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@BIG.C1419 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@SABSCORPION8 ай бұрын
I'm a rebound guy but she dosen't chases her ex she just wants to change boys every 2 monts I expected more she sayd a while ago that I'm the best thing that happened to her but she also sayd she lost her fealings for me I didn't do her wrong she knows I was there for her but she dosent have fealings for me anymore that's also why she cheated on me with her best frend but me loving her so much and wanting a future with her couldn't accept this she was my 1 and wish the only
@jahbrae9 ай бұрын
… because it’s safer to assume she’s just being nice versus jumping out the window looking goofy 😂
@hassanmohamed65409 ай бұрын
Shiiiit
@JohnnyBlaze_6169 ай бұрын
Facts.
@JohnnyBlaze_6169 ай бұрын
@@Ben256MB Why are you so concerned with me agreeing with the other guy’s comment? 🤨
@SHOLABEATS9 ай бұрын
Yea think that in general but don’t overthink when it comes to a woman who peaks your interests
@ammielcoats97629 ай бұрын
@@SHOLABEATSman I'm 44 in shape and I still don't know if a woman thinks I'm attractive or even no eye contact 😂😂😂
@mattw44619 ай бұрын
The more oblivious you act, the more it drives them crazy
@TJ-ml8tt9 ай бұрын
Aloofness is key
@TimeWarrior149 ай бұрын
Oh......I guess it makes sense now why I have these women around me. I just never knew what to do so I just watched as they would lick silverware infront at dinner. I had a woman one time not talk to me for a week on this trip. I was starting to feel sick, the one day I was a little late she sends a message "Where are you". Mind you, I had not had a single interaction wtih this woman besides her adding me on facebook. I show up a little late, she looks SO dressed up and she is literally inches from my face lookup up at me then looking down then looking up. And I have no clue what the fuck to do, so I just stand there without any expression on my face (Well, it is also because I was feeling sick). I think you are onto something
@FF-bj4nq6 ай бұрын
@@TimeWarrior14 Same situation as you but never ever had a girlfriend. Guess I'm just not attractive enough.
@Arcane_986 ай бұрын
Wait really?
@AlexLopez-vm7uq4 ай бұрын
@@Arcane_98 😂 YES
@omarr44_9 ай бұрын
It’s because we know social media spoiled today’s women with so much attention that we think she’s just playing games for free attention just to see if they can get us.
@pokeyerface9 ай бұрын
If we are being honest that was happening before social media blew up too. A chick might not really like you but she may like the attention andbstring you along with confusing signals...
@Chriswilson-vg6vp9 ай бұрын
No social media changed before they had to pursue it to get more validation now they don’t have too cuz they can get it from social media just laying in the bed
@JaMarcusJmarcDavis9 ай бұрын
Yes 👍
@TheRealkidNoir9 ай бұрын
That part
@donnydangerous13969 ай бұрын
This is the one #facts
@EurosDem9 ай бұрын
I used to work in higher education learning for adults and for every 10 women I’d speak with throughout their degree program, about 4 would actually admit they had mental health issues…,after watching this video I’m realizing it’s actually ALL of them
@Eh-zi9du9 ай бұрын
“Damn this dude is ugly I can’t take my eyes off this guy” lmaooo
@wonder777warrior68 ай бұрын
😂😂
@smokey26533 ай бұрын
Shit had me cracking up 😂
@ralph34283 ай бұрын
😂
@Professionale7203 ай бұрын
Shiiiiiiit I might be challenging this theory 💀
@peeterutsi40286 ай бұрын
1. Constantly in your vivinity 2. Asking dumb questions while acting not interested 3. When you catch her mid gaze she looks away and looks at you again 4. Woman talks about you as if she's not attracted to you 5. Like, message or dial by accident
@wavestation9999 ай бұрын
Just stay on point; mind, body, and spirit. Best believe they gonna start chasin you down
@liamfoo099 ай бұрын
what does this actually entail for each point?
@tylergary59539 ай бұрын
@@liamfoo09a fit body. A healthy, peaceful, in control mind. And an understanding that we are infinitely free energetic spiritual beings.
@Woeisme29 ай бұрын
My mind is too black pilled rn so that dosent work for me. Like a 4 or even a 3/10 on the attractive list no matter what I do women will never pick me especially because of social media they always have someone higher to choose from or to hit up in their DMs. I'm screwed.
