5 Things all SOPHISTICATED Women MUST DO

[@sarahdesimon5781]

This is my feeling about the proverb 31 woman: she is fearless because she is organized and a visionary, and consequently she is resilient (as you very well said). She has the patience to invest long term work. she knows what will be fruitful for her and her family: Therefore she laughs at the future. She is my hero. Thank you for mentioning this inspiring passage from the Old Testament !😇🌹

[@CynthiaL]

Everything you said is so true! 🥰💛

[@michelletackett9489]

Sometimes I think some people don't care about their health and presentation. Their choice, but it matters to me.

[@CynthiaL]

We all have choices but I do think choosing health is probably one of the most important things 😊🌻

[@cristinap273]

@@CynthiaL Thanks for your knowledge!

[@mallorybaranyuk3779]

Learning so much from you :) Being a lady is such a lost art in todays world, I only wish it was taught to me earlier in life!

[@CynthiaL]

awh so nice to know 🥰! I know what you mean! We have to keep helping each other learn these things, because it is so uncommon

[@classyladyangie31]

Absolutely agree with you! We needed this back in the 80’s and 90’s!! 🥰

[@mphothito4691]

I’ve always been the person that was so afraid to make efforts to beautify myself as this is sometimes so frowned upon, but watching your videos has just made me feel so good about myself given me so much confidence! Living in an era where we see only one type of beauty as well, it is so easy to just give up because you know you don’t fit the category, but somehow these femininity videos are so inclusive and they show us how every woman is beautiful and how we can dress to show the best parts of ourselves in a delicate way❤️. Much love from South Africa 🤗🤗.

[@CynthiaL]

I know what you mean, I think a lot of women feel that way 💕. I think it's all about pursuing balance; we can incorporate beauty but also make it realistic and tailored to our own personalities and lifestyles :)

[@NABI_REALESTATE]

I love this lip color on you!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 😍💛

[@cozykimmi]

I love how elegant a woman can be when she keeps her best features for herself! 💗 It just adds to a woman’s character.

[@CynthiaL]

I agree :) 💕

[@emmadera3551]

Dear Cynthia, I often deal with anxiety. It’s mostly due to unpleasant encounters I experienced in the past with rude/mean people. For example, I keep replaying scenario’s in my head I would rather forget. I was wondering if you had any advise for me on how to deal with such anxiety as a young feminine woman. You are such an inspiration to me💕

[@CynthiaL]

I have also struggled with anxiety most of my life and everyday I have to deal with it ; I understand your struggle 💛💛. It’s good to acknowledge the emotions and process them, but you have to give yourself a time limit and then you decide to move forward. When you decide to move forward, you try to find activities or other things that you can focus on. Also, you have to be realistic with your expectations when dealing with anxiety; you can’t always control how you initially feel but you can control your reaction and what you do. Congratulate yourself when you have mini wins 🥰💛

[@emmadera3551]

@@CynthiaL Thank you so much! This means the world to me!☺

[@danielagutierrez9969]

Timeless beauty ~ ✨

[@CynthiaL]

That is definitely very important in sophistication 🥰💛

[@lauraatkinson6858]

Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined, especially being just days away from my 47th birthday, that I would have stumbled across such insightful, valuable information on femininity and sophistication. Thank you for sharing your experiences and million-dollar tips Cynthia!

[@CynthiaL]

Happy Birthday!! :) I'm happy you are here 💕💕

[@jonasb7253]

I don't know how I came across this video but I appreciate this kind of content.

[@cristinap273]

Baby blue fits you well. It sparks your eyes!! Feminine mystique is fascinating. In a world where inmodesty is rampant being a natural modest, feminine and elegant lady really stands out.

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :) 💕. I agree; theres something special about femininity that truly blesses the world

[@lilianawhitaker2478]

I enjoyed this video very much. Thank you for the time you put into this! 💕

[@rosesarered2424]

You have taught me so much about being a lady. Thank you so much!!!

[@CynthiaL]

Awh that makes it all worth it! 🥰💛

[@sarimjimenez6519]

I love to hear your videos while doing my household chores. Thanks for sharing with us your knowledge and advice. I loved when you mentioned our blessed Virgin Mary 🥰 and I really keep thinking about health above short term beauty. Have a happy week!

[@CynthiaL]

Sarim Jiménez I’m so happy to be a part of your day! ☺️ I’m also happy you noticed that; I hope to talk more about Mary in the future 🥰

[@CynthiaL]

Sarim Jiménez let me add, thank you and I hope you also have the most amazing week 🥰

[@JoselineNieves]

@@CynthiaL I loved that too! Are you catholic? Greetings from Venezuela! Thank you so much for your content.

[@aspiringfemininity8626]

There were so many mic drop moments in this video. Thank you. Truly.

