5 Self-Love Habits for the Holidays 🎄

[@amy_lee]

if someone comments on your weight, just eat them. 😋

[@marammaaroufi6093]

Will sure do!!😌😂

[@honeypotfilms6066]

LMAOOO SHDHWKSISHHS

[@JaneOhSimple]

the only advice i'll take 😌

[@BeingTiffany]

haaaaaa 😅

[@lorettapfeiffer9310]

Amen Ms. Lee 🙏🏼💟

[@milky_quartz]

The part about setting boundaries with family being seen as rude!!!!!!! latino families think you're being rude AND stuck up for saying something as simple as "I would not like to discuss this topic right now" . Its like walking a tightrope because u have to choose do u let ur family chip away at your mental state passively or do I set a boundary which will cause definitely cause a fight, anger, and tension, thus regardlessly still chipping away at your own mental state

[@amy_lee]

I felt this so deeply >_

[@gabbyisprincesa]

THIS!! ^^

[@chiaradelia829]

As an Italian girl I feel you

[@leona5543]

Mine is the same and we’re British

[@fluxusjpg]

Yesss black families are like this too 😭 its so awful bc sometimes its truly a lose lose situation 😔

[@joymae]

The holidays can be so hard for many. Sending love to everyone during this challenging year.

[@alwaaysbeyouurself]

Your content is so sacred to me! It feels like you're a friend whos talking about emotions and very vulnerable but urgent things nobody else in my place wants to talk about with me, thank you so much!!

[@fluxusjpg]

Same 🥺

[@heyitsLizzy]

“And if someone comments about your weight, just eat them.”😂

[@lannah6285]

Amy has been thriving recently, after her hair transformation I feel like she has been loving life so much more, she looks like a new person and i'm for it

[@stellatheestar]

your big sis energy never fails to bring me comfort, I love uuu

[@juliialopez]

Thank you for making this video. I struggle so much around the holidays because of family. In general, it's often draining to give so much of my energy to people I feel like don't deserve it. I am too still learning how to set boundaries and being okay with it. Thank you for shedding light on this topic. It's so nice to know that I am not alone. 💖

[@CynthiaCho]

WHEN AMY COMES AT YOU WITH AN AMAZING QUOTE THAT FEELS SO PERSONAL AS SOON AS THE VIDEO STARTS 😩💖

[@gobadbltch]

Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqLKi6x8qdqGmsk

[@DaisyShaz]

I honestly have so much anxiety dealing with my family during christmas holidays.I feel like they unravel all of the self growth i do throughout the year😞

[@carriesun1793]

totally agree that boundaries are difficult to set, especially in Asian households. when family friends ask "how much money do you make" or comment on your weight, it's difficult to navigate away from those conversations. this video definitely helped me realize there ARE ways to avoid those topics

[@ryleaholbert1814]

Is anyone else so captivated in how she speaks and how her mind works ? She so wise and smart and knows what she wants to say and how to say it , so inspiring ❤️

[@SamElle]

omg this is definitely the video I needed!! Holidays are a very anxiety filled time of year for me (seeing family and relatives can be super hard) and I definitely have been working on coping mechanisms and things I can do to soothe myself so i'm less anxious

[@kiara_lofi]

I see you often haha

[@jokesonyou222]

@@kiara_lofi I was just boutta say thatt:)

[@BlancheTecson]

That coat is sososo cute. The first tip is soso true. Once you start to become more aware and enlightened, you become more sensative and its a lot harder to carry a conversation when you dont feel comfortable encouraging it or brushing it off

[@HeyAsdfg]

This comment is everything..... Ever since I started therapy and my self-healing journey I've feeling as if I am exaggerating everything, but I'm probably more self aware ? I've been thinking alot about this lately, so thank you 🙏

[@rhythmicelegance4670]

Thank you for the tactful response solutions, from someone who usually reacts to rudeness rather aggressively (which doesn’t always help the situation).. 😬

[@MathildeG]

I love the Holidays 🎄, but it can definitely be draining at times!

[@vsvids2210]

Thank you so much for this video Amy! The holidays have been really difficult and sad for me ever since I lost my mom a few years ago. I felt pressured to spend time with other family, but they ended up not being the best support system for me personally. I recently made the decision to spend the holidays alone to focus on my own healing and at first the concept of being alone during the holidays made me feel so sad. Just the word “alone” has such a sadness in my opinion. But this video really opened up to me that I’m making the right decision! It’s not about being a loner, it’s about needing space to heal. Thank you so much Amy❤️

[@JuliaGaik]

Amy! The shorter hair looks amazing!

