if someone comments on your weight, just eat them. 😋
@marammaaroufi60934 жыл бұрын
Will sure do!!😌😂
@honeypotfilms60664 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO SHDHWKSISHHS
@JaneOhSimple4 жыл бұрын
the only advice i'll take 😌
@BeingTiffany4 жыл бұрын
haaaaaa 😅
@lorettapfeiffer93103 жыл бұрын
Amen Ms. Lee 🙏🏼💟
@milky_quartz4 жыл бұрын
The part about setting boundaries with family being seen as rude!!!!!!! latino families think you're being rude AND stuck up for saying something as simple as "I would not like to discuss this topic right now" . Its like walking a tightrope because u have to choose do u let ur family chip away at your mental state passively or do I set a boundary which will cause definitely cause a fight, anger, and tension, thus regardlessly still chipping away at your own mental state
@amy_lee4 жыл бұрын
I felt this so deeply >_
@gabbyisprincesa4 жыл бұрын
THIS!! ^^
@chiaradelia8294 жыл бұрын
As an Italian girl I feel you
@leona55434 жыл бұрын
Mine is the same and we’re British
@fluxusjpg4 жыл бұрын
Yesss black families are like this too 😭 its so awful bc sometimes its truly a lose lose situation 😔
@joymae4 жыл бұрын
The holidays can be so hard for many. Sending love to everyone during this challenging year.
@alwaaysbeyouurself4 жыл бұрын
Your content is so sacred to me! It feels like you're a friend whos talking about emotions and very vulnerable but urgent things nobody else in my place wants to talk about with me, thank you so much!!
@fluxusjpg4 жыл бұрын
Same 🥺
@heyitsLizzy4 жыл бұрын
“And if someone comments about your weight, just eat them.”😂
@lannah62854 жыл бұрын
Amy has been thriving recently, after her hair transformation I feel like she has been loving life so much more, she looks like a new person and i'm for it
@stellatheestar4 жыл бұрын
your big sis energy never fails to bring me comfort, I love uuu
@juliialopez4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I struggle so much around the holidays because of family. In general, it's often draining to give so much of my energy to people I feel like don't deserve it. I am too still learning how to set boundaries and being okay with it. Thank you for shedding light on this topic. It's so nice to know that I am not alone. 💖
@CynthiaCho4 жыл бұрын
WHEN AMY COMES AT YOU WITH AN AMAZING QUOTE THAT FEELS SO PERSONAL AS SOON AS THE VIDEO STARTS 😩💖
@gobadbltch4 жыл бұрын
Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqLKi6x8qdqGmsk
@DaisyShaz4 жыл бұрын
I honestly have so much anxiety dealing with my family during christmas holidays.I feel like they unravel all of the self growth i do throughout the year😞
@carriesun17934 жыл бұрын
totally agree that boundaries are difficult to set, especially in Asian households. when family friends ask "how much money do you make" or comment on your weight, it's difficult to navigate away from those conversations. this video definitely helped me realize there ARE ways to avoid those topics
@ryleaholbert18144 жыл бұрын
Is anyone else so captivated in how she speaks and how her mind works ? She so wise and smart and knows what she wants to say and how to say it , so inspiring ❤️
@SamElle4 жыл бұрын
omg this is definitely the video I needed!! Holidays are a very anxiety filled time of year for me (seeing family and relatives can be super hard) and I definitely have been working on coping mechanisms and things I can do to soothe myself so i'm less anxious
@kiara_lofi4 жыл бұрын
I see you often haha
@jokesonyou2224 жыл бұрын
@@kiara_lofi I was just boutta say thatt:)
@BlancheTecson4 жыл бұрын
That coat is sososo cute. The first tip is soso true. Once you start to become more aware and enlightened, you become more sensative and its a lot harder to carry a conversation when you dont feel comfortable encouraging it or brushing it off
@HeyAsdfg4 жыл бұрын
This comment is everything..... Ever since I started therapy and my self-healing journey I've feeling as if I am exaggerating everything, but I'm probably more self aware ? I've been thinking alot about this lately, so thank you 🙏
@rhythmicelegance46704 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tactful response solutions, from someone who usually reacts to rudeness rather aggressively (which doesn’t always help the situation).. 😬
@MathildeG4 жыл бұрын
I love the Holidays 🎄, but it can definitely be draining at times!
@vsvids22103 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Amy! The holidays have been really difficult and sad for me ever since I lost my mom a few years ago. I felt pressured to spend time with other family, but they ended up not being the best support system for me personally. I recently made the decision to spend the holidays alone to focus on my own healing and at first the concept of being alone during the holidays made me feel so sad. Just the word “alone” has such a sadness in my opinion. But this video really opened up to me that I’m making the right decision! It’s not about being a loner, it’s about needing space to heal. Thank you so much Amy❤️
@JuliaGaik4 жыл бұрын
Amy! The shorter hair looks amazing!