@rqygun9 ай бұрын
@@Woeisme2fuck bro i want to give you a virtual hug 🫂
@erinmerlot88267 ай бұрын
They wanna steal yo peace bro so I be like ✌️ out 😆 😂 Let them chase, then play them they way others have tried to play you. They fall for their own play book all the time that's the key. I love to hit them with the "I'm poly" line and their left dumbstruck wit an ultimatum to stew on. 😅😅join the team love or keep it moving😂😂😂. If they see that the chick's you interact wit are always smiling and fuzzy they start to rethink their bs
@mannyaz119 ай бұрын
Tik tok has really made more woman soo dumb and look crazy with that stuff they say and put out there . Its amazing
@robertswitzer9909 ай бұрын
What’s amazing is that there’s a step above the default woman mentality, which was already very dumb and crazy
@joshlovsbball9 ай бұрын
Had a girlfriend in the past talk about how this one dude from work is so annoying or thinks he’s so hot. I would get pissed internally because I knew what it meant. One time we ran into one of those guys at a bar and she was way too into the conversation. I knew right then she’s done.
@AZAZEL_TK9 ай бұрын
She is never yours, it’s just your turn.
@dciccantelli9 ай бұрын
I hope you walked out & left her there.
@VisceralCarbon8 ай бұрын
Don't act like you haven't worked with a hot girl at work, while you where in a relationship, it goes both ways
@AZAZEL_TK8 ай бұрын
@@VisceralCarbon You don’t know Josh’s situation though. What if he was being faithful
@ripplayboicactus92798 ай бұрын
you should have left the second she said he was hot smh
@kwameadu00759 ай бұрын
Another one that's very subtle. I don't know if this has ever happened to anyone. But you might be talking in a group or a meeting/presentation. While you're talking everyone's eyes are naturally on you. And while you talk it's normal to look around at everyone. Sometimes while you're doing that a woman will instinctively look away real quick as if you caught her gazing at you. But why should she feel that when it's normal to look at someone while they're talking in a group. That's usually because while you were presenting she was actually admiring you.
@mellycwell7 ай бұрын
Happens often to me at the gym
@johnmivule-novabow81439 ай бұрын
3:08, just because a girl smiles and waves at you, doesn't mean she likes you, smh Keep up the FIRE Josten J, starting off the year COLD!
@story12349 ай бұрын
People always look at me because I am the main character of this simulation. That's just what I deduced. Now I understand more and will use this new power for my advantage.
@JosephFarrier-c8q6 ай бұрын
I'm a program designed to alter you
@TomRuss.5 ай бұрын
You can't be the main character...I am the main character.
@jjillalalac24875 ай бұрын
A main character doesnt make simple grammatical errors like you do😂😂😂
@story12345 ай бұрын
@@jjillalalac2487 You sound stupid with your reasoning.
@ace-un4ue5 ай бұрын
@@TomRuss. if you are the main character and i am also the main character then that means i am you and you are me?
@DrinkFromMeMetal9 ай бұрын
Great advice. Another sign I have experienced is when you ask her for a small favor. If she likes you, she will usually jump at the chance to help you.
@alejandropalacios53708 ай бұрын
The other day i asked an a girl to make me an capuccino, and...she did it to me...
@jagosevatarion88226 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. Was a girl at the gym who helped me once she also showed other signs of "interest" like staring at me, hovering around me. After months of this i made a move and she rejected me with a stink face
@Arvidje2 ай бұрын
@@jagosevatarion8822 after months... u have to make the move at the moment she is showing off those signs... waiting so long your oppertunity is gone especially if she has a slight feeling u become more interested in her..
@youngsuit9 ай бұрын
my problem is that once i do learn she's interested, if i am also interested, she stops being interested
@JohnWick-el9yw9 ай бұрын
Same bro it's like they just want to know we like them so they can crush us it sucks
@twincitydezray5 ай бұрын
In what setting? How are you showing your interest?
@emmanueladejuwon67285 ай бұрын
@@twincitydezraythis is the smartest question, Your way of showing interest is what could have worked against you , But you still have hope , cos if you give each other space, she is gong to get over the perception of you she already had, then we can strike again , I dont mean you should ask her out again, I mean she start to find you attractive again through the handsome mystery'
@Arvidje2 ай бұрын
woman like men more who's feeling are unclear..
@MarkM3248 ай бұрын
When women do the Look/Look-Away thing we called that "Shooting You Rhythm". Me and a buddy would walk into place and I would be on the Look-out for Women looking at him and he would be on the Look-out for women looking at me...
