5 Stages Of Bisexuality

[@Courtney-Jai]

Hi everyone I'm the youtuber in Heartstopper ❤ go watch it on netflix 😊

[@hazelyt6039]

wow that’s crazy did Netflix contact you to put you on the show?

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@hazelyt6039 kind of I was contacted by thr company making the show at the request of Alice oseman

[@paulj6138]

That show is so special to me I can't get enough When will you post your reaction to later episodes Think I saw you talking about #5 So glad they are renewed 😍🤪

[@paulj6138]

@@Courtney-Jai that's super cool The show is life-changing for probably thousands of people and it's already Historic as a positive game changer in so many ways Alice needs to be sure that any difficult plot does not get in the way of keeping viewers happy and optimistic One way is to keep NICK AND CHARLIE As a loving caring couple I know that would make me happy

[@austinhodges5014]

I new that was you

[@Anna-fc5pk]

1) confusion 2) confusion 3) confusion 4) confusion 5) more confusion

[@daisychainsaw]

“trust the process”

[@oworcestershire7331]

7) uncontrollable fear and anxiety 8) more confusion

[@lostinmymind7488]

@@oworcestershire7331 ssssshhhhh don't talk about the bonus levels! Everyone needs to discover them by themselves NO KZbin GUIDES!

[@thelifeofvedamariiee1485]

Anna 😭THIS IS A GOOD ONE !

[@eduardochavacano]

more like denial, deniAl, denial... means you are just gay. bisexuals dont exist. men who want orgasm, they exist.

[@achild5864]

im having difficulty differentiating between admiration and attraction

[@GabeSurtos]

Me too

[@sillygoosesofie6157]

Yep

[@jesseriddlecameron6261]

Me too

[@Kk4r0]

same

[@agustusfarnworth3379]

Me to but he cute

[@lennypayne4241]

When I first realized I was bi at the age of 13, I didn't know the word for it so I legit thought of myself as "half gay".

[@DietDrKelp-ty3fh]

Lenny Payne I’m deadddd 🤣🤣🤣

[@eduardochavacano]

bisexuals are just gay people not wanting to br called gay. That is why you now have the q in lgbt. Bisexuals dont exist. but straight guys can have sex with man. they are still straight!!!!

[@Tequila_Rose]

@@eduardochavacano ¿?¿?

[@laufxyson7960]

@@eduardochavacano wth, stop trying to invalidate bisexual people

[@eduardochavacano]

musicfret i presented an idea and argument. You responded with a command. Dude, Im not your butler! Go get a dog and feel like you have power over something.

[@uiziwg]

11: straight 12: *hyping girls up bc they are beautiful* + *making "jokes" about liking women* 13: bi curious 14: fuck im bi

[@strawberryyvibes]

Oh shit I'm on the second stage you just described That probably says something about my situation hahahah

[@chiaram3469]

the "making jokes about liking women" hits harder than i thought 😔🤚

[@melikeince1580]

I'm at somewhere around 3th and the last stage

[@yawnpits]

Same

[@tanyayao1250]

That's basically me in a nutshell

[@TheGuitars14]

Does anyone else go through crazy phases where they’re more interested in guys and then late they’re more interested in girls? And then sometimes they’re not interested in anyone and you feel so all over the place? Yeah me. Edit: I had no clue this comment blew up until 8 months later!

[@ingrid5753]

Collin Meadows I can totally relate! I identify as bi, but I currently crave having a bf and not a gf. A few days ago however, I was longing for a gf. But right now, I’m kinda just chilling on my own and being fine with that.

[@mattyy101]

Ye man but only sex w guys no dating or any of that shit.. attracted to women

[@thembashawn]

You're not alone

[@naomirodriguez9638]

Yes lol it’s so annoying

[@connorm0161]

Yea it’s like I’m confused I’m only 14 but I’m attracted to girls but sometimes I would be attracted for boys for a week but then I’d be like nah I don’t want that and then I wouldn’t and Id go back to being straight and I wouldn’t be gay anyway bc I don’t think my dad would be proud

[@onfireman8816]

My sexuality: confused

[@avastars3393]

I am bi My girl crush... straight Guy crush...... gay Story of my life

[@kermitthefrog7072]

Same

[@CarrieBradshawSATC]

I'm straight and like girls. Always have done. Would like to be bisexual and start dating men also.

[@avastars3393]

@@CarrieBradshawSATC then do it as long as it makes you happy

[@ramiromunoz1161]

Same

[@wrenclark4907]

Me at 12 years old: “I’m totally straight” Also me at 12 years old: *goes to a wedding in a suit and converse*

[@Courtney-Jai]

I mean converse are pretty boss so I respect your choices I did the same for my prom

[@beepbooping2460]

i wore a suit and doc martens to a performance i was in and basically INSISTED that that was my outfit. So yeah. Big ass mood.

[@billhildebrand5053]

Eleanor Clark Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@wrenclark4907]

Courtney-Jai haha thanks man!

[@Jsv_1021O4]

Same, thought I was so straight but I literally wore a glittery white tux to my aunt's wedding, I was the ring bearer

[@SoggyPinkyToe]

QUICK TIP: if you are stressing about what u identify as, feel free to go "label-free". You don't have to choose if YOU don't want to

[@broliciousfilms]

Yes!

[@renatoamaral7719]

@@twink276 Exactly In the end everyone can fuck and date whoever they want so it's not other people's perrogative to have you labeled if you dont want to label yourself

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

Please, help me. I consider myself as a straight woman, I never had a crush on woman, but than, I kinda freaked out when I find out that when I see orgasm and moaning woman turns me on. Am I bi? This is important for me, because I live in the religious society. Though, I'm not againts lgbtq either.

[@renatoamaral7719]

@@idontwannabeanonymous4725 in the end you can choose to not label yourself into anything and jut love and hang out with whichever sex you want

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

@Juntasan Shunsa thanks for your reply

[@eros-arcana]

Me: Mom i'm bi Her: cool Me: do you actually realise what i'm telling you? I might bring over a girl someday instead of a boy. Her: Honey, with those damn commitment issues you have, you ain't bringing a girl neither a boy. Me:... now that hurt!

[@britishteaman5930]

Rip

[@alejandroojeda1572]

SAvAgE

[@paulinemagala9039]

Lmao 😂😂

[@pumfeethermodynamics3286]

Our truth.

[@larshoernle5400]

My dad was like: So what? Big deal.

[@daisychaine1742]

that's a sick fish tank dude

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thanks man it's in dire need of a good clean and some corals haha

[@armanred7940]

I see Marlene,Nemo and Dory.

[@black_horse_lover2655]

ellery glee Do you really not know how to read?

[@daisychaine1742]

@@black_horse_lover2655 unfortunately i never learned how

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@daisychaine1742 I mean I think it perfectly fine what you said so ....

[@user-sh3xo1gj7q]

Me: _has had more crushes on guys than girls_ Me: _but checks out more girls than guys_ Me: Uhhh... I thought I was straight ..

[@mia-qf3sf]

k_y ME ME ME

[@merel6763]

This is me😂

[@kpopuniverse1273]

Me Makes gay jokes because gay used to mean happy Sees hot guy Me: I’m straight Me Sees a hot female body that is goals Me It’s just a phase I’m still straight Also me: Has lots of guy and girl anime crushes (can’t resist anime characters are so cute and hot) Me in public Sees a female mannequin in store Me: stares at the body Me: I want that body Me But that guy- Me I don’t even care anymore! I’m done! This is so confusing

[@mommyzawa]

Right ok same, I’m really confused rn coz I don’t know if this is attraction or just wishing I had there body. Because I’ve been attracted to guys before and it hasn’t felt like this but when I see a good looking girl I’ll say in my head “ooh she cute👀” then be like “woah, where did that come from?”

[@erinhemby1450]

Same 🥴🤣

[@zacharysnyder2520]

Being bi is always a struggle. As a 27 year old man I’m still dealing with it. Just love who you love. There is no time limit. Just be you.

[@obiecastro2482]

Just be yourself,,dont commit sin to love someone but not REAL love ,,,its fake dont continue ,,you will suffer till end,,,that is the major ultimate decease,!very very very v v difficult to cure decease .....to be gay or bi or others,,, You are fighting with Satan , But praying to God and really follow what is written in the bible ,your struggle will be solved till you become señior age,,,, You will be amazed you are healed by God,,,,

[@asloii_1749]

@obiecastro4282 lol you’re a silly guy!

[@moon_rabbit_from]

I am 23 girl and I alsy don't get it about myself

[@Irregulargremlin]

Me coming here to find a informative video: My brain: oh no he's hot

[@richardcabanas1360]

I KNOWWW😭😭😭

[@ejanoeksteen7023]

Omg , I'm not alone🤩🤩

[@jiminrulestheworld7306]

U read that with squidward's voice

[@billcosbyssak8337]

same lol

[@jesusdavidperez3400]

Lol yes

[@Alchemist1330]

attracted to women's lips and guy's abs so... Tom Hardy.

