’t real then it’s a lie!

[@johnn.marshall4566]

💯

[@DivineAffirmationnow]

Thank you

[@roberttaylor9334]

My ex is a narcissist... I had a gut feeling she was cheating, one day she called me and left a message of her having sex with a guy. When I confronted her she flat-out denied it, started accusing me of cheating, calling me crazy. Now if that's not disrespectful I don't know what is. And yes I am no longer with her

[@ms.camillewarrenempress31]

Good job as a woman I think it is Unique to know your worth

[@datl3afn1nja9]

That’s wild 😅

[@Icebgriz]

​@@ms.camillewarrenempress31NO ONE IS WORTH ANYTHING THATS A WOMAN LIE DONT APPLY THAT TOO US MEN. YOU GET OUT WHAT YOU PUT IN PERIOD

[@mrquick6775]

@@ms.camillewarrenempress31Wtf does that mean?

[@ms.camillewarrenempress31]

@@mrquick6775 damn you need education know your worth look it up self-worth and worth !!! Not going to tell you !!! Look it up self-worth and worth !!!! Define it yourself

[@jaybizm6562]

Relationships like an hour glass, once the sand runs out, the relationship is over.

[@greglismonjr1368]

Man after listening to you and reading all the comments, I like my single lifestyle better. No Drama, Peace of Mind and less money wasted.

[@Predator-90]

*Heavy On The Less Money Wasted*

[@theshawndavisshow]

Don't have a discussion don't talk don't accuse... know find out yourself and be smart.. do not talk to her about it. They lie

[@bosslifethebusiness]

Exactly

[@Lordran__]

I highly suspect my ex, who recently broke up with me, was cheating. We were only together for 4 months & she had been expressing her displeasure with me for a couple of those months. But in April, she stopped being intimate & it always felt like I wasn’t welcomed whenever I went to her place, which just so happens to be right up the street. She seemed fine through texts, but cold & distant in person. She also didn’t make much in the way of eye contact anymore & kept mentioning a “friend”.

[@DivineAffirmationnow]

Signs of the time

[@sonjadf47]

If a man believes a woman that has a polyamorous lifestyle will suddenly agree th be exclusive with you, don’t be surprised she’s seeing other men. You knew she was polyamorous, but you wanted an opened relationship, which is why you left your previous relationship, what would you expect?

[@HdHd-hp6qz]

Never complain to a woman about anything she does that is disrespectful to you. All women know their boundaries with you before labels like boyfriend or husband even exist. They learn these boundaries while you are dating. If a woman goes out till late without you when you have been dumb enough to cohabitate with her then know from that action that she is not wife or long term material. Whining to a woman will only induce more shit tests because she has got you in your emotions which are feminine traits. Woman aren’t stupid they know what behaviours their partners will and won’t tolerate.

[@yahowshuabenyahudah7734]

💯

[@billclemons5593]

FACTS

[@TheTruthTheyHate]

So its a feminine trait to have or show emotions? Then thats why women have the advantage. They love themselves enough to express what they're feeling and not try to bottle it up to appear tough. You can be a man and still express or show emotions. Don't let the world tell you how you're supposed to be as a man while women can go around acting like adult teenagers with no consequence.

[@jaskell2057]

Some of them are wolves in sheep clothing. They even try to dominate and prey on a child's innocence and try to degrade name calling great children and the father who has strong nuclear family structure, but stand back allow jezebel demonic behavior to get their way. Please, you tolerate it but I won't. Accountability is kryptonite for these bimbos. I pay attention to actions not what they say. But good on that. Dating and marriage in the modern day pool are trash. Waste of time.

[@maxstrike3022]

​@@TheTruthTheyHate expressing them to your lady is a bad idea. Don't talk to them, just ghost them because they 100% know what they're doing at all times. When you feel disrespected by her it's because she's 100% doing it and she knows it, so abandon her and perhaps she won't try with the next guy.

