5 SIGNS YOU HAVE A TOXIC BABY DADDY!

[@UnbiasedStrays]

Fathers who do NOT do Daily Check ins or go to see their child/children when given free range and access could NEVER speak horrible on the mothers because A father not checking in is basically saying my child is good with their mother, or they simply do not care about the child. It’s either of those. A father who has emotional maturity and good character is automatically doing what’s necessary for the well being of their kid and is active. A Man! The ones who avoid those actions are automatically giving good graces to the child’s mother and has no concerns for their child’s safety. Anyone who chooses to spin these facts in a different direction is full of it.

[@leratomaselwane9454]

Facts

[@raeleighshea1690]

My sons dad said he was gonna see him yesterday & never came. Even though my baby is 4 months old & doesn’t know much I still didn’t like that his dad did that, because I will not let that type of treatment continue through his life💯

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Same

[@leratomaselwane9454]

Exactly, same!

[@JJones-sz2gd]

I’m sorry I died when you said some of my younger girls made some ground beef tacos 😂😂😂😂😂

[@candace9560]

My babydaddy is toxic! I just want him to find happiness so he can stop being so toxic and be a good consistent father! I don’t want him at all. Just please go away and grow up. He almost 40 this is crazy. He literally comes to get our daughter when he feels like it and only gives money when he feels like it. I don’t press the issue often bc it always less to an arguments

[@blackbeauty856]

Girl!! This is so my issue especially when you don’t want him ! Sounds like we got the same bd lol damn . Keep praying baby that’s what I do

[@SlayinTruth]

Going through this now smh. Have any advice you can give me

[@peternorthrup6274]

He's the man that thinks you won't get a court order for child support. Your a fool if you don't. Get it in writing.

[@shaynabobayna1723]

Why?

[@fictionwriter24]

my soon to be x husband is still trying to be buddy buddy with me when he comes to take care of our 2 year old son, even though he left me for a work affair coworker who is also married but she didnt leave her husband yet and now he is trying to "find himself and be whole again" (aka waiting like a spider under she leaves her husband). Toxic and sad.

[@peternorthrup6274]

As long as you have court ordered child support move on with your life. If not he's just laughing at you for not doing so. Get the child support order.

[@godsgirl7201]

I love how you hold everyone accountable

[@mooeygarnet]

This is hitting me hard.... thank you for posting this. I'm seeing/hearing all of your input at just the right time for myself..... thank you again

[@dominiqueedwards667]

My children's father had all 5 signs smh and here I am thinking what I can do to change the relationship with my kids father.

[@vanessabaliola7198]

Just an add on to what you were already saying about BD’s making promises; is when your baby daddy tells your child things like, “your mom is taking you away from me” especially when the child is very young under 5yrs

[@ruthwanjiku5919]

I know

[@whitneymoore8281]

My child’s father has been talking to a female and he has never told me who she was or allowed me to meet her nor has he admitted to being with her until yesterday. He said it was just his “friend”. The only info I know is when my children come home and randomly tell me. I tell him if I can’t know who she is or can’t meet her they don’t need to be around her or to go over her home. He just says it’s none of my business. He definitely rather create more time to be with said female then create time to spend with his children even though he may say something and then not do it. I’ve made so many excuses and I’m tired of doing that. I’m tired of dealing with the secrets and the it’s none of my business bs. What do you recommend.

[@mooeygarnet]

4:45 FACTS 💯 damn.... I say the same thing, but then question myself and he acts like I never said it to begin with Probably because he is cool with what has been going on the past 7 years.... argh. All good, I needed this

[@QuianaMone_]

Girl i clicked on this video so fast after I posted this suggestion!! You were so spot on 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@godsgirl7201]

Love how down to earth you are

[@StacieTheSweetheart]

My baby’s daddy is very toxic & I gave up trying to deal with him. He might be not wanna be a father but I wanted to be a mother so I will continue to step up & make sure my baby has a great life & know that she is truly loved regardless of who is around 💯🫰🏾✨‼️.

[@Empress-Angelique]

My baby daddy toxic my child is 8 months i still consider him to check in on him even though he is not 2 or 3 he would hardly check in on him he would go three weeks without coming to see him an would voice my concerns to him that he need to do better an make an effort My baby daddy toxic

[@peternorthrup6274]

As long as you have a court ordered child support what do you care. If not your stupid. He's just laughing at you. I bet he's the guy that gives you a few bucks once and awhile and thinks that's fine. Don't be a fool.

[@lorettawebb5615]

My favorite new channel.!!!!!.

[@mooeygarnet]

1:55 what if he only wants to be with his son when I am there? I want my little man to love his dad, I think I put my own wellbeing to the backburner when it comes to that. I will be there, as long as my son is happy.... that won't last though.....i honestly don't know what to do... I just want his father to want to spend time with him....