[@zvanev]

Alchemist1330 SSLALAKAKSKLAKS

[@mattynayzerya9167]

Gift from god

[@bonesbones2364]

Oof

[@zcythegeist]

That's a fact right there. Lol

[@Criszcrosscut]

Bitch same, and Chris Evans and Charlie Hunnam and Shawn Mendes gud laaawwwd! I'm gay af! 😍

[@spideybetta]

Are we gonna ignore the fact my guy has Nemo, Marlin, and Dory in that fish tank?

[@Courtney-Jai]

Oh trust me plenty of people gave seen lol

[@philosphergaming6954]

@@Courtney-Jai bro but it is some times ok to find someone of your same sex attractive. I doesn't means that now your sexuality has changed

[@Courtney-Jai]

@@philosphergaming6954 ofcourse you could use the same principle of their attractive but not my type in regards to this

[@hiimlexi8989]

ikr

[@isafaria4201]

Thanks for that

[@cranberryjuice1005]

“I was friends with everyone but also friends with no one” THAT HIT SO HARD OMG WHAT-

[@Someone-zt1ni]

“Sexuality isn’t a lifestyle, it’s a sexual orientation” That was an insight. It hit me hard and I had to stop the video to analyze it. This line is genius

[@joshsmith2760]

It's not a preference, it's an orientation.

[@Someone-zt1ni]

@@joshsmith2760 yeah sorry, I wrote this a while ago but you’re totally right

[@tonyhoughton6857]

I am very confused I am a male crossdresser who has wanted to be a woman all my life and I don't fancy other men just women other crossdressers or trans.Am I weird straight guy lesbian this is doing my head in I just want to know

[@Someone-zt1ni]

@@tonyhoughton6857 obviously I don’t know your life or feelings but have you considered being a trans lesbian or another gender identity/ sexuality? There are many people talking about their experiences so maybe you could look them up and see which resonates with what you’re feeling! I wish you luck!

[@tonyhoughton6857]

@@Someone-zt1ni thank you I definitely know that if I transition I would definitely become a lesbian. I have been told that gender is different from sexuality as I have been fascinating about the female body for so long now it's the one I find most attractive

[@arirudd5560]

My stages of discovering I’m bi: 1: I’m straight 2: am I tho? 3: I AM A LESBIAN! 4: nah I’m straight 5: I AM A LESBIAN! 6: wait men are hot tho... but girls are hot tho... 7: I’m confused 8: I’m bi shy and ready to cry 😎👌

[@rolo1233]

Same thank God year 2019 is over next step coming out 😅🙈🙈#petrified

[@levolancer]

u...are me my friend ✌🏼

[@Alien_cancerian]

Same

[@mollyw264]

haha literally me but instead of thinking I was a lesbian, I very briefly thought that I was aromantic. Nothing wrong with being aromantic but boy was I wrong

[@מעין-צ9ג]

@@rolo1233 yeah... 2020 hasn't been going better.

[@wildmoonchild9404]

I feel like I’m bi because of a girl in my art class a year and a half ago. But before her, I’ve only had crushes on guys, so I was very confused and mistook it for “I just want to be her friend”. So I started questioning and looking at videos of how to figure out if you’re bi and things like that. I feel like the most confusing part is I don’t know if I’m making it up or if it’s real. I talked to my brother about it and we have a very close relationship and I tell him everything, and he said “Don’t put a label on it if it causes so much stress on you. When you find someone, you find someone.”

[@indhiramartingonzalez]

Saaameee

[@Cbudha5346X]

You’re brother is a real one for this advice

[@emilygonzalez2050]

Sooo Hey 🤠

[@exxwhy1645]

oml share your brother with me-

[@fatimakebe6350]

Samw

[@caseyjmarkovich]

I think the show heartstopper was well representing the Bisexual community. Now I came out to my mother before high school which was 7 years ago before starting high school. Last night I watched the second half of the show and love it. For the last few years, I have been wrestling with my sexuality and my Christian faith. last night I broke down in tears, I came to terms with my sexuality after wrestling with it. I love both men and women. I've watched your videos a few years before this show heartstopper. Just trying to understand what I felt. I talked to God last night and I know it may seem controversial, I felt his presence in the room hugging me, and just being there was amazing. I feel more clear about my sexuality than I have in years! Thank you, Courtney!

[@Courtney-Jai]

No problem and isn't hmthat point of faith , if you believe God wants you to live happy then you go live happy

[@NomadicIsaac]

I felt God's presence at the gay affirming non-profit Q Christian Fellowship's Chicago conference in 2019 and it was special and meaningful to me. The church I grew up with won't change their minds, but I know the freedom and acceptance I've experienced.

[@bobby1970]

Please don't let religion ruin your life. Religion is so toxic and all man made up. It's very controlling and a cult. It can be down right dangerous.

[@angelnancy507]

You should be ashamed, you want to taste everything ,because you are spoilt no control

[@xaylink2221]

Ok

[@evs5757]

My stages of bisexuality: I'm bisexual.. I think? Ok I have a girlfriend, feels nice. I broke up with her, it just didn't feel right... I'm single and I'm not sure what I like I have a boyfriend I think I'm straight Oh no I came out as bi, and now I feel like I'm straight But girls are so hot.. But I kinda prefer relationships with boys.. Am I straight or.. Help ima cry lol

[@jocelynm3900]

You do not have to have a label 💛 just do what you feel is right and what makes you happy. Don't worry about an outside perspective

[@evs5757]

@@jocelynm3900 my mum says the same thing, thank you ❤️

[@peachiee1]

meeeee tooooo im really scaredddd

[@AdventuresInMyaLand]

You are bi! Some people label it as heteromantic bisexual where you prefer romantics relationships with the opposite sex. Trust me I feel the same way

[@evs5757]

@@AdventuresInMyaLand Thank youuu

[@hihanlaing8197]

Look at the fish tank does anyone else see Nemo Marlin and Dory

[@aniokay]

Yes!

[@michaelgaynor6866]

I see Jonah!!!!

[@jesseriddlecameron6261]

Oh yas

[@rayawnaharper7858]

this is literally my brain deciding to be distracted during an important event...

[@JP-hy1gp]

Thas all I was looking at 😂

[@galaxybun8775]

Signs of my bisexuality before I knew (before, I thought I was straight): 1. Being touchy with girls 2. Wishing I wasn't straight even though I thought I was (who does that?) 3. Being huge into the lgbt+ community 4. Having a one second crush on a girl the schoolyear before I realized 5. Liking a crush on my best friend. This happened two days before I realized I was bi. A happy little bisexual.

[@rat3661]

All About April I was the exactly the same way. I loved the lgbt+ community and I was in different lgbt groups even though I didn’t discover I was bi.

[@dutchsingerxx491]

Howly crap, that's litteraly me!

[@teylawhite687]

All About April honestly, 2 is a mood

[@ryanjackson3756]

Honestly same. Though, I think I might still be a couple of steps behind. I’m at the stage where I’m wondering if I actually am bi. I get a little touchy sometimes, in the past I’ve wished I wasn’t straight, I’m way into the lgbt+ community (I have gay friends too which is probably at least partially why), I have had mini crushes on girls for like a second and I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t thought about kissing a girl. But I’m still a little unsure. How did you finally just know?

[@milli6680]

2. Is soo me and I've always thought I was the only one😂

[@danielweasley4748]

I feel like not making your sexuality your identity is reallly important. Its not your entirety, its essentially a sexual preference. Putting more attention and importance on how I feel and my experience in the moment rather than an idea of a 'Bisexual Person' has really been a big shift for me in accepting whatever is happening. Thankyou so much for makingn this!! Really helped me a lot and drop a lot of shame around it

[@ImTyde]

Me at ages: 8: straight 9: straight 10: straight 11: straight 12: straight 13: straight 14: straight: 15: kinda curious but not really 16: holy sh*t I guess I'm Bi

[@haninhilal9080]

fucking same

[@LOrco_]

For me it was like: Straight Yep still straight Definitely straight Well boys are cute, but straight Not so sure Gay(?) Girls are cute too tho Bi

[@davigurgel2040]

Same thing lol

[@yexalenn]

Me: 6:IDK 7:IDK 8:Straight 9:Straight 10:Bisexual 11:Bisexual 12:Bisexual Yeah, I'm pretty young

[@simonelliott5804]

8 straight 9 straight 10 straight 11 straight 12 eh u wot mate I’m confused now

[@ctraye6293]

Me for 14 years: I’m straight Me: I’m- wait... Me: I’m bi Me: I’m gay Me: I’m straight Me: I’m bi Mom: *you’re straight* Me: _dies_ Me: I’m bi? Me: *_CONFUSION INTENSIFIES_*

[@jessicaignacio8724]

True

[@banksopenontuesdayfolks9274]