[@CynthiaL]

Oo thank you ☺️💛

[@davidandwendynovak8914]

Hi Cynthia, I really enjoy your videos. Having a teachable heart is vital to personal growth and maturity, and is so important in relationships. We will be married 41 years this Tuesday, and two key factors which have brought joy to our marriage is serving one another in love (Galatians 5:13b) and having a teachable spirit. Thank you for talking about this element of elegant womanhood.

[@deluxesellers878]

🥰I absolutely love how interactive you are with your audience in the comments. So refreshing and makes me want to interact as well. I absolutely love your content and the community you are creating here.

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you so much! It’s nice to know this. I try my best to get back to comments because I truly do care about everyone who watches 💛💛💛

[@Centerpiecegardens]

Always love listening to these kinds of videos to see if there is anything I can glean from and add to what I already do :)

[@CynthiaL]

You my friend, are definitely a sophisticated woman! 🥰 thank you for listening 💛

[@nyctophile3313]

Cynthia .....I don't wanna be girly girl type, cauz' I find that it not me. But i am more of a femininely tomboyish girl. I mean that's who I wanna be known for......cause in the race to become girly girl......I lost my own unique self. I lost at everything........just cause I was not happy at what I was becoming. Cynthia kindly guide me how te be femininely tomboyish. How to be feminine and embrace the tomboy🌼

[@CynthiaL]

Hello lovely, have you seen my video on feminine archetypes? You might be the "free-spirit" type. There are many ways you can express your femininity that don't have to be stereotypically "girly". :) 💕

[@malasharma4924]

So informative video. Just love it. I am from India. After watching your and some other you tubers videos I am learning to be more feminine but yes what most common problem I am facing is people around us dress so understatedly. By the way here in India also young women are now mostly adopted pajamas and shorts, where I try to be in our traditional clothes like “saree”. It’s not easy but I tried to implement that. Thank you so much for this type of videos it inspires a lot.. thank you.

[@CynthiaL]

I know what you mean, it is similar here too where many people dress too casually. I think it’s important to stay true to our own style, even if it is more formal ☺️💛💛

[@angelaswann3461]

Keep wearing sarees and other Indian traditional attire, Mala. They are so, so beautiful and I am sure you must look beautiful wearing them.

[@malasharma4924]

Angela Swann oh.. Thank you so much for the inspiration 😊..

[@Kim_eag]

Your hair & makeup on this video look beautiful 🥰

[@tatandure47]

You look beautiful and thank you for this video as always! 💛 This video is relieving because I would label myself as sophisticated. My weak point is standing firm in my feminine differences when other note that I am "different." I am learning to see it as a blessing. Also, I've learned that good health is one of the greatest forms of etiquette. When you take care of yourself, you show others to do the same. ❤

[@CynthiaL]

That is something I continue to work on ☺️. I also love that way of labelling health as etiquette 🥰💛

[@julietatonello]

Great video, as usual! I would love you to make another one specifically about setting boundaries.

[@CynthiaL]

It’s definitely on my list of topics to tackle 🥰💛

[@aekkasydney246]

idk why but ur glow is different today

[@CynthiaL]

Oo thank you 🥰💛

[@classyladyangie31]

AGREED! Cynthia!! Is there something different about you? You looked amazingly different... you are always beautiful but today... something special... 🥰🥰🥰

[@aoyamiuriko5059]

I thought it was just me lol extra glowy and beautiful 🥰

[@CynthiaL]

Awh thanks friends ☺️💛 I don’t know what it could be , maybe I just had a lucky makeup day lol

[@classyladyangie31]

It could’ve been the light blue color!! Maybe that is one of your best colors!! 🥰

[@alldoneup]

Thank you for these great tips and advice! You go into topics that are not at the forefront everyone's minds but definitely should be, especially in speaking about looking at long term prospects of how we are living and treating ourselves. Thank you and God bless!

[@CynthiaL]

I’m happy to hear it is appreciated! 🥰💛 I’m trying to introduce deeper topics to encourage lasting femininity ☺️

[@EbonyNikitaElegance]

You look beautiful! I love your tips 😍💗

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you lovely 🥰💛

[@Diaryofahousewife_]

Wonderful video! Such a good topic to talk about and to study ❤️ Also loving the color of your top! It goes so well with your hair!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 😍💛

[@louise5941]

Thank you Cynthia. I also Iove admiring older elegant ladies and the timeless beauty!

[@CynthiaL]

There is definitely so much to be learned from them 💛🥰

[@aoifecorroon]

You look extra beautiful in this video!💕

[@CynthiaL]

Awh thank you 🥰💛💛

[@thatexcalifornian6124]

I get that in terms of body discretion. I have a naturally large bust and small waist, but I don’t let my cleavage hang out where I’m spilling out of my shirt.

