5 Traits Of A High Value Man | Courtney Ryan

[@andrewpizzino2514]

“The most important relationship you have is with yourself”. Absolutely!

[@redpillpharmacy6877]

A total lie.

[@tommygun5038]

Yes because it's sets the foundation for everything else.

[@redpillpharmacy6877]

@@tommygun5038 Rather, it sets the foundation for total narcissism.

[@tommygun5038]

@@redpillpharmacy6877 ...I know what you're talking about but this isn't what it means. It means having your shit together first. Not behaving like a narcissist.

[@redpillpharmacy6877]

@@tommygun5038 Incorrect. “The most important relationship you have is with yourself” is a shameless declaration of total narcissism, indeed of toxic solipsism, and thus-like tattoos-an indication of total conformity with today’s shameless depravity.

[@davidkonevky7372]

The best advice I've ever gotten is that getting a relationship is not a chasing game, you have to improve yourself first, and then you attract more people. Dating in a way is a form of self-improvement

[@CruceEntertainment]

Usually this means getting into good physical shape.

[@Bennysol]

@@CruceEntertainment combo of that and making big money

[@uqs57bju]

@@Bennysol confidence trumps both of them. They are still important but confidence is where it's at.

[@cosmicentity1520]

​@@Bennysolyeah cause women only chase millionaires

[@DeepScubaDiver]

A high value woman in my opinion is not manipulative, has her shit straight(is not looking to be saved), takes care of herself, is comfortable in her own shoes, is successful at what she does and always learning new things especially ones that challenge her. Oo man! Let me know when she walks in. 👍

[@f1romero969]

A high valué woman is a woman who can direct a governors dinner party, knows how to socialize in high class, increases your business through her networking, helping out (knowing your business when to obtain more supplies, having all your staff ready for something, knowing when to inform you of your stock etc...) wants you to succeed and will push you towards it. Submissive. Beautiful. Smart (Not a 30 plus yr old PHD SmArT)

[@palmer3977]

@@f1romero969 A quality woman wouldn't mix with the likes of governors, she would realise what they are.

[@bryanlloyd6024]

@@f1romero969High value men don't want submissive women.

[@Bxconnect]

@@bryanlloyd6024 You’re talking about beta male providers.

[@bryanlloyd6024]

@@Bxconnect It doesn't have to be either/or. High value men as defined here can be a mix of alpha, beta, and whatever else.

[@seanodonnell429]

It’s so refreshing to hear a list of traits that are actually within our control.

[@user-pm8uc5dc3e]

Shame they dont matter to 90% of modern women

[@Carlos-qe4ny]

(R) have to work on not being habitual Liars😢

[@timnichols7760]

Putting yourself first is so important. I'm 55 and it took me many years to truly understand that. The fact that you really "get it" at your age is impressive. Making sure that I'm the best version of myself allows me to be the best employee, friend, partner, to others.

[@pbhpbh1379]

@Tim Nichols Yes I agree to a degree. I’m the same age and stage in life. It leads to stepping up and being a role model for your children, grandchildren etc. A wise man once told me, “live so you’ll be missed when your time has come”. Putting yourself first is a fine balance. Sometimes you have to put others first. I suppose that is the challenge.

[@db4419]

@@pbhpbh1379 Great that you added that, that sometimes you DO need to put others first. Part of being exactly this kind of man, I would think.

[@insiderinside1905]

I would substitute her Self care with achieving difficult things. If you see a woman that you think is out of your league, put that negative energy into working your plan. If a woman rejects you. Don’t call her a bitch; nope. Work your plan. Bethe man you intend to be, and eventually, she would be lucky to date you. Note that the essential skill is this delayed gratification. Blesss you dudes as you strive.

[@briannyob7799]

I use the airplane analogy. In case of an emergency, put your mask on first. You can't save others if you haven't saved yourself.