Little Lotus that’s literally me

[@yourboicol4246]

same

[@ookyspookyboi4765]

My mom said the same thinnng

[@m3lib3ll]

Same

[@giovanny1062]

Others: Bi people have double options! Me: I'm doubly heartbroken 😔😪

[@clarabomben]

omg why is this so real haha

[@rebekahsquires2073]

G M yes

[@desireeloveros1055]

I mean 0×2 still = 0

[@rebekahsquires2073]

Desiree Loveros exactly

[@billhildebrand5053]

Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@nickshank4520]

I wish this type of video had been around years ago. When I was in school, especially in middle school when I was first starting to mature a bit, I was bullied very heavily for being gay despite believing I was straight. As I got older, looking back on it, I know I repressed every ounce of feeling I had for other guys because I couldn't possibly be what all the bullies told me I was. I got so used to repressing, that I'm pretty sure I completely lost sight of half my sexuality for most of my life. Fast forward to a few years ago, when as a happily married man, I worked with a guy that literally every time I saw him I pictured making out with him in my head and thinking about how cute he was. My wife actually completely supported me and helped me work through my completely awkward and 100% confused stage that had me questioning everything. So many years...and tears... later, I finally accepted who I am. For me though, since I didn't realize I was bi until I was 35 and happily married, I feel like the experiences that I could have had as a younger person were ripped away from me. Part of me feels like I don't really even know myself, which makes me angry at all the phlegm-wads that took away any chance I may have had to experience that side of myself. That's one of the reasons I loved "Heartstopper" so much, because this issue was addressed in season 2 with the plot between the two teachers. I had to have a good cry about it before I could move on. Thank you for all the encouragement toward working through all the many different emotions involved in acceptance.

[@Courtney-Jai]

I'm very sorry to hear what you had to go through , I also wish I had a video like this to help me through alot of things being the one that nick watches in heartstopper was a massive moment for me because I finally got to be what I never had. I finally got to give back what so many people deserve a life line , someone to say it's okay to be you now I hope no one has to feel like we did and everyone can have those moments of happiness.

[@juliacd9283]

The "It's a sexual preference, not a lifestyle" phrase was really beautiful. I don't know what I am or in what phase I'm in but thank you for this video.

[@witchypoo7353]

my mother still uses the term lifestlye & idk how to not not feel hurt by that

[@ncarolina27803guy]

WIshing you luck with your walk into finding out more of yourself and what adventures are in store for you.

[@JungleBoi9]

Sexual orientation works, too.

[@vishwajeetsingh6340]

It's not even sexual preference...its sexual orientation....preference means u chose to be so....but orientation means it just is...u have no control on it

[@ezmazethings7158]

How I figured out I was bi... 1. I’m straight 2. Wait, am I bi? 3. No I’m straight 4. I’m completely gay 5. Maybe I am bi? I still don’t know. (;_;)

[@thecamclassic]

Same with me

[@justsomeautisticwoman6202]

Ezmaze Things same tho

[@user-if4df7lk1z]

Follow your heart.

[@lj9759]

@@kristian2319 honestly, there are loads of girls out there that are into pleasuring a guy in that way so you could just be straight...

[@floraltart]

Me omg

[@girlknight199]

me: he's cute also me: oh she's cute too me as well: *WAIT WHAT-*

[@randomrobloxplayer8193]

Same thing happened

[@jacobcrozier]

I can really relate.

[@fwybjrjriii7694]

Relatible

[@Fuzzled369]

Mood

[@eduardochavacano]

you want to be her!

[@LaurenElizabethYT]

I’m realizing that I’m bi, but have a heavy lean toward men (I’m a woman) so I feel like I’m now “allowed” to identify as bi, because I feel like others won’t take me seriously and just see me as a curious straight girl. I think I’m both physically and romantically attracted to both men and women, although I have more of a broad “type” with men. Like there’s a lot of ‘types’ (both physical and personality types) that I’m attracted to, whereas with women, I feel like I’m more “picky”, both with physical and romantic attraction. I’ve been thinking about trying out tinder with “looking for a woman” settings. But again, I feel like any bi woman or lesbian will just see me as an experimenting straight girl and not want to waste their time. Thanks to anyone who read this long comment. I’m just rambling because I don’t have any friends to vent my sexuality-based confusion to🤣

[@ballynaxx9175]

A lot of gurls say their bi when they are not

[@bi_twix]

This is basically exactly how I feel. I don't know if I'm allowed to use the label bi or even really want to use the label. It's so difficult for me to talk about my confusion and struggles with my friends, even though I'm out to them as bi. It's just so hard to put into words for people who haven't experienced this questioning phase and also admitting that I don't know how I feel about girls definitively. And then there's that girl I'm interested in and everytime we look at each other I go back to ... "Yeah I'm definitely bi." I still don't know if I'm interpreting to much into this😕🥲 Also, thank you for your comment. It's always nice seeing that you're not alone. Have a nice week

[@writerwannabe8778]

​@@bi_twixSame thing for me.

[@bi_twix]

Just to give a little update here, I have asked the girl out and now were practically dating, even though we aren't officially togethr just yet. I have no doubt that I do like girls anymore, and I guess I'd still be capable to feel attraction towards guys, so technically I'd call myself bi but I've started to not really care about labeling myself anymore :) I wish you all who are struggling lots of strength and patience. It'll all make sense some day. Don't pressure yourself into labeling if it's not that clear to you, even though it's easier said than done. You're valid either way :)

[@WiloPolis03]

Oof I know this is an old comment but this hits so close to home, the whole "i'm bisexual BUT i'm more attracted to this gender than that gender, so am I *really* bi???" thing is the worst haha

[@katie228_]

Me figuring out I am no 1. She's so pretty 2. Stop your straight 3. He's so cute 4. Yes your straight 5. She's beautiful 6. Am I straight? 7. Holy shit Tom Holland 8. See I'm straight 9. She is so cute 10. Ffs I give up

[@jaydine6336]

Lmfao me (Even though I'm still confused)

[@katie228_]

@@jaydine6336 yup I'm super confused

[@kpopuniverse1273]

Me

[@louisestokken4660]

UnpredictableJaydine my mom told me that all people are actually a little bisexual before they find the one. That’s was what helped me through it. And a lot of people are confused. I talked to one of my friends she told me also she was confused! It’s totally natural and you will always be accepted!

[@user-gv4hj1bl2z]

omg same ha 😂

[@NoahTheFool]

10-12 I'm straight as a ruler 13+ looks at slightly bent ruler.... Oh ! I'm bi

[@luisamoreira7183]

I'm exactly that, but not sure if i'm bi or not

[@_beansinacan_1577]

I’m a demiromantic gray-ace

[@duckcylinder9903]

i just go by queer bc its vague and says im not straight

[@awhahoo]

A weirdo That does art

[@emilydavid816]

I’m a twelve year old girl and I’m so confused at the moment and i don’t really know what to do. Does anyone have some tips on what to do?

[@marteumar8429]

Representation to my bi boys out there.. this is something always piss me off, how bi people are discriminated by straight people and by gay people, and for bi boys this is even harder. We need more bi boys on media, tv, movies, netflix shows, KZbin or whatever, we need to normalize bi boys. We need to show to all those young boys that it’s ok.

[@joannalance2842]

I agree. 100%

[@ilbloccodellettore]

I am gay but I would NEVER discriminate bi guys *he Is cute as hell i can't*

[@rhaspberry7108]

thank you

[@pissapocalypse]

Me and my boyfriend are both bi lol

[@gracebloore8438]

Mar Teumar stiles stilinslki

[@octoberboiy]

I think the biggest issue is you are never quite sure if you’re Bi or gay. I mostly like guys but at random times (sometimes at times when I’m almost completely sure I’m gay) I see or meet a girl and I feel very attracted to her. Then it makes me start hoping and thinking maybe I’m straight and the gay side is just an illusion caused by being single, but then I see a cute guy again and I know that’s not the case.

[@thomaxtube]

We all have countless past/ parallel/ future lifetimes on earth and other places, what you have chosen to be in this life is right for you to experience and accept now. Everything else you can be/ you are experiencing in another time & place. The soul is eternal and makes no mistakes about the lives it chooses to live : we choose : to learn and to expand our self awareness of it being everything everywhere, all at once. ❤

[@mrm4862]

This. sometimes I don't understand if im bi or gay

[@bobby1970]

​@@mrm4862I've decided that I'm definitely bi. Absolutely without a doubt. I believe there are a whole lot more bisexual people than homosexual people, so I would say you are probably bi. If so, please accept it. There's nothing wrong with it. Whatever you do, don't let religion get in the way.

[@PilotScooper]

As a 77 year old USAF veteran who has been in a stable relationship with an incredible man for 48 years, I had my first heterosexual experience and my first homosexual experience within a week of each other when I was an eighteen year old college freshman in 1960. I had always been sexually attracted to men, but had crushes on women too. I've had two great relationships with women, one lasting for a couple of years, but on the Kinsey scale I am clearly more attracted to - and feel more comfortable in - relationships with men. I'm lucky to have family and many straight friends who are very supportive.