[@CynthiaL]

Good example! ☺️🌻

[@KyokiPon]

You’re stunning ! I’ll check out more of your videos later, I guess what I like about you is that you’re talking about elegance and femininity without exposing anything, I see all these youtubers talking about “Elegance” when they lack it themselves.

[@CynthiaL]

Rini thank you so much, this means a lot to me 💛💛

[@suzannedussault4120]

You kept health for the end and personally I think it is the most important one. Our all life should be oriented toward healthy life (physically and mentally). If we are healthy everything will come (love, friendship, happiness etc.) thank for the nice video.

[@CynthiaL]

That is true! Thank you 🥰

[@Ren382]

I absolutely loved this video!!! I particularly found your points about viewing life as a marathon, and thus being able to reassess and pivot as necessary as being especially encouraging! 💞🌷

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰💛. So true, it’s ok to change course or slow down

[@classyladyangie31]

Cynthia! You are amazingly beautiful today! This was an enchanting video. I will be watching it again! Your femininity and beauty is inspiring! Love you so much! And please, never cease from speaking about the Word of God! We love it! The Proverbs 31 Woman is what us Christian gals aspire to be! God bless you, Darling! 🥰

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you lovely! I am so happy you also like the short times I insert a reminder about our Faith :) 💕

[@classyladyangie31]

@@CynthiaL 🥰🥰🥰

[@lauratrefry3333]

Loved this video! I was just wondering if you at some point would consider doing a video on style formulas, signature style, or style uniforms? It's a concept I've been looking into and would kind of like to see it from a more feminine aspect.

[@CynthiaL]

That’s a great video topic idea! ☺️💛

[@gialenae6478]

Yasss psychology has helped me understand people SO much better. It’s so beneficial to know why people think and act the way they do. It has helped me become more patient and understanding. Btw, have you taken the Myers Briggs Personality Test? I have a feeling you would be the ISFJ 😅

[@CynthiaL]

It is definitely something that also improve my life! 🥰 I am INFJ!

[@gialenae6478]

Cynthia L Nice! 😁

[@kendraaraiza7039]

I'm an INFJ also! No wonder I adore you! 🤗

[@julialopes5054]

I loved how you brought Mary to the conversation. She’s the best exemple of true womanhood, Our Holy Mother! Many blessings and love from Brazil here

[@CynthiaL]

I agree 🥰💛 thank you!

[@alysapalacios8777]

Love this video Cynthia. ❤

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰💛

[@ellewest7272]

Hi Cynthia ♥️Can you speak on being graceful and having grace? I love your channel 😁

[@CynthiaL]

That’s a great idea! 🥰💛

[@ellewest7272]

@@CynthiaL 😁❤️

[@gabrielavargas8617]

Loved your cadence in this video 🤩

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰

[@IamTheeRocketman]

Thank you for being so inclusive regarding religion ♡ we are not all Christians, but we are all sister's of Joan of Arc.

[@rachelsmith5643]

Are you familiar with Charlotte York from SATC, Cynthia? Her style is very classy and feminine. Her pretty dresses showed off her waist, but they were not skintight. I've also got a naturally curvy lower half despite being thin. I'm all about fit-and-flare dresses so I don't look too va-va-voom.

[@CynthiaL]

Yes, she is a perfect example. I love that character! I also go for those dresses, since they help my body shape look balanced as well :)💛💛

[@rachelsmith5643]

@@CynthiaL The show is risqué, but I love that they featured a character that was so feminine and more traditional, at least compared to the others, lol.

[@L78969]

Don't forget to hit the like buttons 💕

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you so much!! It really helps 🥰💛💛

[@eileenmpetey999]

I love your strong Christian faith and how you don’t hide it!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰

[@kendraaraiza7039]

I love all of this, as always! As a pear shape, I have a hard time with dresses and sometimes skirts. I have tried the A line silhouette only to find that it makes my big lower half look even bigger, like ridiculously, attention-grabbingly so. I've found pencil skirts and sheath dresses to be more balancing, but it's tricky keeping things modest with that more form fitting silhouette. Sometimes sizing up and having the top half tailored smaller is the only solution. It's a struggle, I hate it! 😅

[@CynthiaL]

I know what you mean, I usually have to size-up on bottoms as well or make a small alteration in the waist since I too carry weight on the bottom half. But we just have to try our best and it's not about perfection but balance :) 💕

[@adornkenyasuppliers9273]

You won me at Mother Mary

[@CynthiaL]

amazing 💕 She is the ultimate role model!