@Suedetussy4 ай бұрын
Funny. I’ve already suspected that my crush has set up his friends to observe me, because he caught me staring at him several times.🧐 And my friend has offered me to observe him and how he acts with me. 🥸. I have no idea, why i can’t approach him. He’s so beautiful, i feel so shy. 😰
@DaveO08086 ай бұрын
2:16 she actually brought up a good topic here. Even thought we are 95% oblivious to subtleties, we sometimes realize when women find us attractive. But then we remember that one time when some below our level, histeric woman who gave us hard time, such as playing the mind games too hard or bullying with our honest feelings by putting on bs attitude because she has the "upper hand". So we choose not to think too far and save the headache. If some random woman can do that to us, what would a woman do that we deem highly and find attractive? At least that is my take. Some guys know, but they stay cautious for reasons.
@cmb64479 ай бұрын
Ain’t nothing like a dose of seeing where I potentially or actually fumbled. 😂Appreciate it💯
@fredspeidel23199 ай бұрын
Started strong in 2024 using your philosophies and had a perfect stranger in my arms at midnight. Thanks for the boost!
@supershane1699 ай бұрын
All facts women love to hover when interested, even if they're with another guy at that time 💯
@dosemulero39639 ай бұрын
Good day J, another blessed year to become wiser and make moves to improve our value. With that being said “LET’S COOK”!!!
@JostenJ9 ай бұрын
Let’s cook! I want and pray for all the bros to become successful in whatever they decide to do!
@tercial9 ай бұрын
One thing i noticed. They ask stupid questions or obvious questionsso they can talk to you. Or most times tease. Also she'll be concerned if you ate
@Isuraaye9 күн бұрын
Right on
@wizardofahhhs7599 ай бұрын
I had a chic following me in the grocery store with a kid in tow and the kid is like "mom, where are we going?" And I hear her tell the kid "I'm just backtracking making sure I'm not forgetting anything" When she said that I knew what she was up to, she was trying to look at me. Women can go into a store without a list and buy enough groceries for 2 weeks.
@blkpryde2thamaxx9 ай бұрын
You're delusional.😂
@wizardofahhhs7599 ай бұрын
@@blkpryde2thamaxx No, you're just not attractive enough to have women follow you in grocery stores (or anywhere else for that matter)😂
@wizardofahhhs7599 ай бұрын
@@blkpryde2thamaxx And you're not attractive enough to have women follow you in stores😂
@seandafny7 ай бұрын
@@blkpryde2thamaxx lol sometimes this can keep u alive I can't blame the guy.
@John_Connor5564 ай бұрын
😆😂 poor kid just tryna get home & play Xbox.
@thech8zen19 ай бұрын
Golden Rule is to assume all women like you until she actually says otherwise. If you do this you will act in a more flirtatious, confident way around ALL women. You will subconsciously be more seductive cuz you aren't waiting for her signals. Signals are just there to let you know to keep going and a lot of time women hide their true feelings because she doesn't want to come across a certain way. Her feelings are not an on/off switch. Their more like a slider you can push from cold to hot or vise versa. If she isn't feeling you initially you can still win her over by not being affected by her initial rejection and giving her space (this is key) talk to other women, your friends, just occupy yourself. Just like you would win a cat over you show your interest and then let them decide if they want to come or go. When you don't put any weight on a girls rejection she understands that you understand women. Her feelings change with the wind.
@Sandro2348 ай бұрын
Fact city.
@johnnyxmusic8 ай бұрын
I just watched a video and they were talking about this idea that women can sniff it out when you’re nervous. They can tell your body language if you get more excited in their presence. That’s a turn off to them you just have to remain chill. Your advice is to remain charming… Which I also love. Just go around shining in being great. With no expectation. It’s a very Owen Cook kind of approach. Of course,… We know this, because when you’re single, you send off those desperate vibes. But as soon as you’re in a relationship, the women come to you because you’re now relaxed for various reasons. 😮😊
@thech8zen18 ай бұрын
@johnnyxmusic Yeah, our job as a man is to make her feel safe. So if ur nervous she's going to get nervous too. A little nervousness isn't bad tho, it's what supercharges the sexual tension. U just gotta be comfortable with the tension so that u can play with it.