[@PilotScooper]

@deyokes on yt Haven't you heard? Eighty is the new fifty. I still do long distance bicycle touring and regularly fly my single engine airplane on 500 - 1000 mile cross-country flights. ;-)

[@jayeshchouhan1880]

Holy shit!!!!! That's so amazing!!! I want something just like this! You. Are. Really. Lucky.

[@huedenise]

Stan Cooper thats awesome!

[@mooptom2599]

I’m 18 now and I found out yesterday that I always smile when I’m with this girl but..... I have dreams of boys

[@eggs1632]

@@PilotScooper wowowowowowow

[@yolandagomez3323]

I couldn't stop looking at your fishes. THEY'RE NEMO AND DORY

[@cheeseych0c0late]

Yolanda Gómez I love that this is what you took from this video

[@tayramoslvr]

1. I'm straight 2. I'm questioning 3. I'm lesbian! 4. I'm straight 5. Im bi!💖💜💙

[@a_cat9699]

I’m still confused ):

[@Stephanie-sp6wd]

Georgia D same 😔

[@billhildebrand5053]

Kimi Broadhurst Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@billhildebrand5053]

Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@ediechanel2320]

6. I’m pan 😳♥️

[@marrdiar]

I honestly am experiencing this right now I'm 14 and am bi. I've only said that to myself because I couldn't say it to anyone else. I've been questioned since the beggining of Middle School and it was always hard for me to socialize going through with what I had to. This video made me feel alot better about myself💕💕.

[@melikeince1580]

💜

[@daeng5745]

But what is bi refer to watch? Gay porn/straight porn or???

[@manwhogivesiloveyous6124]

Uhhmmm excuse me... what's your skin care routine sir? I'm just a lil bit curious.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Not much really I use L'Oréal for men face wash everyday , sometime I might use a mudmask from lush and I use Coco butter for my hands and feet and loreal face moisturizer

[@Courtney-Jai]

I can do a video on it if you want

[@manwhogivesiloveyous6124]

Oh thank you!!

[@cridecar]

@@Courtney-Jai Please do, I'm 20 and a guy and I need improvement asap lol

[@Miquelalalaa]

cridecar Sleep and diet.

[@rebe1617]

No one: Me: stares at the fishes the whole time

[@Courtney-Jai]

I would almost be offended if you didnt their very pretty

[@animemusic8]

stares at him the whole time. He's so gorgeous.

[@thorr18BEM]

*whole time. *they're pretty.

[@rebe1617]

thorr18BEM oops

[@thefunnyman8073]

asexual mood

[@onetwothreefour5041]

My mom: if u like a girl thats ok honey.. Me: SGJDIFOGP I STRAIGHT. me on social media: damn girls cute doe

[@natalieparks5428]

THIS EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME WTH

[@honeybear9]

My situation rn

[@sxriyah3638]

Lynibugz hah dats me-

[@lauraelise434]

skskskksks, R E L A T A B L E. my dad: Laura, you can tell me if you like girls. It doesn't matter to me. my mom: oh, btw laura. Your stepbrother just came out as gay. me: oOP THAT BOI CUTE. me on twitter: 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈⇛girls like girls⇚🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@nisamlelo]

my parents are homophobic so, can't relate

[@McFLYismyworld4]

I've finally gotten to that acceptance stage, but I was confused for a long time because I prefer romantic relationships with men but sexual relationships with women. There's no strict rules about it, which is comforting. Seems that I'm not alone in this.

[@joshsmith2760]

Are you female?

[@manifestedpowerz1875]

Idk what th I am(:

[@howto-wiki8291]

I , a man.. have only and always enjoyed participating in romantic relationships with women.. how would I know if I wanted a romantic relationship with a man do you just know , or do you start to develop consistencies (feelings) towards guys that are close to you and respect you. Bc part of respecting me is respecting the man that I am

[@kidnap_kid]

Same! Exactly the same.

[@kidnap_kid]

@@howto-wiki8291 if they start to feel like your best friend, and it feels weird when you don't talk to them etc, that's usually a good start to a romantic relationship. I've always preferred to be friends first. But there's no definite right way.

[@drebedford144]

I completely zoned out for half of the video cause I was look at Nemo, Marlin and Dory in the background.

[@beetlejuulz]

There ain't no Dory in that tank though

[@drebedford144]

At 0:02

[@Annonymousslay]

Holy shit. Finding Dory

[@honmedrodaskylten]

Same

[@or3o70]

Lmao Same

[@NicoSchurr]

This is just raw bisexual energy: being everything at once!

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well let's embrace it then

[@kirahoward23]

@@Courtney-Jai Boop!😜

[@plutorin.2923]

my stage of figuring out my sexuality 1. im totally straight 2. wait hold on- 3. nope im pansexual 4. sike im completely straight 5. but that girl is so pretty thooo 6. WAIT I THINK I'M ASEXUAL 7. wait am i? 8. confusion 9. confusion im really really confused right now please help me :(

[@auerbacher69]

i feel that.

[@riyaxziz]

I’m going to screenshot this because this is exactly my life right now

[@glazed6510]

Felt the confusion 😔✊

[@iarasofia9439]

That's my life in 10 steps always on repeat

[@edibleturd]

does it matter what sexuality you have? just go for whatever the fuck you like and figure out what you are later. if you can't figure it out and someone asks then just say you're bi until you can. sexuality is just a bullshit way to categorize the fetishes people like to pretend aren't fetishes anyways, so don't take it too seriously. why would being attracted to a D or a V be any different from being attracted to intelligence or stupidity, toned abs or flabs, flat chests or bouncy badonkadonks?

[@b00ne85]

I watched this 2 years ago wondering if I was bi… this helps me so much. I am bi and I’m forever grateful to you for helping me when I was in the darkest point in my life.😁thank you🥰

[@Courtney-Jai]

Well I'm just happy a video like this could make such a difference to someone's life , I'm happy you realised who you are.

[@ArthurBrinkman-c5z]

When I was a teenager there was no one to talk to. I prayed and prayed to not be gay. I got married to hide myself. That didn't work so I again prayed and prayed. Then I accepted two things. 1st. I'm gay and 2nd there is no god.

[@lokebrandon]

Lmaooooo

[@troubledcheech]

Thank you for that

[@alihakim5924]

Sick mind.

[@ginb1289]

There is a God and he was answering you, just wasn't the answer you were expecting. In other words, you were fine all along.

[@fridagutfelt1914]

@@ginb1289 they were obviously not fine since they had to hide their sexuality for several years. Stop

[@precyberpunk7026]

Trying to fit in as many groups as you can is bisexual culture

[@Courtney-Jai]

I thought that was my life for a long time

[@meandmybobbygee1812]

Honestly, I'm a middle for everything, even sexuality.

[@annabel7896]

When he said that I felt it so hard becuase it's so true, I don't fit into anything but I try to very damn hard

[@Laurasunivers3]

annabel yeah same here

[@hannyaespinoza5111]

Mood

[@Abugelis911]

You will never know why I got so many likes

[@isksdxjd5978]

me

[@Jonah-.-]

Galaxy Playz I’m asexual and bi maybe gay undecided

[@itsmekaitlinnn859]

This is legit my stages of realisation too

[@annaclaragarcia4877]

Galaxy Playz I CAN RELATE

[@GP-qo6yz]

Galaxy Playz OMG sameee

[@stephenowen4637]

Amazingly I am 57 and your denial section was my life in school in the 80s.... I threw myself into work, went overseas and never accepted who I am ... I am now coming back to UK because I think I can live my life finally honestly as myself...

[@parazodiaz474]

My stages of realisation I am gay I am asexual I am Trans I am Pan Finally, I am Bi

[@leon.skennedy7077]

This is the exact same phase I went through 🤣

[@isaiasholguin5393]

Same

[@FernandoAlonso-cj6pr]

Wtf does pan and trans have to do with it?, asexual is when you dont feel attracted, and trans is gender identity.

[@parazodiaz474]

@@FernandoAlonso-cj6pr I had this edge of being a woman, take woman mannerisms, wear high heels, put make up, thinking about how I Lucky I would have been if I had boobs and Vagina...

