5 REASONS You Feel Lost In Life & How To FIND YOURSELF! | Brene Brown & Lewis Howes

[@judithmann3190]

I am 78 and I have just learned that I am enough and that everyone is not going to like me and I am my own best friend 🥰

[@lia-liz2012]

Amen!!!

[@viviansmallwood3078]

I am sooo happy for you.

[@charnewyngaard9598]

That was beautiful to read.

[@twilde3754]

Amen Judith!

[@Herenottherenow]

❤

[@jenjones6284]

Lewis - I just want to comment that you did a really nice job interviewing Brene. You didn't cut her off or talk over her. Introverts like time to think about what they want to say before they speak, and you gave her that time instead of rushing her or finishing her sentence with what you thought she might be trying to say.

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Yep. That was really good

[@charnicholson8987]

I definitely agree with this statement. Trying to belong and the feeling of loneliness. The story of my life and a constant battle for me. I still am not able to come to grips with this.

[@PlanetaSeguroSustentável]

Those people is a great example of be courageous being vulnerable... All of them had face setbacks... all of them has learned with trial and erros as well

[@triciamedora9274]

Lewis I was compelled to acknowledge how authentic, genuine, and compassionate you are. Your presence with and interest in your guests is engaging. You are golden💛 a gift! Thank you.

[@AppleTY2015]

Absolutely agree and I love how you don’t talk over people or keep saying ‘yes’ … ‘oh yes’… ‘mmm’ in every silence. You’re a beautiful man. 🌿

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you! 🙏

[@triciamedora9274]

@ yes, very grateful to see a person shine, with humility, has an interest to learn more and willing to share the knowledge with us. Our world 🌎 is blessed.

[@bobbyphillips1151]

Recently lost my husband and feel I do not fit in at times..

[@religionishipocrisy]

@@bobbyphillips1151 I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find some close friends to get you through the tough times. More importantly, I hope you discover the inner strength, love and resolve to be your own best friend, no matter what.

[@carolynbagshaw4686]

Extrovert introvert, I agree courage to belong to yourself is a daily process. The key to balance between the two. I know it's the freedom to be who we are. I work w kids and this helps me daily.

[@blindwarrior6214]

It is so true when she says that if you voice your fears you take away its power. 🎯 I have had a tragic and traumatic childhood and even adult life, but one thing I can say about myself is that I am extremely confident, I believe that I possess something special within myself,🌟GOD. I have learned that being grateful especially in your darkest moments is empowering. 🙏👸🌹 Daughter of the most high King 👑 Jesus Christ.💕

[@amyp9010]

Hey warrior if you are LDS we should chat or at least since you believe in Jesus Christ we should chat

[@Msfruity44]

Amen!!

[@cynthiaewing6584]

❤️❤️❤️

[@gracelovvheals2169]

Amen 🙏

[@thembisaodendaal]

That is amazing

[@kimjohnston6195]

Belonging is being comfortable in your own skin and not worrying if someone gets you or not. Love being your authentic self. ♡

[@MsFrageria]

Very impactful interview. Most parents don’t realize that often times just apologizing to your child for any shortcomings will solve a lot. Instead of making them believe their feelings are out of place.

[@statesunlocked]

This is so true. Showing children the same respect you would ideally show an adult, by apologising when necessary will imbue them with a sense of self worth and self compassion

[@laurieclark2456]

My spouse was a big criticizer- to our kids. Now that they left he’s doing that to me. Even about the very same people that are being kind to me. .

[@kellyh9572]

@@laurieclark2456 get rid then. You watched your children go this, now your accepting it yourself. Dont live with regrets 🥳

[@ChristianaSenibo]

It's so important to validate our children's feelings. It builds confidence in them which is so fundamental in dealing with everything else they face externally.

[@LC-pk4zz]

You couldn't be more right. Even though it's said you should forgive, regardless of whether someone apologizes - thinking about my own father... an apology or accountability for his shortcomings would have changed the entire course of our relationship. We had a moment 4 years or so before he died where he was actually vulnerable, apologized - it felt like a huge weight was lifted from my shoulders and thought - finally, things could be different! Unfortunately old habits die hard and he returned to the comfort of his old ways until he died.

