The Nightmare of Getting Old: My Struggles, and the Truth About Aging

[@ivannovotny4552]

Mike, don't regret and worry about getting older ... it's a privilege denied to many.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

you're right

[@1bhowdy]

Amen Brother!

[@billyjohnson9166]

That’s a good one.

[@manuelmoraleda9684]

The key, I think, is acceptance. Ben Franklin has a quote on that. That's your assignment.

[@rl8571]

In honor of our friends and family that passed before 30. Thanks for the reminder.

[@rocconasso6277]

Mike your talking like your the only man getting old. Mike I am 83 from usa but now live in Costa Rica 23 years. Mike at 72 I met a beautiful girl 24 .she was with me 10 years and never had argument I loved her . Mike I made plans for her if I die. Then at 33 years old she lay down on the floor and died from brain tumor.she never knew she had never sick . Now I am alone and the hurt never stops. Mike my advice keep doing everything the same and be happy because only God knows the future ok . Good luck 👍 sincerely Rocky

[@flogette]

@@rocconasso6277 God bless you

[@onebridge7231]

Sorry for your loss Rocky. Try to be happy in her memory as she would not have wanted you to be miserable; especially if she gave you 10 years of her best years with such an age gap. She truly cared for you if she stayed that long.

[@taniajonathan1019]

thank you for sharing what a shock cheers

[@rlh125]

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what that was like. To be fair to Mike, he was not at ALL acting like he is the only one getting old. He even said that he and his friends are all talking about it.

[@ceciliakowalewski7775]

Mike I'm 80 hears old. Yes it's true that after we retire the illness starts to come out because it comes wth our age but don't let it bother you, try to think that a lot of people died young & you are so lucky to be still around at 70.

[@nkesin]

The fear of death is worse than death itself. And you can't escape death. Don't bury yourself alive.

[@patland1762]

Cowards fear. One just accepts it and moves on.

[@jamesarnett4129]

Carnivore diet, zero sugar. Almost 75 and have great health since went to carnivore.

[@1linkbelt]

Don't dwell on death, enjoy life! (84 here and going strong!) I was up on my roof last week cleaning out gutters.

[@jetd9716]

There is no death. Life moves on to another level. Be ready.

[@AFRO_KEEN]

Fear of dying is the whole problem with him. Only God is going to say when it's time to go. We can't change God's will.

[@panamafred1]

Mike, I'm 76 and have been retired in the mountains of Panama for nearly twenty years. My wife passed four months ago at 69 from a cardiac issue that had dogged her since she was 31. So I am in the process of grieving and assessing what my future my bring. I'll be okay. Stoicism says accept change. Accept death. Three years ago, I was overweight, had type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, arthritis, brain fog, gum disease, you name it, I was headed to being one of those guys who you are seeing getting old and in the danger zone. Then, by a twist of fate, I switched to eating the carnivore diet way. Meat, eggs, butter, salt, and water. That's it. Over these three years I've lost the weight and all of my health concerns have vanished. I am now fit and energetic and excited about life. I have several hobbies that fill my days, along with being the maintenance man around this house that my wife and I built here. The Standard American Diet is filled with inflammatory "foods" that age us prematurely and put us at risk of an untimely death. I'm happy that I had the strength to face my sugar and carbohydrate addictions and change my life. I am now living with a lot less stress about my health and impending doom. I wish you strength and returned happiness Mike.

[@ms1362]

You really think becoming a carnivore has positive health effects? Sorry, scientific research unanimously says otherwise…

[@eddievonpapen6306]

Loneliness is a very difficult thing to overcome, but it more than possible. Being in a bad relationship is far worse than being alone.

[@petermccrickard9575]

Agree!

[@marvinphillips1326]

I’ve been here since 2022. I, like you, never married and have no kids (to my knowledge). Going to the gym M-F is my hobby. It’s something I really enjoy. Lifting weights is a huge stress reliever, also eating right and taking care of yourself will help you forget your age.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

That's great Marvin keep it up

[@jonpritz9838]

Marvin I'm with you cardio and weights great stress relief My Dad played golf and gym until he was 88 - lived to 93

[@rhaevi7915]

@@jonpritz9838 Guess, average maximumum life time now is between 93 to 95 in present senior generation that really takes themselves well. Possibly up to 100. An impressive improvement compared during western cowboys and Indian.

[@JohnKwasnik]

@@marvinphillips1326 Yes, staying active is very important! I am 72, walk one hour most days, also go to the gym. Very important!

[@ericemslie9870]

Your absolutely right Marvin I’m 65 been bodybuilding since 18 always eating good and working out. No smoke drink or drugs and I feel like I’m in my 40s. A lot of these expats don’t take care of themselves drink and have no purpose in their life and they wonder why they feel like shit. Go figure

[@alexplus3]

I workout around USA..I see guys in gym at 60, 70,80 with ripped six pack abs, muscles, ,looking like 30 yrs Old. They don't complain about nightmares or getting older

[@AussieTonythemexican]

@alexplus3 that's me, just turned 50, feel great, besides a few niggles.... knee and hip.

[@hankyoung5683]

Am 71, more of my life other than preschool is now happily dedicated to maintenance of body, emotional and spiritual health. Noticing my loss of strength and coordination but now enjoying the fight 😅

[@danabaker996]

Any faith/spirituality as a way to bring peace?

[@zed5129]

Sounds like some good "supplements"...

[@AussieTonythemexican]

@@danabaker996 perspective

[@kevinandgemma7740]

Wish I had your problem being 71 Mike , I just turned 83 how do you think I feel , I am on borrowed time but still doing my best and keeping active ..