[@billhildebrand5053]

Parazo Diaz Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@orionbailey5812]

He’s cute I’m just leaving it at that

[@Courtney-Jai]

That's sweet thank you

[@billhildebrand5053]

Orion Bailey Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@billhildebrand5053]

Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@billhildebrand5053]

Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@adaslothland850]

For me it was like: 1) Clueless “Gays are okay, and they deserve rights, but I’m not gay” 2) Noticing (Little me, without any damn knowledge on different varieties of sexual preferences) “Lol I think I’m into girls” 2) Denying “There’s no way I’m Bi, I was just going through a phase at that time, I was young” 3) Giving a chance to the idea ”Maybe, but most likely no” 4)Giving a tought to the idea ”Maybe, I’m not sure...” 5)Giving a possibility to the idea ”Maybe, probably?” 6)Acceptance, still hesitated ”I’m bi. I am, am I not?” 7)Sure ”Nah fam I’m totally bi, boys are cute, girls are cute, it’s as simple as that” 7,5)pAnIc ”I live in the most homophobic country in Europe, what am I going to do??? Will something bad happen??? What should I do??? I’ll stay closeted until death!!!” 8)Confused doubting ”Maybeiamactuallystraightmaybeitsjustaphase” 9) 7 and 8, on repeat.

[@X606]

I really feel the “Gays are okay, and they deserve rights, but I’m not gay”, that's exactly how I've felt for so long and whenever any "gay thoughts" came up it really freaked me out but I somehow convinced myself that I was straight for so long anyway.

[@sabrielysgimelindez1126]

omg you just described my process xD, for the longest time i was like maybe im heteroflexible like im straight but i wouldnt mind dating a girl, and then i was like "do i like her or do i just like her "style?" and then i had a proper crush on a girl (and let me add a STRAIGHT GIRL) and was like fuck im bi! and with that came the thought "oh no i have to come out eventually" thankfully i have the greatest friends i could ask for and they know and suport me but i havent told my family and a part of me knows that they'll be okay with it but im just not ready for that conversation.

[@adaslothland850]

Sabrielys Gimelindez that “maybe I’m straight but I wouldn’t mind dating a girl” hits too close to home

[@blakemtg47]

Russia?

[@adaslothland850]

@@blakemtg47 Turkey. Yeah it’s not in EU (for understandable reasons) but it’s still partially in Europe. Just like Russia. Though your guess is close enough, we’re usually around the same rankings with Russia when it comes to most homophobic countries in Europe. Oh what a time to be a proud citizen!/s

[@Ashley-su1yw]

I’ve been friends with this girl for 4-5 years now. 2 years go by and she’s a really good friend, the nicest person I’ve ever met. I also thought she was really pretty! I loved her hair, and she always brought me into conversations when she could tell I felt left out. Then one day, I got butterflies. I had only ever had crushes on guys before, and had never even felt REAL butterflies before. But the butterflies I started getting around her, were so real and different, I didn’t even know they were butterflies. I went maybe a day, then I finally realized I got butterflies around her and I liked her! Everything went by so quickly, it was like flipping a switch.

[@ofeliar9978]

when you’re 14 and have already gone through all these stages ✌️

[@marieimmisch5962]

Same dude! Yaaa

[@emmacliff2138]

But I’m 13 and still confused 🤪

[@nonamejamsquad8413]

Lol

[@john.vincent]

True

[@lheiling3189]

Im 16 and still confused if Im straight or bi

[@ugh2703]

Me figuring things out I’m straight She’s pretty But I’m straight He’s cute So I’m straight Oh but she’s really pretty But I’m straight And she’s really pretty Maybe I’m gay Oh but he’s super hot No I’m straight Oh she’s pretty Oh he’s cute Oh what’s happening to me So I’m Bi? I’m still questioning

[@jess01510]

May bi ... I don't think you have to choose at that point

[@WyattThumbsUp]

Yep, the cycle

[@_beansinacan_1577]

I’m sure you’ll figure it out eventually, there wasn’t really a cycle for me. For 13 years I was like I’m straight and then all of a sudden I was like holy shiznit I’m gray-ace 😂😂

[@larajarnjak295]

mood

[@mochi-san1561]

Me too...

[@mikegaisser4527]

“Either you will accept it or completely deny it” Dude, I can relate 😫

[@KYNGA100]

I'm 25 and realised this year that I'm bi after meeting a girl on my campus~ After months of internal debate, I'm happy and can openly talk about it.

[@graceclover8697]

Me figuring out my sexuality (female): I’m straight I’m bi? I’m definitely bi I’m totally straight I’m Aromantic Obviously straight (Im at this point rn) I’m obviously straight... right😳 Bi maybe?? Confused as hell

[@lanaqueen7967]

Same here, I'm still confused tho

[@KC-cr2xw]

dude exactly the same over here. I keep going back and forth and honestly all I can say is that im not straight. the said part Is that it took me almost a year to get to this point. also definitely relate to the romantic part...Im pretty sure im demiromantic or greyromantic as well a biromantic (?) but not sure lol send help

[@cat1312.]

SAME.

[@random.fandom.011kh9]

Grace Clover Exactly me (Female) ----------I got a feelin' that you could be feelin' A whole lot better than you feel today You say you got a problem Well, that's no problem It's super easy not to feel that way When you start to get confused Because of thoughts in your head Don't feel those feelings, hold them in instead Turn it off like a light switch Just go, click It's a cool little Mormon trick We do it all the time When you're feeling certain feelings That just don't seem right Treat those pesky feelings like a reading light And turn 'em off, light a light switch

[@user_3330]

SAME

[@KH-ld8jj]

When I first realized that I might be attracted to women as well, it messed up my sleep, like I couldn’t sleep properly. It was the only thing that’s on my mind and it affected my mental health. Accepting my sexuality, though it was a slow process, was the best decision in my life. I’ve only come out to, like, only 4 people but I’m happier now and feel more like myself.

[@rebekahsquires2073]

Kim B same here

[@leigha3083]

I'm like this right now, but I told a close friend of mine. I really trust her but now I feel like I'm gonna make it weird :( shes completely ok with it and said its literally fine and she will wait for me to fully realise and be there for me whether I'm straight or bi but I feel like I'm still going to be awkward about it... I just needed to talk to someone but I overthink a lot. I've also been crying and losing a lot of sleep. I've been questioning it A LOT and when my therapist asked me of my sexuality I literally couldnt say "I'm straight" instead what came out was "I think I'm straight but idk" I'm only 15 but I'm so confused :(

[@joleneestrada5795]

I’m going through the exact same thing I’m already mentally messed up, my parents and friends are homophobic Christians, I go to a Catholic School, and now I’m feeling confused, alone and depressed. Beautiful isn’t it (Sorry I know no one cares but I had to let it out)

[@kumashock4074]

I feel you...I used to have dreams where I would pretty much try the whole dream to get with a girl in secret or touch her boobs in private but somebody would always come in and interrupt and I think those dreams had a lot to do with internalized fear about being interested in women or being out. At that time...I still thought I didn’t really like women/had no proof that I actually liked women. LIKE AN IDIOT. Laying over here dreaming about touching tiddies and thinking I wasn’t gay 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@sarahthebug6613]

@@leigha3083 Aaa I can relate so much

[@thelordofcream]

My stages 1. I’m gay 2. I’m asexual (Denial) 3. I love girls but guys are also hot 4. But I’m straight, right?... 5. I can’t take this I’m Bi 6. I have to be straight! 7. There’s no rules, I’m bi

[@diamonddorsey9488]

Same though. I need to get to stage seven though

[@ajl7704]

got over stage 2 i think im around stage 3-4

[@Ryanbros]

Same it’s just I kept thinking I’m straight then two minutes later no I’m asexual and then a couple weeks later I would think I might be bi

[@Echo_Night]

I'm female and I'm in the denial stage. I live in a divorced family where my mom and dad split. My dad is a Christian and homophobic. I left his house may of last year. I am scared to come out to my family and to accept it myself because I grew up thinking this was wrong. I did grow up in a household where this was taught as wrong. I only recently found out about 6 months ago. I'm starting to get through this stage, thanks to all of the KZbinrs that have stated their opinion on the LGBTQ+ community. I thank you all I hope I can get through the rest of this stage.

[@cupcake2009ist]

It’s nothing wrong with being gay your family will be upset at first but they will grow to accept you.

[@aminazzzz]

My stages of figuring out that I’m bi: Me: I’m straight Me: that girl looks so pretty Me: he’s fine af Me: I don’t really like guys Me: I may be a lesbian Me: I’m definitely bi

[@mbsucks101]

marshall law

[@billhildebrand5053]

Amina Ahmed Hey, guy, you are cool. I like your lips too. But is it all based on feeling ??? Here is a different perspective.. love you....kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6DQhH5updqXisU This guy got his own story . But u have great communication skills...😄😀

[@karensimango6619]

I really thought I was the only one who thought I was lesbian

[@heartsthekitteh6239]

My five stages (as a guy): 1. I'm definitely straight. 2. Dudes are kinda fine, but I only REALLY like girls 3. Man, it sure is fun to mess with guys 4. Wow, I haven't thought about girls in while 5. Hmm. Guys are generally hotter than girls.

[@blamethemoviess]

Im confused about myself

[@michaelgaynor6866]

@@blamethemoviess ,follow your heart.....not what the World tells you!

