5 Qualities to Attract a Filipina (She Won't Tell You)

[@salomonandreoosthuysen6310]

Convey the message to your fellow phillipinas; Foreighners are not the arrival of a new charity centre. Respect the foreighners boundaries.

[@telepolo]

Let’s make it clear -- the foreigner is in NO OBLIGATION to support the entire family and is there to support the girl ONLY --- We foreigners are NOT atm bank machines 😡 !!!!!!!!!!

[@shakeblue5573]

FACTS🎉

[@jmcc2275]

Unfortunately that’s exactly what all you fools are.

[@chrism4008]

Shouting it in a random comment section is embarrassing and pointless.

[@rosemariebasallote6950]

🤣🤣🤣

[@sqnhunter]

That means exactly nothing if the Filipina does not think as you do! You can always move on ..but there will always be another guy just one step behind you that wont think as you do!!

[@Nomad-XA]

We foreigners have standards too 1: we don’t want women who only think about material wealth 2: we don’t want to be responsible for her family 3: we don’t want a Filipina that doesn’t take care of her looks 4: we don’t want baby mamas 5: relationships are give and take, she has to give us something back of equal value

[@Bobster0007]

Instead of you making the rules, remember that you are not the prize here. There are many of you and few foreignors. And respect is earned. Nobody owes you anything sweety.

[@d.l.f.7794]

How about the man's needs abd desires? A relationship is two way, not one way only.

[@stevelaconte8802]

Full of life, full of energy and full of money

[@lemontea2065]

The first two are optional and the last one is a must!😄

[@austinpowers1999]

STILL SINGLE GENTLEMAN AND ENJOY PEACEFUL LIVING. THE MONEY YOU MAKE CAN BE YOURS TO ENJOY.

[@thomaserlewine4318]

I have learned in the Philippines that a foreigner is not the one...he is "the next one" hahaha 😂

[@Lancaster7]

The next one after the trike driver 😂

[@888rattlesnake]

100 percent

[@roger7943]

You just haven't found the right ONE.

[@thomaserlewine4318]

@@roger7943 True......but still looking for a fit and trim filipina!

[@Bigpapatravels]

I don't have to be the right one, just let me be the one right now

[@andyknolls8735]

1. wallet 2. money 3. white 4. straight nose 5. did I say money Hope I didnt miss anything. There is a saying among young women in PI when talking about foreigners they go after: old , rich and soon to die.

[@Jake-u2o]

We`re talking about Philippine women not American women !!!

[@Taller58]

😂😂

[@jesusblessthesecommentsamen]

That’s non God fearing Filipinas I date a God fearing and I’m on a disability pension don’t own a home and she wants to marry me. God bless

[@andyknolls8735]

@@jesusblessthesecommentsamen not a bar girl, she went to church, met the family all nice people. One thing you got to remember is that you are an outsider and this sweet looking girl can turn vicious in a heart beat. My best advice is not to open yourself up to that. And my original post is true, no matter if you choose to believe it or not. Filipinas have very tough lives, very often struggle to find food to eat regularly. And nothing comes between them and their family. Even if you marry her, you are not family and never will be, and if you have children with her the kids will on the outside with you.

[@andyknolls8735]

@@Jake-u2o Old, Rich, and soon to die. As bad as American women are, how many say that. The is something Filipinas say.

[@JonMotivationalRend]

The ATM is not a foreigner thing at all. When I see OFWs return home, they also become an ATM lol.

[@tompak438]

Relate much because I am OFW 😊

[@ionutmititelu2083]

@JonMotivation , yes buddy good point, Filipina once she go abroad, suddenly become rich , become used , marginalized and manipulated mentally by siblings, to feel guilty if no send money home . Same with foreigner who coming from abroad.

[@mikewolf-x6t]

My girlfriend is an OFW and she supports her entire family to the point of there total dependence on her income.

[@andyknolls8735]

True but so many men from the west have been burnt on bad marriages, they get to PI and think the are in dream land. And they try to pour all their hopes and dreams into something they should of walked away from. I would recommend when you come to PI, DO NOT date anyone for 3 weeks. If you cant hold it in, get bar girl, or something that you will not get emotional attached to. I seen so many western men, they get off the plane, meet a girl on the first day, on day 2 she is moving in and bringing him to meet her parents. I knew one guy, he met this girl at the airport!

