5 TOP RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR WHEN DATING WOMEN IN THAILAND IN 2024

Yeah, here are a couple more,,,,,,,,
Red Flags are everywhere guys you just have to be honest with yourself about them...
Watch for these and if any of them come up,,,,,, RUN!!!!!!!!!
just in case ya missed Part I
• THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING...

[@Kevin-to7dz]

EVERY relationship is transactional in nature. Sometimes the transaction is made with sex and money. Sometimes with "If you do this... I'll do that!" EVERY relationship is transactional

[@Referee006]

Very true.

[@dirty_hammy]

Ofcourse. But its done upfront in Asia. In the west, there's lots of denial from both sexes going on🤣🤣🤣

[@zzzzBadBoyzzzz]

I met my Thai wife in Bangkok 2001. 2 weeks after I divorced my American wife back in America... my Thai girl and I were married in Bangkok 2002. I got the Marriage Visa done ASAP, and took her to American in 2003. She was well educated in Thailand, attended The Kings Classes, and then on to Accounting classes in college in Thailand. When I met her, I was 37, and her 29. She was well educated, and working in a management position in Accounting, for large International Import/ Export. She is a: honest, hard working, very tough, and very beautiful Thai woman. Now, here in America, she's also working in Accounting for a large company... due to my health I can no longer work, and it's her that is financially taking care of myself and our children... and she's spends hours cooking amazing Thai food everyday for us too! I don't know how she does it, she's just amazing. Look for a Thai woman with strong religious beliefs (my wife helps out regularly at the Wat Nawamintararachutis temple here in USA), a woman with a close family ties, and a hard work ethics, that doesn't ask you for money; you too can find a beautiful loving Thai woman, to retire with in Thailand or abroad.

[@eq2092]

Facts the whole romantic love thing was an invention during the French Enlightenment period. If you go to other places that weren't colonized by Western Europeans they have more pragmatic views.

[@paulclinton6414]

These American women who hate on passport bros love money just as much.

[@carltonedwards8775]

I have met girls in the clubs of Pattaya who had legitimate jobs but were freelancers. You are right about the amount of girls that claim they own shops.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Typically I am ,,,,, yeah Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍻

[@dontthinktoohard9241]

My wife has explained to me where these girls have been. They've all been in Temple for the last 5 years. They're friends with freelancers because of her trying to convert them. Although they've been in many different temples, Chinese, Japanese, French, American and many others. 😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Makes sense

[@craiggenders6391]

Lmao l have been travelling to SE Asia for 15 years and you are 100% right

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yup Craig hopefully you'll check out part 3 coming soon.... Cheers mate beer 🍻

[@stevecowboy4159]

Thanks for the video, I'm considering moving to Thailand. But as the old saying goes, "birds of a feather, flock together." That's true in almost every aspect of life.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Break the cycle beo... Break the cycle! Cheers 🍻

[@passportbro7]

DOC on POINT 🎯 Absolutely love it Doc , 🤮🤮 no money no honey

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

That's sadly the case everywhere But this is more for trh guys that still don't get it Cheers mate 🍻

[@gjban]

Excellent learnings Mark. Thanks!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thanks mate Have a blessed day

[@dirty_hammy]

Mark, u know ur gonna score high on this one🤣🤣 i haven't even listened yet... and I feel like I'm about to hear some funny truthful stuff. U might just be the Canadian Katt Williams 🤣🤣

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hahahahaha I have some more coming that will be eye-opening Cheers mate 🍻

[@fredastaire5735]

If you follow the one day rule, which every Pattaya vetran advises on KZbin, then, by default, there would be no flags.