[@sherryhicks4156]

I have never felt like I was a part of my family. To this day I still have issues with feeling like I am a part of anything. I am 74 years old. I belong to me too!!

[@lia-liz2012]

Me neither, and now @65, I see that I am confident, even if my family doesn't agree with me on politics or ANYTHING actually. They even act embarrassed about me most times. I lived (wasted) half my life trying to fit in 😔

[@jixie_93]

67 here...me too...tried again recently to fit in with them and, sadly, it just never feels right... I've ended up depressed and lost feeling again...they aren't at all into healing or spirituality and that's all that matters to me now...don't know what I was thinking...I was just lonely I think....

[@susanscandles]

I have felt the same way and still do at 61. Friend and counselor said it was an “ orphan spirit”.

[@horaciocapanelli-soto4710]

I’m with you in this

[@traceylennon1204]

@Sherry...Girl I can SO RELATE to your comment!! And I'm talking more about my immediate family...

[@livinhereina-townempathica2895]

"pain that is not transformed, will always be transmitted". Hurt people, hurt people ~~just leveled da fuq up

[@gracelovvheals2169]

True statement...."I belong to no one, but myself." Thank you for this. It's really helped me understand its okay to be alone. 🙌💗

[@graceramirez748]

I believe you belong to God he created you not to be alone He created us to be with somebody no man is an island. Adam and Eve created as one pair. Yes to be alone is lonely if you don’t know that there is God with you.

[@JL-wb1dy]

@@graceramirez748 very well said. Thank you

[@myavo4015]

That is the truth .. we belong to God ❤

[@vm3813]

Lewis & Brene: outstanding dialogue, candid sense of sharing & mutual respect. Thank you BOTH for continuing to come out of YOUR comfort zones and giving US the room and ……challenge to do the same. 👍🏽

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@rachelbowler5096]

“Vulnerability is power” made my heart glow ✨

[@mawescott]

True Belonging Demands That You Be Who You Are. The cost is high but the reward is great. Never ever betray yourself.

[@sas-lt4qv]

Thank you - what a liberating statement “I belong everywhere I go, as long as I never betray myself’…🙏

[@idacullinan216]

9🥐

[@rhytmicmelody]

Gggi

[@KuiWagacha]

Testify.

[@TheWallaceReboot]

Yes!!

[@lilycat1694]

I am still trying to figure it all out at 59 years old. Struggle as an introvert who feels very alienated from other people. Never feel like I fit in. Maybe It’s okay. This is a helpful video.

[@mmmanduh5713]

Lewis is such a good interviewer, it's really nice to hear his well timed questions coming from such a vulnerable and honest place. Videos like this are really important to me as a single mom to a 17 year old son.

[@lewishowes]

🧡

[@chickencheeks5444]

“The more you care about what other people think the more they own you.” Well, ain’t that the truth!

[@carriemarie835]

8:28 Brene Brown “I feel like I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is or who I’m with...as long as I never betray myself. And the minute I become who you want me to be in order to fit in and make sure people like me, is the moment I no longer belong anywhere. And that is hard, it’s an everyday practice.”

[@StephaniRoberts]

She has so many great quotes in this interview but boy did this one resonate. 🎯 💛💛💛💛

[@jamilgotcher5456]

I think this is a good quote but I could see where someone could use this as a way to not grow as a person. The type of people who are crass and say, I just like to keep it real, as a way of explaining why they haven't matured or grown as a person or any not so attractive qualities they have. Like they are saying, this is who I am love it or leave it even when who they are is someone who has stayed the same since high school. I know someone like this and I don't want to be around her. Maybe she hasn't betrayed herself but she hasn't grown or matured in any way. She is true to herself but in a bad way not a good way.

[@sungjinryu1318]

I totally agree with you .. every day ractice I need now…

[@sungjinryu1318]

I make sure again ..I belong to me:)

[@vm3813]

Truly well stated! I caught that.

[@tamara0321]

Breñe Brown is my top mentor. I admire the change to how many of feel about shame, courage, vulnerability & communication. This interview was done w dignity & respect. Thank you for sharing.

[@joycepearljones4907]

yes, Southerners in the USA are polite and say Yes, maam. But my students who broke all rules were the Greg Dahlman's and Syndi Conrad Stone's of the world. I am so proud of each of you who gave up drink, drugs, careless sex for love, purpose I love you each person who found yourself listening to Brene Brown. You have choice. Even if you are Robin Williams or Superman or Super Woman.