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Wow Kevin. Just one more decade is all we can ask for. Keep it up

[@kevinandgemma7740]

@@mikesphilippineretirement Yes try to stay healthy that's all we can do . We do have a small channel Mike ..Can see what our life is like ..

[@kevinandgemma7740]

@@buddyhell7100 We are only tourists on this earth , one day it comes to an end . make the most of it while we are here ..

[@earlclep1]

Mike thank you for making me feel like I don't have any problems or stress. Sure I get annoyed sometimes at the pace of things here or the lack of respect most of the locals have for everyone that they will not receive something from. I love living in the mountains above Zamboanguita on enough land to have a quiet peaceful life when we choose. I can say the biggest 2 differences between the life of stress I had (just like you are describing) and the carefree wonderful life that I have enjoyed since coming here in 2019 is 1. Good choices 2. YHWH 🤔😉😮

[@grassmountain]

Mike stop moaning and get on with life.

[@nncadi1]

You have the answers 1. Delegate 2. Exercise 3. Eat healthily 4. Chill You’ve got this!

[@valmir144]

It's easy when you've been doing that for years, hard to start at 70s

[@paulwerdak5888]

@@valmir144 Pray for discipline. Pray for ambition and anyone/everyone can start at 70s.

[@larryestep4167]

I’m 77 . Got here 4 years ago . We got 1.2 hectares on a mountain so I get lots of exercise .we’re always on the go. Built a big house. Had about 25 family members here for Christmas. Went to Bangkok last year. Going to start seeing more of the Philippines now that we’re done with the house.

[@danielto3585]

Congratulations 🍾🎊

[@richardhowe5583]

Do you have a KZbin channel and do you have videos about building your house? What province did you build your house in? I am thinking about doing the same thing in the mountains..Thanks 👍🙏😊

[@user-rn6hm6kl4j]

well at least the family has an atm and a place to live.

[@concepciondental7953]

@@user-rn6hm6kl4jyou failed to find the right one?

[@richardhowe5583]

@user-rn6hm6kl4j I think it is a great thing for him to share his money with somebody less fortunate before he dies.. the Pharaohs of Egypt proved that you cannot bring it with you..😁🍺🍻🤠😎

[@anaveragejoeslife]

Mike, you could go tomorrow, or you could live 20+ more years. Each day is a blessing. I think you are a pretty lucky guy to be surrounded by a loving wife, family, and good friends.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I am! Thank you

[@Doug-zl8nb]

@@anaveragejoeslife Yes, for sure.Mike and his wife are nice people.They seem really enjoyable to listen and give us good content

[@ralphstarling6707]

Well said!

[@larryestep4167]

Just keep telling yourself that you’re 50 years old, and start living like it’s true.

[@markw9153]

Mike my brother, I am watching your vid as I am messaging you. This is Mark in Florida. I am married to a Filipina and we have been planning to move to the Philippines. I am 68 and won't be moving for a few years. I am so in touch with what your talking about. Please don't let those thoughts take you out of your game, you are a good guy, you bring joy to us who watch your vids. Eat right, exercise and stay positive. Get some things done to release the pressures your experiencing. I look forward to my wife and I meeting you and Janet. Thanks for all you do. God bless.

[@victorjcano]

NIGHTMARE, WELL FED, WELL HOUSED, WELL LOVED, WHAT ELSE CAN YOU ASK FORE? YOU ONLY HAVE THE PRESENT MOMENT.

[@billspaid9]

You seem to be a tough and patient person. I had to throw in the towel after 17 years of supporting my wife's clan. I just couldn't take it anymore 😢

[@georgetinant9486]

There when the goose that laid the golden eggs . Your stress level when straight down - I get it . Happy New Years

[@bhinbayoucity5691]

Sorry to hear about that, but remember each day is at least an opportunity, if not a new beginning to the next chapter (or at least page)...

[@Michael-xp9ln]

@billspaid9 17 years is a long time. Sorry to hear this information. Hope you have recovered and don’t give up!

[@billspaid9]

​@@bhinbayoucity5691Thanks Things are so much better now. I have a filipina who speaks fluent English and has her own successful KZbin channel, in fact she even travels. She recently visited the USA 🇺🇸 and Australia 😂 🇦🇺. 😊

[@robertmitchell6080]

@@billspaid9 Did u get much in the way of thanks?

[@ericander2108]

My Dad is 93 , 94 in March. He is also in an assisted living facility, he just bought a brand new Cadillac and is following the stock market, he loves sports and still tells me about a sexy woman he saw in the mall. Don't feel so old Mike you're still Young enough to be active. I think 80 is the magic number. But my Dad raises the bar. Stay strong Mike

[@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114]

Your Dad is my kind of guy. I am a 77-year-old Canadian living in the Philippines. I have a stunning 48-year-old Filipina wife, and I can guarantee that a young wife can do wonders for you. Tell your dad to keep looking at those sexy women every chance. he gets and to enjoy his new Caddy.

[@Dwayne_Kelley]

Be glad it is a teenage boy. I'm heading torward life with a teenage girl. Pray for me.

[@kuyakano8976]

Dealing with Filipino bureaucracy you can solve by not caring how long it takes. Having learned one thing about PI, is that money always talks. With that in mind, letting your wife take care of these mundane things is the right way to go. Your mission is to provide that financial stability, know your young wife as often as you can, and enjoy the life you have made for yourself in a foreign country. As long as your teenage stepson does not turn to drugs, crime or starts wearing dresses, he'll be fine. Teach him about money and how to avoid bad women and you're done.

[@kathiemathias212]

Stop overthinking as this is taking over your life. Don’t focus on what’s going to happen in the future, focus on what you need to do at this moment that will very possibly help you in the future.