@johnnyxmusic8 ай бұрын
@@thech8zen1 nicely put… I mean once there’s a little attraction going on and that sense of playfulness going back-and-forth… You do you have something. Like a little energetic ball that she tossed back-and-forth, pretty good. I’m trying to develop and practice the philosophy of life of being in the moment, loving it… Being sufficient… And needing nothing. And you don’t need anything, no one can scam you, and I can trick you, and then we can get their hooks into you. No I’m not totally free… It’s helpful to have an income, and I use a conventional job for that at the moment. I’ve been like the job I have. I’d like to see some brain scans of men and women when they are looking at their environment and then finding someone attractive… Because you know how men are when they shot… They narrow their vision they know what they want they hone in on the thing they get it, they pay for it now they go. Now women… They know about shopping and they have a wide view of the world… And Internet dating hasn’t made it any better… Because now they think all of these wonderful men are available, and they are… Theoretically. But anyway… When I look at you… Did they see a cute handbag… A little piece of arm candy… Or some thing that could possibly align with their life goals and purpose? How do you suppose the same could be said of men… In the hook up culture and world of pick ups and lines… I just don’t like the idea of people treating each other as objects and life accessories. Although, that’s part of what we are to each other as animals trying to pass along our DNA.
@jagosevatarion88226 ай бұрын
I always assume no women likes me, its best that way. There was a girl at the gym who showed many signs of interest, like staring at me, greeting me with a smile, hovering around me and after months of this i made a move and she rejected me with a stink face
@hotlucky56227 ай бұрын
when a girl is attracted to you and she is too nervous to even hold eye contact or have a normal conversation, flirting is just too much for her to handle. levels exist even for women
@Chriswilson-vg6vp9 ай бұрын
The best thing you said is when you know you’re that dude you jus know this chick at my job treats every guy the same way because she don’t wanna lose their validation by letting them know she likes me so so that’s her way of hiding it but those other guys are lames and she know I know that but I know I’m that dude
@seandafny7 ай бұрын
Man how do u do it
@100JK9 ай бұрын
Soak up the game boys we’re starting strong 2024 🔥
@textndrive_martialartist9 ай бұрын
New year same grind. #HIMGANG
@extrabaron9 ай бұрын
Facts
@outlawkingsoul1949 ай бұрын
Facts #GrindGang
@jomufilms9 ай бұрын
Good explanation about how to be a rebound guy and having the right attitude towards it.
@Arcane_986 ай бұрын
As a late bloomer (26) with little experience with women, your advice is very practical & sound. I've noticed an exponential increase in women, all of whom are attractive, giving me all the signs you've mentioned & more.. Ir videos also arent corny unlike some others ive seen.
@Arvidje2 ай бұрын
Late bloomeer? I am 45 and get all of the signs even with girls even below 18.. how older how extremer..
@joshuamouton38259 ай бұрын
Yeah I’m am going to build my self esteem and my body up and not text her that much anymore.
@danishnajfi4 ай бұрын
Man you talk sense, you know what you are talking about. The feeling of them looking your way, and her raising doubts in you are true and true. Logical thinking, the path of least resistance.
@twincitydezray5 ай бұрын
One other one I think I just noticed is that the hottest ones try to look away when walking by you to weed out the weak guys and if you approach them it shows you aren't scared. They're testing you.
@zeno33859 ай бұрын
Fellas neva chase, focus on women that make it easy for you, if she actually likes you she‘ll tell, if she plays games she fo the streets.
@dblackout11078 ай бұрын
Dude I was laughing so much this video. I’ve been single for almost 10 years now from going through shit and not really making myself appealing but you simplified things down and reminded me how some of my girlfriends were back then. My ex “accidentally” texted way back when and you saying “that wasn’t no accident” made me think back to that and laugh. It’s so true. They are funny their little games when you take a step back and have a laugh about it this way.
@E34boyz9 ай бұрын
Yo that video was fire . I've been getting so much choosing signs at the gym after I watch your video and I'm gonna act on them .
@BIG.C1419 ай бұрын
Happy New Year Big Bro been waiting for this drop 💯🔥💥🔥💥💰#letscookboys
@JostenJ9 ай бұрын
HIM GANG! 💪🏾
@elliotwilliams28499 ай бұрын
This man speaking straight facts
@beefhamburger-yy5jb4 ай бұрын
as a guy i absolutly HATE if she makes the first move. i find it a red flag if she makes the first move, it shows shes too confident and forward and i dont like that. just me though. if she smiles at you she is letting you know its safe to talk to her. just go for it
@TheGentileGabe4 ай бұрын
A girl at my work always looked me in my eyes but never smiled just looked away. Found out later she thought I was the most handsome man she had ever seen. It’s strange.