[@iamchicharon]

First 3mins and I'm already teary, this hits, and I haven't even gotten to the main content - 'belonging is being a part of something than yourself, but it's also the courage to stand on your own and belong to yourself... which can make people really uncomfortable'

[@wonderwoman1199]

Wish every man was Lewis Howes. He's so genuinely beautiful.

[@lewishowes]

🧡

[@Macsinvideo]

Love to hear Brene Brown and of course I think Lewis Howes is such a great interviewer with that warm face❤️

[@margaretmcgovern1429]

The hardest person to know and understand is yourself...🙏🕊❣

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

I loved the idea of changing the belief by forgiving yourself from thinking a negative thought, forgiving it, and changing it. Marissa Peer has helped me with that too. Whenever I start getting negative thoughts, I mentally respond with, “I am worthy, I am enough, and I am loveable.” I do this especially when I am anxious or when I have to do something that takes courage. Sometimes I still get butterflies in my stomach, but it helps me get through my difficult task, and then I often feel empowered or relieved.

[@zenpeace8547]

I love her honesty! I do belong to me....no one else in my life gets that. Lewis is a great interviewer!!

[@blueandbanana]

The opposite of fitting in is belonging. Don’t lose YOU. Show up as who you are. Never betray yourself.

[@mskrystlex]

Lewis, it's so refreshing to hear a male speak about the importance of emotionally intelligence and vulnerability and or shame. So grateful for you!

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you and your support 🧡

[@shereejordan7107]

This is amazing. I wish my mom was still alive to hear this discussion. Our family has a lot of this disease called shame.

[@vm3813]

Keep healing ❤️‍🩹

[@ericjennings5041]

I feel very vulnerable after having my wife of 42 years, take her own life 4 months ago. I feel lost in my own space a lot. What she says makes sense of my situation but I still struggle as I was the one to fit in all my life. I’m 64 and feel I have much more life ahead. Some days just feel stuck!

[@lia-liz2012]

So sorry you lost her 😔

[@spOOkySami]

You already said it perfectly, you have so much more life ahead to live ❤️ keep on going, friend. Wishing you nothing but health & happiness in your journey 💘

[@misskim2058]

That’s horrible...I get stuck a lot, too...hope you get some people to help occupy the time, help you start a whole new chapter in the book of your life that you never expected to have to write, because the hole that gets left behind isn’t fillable, not the same way, and it’s a big wound, they take time to heal...and seems like it’s a partial healing.

[@diane5522]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please live your life. You can have another different, happy life. There is still time.

[@raxmacail]

ERIC JENNINGS I CAN'T IMAGINE YOUR PAIN SORRY FOR YOUR LOST HOW ARE YOU THESE DAYS

[@tessuntangled3505]

"Belong to yourself" I love this!!! Finding me has been a horribly difficult road. As I think, even maybe believe, that "me" is something I do or what I am: my advocacy work, being a mom or grandmother, etc. I really don't know who I am, who my true self really is. Being 50, I am LOST. I had to leave all the work I was doing due to extreme burn-out, its effect on my health -mentally, emotionally and physically. I want to know ME and not who others expect me to be. I love your talks, your interviews and your insights Brene. Thank you so much!!! --Tess

[@NiinaSKlove]

Brené Brown is such an excellent example of an antidote to these days cancel culture. Great conversation and this video is just one example of why I keep coming back to this beautiful channel.

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Yes. She sure is

[@monicadubay1702]

Brene is so great. She is very raw and real...and teaches us to do the same. All the time. We do feel lonely. Especially when we have a deep fear of exposing ourselves to others.

[@horaciocapanelli-soto4710]

Not long ago I wrote that there’s no bigger loneliness than that one of secrecy.

[@1sissaree]

I love Brenee Brown! I read all of her books and her teachings changed the way I see myself and others! Life changing ❤️

[@ChristianaSenibo]

She is so knowledgeable and gives vocabulary to those feelings we find hard to express.

[@hollyfield1303]

BE-longing, longing to BE. Be what? Peace? Connected? Be-ing is an inner knowing of who you are. It can only come from a connection with God. It is such a powerful pull that we spend our lives seeking for it, until we realize we are always part of Him.

