5 Red Flags Your Spouse Is FINANCIALLY Cheating

[@bheard2334]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. All along, I've been generous and never selfish but I found out mistakenly that he's secretly stashed over 40k. Ironically, I've openly struggled with an injury and he never offered any financial help. My heart is broken.

[@lala5061]

Whaaat this is what I fear is going on but im about to ask to see them stubs!

[@mariabarker2036]

Financial cheating is SO much worse than sexual cheating. I have no idea why people are so focused on what happens between someone's legs, but ignore fraud, theft, risk of bankruptcy, inability to provide for your children, etc. etc. etc.

[@shannonhuebner9096]

My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and plan to move in together and get married yet won’t show me her finances and gets weird about it every time. I feel she may be trying to save enough money to make sure she is set up because she does not pay rent here but has a good job but says she isn’t saving .. so show me right? I feel like that’s a very normal thing to ask! But she fights it every time

[@WhatTedSays]

It is a normal thing to ask! You should always be open with your partner especially if you are planning on getting married.

[@JoseRuiz-ng3qs]

I asked. She gaslighted. She then conveniently forgot she owed me $300. She kicked and screamed when I asked for it back. She is simply taking and not giving back. I'll buy a $60 dinner for two. She says the next one is on her. Then she gets us a $15 meal for 2 and call it even.

[@tameralane7577]

My husband made 38,400 .00 last year and only gave me 12,000.00 total for bills and necessities. He tells me it's for fast food, energy drinks, and pot. 26,000.00 and bc I'm a stay at home mom and do not contribute financially he says I have no say in his money. We are currently 2,000$ behind on power, 144 behind on water, and 800# behind in rent. We have three children together and one from a previous relationship. I homeschool two that are aged 4 and five and we also have an eight month old. I'm very worried about my children having a roof over their heads, diapers, clothing, and food on the table. What kind of human spends 26 thousand on themselves in a year when they're children are in need? Is this considered financial cheating bc I'm very aware it's Funchal Financial abuse.

[@WhatTedSays]

Yes it is. Are you getting Child Care Tax Credits? You may want to talk (if you can get both of you there) to a financial therapist.

[@Carib6855]

Let him pay for daycare in the meantime and get a job. You should never have someone have power over your life in that manner.

[@jhumerbafna6562]

How can I have a session with you ?

[@WhatTedSays]

Head over to oxygenfinancial.com/contact-us to request a free consultation!

[@koffeekell5518]

I work 60 hrs a week husband refuses to work even know we can take are child to the ymca for under 100 bucks a week wont clean up after himself or her he watches her while I work we can’t even afford bills my dad covers them right now we have no rent .he just lazy but the money he makes form his streaming goes straight to his wants