@rishumaann18 күн бұрын
really tell me your insta Id😂
@SankiKingOfficial9 ай бұрын
Why Josten doesnt have 1M subscribers already beats me
@vitalie966 ай бұрын
12:36 as a man, I do look at ugly people too because ugliness also attracts attention even if it is unpleasant. So, when I notice that someone looks at me I automatically assume that they look at my ugliness because I used be told many times during my childhood that I was ugly.
@JosephFarrier-c8q6 ай бұрын
Even if your ugly attitude makes u hot I see ugly guys with hot girls al the time more often then not good hygein and style go further then looks
@TheBowie279 ай бұрын
This is the best so far, personally for me I’m going threw right now, respect !Happy new year Bro ‼️
@Mr82sizzla3 ай бұрын
Big Bro Josten, spitting out them FACTS in another Logical video.
@shawnwilliams23819 ай бұрын
NOTIFICATION GANG GANG! 🤝💪🔥 #HIMGANGGANG
@JostenJ9 ай бұрын
My bro 💪🏾 let’s win!
@edchauvin11906 ай бұрын
The word “but” puts into direct contrast that which was previously stated. She says “I’m not trying to bother you but. . . “ Yes, she is!
@JasonKabongo8 ай бұрын
Yo Josten, this one gyal at the gym keeps staring at me. She kinda bad and imma make my approach next time what you think? It’s not one of those eye contact where she looks away like she be dead ahh staring at me lmaoo Update! I got the snap and shawty feeling me heavy. We started working out together and shi. Just go for it fellas but keep retaining Iykyk
@BlitzGeist8 ай бұрын
That nose @ 0:49... "girl boss" my a** l🤣
@ogunhe5 ай бұрын
"It's not gonna happen." #ImmediatelyAfter "Does it happen sometimes? Yes."
@SpontaniuzProductions29 ай бұрын
Real gems 💯 talk 2 em 💪🏾 handsome goon game 👑 this really goes down🌍 well said
@e.runxthis6 ай бұрын
All of this in the video is exactly what I’m going through. They really are THEM. They all the same. Thanks man
@Mayoyaquiwarrior9 ай бұрын
Blessings bro wishing u happy new year J keep the amazing videos coming " Let's cook my guys !"
@miguel.99ovr9 ай бұрын
Or bro they start clocking you. Like they always be where you be at example at school you be going to the same route and all of a sudden the chick is there 💯💫
@Josh-fp2qn9 ай бұрын
They just want to get their attention fix from you. I know a guy at work who is a total beta male and will watch his crush leave for lunch so that he can wait until it is almost time for her to return so he can be on his break and meet her coming back.
@miguel.99ovr9 ай бұрын
@@Josh-fp2qn bruv them boyz make me frown upon em smh
@Josh-fp2qn9 ай бұрын
Haha yup. And this girl he’s crushing on already has a bf. 🤦♂️ But she talks to him so I’m sure she loves the free attention. Thing is she will only talk to him alone in the hallway, never in front of other coworkers.
@theone72169 ай бұрын
But i have noticed some women give men the look we give them.i have seen that a lot recently.
@THEOvERSiZEDMeATBALL8 ай бұрын
Woman: smiles at man Man: Approaches Woman: I was just being nice. I have a bf. Also woman: I smiled at him why wont he approach me and ask me out???
@Noir0rioN7 ай бұрын
THIS guy gets it.
@THEOvERSiZEDMeATBALL7 ай бұрын
@@Noir0rioN I understand what I can't figure out..
@Arvidje2 ай бұрын
@@THEOvERSiZEDMeATBALL its true.. but woman cant help them self if they see an attractive guy, they look or smile to you.. most are not able to date.. its confusing.. u have to pick those who are doing pro longed eye contact.. looking each other in the eye for 3 or 4 seconds.. those are single..
@THEOvERSiZEDMeATBALL2 ай бұрын
@@Arvidje nah, nothing is perfect and they should really stop complaining. It's a privilege that many don't have. To be and feel desired by the opposite sex. The occasional mild anoyonce from it is a small price to pay that many would willing to take if they could...
@zuhairreza9 ай бұрын
Time stamp your videos!!!! Enjoying your content so would appreciate it. 😎
@JoseGarcia-kv6ef9 ай бұрын
Phenomenal presentation bro, it really paints the picture in the mind.