[@Mr_Fu_Manchu]

Not neglecting yourself and putting yourself first are two different things. People which I care and love are coming for me thirst. I was never disappointed or regretful.

[@martinluzcruz]

5 Traits Of A High Value Man | Courtney Ryan 0:55 #1 Authenticity 3:55 #2 Emotional Intelligence 5:37 #3 Self Love / Care 7:19 #4 Integrity 8:36 #5 Always Learning Didn't realize you put Chapters in the "Show more" Key moments, Courtney! I didn't see chapters when hovering over the timeline. Really appreciate timestamps since it makes the video so much easier to watch. Great to see you doing it in your newer uploads!

[@coryames1170]

Like the use of Keanu Reeves in the thumbnail. If anyone is high value its him. One of the most humble men in existence despite his fame.

[@gregthompson9434]

Keanu a modern MGTOW

[@mothafraker]

He's one of my favorite celebrities. He does the right things for the right reasons. He acts with intention. Not for attention.

[@wellyforpm]

That's cause he's canadian......

[@WeknowhoUR]

But he needs to learn how to act!

[@dennisjr77]

Keanu is sharpened by the spear of pain, lost ALOT in his life! Through it all, he stays humble, and kind!👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@prashantrathod2001]

1. Authenticity 2. Emotionally Intelligent 3. Self love/ Care 4. Always Learning Thanks you so much ❤️

[@Sergio_Loureiro]

Integrity?

[@alvoefc801]

But at the same time remember to not giv a shit

[@chazMarch]

@@alvoefc801 I’ve heard that too. It’s kinda sad that we have to play games

[@rajadavid2064]

1. Authenticity 2. Emotionally Intelligent 3. self love 4. integrity 5. always learning

[@VideoGram13]

5. MONEY

[@777soul56]

Authenticity Emotional Intelligence Self Love and Care Integrity Always Learning Applies to everyone I will add compassion and wisdom to round it out.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Focusing on self-reliance, respect for others, and continuous self-improvement provides a solid foundation for becoming the best version of yourself.*

[@alexmontalvolarealtor]

"The most important relationship you will ever have is not with your mom, your friends. It's with yourself!! Love this quote.

[@soapbox187]

The relationship you have with yourself is directly dependent on the relationship you had with your mom or dad as they are the really template to which you compare any other man and women for the rest of your life. Obviously, this isn't a conscious decision but a subtle subconscious decision stemming from past trauma and coping mechanisms. Determine what attachment style you are first, and then you can improve your relationships.

[@foamige]

This is a really valuable lesson for both genders. More people should follow these steps before judging other people.

[@fubarmodelyard1392]

Never realized I fit into a high value position. A high value woman is intelligent, takes care of herself, can make decisions on her own, supportive, has a sense of humor, doesn't have her eyes glued to a screen, hears what you say and not what she thinks you said, wait, I'm starting to rant.

[@dennisjr77]

The key to both sexes being “high Value,” is SELF AWARENESS AND DOING THE WORK FOR SELF GROWTH AND IMPROVEMENT!!!

[@XPuntar]

"Know thyself" It was for this reason why this was written at the entrance at the Oracle in Delphi!

[@kentjohnson873]

In other words, women don't even try

[@toddjohnson271]

No....Women need to preserve. If they are promiscuous there is no growth or improvement with the opposite gender.

[@coolti44]

To the younger guys on this thread...continue to work hard in your career and life these 5 traits, if you don't have them all, will come with time, growth, and majority. I'm an old dude and these videos are always an interested social study for me. There's a bunch of freedom in doing what you love and want regardless of what people think. Great traits to have...thanks!

[@Jay_0605]

Thank you

[@David-ot9tr]

And you likely will remain single but that is okay, too.

[@hastensavoir7782]

@@David-ot9tr why?