[@cynthiaewing6584]

BE-longing, longing to BE. Oh, that’s really good!!!

[@Elena-ul1ve]

@@cynthiaewing6584 yes words have power and we don't always think about it I saw a sign for sale at a local flea market and it was only two phrases : "Beloved" "Be loved"

[@lovelocked5385]

Get a KJV bible and read it front to back.

[@theresamcgallicher]

A Course in Miracles was the answer for me

[@starrelliott]

What keeps me grounded and confident is my self care and counting my blessings everyday. Humbling myself to help others when I can, treating others the way I would want to be treated.

[@artinwoodt.wessells1767]

I have been therapist for many years. A friend recommended me to view this Ted Talk with Renew Brown. I liked her message and plan to share them with clients I am seeing.

[@trisstynwilliams6388]

I totally felt I have lost myself , trying to please and compensate for those around me. One of the best things I ever heard.

[@tracy85777]

You enspire me. I'm 63 and when I lost my home and my family I lost myself. I'm still trying to figure out who I am now. I've been listening to videos about this. It's motivating me and I haven't felt motivated in a very long time. And what you said about making your children proud really hit my heart because I've been thinking about this. I'm so done living in poverty and even feeling like a victim. I'm NOT a victim. I've been procrastinating and there's some fear there and laziness. But I DON'T have control of my situation because my body doesn't cooperate ALOT of the time. And I was someone who always had many projects. One day my body said NOPE! Very distressing and I didn't handle it well. PAIN will stop you in your tracks but I have plans. Plans that I have no idea how to achieve with what I have to work with.

[@karishort1891]

I am in the same boat

[@gt2203]

Yes to your No! I look okay to the naked eye, but behind the curtain is an unassembled mess that will take a lifetime to heal. Realized I have FASD after decades of dysfunction and ridicule. Decided to cast aside those who cannot be humble. A purification process that is difficult to be honest. But, I would rather be sincere with standards amongst few, than alone with many. Stay strong in your struggle. There's strength in your authenticity. I can feel it from here, and it is Goddess worthy, despite not being surrounded by adoration in a castle.

[@tracy85777]

@@gt2203 Thank you. It's so hard to get anyone to get it! And, by the way.I want the Castle, LOL.

[@michellerjackson5776]

@@karishort1891 Me too..

[@joyeballar7608]

@@tracy85777 I understnd what you mean more than I can say. Lets keep on going and figure it out. 😘

[@yourstruly7009]

Anyone else could just listen to her for hours? She seems so entertaining n yet so honest.

[@angelam290]

Great observation from Brene: "True belonging never asks us to change who we are". Indeed, peer pressure, social pressure, many times, forces their own rules and beliefs on individuals, in order to be accepted.

[@ChristianaSenibo]

So true. Choosing ourselves and finding the courage to show up as we are is the most challenging and rewarding work.

[@anonymousprivet1227]

Brene Brown must be a big fan of Maya Angelou. Everything she expressed and every quote is a play or replay of Ms. Angelou's beliefs, quotes from her parents and grandparents, or quotes from Maya Angelou during interviews. I love Ms. Angelou as well. She is a powerfully blessed spirit.

[@aprilharper5726]

I’m Actually 59 Years Old And My Son Send Me Your Story On KZbin And Is Was Very Inspiring And Listening To You Talking About Your Story And Feeling That You Had. And Sometimes A Actually Have Loneliness In My Life. So That Inspirational For Me ❤❤❤❤

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

We end up trying to fit in when in reality most of us want to stand out.

[@lorrainetaylor8570]

Oh how true!!.🤩🤩

[@reginap942]

Very true!!

[@leejay2418]

Well said Casey!

[@5Luckyducky]

@Casey Burns Investing Perfectly said… 💯

[@cynthiaewing6584]

👍🏼

[@ritamix33]

This convo was refreshing. It made me realize im not alone in how i feel. Never heard of her. Great convo.

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

Interesting how she brings up that parents can continue learning long after the kids have grown.

[@chilloften]

The boomers refuse, absolutely.

[@stacyjaye6350]

Lewis, I love your interview style. Thoughtful questions, and then, and I can't even believe this, you actually let them answer and you don't fill in the blanks! So glad I found you, brother!

