5 Tricks To STOP Being Shy In ANY Situation! (INSTANT Confidence)

[@waterblonk]

I don't talk to people because I have no social skills. And I have no social skills because I don't talk to people.

[@FeelinHazey16]

waterblonk let me guess and when u do eventually start talking u embarrass urself?

[@m.m.i.9586]

I know it sounds silly, but if you read books on manners and social skills, it really helps. I highly recommend anything by Judith Martin (she's got a sense of humor). In and among instructions about excusing yourself from events or sending thank-you notes, there is practical, helpful advice for really awkward social situations.

[@droptak]

You don't need social skills to start talking to people

[@Jayant_klkrni]

Same loop bruv

[@Kingwil497]

Dude, literally just go out there and find someone that relates to you.

[@sonnydong3726]

I have acne,uneven teeth, and low income. I am not the tallest or the best looking person, but I have my confidence and sense of fashion; confidence helped me in my social life and women. Life is to short to be shy. Seize the moment and just go for the girl you want. The worst she can say is no, then you can move on.

[@HeedAndSucceed]

son dong how did you stop being shy?

[@sonnydong3726]

HeedAndSucceed hope you are doing well. One of the thing that helps me to overcome my shyness is to understand that no matter what a person does or how much they change, life will basically stay the same, like "haters will always hate". With that mentality, I just approach life by being myself. Another aspect is that you are unique, even though you might think you're boring, but in reality you are not. Share who you are with someone. Some will walk away some will stay, those who does stay are the ones worth keeping.

[@pakipashtunmafia6924]

son dong much respect brother fr u talk some sense right there

[@prince_sach50]

Tbh just dress well, look and groom yourself the best you can, and Have CONFIDENCE and Be yourself and I think 99.9% of guys can get a girl...

[@Dovehkis]

Bro ik a guy way worse then how you depict yourself that got with a really good looking girl, just got to work with what you have and just like alpha said if you can better yourself in some way to boost yourself up go for it !

[@reacttv219]

Each like will increase your confidence level give it a shot guys...

[@mohitbhatt5868]

Shi h londa

[@reacttv219]

@@mohitbhatt5868 arre thnks bhai

[@reacttv219]

@@mohitbhatt5868 tune msg na kiya hota to pta na chlta kitne likes mil gye the meko

[@mohitbhatt5868]

Ab khush h na bhai😅

[@reacttv219]

@@mohitbhatt5868 bahot yr😂👍

[@danielguzman9907]

Being 17, I've been shy almost all my life and life sucked. Plus, as I was getting older (middle-high school), I was extremely lonely and also extremely insecure about my body. I had terrible teeth that I needed braces (and it's extremely worth it, still have them on), I have gyno (moobs) and still do (not as bad since my testosterone has grown due to puberty and working out), and my whole body was out of shape (very skinny fat and worked out to fix it and still a lot more room for improvement). I had to first battle my insecurities and as well as embracing them for the time being. However, what made me break out of my bubble was just being more open. No one else can do it for you. Of course, one has to have some confidence in themself first as the foundation of breaking out of that damn bubble, but just being more open is what sets everything apart. As I reached junior year of high school, as much as I didn't want to talk, I realized that I need to change and that there's no other option. I did this by just gathering with people I'm comfortable with and cracked a joke (and it has to be funny and not out of place or else you've just fucked up). The crazy thing is that just like what Alpha said, now those people started talking to me more often and now those 3 guys are my friends. As the year progressed, I created social media accounts (don't really talk to anyone that much there since I'm a born introvert), especially since almost everyone st school had Snapchat and I was one of the only few people without one. I've also talk to way more people and rarely feel like an introvert anymore. Of course I'm still fairly anti-social and an introvert since I need some "me time" and don't really party, but all that has changed in the past year ultimately change my life for the better. To anyone out there, don't wait like how many people, such as myself, did for some "miracle" to happen, or that someone can make you not shy. Only YOU can change that and the sooner, the better. I call myself lucky since I've realized that I needed to change pretty early in my life, and as one gets older, the more stubborn people become. Being shy sucks ass since you aren't living life to the fullest. I do wish I wish that I lived my high school years to the fullest because I did miss out on so many opportunities just for being shy, but now I'm looking foward to college and upcoming years. What's a better time to break the bubble than now?

[@sixteen02]

Wow, thats a huuge motivation 🙏 ty

[@ugaming5893]

Great comment and I respect you

[@rojayrg8715]

Good advice bro

[@PortugalMatt]

Thanks for the advice man, I'm 17 also and I think that from now on I'll open up to people more often

[@rockybutts3360]

Amazing story, I along with many can relate to what you were/ still are going through. This was very motivating and up-lifting to read, thank you for sharing your story!

