5 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man's Interest **Game Changer**

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@witchywoman737]

I am who I am & know what I bring to the table, as I am. I'm tired of trying to be all that men want me to be in order to "deserve" their love.

[@JonathonAslay]

Why are you tired?

[@karenwilliams2068]

Yes..amen..to me there is a ball and MIT fit for everyone..I'm not for everyone and vice vesa

[@karenwilliams2068]

You have to be authentic to yourself..we have arrived at our later age in life..thank goodness..

[@ktvix9234]

​@@JonathonAslay what kind of a question is that. What is it that you missed in her statement?! Sounds a bit passive aggresive. I apologize if i m wrong. My opinion. TY

[@witchywoman737]

@Jonathon Aslay To make a short story long, (sorry)... Having been born into a highly dysfunctional environment, I could've used it as a convenient excuse to use & abuse others, but instead chose to treat people with care & respect, & without judgment...however, i was met by a societal caveat I wasn't prepared for, & that has had a profound, lifelong negative affect on my life...I'm an overweight woman, living in a SUPER superficial society, hence, I became the best spouse/friend/neighbor, etc...I could be, trying to convince people that I was not the "lower life form" I was perceived as. Needless to say, I'm a pariah among men...despite having all the qualities of a solid, loving, loyal & supportive partner, they claim to want. Men have taught me that as long as women "fit the right physical mold", they'll never want for the love of foolish men, (& there's plenty of them). At 56 yrs old, I'm finally learning my value & learning to like myself, & I refuse to spend any more of my life trying to be all that men want me to be when I'm more than good enough as I am.

[@biondna7984]

I think the conversation on "feminine" and "masculine" energy is legitimate. After six years of having to take over everything from my late spouse, while Alzheimer's killed him, I learned from several doctors that the testosterone flooding I was undergoing fueled me, to be pro-active and assertive in protecting our economic situation. Then the pandemic hit, and my isolation was compounded. Today, I'm STILL struggling to relax and let men (or women) do things for me, accept help, go ahead and "lean back" sometimes, to let him take the lead. I can tell you, it's a tremendous relief to me to just receive sometimes, just let someone else lead. I'm grateful for "masculine" energy. It's clear enough to me that being purely "feminine" or "masculine" ALL the time isn't healthy for anyone; It sure as hell wasn't for me. We all need to be fully human, in other words, flexing between taking the lead, and letting others lead. Everybody needs a goddamn break, including the most macho males.

[@JonathonAslay]

A successful relationship is one of mutual effort... 💓

[@jeanettesuzannebrooks1963]

Thank you for loving this subject of relationships, God knows we need help.

[@JonathonAslay]

You are so welcome

[@wejoin]

I'm SO glad I grew up in the day ('70s) and age I did related to society then and now.

[@JonathonAslay]

I kinda agree

[@iheartlilly118]

I love that you have discussed this!! Women can be more masculine and some men as in( hetrosexual) are more feminine. I have moments when I'm operating at a more masculine energy and I have been working on being in my feminine energy more. I don't come off as brash and intimidating. Emotional maturity is another big one. Everyone needs to know themselves. Love themselves before you even attempt to date 🤗 I'm going to be purchasing your self love book this week! Thank you for all that you do on here and helping the collective heal and grow to have healthy relationships. 🙏💕

[@Whisky-1203]

I’m still in stage of trying to improve myself and get over my last relationship. Your videos are such a great help!

[@JonathonAslay]

You got this!

[@diamond_girl29]

Same here. Thanks Jonathon! 👍

[@brendamacdonald2478]

Jonathan, I love how honest and passionate you are- so many of us need this talk- hopefully people are listening and helping themselves to grow and be able to receive love. Thank you for your words of wisdom!!

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that!

[@ozwomanid57]

Thank you for reminding us no matter where we are to be proactive and productive. I get lost sometimes yet these videos bring me back

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly

[@Eternalsunshinejessica]

I had a man ask through a dating app what he can do to make me happy. I replied, I create my-own happiness and he deleted the match. I feel so empowered and love I am in a space to recognize I detracted and opened a space for someone that understands and desires someone with self love ❤

[@danicaharley6273]

This guy was just trying to connect with you. To see where he fits. This self love can go too far as well. Watch that. Self love doesn't need to be verbally expressed, its shown through our actions

[@musicdesign7264]

I've been so good at vetting a man that I have been without a relationship. That sums up the men in my area. It's rare they pass my phone call test.