[@HXCORNERSTONE]

It’s the gaslighting for me honestly, I’m going to end this relationship soon

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏 I'm sorry to hear that and I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@andersnielsen6044]

A little site-note.. Women, does ALWAYS have options no matter how hard she (and you yourself) try to deny it. She always has a plan b.

[@life-is-here]

Although it is a difficult situation to experience, this video provides helpful tips on how to address the possibility of cheating in a relationship.

[@is2fiftyslowfsport744]

I've been cheated on by my ex, I had the this gut feeling, it's called a man's intuition, sure enough i went through her phone and found some next dude sending her some explicit text messages, smh

[@DarneIITV]

damn

[@JesseEdwards-d1x]

If she cheats or Leaves you it was not meant too be no way

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@abigalestoll]

💯 agree ❤️. If she's not proud of him she will try to hide him that's the reason why men should learn to smell good and bring their best selves to the first date and to the relationship in general. Also, women look at his outer appearance, ambition and if he has self control when it comes to sex. If a man cannot control himself sexually certain women will not trust him around her kids, relatives and friends.

[@mrsam3267]

Is that the reason why some women will hide their bf from every of their Social Media??? That is a No No.. If She is Not Proud of You and can’t tell you or show you how to Level Up but Hides U from Her Friends and Social Media,Walk away….

[@abigalestoll]

@@mrsam3267 some people ignore you if you try to advise them. If that's the case, the only option you have is to walk away and hold your peace.

[@blackwolverine1]

As an aside, I can guarantee you for the most part the Man she is Cheating on you with doesn't care nothing about her. He just cares about the Sex.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@Sdy187]

I'm in that situation right now. Kept telling me that she doesn't talk to the guy and wants nothing to do with the guy but we separated for less than a month and now she's back with him. Very hurtful

[@blackwolverine1]

@@Sdy187 You learn from the burn friend, many of us other Men have gone through similar experiences. You'll be alright trust me. Stay sharp at all times.

[@Sdy187]

@@blackwolverine1 Thanks so much. She gone back to the same guy that she was telling me that she doesn't even talk to and he did her so bad and only wanted was a sexual relationship and nothing else from her

[@blackwolverine1]

@@Sdy187 No problem, hey that's usually the case.

[@Lmilue]

I felt it was well put together. Unfortunately, it was the opposite. All these things pertained towards my guy ex. The content goes both ways. He put me through so much mentally, physically, and financially. The sickest part of it all is that he lied about going to stay with his disable brother for a few days to help him. He came back home with hickies across his chest. I moved out because he didn’t want to move out. I moved on and stayed single. He came back asking for a second chance and I declined. Later, I found out he was being evicted out of his place. We still lived in the same building, but lived on different floors. He was the one telling me to make sure I can afford to pay for my own place. No worries, I’ve been taking care of us. I can take care of myself. Still standing.

[@cuzheavy4079]

From my experience if she stop bringing you around the family she could be cheating too because if she cheating the family will be the first to know because she will feel comfortable that they won't say anything and probably also know the person she's cheating with eventually you go to a function and see the family if she's cheating some of her family and friends will give it away without even saying a word the eyes the actions and body language give it up they start acting weird and that's also another way you can tell if she's been telling your business to them also you just have to peep the vibes

[@dewallacethompson6548]

Did this on Labor Day

[@donyaeprimmer9040]

Exactly … this happened to me I knew something wasn’t right when she wasn’t letting me go with her to her moms any more for idk what reason but it came to light !

[@cuzheavy4079]

@@donyaeprimmer9040 they always reveal themselves every time 💯

[@2dramaNaijatv]

In order to see these signs. One has to step out of the relationship. Most people in a relationship are wearing tinted rose glasses and can't see these signs until it's too late.

[@bigboy23005]

Man! That’s a lot to take in and to reflect on!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@iamCrwly]

I was once told… when you bury that bucket of 💩 don’t dig it back up thinking it’s gold.