[@lemonaidenagain2697]

Skskskskskkskk sameeeee

[@achild5864]

give me some of ur attraction to guys pls

[@theseapplesjuicyasmyass553]

Same i guess

[@AarmOZ84]

My stages: 1. I am straight. 2. Wouldn't mind kissing that guy. 3. No, I am very straight. 4. Trying not to stare at the hot guys in the locker room. 5. I am very straight. 6. Why do I keep dreaming about making out with dudes? 7. I'm so confused! 8. Yeah. I am very bisexual.

[@divanighttime4835]

Omg same but change guy to girl it especially with the locker room thing I’m just like looking at the wall like “oh that’s a nice wall” and on the inside it just don’t stare don’t stare don’t stare

[@ivka_zivka]

Seme just girl version

[@adriiann5288]

Lmao me

[@oof-rr5nf]

@@casualpotato9375 He literally just said he's bi, why would you say that?

[@andreasdiaries]

Aaron Hart maybe just gay 😂

[@artweldon]

I know this is a year old, but wanted to say.. Spot On. Very good post. It is amazing that young people like you have the courage to be public open about such important subjects and have a drive to help others. Great! Thanks for sharing.

[@catherinelinsey1378]

I realized I was bi at summer camp when the prettiest girl kissed me and I didn’t pull away🤷🏻‍♀️

[@joannalance2842]

Damn... so freaking lucky 😂

[@kreisigal]

Catherine Linsey lucky👁👄👁

[@saalamander4406]

😭😭😭share your luckk with MEEEEEE😭

[@elberethgilthoniel4068]

I wish it was me

[@kritikasingh7731]

I wish the girl i had crush on for years didn't pull away when i kissed her🤦🏾‍♂️

[@lj8612]

I swear this couldn’t have come at a better time for me. I just came out as bi!

[@TyronJonesTJ]

AcFoil I did too

[@lj8612]

Tyron Jones Well done!

[@Xandropolis]

Same!

[@user-nf3ey4kn3n]

@Sports Right, but believing in Jesus, having real faith and love in him, will save you because he died for our sins and gave us a second chance at going to heaven, when we sure as hell didn't deserve it.

[@user-nf3ey4kn3n]

@Sports Don't worry! Its okay! Being a Christian, I obviously believe in these scriptures in the bible, and it is just if a person leaves a hateful comment with it, I don't agree with that, because we may not believe in this, or support the LGBTQ+ community, but we still must love and respect one another, as we are all brothers and sisters under Christ, no matter what we say we identify as. This being what Christ wants us to do, but we are also human and make mistakes which is why we must forgive as well. God bless you as well.😁👍

[@nellwyn]

The problem is I always thought I was straight my whole life. It's just past few years have been very confusing. I'm 21 rn and it's mf confusing. I think I'm finally able to accept that I'm a bi but I don't think I'm ready to talk to my parents or sibs rn or ever idk what to do.

[@nevillephilpott3293]

Nellwyn EXOL I am having this same feeling! I am finally really thinking about me and want to share it but I just can’t bring myself to say it

[@yourstruly2232]

Bruh in my country its hard and i dont think im ever gonna come out until I either move to another country or they allow gay marraige. Its so hard because no one understands. They are still stuck in their old ways. Can't wait to get out of this hell hole.

[@LMvdB02]

Bruh just bring home someone of the same gender lol

[@zenpie5093]

It’s okay, take your time to figure everything out and don’t rush it! I am 27 now and only started accepting that part about me 6-8 months ago and have only come out to a few close friends and my s.o.. I still feel confused and hope to be out and proud openly one day but for now being out to myself and some friends also feels quite nice. In case you have some Bi (online-)friends you might want talk to them about your experiences. This helped me understand so much about myself 💖💜💙

[@sunflowergarden9794]

How do I for sure know I’m bi? Because I think I’m attracted to girls but I have not been with one. What am I?

[@StepUpMedia039]

Being bisexual or even gay is a gift and it's a beautiful part of you and never something to hide or be ashamed of. Search your heart and feelings and never let anyone tell you how to share or experience love with others.

[@SDRicky]

Gift my ass

[@chaeyoungsbish]

I’m at the confused stage on whether I’m Bi or Lesbian😂

[@MaskMastic]

Same honestly

[@ivyrainbitch]

Charizard Rules 🤣🤣

[@dojacatstanaccount7936]

I don't fuckin know why, but I feel like all lesbians I know labelled them as bi when they were teens

[@kpopuniverse1273]

Me lol

[@sonne5540]

Same. And sometimes straight😂

[@amberfranke5970]

I always feel like I’ll come out one day and then end up changing my sexuality entirely

[@Courtney-Jai]

And you could do but thats down to human experience thered nothing wrong with that ,who we are now is not who we will be in 10 years time.

[@amberfranke5970]

Courtney-Jai true. But I’m scared about it. I don’t know who I am. And I understand at my age that’s normal, you’re questioning your sexuality. Of course it’s going to feel like one confusing and long ass journey. But I’m tired of debating am I straight, gay, or bi. I just want it figured out so I never have to be scared of losing people over my sexuality and then finding out I wasn’t really what I came out as and I just lost people in the process.

[@Heidelbuam]

just like looking at your face,lips and eyes manifests my gayness :) You are a beautiful young man :)

[@deeznutz3244]

Lmao

[@iLuvTheMostHigh]

Deez Nutz Hi Deez Nuttz!✋🏾🐿🐿🌰

[@deeznutz3244]

@@iLuvTheMostHigh hi who's this though.

[@LuciferKuran]

Same

[@constantartblock]

Deez Nutz Ha! Got eEeM!

[@patrickdemarcevol]

Well I don't know what you look like now but 4 years ago you're really stunning. The skin tone, the straight nose, the thick hair, the white teeth, the lips, god almighty you look so good. And well spoken, intelligent, sincere. Keep going young man! Hope you've found your way.

[@Courtney-Jai]

I look pretty much the same, and the only place I look pretty different is in the show heartstopper because I have very long hair when I got the part

[@t.maurice1804]

My stages: 1.) I'm gay 😕 ages 5 -11 2.) I'm straight😊 ages 12-18 3.) I'm bi?😳 ages 18-19 4.) No..gay🙄 ages 20 -21 5.) I'm bi..🤔 ages 22 -24 6.) Haven't been with a girl in a while...gotta be gay 🤷🏾‍♂️ ages 25 -26 7.) I like what I like fuck it! 😎 27- Update:: wow so cool to see all the likes from this just wanted to say @courtney-jai thanks for your inspiration and courage. Your videos has helped me to be more open for conversation about my sexuality. Even created a separate channel and all 🤣🤣 thanks man! Best wishes and to all of you below as well 😁😁

[@ocytocine96]

The exact same

[@jokerrorschach6405]

I can sympathize with this.

[@ocytocine96]

@Anna Long you're young don't put pressure on yourself. Allow yourself to grow and found who you truely are

[@t.maurice1804]

@Anna Long that's cool that you're somewhat aware. But try not to focus too much on that especially at 10. Enjoy your childhood while it last...all the little things. 😊

[@mjade1673]

Awe 😇🤗✊

[@jewe1z]

Its a scary feeling at first

[@alo8203]

Indeed it is

[@Courtney-Jai]

Shook me to my core but once you get past that it's like your seeing the world in colour for the first time

[@chaderoop5563]

That's how I feel right now, I think I need help lol

[@nobutheyonyou7990]

I used to question my sexuality a few months ago (I’m still not 100% sure) and I realised I am straight after all. I only started questioned because I was interested in the LGBT+ community to the point where I started following a lot of LGBT accounts on Instagram and thinking about it daily. The thought of me being that interested in it while only being an ally seemed unlikely to me and starting to question it made want to figure it out and I started testing it out to see If I liked girls or not. I tried to look at girls lips and see If I wanted to kiss them but I was so caught up in the possiblity of me actually being bi that I wasn’t able to tell. Of course the ones I tried were people I had known for years and liking them anyway seems unlikely thinking back at it. I realised after not feeling anything specific to not try to rush into figuring it out but call myself straight until proven otherwise later in life. I know the struggle of being unsure of what you are but haven’t been in the hard denial stage as I never really thought I was bi for sure. I also decided from the start that if I turned not straight I would accept myself immediately and kept on reminding myself of this while I was questioning. Through this time of questioning and experiencing myself I have gained more awareness of bisexuality and other sexualities and learned more about myself. I have become an even bigger ally and have found my passion for equality and human rights. I want to say that questioning and figuring out you were wrong is totally okay and valid and that it only makes you grow as a person. I don’t know about anyone else being in this kind of situation (everyone I’ve seen on the internet talking about questioning their sexuality has been lgbt) but if you are it would be nice to know that I’m not the only one. To anyone questioning out there: you are valid and it’s completely okay to be unsure. You don’t need to rush into things, take your time and enjoy life while doing it. You will get through this and you will always have people there for you even If you don’t see it right now. You are loved.