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

If you never had a pretty girl show interest in you before, it would be hard to know how to respond

[@zandig666]

​@@ubiquitousdiabolusespecially when you're younger at over 50 now and have travelled I'm literally thinking oh here we go again a new type of sob story that revolves around money leaving my pocket😂

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's also the older guys I see it every day

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

💯

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Sadly very few guys can do that I'm working on a video about that right now,,,, Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for watching and commenting

[@user-ly9te3un7k]

Marky mark da man!! what your saying is true, good on ya mate👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for watching and commenting

[@brianbarbarich1401]

Keep them coming. Good stuff thank you Mark. "One night in a bar in Thailand is the beginning of the end for many expats". New song instead of " One night in Bangkok" 🤣Many of them are tempted to falling into false love 💖💃and like you say end up broke, broken, confused, all because the small head rules big head.💔 🤣 Cheers from Durban, South Africa.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Brian Honestly mate I'm not totally convinced it's all thinking with the small head,,,,, I'm working on a video about this Cheers mate 🍻

[@jonhobson3592]

Small head thinking & falling in love thinking 😅

[@brianbarbarich1401]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean 🙏

[@waitsang1878]

Yet another insightful video. Thanks

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for watching and commenting

[@mangostickyrice555]

Thumbs up 👍 Mark

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey Mango Have a blessed day brother,,,,,,

[@maryfelwilkinson2414]

Everything you say is so true

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yeah it is Sad but true.... Cheers 🥂

[@Brian-ro9vn]

I live by your advice Mark but every now and then one slips by,…. like the other day when I went in for a $400 massage and at the end when she grabbed my junk and said “ you want “ I was on my game and asked “ how much ? “ fitst,…( because as we know , if you don’t agree on a price first they can make up any price they want after )…. She said 1000 , I gave her the go ahead but I have to admit I forgot to say “ total ? “ and sure enough when I gave her the 1000 when I was done and she asked for the other 400 ( 1400 is way to much to pay for a massage and a wrist rocket ) , but it was my mistake for not asking “ total ?” ,.. so I happily paid it with a smile and won’t make that mistake again

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Bro this sounds like a Rookie Mistake,,,,, Lol Cheers mate 🍻 Enjoy every minute

[@Brian-ro9vn]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean it kills me to admit it , but you sir are 100% correct !

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Cheers mate 🍻

[@nigelbaker2717]

Hi Mark! As usual mate, right on the money. I don't know why guy's keep falling for this shit, other than to say, you can't argue with a man with a Hard On. For me, I always go with the five F rule: Find Follow Feel F..k Forget. Pick them up end of the night. No bar fine no lady drink. 1000 short time, please close the door as you leave. 😂😂😂😂😂 You want a long term relationship, don't look for it bar. Try the bank, supermarket etc.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Wise words from a Thai Legend!!!!!

[@davewave36]

I love Christmas in Thailand, I can walk into a bar and say HO HO HO to the first 3 girls I see.

[@user-ly9te3un7k]

Funny mate👍

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Cheers mate 🍻

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Cheers 🍾

[@improvedae86]

It's great that the Doctor is doing the hours of research for the many guys who will just ignore it anyway ! Aussie in Thailand , Greg is yet another one who has been hit by a " Thai Friendly " that is now wanting to take his bar ... How can these blokes not see the signs , especially when there are so many videos on how the con is operated ...

[@shabbos-goy9407]

Yep. He had a chat with poor Brian who was utterly destroyed. Lamb to the slaughter. Then Greg gets his medicine.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's absolutely insane it doesn't matter how many different stories we tell it doesn't matter how much more people here they just keep coming back for more.....

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's sad

[@dennynisevic7848]

Nice one brother, thanks. 😊😊

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for watching and commenting Denny truly appreciate your support

[@johnlowell5905]

Many years ago, I had 2 girls tell me the same hard luck story verbatim on different occasions. The good ones are very good, many have a "cash cow" storyline. I've had a steady non pro for 14-15 years, who probably costs as much since she's had years to work on me.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's so funny that you say that John because I'm actually getting ready to do a video a gentleman sent me a long email talking about his non-professional girlfriend and how much she has cost him over the past year.... Lol

[@Dmanz67]

I met a girl, she's only been in Pattaya 2 weeks and I'm her first customer. She's having trouble with her boss and landlord and she needs to stay in my condo for just a week!? What do you think?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

[@eq2092]

Depends on how cute she is. 🤣

[@improvedae86]

How much baht you charge her for rent ?

