5 Scientific Ways to Become More Attractive to Men | Relationship Advice by for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@norahmurdaa4542]

1- Laughter (Recieve his jokes) 2- Smiling (Smile at them) 3- Honesty (Demonstrate honesty by communicating exactly what you want) 4- Wear Red (It increases their desire) 5- Mirroring and Matching (Imitate his body expressions) You're welcome

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

The whole mirroring thing...🤔

[@eiilyk888]

😂😂😂😂

[@princesslacson6291]

i am finding a comment like this. thanks

[@tintinpenaredondo6531]

Narah Murdaa thanks u 😂

[@glorymuch6704]

like it big up.Matt Boggs u er star

[@LoveLostization]

I like when a man gets excited about something he is talking about or really passionate about. The over excitement is cute and attractive 😊

[@jerushadowdy7094]

It dosnt matter what u do. Sometimes the person just isn't into you. Just remember not to lose yourself along the way! 😊

[@joanstevens-yates7756]

Heeey

[@laraswitamori9545]

True.. I did all of those things + made him feel wanted and special most time, still he left lol 😂😂😂

[@divinecommerce3912]

Jerusha Dowdy great advice especially for recovering codependents 💕

[@Iamhadorable]

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[@Iamhadorable]

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[@TheLauraMarieT2]

I like guys that are humble. To me that is a true marker of confidence. 🔥

[@heidiheidi0]

Yes! Thank you for saying this. It's underrated.

[@missnaomiivy]

Definitely the most attractive quality!

[@MarkBH70]

Indeed. That took me a while to learn. Humility but confidence.

[@tonzowall9210]

Aquarian Christianity: Modest too! Don't forget the word indeed belongs in the last century though.😀

[@MarkBH70]

Really, sir/madame? Okay. Humility?

[@shivanisharma4983]

Okay, so basically wear red and laugh a lot ;) kinda like santa claus? :P

[@mist__4974]

shivani sharma Ha ha!

[@UmmansamirasChild]

shivani sharma Hoh! Ho! Hoooo.. 👺

[@angelinagal8453]

shivani sharma lol

[@poorvasharma116]

Lmao

[@danasalter8186]

shivani sharma Lol

[@fuzzydogpa7348]

I like when a guy positions himself around me in ways that shows he is protective of me. Like when they walk on the traffic side of the sidewalk or he puts his hand on my waist and sorta shields my body in a crowd of people and helps guide me through it, especially when he is much bigger than me. I like when a man is protective of me and makes me feel safe and provided for. That's sexy.

[@corgisrule21]

fuzzydog pa exactly. I hadn’t seen this guy since March (but I’ve crushed on him since my freshman year of college in 2000 lol). We’re friends, but it never went anywhere, sadly. Well, this last weekend we happened to see each other at an outdoor festival and for some (happy) reason, he lifted me up in a “hello lover” sort of way and spent most of the rest of the day/evening with his arm either around my shoulders or on the waist/small of my back area. He’s a tall guy, too, so I got more vibes and feelings of safety/intimacy just in those actions than I’ve had with most sexual encounters😂 My love language truly is touch, but in the non-sexual way. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex, but on a normal, daily basis, hugging and touching are soooooo my vibe. ❤️

[@lesliekauble4701]

Im.... so a dude then!! I do that all!!

[@atomicplaygirl66]

YES×1000!!! That is the best feeling ever knowing a man is protective of you.

[@ritabrandow1318]

I am in a relationship with a man that does that and I found out he can also be a total jerk

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Yep!

[@kenann279]

Attractive Men are those: who listen deeply and empathize Men who have good hygiene/grooming Men who have a sense of purpose/drive Men who take the lead to plan Men who are honest and transparent Men who are kind and ethical

[@niag9950]

And none of them want to settle down with one woman. This man you describe is exactly what We are ALL looking for. If this unicorn exists he isn’t gonna be satisfied with one woman the rest Of his life. He may pretend, he may for a while (start a family), but eventually he will want someone else. While married, or want a divorce. Because Nobody stays satisfied in this disposable swipe lifestyle. I’m tired of advice when the pool of men out there is just looking for someone that night. Or for that holiday, wedding… not for the long term in the trenches … I’ll love you at your worst and stick by you for life, as you are aging and young girls want me for my money!