[@victoriagrow647]

I could listen to her 24/7

[@nextooperfect]

I have long maintained that one cannot be brave UNLESS one is afraid first. I recall an interview Barbara Walters did with General Schwarzkopf ("Stormin' Norman" )years ago after Desert Storm. When he spoke of the concern of heading out away from his wife and daughters, he wept openly. Later Walters mentioned how tears and vulnerability seemed the antithesis of his image as a hard core military leader. He candidly and directly responded that it was the men who couldn't weep who worried him the most in battle and life. Profound!!

[@oddinaustin]

Wow...It's like she is speaking my thoughts and experience. Wow. It's like I'm watching Lewis interview a person who is channeling me. Crazy. Everything she is saying...

[@marilynwarbis7224]

I find that as I connect with love to Mother Earth, she reciprocates and nourishes me totally.

[@BeYourUniquePotential]

I think we will always be figuring it all out. Life is filled with ups and downs with all the uncertainty life brings, it also brings such beauty, in all we do, when we look closely. Sometimes, when feeling lost, in need of true connection, I do feel I need a roadmap too, to be certain but this isn't really possible. There is no real blueprint. So, we are all on the same page really and we belong to ourselves. We all all developing, evolving, changing. Who we are today will change in a year, two years. Such food for thought. This interview resonates so much. Thank you Brene. Never try to fit in, always be you. It is the most wonderful gift! Love your interviews and you interview so sensitively Lewis. I love the fact that you joined a musical at school and didn't stay in what others thought you would be. Wonderful.

[@tinabattrick3236]

I always stay by myself unless I'm with my kids but when I go out to the bars or out for dinner by myself I don't feel like I'm alone I feel like right at home cuz that's when I put all my thoughts and sort them out and also feel free

[@ירוןגולן-ב8צ]

Victor Frankl would say, dealing with vulnerability is a situation of meaning

[@stassimarlowe9108]

Yea it's easy to slip into feeling alone , especially when you are surrounded at times.. God bless and thank you guy's for sharing this.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

[@Lonewolf-kr4kk]

You are only truly free and so you belong everywhere nowhere which is everywhere, the price is high & the reward is great......#Havethecouragetostandalone#

[@rachelbowler5096]

“Identity is found when stopping, looking and listening. Be in the moment” Tim Storey is inspiring ✨

[@dianafox7188]

Was that 2nd interview Tim Storey? I loved everything he had to say!🥰

[@heydinavarro3067]

Thank you for this video. Sometimes we need a reminder of our souls. We're brought up as machines. Work, work, and on the same cycle. Nothing else. On a routine of work work.

[@thelisaluc]

Outstanding! I'm 62. Me and my boyfriend of 4yrs ended 7 months ago due to his anger and inability to be vulnerable and empathic towards me feelings that he hurt so to his behaviors , tone, etc. Yet he comes over all the time. In forwarding this to him.

[@monicadubay1702]

We don't need to fit in, ...so true. We can't fit in because we have to find out who we are. I'm myself and I don't have to define it. Or fit in there as well. We all have facets of oursleves...

[@veronicakaese7655]

Wow Lewis! Yes very valuable discussions, for all SOCIETIES! This type of medium is what the world needs.Natural primary self resources great medium for a beautiful medium for a suttle strength & courage beautiful way so gentle & suttle rooted from each family cultural Family values developing guidances between Children , young adults, adults, and aged adults. All built through conflicts, trauma, neglects, privacy Condemnations rules etc ....attracts Patience, guidances

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you! 🙏

[@marisagallegos1738]

Brene Brown you value the most valuable values.

[@lesliebean4594]

The “You have two choices” method is something I needed to hear. This is fantastic! Thank you for sharing.

[@homirasharif3516]

Thank you so much Lewis your interviews and topics and questions are so liberating to the mind , soul , heart - you are a true gift to us all - saving us from ourselves ....following our bliss not expectations - Love you my dear Brother...from a Muslim sister finding her soul finally aged 50...step one again in my life ...been in a sand storm but now the dust is settling .. I can see more clearly and honesty.....I finally love myself and trusting all will be fine Xxx Ameen Xxx blessed Xxx

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜

[@amyboyd5839]

I can't get over how open Lewis is in all these episodes! Most amazing thing to know how an intelligent man thinks on an emotional level!!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

[@christinecarson3330]

Thank God for you Lewis Howes. This was a great show. Great speakers and I appreciate you and all your questions.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

[@PhilipSteeves]

I appreciate how you ask questions, Lewis, simple direct and revealing!