[@serdalkaptan]

@@mikewolf-x6t We know that. Tell us something we don't know, your name for instance. ;-)

[@frosty3693]

On point two, A woman's reputation is important. It goes both ways. If a Filipina gossips about the man, it may not get back to him, but if it does understand it is not just about a man's reputation but more importantly disrespecting him. Do that and you are done with a good man.

[@ionutmititelu2083]

😂😂 Exactly, Filipino they claim respect without giving nothing in return. They even talk and laugh into your back , and waking over you and they claim back respect

[@Sonicboomer65]

​@ionutmititelu2083 Wow! I Don't need a passport for that! I can find that on any street corner in the U.S.A.!

[@James-s7p4f]

I can not support someone else parents with my retirement. They are not my financial responsibility

[@VENEMPASTOR]

Damn right! Most of the time they expect you to help the whole clan not just their parents. It's the biggest pile of nonsense disguised as culture. They want you to share your blessings with them by sucking you dry until you have nothing left.

[@woutergijs5246]

That family has to support you

[@VENEMPASTOR]

@@James-s7p4f You're absolutely right! Most of the time they expect you to help the whole clan not just their parents. It's the biggest pile of nonsense disguised as culture. They want you to share your blessings with them by sucking you dry until you have nothing left. And, people reward this shit

[@antoniohardaway6913]

@@VENEMPASTOR, ignorant men do it because they need to feel superior. They want to be the king in charge but end up broke and lonely.

[@mikga45]

When I first arrived the girl I was with would have some times 10 plus family members I was expected to feed. Needless to say me and that girl are not together she wanted me to build her a house also. I told her no and she was very fast to let me know I needed to leave. I left and told her to find someone else to build her a house and feed her large family. Getting away from her was the best thing happened to me.

[@thomaserlewine4318]

Nice advice but I will only support my woman and her children if she has......not the whole clan.....

[@andyknolls8735]

If you cohabitate with your girlfriend, you could find yourself declared to be married to her by a judge after a very short time. AND the judge can order support for her and her family. Family is any children she might have (yours and not yours) and family close relations ( all family members who are living together, if you have ever been a Filipinas parents house, you know it can be a lot of people). This law is extremely open ended, and most of the decisions on time, amount of family and amount of people supported are totally under the judges discretion.

[@jamesdeckard3194]

Taken from one aka (robbery) and given it to others against someone's will is criminal in my opinion we all need to live responsibility and teach this to our children to give them a chance and not to drag them down instill pride and shame ect.

[@jamesdeckard3194]

Also a sense of independence and self reliance.

[@nedimyra]

@@andyknolls8735 As we all know, and are reminded of, we are visitors in their country. So, it's their country & their laws, not mine. We can always leave if we do not feel welcome. Good luck to the judge going after a farang with their laws when he has left the scene. Make us feel welcome, and we may come to an agreement. Use the law, and we may not feel welcome..

[@antoniohardaway6913]

@@andyknolls8735, BS! If you know anyone that this has happened to him he’s been scammed! 😂

[@petepinal8415]

Thank you for sharing, those are all very good comments for us to learn about the Filipino culture. However, every single blogger I’ve spoken to foreigner, and Filipino bloggers, all say the same thing. That Filipinas will never, never, never, ever say what their real body count is, in other words how many people they slept with. They will always say only two or three, she will always say just a few. But they will never admit how many men they have really slept with.

[@alansmith2203]

Pete, that is sign that she has some intelligence left. Who would be so ignorant to divulge that? BTW, in P.I. the kids begin having sexual relationships at quite an early age. Some even before they become menstrual. It is part of the culture in the Barangay

[@docwiltro]

Yes, the "bamboo telegraph" is a real thing in the Phils.

[@rickb7225]

I've visited Philippines five times, dated two, Filipinas in most cases are turned on by money, dating is just means to an end,

[@antoniohardaway6913]

You are correct! Cash is King in the Philippines. Money gets you whatever you want here.

[@koolkokujin7015]

You mentioned it but that's one of many things I like about Filipino people is that they are always POSITIVE! You all have very good personalities. This is why I'm moving there.

[@havaianuu]

The advice applies to any country in the world, with the exception of the first one. Respect the family and extended family should be more correctly named responsible for everyone named.

[@BKPARK-g8o]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. God bless you ❤

[@Paulathemechanic]

Money. No money no honey.