@mikefranck02 ай бұрын
You hit this out of the ball park it’s fun 😂 talk about the stare of death mouth wide open 😮💨
@dciccantelliАй бұрын
The opening "girl boss" is one to run away from. Real fast.....
@Arvidje2 ай бұрын
almost all woman look at me.. they even showing off their body sometimes to attract me.. or stare for pretty long times at me, until they caught my eye.. it can be ackward .. u feel the woman is looking at you, if i look back at her, to verify, she thinks i am interested to and want continu the eye contact or attention.. i cant give this with every girl, u see they become a bit of agressive/frustrated... if i stop loooking... so i am dissapointing a lot of these woman and some are very pretty too.. if they like my appearance that much, come and talke to me, i dont bite.. but they almost never do it..
@sad-re8qk7 ай бұрын
As a man Women lose there value when they have multiple partners
@John_Connor5564 ай бұрын
Fax 🎯
@ronandheather30796 ай бұрын
Excellent advice. Thanks His man understands women
@theexclusiveedition9 ай бұрын
Explain when a female hits you first, DM and such. And then when you respond? Gone. Nothing. What is this shii
@VisceralCarbon8 ай бұрын
word I'm having this issue at my job. She came around talking to me every chance she got, even on her break, to ask me for my number. Three messages in I ask her out no response. I'm going to let it be, but sometimes I feel like these girls do this shit for the thrill just to see if the got it like that.
@theexclusiveedition8 ай бұрын
@@VisceralCarbon that’s it. If she ain’t on business just move on.
@wowomah61948 ай бұрын
I kid you not, there is this woman I had a massive crush on, she and I talked all the time at work and became each others' confidants and told each other all sorts of personal shit. She of course...has a boyfriend who she always complains about and says he's shitty and doesn't respect her and all the usual problem boyfriend shit. But things got sorta weird, I would notice sometimes that she wouldn't even look at me when we'd pass each other in the hallway...very...very weird. Like it was clear she had zero way of not being aware of me because we were the only two people in the hallway (of a very large warehouse retail store) and yet I would look over to see if we made eye contact and NOTHING sometimes. And yet then we'd end up having 40 minute conversations all the time, but I found I was the one chasing most times. I never made a move on purpose (cause she isn't single) but eventually she gave me her number when she found out that I was near her apartment at a brewery (I had zero clue she lived there) and she told me to "Let her know next time I was down there". Ok...suuuuuure. She knew/knows 1000000% that I had a crush on her. She had to know what she was doing. In any case, flash forward and she gets a promotion so she isn't around as much any more. I thought, hmm ok well maybe I'll try to hang out with her outside of work sometime to see what she's like outside of a professional environment. We'd probably talked about hanging out outside work like 5 times and so I thought it was time to make it happen. Asked her for drinks at a brewery the day of the request and naturally got turned down...a little too gusty maybe, most super h0t women are gonna have weekend plans of some kind and of course they're gonna feel a little insulted by a guy thinking their schedule and time is that convenient for him. Ok fine. She suggested maybe we choose a different date if any other days worked better for me too and as we kept texting she ignored my new suggestion and kept texting about the other shit. WOW COOL OK. So a few weeks pass by. We see each other at work a little and chitty chat some and are still on good terms. I think, ok, time for try number 2. I ask to grab some brunch one weekend several days before and NOTHING. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Completely ignored. Ok so I pulled up my little booties and moved on. That's the sign I needed. I called her bluff and that was that. I was ok with it. The past couple months I had been working on myself anyway...gained 11 pounds of muscle from starting to work out, went back to school for a certification, been working on some hygiene and style improvements, and so on. I felt pretty good about myself and still do! To be fair, some of that was inspired by her, she had been actually quite a positive, supportive influence in my life in the past year I had gotten to know her. Despite the flakey shit she ended up giving me, otherwise, she was sorta my biggest supporter and superfan, hard to find people who gain inspire you to be the best version of yourself and make you want to be superman. So not all negatives. In any case. I was cool with it. And then just recently, it had been a month since she and I talked...or rather since I asked her for brunch. I didn't talk to her, she didn't talk to me. She was in the workplace just a couple times super fast and we didn't have any chance to interact anyway. But just last week she came in and I was walking by her and wasn't going to say hello. Not to be petty but just because she was History. I