5 Things God Will Do When He’s Highlighting a Man He Wants You to Date

[@danilaroche1156]

You can't be so anxious, sis. Grow in your relationship with God. Fall in love with the Lord & focus on your purpose. Prioritize Jesus not a relationship. Trust God to arrange a marriage.

[@someoneyoudontknow7705]

Who are you talking to?

[@themasterspiece5669]

@@someoneyoudontknow7705whoever needs what she said

[@jelenahristov4094]

Thank you for the encouragement. 😊

[@laurachandler]

Agreed.

[@cupidok2768]

Omg i stumbled on this youtuber. God made me come find this guy talking on this channel!omggggg i can't believe it

[@ashleyb777]

My daughter age 34 and her husband 42 were just married on June 7th, a few weeks ago. The Lord started highlighting him to her about 8 years ago, though they had never met, then someone set them up in Feb. of 2022. He had no idea she even existed all those years, but she knew him from afar, even though she had never met him. On a couple of different occasions over the years the Lord would give her a vision of him and her together, in one they were at church ( no, they didn't go to the same one) and another one they were in his backyard. Praise the Lord! Sometimes he makes us wait .

[@Justyouraverageguy172]

I am having the same kind of experiences myself with someone I did know but we split up after our first year in college because of the circumstances of her transferring out preventing us from moving deeper while dating. The biblical conditions to be equally yoked were met as well.

[@adjekotazita952]

I've been praying and I've been seeing a particular man in my dreams. He used to be a friend from teenage years but no one really talks to anyone these days. But he keeps pleading that I wait for him in the dreams, like he's not ready and I keep praying. I wonder if he knows that I might be the one. These dreams come up when I start praying earnestly and it started about 2 years now. Till now there's not been any communication from him and it makes me think he is unaware. Your daughter's case makes me feel like he has no idea and my dream could also be for the future. thanks for sharing.

[@doreenmubela1829]

❤Hi mom.I'm going through the same situation but I'm confused don't know what to do

[@SleepyFox4000]

I met my now bf when I was just trying to meet other local Christians at a Christian-specific dance event. He came with his sister and she and her friends went off to dance. I asked him if he danced (knowing that I am totally terrible at it and would make a fool of myself if I tried), and he said that he had two left feet when it came to dancing. We bonded over that, ended up talking the whole night and I totally forgot to socialize with other people because our conversation was so engaging. We were friends for awhile, then just as my feelings began to turn romantic for him, he asked me out. We're still best friends a year later, prepping for marriage now. It can happen when you least expect it.

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

Thank you I do expect it just said I can and will wait

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

I know his strengths and weaknesses I know sometimes it hurts to like a lot but platonically speaking " hurts so good" love if real has to endure pain to be auth , doesn't it

[@crispyz2864]

I'm hopeful to find a wife, trust in God

[@analuizadossantos9041]

What an amazing story!! ❤ May God bless you both and always lead you together.

[@northshorelight35]

I only believe in intentional dating. It’s biblical. Intentional means that you are in the frame of mind to marry.

[@Earthsbodye]

I agree and I do the same. No wasteful relationships and no hookups

[@Joy_M507]

Well said!

[@patriciab.9625]

I met someone at a fruit stand, way out in the countryside. I stopped to get some tomatoes. ❤❤He sat there peeling onions when I walked up.. the rest is history..❤

[@ivanaowona9146]

So summary: God is highlighting someone if the man gave his life to Jesus AND he is persuing you. Without those 2 forget it. 😃

[@danilaroche1156]

Exactly. My guy is not rushing a romance and that's fine. He's interested but I think it's best to be friends first. He is taking it slow like me. He's praying about courting me. Any thoughts?

[@danilaroche1156]

I know hundreds of sisters waiting on some guy. Convinced he's their husband and the man has no interest in courtship or marriage. They are delusional.

[@ivanaowona9146]

@@danilaroche1156Hi. I think if you know his intentions, meaning he told you clearly that he wanted to pursue you, then it’s okay. If you are okay with being friends with him first then alright. But both of you have to know what is preventing you from taking a step forward. In conclusion I think clarity is key. My opinion 😊

[@northshorelight35]

You should be intentional. How you meet is the mystery.