[@robertflint2549]

You let her stay of course if she's cute. But just don't believe anything she tells you.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Oh my Yup This is coming in Part III Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for the chuckle

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol

[@raymondturner9441]

The phuket plunge and the pattaya flying club, Same Same but different

[@dirty_hammy]

I prefer the Samui Samurai myself 🤣🤣🤣

[@raymondturner9441]

​@@dirty_hammy😅

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yup It's sad But it happens more than we know

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yikes

[@bucsimon]

I'm not super smart and I don't know if I can survive in the Land Of A Smiles Dr. Mark. I just want to be Happy at the End. Just a basic stuff for me.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's definitely not for the weak bro Just try to listen to the guys that have been here a long time Keep your head about ya and hopefully you'll be ok,,,,, Cheers mate

[@bucsimon]

I hope you have a donation button on your videos because I like send you some gift for a nice lunch or something. You give us a terrific advice on life in general. Cheer

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Hey bro I do have buy me a beer on my home page in the banner That's awesome bro Thanks so much Take care and have a blessed day,,,

[@bucsimon]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean ok. I'll look into it Dr. Mark. Anyway, I love your crashes & burned stories. Just don't think I'm such a negative person. Lol

[@theguynextdoor4978]

I know I'm gonna repeat myself. But be careful as *beep* if she brings along her guy friend, or brother showing up during a date. It could be her thai boyfriend, or husband. And the few Thai women i met on Thaifriendly usually never replied. Those who seemed serious were usually less than attractive. While looks aren't everything, there has to be a basic level of attraction there. If you want serious Thai women, be prepared to reject A LOT of women before finding her. They operate from the same playbook.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yeah I know lots of guys that have told me stories about their short time dates being kicked up afterwards by their husbands or boyfriends.... Thanks for watching and commenting

[@gene_retire]

Good video 🎉

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Thanks I appreciate that Have a blessed day

[@dominichoward4833]

Let's be honest the is a 95% chance a foreigner is dealing with a freelancer. If they was really put together, why would she need you? Assume they are all freelancers or pros and adjust accordingly

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

💯 agree mate

[@dirty_hammy]

Mark, I will never look down at a Thai girl while she's working and say, "oh no, she's a pro" 🤣🤣🤣

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Ok that's funny,,,,,, Cheers 🍻

[@BigTimTravels]

Your forgot to mention the Pnis

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Hilarious Cheers mate 🍻

[@mikechudzinski6629]

If I am hearing this correctly, understanding what you are saying...It's like you are telling us, discouraging us to have relationship(s) with freelancers, ladyboys, massage girls..

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

No Mike I'm not discouraging anybody from having a relationship with anyone to be honest with you all I'm doing is giving you the warning signs that if you honestly believe that this girl is a sweet innocent girl and she's doing this there's a very good chance that you're going to be in for a horrific awakening....

[@dirty_hammy]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@user-ee7dy7bz2z]

For your safety and the channels. I'm pretty sure you can't say the K word. Someone please correct me if I'm wrong but the platform doesn't like that word. You can say delete or disappeared! But that, from what I know n heard through the space, is a bad word =) just trying to look out for you man. Keep up the great work!!

[@dirty_hammy]

Kumquat??