[@figglyawes1122]

@@David-ot9tr he didn’t say he was single

[@vitaminwater6235]

Speak that og

[@RYXPfan]

The reason I keep watching Courtney’s videos is because she strikes me as way more aware and understanding of a lot of these underlying characteristics. Money CAN be an indicator of success and high value, but what really counts is authenticity and an absolute lack of neediness. Real confidence (not performance) attracts women and strengthens relationships with men as well.

[@BespokeBandit]

Your upload rate lately is commendable

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! ❤️

[@rosskaraba2118]

This is one of the most important lessons a father can teach his son. It goes way beyond just the dating scene. Thank you

[@JitinMisra]

I remember being younger and looking for someone traditional values , but being hesitant Bc it’s not popular , eventually I didn’t care and was super blunt since I didn’t want anyone otherwise , and guess what , it worked ! I found what I wanted .

[@markrcca5329]

That makes sense. I's a numbers game - being super blunt let you filter out a lot of women who were unsuitable to you, quickly.

[@MessyRTK]

Video summary: 1. Authenticity - not worried about people pleasing or what people think about him 1:15 2. Emotional intelligence - very self aware, empathetic and regulate emotions 3:57 3. Self love/self care - like yourself, taking care of your mental health 5:43 4. Integrity - what you do when no one else is watching, be a good man. Don't lie/manipulate, clear intentions 7:21 5. Always learning - don't think you know everything and always be willing to grow. 8:43

[@shanel9939]

You're teaching me the things I never learned growing up. 30 years later I finally understand why I have always met the wrong women. Thank you Courtney. ♥️✌️🇨🇦

[@nderitupaul3446]

I read somewhere that when the student is ready, the teacher appears. I have recently been having questions about these things and just like that I found this channel. Thank you Courtney for the things you share with us.

[@ProblematicHipHop]

"Best relationship you could ever have is with yourself" well ain't that the TRUTH

[@redpillpharmacy6877]

No, in fact it’s a diabolical lie.

[@sinistergrinch]

Beside your relationship with Jesus, I would agree!

[@lalosalamanca8574]

Dear courtney: I appreciate everything you have done for you saved my life.

[@SSGTA440]

You should discuss the rarest male characteristic of all, that of the Sigma male. Otherwise, a very good analysis. Well done.

[@Icureditwithmybrain]

I agree, now to clone myself!

[@MrBullet888]

Always been a believer in putting yourself 1st and doing whatever it takes to make yourself feel happy. I recently dumped ALOT of people from my life as I started seeing them for who they really are. I always kind of knew but tried to see past things.

[@julianrivera1973]

I just got out of a long term relationship; this is exactly what I needed to know what I should work on.

[@DeniDouetts]

You look like a real counselor, not like a simple youtuber trying to convince ppl about your content. I have been watching contents like yours for a long time and the way you deliver yours is the best I have found so far. Thanks for your work and congratulations for that.

[@admirbarucija2018]

I just got up and the best way to start off my Saturday is by watching this video! ☺️

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yay! Enjoy 🥰

[@admirbarucija2018]

@@CourtneyRyan Thank you so much! 🥰

[@RijkarAlles]

This video is so amazing for someone going through the phase where they're entering manhood. Being given direction is so important and a lot of guys don't really get that

[@joeofcourse]

An insecure woman is the worst. She'll muster up enough confidence to get you in a relationship, but then the flood gates open

[@Diesel-le5fx]

FACTS!

[@joeofcourse]

@雷锋Lei Feng it's a reference to a dame holding water from a storm. As soon as she feels comfortable around you, she won't hold back her problems anymore and you will be the one drowning

[@russ9921]

And it’ll cost you to get rid of her too. And then she’ll say she should have got even more!

[@qjtvaddict]

I hate insecure trash

[@TheEliminator1992]

Yeah. Then she freaks out when she realizes she can't match her man's higher value, comes up with an excuse to call off the relationship then leaves. Then the cycle repeats due to her constant desire for validation, all thanks to social media and her incapability to make peace with herself. It's heartbreaking. And it's always the men that she engages relationships with that always pay the price for her mistakes because she still lives in the past. I just experienced it first hand. It's horrible.