[@80sbabyruth]

Praise God! Thank you Mark for the message 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️. Happy Friday All! Stay in prayer, keep the faith. Remember the teacher is always quiet during the test. Trust that God has your best interest at heart. He cares for us all and his goodness is everlasting.

[@crispyz2864]

I'm only 19 but I trust Gods plan and I know he will give me a wife soon enough. Always trust in God, he loves us❤️✝️

[@christollawrence3330]

Your young but your mind is in the right place. God will surely give you the desire of your heart. 🙏

[@IHAVEACHOICE7]

Wait on the Lord......he has the right young Lady for you. Never rush into any relationship. God wants you to be Happy. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@crispyz2864]

@@christollawrence3330 Thank you, God Bless🙏

[@crispyz2864]

@@IHAVEACHOICE7 I sure hope so, I trust God fully, God bless 🙏🙏

[@ndanatseyi]

Is it just me who thinks that God puts that intentionality in you anyway? I've just recently opened up to the idea to being in a relationship again, and I strongly felt that was God telling me that I'm ready. There's a certain man who I always think about lately who fits all these signs too 😊

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

Of course not

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

Not just you 😞 who thinks God does the match making

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

I know it when did you come to know it)?

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

I ask in prayer to helplme in this regard and

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

He does many times I pray he allows me to exchange my misery 🙏😭 for His Divine Mercy... check out The Lord 's Divine Mercy prayer

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

The guy I've been seeing the last few weeks is keeping it so pure that I honestly can't even tell if he likes me

[@Ella77177]

Probably testing and observing you.

[@meagon177]

A guy won’t just spend time just because… he is definitely interested. Enjoy the pure time of getting to know one another.

[@leenab7109]

😂

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

@@meagon177 yes and it's been amazing

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

@@Ella77177 yes, but mostly just listening for the Holy Spirit 🙏🏻

[@kenyamelton9228]

I'm not looking...he has to find me.❤🙏🏾❤

[@IHAVEACHOICE7]

Amen! It's the same with me. God already knows who he has for the both of us. A GOD FEARING MAN PURSUING HIS WIFE......Stay prayed up, this too will come to pass.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 6/26/24

[@Maryhawthorne1220]

Amen sister, if God wants us to marry the man will find us

[@ashleyb777]

You wait on the Lord, trust Him and His timing ❤

[@eabbcc642]

faith ~ hope ~ love

[@amyproudfoot6611]

& the greatest is love 😘

[@CandyK_117]

I've given up on online dating. I feel like it's done by my hands then I'm forcing something to come together. That's not of God and could eventually end. I want God's blessing so I'm going to let Him work

[@elinatembo3322]

U are right. God's time is the best

[@maria.1c1313]

Thank you, Mark, so useful!

[@laurachandler]

This was so on time! I met that man I care for seven years ago. He was a street minister and I was sitting under a gazebo having my lunch when he came up to me. This would go on a couple of years. He retired and I didn’t see him out there any more, but God led me to go to the church he went to and my son was going there too. I became a member of that church and now we go to Sunday school in the same class. He’s taking things really slowly and we don’t date, but we have some very meaningful conversations at church. I’m hopeful that someday he will pursue me, but even if he doesn’t, I am realizing he will if it’s God’s will. His parents really love me and we have a good connection. His mom texts me several days a week.

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

Good for you , sounds similar..."hope springs eternal "

[@enigma4526]

Hello! Thanks for this message - I think a temptation for me is to overread in each interaction with a guy who has solid theology and talking to them well and I generally like talking to these guys (I'm not usually attracted to these guys, but talking about God is attractive) - what advice would you give to not do this? Videos like this can be confusing and can be tempting to feed these thoughts and even bring some sort of fear. Responses will be appreciated!

[@Birdienamnamsi]

Yes i found this video today….this is incredible

[@tinag8774]

Thank you for this message Amen 🙏🙌🙏

[@beca5035]

This was great! Thanks so much and God bless you and your family and your ministry in Jesus name Amen 🙌🙏❤

[@beatricemachok2684]

30/6/24. BB.. thank you jesus 🙌 🙏 ❤️ met him on 12/7/22

[@SLC1994]

Thank you Mark this video has helped me ❤

[@skywinderisreal]

What if you don't magentise towards each other in a group setting but there is a mutual attraction. You both stare at each other a lot...but there is awkward silence and you're both tongue tied not knowing how to approach the other person. Even though you have spoken to each other, small talks here and there....would you say God is highlighting that man to the woman but he is not pursuing her yet? (either he hasn't got the word from God or he's just not interested or he's shy?)