[@marcoexplores4175]

Hey Mike. Wow. That was quite the outpouring of authenticity and I certainly feel for you and I certainly can relate to many of the things you were talking about… Especially the age issue. But I know you would call me a young buck at 64, right? I would agree it’s super important to get your will and end of life paperwork done. It’s really important. I totally support your notion to stay healthy and it does sound like walking for you has many many benefits, including physical. I shall be cheering you on!

[@jimmykadie2350]

Mick just live one day at a time. Don't overthink your age. Life is only as good as u want to put into it. Cheers

[@kathiemathias212]

This one is a good one from the New Testament. Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

[@wr1120]

There's nothing we can do about getting old so no point worrying much, but there is a lot we can do about living healthy. We all know how to do it because of the voice in the back of our head: don't smoke, don't drink, no sugar, and daily excercise. It's never too late to start with that. I've made it a rule to run a marathon every two years on a holiday location in order to keep me motivated. I'm currently 57 and I will keep it up as long as possible.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I'm trying to walk 2 miles every evening running 22 miles Keep it up WR

[@struglrt]

Thank you!

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

That's great about your diet, and at 57 may be okay. Just as a heads up, though, some recent research suggests too much exercise can actually be counterproductive as the years progress. I'm sure more will be known in 10 years or less. Resistance training and moderate aerobics does the trick for me at 68. I prefer swimming and walking to running, since my joints wont take it. Cutting out sugar and most refined carbs is a must. Keep up the good work!

[@MrBatteryChanger1]

@@wr1120 not easy living here, at times you will get depressed due to a number of reasons. Firstly, compatibility with the locals, compatibility with the food, compatibility with the customs and the constant annoyances. It's always a battle here, you need to control your mind and stay active and have a routine.

[@spincube5734]

Don't let procrastination be the arbiter of your health Mike !! The science says genetics is only a 40% determiner of health/lifespan. The other 60% is from regular & consistent exercise, diet, attitude & proper/adequate sleep .....AND IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO SEE/FEEL IMPROVEMENT !!

[@gregorypetersen5769]

Life is what it is, when you least expect it, expect it. Health becomes the most important issue as we age. We are born, we live, we die. 5 or 10 years from now no one will remember and, in some ways, that's a good thing. Sun comes up every morning whether we do or not.

[@georgetinant9486]

I get it Mike - I'm 71 now and have visited Mark and Paul @ Ground Zero 2 years ago today . Now I don't feel like flying 15 hours to Cebu and am content to stay home in Snowy Alberta where I have a good ( Filipino ) wife , home , family . I feel your pain , I'm where you are today . The recipe is to stay strong and stay away from people that piss me off - I'm a believer in Solitude now , lol 😶Happy New Years to You and Janet , All the Best in 2025 ( ps ) I like how you tell it like it is , Thanks for that .

[@markmitera4521]

I appreciate that you reached out to me in my time of need. I wish all the best for you.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Take care Mark

[@Galvin-j7u]

At 70, I look at all these celebrities in their 80’s-90’s and feel I’m not alone and that there’s still more to life.

[@Anthony__420]

Hey Teamster Brother Mike. I’m turning 65 next week. I do go to the gym 4 days a week and walk twice a day with my dog. I too see many friends last three years pass away. This part of life is sad to me. I’m still active but have so many aches and pains from my old UPS and Fed Ex careers. I live in Florida now(Gods Waiting room). I have plenty of money as I invested well and two pensions besides Social Security. I’d love to find a woman like Jan my brother has a pinay and been married for 8 years. She is a gem. They live in Arizona. Someday I want to go. After my obligations here. Your fortunate Jan can look after you. I’m alone. Never had kids. Thanks for your videos. Happy New Years! To you and Jan!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Local 507 Thanks Anthony

[@stevenrichards7902]

You’re so lucky to have two pensions and SS coming in, wish I was in your shoes so I could travel

[@onebridge7231]

Just do it. Buy the ticket and go for a visit. You might not like it at all and choose another path or it’s 💯 your jam and will push you to go. 65 is too old to keep procrastinating as you maybe missing out on wonderful experiences.

[@johnwehunt4305]

Hey brothers. 2727 here.

[@michaelchristophergutierre7244]

You are blessed to get old. Many don't make it Enjoy this season, and don't eat processed food; water fast, work out daily. Stay away from sugars the best you can. As Christian and Buddhist accept the journey , take each challenge as an opportunity to grow, embrace peace. Acceptance is important. I learned that from a 90 yr old Buddhist monk. Apostle Paul said the battle is in the mind. It's all about perspective. You choose how you handle this gift , I'll say it again GIFT of life brother❤

[@dukewanders]

Everyday this side of the dirt is a good day. No one gets out alive. If you have family or loved ones, having your affairs in order is one of the most important and responsible thing you can do for them upon your passing. leaving a mess for them after your passing is selfish and irresponsible. Don't sweat the small stuff. Take care of yourself and stay healthy for as long as you can. your healthspan is more valuable than lifespan. Passing quickly, when it happens, is a gift. Hopefully it happens doing something you love.

[@MichaelBuck]

I'm almost 64 and I am not OLD and refuse to let age dictate to me that I am old. I already have been eating healthy and exercising for the last 15 years. The key for me is to stay active and stay healthy. I havent seen a doctor for over 15 years now. I am planning to live to 100. Both my parents are in the late 80's and I had a great grandmother who lived to 97. So eating healthy, exercising and genetics should get me far. I refuse to say I am OLD as I plan to remain active, alert and productive no matter my age.