[@lorrifrank4546]

This is such a eye opener. With my daughter. She may not have felt loved. But we now I know I love her for who she us. Her parenting is so different she is a millienal . I am a baby boomer. So I keep my mouth shut it is her children I might not like it. But it not my place out of respect of her. Showing respect even if you do not agree . That is so important. My love for her is apparent in my life now.

[@lifecoachrosanna4934]

Appreciated the diversity of the people you chose to showcase. Love them all but as POC we deal with not only the normal existential stuff but the constant reminder in daily life and the media that our lives are disposable and given less value than the rest. So it's nice to see people who look like me and my family sharing their experience. Loved this ❤️

[@lewishowes]

So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

[@kyliemj11]

Oh my can I relate to the aloneness. I, too, belong to me and that makes some uncomfortable. I don’t really have my people. I am also looking for that person that has the blueprint. I would love to have a wise mentor. I’ll keep walking my path…

[@yase9929]

Thank you Lewis. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 💖. Your podcasts have been super helpful, got me out of a very dark suicidal place. I am now back to sports, daily routine, smoke free and have a better understanding of who I am and what I want to do with my life. Sure it's my doing and undoing, but inspired by you and your guests.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for showing love and your continued support 💜

[@diane5522]

Well done. That is amazing.

[@starrelliott]

I can definitely relate. I stand up to the injustices around me and so I will not sit down with people that are eating animals. I took the animal liberation pledge. So I definitely don't fit into most circles. Growing up I loved dance and I was the girl that was a cheerleader in drill team, ballet, jazz, hip hop, lyrical, gymnastics, ECT. Not for anyone else but me. I just loved dance so much and I definitely miss it. I know who I am. I don't drink or do drugs so I'm very different then most. I have hard conversations with people and I'm definitely not comfortable most times I challenge people to go vegan, eco friendly, & actually care about animals, their own health and the planet.

[@jessm8696]

It takes a lot of courage to stay true to yourself & be different. Good on you

[@PlanetaSeguroSustentável]

I feel thankful for have access this nuggets of wisdom from those greats masters. From now on I know that pain, all those setbacks it is a great library for me

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.

[@leticialara1211]

Thank you Lewis. love Priyanka's energy. I didn't know about her and thank you for interviewing all this great people

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

[@bonnieoliver219]

Lewis is an intelligent i host. He understands his guest and intuitively draws out the best they bring to the table. Brene’ is also an example of a brilliant mind. Very informative interview.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

[@LowsonIntl]

"I belong to me." Brilliant at the deepest level of soul. 💗

[@katemullaney6030]

Brenè, your wisdom, honesty and absolute realness got me through some big challenges…mostly about belonging to myself and freeing myself from the need of validation from others. I have really done the work, girl it was tough, but wow at almost 57, I’m standing strong, even in those vulnerable moments. I reflect way more than I armour up, and it’s life changing. Thank you beautiful soul sister 🙏🏼

[@jackiebraun5479]

I belong to myself, I belong to myself...💖

[@jaseayathorai3762]

Wow! Love Renee's definition of belonging, and how important it is to belong to ourself. And Lewis's view on being the youngest and being able to stand alone. Being true to ourself is really powerful.

[@elite_always]

Hi Lewis,Iam lenia,Iam v hungry learner whose life or story isn't like most.some of my learning was via these useful podcast where the public can easily sensor or see a message of love care compassion & being genuine which your podcast includes all of them.A huge amount of my learning was tasting & living a new learning so I was on thousands of journeys in my life as I travelled a lot,I have sadly accumulated more sadness & sorrows than joys in my heart which unfortunately isn't my choosing as am v gregarious caring passionate human being by nature but the life deceipts have broken something deep in my heart something Iam not able to acess (the unconscious side of me so I can't see it therefore iam not able to repair..).thats why I do listen to useful podcasts.your podcasts Lewis represents u.what I regard most in the school of greatness is your openness to everything & anything & ur hunger for learning which I always used to have before..bless the school of greatness!