[@Cassandra-y7y]

Ooh this is spot on!

[@agneskimani8112]

Hey Fallon,what if the babydaddy hates you and you are separated and he only cares Abt the baby,but provides financially for the child and whenever you guys converse he is pushing you away like he only wanna associate with anything that affiliates with the baby and not you....how Abt this situation 😪🤔

[@RevengedHottiePodcast]

Go find a man who wants you. He don’t want you. He wants his kid

[@marshclem2255]

He’s making it clear he doesn’t want to be with you, he just wants to be a father to his child. Move on and find a different partner

[@SouleStunningCleans]

Baby mama chronicles 😂🥰

[@destinyphillips1750]

I appreciate you! Currently going through a break up with my kids dad been together for 6 years, it’s been challenging but I’m gaining my strength! Came across your video and I appreciate your transparency! Thank you love 🤍

[@peternorthrup6274]

Do you have a court order for child support yet? Don't be a fool.

[@DulceCubana100]

My BD been good till this girl. I finally put my foot down. He introduced my son to the girl that he moved in with a couple years ago- ok. Last year he moved back in with her ex wife - we moved to child support order visitations since they did some dirty underhand thing since she was also in my sons life till then, which I did not mind since she’s mother to older siblings - ok. He’s got a new chick now, can’t be more than a few months relationship, so this time I flat out said no. He need to be with her a bit longer. My son will be 3 in October and that’s averages new woman every year.

[@candacenia8280]

Im only on #2 and you already hit 2 nerves lol. My child just recently told me that one time she was with her dad he sent her to the bathroom with one of his womens. Not sure who it was but omg i could not believe. Lucky for us she said the girl was totally uncomfortable with it and didnt touch her in the bathroom. Edit: okay well he is 5 for 5 its safe to say hes toxic 🤣

[@KCWayne]

my baby father blames and complains that child support is the reason he’s broke and can’t afford anything… its 600$ (3 per child.) ya ik a lot, he set it has that so i held him accountable abd left it like that n not negotiating about it 🤷🏽‍♀️ he spends money recklessly, gets extra money from his father, gives away money like an idiot and instead of stopping all that he wants to lower child support to afford things. instead of putting himself in debt and taking loans to give women money 🤷🏽‍♀️. or giving his paycheck or money from his father to women n friends…. talks shit about me and the kids (idk about the kids anymore but he used to and talks about how he had to spend 15$ to feed them at mcdonalds but can give 500$ to a ***** for phone bill and she never had to pay back for anything and hands her money (one of his hoes sum in me just feels he still talks to her and SHE LIVES IN MY BUILDING) and hands ppl money, dont save, backed up two months in rent n blames child support 🙃. we do NOT contact him. the kids barely call or txt (age 5 n 7) anymore, and he barely contacts them, comes here and then….. i dont bother this man. i REALLY want to learn to stop with the back n forth n not even reply when its not the kids. but when he says something it’s like i want to defend myself. defend the kids. basically said he gonna give me what he gives me n lower it himself. i am tired. tired of crying n being stressed. i want to and need to stop this toxic cycle. advice pleaseeee 🙏🏾 n when i meant tlk shit bout his kids, he tlked shit

[@KCWayne]

n this is only part of it… like 5%

[@KCWayne]

I SAID 400$ a month, HE SAID. no imma do 600$. i said nah no. n kept saying no. he said nahh imma do it. but IK he only did it so when something like this happens, he has someone to blame. n now that his account is always on 0$, we are to blame. im in a new healthy relationship and dont plan on getting bck with him. left him cause it was an abusive toxic relationship. his family put me in depression too (could not get out of bed and always crying, suicidal) n his dad was manipulative asf when he gave me a car so i could drive his son n grandkids around, it was my car when expenses came up, but when i stood up for myself it was never my car. so guess what? have my own car now and got away from that and grew and im proud on how far i came n love this person who im with so much. she’s amazingggg. im happy, the children are happy, but this? i need it to stop. n ik its an ego thing but dont want to just lower it for him to leave me alone n he gets what he wants AGAIN cause now 400$ will be too much n it will happen again

[@agneskimani8112]

It really hurts when he constantly has to dump me and remind me that we will never be together 🥺🤔😭

[@Camillyahreal]

Focus on you and love you and children or child work not giving self to him make room for you in healthy ways to attract that men thats for you

[@lavishlee8389]

He is hurting me but doesn't see he is hurting our daughter so bad.