[@edsteward7717]

Hate seeing you down bud. Keep your head up, and be happy to be where you are. Be happy to make that girls life better. I know you know. Enjoy life.

[@Morongobill]

Mike, at the end, you laid out the ways you can handle your situation. You are absolutely right with your stepson, let him be himself and let his mom and uncles take the greater responsibility. He will be alright.

[@DeltaDawg]

No proper stroke care in Duma, or Heart doctors/equipment…. While the Philippines can extend your life in some ways, it can also decrease your life expectancy due to lack of proper medical care

[@jerryG-p3w]

every day of my life there was a nightmare. I came back to the states and I am much happier. Medical care is not good.

[@sugoidessho]

That's just one reason why I would never move there. People talk about the Philippines as if it were some type of "paradise." It is not. Its a third-world country where half the population exist on $2 a day. For me, 2-week vacations only to enjoy the beach resorts and nightlife if I want it. But after 2 weeks I've had enough and am ready to come home to a first-world country with my own language, culture, first-world heatlhcare and mentality.

[@Bslmk]

​@@sugoidesshoagree. The Philippines is no country for old men. Folks who go and stay there are mostly those who can't afford the cost of living in their own country, usually the US, with their social security and or a small pension. I'm originally from the Philippines but the only reason I'll stay there for more than 4 weeks at a time is to check off my bucket list of Philippine spots, which I admit are quite gorgeous and impressive. Or maybe stay there for good when I am really old and decrepit, and need 24/7 nursing care and don't care when my next stroke will be, instead of getting dumped in a nursing home that reeks of urine here in the US. I'd rather walk around naked in my drawers along the beaches of El Nido than wander aimlessly the streets of Tampa Bay 😢

[@edwinbetts5927]

The way to get old fast is to keep thinking about getting old.

[@dragonrick54]

I'm 70, born in October 1954. Stress is nothing but a war in your head. Win the war! Don't let things get to you. Never tell yourself you are getting old; you'll just get older faster. Nobody believes me when I tell them I'm 70; they say I look more like I'm in my 50s. I don't drink or smoke. I take lots of supplements, and I never worry. I also have a girlfriend in Cebu who is much younger than me. I'm still working in California, but I'll retire in June, pack my bags, and move to Cebu City. Make a video next time telling people you feel young and alive instead of making these types of videos. Live your life one day at a time. Hope to meet you someday.

[@listerine414]

Cebu city pollution and filthy will kill you fast sir. Don't do it. City is a dump

[@seasiatroll9900]

Honest and thought-provoking material, Mike. I think you're gonna get 100k views on this one. Well done!

[@costaricasbestguide9906]

Old age does not have to turn into a nightmare. I am 69 and a half and have no illnesses, no meds of any type, never hospitalized and plenty of energy. Presently working on 4 different businesses I have developed, or I am developing. So, what is my secret? Well aside from good genes I always eat healthy food, living in Costa Rica I can buy good, fresh food cheaply and I exercise regularly but most of all I find that intermittent fasting is the key. I started with not eating for 16 hours and consuming 2 healthy meals in the remaining 8 hours. Now I am at 18 hours no food (only black coffee, green tea, both 0 sugar or cream and water with lemon and pure Himalayan salt from Pakistan not China AND 6 hours during which I eat one healthy meal mostly and some healthy snacks like fruit, dates, figs, apricots, watermelon, berries of all types and good nuts. Make sure to drink 1 liter of water per 60 pounds of body weight. AND if you can manage it go to sleep between 9 and 10>30 pm. Do it and tell me what happens in 90 days!

[@stevenhull5025]

My younger brother married a Filipino 22 years ago. They have spent that time working their socks off in the UK. They have visited the Philippines (Mindanao) many times, investing in property and land for their retirement. Within the past 6 months my brother has had two heart attacks. He is 56. He has now been medically retired from his job as a London bus driver. He is adamant he will return to the Philippines from the UK early next year for good. I worry as where his property is located in Mindanao local hospitals are not that good. In my opinion, he will be lucky to hit 60 let alone 70.

[@ijatpingrhyb]

@@stevenhull5025 used the hospitals in Mindanao . I found them excellent. You have to pay but got the best care.

[@ritzrn630]

I am a nurse originally from Mindanao, now in NHS. I worked with many really good doctors there. Do your research . Adventist hospitals are usually good in the Philippines. Also the Doctors Hospital usually named after each city . But good hospitals are not free .

[@tordamsleth7460]

I am 78 and have had cancer for the last 8 years thankfully I can take a pill every day and stay alive. I do not think about dying at all, just try to enjoy life as much as possible and riding my motorcycle when I can. Being able to get up in the morning , dress myself and eat is a good enough no stress situation. Moving to another country means differences one has to accept and adjust to, no use complaining. I think this guy needs to realaxe quite a bit and enjoy life as is.

[@jasonjames4254]

I did the whole stepdad thing with my Filipino stepson, but I was in my 20's/30's. Honestly, I couldn't imagine doing it with a Filipino teenager in my 60's/70's. That's way too much stress for me in my retirement. The Filipino culture is NOT one that stresses personal responsibility. Kids grow up much more slowly in the Philippines and Filipino mothers tend to treat them like babies way too long. Chances are, if you attempt rein in his typical teenage behavior, you'll just get the standard "yes, yes", smile and nod routine, and then your wife and stepson will just do whatever they want to do behind your back. I'm not suggesting you shouldn't play hardball with him to help keep him check, but I think you'll be forced to accept the reality that your influence as an American stepdad is minimal at best. You do however enjoy the power of the purse strings, and shouldn't be shy of reminding him that there WILL be consequences for him failing to keep his nose to the grindstone. If Janet is a typical Filipino mother, she'll likely bail him out of whatever trouble he gets himself into and he'll learn nothing. Frustrating!