[@jamesquinton29]

What I had gathered from this is you can't believe the negativity in your life. Even when it comes from loved ones who are just trying to "protect" you. You have to remain true to YOURSELF and to not allow yourself to become lost. I know this to be true now because I've gone through precisely that.

[@shiva112]

You just keep droppin vid after vid. Much respect.

[@banksterkid5930]

Dude you joined 15 years ago😮😲 much respect

[@max8m1]

Great video! In my opinion a high value woman is honest, confidently feminine without being overly sexual, doesn't take herself or life too seriously and isn't constantly looking for outside validation (has her own deeply held opinions, not addicted to social media, etc.)

[@Invaldi]

Last year I totally burned out by pleasing people, since then I'm visiting a therapist and slowly having a different view on myself and life.. And videos like these help me stay on the right path.

[@antoniustsai]

Thanks!

[@georgeorozco4970]

High value woman, is you! well spoken, not a ton of make up, outstanding charming personality. Enchanting voice! high value woman are extinct!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Awww thank you so much 🥰

[@danielchavez506]

@@CourtneyRyan man need to be more real, the same for woman wearing too much makeup hides their true real.

[@eddiehogg1679]

I fully agree with you George Orozco

[@raymeester7883]

George are you a programmer?

[@georgeorozco4970]

@@raymeester7883 No I am a hotelier. I programed back in the days. have you hear of Pascal, C. I was teaching those classic old G. Languages. before windows.

[@michaelavalos3793]

Courtney, I just wanted to say "Thank You" so much for the content you put out to help us guys who sometimes struggle with our own identities. Its so nice to hear someone that is committed to helping men achieve their full potential in life.

[@hannaassaad5044]

How i view a high quality woman : simplicity in everything(clothing, life in general, etc) , modesty, good manners, having similar values to mine, willingness to commit to long term and possibly marriage

[@balwgar92]

I've only met one like that my whole life, but throw in her being attracted to you and you being physically attracted to them as well, astronomical odds

[@bozo1875]

You missed submissiveness

[@hannaassaad5044]

@Dan Swildens are you addressing me.?

[@balwgar92]

@Dan Swildens there's quite a large gap between what you're describing, and someone who's main joy in life is amassing a large horde of material possessions at someone else's expense while generally being selfish and ungrateful to those around them.

[@Tamara_rs45]

@Dan Swildens Your problem is that you can't look at the women as a whole. You take one characteristic and make it as the whole personallity is based only on that - "the nature" girl, " the materialistic " girl, "the smart" girl... Man are never described like that. The world teaches us to be pretty and to not ask questions, so that we can be stuck with dudes like you that are making the decisions for ouselves just because you are a provider. That's the main fear of modern woman. :)

[@jakejacobs4411]

I've gotta say as a guy you speak some seriously good stuff. Enjoying yourself is so satisfying and so attractive 😌

[@123sanoon]

Good list actually. I want to grow into high value man. Authenticity, integrity, and emotional intelligence are very high qualities of a men.

[@justindivito1279]

Had a conversation last night with some friends about how Keanu is the ultimate man. Love the thumbnail for the video. Another great video as well. I am absolutely loving the content. Throw the headphones in and workout listening.

[@nikokartvel]

"...especially in today's society, where if you have a different opinion, everyone tries to cancel you." Lol that is spot on!

[@mrsimo7144]

Thank you for this. With a new lady in 13 years of an abusive one. I shall re-adjust and apply myself correctly. Love to you all. From the UK

[@sohammookherjee9405]

Came across your channel recently. You put across your point of view/perspective in a very calm, clear, logical and honest way. I am an introvert as well, so your suggestions seem more practical and honest to me. Subscribed to your channel. You should have more subscribers definitely.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Aww I love to hear that. Thank you so much, glad you’re here! 🥰

[@allanrobertcordero1567]

ive watched so many but youre content makes me realized whats needs to be fix they always saying im cute to friendly have the carrisma but whenni start dating in turns into turnmoil and thats me ending on the friends zone

[@allanrobertcordero1567]

stop validating!!!!!!