[@sunilsigar3145]

1. Identify your insecurities 2. Pep talk , I'm awesome I'm great you are great 3. Smile and give a compliment 4. Push out of your comfort zone on daily basis, practice it, the more you do it

[@r011ing_thunder6]

I don't want to compliment a dude on what he's wearing because I think that's kinda gay.

[@Ragtime_Tony]

Some heros dont wear capes

[@existence.5806]

@@r011ing_thunder6 lol

[@r011ing_thunder6]

@@Jan7kowa11 okay sweet cheeks.

[@ChrisCaldwellO66]

@@r011ing_thunder6 thats an insecurity! If you are secure in your sexuality, you should have no problem complimenting another man! And its really immature to think that way and not attractive to anyone.

[@doruvictoru767]

I love it when you upload when I've got studying to do :)

[@CanalDoFilipe_]

Kamikaze 0150 same here

[@afonsolucas2219]

I hate to admit it, but it's also my case although I did do half of my work so I guess I'm ahead of you two... Whatever you're studying.

[@haider5932]

OMFGGGG/......I GT A BIO TEST TOMMORW

[@rageblade7833]

Im subscribed to 62 channels -_-

[@ricitosdecobre__]

Kamikaze 0150 hahahahaha my mum has just teased me for not leaving my phone and doind my homework lmao

[@shintaromidorima3703]

I'm shy in real life but when it comes to online I'm fine.

[@RapIsDrug]

It's way easier being confident online. There is no actual person in front of you

[@MossyAdventurer]

Whiskey Barrel already know that

[@jaysontatum8788]

why is it the opposite for me lmao

[@slimecade2071]

Same

[@unreleasedhiphopking5066]

Yep

[@jordanl2317]

I'm insecure that the people I'm with don't want me there

[@Vepporizer]

Jordan L Same. Even though they tell me they like me 100 times I somehow don't believe them

[@rosshenleytiburcio3287]

same.

[@taherismael1887]

Even if they don't want you there, what is the worst thing that may happen ? They would form bad opinions about you ? Excuse me bro but screw them ! Do what you like and stop thinking about what people think of you because : A) people don't judge all the time as we imagine . B) even if they do judge you, it doesn't matter , even if they don't want you then being worried and ruining the moment for you won't get you over that , they would just make it worse .

[@shielamaemenoza1632]

I feel you.

[@David-yw3os]

Jordan L so good to know other people feel the same way

[@pyareemohan3084]

My confidence level increases when my hair style is good.👍

[@lst_by_4204]

Pyaree Mohan faxxx

[@Enso007]

You get it

[@mephistopheleslookingforad3861]

He snort some white confidence in the bathroom xD

[@eduardoguardado8536]

Christoph Sauter 😂

[@brandonheck4848]

I’m dead 🤣

[@2301.w8]

Ahhaha

[@daymiencunty5774]

I liked the comment till I saw you had 420 likes

[@theriffrepeaterjr.1772]

@@daymiencunty5774 I sometimes have weed for my confidence

[@ryaneveridge2103]

The comment section: 5% about being shy 5% thanking alpha for his videos 90% rubbing/eating Tiege Hanley

[@rah1752]

lame

[@Tabish80]

why arent pete and pedro in the comment section ;)

[@503945158]

Ryan E1097 - Yup. When people don't know when jokes get old.

[@oofnibber3507]

500 like boiiii but I don't know why that matters

[@ryaneveridge2103]

Gertrude haha who cares if it's old? I didn't mean it as a joke anyway, just a general thing that I noticed...

[@nateprince]

1.) Identify your insecurities a. Change or embrace them b. Insecurities are invisible 2.) Identify when you begin feeling shy 3.) Give yourself a peptalk 4.) Smile and give a compliment 5.) Push yourself out of comfort zone on a regular basis You are F***ing amazing :D

[@travisandrews3909]

Im trying these steps

[@ProPlayer-wq3nu]

I'm always shy... *BUT NOT WHEN I LUBE MY BODY WITH TIEGE HANLEY*

[@davidcrossmier6012]

*FUCK YEAH*

[@Nygge1982]

I just had to click that Read More, even thou I knew that it was going to reference my favorite product in the world!

[@thevibestation5174]

Oh yes daddy

[@syedalee227]

Pro Player 1⃣ daym

[@marmiksoni474]

Would you plz stop being everywhere.