[@JonathonAslay]

Maybe widen your net?

[@angelajaables5537]

Big hug. THanks Jonathon, I understand feminine energy better.

[@arcobab1536]

Ladies and gentlemen the only advise you need is from Dr Seuss “ Be yourself and say what you want because those that mind don’t matter and those that matter don’t mind “. Be yourself & do not pretend . The ones that like you for what you are are the right ones .

[@JonathonAslay]

😀

[@melmel8907]

“You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person”

[@jeannettedishaw8694]

Thank you Jonathan for your pod casts. They have helped me with knowing myself before getting into a relationship. God bless

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you like them!

[@Greenbambu78]

my fav word is "totality" which implies the completeness, wholeness, oneness, and holistic of a person and that is the ultimate purpose of getting into a relationship so that we can con't to be ourselves and who we truly are and vice versa for our partner. I have experienced, heard, and worked with experts with terrible advices out there who neglect and even forgo their own inner work and reflection. This 20-minute clip is the most aligned, informative, uplifting, thoughtful, and encouraging I have heard for a long time about relationships out there... 👍

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy to hear 😊

[@andreastarr9382]

Great video, thanks! I think I found a good match. I'm just going to keep getting clarity and focus on being intentional.

[@JonathonAslay]

You got this!

[@ginnywalker184]

You make a whole lot of sense as you relate things to real life. Thank you for that!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank...

[@firstlady...]

I just found out that the love of my life has passed. I am in so much pain...

[@JonathonAslay]

Sending you light and love ❤️

[@dantoinettetaylor1663]

Jonathon you’re on fire in this video. Be well 🎉

[@JonathonAslay]

Much appreciated 🙏

[@kristalhumphreys4621]

I ❤ the name of your book that included the word bitches! Such an interesting channel I’m enjoying my recent subscription 👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you for subscribing

[@PainterLady]

Omg omg omg! This hit me between the eyes. I so needed this today! Thank you for this video message! It's a blessing

[@JonathonAslay]

You're very welcome 🙏

[@kimkeepinitreal8297]

Good morning Jonathon your videos are very helpful in me moving forward to the next healthy relationship

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy to hear 😊

[@Marie-heleneDoucet]

You do a great job ! From Québec, Canadaa

[@InTheMoonforLove]

I'm New to your channel but I did notice "feminine energy" both in men and women. The same comes with "masculine energy " ;)

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly!

[@streaming5332]

Some people are born easy going, others aren't.... you can't change it.

[@JonathonAslay]

Human behavior can grow beyond limitations

[@michelledee2586]

@@JonathonAslaynot understanding that answer. I agree with people are born with certain traits and they remain with them during their lifetime.

[@AdairCty]

Thanks for all you do Jonathon! Great points in this video!

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you like them!

[@deec411]

I love your videos and I think it was freudian when you said marriage is traumatic. Too often sadly that is the case. "Married" is one letter away from "marred"I wish I had met my current love FIRST but I know all of my experiences have made me the person I am today. 👍🏻💃🎉🥂

[@JonathonAslay]

I meant, divorce can be traumatic

[@deec411]

@@JonathonAslay I know 😊 that's why I said it was Freudian 😉

[@caliblue2]

I wish you would list the things under description.

[@soulfulexpansions]