[@BroadusRosemond]

My wife talks to me very disrespecting it's got me ready to walk out the door and not look back I'm giving her what she wants I'm tired of being treated like shit

[@alexanderbegossi7437]

Not a subscriber or anything ! Just coming across your video !!! When they decide to cross you out , just accept, count your lost and move on ! Props to You, you are completely right in all your 5 five signs, from A to Z !!! Personal experience !!!! Job well done Mr Stefan !!!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@williammorson1535]

Yes Steve, very balanced and wise. We'll worth listening to. On a personal note very homely and enjoyable and easy to listen to.its like sitting in a room with you.

[@rontatts8941]

Red flag when u ask once in long awhile to ask can u see her phone she jump act up u already know

[@babyluvjr]

Stay outta her phone....if u go looking for stuff, u will INDEED find it!!

[@NashBenzotv]

@@babyluvjr lol i hacked her whatsapp i did find stuff unbelievable

[@BananaNutCream]

@@babyluvjr that’s the purpose - wouldn’t you want to know - follow your gut

[@babyluvjr]

@J.Carter her actions and vibes given off, will be enough information , pimpin....real spit,

[@guttaboyzayy]

@@babyluvjrsomeone said they rather be the side Nikka bcuz they know everything compared to the bf who knows nothing💯 just keep that in mind

[@Tarantulisimo]

it's not always the guy just being paranoid & insecure all the time -- maybe he's damaged from a previous girl cheating, so he feels some type of way about the new girl having too many "male buddies"

[@brendanhiggins3442]

Male buddies is a joke it's just guys waiting their turn girls know it ,never be with a girl with lots of guy friends utter madness

[@user-ux2vu3me2i]

Really

[@comment5398]

Dear guys remember women take big stinky dookies just like us. Stop putting them on unnecessary pedestals.

[@icecity3072]

😂

[@Stayawayfromme...0802]

Indeed no woman is worth that

[@llks1772]

Never trust anyone

[@Pinman376]

Fact.

[@ChuckCarter519]

The problem I have with the phone issue is because the cell phone has become such a part of a persons inner self. Would you like your significant other to be able to read your mind, your inner thoughts etc....that is what the cell phone has become and I think it should be private for everyone.

[@estherdarsonedwards3546]

I bought your book. I really enjoyed listening to your video,I have learned so much about relationships. I had no idea there is so much information about these things. Thank you Stephan.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Aondtrack]

@@StephanSpeaksforMen What's the name of the book, Stephan?

[@kingdumb615]

What's the name of his book?

[@kingdumb615]

What's the name of his book?

[@orarichman9948]

Signs She is Seeing Someone else: 1. She doesn't no longer involve or invites you to special outings. 2. Have the sudden urge to travel alone. 3. She calls you by another man's name. 4. She stop cooking for you, running your bath water, stop doing your laundry. 5. She no longer greets you with hugs and kisses. 6. No longer asks how your day was 7. She is not sexually aroused around you like she use to. 8. Start receiving gifts or flowers that you didn't buy. 9. Changes her password to her email address and phone. Then refuses to give you the password. 10. You have been to her house and apartment and smelled cologne scent from another man. Sometimes you may smell the scent on her clothes. 11. Communication between you two comes to an halt or end. You two are no longer talking regularly like you use to. 12. She compares you to another man(men) 13. She no longer give you compliments 14. Refuses PDA while she is with you in public. Can't even hold your hand in public or kiss you in public. 15. Change her social media relationship to single or complicated. 16. Suggests that you see someone else or get sex from someone else. 17. Replace the other man's name in her phone contact with a female name to throw you off when the other man calls. 18. She refuses gifts or money you give her. That's because she is expecting it from another man, or woman!!!😆Yeah their AZZ be cheating with women too! 19. She coaches her children to call their new lover her Uncle, cousin, brother. You thinking this man is her relative and all that time, he is tearing that p*ssy up!😆 20. She wears stilettos. Stilettos are for women that strip and prostitute. The average woman that are decent wear regular heels. How do I know this? My little sister was a stripper at Ebony & Lace in Memphis Tennessee. She always kept a closet full of stilettos.😜 21. They wear thongs. Women that own a pair of thongs are flat out whores. Ask Sisqo the R&B singer. I saw him in Memphis doing some freaky shit with a thot on my job in Memphis Tennessee during a thong contest. It's too damn graphic for me to mention on KZbin! That's all I got to say!!!😆 @Cameron the hoe is lying because she wants something you got which is your damn money. A cheating whore is always about the damn money. She holding on to you just in case it doesn't work out with the other man. If he stop giving the whore money you will become her fall back for the money that her ass is trying to pocket. Hell, let's put it this way, the whore just wants what's in your damn wallet.💯 @Kalimba you a damn lie snake AZZ young gal. Don't you know how old I am, I 48 years old and there ain't nothing I haven't seen under the sun!!! I see a lot of sneaky shit y'all women be doing when your AZZ ain't looking. I have female relatives that are hoes okay. I studied them and observed their sneaky AZZ since the age 5. With slick AZZ comment!!! Go to sleep somewhere!😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 Meant to say I am 48 years old, sorry about the error. And I know you are playing with witchcraft Kalimba!! You don't know you picking with a prophet!!! Lol!!!