[@GOJOistheBESTuRAT]

Yes

[@katasandberg8110]

kind & ethical is huge.....

[@kelleysciarrino8024]

Any man who shows kindness to everyone ,a waiter,bartender,other people not of same size race or color.That is what I find attractive.A truely kind man.

[@75Cee]

So so true.

[@sarahnorment]

I'm attracted to men who are total gentlemen....not just as an act during the first few dates, but the real deal. 💜

[@Mariajbh2]

Yes!!

[@laurapiovan]

Yeah me to. But where are they? Maybe I am on the wrong planet?

[@kalaccount4918]

I’m 38 and just met a real gentleman for the first time in my life. I got simple flowers on the go

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

That doesn't mean they are good men or not hiding wife beating tendencies. Trust me.

[@perfectlyyoubeauty]

Everyone brings their representative the first few months of dating. Even women. Think about how you’re always in a good mood when you see him.. he doesn’t see you when you’re frustrated at work or stressed over mess at the house or doing homework with the kids. It takes time to really get to know someone in all types of situations.

[@laurieroth4589]

a gentleman, opens the door, listens to you without interrupting or glancing at the TV, talks kindly about you in front of others, holds your hand, plans a date a few days out and stays connected throughout the day...

[@Mariajbh2]

Thats all women want!!

[@michaelatorn8380]

Men want that too

[@crystalmorrison1539]

AMEN

[@jjerrett5068]

I love when a man simply listens instead of wanted to "fix" things. Sometimes just listening is enough.

[@saraifascinetto5437]

I agree with you.

[@AniaBumba]

Chivalry must be one of the most atteactive things in a man. Great video, thanks for sharing.

[@MJ-lm6em]

I really admire men who are direct but not in a rude way, honest, humble, vulnerable and have COURAGE to communicate what they want in a confident way without being cocky.

[@deborahb3501]

I absolutely love it when a man acts like a gentleman & holds a door open for me. I always say thank you. It may surprise you how many men out there don't take the time to show this courtesy.

[@ELISSASMITH472]

Hygiene. Man who smell and care about your first inspiration. Hair nicely trimmed around ears and back of neck. Clean hands and nails trimmed nails. Clothes not wrinkled and tidy. Looking like they made an effort to think that you were worth the effort to spend extra time to press .Shoes nice and go with they’re outfit. Last and most important there nice pick of cologne to compliment their look. Not overwhelming. But just enough that when he moves around you, you can get a whiff of some of life’s greatest aphrodisiac!

[@Mariajbh2]

A clean men it's really attractive to women. Who wears clean

[@arlinejernigan]

I love when a guy makes me laugh, when they are easy to talk to, when they are physically active, affectionate, engaged in life, have integrity, who match their ideals with their actions, who think outside the box, have strong sexual energy, who follow through. I would love to experience that. I am willing to mirror that behavior.

[@Mariajbh2]

Me too

[@szee8588]

The problem is, most people are not as smart as they used to be (really, the fluoride), so the jokes are not witty nor funny. Sometimes men don't realize that they are making the joke at your expense instead of making you laugh WITH them. I can only do so many courtesy laughs before I feel like I want to vomit. I'm not meeting too many intelligent men.

[@hmmmph3578]

I love funny men. It shows me they're intelligent as well as fun and that's sexy.

[@sarajohansson7461]

i love guys who are humble and show that they really care about things. i also like when they give me the feeling of beeing protected

[@donnahannaford6840]

I watch the way men walk, a bloke who walks with confidence etc is bit more attractive than slow hunched over joe.

[@LaughingblueSu]

Donna Hannaford one problem with that. The guys that strut can be playrs

[@BellaBiljana]

A man who publicly stands up for me and protects my heart has the ability to win my heart. The strong silent type is whom I'm attracted to. Big mouth guys are just that... empty and shallow.

[@Crystal107]

How is someone who speaks their mind empty and shallow? Wouldn't you say a silent one who doesn't express themselves more empty and shallow?

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

Bragging is boring.

[@13DarkMelody]

Loud obnoxious dudes are so gross.

[@kristine6996]

Being galant to a lady, having a good hygiene, helping out, having humour, be sincere..