[@smudge8882]

Thank you for sharing your story. That is actually a common thing; questioning and figuring out that you're wrong. It's true that not many people talk about it. One of my sisters identified as a lesbian for almost a decade, while my other two sisters are bisexual, and for a while I was questioning what I was. I kept going back and forth between thinking I was a cishet and thinking I was cis and bisexual. It was only later that I realized I am neither of those two options; I'm actually non-binary (so not cis) and asexual. Then I went through those five stages of figuring out that I'm biromantic. Around when I figured that out, the sister who identified as a lesbian came out as bisexual (after a decade of exclusively dating girls). It turns out both me and her were wrong initially about what we are.

[@smudge8882]

Meanwhile I also know a couple people who thought they were LGBT and later realized they were straight. One of them though they were pansexual, but it turns out she just likes guys and the "girl" she had liked was actually a trans dude. Another friend thought they were a trans dude, but later realized she was a cis woman.

[@nobutheyonyou7990]

S Mudge i really wish that questioning but figuring out you’re cishet after all would be more talked about. It shows that it’s okay not to know what you are, or to realise what you really are later in life. It should be talked about more online that you don’t need to be sure and that you can change your label later if you find out it’s not right.

[@smudge8882]

@@nobutheyonyou7990 I very much agree with you. I find that in non-LGBT spaces, people think of questioning to automatically mean that that person IS whatever they were questioning. That can be destructive because it doesn't allow a person to safely question.

[@nobutheyonyou7990]

S Mudge When I was questioning I wanted to tell someone but I didn’t because I feared that If I wasn’t people would still think I was when I said I wasn’t. Those few months of questioning could really have been better if society had made questioning a more open topic where I wouldn’t be scared to tell someone without being 100% sure.

[@Lovetravelling4218]

Thank you, Jai. I’m happy that you are helping me through my struggles. In fact thanks from all of us.

[@shanehughes3511]

Went to an all boys school so noticed the male attraction I had first. Wasn't until I reached my late teens I realised I was also attracted to women more than I had noticed. So for anyone saying bi sexuals are just gay men in denial how about you not talk. I was like okay im gay and then was like no bi. So I didn't have that I'm straight but like men phase homophobes claim to just be gay men in denial. Bi sexuality is REAL AND ALOT MORE MEN ARE BI THEN ADMIT

[@michaelgaynor6866]

YEP!

[@angelusvastator1297]

Yes say it for those in the back. The Romans and Greeks knew about this back then.

[@RS-js2df]

More power to bi boys 💜💜

[@yourstruly2232]

I got a question. I find some men really active but I do not like watching gay porn is it normal or not? Cause im confused like hell.

[@RS-js2df]

@@yourstruly2232 It depends on your personal preference, a lot of straight women like lesbian porn, that doesn't invalidate their straightness

[@thepanpatriotsfan9295]

How it worked for me: 1: I am totally straight 2: Some men are hot 3: My sister came out as gay to me, and that gave me the confidence to realize my own sexuality.

[@AJ-mw6dh]

Mine,,,,,,,, Since 1: I didn't know what I was 2: 13 when I hit the puberty I was straight looking for middle 3: 16 I started a gay relationship with a High School foreign student from Germany (He was top) 4: 18 He left back to Germany 5: Had a crash on my prom date 6: Now I lean straight but I would bottom one night stand once a year

[@irobbartist6093]

Yeah, it's very confusing and doesnt stop. Particularly male bisexuality doesnt have that great of a space and representation, at least what I've experienced. Its you're either "dl straight" or "claiming bi but you're really gay" so it feels like no one really gets it completely unless you are very lucky to finding some bisexual friends. but really its jumping around a bunch of social circles to feel like you're fully experiencing your sexuality.

[@antwanwilson7228]

I feel you 💯. Being a black man, you are force to choose either gay or straight.

[@theblackhole05]

Yeah they really do. I'm bi asf. I think I just got it through my friends head

[@BrysonRyenn]

Yeah being black and bisexual, it’s so difficult for people to understand my sexuality and some see me as claiming bi but gay which is not the case because I very much am attracted to women and men

[@antwanwilson7228]

@@BrysonRyenn The guys I talk to claim they're gay but when we start talking, it appears they're bisexual based on past sexual relationships. I've heard of some gay guys that only had sex with women because they're being secretive. IDK but everyone has their own thing. I'm finally understanding that bisexual is a real sexuality and not a cover.

[@burnt.norton]

i have a girlfriend atm but i’m starting to be attracted to guys not only women and idk what to do or say to her, i feel like she’s gonna dump me because i’m “gay” or something

[@ariseaman390]

Being gay is not a preference as the word preference means a choice. You can choose your diet, work out routine, religion, political ideology, your clothes...

[@Courtney-Jai]

@ariseaman390 it was poorly worded the video was also filmed 5 years ago , somthing I plan to film again

[@MichaelSimpsonLegal]

Sorry, have to comment about the fish, an off-topic point. They are quite beautiful, photo-bombing you throughout the video. I was becoming fixed on the fish, Congrats on how well you are taking care of these.

[@Courtney-Jai]

Thank you I've had them for about 2 years now

[@evak1313]

Can you read my mind?

[@MichaelSimpsonLegal]

@@evak1313 Yes, I can.

[@GlumoTV458]

idk why but bisexual people just seem so similar to me much more than anyone else and that really helped me embrace my sexuality

[@Courtney-Jai]

That's good you have people to connect with

[@estradiolvalerate8925]

My story went like this "Straight" but never really hang out with girls, only with your typical male friend group but that was until 8th grade. In 8th grade, i became friends with a really cool person, which was male, if you would see me giggling like a little girl at something he would say at the time you would think i was totally into him. But i was still completly unaware of that. I wasnt his only friend, but he was certainly mine. He was probably the most important person in my life at that time, he was kind of my psychologist, he was really good at listening and giving good insightful responses. He at one point got a girlfriend, i was kinda jealous, but i still didnt realise it at the time, and i also wasnt sure if i was jealous over him having a girlfriend and that i didnt, or if i was jealous that he was with someone else instead of with me. That was in 2012. We were really close for only 2 years, 8th and 9th grade. Havent been that close ever since we both went to highschool in 2014. We went to the same highschool but he was in a different class, he made friends, and i was the loneliest i had ever been, seeing him pass by was awful, like we didnt finish something, i didnt even know what that was yet, i just felt empty. Years went by. The worse 3 years of my life. About a year and a half ago in August of 2017 in 11th grade, after i failed one of the two exams i had, i decided to not go back to try to do it again. I had enough. I realised that high school was not helping me at all, in fact it was destroying me. I realised i could be free now, and that i could be myself in anything that i do. I started really thinking about how i felt about him all those years ago, why did i feel so good when i was around him, why did i feel so empty when we stopped hanging out, and then it hit me, i realized that what i had was a fucking crush, years later for the first time ever i saw it for what it was, a crush for the straight best friend (at least i think he was straight? maybe he was bi like me? guess we'll never know, its too late now anyways), such a fucking cliché thing. The crush for the straight best friend. But thats what apparently happened, i had a crush for him. I wanted to be with him, i never even told him, what if he said he was straight? That would make things so weird. Kinda glad i only realised this stuff now and not while we were still friends, because me feeling like this while being around him would be unbereable. But part of me kinda still wants to track him down and tell him how i felt back then...but im too much of a pussy... In 2018 i was gradually and unconsciently fantasizing less and less about girls, the prevolent string was becoming more and more about me being submissive and being touched by someone instead of doing the touching. The times i masturbated to that fantasy were the best orgasms i ever had in my life. Now i just lean into it. I discovered i fucking love the feeling of being submissive and now i just do what feels right. Never been with either gender, even though i really want to so bad. ---sincerely a pathetic lonely little slut who wakes up craving cock, and sometimes pussy.

[@rottenbutterfly9675]

I think you really should give dating guys a try. I am bisexual too. I did not realise that until I was 21. I denied it and when I fell in love with a girl I fell into depression. Now I live what I feel. All of my friends and family know it and accept me. I date girls and feel happy and free. I formed a new self and I'm confident like never before in my life. Wishing you the best!

[@estradiolvalerate8925]

@@rottenbutterfly9675 ❤

[@vvc1356]

The end note😂 ! !! Same experience though , and it keeps happening, all the time with straight girls, it’s so annoying, I wish it would stop lol

[@rolexded3471]

hey man... well just wanted to say hi. are u on instagram??? I am not straight either. reply if u want.

[@barbzchunli735]

THE LAST BIT HAS ME ROLLIN SKSJSKSKDKS

[@daletaylor777]

I am so glad that you are putting out these videos and creating a space for those who are questioning and perhaps freaking out about their sexuality.