[@roderickrussell8653]

Facts

[@mrsam3267]

My Ex wife did almost all this but The one that Shocked me most is That Lo and behold,I was Living In Israel when we met on a dating app and we dated for over two years In that time, she visited me In Israel twice and we got engaged on her second visit but I noticed her phone Ringing at 1:30 am two days after Our wedding by ex Ex and she Cdnt pick the guy kept blowing her phone and I accused her of cheating but she stone cold denied and later Spinner it on me.. Till date I still get confused about that Incident

[@mrsheabutter]

So true!

[@EJayyDreadHead]

Bro all this is so true you nail it!!!! My girl done most of these

[@mamen789]

She'll tell people you're jealous.😂😂😂

[@CAD7617]

This video has hit every point regarding my wife who left me after 10 yrs. Damn!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@paigejones]

From a lady's standpoint, she will also do these things if you continue to destroy her. She will start replacing "we/us/ours" with "me/I/mine". All of these may just be signs that your behavior has her done and you can expect closure soon. It's especially so if she shifts her behavior in these 5 ways, and replaces them with independent things, bettering herself, her own growth, her own future. Be cautious fellas, when she really loves you, she will "break up" with you emotionally and mentally before physically. ❤

[@sharondawilliams7228]

Yeah, regretfully I can agree. It was mostly due to my behavior. However we both kept trying at this relationship. Yet by the time I got my act together. She was so angry, resentful, and hurt. I watched myself lose her. 😔 literally felt the retreat she. Physically. Then emotionally. And lately mentally. That I

[@charlesdial7152]

I'm going through that now with my wife

[@bkmulwa]

My ex wife displayed all. Particularly No. 3, she became weird, couldn't even dress in my presence. It was evident she was keeping me as security, as she stabilized whatever she was pursuing out there until it was safe to exit. I kicked her out, and I don't think she anticipated that so soon before her hanky panky crystallized. It threw her off balance, but I had already closed that door.

[@Juliet_Eze_Official]

Wow, insightful. By the way, I love the speed of delivery. Thanks a lot Sir.

[@gugulethu4155]

Hey Juliet..would like chat with you

[@ledlightthomas560]

This is brilliant. This dude knows what he talking about on point and simply

[@outdamudtv]

I really need to here this I'm going through so much with my wife right now

[@davecook3278]

No point for such complications under the guise of love. Truly a disappointing age of love. Thanks for the message✊🏾💯🙏🏾Glory be

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@davecook3278]

You have a great perspective and are very intuitive when delivering your message. Stay blessed✊🏾💯🙏🏾

[@funkmonster]

Don't shoot the messenger. He is trying to help you. Don't be the dude that is so jaded that you reject the help and refuse to play the game.

[@Flamerailzzz]

Very Knowledgeable and Informative video like always, thanks for sharing this with us. Personally if I’d paid attention to these things and listened to my gut, probably would have avoided the heartbreak or at least not gotten too deep…years wasted. We live we learn, What lies ahead ( now that we know) is all that matters. Have a great day!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@charlesdial7152]

I listen to my gut all the time, it won't let you down, I have been like this since I was in HS and it doesn't lie.