[@declangeraghty8176]

Wow why would you want to take on the whole clan. There are some people you like and some you just don’t

[@penttimuhli9442]

The first thing that comes to mind with respect for parents and family means you are expected to support them financially, is that what you mean?

[@penttimuhli9442]

What else can it mean besides being expected to carry them financially? Every culture generally expects people to respect their partners parents etc, but because it is so emphasized in this video it begs the question, is this about expectations to be financially abused by the Filipina's family?

[@johnq.public2621]

@@penttimuhli9442 YES. I worked in the oilfield for several years, and met a few Men who had Filipina wives (both in the USA and in the Philippines) and all their stories were the same, MONEY. Anyone and everyone she's even vaguely related to expects money from you. I heard story after story about how he was nothing more than an ATM, and not treated with the same "respect" he treated her relatives with, be warned brother.........

[@stevenbathurst7027]

For the most part is the same the word over. there are cultural differences that a individual mistakingly made a mistake. and did not mean to offend. people have to realize that dynamic. but there is a thing called education that needs to be applied as well. The individual needs to educated by their family (to teach) manners and respect for others, morals and values those are red flags and need to end the relationship.

[@leonwangls]

Never take advise about Filipina from a Filipina. Filipina priority is her parents, her child from previous baby daddy, then you. To prove my point, just stop giving money.

[@28pbtkh23]

I like your reasoning! Good point and great contribution to this comments section.

[@WalterWhyte12]

Hi Fretchie and thank you for your beautiful comment. You speak so honestly and truthfully. I love your content and hopefully we can speak more openly soon🥰

[@NormanEvans-y7f]

No thank you. I'll just go as single. Date on a different island or country, return home. I raised 2 families already. I'm done supporting others.

[@andyknolls8735]

very true, but filipinas talk. If you go to Cebu and date a girl and break up later, you will need to move to some where like Bagio (a bit too crowed but I liked the weather). If you plan on dating around you might get off a few dates in location you are in, but when you move from say Cebu, you do not move to Dumaguete, another city with lots of foreigners and although not on the same island, is still too close.

[@serdalkaptan]

@@andyknolls8735 Baguio, not Bagio.

[@BelusTraveller]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@alansmith2203]

Norman, I can see you have been tried and tested. You speak as a true believer. At our age, transactional love is fair game.

[@Sandra2146t]

Once you guys marry her, the people priority in her world are her family, her kids if she has any, anyone on any social media that's Filipino is before you, and other men that are admiring her are way more important than you her husband.

[@ionutmititelu2083]

Brutal 😂😂😂. Absolutely true. A guy take 8 months off , go visit his gf ,they move together, hi was 34 she was 27 , 7 years ago gap. They do well together, chemistry, communication, travel, cooking together. But the guy noticed even she sleeps in same bed with him , she still attends simps in FB and dating sites, still talking alot with Filipino and foreigner online even with him in same bed. This is like a illness like a addiction to surfing between profiles and watch

[@brendanbloom6206]

Funny how they seem to have hundreds and sometimes thousand of friends and following a thousand more and this is just fb, not including IG and tiktok

[@Sandra2146t]

@@brendanbloom6206 she's simply on social medial looking for something better once she's relocated to the west , the husband that relocated her over is not the man she really desires, only a useful tool to get her out of the shithole she was born in.

[@davidmorrow6409]

I like the sound of nature❤️

[@eliottrobinson8288]

Same here

[@SEATravels]

Same. It's a great backdrop for the video.

[@EvelynWilliams-v8q]

Respect is important indeed i don't need to tell what's the qualifications hehe because everyone have different personalities and perspective in life.And i don't demand my man to support me and my family thats all up to him f he is willing to help.😊

[@ervinalexander1734]

You're right we as foreigners must do our homework about the Culture and try too learn some of the languages always be polite 😊❤

[@fretchiedepablo]

❤️

[@Rein_Ciarfella]

Nice video! I’m probably a 4 on that scale of 5. I’ve lived in other countries and met people from all over the world. It’s so important to respect the cultures of others. Criticizing another culture only shows one’s lack of understanding.

[@WalterPetrovic]

You list all these things that show Filipinas are not accepting of a man for who they are. Immediately, they want the man to accept everything about them and their wishes. It sounds seriously stilted away from the Love, Honor and Obeying the husband, according to the traditions of conservativism.