[@Courtney-Jai]

This is actually what I did for years before I did the reacts I have alot of videos planned just need to get them filmed how I want

[@annacookbook]

I guess I'm still somewhere between denial (every now and then) and acceptence.. I'm also closeted and don't really know when to come out 🤔 The "perfect" moment to do so will probably never come, am I right? 😅

[@TyronJonesTJ]

Literally same asf for me

[@Courtney-Jai]

I don't think there's ever a perfect moment to come out for me it's just when I realised if I wanted to be happy I had to do it for me but don't worry it's about doing it in your own time

[@Courtney-Jai]

It's the same for alot of people

[@HamiltonRb]

I laughed when you said the perfect moment. I am straight, and the father of a gay son, who came out to me in a funny way actually, thinking back on it. I was in the hot tub in the backyard & my son & his buddy, who I have known since he was very young came in to join me one night. His friend said he wanted to tell me something, and hoped I would understand, and then told me he was gay. I said that's great, no big deal, love you just the way you are. He then told me he has a bf and I know him. He said it was my son, who then looked at me & smiled. It was their way of testing my reaction to my son coming out. It did catch me off guard, but it made no difference at all. They are both great people & deserve happiness in their life like anyone else. Not sure if this helps but thought I would tell our story.

[@emblalo]

Anna Cali believe me it will!

[@sodaxxtea4522]

1. I am straight. 2. But I like i girl? 3. Would I kiss a guy? Um, sure? 4. I could also kiss a girl, though. 5. Extra bi

[@piney_studios]

My stage: Yeah I’m straight. I like guys Hmm I like guys still but girls look pretty. I can’t be gay, I’m just jealous of the girls haha Frick I’m lesbian No I’m straight Crap I like both. BI PRIDE

[@tamarmishan7406]

This is me rn i swear

[@LBurnsRed6244]

This is me

[@avastars3393]

Wow you described me in a few words

[@noahabdullah9867]

@Saydet Loves the Planet Some like women, some like men, some like men and women at the same time But if you love women more than men, naturally, you find women more beautiful and better, but if you love men more than women, you will see men better and more beautiful. But if you love men and women with the same love and passion, you will see them together with the same beauty

[@noahabdullah9867]

Some like women, some like men, some like men and women at the same time But if you love women more than men, naturally, you find women more beautiful and better, but if you love men more than women, you will see men better and more beautiful. But if you love men and women with the same love and passion, you will see them together with the same beauty

[@horacioyrausquin4601]

Being a much much older man than you, or your audience, and having seen and experienced the transitions and “semi” acceptance of gay life through the decades, I find it wonderful that younger gay men are now able to be open and express, so openly, who they are. My generation had to hid in dark alleys in order to simply dance. I felt I was different since I was 4 years old. I saw may father naked standing in front of the mirror shaving after his bath! I was mesmerized, stunned and excited by his beauty and young body before me! From then on I never wondered what “turned me on”! (for those who may wonder, NO, my father NEVER touched me. He was a 100% womanizer until the day he died!) I would secretly swoon at my older brothers’s male friends who would stop by after sports. Later, In my adolescent confusion, I did “perform” with various girlfriends. (I guess trying to compete with my father and fight my preference.) Deep down I knew what my heart wanted and needed. I wouldn’t be faithful. I could, I guess, at my current age still perform with a woman, but, I always felt I would be dishonest to her because I know my preference. I guess I can “claim” to be bisexual, but, being from that old school, I would not only be cheating on my partner or being dishonest and/or both! Forgive this old man, but I find it hard to rationalize bisexuality: someone gets hurt, unless both are playing the same mental game of obfuscation! Stay safe young man, I hope you fall deeply in love with your preference.❤

[@elmo6231]

2019: hm am I really straight ? 2020: * downloads TikTok * Yh nope

[@kristiant96]

yes because tik toks are real life.

[@person876]

Omg did that today though...

[@agnesslittlelife]

Fr tik tok made me realize im bi

[@nojamsmelxx2002]

Me: I’m straight, I have to be straight or I get disowned I’m straight *feels attracted to girls* What if...? No I’m straight! I can’t be bi.. I’ll go to hell Straight straight. *meets the love of my life* Oh Fuc- nope can’t What if.....I can’t be... FINE I’M BI! What if I’m straight though? Nope definitely bi, time to keep it a secret :)

[@johnjames5587]

your usually my type too but i'm a larger man so you probably wouldn't be interested in me

[@Fuzzled369]

Hell isn't real god is loving thus would not design a place of torment towards his own creation

[@Fuzzled369]

Fun fact.. when you die all that's left is your soul, your soul cannot be tormented because it cannot feel pain. Thus hell isn't even functional

[@nicholasgutierrez957]

Same here

[@johnjames5587]

@@Fuzzled369 i believe everyone gets their own paradise filled with things they like and totally tailored for them so hell does not exist

[@ivorottaway5679]

Me: thinks I’m straight Me: watch’s gay p0r^ Me: 🙃

[@kingfckncole9340]

Finishes- Wtf is on my screen I’m not doing that again The next night..

[@pedromesquita1997]

Fucking same

[@jaytalktoem]

yup

[@jaytalktoem]

mark I think that makes you bi-curious or homoromantic?

[@vernonstephens1123]

mark fax

[@jennyneon]

*So much confusion,* one time you're straight, the other you're bi, _why is it so difficult omg._ :( :( Well, I am officially a bisexual male. Happy Pride Month!

[@IsabelleBoiten]

I’m a girl and think I’m bisexual. I don’t mind being gay or straight and I think my family and friends would be okay with it, but I can’t really accept it. I wish that I was just one thing, gay or straight. When I’m around a lot of people I look at cute men and cute women and I just feel a bit lost. I don’t really know who to go up and talk to. I also sometimes feel like acting and dressing more gay (manly, if you look at the stereotypes) but other times I want to dress really girly. This makes me feel like I don’t have a style. I just wanna be one thing. Do other people have this too?

[@OKUHLEMZINYATHI100]

You are straight. All women look at cute girls, unless you wanna have sex with them. Now that's gay.

[@jordannimz5180]

If you realise you're lesbian that's totally cool, if you realise you're actually straight, then that's cool too! And if you realise you do like guys AND girls, that's awesome too! If you are attracted to more than one gender, there's no point in hiding part of yourself to get around any internalised biphobia. Sometimes it's scary and disorienting to realise something about yourself that you weren't expecting, but once you accept it, you get a sense of peace. And if you have a preference for one gender, say you like guys more than girls, or you would want to date and sleep with men, but would only want to sleep with women, for example, that's ok too. (I'm a guy and I mean I don't like putting a number on it because it's more complicated than that, but I'd say I'm 80% attracted to men and 20% attracted to women/nonbinary people). AND personal style has nothing to do with sexuality (other than LGB people often feel more comfortable breaking gender roles with clothing). If you like dressing up masc/butch sometimes, and femme other days, that's alright! Lots of love for your journey! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@IsabelleBoiten]

Jordan Nimz Thank you, that makes me feel a lot better. Lots of love for your journey as well!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗

[@alessiomarin1218]

@@OKUHLEMZINYATHI100 I agree with you in the sense that I also think women are much more inclined to think girls are or common on how they're cute or whatever, but I don't think you should be telling someone what they are in terms of their sexuality.

[@alessiomarin1218]

You can message me on Quora or Messenger if you want if you want someone to talk about it with. I'm not a creep, don't worry :) www.quora.com/profile/Alessio-Antonio-Marin

[@masalahunty]

I am going through the denial and depression phase 😖

[@AarmOZ84]

Please talk to someone. Don't hide how your feeling.

[@mcyeru]

Brooo sometimes you’ll be gay and other times you’ll be straight, I live in a Christian fam so I’m not very open about it but you can still accept it. I’m in the closet too 😂😌

[@Courtney-Jai]

You will get through just remember you have people to talk to here

[@bipride9320]

Same

[@xalphagmrx8281]

Same here. I'm totally sure that i'm bi but i don't want to be. I'm sure of it cause i've liked both boys and girls. I want to be normal and all.Also my mom is homophobic and i'm scared of coming out.I'm going through the depression and the staying home and playing games thing.Everything he said described me rn. My friends are okay with it tho,they even thing its cool. We will all go through this. I hope someday i will have the courage to tell my family about it and i hope you do too. Thx for the time you've spend while reading this. Happy pride month! Gave a great day.

[@izzym0lina]

me: i’m straight maybe i’m bi? i’m straight right? pretty sure i’m bi (i’m confused cuz i like guys and find myself crushing more frequently on guys but i also get crushes on girls i’m just more picky if that makes sense)

[@V000idddddddd]

Oh yes I can totally relate to that! I also tend to be more "picky" when it comes to girl crushes. 🤔

[@izzym0lina]

ella right? it’s just so confusing

[@V000idddddddd]

@@izzym0lina yeah, and I don't know why it's so different with girls. Really just confusing. 🤔

[@LMvdB02]

I have the same thing, I'm very picky with the same gender and the attraction is more romantic, with the other gender I'm less picky and it's more sexual.

[@izzym0lina]

@@LMvdB02 ya idk what that is but I've officially established I'm bi.