[@jesse75]

I don't want anyone else's kid. Especially a b r a t Filipino kid.

[@juanvaldez7633]

I was glad to hear the realization towards the end of the clip that especially as you age, staying healthy should be Priority #1. At 67, I make it a point to work out strenuously for least a half-hour daily - and that doesn't mean just going for a brisk walk. It's hiking and biking challenging uphill climbs, rowing machine, swimming laps, strength workouts doing pull-ups, pushups and dips, etc. I decided to give up competitive sports because of loss of athleticism and the injury risks involved, but find I don't miss them that much. And along with that commitment should be an equally strong one to eating healthy and getting enough sleep. At this rate, I feel I'll be able to maintain my current fitness level at least another ten years. My main concession to aging has been not going out nearly as much now, but since that usually involves drinking and missing out on sleep, it's something I'm willing to sacrifice in favor of staying healthy.

[@JunRoss-pp3mv]

Accidents do happen so being healthy is not the only problem.

[@philvorce1412]

Getting old is a bummer no matter where you live.

[@jesse75]

That's the truth.

[@roswo]

Age 69..my full time job is taking control of my health fitness ..and diet ...and mitigating all potential stress situations ..and of course having the love and care of a good filipina...will add yrs to our life i believe ....basically, living a simple and clean life ..

[@briangardner6166]

good advice

[@arrowhead455]

Mike, this is the first video I’ve seen of yours. I just want to say this - age in a large part is your mindset. Not everything, but it dictates how your body develops. Lift weight - if you don’t now, start small, 10 lb dumbbells. This will help you immensely, physically and mentally. Make goals and DO THEM. They don’t have to be big, just don’t let them slide.

[@bryonhogg485]

I watched the Beatles go on Ed Sullivan - So yeah - We're kind of like the Dinosaurs now - But I'm almost 69 and still working 40 + hrs a week - You've got to keep punching - My hobbies are woodworking - Riding my bike - Reading - Listening to classical music . . .

[@RandyRhode-yq5hq]

I am 75. I just made the 2 suitcase move over here 2 weeks ago, after 2 trips here earlier this year. Your not old, just older. Stay active and hopefully we both will see the Browns win the Super Bowl.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Go Cav's and Ohio St

[@bhinbayoucity5691]

THAT may take a while! Lol. 😮

[@sciencerefugee3042]

Browns … Super Bowl, that’s not gonna happen

[@l.rongardner2150]

That's about as likely as Deshaun Watson giving up his "happy ending" massages. Giving up on Baker Mayfield was the Brown's big mistake. Meanwhile, AceBachelorCool is celebtrating, because his Detroit Lions are kicking ass, and contenders to win the Super Bowl.

[@Michael-xp9ln]

@RandyRhode-yq5hq I’m a lifelong Kansas City Chiefs fan. Go K.C. Chiefs!!!

[@QuaaludeCharlie]

Mike , you'll be ok , skin will peal off and new things will fall off and new things will grow .

[@cliffyfellows38]

I’ve been in LDR since 2018. I’m 72 and my partner is 37 with 3 kids. 8 - 16 yo. One thing i know is that interacting with kids keeps your mind younger. We have a house and a business that will give my partner security when i am gone. Yes, our bodies get old and we get physically more tired but keep some exercise going, eat sensibly and enjoy what u now have. Health is our biggest concern so have a plan. Try a new project Mike and don’t sink into apathy and shake off the stress. I wish you many more years of livin’ and lovin’ life. 🌻

[@jefflynch3946]

Congratulations you are now part of the Philippines welfare system LOL

[@iluvmoney6767]

@@jefflynch3946 LOL! Very true words!

[@iluvmoney6767]

I would not want a filipina with any kids under the age of 18. No thanks. Been there. Done that!

[@cliffyfellows38]

What welfare🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@JamesVarnas]

keep pressing on Mike, you look great for 70, I admire you traveling there at that age-I am 65 still active-in Florida the heat wears me out , so I am heading back to cooler climate, its so inexpensive there, to live well on 2200 bucks, just not paying my property taxes ,hoa fees and homeowners insurance ,just those 3 things would save me 4000 a month, keep kicking and enjoy

[@Eduardo-m2i]

Thank you for sharing your nightmare. I'm still enjoying my life here in the good old USA. All my friends and relatives are here. Why should I leave? This is paradise for me. My home is paid for, I have a wife and grown children and a few grandchildren. I can go to watch Dodger games in person. Live concerts of popular musicians, Las Vegas, and still travel around like Thailand, Japan, China. I've never been to Europe and don't care to. I have no complaints or regrets. Thank God.

[@mfitzgerald130]

Two rules I stick to, never ever think of what age I am and secondly never ever say the word old ,only use the word " older ".

[@CaptainRon2]

Mike, exercise relieves stress. I always feel better after being in nature, so relaxing and peaceful.

[@jesse75]

I'm 66. Play guitar, go fishing, I'm a very good bowler. This guy has a big yard. I'd have a garden and grow orchids.

[@ega1544]

Yes Mike- walk, walk, walk! God bless you and your loved ones

[@eduardocortes4464]

All your worries are a normal part of life, live more and worry less.

[@MisterDigDug]

Stress is a killer. Some facts that you now realize, teenage children are very difficult to deal with in your 50s. In your 70s….that is a heart attack waiting to happen. The children are learning but they can be incredibly challenging, especially as a stepfather and foreigner. Good news is that period will end, but maturity of teens can take years. In the meantime don’t sweat the small stuff.