[@Elkraiden]

I like it when a guy has a big personality, and is super fun flirty with me but not in a gross manipulating way. I love sarcasm and trust.. still respect when a guy is a gentleman and can be open with me. A guy who listens and remembers

[@gssh632]

i'm really attracted to my man who can totally be mysterious and serious against the ppl 😍 but super honest and funny with me 🙈💏💕💍

[@sfoster4874]

I find it attractive when he strongly and confidently initiates high level of banter and chatter between us. And when he tells me a funny story or two.

[@itsadate10]

I love to banter, i love this one guy for that but not totally attracted to him, but my man now doesnt like to banter he considers it mocking..but hes very chivalris, caring, hardworking, empathetic and so car we are working..and hes begining to cut up with me..so we are movin slow and gettin to know more about each other and im in my 50s...

[@lorigardner5380]

I'm attracted to guys that are more humble and hard working, guys who do not act like the world owes them everything and who seem they are so proud that I just absolutely have to love them or else something is wrong with me

[@Sara-xb8ql]

my boyfriend will become single in an hour and he doesnt know yet #prayforhim

[@sukib.3412]

Mara Djordjevic why is this so funny 😂

[@Sara-xb8ql]

Sukkhmani Batth lol i broke up with him but he still not single . cheating piece of shit

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

Mara Djordjevic Lmaaao...This got me like pikachuuuu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ritaasuncion205]

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[@richym3899]

@@Sara-xb8ql lmao god bless him

[@jessyjonas4988]

Yes humility is attractive 😁. Also kindness.A man that looks out for and seeks to include others who perhaps otherwise would tend to be overlooked 😇

[@MarkBH70]

I don't like "overlooking," i.e., ignoring people, making them seem unimportant: That's Rude!

[@jessyjonas4988]

Aquarian Christianity that is quite admirable. The little things will always set you apart as a priceless gem. As you continue to abide in Christ, the fruits of the Spifit will be manifested, giving you authenticity. Faith is very attractive😇

[@MarkBH70]

jessy jonas Thank you, ma'am. Got faith.

[@mamalovesmunchkin648]

My 2 favorite qualities about my husband are that he is a family man and that he has a great sense of humor. We met when we were both 16 and the way he was very involved in the lives of his much younger siblings made me realize what an excellent father he would be - the opposite of my childhood (workaholic parents with no interest in their children). 15 years since we met, 10 years of marriage and 4 children of our own later - there is plenty of love and laughter in our precious family. We each think we’re the lucky one.

[@carmensolis8544]

Awwwwwe 🥰 that's so awesome ❤ u r both lucky ☺️ i want tht type of love sumday 😏

[@gemmalindridge4232]

I find when a man smiles is very attractive. I like when a man laughs very very attractive.

[@carolwangeshi9506]

Sometimes the smile is not nice🙄red gums😂😂😂😂

[@ceecee8757]

@@carolwangeshi9506 #eddiemurphy 🤣🤣🤣

[@sarahleach9997]

my husband is the funniest man on the planet.he makes everybody around him laugh.30 years of so much laughter.thanks gorgeous the info.its great.love it.😊😊😊😊

[@SimGTAandCOD]

Sarah Leach sounds like a keeper

[@alinavoron5659]

Ability to make decisions, taking charge of situations! I find it extremely sexy when a man is decisive and actually sticks to his choices. I guess it all boils down to being confident.

[@SuperSetoile]

I like taller and broader guys. Those who smiles easily but not in a weird way. The one with whom i can get constructive debates with. The one that just have that positive aura which makes you feel comfortable in any situation.

[@nissamelton8597]

Confidence is the #1 attractive quality in another person

[@siobanethier]

When an attractive guy acts like he has no idea he's attractive. When a guy is a gentleman. When a guy DOES NOT bring up sex at all in any way, leaves it up to the woman (because she would be risking more). When a guy is not afraid to be vulnerable, let his feelings show. When a guy pulls the protective vibe for the woman he's with. When a guy is Jamie Fraser in Outlander, except for the spanking scene. Everything he does with regards to Claire, apart from that scene, and certain words he says during the fight at the river. When he puts his hand out for her to take. When he kisses her forehead. It would be SOOOO damn easy for guys to be a lot better but they don't even want to try.

[@richym3899]

Because you ask for all that in exchange for what exactly? I'm genuinely curious as to what a man of this caliber recieves in exchange

[@tinacook4906]

@@richym3899 All of me and more because I know the kind of woman I am, and what he'll be getting and that's a fact.