[@DeucesThreadway]

I was searching for a video like this. The options were many. Once I saw the KZbin channel, I knew I'm at the right place

[@pdavidndang9780]

I love how the video is about high-value men but reflects so much about who Courtney really is. A low-value women would never come any close to mentioning anything about honesty, integrity, authenticity or emotional intelligence. As much as the video tells what a high-valued men should be, it also tells so much about who Courtney really is. And that's amazing. Keep posting Courtney 👍😊 you're making a difference...😊❤

[@tkleo2006]

I got to know a girl for a few weeks. She said basically she was looking for all these things but her actions spoke louder than words; in her heart, she wanted something else.

[@John-ih7gp]

This is the secondary list. The real test will first be with Looks, Money, Status. This is the list if you plan on staying in a long term relationship for a number of years. If you have nothing going for you on the first list, you will never be considered high value to Women. It doesn't matter how much integrity and authenticity you have a 5'-4" and making 50k a year. She wont even bat on eye. Remember, if you are famous, this secondary list can be disregarded.

[@dreambeliever3652]

@@John-ih7gp yes. I said the same. Today’s society has made a bunch of disrespectful spoiled children

[@garyprieto3731]

@@John-ih7gp Money speaks louder than words -Me.

[@streetcrypto1218]

SImp

[@freewaybullit]

I'm happily married but your chanell has helped me be more attractive to my wife. I'm learning so much about how women think, what they need and what attracts them about men. Thank you so much. Its like I started dating all over again.

[@qnelson1000]

Great advice Courtney. I'm Quinn, a Doctoral student in Psychology who had issues with self-worth in the past. It is nice to see that high-value is not a simply of what material wealth someone has. Keep up the good work and I'll keep watching!

[@rippedup4546]

you are such a nice guy.

[@davidbowman2035]

How is the doctorate going? Are you now a Dr?

[@robertsnellgrove2664]

Wow Courtney your intuitive and compassionate nature is on another level which is why your content is authentic and spot on. You being here makes the world a better place. 🤗

[@ericv5435]

Looking forward to the video you're going to do about achieving self love. That's something I've struggled with my whole life and really need to change that mindset.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I think a lot of us struggle with that. I’ve been there too. Stay tuned!

[@DravenX37]

Bro, read “The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem”. Can’t remember the author, but Google it. It helped me a LOT.

[@Luiz-yj2po]

I don’t think this is something you can fix just watching KZbin videos bro... you should try a psychologist

[@ericv5435]

@@Luiz-yj2po doing that currently and it's not helping

[@NechamaGluck]

@@ericv5435 def read the 6 pillars. It was incredibly illuminating for me as well. It didnt "fix" everything, but it helped me understand what needed fixing and how to do it. Edit to add: the author is Nathaniel Brandon

[@makatkplt]

Great list and I’ve strived for each. You really can’t fail following this list. One thing I’d like to add is a man should want these listed for himself and only himself without the results of getting a woman. A good woman will be a byproduct of his behavior(s). Thanks Courtney

[@verbalkint3447]

“Relationship with yourself”. So undoubtedly true

[@yamazaheer6966]

I used to be a people pleaser and I felt like I needed a validation from everyone, and now that I look back, I was torturing myself. I realized that no one cares about me more than myself so why not take care of myself first

[@motionmundo4982]

Goodpoint

[@rjmacready8830]

Women's qualities I like: intelligence, humor, kindness, a mission in life outside of me, and a flat tummy.