[@raulvalderramadelacruz7009]

10:28 we've been together 3 yrs when she started to say she needed a heads up about dates about a week in advance. I needed to call her if i was going to come by her work to surprise her with flowers etc. Thats when i started to ask if we were okay she always stated we were. But that gut feeling told me shes lieing! Why cant they just tell us. 🙄😤

[@cynthiagomes2979]

What's good for the goose is good for the gander!!! Great video!! Thank you because some men act like they are special and don't have to pour in to get out of a woman.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Cary543]

Thank you for the beginning of this. I was married for 27 years. I recently learned that my ex had countless affairs. Now, I have the best girlfriend God could have ever blessed me with. There is 109 miles between us. I don't get to see her as often as we want. I have insecurities about her going to a bar with her friends. It's not fair to her, and I've told her i don't like her putting herself in those situations, but I don't want to seem controlling either. She has never given me a reason not to trust her. My past just makes me doubt.

[@Lifesjustthatsimple]

You have to think about your current relationship like this . If she goes to bars , which are sinful by nature , there will be problems . The Bible says not to just turn away from sin but flee or run away , but she is running towards sin . Besides long distance relationships are really easy to hide cheating . Stay strong bro .

[@Sir.pisces]

Happiest is being single no stress no mess men and women always feud

[@johnn.marshall4566]

💯

[@jesserochon3103]

I’m convinced of this too. Men and women are happier and more at peace when single. Singleness all the way. 100 percent.

[@PhillyDjHook]

All does. To all the guys that's in relationships, Happy Valentine's Day

[@Aristocrats1234]

Thanks again Mr Stephan. I wished my X Husband could have listened to your advice/teaching way back in 1997. Smile That's why I left because of the constant years of false accusations against me. (verbal- emotional abuse) It became a fruitless struggle trying to change his mind about me. No one deserves to live like that. A man or a woman. Peace & Blessings ☮️🙏🏼🌹

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@Tarantulisimo]

Just curious: So what were the issues which led to the false accusations? Was it any of these 5 things? There had to be something making him jump to conclusions again & again -- Or was he just that paranoid & insecure?

[@claudym4640]

@@Tarantulisimo borderlines or narcissists don’t need anything to make them feel suspicious about you and accuse you of the most outrageous things. The problem is in them, not you.

[@AviweZathu]

​@@claudym4640 😭 Cluster B

[@Aristocrats1234]

@@Tarantulisimo Hello thanks for asking questions. Of course he was awesome, caring & supportive doing wonderful things together with me during courtship & first few years of our marriage as a stay at home wife with no children active in my church community. I still till this day cannot figure out what and why inside of his Spirit changed. Others noticed it also. When they would come into our beautiful house they would tell me days later that they could sense a change in the atmosphere at our home. I always kept up a straight face/everything is okay kind of face. As not to put our business in the streets. What a good wife would do in order to keep my husband's name respectable in the face of his & my family, friends and His Colleagues while going through this trauma. So the bottom line is the latter answer to your question. Smile ☮️💖🙏🕊️

[@kirstikaskiw]

Alot of PEOPLE cheat ...and ALOT of people get hurt by it

[@a.b5625]

If in doubt get out..or be like me and chill end the relationship without even telling her it's over just start seeing other women 🤷🏿‍♂️ she will clock on eventually meh

[@aleekat619]

You're out here helping lots of people. Thanks. 1❤

[@MrBlackBono]

1:35 I agree don’t jump right away

[@obugie]

I believe the latter part of #3 and the beginning of #4 could be factors as well, and it might not necessarily involve seeing another man. She could be considering leaving the relationship and may need some time away to plan for her next steps, including finding a new place to move to.

[@c.c.me0n253]

My insecurities pushed another one away...

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@johngonzo9671]

Same man , shit hurts !! But we got to work on ourselves first 🤝

[@philipmcluskey6805]

the best and most considered advice i've heard on these issues. thankyou

[@JW-po9mb]

Have a conversation? She's just going to lie to cover the lie.