[@MultiJudgmentdragon]

Think I will pass and stick to the handjobs, its so much simpler and less drama and time consuming ahahahah

[@tinacook4906]

@@MultiJudgmentdragon oh no, such a shame. And i bet you have a lot to offer.

[@hayleebennett6596]

You are talking about 10% of men that are already taken. The rest are shit lol.

[@NewYorkNadia]

Kindness! A man who is genuinely kind and attentive on a date gets my attention. Kindness is so rare today that finding it in a person is like striking gold. Thanks for another great video, Matt!

[@morgannathan4142]

I like guys who show respect for others and are actively passionate. Overall, I like it when guys show interest💕

[@s.carmen]

we like honesty too.

[@LaughingblueSu]

S. Carmen but honesty in men is like trying to find a unicorn

[@Andrea-sl8wd]

More than confidence.

[@MsSusy22]

confidence and taking charge or certain situations

[@Victoriagenix]

Your explanation of honesty is exactly what i did to get my fiancé although at that time I didn’t know this theory. So i met my fiance on tinder, we met, on our first date, I told him that i wanted a serious relationship he responded cold. However, after the date, i thank him for dinner which he paid for, i told him that i like him and i felt like kissing him. He was stunned and later admitted to me that at that moment, he admired my confidence, for him, im the woman who knows what I want and not scared to speak up my mind honestly. He just admired me and then deleted all his online dating app 😁 We engaged 7 months later.

[@carojames6776]

Happy days, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@dianneciresi7208]

How do u know he deleted all his on dating apps? Did he do it in front of u so u could see it? Some men are deceivers & players. . Have to be cautious. Many men can't be trusted..

[@sumartinez811]

i like when a guys ask about my day and ask me questions on the first date. ps i love your videos🙌👌😉

[@staceyhughes3095]

All these things were active during my dates with him. But he ghosted on me after 5th date. some men just want to use women. No matter what we do. women shouldn't feel accountable for some mens flaky behaviour.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

It's not flakey. Just stop sleeping with them. 90 days and a background check. See Steve Harvey and stop allowing yourself to get used.

[@kalaccount4918]

#1 emotionally: be responsive, attentive & emotionally available. #1 socially: you cannot be too respectful of others. Go overboard with respecting others... holding the door for an older couple etc. Talking positively about someone whenever possible. Do it all the time when I’m not around and it will be authentic and I’ll hear about how great you are. #1 physically: not in an obvious way just how you would in your office alone... show defined forearm (roll up long sleeves on a dress shirt while in public so I can’t touch). Forearms are my favorite physical attraction on any man, a little muscular but not too veiny. Only if in a relationship talk softly and dirty while in public- not too early on. Keep it simple at one sentence.

[@julieoliphant1615]

I'm attracted to men who are friendly and smile a lot.

[@dianneciresi7208]

I tried being authentic, vulnerable, they lost interest when they found out things that didn't resonate with them like my kind of lifestyle, being prejudice cause I have mixed color in my family, or one that didn't want to have any family & kids around, other one when they found out I lived with my daughter & wondered why I didn't have my s--t together at my golden age.

[@lanadellhatestheclock3325]

In the US we live in a very tough society. Sorry for your experience. But, dust off and keep going.

[@dragonqueen7087]

what if the guy is red green color blind

[@colouredlioness2199]

😂

[@lovebeyondthemoon5232]

wear green 😂

[@misskathy4931]

I love when he picks me up, or wraps his arm around me and pulls me close, or wrestles with me and pins me down ( makes me laugh so hard). So yeah, I notice biceps on men. Good stuff

[@rstarsflow]

lol,...My Husband says I am too Honest!! That is Funny....I am Smiling and laughing too much and therefore am rarely taken seriously,...I am a confident person. and I am approached all the time!! so I am not changing anything!!❤😄

[@giannarivera6608]

Robin Busse just shut up 😊

[@viwikiwi5541]

Gianna Rivera oof

[@gitanjalisirwal5684]

Robin Busse you need to change your husband then

[@danasalter8186]

I like it when a man has a true love for God first before me. Along with that, gentle, humble,caring, and to give himself for me, so other than that I love attention. I also love to expect the unexpected. For example, just say "Where would you like to go eat out tonight?" I wasn't expecting that, and it's a great great turn on I love it!!!!! Or just something small like "Come on honey, hop in the car"!!!!! and we just ride around the town.