[@adornkenyasuppliers9273]

@@CynthiaL absolutely lots of love girl

[@jordanjordan2619]

Hi Cynthia How are you and your husband doing? It’s been so long but I’m back 🌻☀️ Ps : Your hair is looking bomb! 💣

[@CynthiaL]

Jordan Jordan I missed your comments! Truly! 🥰💛 I’m happy you’re back! We are doing ok, thank you for asking. Hope your summer has been going great! ☺️🌻

[@orchidswithnina]

Another amazing and helpful video 👌🏼😍

[@CynthiaL]

thank you lovely 💕 :)

[@krystledianne3707]

I love you! New fan here. 💖💓

[@helloisitmeyourelookinfor9827]

always love your content♡ Thank you for sparing some of your time replying on ig 😊

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰! I appreciate you!

[@patjones4250]

Better to leave something to the imagination. People can imagine far better than reality may be 😉

[@DivineAsteria]

Hey can you make a video on feminine etiquette with meeting the parents? Like do you take a gift or what is appropriate. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@judithenyonam740]

Thanks 😊😊

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you for being here lovely ☺️💛

[@pearlh1051]

You. Are the key

[@Jaythecook]

hi babe...thanks for this. I just find yr channel today. New subscriber...Love for : South Africa Johannesburg

[@CynthiaL]

So happy you’re here ☺️💛

[@karenhiawalyer2420]

New subscriber. Love your videos.

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you for joining the community :) 💕

[@maryanlerose9438]

Great video! Could you make a video about why you are catholic and not protestant? :)

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰💛! That’s a good question and I will talk more about why I love being Catholic, but I won’t publicly compare it to other branches of Christianity out of respect for my Protestant family members 💛💛

[@sarasampaio9053]

@@CynthiaL I totally agree with you. I am Catholic too and I think that comparing religions may causes division and Christians should be united.

[@maryanlerose9438]

Cynthia L thank you for your answer! I am just asking because I grew up catholic but never really believing in it... then was in the new age for three years until I gave my life to Jesus a year ago. I was more on the Protestant side though and just always got told there that Catholicism is wrong... but recently I just feel called to look deeper into it. I would love to hear why you love being catholic and your faith life... I know it is a touchy topic and it receives a lot of criticism but I think your amazing genuine way of talking about it could help a lot of people. 😊✨🤍

[@maryanlerose9438]

Cynthia L you don’t have to compare at all .. I agree with you guys. Just sharing your perspective and story ✨

[@karlasharp9839]

I love u so much!!!

[@llluviana]

Topic starts 2:10 :)

[@thebigyoutuber3325]

Sophisticated is actually complicated to explain because it have a lot of depth in the meaning what you cover in your video was about shape which is the outside and if you can describe the way you were talking we called superficial yes you was talking about superficial woman not sophisticated okay baby

[@teenadahiya04]

New subscriber▶️

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you for subscribing!! Welcome to the sisterhood :) 💛

[@gailwhite1788]

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[@CynthiaL]

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[@jokergirl4351]

What can I do if I have masculine features 😏 I wish I was beautiful like you 💕

[@CynthiaL]

Awh, we are all beautiful in our own ways we just have to find the most feminine features and accentuate them! ☺️🌻

[@alldoneup]

There is definitely a spectrum when it comes to masculine and feminine features and characteristics in every person but owning YOUR personal femininity is what matters most. We cannot compare ourselves with others--comparison is the thief of joy remember. We need to remember that we are women with value and dignity and just celebrate what we were uniquely given. The fact is that no one is 100% happy with how they look, even supermodels have things about themselves they are insecure about!...but we should not focus on the negatives because it honestly just doesn't do us any good. What will do us good is to accept that we are all unique and beautiful in our own ways and seek to dress our bodies and present ourselves in a way that brings us inner peace and joy. That comes with time though in just realizing your worth and finding your personal tastes and not giving too much thought to what negative people think or say. It's a journey really! I will keep you in my prayers. ❤️

[@CynthiaL]

alldoneup your comment is perfectly said! 💛

[@jokergirl4351]

alldoneup thanks 😊

[@sarahd1706]

I do a program called Dressing Your Truth (it's free online, you can google it) & it celebrates every woman as having her own beauty. It is especially amazing to me to see the before & afters of women who have naturally more "masculine" features, when they dress the colors, shapes, textures, etc of their beauty type, they look more feminine & you see THEM rather than any prominent features. For example, someone with more substantial, angular features & textured skin will look best with substantial patterns, jewlry etc, angular cuts/shapes, etc & texture in their clothing, hair, etc. (all with balance of course, you can go overboard). Putting soft lines, daintiness, smoothness, etc will only clash with & accentuate their angles, substancial features & texture. Audrey Hepburn knew how to work with her own lines rather than try to counteract them, & that's why she looked so great.

[@renatavilas-boas4657]

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[@CynthiaL]

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[@gialenae6478]

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[@CynthiaL]

Gia Quartimon yay! 🤩💛💛