@floridagirl4324 жыл бұрын
Please give us more vlog content! I’m dying to know how you’re adjusting to your new place.
@honeypotfilms60664 жыл бұрын
can we pls talk about this girls style tho?! she’s rlly perfect - honeypot films
@MelonMuse4 жыл бұрын
This was a much needed video, thanks so much for talking about this! I'm also in the process of learning what my needs are, how to set boundaries with the people that I love, and a recovering people pleaser! It's especially difficult with Asian families because I feel that speaking up for what you need is seen as being disrespectful to your elders 😥
@planetakarina4 жыл бұрын
this video was so informational and helpful. i also feel like boundaries is the hardest one for me specially when it comes to conversations
@Lee-nz7oi4 жыл бұрын
This is my therapy session. Much needed and appreciated❤
@carolinacastelan30944 жыл бұрын
you look incredible Amy, lots of love - Pati
@kiara_lofi4 жыл бұрын
And why do we need this video? Cause self love is IMPERATIVE TO SURVIVE! And some families just be doing to much lmao Happy Holidays to all!! Love u girl💕
@gobadbltch4 жыл бұрын
Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqLKi6x8qdqGmsk
@kiara_lofi4 жыл бұрын
@@gobadbltch lol I'm happy thanks anyways ♥️
@didu26894 жыл бұрын
Dude I am soooooooo grateful for you and your content, it's hard to explain into words!
@sistershiloh4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I typically don’t set boundaries because I haven’t found out how to do so without seeming rude but the list of boundary examples you made is perfect!
@vevict4 жыл бұрын
Love you so much. You are part of my self-care routine, you always help me to look inwards to work on myself and to break (and to keep on braking) the cycle of violence I've been since birth ♥️ my soul thanks you the most
@AnaS-of8ri4 жыл бұрын
You're always right on time love! I really needed this
@gabbycantskate4 жыл бұрын
your channel is so uplifting and your videos are so accessible and always remind me to keep exercising the tools I learnt in therapy everyday!! hope you’re doing well throughout this pandemic and best wishes for the holidays ❤️✨
@fluxusjpg4 жыл бұрын
I needed thissss ive been so worried about being around my family members this season bc ive been butting heads with them lately so yeah I definitely needed this reminder to take space for myself to avoid hurting them and being hurt myself 🥺 thank you!
@angelikabatwoman4 жыл бұрын
Hey Amy since your passion is self development I wanted to know if you're interested in topics related to sustainability or veganism? Cause when I started on my spiritual/self discovery journey I noticed how my compassion grew beyond myself and humanity and I started to care more about the clothes I wear, brands I give money and attention to and about all the horrible things that happen to animals every single day. This isn't meant to say you have to do all these things, I just noticed that on myself and was wondering if you are interested in those topics. 😊
@ErikaK4 жыл бұрын
❤ be Kind to yourself always, be free and be you 🌸 Love your hair ! 🤩
@seohyun48154 жыл бұрын
I was stressed about school but amy your video is literally healing me 🥺:) thank u for being who you are always!
@gracielaglows4 жыл бұрын
So happy to see this title on a beautiful day, when I’m so ready to learn (: you’re awesome great job !
@toholdandfill4 жыл бұрын
I love ur intro music makes me feel like I’m marching into self love~
@LC-cw2wx4 жыл бұрын
Just bought a mindful journal because of your self care segment in this!! Best of luck and love to all of you during the holidays!
@RosaDaniello4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always spreading good vibes 🥺
@grannyblitz51304 жыл бұрын
I loved this talk! I love that we are preparing for the holidays from November this year 💗
@gobadbltch4 жыл бұрын
Hey if you wanna try yo get back into being happy no joke my video might help not even to advertise my channel but I really struggle with being happy after being depressed and some times it comes and go now cuz I been in a good space for a long while now but I all the things I said in my video really helped me with haunting control over my life again ❤️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqLKi6x8qdqGmsk
@Irene-in9nz4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU AMY!! i didn't know you were THIs into spirituality, i'm a healer myself and i LOVE shamans, tarot, reiki, and more!! its nice to know someone out there knows what reiki is too!!!!
@amy_lee4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Lol I’ve been learning to read tarot on and off for 2 years and I rly love the readings on KZbin- hope I can get to a point that I can do them too 🤣🤣
@isabelaaguilar73944 жыл бұрын
This is such an informative and we'll thought out video!! I am also in the process of discussing these topics with my therapist, particularly setting boundaries with my family members. Asian culture is such a tricky situation to navigate. When you hold space for yourself, you give yourself room to have love and support for those around you. I especially love the idea of creating new experiences and traditions in adulthood. Christmas has always been a sad and lonely time of the year, so I resonate with this idea. This was a really great video Amy and I've loved watching you evolve and grow. Hope you are settling into your new place and that you have a good day!! 💙
@viola65623 жыл бұрын
Woah this color suits you so well😍 you look phenomenal! Lived your tips especially about settling boundaries. Thanks sis💞
@avawilkinson42964 жыл бұрын
LOVE YOU AMY. all your videos are like a breath of fresh air that bring me peace, confidence, and contentment
@blueberrymuffin1134 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail ist beautiful 🥺🌸
@lead81744 жыл бұрын
First person to like the video and I am not regretting it. Thank you for your good vibes during those times
@kaileypaige68024 жыл бұрын
I can already tell by the intro I’m gonna like this video :))
@raynaperry17794 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this. Thank you for your channel!!