I know a guy with a wicked mother wound . He can't help but make every girl he's ever known an enemy. He completly shuts down any form of emotion. Makes up excuses why we can't be together one thing or another. I read if you grow up with a mother who acted from her masculine like single mothers. Working mothers. i read that it subconsciously turns the child against there feelings. Feelings were the enemy . So in turn females would auto subcon do the same he can't help it. Like wise I have a mother wound my core subconscious belief is I don't matter. I would feel a guy close and I would text a bunch of truths at him knowing I never hear from again . Until him. Huh. He keeps changing the rules on me without telling me. Just lets me figure it out . If his actions aren't supposed to be any reflection of how he feels about me like say he won't answer texts for a week or two. But still wsnt to see you agsin and doesn't feel any different then before. But then his words word say. One thing actions be the complete opposite. So the rules are he showing by his actions what he wants. Then he told me he loved me still didn't want to be together but. Not that I wanted that either actually he's not the type of guy that's a good bfriend for anyone. But I think he wants to be . Deep down inside. Just doesn't feel capable. Anyways I just want a little more attention . Feel ignored all the time. Like I don't matter go figure thanks mom how the hell do you change subconscious core beliefs ? For real.wgawhat other beliefs are in there I don't know about. How does he make peace with feelings. ??? . Anyways he's not completely seeing the whole picture with the masculine and fem . There's more to it silly. just a little insight on some other fem energy stuff and how it effects our wounds "WE'RE ALL MAD HERE"

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

Thank you so much, Jonathan 😊

[@JonathonAslay]

My pleasure!

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Thank God for your channel

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@bettinahayes3314]

Great insights, thank you so much!

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad it was helpful!

[@patriciapage4625]

I think that if, you have a mellow personality you can still be uneasy with another. Stonewalling can come from that as well.

[@JonathonAslay]

That's true...

[@wendyfotheringham8794]

Everything is great and we've both set boundaries and we're both on the same page and have the same goals etc and have fallen for each other. BUT. sex is a bit Meh! And he said he hasnt been with anyone my size before!....

[@JonathonAslay]

Can you elaborate?

[@bettyanderson1759]

You're so much help !

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you very much 😊

[@dagmarmarionkidwell-to9ub]

Hugs

[@aazmeer1000]

U r the best big bro

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thanks ☺️

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

So, when is the wedding? What's taking so long?!?

[@JonathonAslay]

Nothing... the average couple at this age takes 8 months to 3 years to decide.

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

@@JonathonAslay playa playa.... Himalayas 🏔️

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

@@brenda_rosa You're the type of woman a man can pull those stall tactics on at any age. Men know. I was proposed to at 6 mos. I called it off because I got scared.

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

@@brenda_rosa whatever

[@danicaharley6273]

To decide on what ? If you like each other and want to do what it takes to grow together to stay in love. Doesn't require time to know that. Johnathon I thought you know better. At least the lady deserves a ring or let her go to find someone who's sure on what he wants and recognises it straight away.

[@jat6547]

I have that book

[@JonathonAslay]

Which one?

[@jat6547]

@@JonathonAslay Why Men Love Bitches

[@patriciapage4625]

Q. I did a back ground check on a guy. Is that okay and what if he finds out.

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes it's okay and what's wrong with it.

[@PainterLady]

How do you do a background check on someone?

[@Joy-mm3cz]

Absolutely it’s ok. My kids(23ys old) did background checks on everyone I was considering meeting up with. Great way to see if they are honest with things like , when your divorce was final and who filled.

[@melmel8907]

At least Google their phone number and name and see what comes up. See if they are on Linkedin and true about their work life. One can find lots of info with the basics they give us. Be safe.

[@PainterLady]

@@melmel8907 ok. I had already done that and there's next to no information out there. I do know a little bit. Enough to know that they are not a viable partner.

[@robinemery]

Another great talk♥️BIG BIG HUGGS 🫂

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for listening

[@margaretcampbell2681]

The imprints from childhood are not discussed in other Utubers videos and this not telling people the truth. I knew I couldn’t have a romantic relationship until I healed.

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly 👍🏼

[@zensvlognotapro]

I like one dialogue on one series: A woman told to a man if you want me earn me🙏💪. Have a blessed life everyOne🤚🧡

[@JonathonAslay]

Maybe earn each other... or better yet, invest in each other mutually.

[@zensvlognotapro]

@@JonathonAslay exactly 💯. Relationship should grow 🪴 ☺️.

[@Anne-qy4ku]

Trauma of marriage lol.

[@JonathonAslay]

Ending a marriage can create trauma

[@Anne-qy4ku]

@@JonathonAslay my marriage was more traumatic than the ending of it!

[@staceysyvarth4452]

I have high EQ & IQ

[@JonathonAslay]

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