[@mountainmusings23]

I'm 65 in 4 weeks. For me this is probably your most interesting video and you present your perspective with authenticity and sincerity.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Wow, thank you!

[@ronlafleur4246]

Mike you're thinking negatively will manifest as your reality. Keep dreaming, moving forward and live for now its where you are.

[@ChocolateAfterDark]

I’m in my mid fifties and I have the same thoughts he has now……

[@rtw1947]

Very astute observation. Pay attention, Mike.

[@rovli816]

He overthinks. It will stress him out

[@trueve]

Awesome video my friend! I can totally relate to just about everything you talked about, including the stepson living here in the Philippines. However, one thing I noticed between our lifestyles that I didn't here you mention is a relationship with the creator of us all. Having a good healthy relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ I believe will ease a lot of tention as you continue living here abroad. At least consider this if you're not currently experiencing this. And if you have in the past and walked away, just give it another go. All the best my brother.👍

[@JeremiahHexx]

LIFE EXPECTANCY for the average Filipino man is 67, you are already outliving most Filipino men. USA life expectancy for men is 79.5 , living in the Philippines WILL shorten your life. Stay in the USA, live longer.

[@ArtoriasTheme]

Got a source on your final sentence? Filipino men don't live to 67 just because they live in the Philippines, it's lifestyle and all kinds of factors. It doesn't mean their life expectancy is gonna become your life expectancy if you move there.

[@jesse75]

I'm sitting on the fence. Retire in the Philippines or dump my filipina wife and live simple in the United States.

[@JunRoss-pp3mv]

We saved & invested on our financial portfolio while in our 20's so we can retire in the US. We are now 12 years retired & never have to worry about money. It's really hard to be living in undeveloped country like Philippines specially if you're in the province. Doctors lack advanced medical knowledge & hospitals are ill equipped. Ambulances lack life saving devices. Most of them only have a bed & an oxygen. So, having a stroke or heart attacked, your chances of dying or being vegetable increases. You also have to pay all your medical bills out of your own pocket. Major surgery cost over a million Pesos. That's the reason we retired in the US cuz as you aged, you'll have multiple medical issues. We only pay $30 to see a doctor or specialists, blood work & imaging like MRI, X-Ray & CAT Scan are free. If hospitalized, our copay is $250.

[@Dan-q6v1v]

So true. We take a lot of granted in the US. Especially health care. To think they don't even treat you until you pay first in the Pi and most developing countries. A British lad found out the hard way after a motorcycle accident all alone at night. They placed him in the mortuary. When he woke up with a massive headache they still wouldn't give him anything until they had confirmation of a payment. Horrible!

[@11Suncere]

Thailand has some of the best healthcare systems and facilities in the world.

[@richardhowe5583]

Who do you have insurance with? I am in my late 60s and I have Humana to go with my part B not really sure exactly what it pays because I am never sick, yet😮

[@johnrynkiewicz1607]

... The Nightmare of Getting Old: My Struggles, and the Truth About Aging ... Keep yourself busy all the time, it helps. BTW. Having a younger woman helps, too ;-)

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

That it does

[@Mark_Mullotank]

This video cheered me up immensely. Thanks! I can't wait to get old, that's when I'm partying hard.

[@MrBatteryChanger1]

For those guys thinking of retirement here, just remember one thing, having kids will introduce more stress than you can imagine. You had your kids back home, now it's time to enjoy yourself not re introduce burdens. Its nott easy living here, at times you will get depressed due to a number of reasons. Firstly, compatibility with the locals, compatibility with the food, compatibility with the customs and the constant annoyances. It's always a battle here, you need to control your mind and stay active and have a routine.

[@MangoKashInThePhilippines]

Not true I have a one year daughter here todays her birthday and she has sever Cerebal palsy she’s my little Angel not stress at all

[@bcq6154]

Retired at 60 here in Brazil ! Now almost 69 and totally enjoy the beaches and the beer ! Be thankful you do not live in a war zone getting old with no house , no money , no family ! Israel and the Ukraine must be tough going !

[@bcq6154]

@@willcross5512 You can keep all the Boyolas

[@douglaslatham9904]

10:32 I know how you feel Mike. I've just turned 75 and I can really feel the difference since I turned 70. Feel like I'm walking on very thin ice since then. Hope it stays good for you. I've travelled a bit since 65 y/o, and have visited Malaysia, Thailand, Laos and Vietnam. In Kaula Lumpur now, and will hit the Philippines for the first time on January 7th, when I arrive in Cebu. Not out for much else but the cheaper cost of living, which is good for someone on a Pension. Love the tropical weather, and the food has been great wherever I've been. Making life enjoyable, but that ice seems very thin at times Do it well Mike.

[@machinesnmetal]

I'm 44 and have never felt so old

[@justingoodnow851]

Every year you'll say the same thing, cus it's true lol

[@machinesnmetal]

@justingoodnow851 🤦

[@GenXstacker]

Mike, I know your old stomping grounds well. I lived in San Ramon, went to school in Livermore, and was in Pleasanton on a regular basis. I think your nightmare sounds pretty good 😂 No one can live every day on vacation, it's not realistic. I think spending the last stage of our life with a younger wife and even a teenager sounds like a potentially fulfilling experience. Even if he bucks againsr your aurhority you could potentially have a bigger impact on him than you realize. I don't have kids of my own, but I came from a large family and have always tried to mentor younger people who seemed adrift with no direction. It's a rewarding experience.