[@m_christine8777]

What about if u have no teeth?

[@kalaccount4918]

M_ Christine smile anyway!

[@GypsyRock]

I like men who do what they say they’re gonna do. I like men who initiate, plan a date, tell me where we’re going. I like chivalry. I like an arm around me. And if we get to that point I like sleeping in his arms. 🤷‍♀️current guy is good at this ;)

[@squishiet]

I love all these videos. Luckily i already have a really great guy and don't need to use any of these but i do find that keeping myself in check to make sure i'm not doing anything unattractive helps build on the relationship. I think when i notice my partner being patient with me when he is tired or annoyed is a good trait, also when they go out of their way to do something nice. Also when a really confident guy shows a bit of insecurity, i just want to jump in there and take care of them and tell them everything is going to be ok! lol I think the most attractive trait in a guy or even girl is when they have their life together because it shows who they are as a person i think.

[@ahr76at]

Attractiveness has many aspects but mainly is based on physical appearnce most of the times...but the best tactic to be attractive to others is to be yourself which is very important, not what other think you should be act behave, have lots of positive energy, laugh, enjoy life and show you are an independent, confident, social and caring person a person someone can rely on... and I totally agree red is the colour!

[@joytotheworldddd]

agree with the physical appearance at first, but however personality is what really attract the person to me. notice how at the end of your sentences are all about personalities too? :)

[@gypsybelle4757]

Guys that show kindness to others. Especially in situations where it has no direct benefit to them. It’s easy to be kind when it feels you will get something in return. How you treat others when you won’t receive any reward is truly telling.

[@anafernandez9536]

being positive all the time also attracts men!!!!

[@kimkeiko2725]

This is so awesome that pretty much my whole life I have done the first three. I always told people many men find me attractive just based on my positivity and me just being myself (which includes brutal honesty) now I will add matching and mirroring and more red to my daily routine. Thank you so much for this video!

[@rrredone1]

I find a man attractive that likes himself... and has achieved success in his career... I FIND A... FAMILY MAN... that takes care of his children... attractive... and takes care of me... PLAYFUL... FUN... TAKES CHARGE... I like my boyfriend now... that just say... do what I say... I kind of like that. He is not being mean... he gave me money... and I said... you don't have to do that... he said... DO WHAT I SAY... I LOVE IT... especially when I am told to take his money... THANKS MAT... LOVE YOU MAN...

[@bsh9291]

how did such a young man as yourself become so wise? I sure wish this kind of info had been available to me when I was young! These matters of the heart do not go away with time. Rather, we care even more as time goes by. Thank you for being so bold as to publish your insights into our hearts and minds. Afterall, its not over until its over! TY! (wish me luck ☺).

[@martyna2371]

Matt, I like you so much. You're so natural! It's so inspiring.

[@marialaganson3091]

I’m attracted to men who are smart and confident , kind, someone who is responsible ,funny , and shows respect ..and who has leadership skill..

[@shirleyb724]

I love it when in public he gently kisses me on my forehead.

[@shakingbirdart]

Thank you for this video! I'd love some more information like this! Something I find outrageously attractive in men is a genuine apology. And no, not just an "I'm sorry." I mean real, un-fakable contrition! It shows humility, compassion, the ability to learn and a will to rise above and do the right thing.

[@summermurphy69]

thanks for the video! I have to agree with everyone, a humble nature is extremely alluring and provides a slow reveal of who someone is. Also a great communicator, listening and speaking, is a great sign. no 'wait to talkers', ew!

[@bonnieyam6565]

I like guys who are intelligent, logical, listen well, but can be playful and challenging at the same time. I don’t need constant attention, but I expect them to remember everything that I say and show care and understanding at the right time.

[@maemedina9205]

when they try to become funny.. if a guy display his humor.. if i were to choose between looks and humor.. i will choose humor because, we, us gals really drawn to a man who cheer up our day and made us laugh even his he dont have the looks of johny deep, the abs of hugh jackman and the tom cruise dimples, that what come up with the little survey that i did that women really prefer a joker than hunk..

[@bananashake2163]

I like a guy who have utmost respect and love for his parents and siblings.

[@missyl3119]

Men initiating conversations are the best..... showing interest....