[@VENEMPASTOR]

You have no idea what you're getting involved in. It's the last place foreigners should cohabitate and marry. Most guys are unhappy and walking on eggshells leaving one shit show behind in the West for another.

[@Lancaster7]

That's the beauty of it, they tell themselves, just let them talk and their game is clear.

[@VENEMPASTOR]

@@WalterPetrovic You have no idea what you're getting involved in. It's the last place foreigners should cohabitate and marry. Most guys are unhappy and walking on eggshells leaving one shit show behind in the West for another.

[@VENEMPASTOR]

@@WalterPetrovic You have no idea what you're getting involved in. It's the last place foreigners should cohabitate and marry. Most guys are unhappy and walking on eggshells leaving one shit show behind in the West for another.

[@VENEMPASTOR]

@@Lancaster7 Okay... You have no idea what you're getting involved in. It's the last place foreigners should cohabitate and marry. Most guys are unhappy and walking on eggshells leaving one shit show behind in the West for another.

[@topdollarjoseph]

So, when a Filipina expects you to support her, her entire family and her barangay, you call that mutual respect? It's a serious question, please answer. I don't see any shared value in that. For once, just once in my life, make a video that shows a Pinay stating (with a straight face) what she wants to do for a foreigner. In the 8 years that I live in Phils, never ONCE did I hear ANY Filipina state that she wanted to do ANYTHING for ANYONE other than her family. Wow, I can't wait to marry a Pinay!!! People always talk about how loving and caring Filipinas are. Geez, I must be going blind.

[@donaldfingar5012]

it is a national law that they are legally responsible to financially take care of their family members know this before you marry

[@wld-ph]

@@donaldfingar5012 rice and DIY is food and shelter.. it's not a Toytoa Himax and a Western House ~ maintain, not improve on your wallet... rent not buy, or that asset could be subject to court action... drip feed yourself... maybe you have parents to support, back in the West ;-) ~ above all, get a pre-nup, so you can go abroad, divorce, and repeat IF required (without the rinse). I am not saying hope it doesn't work out, but prepare any long term relationship (you are not so naive 2nd, 3rd etc time around)... it can become a Netflix subscription service... (sadly, unless you screen relly well, from what I have seen; part of that is them accepting you are not a lottery ticket, as no one supports you retired)

[@wld-ph]

what happens to all these westerners rinsed, are they supported by their filipina's family, ... NO... so learn the word...

[@donaldfingar5012]

@@wld-ph id recommend reading the law

[@kimcosmos]

I criticize tambo, most foreigners do

[@Maurice181]

Wait.... she forgot to mention money... for her, +her parents, +her siblings, +her grandma, +auntie/uncle, +sick elephant..... Also, did she mention money..?

[@woutergijs5246]

Elephant? Wrong channel, that is in Thailand 😅

[@Maurice181]

@@woutergijs5246 “sick elephant”.. is a place holder. Could be anything (sick dog, leaky roof, car repairs, school tuition, doctors bills, etc etc…).

[@rodhurst5831]

Ya it’s buffalo! 😂😂

[@topdollarjoseph]

you forgot money for her neighbors and her boyfriend.

[@wld-ph]

@@topdollarjoseph isn't her neighbour ALSO her boyfriend, that may save some money; or is he paying transactionally??? oh no, it's round the other way, free sex for him, you're paying your bills... and HIS... po

[@PhillipP75]

Funny how you talk about an American causing a scene… There was a man at Mercury Drug store in Dumaguete and the whole time he was there he was loud complaining… Then he started complaining to me about the Philippines… I told him maybe it was time to go home … He didn’t have a gf , probably because of his attitude. I had to apologize for him and let the Filipinos know that Americans are normally not that way.

[@lorenzovillegas2457]

But they kinda are that way… not all but I’ve seen it here in the US personally… it’s all over KZbin… western entitlement is a real phenomenon. Not all westerners but it’s common enough.

[@655superblues]

Western culture you marry the girl not her family, i would never go near a girl who expected me to support her family that is a big no no.

[@rickmoody6984]

I don't think you should ever share the number of men you slept with. If his number is lower, it may bother him. I would never support your family. I'm not wealthy and I'm not a fool. I could love and respect your family as long as I was treated well by them.