[@Gaza-vu6gl]

I moved to the Philippines 18 months ago. I went to see a friend who is only 44 married to an older Australian man aged 74. She had a stroke and when me and my filipine partner visited her I was so shocked. Public hospital my god what a state. It has had an impact on me. Our friend due to lack of post care will not recover. I said to myself as I’m 64 what happens to me if something happens. Private care fine for a while until the money is gone. It’s impacted me greatly mentally. Back in UK at the moment

[@JunRoss-pp3mv]

That's the problem in any undeveloped country. Healthcare is a nightmare. Can't find health insurance to insure you. A few does but it cost between $400 to $600 a month with limited coverage. Then advanced medical knowledge is lacking & most hospitals all ill equipped unless you're in a big city & have a lot of money.

[@markc7274]

You need to be prepared especially with most KZbinrs not expressing this enough. Living in the province is wonderful but if you have any significant medical issues you need to have a plan. As we age our medical issues will increase naturally which is something people don’t really want to talk about. You don’t want to obsess about it but you should be prepared.

[@Gaza-vu6gl]

@@markc7274 definitely is the case with me. Couple of things now creeping up on me now. Pretty fit and active from a sport swimming background. We get older and things happen. Thankyou for your reply. Really appreciate it

[@derekmarsden8934]

I live in the UK and like every country in the world it has its issues but the NHS is wonderful. You can be penniless, collapse in the street and if a triple heart bypass is the answer you will get one carried out by top surgeons without any concern for cost.

[@ritzrn630]

There are many great hospitals here if you have thousands of £££ to spend.

[@jasonrhodes8890]

Mike I don’t comment often, but I appreciate your honesty and openness. Your content has been helpful to me. Thank you!

[@AZ_Bill]

At 65, I’m having serious reservations about returning to the Philippines to retire. I live a block and a half from a major university hospital. My chance of surviving or heart attack or a stroke is much better here. I suspect that there is a major difference between visiting and falling in love with a Filipina and actually growing old there. I hear what you are saying for sure.

[@robertmitchell6080]

@@AZ_Bill U just need plenty of money and plenty of luck, or stay single, occupied, try and eat healthy, but be near a good medical facility.

[@femychan3808]

I can understand how you feel about aging. Minimize your stress by refusing to get bogged down on drama. However, there is not much you can do about getting old. Your health is your wealth. Treat your body like a car& go for a quarterly detox/cleanse at a spa resort whose emphasis is natural healing. The Farm in San Benito, Lipa. Batangas is one such place. After 7-10 days stay, you’ll feel like a young man with lots of energy. There is near El Nido in the island of Malapacao & also in Boracay. I maintain 2 houses; gated community for 55+ in the States & a beach house in the Philippines. I was born & raised in Baguio City however I have lived in the States for years. I’m 75; financially independent & have an active lifestyle; I don’t take medication & have been into natural health since my 40s. I detox quarterly ( cleanse my kidneys, liver, bowel, colon) It is still an adjustment every time I’m in the island as the pace is slower. I just have to slow down as island living will do that to you. I enjoy the variety of fruits, fresh fish & vegetables. I don’t eat meat. Take the time now to teach your wife on how to handle the finances, check book, & budget. Be easy on yourself. People nowadays can live a great life in the 90s -100s.

[@craigsolow9003]

Thanks Mike for just telling it the way it is!

[@bryonhogg485]

Marks last few videos - He would talk about becoming ill and Hospitalization - Like he had a sense of foreboding that something was gonna happen - Maybe scrap the land idea for now - It's just going to be detrimental to your health - Be an expat tour guide and or a consultant once or twice a week to keep a positive outlook on life . . .

[@mj-offgrid]

Just started watching your channel a little while back and like your content. You come across as a reasonable, authentic person. You've thought about things a great deal. As I get older, I ponder many of the same type of things. I've myself find, especially when thinking of end of life things that my faith is what I lean on and carried me through. I believe in Jesus Christ and without that part of my life guiding me, I'd be far less equipped to deal with the tough issues of aging that we all face. Your wife and son are lucky to have you. I wish you the very best.👍

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

wow thank you MJ

[@nickjohnson811]

At 70 you're still just a pup. I hit that mark 8 years ago and I'm still doing fine.

[@m.y.4345]

As you get older, her “needs” will continue and your ability to meet those needs will fail. What is the plan?

[@evinwhiteson4902]

You obviously have not lived in 3rd world.

[@m.y.4345]

⁠yes I have lived in Brazil & Thailand. The fact is, she is in her prime years and he is not. Her “needs” will be increasingly difficult to meet. Realistic expectations are important.

[@SalvatoreP-d9r]

Mike, it looks like you need a holiday. Don't worry about everything. Live day to day and do lots of walking. Walking gets you fit without even noticing it. Just do it!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for the tips!

[@WillowandPup]

Wow your blowing my mind I'm 60 but female excepted my mortality long ago unsuccessful by so many's standards but each day I still work hard, each day I make it ..BOOM I am doubly blessed and so too will be anyone who gets my excess hard ass won penitence. It is filled with love and sacrifice though small to many. I certainly am so very grateful for any source of hope I have received. You are lucky to be loved in paradise just sew up the loose ends know you will someday go be grateful and enjoy. And thanks for popping in such interesting company for a fleeting moment.😊

[@Armando97531]

I hear you Mike. For me, my best days are ahead of me, because one day i will be with King Jesus, and that’s where i want my thoughts that ramble on and on to be.

[@erniegalarza4266]

Very well said and delivered. I admire the fact that you spoke from the heart. This is never really easy. I wish you the best of luck and will take your advice.

[@ChocolateAfterDark]

I’m in my mid fifties and I have the same thoughts he has now……

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thank you so much!