[@amandagarcia6320]

What I love most about her is the fact that she speaks WITHOUT flailing her hands and arms everywhere like most all speakers (sooooo annoying:-/) Instead? She keeps her body STILL! while speaking, which makes the listener really FOCUS on what she is saying. Great speaker, great author.

[@bbutzke23]

I love that "the opposite of fitting in is belonging" we always want to fit in, but do we ever really truly want to belong to anything ?!!? I want to belong and I want to know my belonging, I never really ever was the "fit in" type and this video helped me understand where that has come from inside me for so many many years! Tyvm!!

[@rachelbowler5096]

Even though I haven’t listened to this entire video yet. I appreciate Brene Brown. I admire and look up to her✨

[@vernadavis8385]

We are not our labels they change over you life,I am an eternal spirit learning to love to the fullest in each earthly journey, never really alone since we are all part of the whole of life.

[@merlebrown7664]

Basically, you find out who you really are by trying different things. Most importantly is to be mentally strong enough to overcome obstacles along the way which is where most people fail, so I recommend talking to a psychic which is something that has helped me a lot over the years .

[@samanthawilliams114]

You have to be happy for yourself I think that is so important I had no friends at school but it didn’t matter but I was good at sports swimming running keep me grounded had to be strong x

[@lewishowes]

I'm rooting for you! 💪

[@NickEspinoza-i7n]

True statement I belong to no one but myself thank u and great interview this really helps me so much it's ok to stand alone

[@888alp]

I love how you both are so honest and raw with such authenticity and you beautiful people are doing vulnerable nicely. Im from down under . I can relate with high school. I was bullied it was a very lonely time for me too! 😘😘☮️💪🏻

[@jonnya4209]

Knew who I was then lost the people and life that gave that forum, hung with other people instead and though it was fun on the surface for a good few years, have been lost ever since. The teachers were bang on. Its a very important message, presumably too late for many of us watching it.

[@happyhealthylifestyle1]

I love you Brene, thank you for everything :)

[@kathrynsinclare8459]

Being alone and feeling lonely are two different things. Everyone is alone, we are one of a kind. Feeling lonely and needing to fit to remove the feeling lonely is how we could lose our true self. We could remain who we are and try on many things to see if we choose to make it a part of who we are and never lose who we are in the process.

[@ChristianaSenibo]

💯🙌🏾 absolutely

[@pamela-yourlifeasart]

Thank you Brene for being so truthful, I appreciate you saying that you do feel very alone at times, I get it, truly especially as an introvert myself. I know more than ever now that I need my downtime to recharge!

[@blindwarrior6214]

I have been single for 19 years and that is by choice it's sad but I truly believe that I will never find love again and I'm okay with just loving myself, I WANT MR. RIGHT, NOT MR. RIGHT NOW 🤣

[@talofek2976]

A fantastic listener Lewis :))) you are a beautiful example of how listening ..... is allowing energy to flow and evolve

[@beverlypark5391]

Judith Mann. I am 76 and your statement inspires me to rocket ahead in my striving to reach goals I didn't even know I have. Beverly in Vancouver bc Canada

[@lewishowes]

👍

[@pamelacharlet1436]

Great talks. Play your hand. Be courageous. Be yourself. Believe in the possibilities.

[@laurykristensen6239]

I've really focused my intentions over the last couple of years to unabashedly speak my truth! I temper this with thinking first and keeping it as kind as possible. But I'm a real straight shooter, who has discovered some 'truths' along my path. People often don't love I have to say, but they do know it's honest and from the heart ❤ How can that be denied?

[@keishawilliams4032]

Lewis you ask thought evoking questions that have your guests and listeners expanding on the topics. You chime in like an instrument in an orchestra. Superb host. Bravo

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊

[@makeadifference251]

Thanks so much, Lewis! Great, helpful content as always! Brene' Brown is such a beautiful woman and hits right on with the reality we all live! Love and blessings to you all! We all need to just stick together in life! Let's appreciate and be kind to each other! Never quit and know that you are enough!! 👍❤💜🤗

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you! 🙏

[@karencorson3326]

Lewis and Brene', you both are so awesome and authentic.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

[@HouseofAda]

Ok replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts you believe in . Thanks Lewis for always giving your audience the time to speak their mind

[@lewishowes]

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