[@pjimmbojimmbo1990]

They are marketing a new Cologne in the Philippines, it smells like Money.... Shorts or Sweats and T-shirt, is as Nice I will ever dress, I will never go to Weddings and/or Funerals so I can save a Lot of Money instead of wasting it on Clothing

[@Dapper_Image_Official]

I dress according to where I'm going. I don't like wearing dress clothes for long periods of time because I don't like having a dress shirt collar and tie or bow tie tightly around my neck for long periods. If I'm going somewhere nice I'll dress nice with casual clothes. If I'm going to church I wear a suit. If I'm going on a date I would wear a suit or casual clothes depending on where we are going. If I'm going to the mall or I'll be out in the heat I wear shorts and a t shirt or pants. I also have shirts with collars i can wear. It just depends on what I feel like wearing but I'm always comfortable in whatever I have on except for dress shirts with ties for very long periods of time. It's like my neck can't breathe. I don't like being grabbed by my throat either which happened to me in college once. Good video. Keep up the good work. 🙂🙏🏽

[@smorgdonkey]

Girls...body count is important.

[@iDub757]

to kids..... the men they actually want dont worry about that

[@Hey_OverHere]

@@iDub757- To men of high value and quality - it matters. To the less discretionary- I guess it doesn’t matter! To each their own.

[@wesgraham2262]

Sorry but you can’t buy land in the Philippines. It’s illegal for any foreigner to do so… unless you find a filipino to own the majority share, which means they can kick you off at anytime after you’ve paid your share. It happens. You can buy a condo though. No partner needed. Be careful.

[@dargasb]

You can buy there..just start a corporation using a local PH attorney and you can purchase land there.

[@robertcarlclayton7724]

​@@dargasbSo the attorney becomes your partner?

[@dargasb]

@@robertcarlclayton7724 A local PH attorney can advise you of what you need to do to setup the corporation. I will not give legal advice of that depth here.

[@JohnGrigg-gz9gm]

There is a government program where you can lease land for a 25 year block of time, and then re-lease if necessary, for another 25 year block of time. You will pay a few hundred dollars a month, if the parcel of land is large enough. The house you build on the land is legally your own. At least with this, you don't have to worry about a Filipina stealing your property!

[@wesgraham2262]

@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm They have that land lease program in Mexico too. Kind of a standard practice. Good to know. Thanks!

[@neuro3248]

I’m white and I’m married to a white woman, I have to work 6 to 7 days a week 12 hr shifts to cover my end. I hate to break the news to you guys but the dynamics is the same in every relationship, women like stability and $ is the best way to prove it

[@Wuestenwiesel]

Lol I’m not married and I have no kids and I work 4 hours a day, 5 days a week. I feel Sorry for you bro

[@King-crimson-glory]

Am sorry your reputation has already been ruined. Am pretty sure the Philippines is a beautiful country with beautiful people. But if also has a reputation for scamming and the thousands of single moms who never seem to learn from they own mistakes. Especially these girls and women scamming men online

[@fretchiedepablo]

Thanks for your perspective! It's true that online scams can happen in any country, and it's unfortunate that some people take advantage of others. However, I'd like to highlight that many people in the Philippines are honest, hardworking, and kind-hearted. Regarding single mothers, it's a complex issue influenced by socio-economic factors, and it's vital to approach it with empathy, as NOT ALL are VICIOUS. If you encounter these challenges, it's BEST to remove yourself from the situation and remember never to buy love or force others to love you.

[@jeanclauderoget3756]

Excellent answer ​@@fretchiedepablo

[@jesusblessthesecommentsamen]

@@fretchiedepablo well said God bless

[@King-crimson-glory]

@@fretchiedepablo if you read my message properly you would see what I wrote about the Philippines been a beautiful country and so is the people.and regarding single mothers it’s a lesson that should be learned by now.the last Filipina that contacted me on a dating site before I met my now Filipina lady she’s is 20 years old and pregnant. I ask why your not with the child’s dad her reply was he was not ready to be a dad so he ran away. So she’s on a dating site looking for a foreigner to take care of her and her unborn child. And I promise you by the time this rainy season is over in the Philippines there’s gonna be a new set of pregnant single moms.sp you can use pretty words but when are these girls gonna break the cycle? Because it’s out of control

[@SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel]

Western men have no obligation/responsibility to take care of single mothers, not in the West or anywhere in Asia. A biological mother and father are responsible for their own children.