[@RonaldRol]

I'm crying while watching this video. This all is what I learned the past year about myself after a though breakup. I didn't have any of this but now, one year later, I start to feel and do the things described in the video. Thank you Courtney

[@onthecouchwithdonatodavis9569]

Same here bro…..same here

[@raakin-at]

This is honestly such a great self-improvement channel

[@Cary_Shultz]

Boundaries and Authenticity are 100% - for me - the key. I was always the "yes" guy. My colleagues knew that if they presented the issue in a certain way that I would take it off their plate (with no care in the world as to what I had ALREADY on my plate). That has changed. Well, is changing. I am not perfect. Authenticity - aka, your relationship with YOU - is very important as well. What does your internal dialogue look like? Mine is not always so great. But....working on that. If someone speaks unkindly to themselves....well, there is work to do. As always, Courtney, you are killing it. Job well done.

[@arande3]

This is so healthy and emotionally intelligent. You must have a certification in therapy or something.

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

@@Redouku yes, she is one of the VERY few ladies who can not only stand to see other people shine nexto her but even INSPIRES them to. She embodies source energy.

[@defixon]

I follow a lot of red pill content, and I must say, the way you deliver your insights on these topics comes off much more genuine compared to what other people (men) are putting out there.

[@jmwoods190]

Evaluating myself, I'm alright with authenticity(except when I fear I might offend people), emotional intelligence, integrity & always being open to learning (but of course there's always room for improvement), I think my self love/care is the area I need to work on, as I commit too much in life and am a bit short when it comes to taking care of myself!

[@vincentybarra979]

I really like your presentation and how balanced your points are ..just wanted to say thanks and how refreshing it is to hear a woman's perspective that's friendly to men.

[@cred5589]

Really needed this one today. A good reminder to pursue and ensure self-appreciation and love, and become the man we want to be for ourselves. This last year has really affected my confidence and cut my voice off. So I'm very grateful for the video 🤘

[@meganstrong6629]

Wow I am so grateful that I have come across your channel! So sick and tired of all the toxic games and advice! Your channel is extremely refreshing! Thank you Courtney💓

[@mrblonde7462]

I just luuuuuurve my own company. I’ve been single two years and I’ve never been so happy.

[@dreambeliever3652]

Very good video. Ty If I had to sum up with 3 major traits of a high value woman: 1) communication and commit to what’s been put on the table instead of absolutely tossing it all to the wind, the following day. 2) Honesty: being able to look in the mirror, like we all must, and say.... you know what?, I’m falling short here badly 3) Be a team player: and let’s grab the bull by the horns together, not having to drag the other like an anchor. 4... BONUS: Actually having the ability to see that what you’re doing is lying, deceiving, abusing the kids minds, hoarding, leaving food and dishes all over the house, and blaming the kids for it all. That’s a good start. Anyhow...... good luck finding these high value woman in today’s society. Great video by the way. If you are these things... he’s one lucky guy.

[@adrianmaycroft8406]

I think sometimes being a decent guy gets mistaken as a nice guy .. I’m decent but not a nice simp guy .... love that colour blue btw Courtney , really suits you x

[@nathanhobday7511]

I feel like you just contradicted your self.

[@Sesgua]

Wow! That made me feel like you just dusted off my shoulders and straightened my collar and said, "there, now you're ready." Thank you for the brilliant insights.

[@startonix3613]

40 Traits of a High-Value Man: Leader of Men Protector/Provider of loved ones Healthy emotional programming. Socially intelligent Makes proactive moves socially Confidant on approaching a stranger Able to interact comfortably Confidant expressing feelings Simple to understand Impervious to the influence of others Feels emotions strongly Dependable, stable, consistent behavior Feels good emotions: Happy, smiling, laughing, playful Always looking for fun and excitement Spreads good feelings to others Unreactive/drama free Unaffected by negativity Doesn't have an agenda, never forces anything Never tries to impress Never needy, clingy, or hovering Willingness to walk away from a situation he doesn't like Dances to the music In his own headspace Doesn't need validation/approval Creative expression through art Unconditional, non-judgemental Lack of jealousy Magnificant beliefs and principles Adventurous Masculine Is emotionally strong/has thick skin Is sincere and kind Has lots of ambition and is industrious Risk-taker, winner Love, Commitment, Passion Considerate and has class Practices self-discipline Never brags about anything Screens with high standards Has good social alignments/friends A girl's hotness is no big deal to him