[@maryreid5646]

Beautiful 😍💯🔑👑💙💖🙏🏽

[@douglasbrinkman5937]

my wife of 20 years passed away 2 years ago, so i have very little idea how to pursue a woman. hope i can figure it out.

[@laurasmith9160]

This was helpful!

[@agfilmwriter469]

What if he’s just not currently pursuing the woman but God has revealed it to her first that he’s the one? That doesn’t mean he won’t pursue or that God isn’t highlighting him. So I disagree with that part because it may just mean not yet, I wouldn’t necessarily rule it out altogether

[@kgoropanemokgohloa3205]

How does God reveal that a guy is for you?

[@agfilmwriter469]

@@kgoropanemokgohloa3205I believe through asking in prayer. Even asking for specific signs from God could possibly help.

[@heythere6983]

I literally had God make a woman stand out to me , the Holy Spirit filled me up with deep joy and revelation right after, I actually had to lay down because it was so energizing and peaceful I didn’t know what to do. He gave me knowledge on her, an illness she had that was coming back , had me give her this testimony vid (that was similar to her story) had me provide comforting words about her last illness , her heart condition and then when she got it, you know what? She was on the hospital and everything I said had to do with the present time. It was Divine timing and providence. He literally made us a way to contact each other , no social media, just email, I created an email knowing she would contact and it happened . She got the message , I even sent a song that God let me listen to that was inspired by this situation and it gave me profound blissful beautiful peace . I mention the songs to her in the testimony. She received it first while he was hospitalized and said she felt Gods peace . She seemed to acknowledge his timing was perfect and I mentioned (because God told me) all my confirmations that led to that video along with the fact God said we’d get to know each other. All the confirmations revealed in his timing and her feelings blessed and she said “I think God wants me to just focus on him right now” Lol I can’t believe it, admittedly she has gone through some things recently but wow , like we can’t even continue to talk? I’m not a prophet , all the divine revelation and timing and beauty , not to mention our life struggles have been so similar and we can understand and support each other, similar goals in life and ya just threw Gods blessing out the window. Maybe she’ll get it. But I can’t believe it , maybe the enemy has cast doubts in her mind. It’s funny bc even in the video I said I asked God about if I would distract her from him in this time and he said “no” and she later says she thinks he wants her to just focus on him, welp not according to him , infact this was going to supercharge our relationship shop with God. He showed me this was a vlsssing that would be Holy Spirit led, and it has been, as soon as I saw her it was led by him, all him, I can’t take credit for a single thing.

[@ednah31]

I’m going through this😭😭

[@ednah31]

We are close but sometimes I feel like the closeness scares him and he just takes a step back, God has revealed to me he’s the one but he also said I should wait until he’s ready so everytime, if i try to rush it I always go through a resistance but if I stop rushing it, something happens and we get so close

[@mimap275]

Unfortunately from my experience the men who r not godly r the ones doing more of the pursuing. The single men in church , dunno where they are 😮

[@Natalia-xo1yj]

Mark, what if they don't want to share their password on their phone and he seems to guard his phone all the time?

[@cbebop5]

Natalya, you are asking this question because your intuition in your body is telling you something is off, something is not quite right. Sister, God uses a woman's intuition to warn her about people and situations. A man who is ready and prepared for a healthy relationship has NOTHING to hide from the girl he loves or is interested in pursuing. Trust your instincts sister, the Holy Spirit is indeed HIGHLIGHTING something to you about this man not being equipped for a healthy relationship at this time in his life. Don't ignore the Holy Spirit, you will only regret it. I hope this helps you sister. God bless you, you are worthy of love that is secure and a man who doesnt cause doubt and suspicion. ❤

[@mightymouse1005]

NOT a good sign

[@boxesbinslidsllc]

Run as Dr. Delony says behavior is a language.

[@ApostolicCAD]

How is the role of the husband vulnerable?