figured, look, if she didn't want to engage with me cool, she sent me a clear message that perhaps she was just trying to be nice and that I was getting the hint, OK, I thought, so I am not going to waste her time OR mine and I'm just gonna work on my job tasks. At the FUCKING LAST SECOND this woman turns to me as we're passing and calls my name and says hello. Fuck. I return the favor and just say a quick hi. Genuinely surprised she said hi. No biggie, whatevs. Next thing I know, near the end of my shift, THIS WOMAN FUCKING COMES AND FINDS ME ALONE. So I'm standing in a giant aisle and she sneaks up on my ass while I'm alone and makes this big deal out of it. She apologizes for being MIA and not responding. Claims she was super sick (ok that's true, one day I saw her weeks ago she didn't look very good, others commented on her looking pretty unusually down). Claims she was out of town every weekend that month. Ok sure. Excuses can be valid sometimes...sure but how hard is a text? She says "I figured you were finally sick of my shit". LOL. I said back "What do you mean? There isn't any shit to be sick of." as in: THERE IS LITERALLY NOTHING BETWEEN US, WE AREN'T DATING AND WE AREN'T REALLY FRIENDS WOMAN. At this point I was past the point of frustration or disappointment in her...at this point I sorta kinda viewed her as a stranger you know? It's not like she and I text, it isn't like we talk on the phone, and we of course don't hang out. So...what gives? What does all this really matter to her? She still has a book I let her borrow that she's reading (it's actually Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life book...don't hate me lol I read that book like 7 years ago or something). But she knows me too well and called me out on it no matter how hard I tried to just dismiss the idea that I was annoyed with her. She said "Look, I know you, you weren't even going to say hi to me today". "Well look" I said "I've just reached a point in my life where I realized if people don't want to engage with me, I'm just gonna do my own thing". She tried to reiterate that, she of course still wants to grab lunch and catch up. Yeah ok, SURE lol. We had a little chance to catch up some before a customer came up and needed my help at which point we broke off. Why the fuck do women do this shit? Can't she just let a dude move on in peace? I have zero idea if she still has that boyfriend. Do you think she just felt guilty or do you think she's noticed me making distance and got all scared she might lose someone good? I hear shit from ladies I work with about how women put men on the backburner who are hubby material but, if that's what this woman is trying, I'd rather just skip to the part where she stops playing stupid games or otherwise fuck off.
@ummmm_okay6 ай бұрын
i’d keep on keeping on fam! fuck herrrrrrr, you got it, keep GOING!
@OCor-s5c9 ай бұрын
LETS COOK BOYZ!!!
@jdarg41639 ай бұрын
I play in a steelband with over 70 women and most of them do weird things like touch my leg amd 1 of them decided to stroke my chest down to my stomach Infront of their boyfriend which I also know and the rest always brush past me to get my attention and anywhere i go most of them decide to follow and all because they all saw some next chick go crazy over me in a bus party and I had to reject her because she was going abit to crazy so I know what your exactly what your talking about and most of them always watch my Instragram stories all of the time lool
@Dade-xo9xt3 ай бұрын
I need to approach women more. I'm way too lazy. Good video, my guy.
@gennarovanzetti8 ай бұрын
Hey you man, let's cook! Geez, you think very much like me. I have a "friend" that is always texting me, talking to me, she trusts me, she tells me everything about her life. Some other day she sent me naked pictures when there was no need for it. But when I pushed upon her she told me that she doesn't find me attractive, that she doesn't feel anything, bla, bla bla. But she talks to me every time like I'm her boyfriend. She tries to be the alpha female but I got her game pretty much and I let the pieces fall as they may. Thank you very much for you wise advices and confidence!
@MoneyBooBoo9 ай бұрын
shiii I'm the rebound rebound guy 🤡
@RandyCozart-o7z5 ай бұрын
Thanks bro love these vids ever since I got my abs and 13% body fat I've lost 60 plus lbs since Dec and chicks are paying attention to me hard 😭 I can feel it fr but I sucked at intiating convos you e helped that
@anders4160Ай бұрын
DUDE THE THING AT THE GYM SO TRUE
@rocknflip669 ай бұрын
another gem in 2024 and Josten never miss! LFG! #himgang
@Labestia_07109 ай бұрын
I have felt that energy too but I didn't looked at them idk why but from now I'll start to catch them that way I can approach them easily Thanks for so much detailed value bro :)
@M1no0o8 ай бұрын
Felt it, especially in the end. Thanks
@fellowdanbarber33237 ай бұрын
Ive noticed that the best looking and most successful men don’t marry uber beautiful women or models. They tend to marry plain Jane’s. And models don’t marry other models, they marry shorter unattractive men. Never fails. There’s a reason for that.