[@christinepenacerrada6060]

I belive this

[@ronnieg3398]

Me too x when someone actually does something and starts chatting first when u don't expect it.

[@natashapratt8466]

Physically, Im attracted to jaw lines, and consideration and consciousness/awareness for others around them.

[@vickiminter7992]

Men with emotional intelligence is very attractive and appealing

[@margaretelucas2636]

Mathew thanks for your videos ... I start follow you almost a week and I'm absolutely happy.. thanks for share all your knowledge . God bless you from Portugal 🇵🇹

[@gailhowell40]

when guys smiles alot and laughs and looks into your eyes

[@kklatour4]

A man that gives you a wonderful smile when looking at you.

[@もふもふ-h7s]

Laughter, smiling, honesty (confidence) and color of red and mirroring and matching 😉💗

[@reneenand8408]

Nice video Matt. Recently I was so attracted to a colleague at work who was sooo superior and highly educated than I am. He was recently divorced and was available for relationship. We both were soooo attracted to each other that I could actually feel it. I would dodge him if I saw him coming my way, I became a nervous wreck. ☹️. Wish I saw this video earlier so to understand his action towards me.

[@erikadee8668]

"WHAT DO MEN DO THAT YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE?" Breathe

[@iwjfhaifn2950]

Same😭

[@lidiaaguirre3157]

definitely CONFIDENT !! When a man is, it shows.... for example - he can drive a old pick up truck, come out of it in jeans and white t shirt work shoes or even flip flops and dirty and doesn't care. 😉 I love that more... anyday then any man that feels he needs a nice car clean clothes to impress me .

[@kimstevens5513]

Loved this video a lot more than I thought I would! Really appreciate the scientific studies you based the video off of! So cool!! Thanks, Matt!

[@jennie20able]

Humble, honesty, trust confidence, humor: I also find it very! very! attractive when a man has it in for her has eyes and only eyes for her ;) A one women man

[@rigtjeh]

It's really attractive when a guy is: honest, caring, humble, himself in different contexts. Meaning: whether he there's a group of friends over or it's just the two of you, he doesn't change all of the sudden. Now, of course, everyone acts a little different in different contexts and that's fine. That's not what I'm referring to. What I'm referring to is that you'll know it's him and he won't act completely different.

[@melybadao703]

i am attracted to men who dominate me.

[@anjalivuduta5157]

same! but if the guy's a jerk, you're doomed for life

[@jjrisia4963]

me tooo omg yes

[@elizabethjordan8856]

Mely Badao me too but only dominant in bed. lol

[@loribothwell8582]

Domination can suppress your goddess power...I think I get what Mely means but at the same time, if a man doesn't see you stick up for yourself here and there, you will shrink and become unhappy really fast.

[@Alfakkin]

SHE MEANT A STRONG MAN, WHO HAS CONTROL OF HIMSELF AND THE SITUATIONS HE GETS IN...IN THIS WAY AS A WOMAN YOU FEEL SAFE (IT'S NOT ABOUT "DOMINATION")

[@eftsoulpath333]

I love it when a man shares the 'stage' and asks me about how I'm doing. Biggest turn off ever is a man (or anyone) monopolizing the conversation....

[@laylabug39]

A man who is protective, confident and stable. He is dominant but not afraid of showing his emotions.

[@loadeddiperz]

its called happy hormones!

[@MrMagicbright]

エイプリル hormones and neuropeptides are not the same!

[@beverlybruton2271]

I like a man who looks strong and clean cut but is also gentle towards me. That makes me feel like he really cares for me. Also, somebody who seems to pay attention to me. I recently went for a walk with a gentleman that I had just met, and he paid attention to my breathing, slowed down without me realizing it. He was looking out for me and I didn’t even know it during the walk I noticed that he did something equally as nice to somebody behind me or us and I just thought it was very nice. His thoughtfulness really impressed me.

[@carmenmichaelian8307]

I enjoy when my date is asking me questions about me. Being aware of my being there.

[@ValeriiaTurysheva]

I am really attracted when he shows some small signs of attention: touches me meanwhile we work, offers some jacket/glass of water. When he listens me and shows interest in my story or approval, makes comment about my look today. And mostly when he makes jokes that I cant stop laughing.