[@jsumya7593]

I am so glad we are connected through your channel; it’s so honest and inspiring. I may not be as old as you, but I’m close-I’m 63 years old. I also have a deep passion for educating children. While they are not my biological children, I love them as if they are.

[@UberToeknee]

Mike, you will persevere, take your time and put everything you can think of into getting Janet ready to cope with all the things you are doing now. Let her handle things slowly over the next year and take the training wheels off. Let her make mistakes so you can still help to get her confidence up. I still need to plan my next chapter but have a great start with a trust in place and will etc. Take it easy my friend and soon that Filipina will be taking care of you as well as you have taken care of her. Happy, healthy, New year to you, Janet and PJ!❤

[@ChocolateAfterDark]

I’m in my mid fifties and I have the same thoughts he has now……

[@malikkweli8627]

Thank you for sharing your life and your perspective. Its truly invaluable!

[@rg5706]

Think about how you are going to feel when you are 90! 70 will seem like you were a baby!! And eating well can be a fun journey, new recipes, new ingredients, new routines!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Yes! Thank you!

[@mulinzhan4167]

Hey Mike, I'm in Taiwan up north from you. I'm 73 and am still mean as shit. I spend my summers and early Fall at my gold digs in Alaska. Here in Taiwan I spend my days working at our local farm. No fear. No doctors. No pills. Just fight until you are no longer able to stand. Cheers.

[@Peace-no1]

Important for raizing a teenager is setting boundaries...

[@SurfingTheMentawais]

Stay active, manage your weight and think of the things you are grateful for. All that other nonsense will drift away.

[@TheIObook2024]

Mike, it’s okay to vent. Just let it all out. But really, compared to other 70 year olds, you have much to be thankful for.

[@alanaldpal950]

Your time is going to end when it…… ends. You don’t know when that is and worrying or losing sleep will not change your mortality but will make your remaining days less enjoyable. You don’t have to live each day like it’s your last day but you should strive to enjoy each day, one day at a time. The only best changes you can make is avoid things that waste your time, and make healthy decisions that may buy you extra time or improve your health so you can still enjoy the days that you still have. Worrying about what happens after your passing for the people you care about can be improved by tying up losses ends now to give you peace of mind while you are still alive that they will be OK after you make the final move on. Carry on

[@brucejones8047]

It’s been over a year to get title on our property. It’s supposed to become official next month. I’m keeping my fingers crossed 🤞

[@brianstevens8554]

Mike 70-71 is not old these days Im 77 78 next year and yes the will is done.. thinking of the rest I try not to..Keep active lose weight most of health issues are caused by being overweight and not eating properly.. Enjoy your seventies Mike ..Take Care we all worry, but it's common in later life .

[@stannmcb3]

Getting old is better than the alternative. Take care of what you can. Get affairs in order. However it does no one any good to stress over things you have no control over. We were each given a life and in the end we owe a life. That’s just the way it is. To me it’s about working towards being able to seeing my life as a spectator run and without regret. 👍

[@bernieburawski1446]

Thanks for posting this. I am 64 and turn 65 on 1/16/2025 and not looking forward to it. For now, I am choosing to work full time because it keeps me busy but more importantly, I am grateful to not only have a job, but I really like what I'm doing and that is a big difference. This info is a great public service as far as info goes. I have the same anxieties and worry about the future because the world and national news doesn't offer anything good and that bothers me. I always used to think that things will eventually or inevitably get better but it doesn't look that way now and that is depressing.

[@bhinbayoucity5691]

I just turned 59, & Im ALREADY a grumpy old man! 😂😊😅, so ive got a lot if loonngg yrs ahead of me...

[@gregdixon5848]

I just turned 70 here in Canada. Age creeps up on all of us. Stay healthy and everything will be fine. Lose the grumpy and think more positive. Be more positive about PJ because he will be a blessing in your older age and he will be the rock for his mom when you are gone. You are doing the right thing so lose the nightmare scenario. Life at 70 is good!

[@Lutz-g7k]

Already 904 comments, so one answer more by me will not count. I am a guy from Germany (now it seems to turn to Germanistan), moved to the Philippines nearly 30 years ago when I was 47. So I understand your thoughts about aging. As a former self-employed businessman I was used to work much more than the 40-hours working week of average people, so I think I deserve my early retirement. What I want to say: as of now I enjoy my every day life, this morning I got up when I heard the neighbor's cock. I moved to the folding chair outside of the house to watch the sunrise, minutes later my lady (30 years younger than I) brought me a cup of coffee. When inside my room I enjoy a good Internet connection, the transmitter about 100 meters away. And hundreds of channels to watch, from boxing to car racing to investment and more. My pension is very small, I cannot afford to go to a doctor, so I try to live a calm and healthy life, eating fresh vegetables from our garden and eggs from our chickens, sure they also get only natural food. 😏

[@richardhowe5583]

What town in the Philippines are you located? Sounds like you have found a good place.😮

[@richardhowe5583]

What town in the Philippines are you located? Sounds like you have found a good place.😮

[@Lutz-g7k]

@@richardhowe5583 Not a place for everyone. I live in a remote area of Bicol in southern Luzon, in the province Camarines Sur . My lady's family here has a property where we could build a house without the need to buy land. 🌴

[@BestEachDay]

So, everyone your same age is in the same boat as you. I'm 62, and I already feel all those things. This life isn't all there is. Don't just invest in yourself. Spend time helping and serving others. It will help you feel happier. You cannot stop time, and eventually you will decline and die. We all do. So do something worthwhile that will last and make a positive impact on others. Then you can advance and go satisfied that you did well.