[@Camillyahreal]

Oh how I herd this before my experience very similar one difference is that my bd is dating my son cousin auntie a female I kinda grew up around around so I knew her before my bd my son was calling her auntie and had stop that now he using her in ways to replace me do what you feel is best as long as it’s doesn’t stop him from spending time with his child I’m sure you’ll figure it out the best solution !

[@skyylea9859]

I’m lost. What do I do when I asked the BD to keep our child for two weeks .. but he agrees to 1 week … then when I ask him again he dropped it to only the weekend and said It’s bc I tread him bad ??? It’s frustrating

[@kevinsanchez-vc9nn]

I always separate a woman from my son unless I’m serious about them. I have my son a full week on and off once he leaves I go do my own stuff but that’s it

[@jamaalstrength1894]

I once met a woman with 3 kids & I almost smashed too but she said something about a baby daddy. At first I was confused but then I took the liberty of leaving her after I learned that my uncle hit a man in the head with a shovel for trying to get at my aunt.

[@maareeum8563]

LMFAOOOO

[@Cowboys_by_20]

😂

[@calidahill3374]

My baby daddy sees his son twice and month but will RUIN any relationship he senses that I have. He would rather die than see me with anyone else yet he wants to talk shit to me and keep me down. He tried to beat the fuck out of the last person who was interested in me and scared him off. It's not fair for other men to have to deal with his stupid ass. I can't get rid of him. Please give advice. I am not a black woman but I would love some advice. We've been through alot (court system, I've stabbed him for abusing me etc etc) I need some advice

[@thebrownqueeno1]

Facts Fallon!!!! My son dad is toxic.

[@tamerabaker9417]

Shit I fought his sister idk think we was ever talk about

[@Annie-jm1ox]

Pregnant to a very bad man. Only found this out after I got pregnant. Turns out he's a P & never told me.

[@Sunoocheeks1111]

My baby daddy he is always using substances and spend recklessly. Our daughter doesn’t even speak his language (we are from different countries) because he is not really present.

[@Sunoocheeks1111]

He even told me he is ready to go to ukraine for some random woman who wouldn’t even tell him her adress to go help her get out. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Dark_Abyss375]

He thinks that him and his new girlfriend are better than me and he’s leaving and wants her to have his custody because he’s joining the marines. She’s only been around a year

[@lavishlee8389]

My youngest her father mother left him at the hospital after birth.when I told him I was pregnant he was shocked, he hadn't got anyone pregnant for 19yrs. I told him I'm ok with a abortion if he is he said no and wants a family with me. He was amazing until I found out he was cheating and lying completely about us to woman. Then he became very verbal and mentally plus physically abusive. So I became very depressed and ended our relationship. My therapist said I needed to find happiness in life again to ask my daughter father toand watch her. When I came back to get her ge said no and to leave b4 he called the cops. My daughter is now mentally damaged

[@skyylea9859]

I just want him to get his child so I can breathe 😊

[@gladysayuma923]

What about a baby daddy who is absent physically but provides for the baby financially? Don't create time for his child

[@QuianaMone_]

Ooohh I definitely want to hear your perspective on if you think its appropriate for your new girlfriend/boyfriend to still have a relationship with their exes child? (If thats not their biological child)

[@Quay_4l]

so what if the mother is do all of this then what cause it seems i have no say in anything.

[@tamerabaker9417]

My kids father been with his new girlfriend for two months he says he don’t love her I think he’s lying

[@honeygirlsworldd]

Preach! 💯

[@godsgirl7201]

Good advice

[@devinedej3418]

What’s signs you’re a toxic baby mama?

[@zeniawelch5013]

What if you have a baby and just not doing anything is it wrong to go mia

[@bribaby8902]

Weren’t you just making all these videos talking about how it was us baby moms who were the problem tho? Didn’t work out so now you’re changing the narrative huh

[@OhThatsFallon]

Hey Bri girl, hope you weren't triggered by this. Accountability should be a 2 way street in any kind of relationship. Men should be held responsible, as well as women who had babies with men that didn't want them like that you know? Both are vital!

[@Devante516]

Point 1 showed me you have a ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY mindset. If you know the man is “playing house” from jump its just as much if Not more your responsibility to establish what is going on.

[@uchisi5763]

purr

[@2485Shaggy]

What if shes toxic

[@mdmt9868]

👍👏👏👏

[@jessicapearson9479]

A toxic baby momma should make a video on signs of a toxic baby daddy! You spread them then it is YOUR fault YOU chose to have a baby with him!! So suck it up and deal with it!

[@divinereflection970]

Men should grow tf up! And ppl that probably in none of those women situation should probably shut tf up!😊

[@lavishlee8389]

He is hurting me but doesn't see he is hurting our daughter so bad.

[@taliagoodwomanmann]

Sis, he sees it. He just does not care.