@wataloadabollox7 ай бұрын
Definitely onto something there bro.
@officialaleksi4 ай бұрын
That is upto personal decision on the person's part, if you are actually a 8/10, you don't have to settle for a plain jane, that is a choice. You can't say this is what always happens, most couples i see are looksmatched, sometimes you see couples that are def not, but it is more of a rarity.
@rohandurant48708 ай бұрын
I asked one customer for her number and she laughed and walked away......she came back to buy some stuff and I was focused didnt speak or make anything awkward....she didnt expected it. She came back again buy more stuff and then she said she gotta get back to work....Im like why did she say that lol looking for small talk....ignored her and she shouting for my attention across the street and waving
@GoaWay4Sanity4 ай бұрын
*nothin is an “accident”, regarding a girls attraction to a guy -NOTHIN!*
@TheRelaxingWind9 ай бұрын
Happy New Year, I like that comment “We’re gonna make it.” Gotta make it happen this year
@marquesmarques86119 ай бұрын
1000. It's Crazy I be knowing but acting dumb and makes em start going bonkers, almost like a kid.😅💪🏽🙏🏽
@need2knowbases4596 ай бұрын
Thanks to your video breakdown I now know the girl i was talking to was really pretending and now I have closure and understanding. Before I thought I missed my shot but actually there was no rim. An essentially I probably was another plate she was spinning, a filibuster, or Fun time waster until the guy who she really want comes around. The root sign now that I think about was when I changed my routine once and she was really angry and mean, and I've never seen that side of her.
@Cleverpuncher4 ай бұрын
Keep up the good work 💯
@jesusmannwhaaat8 ай бұрын
so I've had girls look at me but then idk its because I looked at them too and then they're just like checking to see if I'm looking at them and feeling creeped out.
@Michael-ld2np9 ай бұрын
sheeeesh #2 is exactly what happened the other day. I actually felt a lil bad for her lol maybe in another life honey.
@waynegoldstein76538 ай бұрын
Yo no me considero guapo pero muchas mujeres y hombres me han dicho que tengo un atractivo físico un poco por arriba del promedio...por lo menos hablando de mi país. Y me he dado cuenta de que muchas mujeres pasan de mi, prefieren no estar conmigo más allá de tener sexo porque sienten y piensan que soy mujeriego y se quieren ahorrar los celos y una relación tóxica. Y la verdad yo quiero tener algo serio y bien estructurado con una mujer pero no me va muy bien con eso. 🤷♂️
@philipramsden49755 ай бұрын
Girl boss can keep it moving. I don't need none of that craziness
@_Ethereal4208 ай бұрын
Litterly one of the only videos on this matter that's speaking facts .
@xavierflores89363 ай бұрын
That being logical and not being emotional hit me all this fuckery making me sensitive but good video 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
@FrostyBob997 ай бұрын
Girl Boss The Red Nosed Skankdeer is really bumming my drummer. Next time, leave her at home. Thanks 😂
@John_Connor5564 ай бұрын
😂😆DED
@theone72169 ай бұрын
Us men do no know if you like us.youll got to start doing more period we cant read mines.
@CappinwitZee6 ай бұрын
To say men remain logic but tell them to play an emotional game is crazy. Men be you and be great and get what you want. Stop looking at looks because 9 out of 10 the bad ones be the worst.
@sheldonsaddler97809 ай бұрын
Yo j. This one is straight !💣💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@TomRuss.5 ай бұрын
When a woman likes you she makes it easier for you, when she doesn't you remain confused. THAT IS UNIVERSAL! no matter how hard she will try to conceal it, it's stronger than her! and she will show the signs of attraction.
@ham54834 ай бұрын
Your videos are gold bro, great work
@maravilloso0029 ай бұрын
How tf can anyone sit through those tiktok videos (pulling out my teeth). Anyways, good stuff. "I wasn't looking at you." "Well you are now, I just figured I''d come over here anyways." That was cold.
@TheWarrior17_99 ай бұрын
Josten, I need those shades. What brand are they or what model?
@allendixon77009 ай бұрын
Erica, that's what a fellow needs to be. You need to pay above above not even at the same level above. It's what they want
@allendixon77009 ай бұрын
Goats could never figure that outhough. That woman needs to kiss the baby sir b u t t hey hello
@sigmachad966 ай бұрын
The first clip literally explains my whole life 😂
@KyzirGordon5 ай бұрын
facts. when u feel that ray of sun, theres always a girl somewhere in the area