[@floridagirl432]

Please give us more vlog content! I’m dying to know how you’re adjusting to your new place.

[@honeypotfilms6066]

can we pls talk about this girls style tho?! she’s rlly perfect - honeypot films

[@MelonMuse]

This was a much needed video, thanks so much for talking about this! I'm also in the process of learning what my needs are, how to set boundaries with the people that I love, and a recovering people pleaser! It's especially difficult with Asian families because I feel that speaking up for what you need is seen as being disrespectful to your elders 😥

[@planetakarina]

this video was so informational and helpful. i also feel like boundaries is the hardest one for me specially when it comes to conversations

[@Lee-nz7oi]

This is my therapy session. Much needed and appreciated❤

[@carolinacastelan3094]

you look incredible Amy, lots of love - Pati

[@kiara_lofi]

And why do we need this video? Cause self love is IMPERATIVE TO SURVIVE! And some families just be doing to much lmao Happy Holidays to all!! Love u girl💕

[@gobadbltch]

Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqLKi6x8qdqGmsk

[@kiara_lofi]

@@gobadbltch lol I'm happy thanks anyways ♥️

[@didu2689]

Dude I am soooooooo grateful for you and your content, it's hard to explain into words!

[@sistershiloh]

Thank you for this. I typically don’t set boundaries because I haven’t found out how to do so without seeming rude but the list of boundary examples you made is perfect!

[@vevict]

Love you so much. You are part of my self-care routine, you always help me to look inwards to work on myself and to break (and to keep on braking) the cycle of violence I've been since birth ♥️ my soul thanks you the most

[@AnaS-of8ri]

You're always right on time love! I really needed this

[@gabbycantskate]

your channel is so uplifting and your videos are so accessible and always remind me to keep exercising the tools I learnt in therapy everyday!! hope you’re doing well throughout this pandemic and best wishes for the holidays ❤️✨

[@fluxusjpg]

I needed thissss ive been so worried about being around my family members this season bc ive been butting heads with them lately so yeah I definitely needed this reminder to take space for myself to avoid hurting them and being hurt myself 🥺 thank you!

[@angelikabatwoman]

Hey Amy since your passion is self development I wanted to know if you're interested in topics related to sustainability or veganism? Cause when I started on my spiritual/self discovery journey I noticed how my compassion grew beyond myself and humanity and I started to care more about the clothes I wear, brands I give money and attention to and about all the horrible things that happen to animals every single day. This isn't meant to say you have to do all these things, I just noticed that on myself and was wondering if you are interested in those topics. 😊

[@ErikaK]

❤ be Kind to yourself always, be free and be you 🌸 Love your hair ! 🤩

[@seohyun4815]

I was stressed about school but amy your video is literally healing me 🥺:) thank u for being who you are always!

[@gracielaglows]

So happy to see this title on a beautiful day, when I’m so ready to learn (: you’re awesome great job !

[@toholdandfill]

I love ur intro music makes me feel like I’m marching into self love~

[@LC-cw2wx]

Just bought a mindful journal because of your self care segment in this!! Best of luck and love to all of you during the holidays!

[@RosaDaniello]

Thank you for always spreading good vibes 🥺

[@grannyblitz5130]

I loved this talk! I love that we are preparing for the holidays from November this year 💗

[@gobadbltch]

Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqLKi6x8qdqGmsk

[@Irene-in9nz]

THANK YOU AMY!! i didn't know you were THIs into spirituality, i'm a healer myself and i LOVE shamans, tarot, reiki, and more!! its nice to know someone out there knows what reiki is too!!!!

[@amy_lee]

Yes!! Lol I’ve been learning to read tarot on and off for 2 years and I rly love the readings on KZbin- hope I can get to a point that I can do them too 🤣🤣

[@isabelaaguilar7394]

This is such an informative and we'll thought out video!! I am also in the process of discussing these topics with my therapist, particularly setting boundaries with my family members. Asian culture is such a tricky situation to navigate. When you hold space for yourself, you give yourself room to have love and support for those around you. I especially love the idea of creating new experiences and traditions in adulthood. Christmas has always been a sad and lonely time of the year, so I resonate with this idea. This was a really great video Amy and I've loved watching you evolve and grow. Hope you are settling into your new place and that you have a good day!! 💙

[@viola6562]

Woah this color suits you so well😍 you look phenomenal! Lived your tips especially about settling boundaries. Thanks sis💞

[@avawilkinson4296]

LOVE YOU AMY. all your videos are like a breath of fresh air that bring me peace, confidence, and contentment

[@blueberrymuffin113]

The thumbnail ist beautiful 🥺🌸

[@lead8174]

First person to like the video and I am not regretting it. Thank you for your good vibes during those times

[@kaileypaige6802]

I can already tell by the intro I’m gonna like this video :))

[@raynaperry1779]

Needed to hear this. Thank you for your channel!!