[@erikeggenbakstad]

You can see the difference on the street, the mall, or the restaurant. Those who dress up with a tee and sandals compared to the one dressed up in a polo and nice pants and shoes. Usually, good behaviour and manner follow a well-dressed man or woman. Thank you for the upload. Cheers.

[@RobertBone-k4k]

Nice video...good job!

[@HookyGerman]

Hi Fretchie. Congrats on your new KZbin channel. 🎉

[@fretchiedepablo]

Vielen Dank! 😉

[@JimD-tn6bt]

Sounds to me, like you are saying they want a pet, more than a partner. If I marry someone fopr ex? I marry THEM, not their brothers, sisters nieces, nephews, aunts, auncles etc ect.

[@JasonStone-m5i]

Tell me. If phillipina is family oriented then why the one im talking to wanna come to usa and get married and leave her 3 kids and rest her family in the Philippines knowing i do not ever wanna move to phillipines and also knowing im pretty much a loner from a dysfuncyional family?

[@caipirinha_king1632]

I respect the list. But there’s a huge difference between dating and courting. As a man, he determines which he is doing, without being restricted to “dating” one woman that he hasn’t yet gotten to know or committed to. If these rules are so valued, why is it that the same standard isn’t applied to Filipino men that the single moms there have children by?? Living with a woman under these rules (for foreigners) is out of the question until a wedding is happening very soon.

[@forgetaboutit9369]

#1 money #2 money #3 money #4 money #5 money that's all they care about typical gold diggers

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

No different than American women except that South East Asian women are prettier, slimmer, friendlier, sexier and younger. Sounds like a wayyyyy better purchase on your claim of money-money-money-money.

[@jesusblessthesecommentsamen]

Says the old over weight mild aged American..

[@David.Gee68]

Thank you for your advice

[@francoisl8260]

Very good advice! Thank you and good luck on your channel!

[@perdado]

Been there, done that. ✋🏻

[@ikeskifan]

beat them to the i need money storys. As soon as the conversation moves to money, I tell them I just found out that my brother need cancer surgery. Put it out there,,, can your family help? They think it is a one way street. That will put a stop to the atm idea. Then see if she stays or is gone. If she stays she might be a keeper.

[@topdollarjoseph]

When I sense a gold digger, I agree to send them money to Western Union. I intentionally give them a far away location to pickup the money. I also give them an incorrect money pick-up number. After they get back home and tell me it's a wrong number, I deeply apologize, then give them another wrong number. I keep rinsing and repeating.

[@johnq.public2621]

😁👍👏👏👏👏👏 Bravo! Yes, make it clear that, that road runs both ways! You can't support a ill relative AND them, period. Nice! Mind if I use this? 😄

[@ajfoster7593]

Thank you for the advice! I have a HUGE CRUSH on a Filipina. And I think she likes me too because she’s always texting me good mornings and asking how I am doing. And her family asks about me. Is that a sign that she likes me ?

[@fretchiedepablo]

Consistency in messages (no days or week gaps) is a good sign she likes you. Crossing fingers for you.

[@ajfoster7593]

@@fretchiedepablo we have been messaging each other but she works and goes to school so she’s been busy. But she messages me, like good mornings and evenings. And asks how I’ve been and am doing? As I do the same with her. And she wants to know more about me but it’s been a struggle since she’s busy all the time. And we only talk on one app. i haven’t talked to her in 15 hours. I’m in the US and you know different time zones? So it’s been hard to catch her. I don’t like anyone else just her. But I want to get to know her more. I get so excited when she messages back. And I don’t wanna put any pressure on her I respect her, and she knows I like her cause I’ve told her. She’s a great person inside and out. She doesn’t ask me for money or asks to support her. I can tell where her heart is. She has good intentions. I’ve only known her for less than a month. What should be my next move?