@MariaClara-it8bw4 жыл бұрын
your videos give me so much peace ❤
@jpocket73304 жыл бұрын
You're a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you, girl.
@karina75994 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. You came at the right time and so I’ll take this as a sign from the universe.❤️
@riceshineshow3 жыл бұрын
Love yourself first! Amazing video!
@d.d.21274 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say that I love you !! I feel proud to be one of your subscribers (and old one, been here since the beginning)! Sending u love from Belgium ❤❤❤
@KateEliza64 жыл бұрын
She said just simply ✨eat them✨
@Justgabbyyy254 жыл бұрын
This bought flashbacks that I will always regret doing. But yes, I agree with everything you said :) I’ve set boundaries and I don’t regret that.
@Yesu_l4 жыл бұрын
i love the blue and collar bone length haircut!! 💚💚
@lashtastics4 жыл бұрын
I am older than you but you’re the big sister I never had 💕 much love from Canada 🇨🇦
@user-fg6hg7ds1v4 жыл бұрын
Your hair is stunninggg & thank u baby 🤍🤍
@pentominoes36094 жыл бұрын
This video was so needed right now! I recently found your channel and am so thankful for all of the resources and love you share.
@rudig56984 жыл бұрын
Needed this 😍
@kara2654 жыл бұрын
heck yeah! ending the year strong with love
@moreofmansoor4 жыл бұрын
I honestly wish you’d wish understand how much this video meant to me 🥺🤍.
@kamilazaba72804 жыл бұрын
beautiful make up Amy !
@HighlitesYoga4 жыл бұрын
another killer video amy !
@radamesboscolo4 жыл бұрын
You anthem of colors!!
@denicev57404 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@marammaaroufi60934 жыл бұрын
You're so beautiful Amy!❤❤👑
@mariahisabelle4 жыл бұрын
thank u for the warm reminders right at the beginning of holiday season
@xoexoticxo84244 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video!!! and your hair
@thankfuljohn29794 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Amy!🌹
@symphoniecameron4 жыл бұрын
thank you soooo much for this video🥺
@idobevibintho22524 жыл бұрын
amy!!! you are amazing ♥️ love from finland
@glorianamartinez23564 жыл бұрын
thank u for this
@アルプス-c8t4 жыл бұрын
I love your outfit and style 👍
@Hazellites4 жыл бұрын
Love your videos!! Keep up the great work!
@marla4224 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing
@juliawale42944 жыл бұрын
thank you for this
@raayjayyy4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.🥺💓
@MOON-pe4jm4 жыл бұрын
Almost cried. I dont have family to do holidays with:( it's a very lonely time during the holidays
@gracielaglows4 жыл бұрын
Also beautiful outfits omg
@lapushbabyitslapush5664 жыл бұрын
you’re so classy!
@sadiereich67593 жыл бұрын
Where did you get those pants?? I’m in love with them and have been looking for a pair that makes me feel like a rockstar Edit: the ones you paired with the hard rock tee
@agnerukaite57424 жыл бұрын
thank you Amy !!!!!
@IvyJadeBucher4 жыл бұрын
Yesss new Amy video ❤
@thandochristinamkize5564 жыл бұрын
Hair colour 😍
@tatamarienoelle4 жыл бұрын
thank you
@raregodcards4 жыл бұрын
Goodmorning Amy!
@theLilly99874 жыл бұрын
thanks for this video!
@sophcowley67334 жыл бұрын
Love u so much
@leanneowen31344 жыл бұрын
Needed this❤️
@EciiAmeAlexeciaBernard4 жыл бұрын
I cant find the person in the comments who writes down her main points ..HELP lmao I just got my pen and paper after watching everything loll
@hyurisa4 жыл бұрын
pretty thumbnail 💙
@Saran27014 жыл бұрын
OMG people pleaser i am...being too nice
@MaxGr33nfan4 жыл бұрын
My sisters are my biggest triggers. I just stay away from them. I have to maintain my peace.
@anacristinasoto89614 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been so early ❤️❤️
@anonanon75534 жыл бұрын
Have you looked into intuitive eating?
@paralight174 жыл бұрын
GIRL YOUR LEGS. DROP THAT WORKOUT ROUTINE
@SOS203114 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy!!...😍😍❤❤
@moreofmansoor4 жыл бұрын
4:47
@katieblake4 жыл бұрын
My boundaries go out the window...👀
@anonanon75534 жыл бұрын
What were the initial reasons you went into therapy?