[@JenniferAyoub]

Honest, humble, kind confident understanding compassion- these are some of the qualities I look for in a partner. Also, a man who is a gentleman and who has a passion in life.

[@karlyost3572]

😂 science falsely😂 prepare to receive Jesus in your heart and read the Bible be filled with the holy Spirit and say not my will but thy will be done Lord and you will be perfect in the eyes of God because of Christ in you not because of yourself we are wretched without the Lord😂😊

[@Kdedman67]

True confidence! Not egotistical. Not fake it till you make it. True confidence. From ordering a cocktail for you that he knows you love, to being confident enough to ask what you “like.”

[@grettalemabouchou6779]

Kindness. Class. Somewhat independent. Health. Clean thoughts. Grooming.

[@MarkBH70]

Great, as usual, Mr. Mat! I do all these things except wearing red. I'm a man. A little red is okay, but I can't pull it off often. My woman, my fiancee, doesn't wear red much either. I find her attractive. I do videos on KZbin, and I was trying to follow someone's advice to appear better in them. Someone criticized. I think whatever you do it has to come from you...has to be natural. God bless all the women here, and you too.

[@sehrish_sajjad]

What traits men find attractive in women. Finding Opportunity in every challenge. Turning gaint mountain. problems into tiny pebbles. Passion about ur goals. Playfulness in every small thing in life. Full of positive energy. Certainty in what you want. It shows confidence. Don't give lukewarm response instead show ur interests if u r interested and just say no if u aren't. Versatility is ur ability to adapt n grow in new areas. Get interested in what he's interested in. You enter in his world. Sense of humor. Laughter at his jokes. Smiling at him. Honesty by communicating exactly what you want. Wear red increases sexual desire. Mirroring and matching by imitating his body expressions.

[@breeprins-haakma8088]

what if u have a visible medical condition???

[@RM-gp4ur]

I have thought about this often, and the answer always come back - BE YOURSELF! Of course you won't attract the shallow people who only want a gorgeous 'normal' girl/boy. But there are plenty of people in this world who genuinely want a RELATIONSHIP with someone real, kind, and faithful. If your character and attitude stand out, you will have their respect, and that's just one step away from fascination and potential love. :) Some ideas: Keep learning and growing on the inside! Explore the world through the computer, library, drama, music, etc. The richer you are on the inside, the more interesting you will become on the outside. Develop your personal style! Try different colors (not all red, haha) and makeup and clothes - if you like. KZbin is full of neat tutorials and budget ideas for breaking out of your mold. Embrace your femininity and be PROUD of it! I like to be with people who have opinions and like certain things more than others. These people are themselves and not ashamed of it. So don't be afraid to develop tastes and ideas and opinions - even if they're unpopular. Being a wonderfully unique you is a great way to meet a wonderful someone else. ;) And don't forget to be positive and upbeat about your health. It's not fun, but hard things happen to us all. So GLOW in the satisfaction of being you yourself, and don't be hard on yourself for what you can't do or be. A woman who is confident and cheerful (even if through tears sometimes) is going to attract respect from quality men. If you embrace all of these points and make them part of your LIFE... if you are honest you will eventually see a very attractive person in the mirror. :D It's not really about beauty or perfection, but having a lovely, feminine SPIRIT that draws men in. And don't worry about having someone in your life just now. He will come when you are ready, and meanwhile you will be having a much richer life just being You.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

What about a group of others that have it? Like fire victims. For example.

[@eftsoulpath333]

When they are engaged listener

[@AqibatuIssah5582]

guys love the way I am and am Happy when I can connect to them in all ways.😘

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Thanks Mathew ! Great video :) I like when a man is cavalier ie. Let's the ladies into the elevator first etc...I love that chivalry isn't dead :)

[@Nothaut]

How about having lots of fucking money?

[@jerushadowdy7094]

Nothaut 😂

[@wowsers7067]

Nothaut LMBO

[@jenniferblohmichael97]

How about it ?!!

[@arliciawalker]

God I love your this particular video! Oh my God my man gave me a joke and Lol but I was mad at something already,...but the joke was funny tho!

[@bawain]

red aggravates me as a girl,,, it makes me irritable and proned to anger,, I really prefer blue ,, BLUEEE all the way

[@mariagoergen4064]

1. Laughter 2. Smiling vs. Not smiling 3. Honesty 4. Color (wear red) 5. Mirroring and Matching