[@weirdchannel4428]

bro you should've added 900 more traits or even like 3500 facts more thats way too less because it ain't easy to become like that

[@startonix3613]

@@weirdchannel4428 Try your best, a bunch of those traits should come naturally and you can work on whatever traits you want, you don't have to do all of those things, I certainly don't.

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

Hey bro, I LOVE your points. :=) You seem to help people a lot with this but if you also include how they can get there, you can even help them even more ;)

[@startonix3613]

@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Thanks for the feedback. Some of the things mentioned do require a deeper explanation, maybe I'll make a series of KZbin videos on it. A lot of those traits are "inner game" or personality traits a person adopts for himself. Stuff like: Never brags, sincere/kindness, lack of jealously, in your own headspace... all that stuff can be achieved by simple meditation/reflection and just choosing to start behaving that way. Think, reflect, then start being that way. Some things are harder to do than others. I used to find it very difficult to approach a beautiful girl in the past, but I've slowly chipped away and worked on it and I am much more comfortable talking to random girls now. I don't do everything on this list but look back at it and work on things I need to improve on.

[@Marcopromao]

You are a good example of a high value girl! As a mental coach it's delightful to watch your videos.

[@stevecarter1673]

Maybe I can define what a high value woman is better yet let me share an example, Courtney Ryan is a high value, classy, example of excellence. Much love to you Courtney ❤

[@tiedngag]

I just found this channel and Courtney is awesome. I think you have to love yourself first, before you can love someone else.

[@rahul2050ism]

Keanu reeves in thumbnail got my attention. This guy is a legend 🔥🔥💯🙏🏼

[@MrDanielWP]

Keanu is 6ft tall, rich, famous, in good shape, he plays action roles and trains for them, and he is quiet/gentle... so, people don't really know him and he can be what they imagine him to be. He is every woman's dream man.

[@wellyforpm]

Because he's canadian.

[@shuxiongbao2698]

High value women - mature mind-set (no drama Queen / jealous type that threatens girls around you), knows what she wants from the relationship & willing to put some effort into making it happens. Someone cheers you up & wants to hang out with you while respecting your boundaries (work / hobbies ... Etc).

[@denisgama7562]

Wow, Courtney. Thank you so much for this. I remember I had suggested this theme some time ago. I'm really glad you have done that.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Happy to do it! 🥰

[@aj0982]

Love your authenticity in relationships. Relationship is better when both giving and receiving together.

[@whitesoxrules]

Thank you for doing this. I know it takes time and effort for you to do this. Deeply appreciated. 🙌🏽

[@CourtneyRyan]

Happy to do it! ❤️

[@tamanousJP]

I love how this channel is as much as it is about improving yourself as a man as it is about techniques to interact with women.

[@calebray4168]

Great video! I just realized I need to be better at setting boundaries and administering heavy doses of self love. Always been trying to people please and felt guilty whenever thinking about myself; thank you for your invaluable wisdom 🙏🏽.

[@dennispacelli1007]

Don't be hard on yourself, go softly

[@joelombrdo]

You bring up a great point. Having a lot of money doesn't make you high value BUT a lot of women will see you as high value.

[@altonfernandes2664]

Just a suggestion, you can make a video on simple easy dishes every man must know to cook. I personally feel every man must know to cook at least a few dishes as it is a survival skill and attractive too. I AM LEARNING MYSELF

[@Ericj3k]

Here let me help you...MEAT...that’s it 💪🏽

[@bozo1875]

Dude anyone can cook, just watch a KZbin video. The problem is that these feminists suggest men should cook, while working 8-7 jobs

[@robertmaxa6631]

Cook? Don't need to anymore, this is what KD, tv dinners, and Chef Boyardee are for.