[@tracyoguntokun4284]

Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@erinjensen8183]

So you’re telling me to find a well 🤔 😊

[@themasterspiece5669]

😂😂😂

[@kgoropanemokgohloa3205]

😂😂😂 right?! 😅

[@cytinachavis9157]

😂😂

[@Yolinda9077]

Lol.

[@geenaskeena7216]

Brilliant 👏

[@TheresaWebster-rz5ny]

I got a guy insisting he wants a relationship with me . I have no intention there is nothing wrong with him his nice he is very nice to me. Ask me questions about me. Involved in me. But I don't want a relationship with anyone I like being independent and free. I was married at very young age. That never worked. Yes I b dated. I have family friends co worker my son.but this guy is trying so hard to have a relationship love relationship I keep saying no but he won't give up. I love my life great job . Doing things being with my son. I date once in a while. And no I don't sleep around. Some ppl say oh he likes you but I don't want a life I won't like I don't need a man to be happy. I was very happy after it ended. But this guy just won't give up. He a christian man. He has it all but I not miserable

[@mariaangela6798]

If you want to stay single, why would you date once in a while? That's not really biblical. What's your intention?

[@victoriarose9090]

Amen

[@SublimeSubliminalHeir]

The thing is I met my current crush at work. God told me to get a job. And on my job search months ago, I saw this super handsome man at a place I was already intending to work at and interview at and apply at. I had already had other job offers, but ended up choosing this one . I wasn't trying to meet him. Just was being obedient to God's word. Also when there's a hot guy at work it motivates me to go to work so I chose this job bc of the hot guy I saw that worked there so I could keep the job and keep going . But then I found out he has a gf and child with her although he's said he wanted to leave her awhile ago so I don't know . It's complicated.

[@mightymouse1005]

God will NEVER send you someone else's person. They ALL say they're leaving, not in lover etc but, his child is affected, plus....he never married the mother of his child, his not a Godly man

[@boxesbinslidsllc]

Remember, God isn't complicated. Looks are great, but more than good looks are required to have a Godly marriage.

[@boxesbinslidsllc]

Remember, God isn't complicated. In addition, more than good looks are required to sustain a Godly relationship. Is he a man of his word? Are you able to unconditionally love his child and respect the child's mother?

[@mariaangela6798]

The persons above said it all. But I need to let you know that subliminals aren't pleasing to God. I used to listen to them and God convinced me that I should stop. It's a form of witchcraft, you are forcing something that is against God's will. When we pray, we say "let Your will be done", NOT our carnal desires. Seek God in prayer, read the Bible. Then you will have understanding of a Godly marriage

[@elizadolittle.]

Everything checks except one criterion :(

[@ryokohonda4619]

All of the signs I see except the fact that he is not pursuing me and he isn't Godly enough 😢 I don't know if because he isn't the one or he's not ready

[@Joy_M507]

Based upon what you’ve said, it seems he’s not the one God has for you. Not to say he’ll never be or he’ll never change, but for the moment, he is not, so guard your heart in your feelings towards him. He should pursue you and most importantly, be equally yoked with you in the faith. Keep praying and waiting on the Lord to bring you to the man He has for you. It’ll be worth it! 😊💕

[@ryokohonda4619]

@@Joy_M507 I felt a strong connection with him he is not my usual type. The guy I least expected. There are times Mark's videos are amazingly on time. So there are times that I am thinking it's possible he is the one but I'm also on trial. I want to move on since I'm in pain.

[@crispyz2864]

God's plan is perfect, one day we will understand and we will find our person

[@StopBeingVictimsItsNotGodly]

⁠strong connections and feelings is not love dear. If this man is not Godly is not pursuing you then walk away. Do not waste years waiting on a man. Learn how self control, not feelings. This man is not for you unless you want to be the persuer and this man will lead you straight to hell. Be wise and stop playing silly

[@reneika7771]

🫶✝️💟😇🙏

[@njerilucy2769]

Hi mark,what if he is a muslim called Faruk and takes alcohal ocassionally and has two baby mamas?

[@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142]

Battery low 🪫 pause ok ‼️ 2:28

[@jelenahristov4094]

Thank you, Mark, for this video, it is helpful. 😊