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yeah I'm honestly not too worried about that Look I'm just telling the truth in it If they demonitize s video for that,,,,, so be it Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for the concern

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol

[@Dino_aka_Arknos]

Common sense isn't much common nowadays 😂

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

It's almost non-existent Sadly

[@tman46544]

First filipina I hooked after moving here permanently turned out to be a freelancer. No money was ever mentioned until after we had sex. Big surprise, I went ahead and just paid what she wanted to go away and not have any problems with law in case she brought them into the picture saying I didnt pay her price. I met her at her job, I had no idea so many here have regular jobs and freelance.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

And that's the crazy thing a lot of guys are meeting these girls and they think they have real regular jobs and that they're not Freelancers and then all of a sudden it turns out that after dating them for a couple of weeks or worse months........ Thanks for watching and commenting Cheers mate 🍻

[@tman46544]

@@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean its crazy here like Thailand, Im just glad I always use a condom until I know the girl really well. I hear so many here not using protection smh. I think thats why so many foreigners pay their gf to not work and and stay with them 24/7.

[@Brian-ro9vn]

I definitely can’t fault you on that one brother, when ya meet a girl in a situation like you did its definitely awkward to ask them what it’s gonna cost before you stick it to them

[@donaldcroom1483]

this response may require still another episode on this worthy topic. i’ll entitle it “baby trail”, inspired by a famous movie line, “follow the money”. only this time, it’s follow the babies. i have seen no investigation on this. where not far in angeles city, philippines there is clear evidence. historically a u.s. airbase locally has resulted a significant amer-asian presence there. so what’s the story with thailand? are the kids shuttled away out for rural upbringings where these girls came from? we need facts.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

That's a great question.... I'll see what I can learn Donald Cheers mate 🍻

[@WallStGayBear]

Peeps don't want the truth. It hurts too much. Loosing all your money and become homeless on the beaches of the Philippines is much better.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Seems to be the case sadly..... It's amazing how many videos guys watch in the subject but still believe,,,,,, But she's different,,,,, Thanks for watching and commenting

[@areyouexp4]

im a thai freindly jedi 555555

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol Cheers mate 🍻

[@notinservice3724]

a girl (52) asked me for a new car, after only 3 dates, non physical as she was a good girl 555

[@improvedae86]

Did you buy her a toy one ? Or did she actually specify a actual car ....🤣

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Crazy huh!!!

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yeah I'm not surprised or shocked,,,,.not at all It's insane how quick they are to ask,,,,, Cheers mate 🍻 Thanks for watching and commenting

[@dirty_hammy]

I wouldn't mind getting her matchbox car. There's some beautiful ones out there... at toys R us

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

According to himself, every guy is a former high income ladies man

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

???? According to who? Certainly not me,,,,,

[@b-41subject57]

Are there alot of good looking LB there? I dont want an ugly one or one i can tell its one from looking at her.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Quite honestly most of the unbelievably gorgeous women here are not women at all they're actually ladyboys.... Hope that helps Cheers 🥂

[@WallStGayBear]

You are so savage.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I'm just honest I don't sugarcoat anything... Thanks for watching and commenting

[@singas2854]

You only get your bank drain if you give away the PIN number Say No! 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@eq2092]

This

[@singas2854]

@@eq2092 that’s right It is this ! woman want a man that can say NO and take charge in life If they don’t take no for an answer walk it’s very simple The other side is no woman want a broke looser so you need to test walk slow and be sure in the end it’s quite easy to do I mean get a grip sex is easy to get Grow some balls men don’t wreck your self Or are you losers in your home country as well 🙀

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

I wish that was the truth but I guess it's semantics,,,,, one way or another they're getting guys life savings,,,,,

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

That's a pretty harsh judgement But let's go with it Yes alot of the guys that come here have had trouble meeting women or they're just tired of being treated the shit by women Amd they women here lol,,,,, Try am saying no to them and see how long they stay Lol Give it a shot and let me know Cheers mate 🍻

[@royroy7814]

simps

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Not all are simps.....

[@dirty_hammy]

Simpson?? OJ ???? Now that's a gentleman

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol That's true

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Lol

[@christianpatton9364]

My favourite story the girls tell is the one about going to the temple for a week for some Buddhist retreat so they can’t communicate for a week , sorry darling. This means another customer is in town for a week and they don’t want you calling.

[@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean]

Yeah sadly this is true Know guys that have been through it Sucks Cheers mate 🍻