[@dontheador6649]

Putting yourself first Is definitely a big one imo. It's reassuring to know that you and other people out there understand that. Another great video! Thank you @Courtney Ryan

[@clauaome25]

A woman here trying to learn more about male psychology. Dear men, you guys rock!

[@EncourageLegacy]

Love me a fine lady in faith. ✝️

[@ryann7785]

By far the best and most inspiring video you have uploaded. Thank you Courtney for the resources you've provided me with to be the absolute best man I can be.

[@mrlennon4869]

emotional intelligence hit a cord with me in this video, everything else is ok

[@castlerc]

Am glad you mentioned integrity. I think people with that trait will live a more fulfilled and actualized life. I’ve personally known people with little to no integrity pass away, karma is definitely something to consider. I’ve watched a few of your videos now and I think your authentic and add value. Congrats, keep up the great work 👍

[@Cipher_X_x]

Phenomenal video, well thought out, articulated in a concise and meaningful manner. Bravo

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you 🥰

[@tedmcgavran5737]

"Belief in doing hard things". Nailed. It!

[@Shah-of-the-Shinebox]

A man who does the dishes after dinner is of high value as well.

[@Yusheesan]

Productive, intelligent, confident, good father/husband, ethical, level headed, empathetic

[@thochaos13]

I've been achieving self-love a lot since my girlfriend left me.

[@savvasperisanidis]

Outstanding advise and insight so says a 51 year old hlèpa, married most happily 25 years with 4 grown children. Brilliant Courtney and thank you

[@globalc3849]

High value women: - fit, slim, and takes great consistent care of her body - peaceful and feminine energy (NOT a Feminist!!!) - open minded and interested and asks a lot of questions - humble and not vain and obsessed with her looks taking IG selfies and posting them all day - believes in adding value to the world instead of just being a taker and entitled - genuine, and authentic and non-manipulative and doesn't play games or mind games - barely wears any make up and does not have fake eye lashes, boobs, or nails. Natural beauty - low sexual partner count and respects her body as being sacred - classy and elegant (this is a super rare one in 2021) - well thought out and not just a hedonistic emotional ostrich jumping from one impulse to the next - has a few close girl friends and has great relationships with them. Doesn't hang out with tons of guys or her ex boyfriends - willing to put her phone away and be fully present during a conversation - not on tinder and all the other dating sites.

[@Ballzin736]

I think authenticity is so hard because many of us struggle to accept who we are as people; It s a long hard work to change it but I go to therapy and I think it s worth it.

[@nef_226]

High value woman -unconditional love -hardworking -affectionate -loves to work as a couple - not a feminist

[@IsaacBlencowe]

You're doing fantastic work Courtney. It's so needed in the world right now. There are so many lost men. And poor advice. Keep doing what you're doing 🙏

[@dpstrial]

A high-value man is a sigma male. This type includes having a take-it-or-leave-it attitude to women.

[@elimurphy6212]

My parents are teachers too lol… love learning from you as your knowledge is extensive and real af

[@Scarpia9111]

Everyone born under the sun is high value and not the things that you obtain makes he or she "high value" What a sick world we live in

[@Northman1963]

So true!

[@newcreationjeremiah6347]

Of many relation coaching videos, I like yours the best! I value character, integrity, uphold dignity of attractive women, all the while focus my personal growth, as a genuine Nice guy, rather being a simps (whom I was for 3 months). Thanks Courtney!

[@necromancer0616]

TAKE NOTES GUYS: These guys are what only 2% of men are in the world. Because most of us don't meet these standards minus the first thing she said.

[@lindsey607]

Love this gal, she clearly gets it. A credit to her generation, you can be sure.