[@gicardee6756]

big fan here Stephen, may I suggest you make an Audiobook version narrated by you. Thank you!

[@pangwa8375]

You sound like you're reading from a book. A woman can NEVER "feel" two men at the same time. If a woman starts behaving some type of way all of a sudden, save yourself the explanation and leave her where she is. She's gone. There's no fixing anything with a woman who's mentally moved on from you. Getting help is like looking for people to force her to be with you. It will not hold up pass 2 weeks.

[@timbarlenhypnosis6518]

Thanks, my friend. I recognized this from a past relationship....A bit late but I recognize it.

[@MarquiceMoore]

Trust yourself not this video… she’s cheating on you…

[@Pinman376]

Happened to me i was so stupid i trusted her so much.

[@Raj-cl7he]

Once she losses respect for you .its time to move on .women are like employers you have to state your worth during the begining but once your in the job they will start belitting your worth not giving you the money you was worth ,so you have to leave to increase your value somewhere else .

[@marvinpercival4717]

When dealing with people in general u have to mirror their actions nobody csn defeat someone who mirrors them

[@searchbug]

Great advice, Stephan! Here's my advice for all the husbands out there. Instead of stalking social media, you might want to snoop around those suspicious contact names on your partner's phone. Try doing a reverse phone number lookup to uncover the real identity behind that number. If you find a major difference between the name saved in their contacts and the search result, it could be a red flag that something fishy is going on. I don't know if you're up to speed on this, but there was this crazy article that spilled the beans on a wife who cheated on her husband. Apparently, she cleverly disguised her lover's name in her phone as "Pizza Hut." Can you believe it? The husband only found out about it six months later!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@Icebgriz]

DON'T DO NON OF THIS SHIT FUCK TEN BITCHES TO EVERY ONE MAN SHE CHEATS ON YOU WITH ITS A GAME AND YOU GOTTA BE THE WINNER NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN AS A MAN

[@mrquick6775]

@@StephanSpeaksforMenWhat do you mean bro?

[@1stGenTruckerTV]

If my wife is seeing someone else, God will reveal it to me. Been there done that and I would smile and move on. Way to focused for distractions 🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿

[@deshawnivy3894]

This was very helpful.🙏🏿

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@princeletbetter301]

Also listening to other people and getting bad advice for someone who isn’t married at all and have children

[@firsttbone]

My ex didn't allow me to comment or see her posts on social media, for good reason. She was grooming her new supply all the whole hiding it from me for years. If she wants that freedom, give it to her and leave!!

[@NoName-nj4mw]

I'm a woman and I realized in watching this video that I'm doing every one of these. I'm not and never have cheated. I'm honestly just emotionally checked out and I'm tired of repeating myself. I do understand why he keeps accusing me of cheating now, but he needs to look at himself to understand why I'm now acting the way I do.

[@mrsheabutter]

Maybe write him a letter being specific and to the point. No roundabout comments. Be direct. Then give hime a chance. Then leave

[@mimimi9326]

you need to get out instead of just “waiting” for them to get it right. You need to be direct, there’s no point staying in a relationship where u’re emotionally checked out then expected him to look at himself. U gave him plenty of chances, just leave.

[@zero1188]

Just because you didnt cheat and he acccusing you doesnt mean your still not in the wrong. If you emotionally checked out thats on you why he accusing you of cheating . If you told him the truth be wouldnt be acting the way he does

[@frankiegunnz8066]

​@@zero1188 Facts! Females truly hate taking ANY accountability!

[@only1kingz256]

Why not just leave or move on then? If your done? No disrespect just curious

[@GeraldGspack]

Nothing really hurts than this to be betrayed

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@concepcionrivera8532]

Hearing what you are saying, but sometimes, by trying to talk to a person about posable cheating. I could get that person better at cheating the next time they do or continue to do so by giving the heads up. Also, it might mean that the cheated on person might look weak by not putting their foot down in the first place. I once was told that sometimes it is better to be alone than with bad company.