[@MariaClara-it8bw]

your videos give me so much peace ❤

[@jpocket7330]

You're a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you, girl.

[@karina7599]

Thank you for this. You came at the right time and so I’ll take this as a sign from the universe.❤️

[@riceshineshow]

Love yourself first! Amazing video!

[@d.d.2127]

I just wanted to say that I love you !! I feel proud to be one of your subscribers (and old one, been here since the beginning)! Sending u love from Belgium ❤❤❤

[@KateEliza6]

She said just simply ✨eat them✨

[@Justgabbyyy25]

This bought flashbacks that I will always regret doing. But yes, I agree with everything you said :) I’ve set boundaries and I don’t regret that.

[@Yesu_l]

i love the blue and collar bone length haircut!! 💚💚

[@lashtastics]

I am older than you but you’re the big sister I never had 💕 much love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@user-fg6hg7ds1v]

Your hair is stunninggg & thank u baby 🤍🤍

[@pentominoes3609]

This video was so needed right now! I recently found your channel and am so thankful for all of the resources and love you share.

[@rudig5698]

Needed this 😍

[@kara265]

heck yeah! ending the year strong with love

[@moreofmansoor]

I honestly wish you’d wish understand how much this video meant to me 🥺🤍.

[@kamilazaba7280]

beautiful make up Amy !

[@HighlitesYoga]

another killer video amy !

[@radamesboscolo]

You anthem of colors!!

[@denicev5740]

Thank you!!

[@marammaaroufi6093]

You're so beautiful Amy!❤❤👑

[@mariahisabelle]

thank u for the warm reminders right at the beginning of holiday season

[@xoexoticxo8424]

thank you for this video!!! and your hair

[@thankfuljohn2979]

Thank you, Amy!🌹

[@symphoniecameron]

thank you soooo much for this video🥺

[@idobevibintho2252]

amy!!! you are amazing ♥️ love from finland

[@glorianamartinez2356]

thank u for this

[@アルプス-c8t]

I love your outfit and style 👍

[@Hazellites]

Love your videos!! Keep up the great work!

[@marla422]

thanks for sharing

[@juliawale4294]

thank you for this

[@raayjayyy]

Thank you.🥺💓

[@MOON-pe4jm]

Almost cried. I dont have family to do holidays with:( it's a very lonely time during the holidays

[@gracielaglows]

Also beautiful outfits omg

[@lapushbabyitslapush566]

you’re so classy!

[@sadiereich6759]

Where did you get those pants?? I’m in love with them and have been looking for a pair that makes me feel like a rockstar Edit: the ones you paired with the hard rock tee

[@agnerukaite5742]

thank you Amy !!!!!

[@IvyJadeBucher]

Yesss new Amy video ❤

[@thandochristinamkize556]

Hair colour 😍

[@tatamarienoelle]

thank you

[@raregodcards]

Goodmorning Amy!

[@theLilly9987]

thanks for this video!

[@sophcowley6733]

Love u so much

[@leanneowen3134]

Needed this❤️

[@EciiAmeAlexeciaBernard]

I cant find the person in the comments who writes down her main points ..HELP lmao I just got my pen and paper after watching everything loll

[@hyurisa]

pretty thumbnail 💙

[@Saran2701]

OMG people pleaser i am...being too nice

[@MaxGr33nfan]

My sisters are my biggest triggers. I just stay away from them. I have to maintain my peace.

[@anacristinasoto8961]

I’ve never been so early ❤️❤️

[@anonanon7553]

Have you looked into intuitive eating?

[@paralight17]

GIRL YOUR LEGS. DROP THAT WORKOUT ROUTINE

[@SOS20311]

Hi Amy!!...😍😍❤❤

[@moreofmansoor]

4:47

[@katieblake]

My boundaries go out the window...👀

[@anonanon7553]

What were the initial reasons you went into therapy?