[@MrDoobie834]

hello my new friend. i live in USA and am the son of filipina and the husband of filipina

[@PassportDialectic]

My name is Rob. I'm actually searching for a love interest via KZbin because dating apps have never been my thing. Maybe you know a Filipina who would be interested. I’m a 44 year old (young) identical twin. I’m a kind, free-thinking and humorous retiree who has decided not to live in the USA. I’m currently visiting Brazil, but would love to find a fiancé in the Philippines. My goal is be married. May I tell you a little about myself? I don’t have much experience with kissing or dating. I’ve only experienced 3 short relationships. The last time I was intimate was 2008. Since then, my life has been about knowing myself. I know what I need in a wife to be my best self. I want the affection, the clingyness, the playfulness, yes. If my future love interest is SAGITTARIUS or GEMINI, feminine and a little kinky, she would be my fantasy fiance. I don’t think this is asking for much. I have my eyes on Iloilo, Philippines, but I'm open to any city in the Philippines. Can you help me? Do you know anybody?

[@jevonte-vb2pu]

Good lucki think you'll do well if you continue with this energy.

[@fretchiedepablo]

Thank you! Your support means a lot. I'll keep up the energy!

[@Lancaster7]

One have to ask if what they are expecting is also the same from a pinoy, often is not, so don't take their advice.

[@jasonasker]

wow i pass test waaaaa thankyou

[@reggieowens5949]

Well, I have been to the Philippines twice and met with my fiancee. And we are both older adults. Long story short. The 1st time I asked questions to her in-laws. One of them told me they stare because they are ignorant. I disagreed. I told her, maybe they're just curious. The 2nd time we met there....her good friend took us to a corner restaurant, as we walked in, one guy said in tagalog "you bring that kind here....they stink!" My fiancee was furious and put him in his place. Then we ate pancit. Lol. Just a couple things I've experienced.

[@messengerchat909]

How old are you both

[@reggieowens5949]

@@messengerchat909 I'm 59 and she's 47

[@reggieowens5949]

@@messengerchat909 Sorry for the late reply. She is 47 and I'm 59. She is now in the US and we are married. Waiting for the AOS to get approved.

[@muscleweb]

It isn’t just Filipina’s….it’s nearly all women around the globe. If ya ain’t got money, then chances are you will eventually be kicked to the curb. By the way, been married to a Filipina for 4 years now.

[@cheguevara5560]

That is nonsense ,western women with education and job is not desperate for your money ,never had a relationship in Australia based on money .

[@dsrrellgriffith1161]

no its not,,,,most of my gfs in the usa ever asked for money,,,,,,they had their own,,,,While every single filipina has asked me for money or giving big hints,,,,Its not even close,,,,

[@Melvin-cd1oy]

Run run if you are smart 🤓 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nightbeat1media]

It's somewhat comedic, check for red flags

[@paulrichardson8810]

Salimat sinta! I'm trying.

[@williamhaynes2414]

Sounds like looking for status...

[@gregoryhale2889]

Ooh Ooh let me guess MONEY!!!! is one of them and it's really number one on the list.

[@GaryAa56]

Notice no makeup? Philipina Women have a natural beauty.

[@randall811]

Appreciate the info❤❤

[@feli1351]

I am shy, a 36 year old man, a Christian, I don’t have children. Plus, I look Asian and an Asian with Curley hair? Is all of that bad?. I’m just scared of being rejected by women 😊😅😥🚶🏻‍♂️

[@gav6808]

They all want many things like aircon,internet,hot water,microwave,big banana and lots of peso.

[@Lancaster7]

And shampoo 😂

[@antoniohardaway6913]

😂😂😂

[@davidandrewburrows1015]

But the filipino can do all though things to us but we can not do it to them! meaning they can shout at us!

[@frankcentofanti9317]

you have to honour her family, her relatives and make sure that whenever they need money, you’re there to support them

[@shakeblue5573]

You are out your mind...Act like a leader of a strong man first..stop simping so freakn hard

[@Bigcol655]

@@frankcentofanti9317 what a simp

[@catsupchutney]

Easier said than done. One woman I knew wanted her brother in law to fly her husband to the US for medical treatment. I sympathized with her but would hate to be the man who was expected to fork out hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sadly her husband died.

[@mikga45]

Don't do it.

[@thomasreeves6331]

Thank you

[@CLCIII]

Thanks for being the final peice of the puzzle that convinced me NOT to move to the Philippines. As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇

[@AxelGrunberg]

i agree what you say but i m not with all. for us foreigner we didnt have a problem accept family but most see us us a atm, the culture shok have every one in other country first time need to learn and watch thats all, and of cource girls like atractive man like we like a beauty girl, allways up to the person how to handel that, and sorry no fillipina or a other country woman are realy open to a foreigner tell him any, never she wouldnt doit, nobody is perfect one say wow she beauty the other say no, .....

