5 Minute Therapy Tips - Episode 18: Couples Therapy

This time I would like to talk about couples therapy. Oh my gosh! How can you talk about couples therapy in 5 minutes? But let’s talk about the opening of a couples session. When couples come into therapy often times they are supercharged to talk about the complaint, and complaint usually has to do with someone else changing their state.
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with Jeff Zeig, PhD
Presented by:
The Milton H. Erickson Foundation
www.erickson-foundation.org
Sponsored by:
Evolution of Psychotherapy 2017
December 13-17, 2017
www.evolutionofpsychotherapy.com
Images:
Andreas Steiner
www.mastersofpsychotherapy.de

[@Ryan-wf7sh]

This guys got a wicked strong old man whistle

[@biancawilliams5190]

I like this approach. I actually listened to this with headphones on so I could hear his clear whistling through his talking. Nothing bothersome about it, just worth mentioning.

[@jazminlonery7291]

Thank you! This is all very helpful for my midterm!

[@kennethmiller1245]

I had a couple of brief interactions with Dr Zelig at the first evolution of psychotherapy conference. I watched a questioner’s complete demeanor change when Dr. Zelig responded “to the question.” Actually he responded with care to the struggle of the questioner building on the competence of the questioner. I saw Dr. Zelig for a moment in passing to thank him. As I did, dammed if he didn’t do the same thing to me! I think part of his gift and skill is the ability to find and extend competencies he finds in others.

[@nesschapman212]

Some great, quick ideas, thanks!

[@StevenMcAllisterBEST]

That whistle goes hard

[@roxannemichelle6483]

This video is so good and important to work things out and opportunity for this couple with their marriage

[@smaganas]

This is fantastic!!

[@karenforresterlara7616]

This video was very helpful, thank you for taking the time to post it and sharing it. Great ideas and information, will look further into the work of Milton Erickson.

[@ericksonfoundation]

You're welcome! We are glad you liked it! 😊

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[@mariancounsellor]

This was really informative thank you 👍🏽

[@changinglivespowercouple4661]

Very important session. I like it.

[@julest5767]

thank you. this was helpful!

[@parvathibai132]

Brilliant

[@StevenMcAllisterBEST]

Noticeable differences got me 😂

[@Lr8_youtube]

- solution focused therapy - metaphor : what do u want in your partner? what u want in the relationship

[@joshmeyer2375]

Thanks

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[@postergirl2772]

ok this video is a great tip thank you [I'm a highschool student at an early college I start mental health next year as a junior and my friends use me as their therapist and now I got my first couple incident and needed frantic help, will update on how it goes]

[@tommac21]

Absolutely useless

[@tommac21]

Don't waste your t8me or money going to college for this. All this is is a opinion they give you. I'm a bartender and I help more people then any psyciatrist,, coach or therapist out there

[@ariananendelsk.3886]

What can you do for this relationship? What were the things that were GND ? What are you really looking for in your relationship?

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[@WonderTracks]

To me this was too abstract to be delivered in such a rushed manner me thank you very much anyhow!

[@bhavyajotarora9216]

Came to this video after searching for the Ted talk of Cary and Sherry

[@skc8130]

Whoa with the whistling lol

[@user-xp9if3ew1k]

What can You do for your couple?:-great question!!thank you!

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[@frankayala1604]

JND 😃

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[@The_magic_mountain33]

My girlftiend always says i don,t listen and i got a mouth problem. It makes me sad cause i usually don,t know what i said that angers her. Number two i got bad ears and i get tired of her getting mad so i prob do not listen so good at times. I love her an cry alot and we arent liveing together now but she doesnt want to actually breakup but i only get to go over to her house 1 time a week to see her and also cutt her big field of grass. My actual address is still at her house as im staying at my parents for the last 5 weeks an hour away. Any suggestions? Im thinking after 3 months im just stop trying if im not back in her place. What should i do honestly? Some1 help

[@Lovesiclemedia]

Update? Did you move back in?

[@paulinashanks1305]

Get your own house adulting is not always easy

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[@The_magic_mountain33]

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[@showmethescience2514]

Just not getting his message.

[@TGregers]

That whistling though lol

[@joeyouellette1922]

I thought I was the only one who noticed

[@joeyouellette1922]

He needs a deesser

[@TGregers]

@@joeyouellette1922 😅

[@shannonliim]

😂😩

[@malottcounselingservices6969]

I feel the conflict here is not taking into consideration that he is talking to therapists, not clients. I am a professional clinical counselor and did not have any problems following his train of thought; however, I am intimately acquainted with solution focused brief therapy and Milton Erickson’s life’s work. I would never counsel from that level of academic dialog. As I said earlier, he is relating some information to clinicians, not patients. I don’t think many of these videos are well categorized. This is something KZbin needs to improve-where academic material is being introduced and presented. It can lead to more confusion than the intended goal to benefit the therapist/viewer.

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[@lisahe31]

I agree with you, I found this very informative. I too work as a counselor and I know that he was talking to the clinicians, with this video

[@katebarnes3414]

It says in the title 'for therapists' ?

[@weo1weo1weo1]

your mic is picking up your "s" sounds and making them very sharp I am getting a headache listening to the vid :"(

[@sabertoothwallaby2937]

I have ten total toes yo

[@kianasunshine6874]

I really tried to understand!!! He seems very wise & I trust that I can learn from him. but i LITERALLY CANT UNDERSTAND anything he’s saying or FOCUS ON anything other than his whistle. I’m so sorry

[@jaelyng2353]

Same

[@julutram823]

😂

[@boogyjuggy]

try again, wake up, get out of your mind

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[@timwhistine2564]

Drop the acronyms and talk English using words! It helps.

[@deskreverse]

The sharp whistling noise with the S's are really distracting 😬

[@user-jr4vt6xr8c]

didn't watch but why they give her more time to talk in couples therapy its not fair i barely get a word in edgeways too much time they gang up on me and my drinkin

[@h.a.n.na17]

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE SOMEONE SET UP A GO FUNDME PAGE FOR DOING COUPLES THERAPY FOR MY LONG TIME GUY ND I. MY INSURANCE WON'T PAY FOR COUPLES THERAPY.

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[@judibrookslmft2748]

Your insurance will probably pay for "family therapy" or "individual therapy" and you bring your partner in to your sessions. This is done frequently and acceptable (I'm a therapist). Wishing you well!

[@tommac21]

Oh th8svguy is hilarious. Like any9ne such as him can do anything for a relationship. Especially with this nonsense. What a scam. Nobody can help a relationship except the 2 involved. People save your money and time. I would just sit there and laugh my ass off

[@h.a.n.na17]

HELP ME I'M POOR .

[@cn2120]

Was it just me or was it hard to listen to. The guy whistles the whole time lol

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