[@jimhoffman6979]

Salamat from USA. Thanks for your advice.

[@SEATravels]

The sounds from the animals on your farm add some special to your video, don't apologize for it.

[@topdollarjoseph]

that's animal talk for the words " I need your money"

[@michaelmereday6791]

Very nice

[@VENEMPASTOR]

*YES! I want to win the love of a Filipina. *AS LONG AS, I don't get to -deny myself my own values/culture/codes/integrity/authenticity -buy land -build a house -pay a salary/allowance -support her family/relatives -be a problem solver/ATM machine. -loan money -get people's validation/approval -get to keep to myself -stay out of people's business *LET'S GO!

[@alansmith2203]

Venem, did you fall out of bed this morning and hit your head? Why do I ask? Because you are talking nonsense and it must have been from the knock on your head. Shake it off, Dude ! You have some serious delusional ideals that will get you murdered there (figuratively) speaking

[@trailguy]

Nothing is free. If you are an older westerner and you date a young pretty filipina, there is obviously an even, fair arrangement. If she thinks you’ll give a few thousand pesos a month for rice or electricity, that’s a very fair deal.

[@MrRedResorts]

No1 ...no you don't

[@scottbrown321]

I agree with most of the comments but, People who are raised with nothing and have no hope will follow the dollars.

[@frankcentofanti9317]

$$$$$$$$$$$$ as it seems to be the topic in all Philippines talk about

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

$$$$$$$ is the same thing women in the United States is about. It's just unspoken nowadays because women make a little bit of money themselves but STILL want to spend a man's money more than spend their own little bit they have.

[@antoniohardaway6913]

THAT IS TRUE! I hear it every day.

[@JPtogether-fg5nm]

Watching from JPTogether❤

[@wesdowty79]

Money

[@RudyBenavides-l5g]

you got to take the good with the bad Darling I have a lot of philipino friends some treat there wife's like queens and some treat them like slaves but thats life we don't know what face is behind dotted line once we sign it and 2 become 1 remember foreigners show up alone a girlfriend is just a natural instint and maybe later becoming a wife but they don't come looking for familys hell thats what they just left behind

[@jeandupont7066]

But when filipinos are soo family concentradet, why there are soo many single moms in this country, is strange??

[@bonditltd5346]

It’s nice to hear nature in the background. Most westerners live in cities with few trees and animals.

[@RetiredDuke]

Yes we live in civilized cities not the frigging jungle. We have working toilets unlike the Philippines. Do little studying and you'll find that MOST westerners live as far from the bigf cities as we can get.

[@rolandogil6521]

Ok first off let's get this straight, I understand getting to know the family is important especially when 2 families are about to grow, but I'm not dating your mother father aunt uncle grandparents. That's not gonna happen I'm dating you forming a family with you and you only if you have kids and if I can see the opportunity to be a parent to those kids then yeah adoption is up for talks. I lived in Subic Cavite and Cebu for quite sometime now I love the people and the culture I'm a very honest person and I tell it how it is no sugar coating if you hurt me best believe I'll ruin your reputation hands down no cap just saying I appreciate the knowledge but something's with you and your views are questionable.

[@Dutchy-1168]

Cash doesn’t hurt

[@jmcc2275]

Money.

[@XxArielxX986]

They are so easy to get down there panse

[@johnv5156]

What's a panse?

[@BasilSoup-dx1fw]

She has conveniently left-out the most important and most required "green flag", willing to accept her children from a previous relationship. Fact of the matter is, 98.75% of all Filipinas have at least one child by the age of 19.

[@blackdave8525]

Never be a meal ticket for a family make it clear your support her not the family and don’t move close by your never get rid of them and always asking for things move the girl away !

[@WalterWhyte12]

Hi Frechie just came across you and I must say I’m very impressed with your content. Just wanted to say Hi and lovely to hear from a real Filipino lady. Hope to keep in touch

[@charliejones7574]

I AM passionate about my family. Unfortunately....I am probably older than your parents

[@puravida5683]

Money, money, money, money and money!

[@dsrrellgriffith1161]

If i had a gf and she asked for money i would tell her i dont have, i have limited income each month. Lets see how long she dumps u, or stops showing u affection,,,,