[@drizzylmg752]

Step number 1: stop being shy Step numbed 2: Do step number 1

[@joshuaharris6638]

step 3: do step 2

[@justapersonlikeuok9835]

josh step 4: do step 3

[@papiaaktar4138]

Step 5: do step 4

[@emmashopkin2098]

Step 6: do step 5

[@CattyMed]

@@emmashopkin2098 Step 7: Do step 6

[@khemarakbotra4183]

I'm shy to talk because I don't speak clearly 😩😩😩

[@simonpetkov6640]

Thats actually a part of being shy

[@بشرىصالح-ك6ك]

i have this probleme too when i speak to people and sometimes forgeting what i wonna say and this killed me everytime i used to cry cause mom always tell me that this enter in personality and self-confidence , trust . but i cant overcome this

[@kwstaslungu1522]

@@بشرىصالح-ك6ك everything can change brother

[@edboss36]

i have a deep voice and it's very quiet

[@andyesp4702]

Me too

[@thesherbet]

I find that I'm chronically shy in quite a few situations, and you're right, I'm very aware of it when it happens. To this end, I've booked myself a trip to new york for a month next year to complete take myself out of my comfort zone and drop myself into a place where I know absolutely no-one and can hopefully be myself and help to beat a lot of my own personal insecurities. I feel like more people need a person like you Aaron in their lives. As much as society is moving towards more emotional connectivity, especially in men, most men simply don't have a figure they can go to when they need a pep-talk or advice on fashion/lifestyle. Certainly not parents, even if they in their mind wanted to give advice and help on these kind of subjects, it's still a very male thing to not show emotions and such as though it's a weakness.

[@pharmit24]

I just say in my head that "I'm a motherfuckin' Starboy" when I'm feeling shy or in a stressful situation.

[@thetattooedguy1413]

Have to admit Alpha is the man!! I am almost 40 and learn a lot from his videos

[@comedicenigma7821]

Brian Potts nice jacket, I love it

[@AmirulMdLazim]

go watch his video tattoo dont

[@nickamp3390]

Me in front of all class ( In a speach) : *clears throat* Heart : Oop my turn *starts pumping crazy*

[@shutupplease8737]

moms friend: Hey! how are you me: oh uh hi *hides behind mom* mom: she’s a little shy me: i’m not shy IM NOT shy...

[@Ghostlytales.]

Im better when im drunk.

[@toothlesstoe]

Who isn't?

[@baka_geddy]

Like raj koothrapali ( or whatever shit it is ).

[@leathercheerio1]

Me too. Therefore I drink every day.

[@neneklampir6664]

Me too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nigelmascarenhas9907]

Ikr I had a glass of beer and then the whole hotel wad looking at me abd i felt aweosme inside

[@mikeoxlong371]

Why am I even watching this? I already know Tiege Hanley is the answer.

[@skaterjoe1669]

Thomas Betschart lol I'm here for these memes

[@fahimshahriyar2494]

just don't watch! stupid

[@HamoTheUltimate]

Saqeeb Sakib it was a joke,calm down ur fuckin ass kiddo.

[@defstonerworld1912]

They dont sale Tiege Hanley at walmart. I was there yesterday

[@HazmanTheGreat]

I have confidence like Johnny Bravo. "I am pretty, I am amazing"!

[@afonsolucas2219]

Too much sometimes is a bad thing, ya know that.

[@saint4lifeboi76]

HAZMAN THE GREAT lol

[@saint4lifeboi76]

Bradius Maximus im not douche i was just kidding

[@Dovehkis]

*HOO* *HAA* *OOOH MAMA*

[@missylks1239]

"What are you insecure about?" EVERYTHING. I can't fix it all.

[@Iamsamayy]

My man getting me ready for school! Always hooking it up man keep up the good work. :)

[@xyon9090]

*I'm not shy.* I'm n-not. Trust m-me..

[@marithuscr4691]

no one cares

[@MihaiLeonardoNiculescu]

Georgie ?

[@amitrungta5384]

u r scared not shy..!!

[@josephmother110]

Mad Dog If if if if if if if if if

[@socalfaithfuls4020]

Future.C I have speech impediment and it holds me back alot

[@mahdy77m]

I’m not shy I just don’t have nothing to say I have a 24/7 brain fart

[@barryseaworth]

WisePanda me too

[@sdivan3g931]

Hella bro Its like if you cant think about what to talk aboit

[@YungPac]

WisePanda Thats because you're anxious. You're shy, bitch. Stop the excuses.

[@toddhuynh3188]

Yung Pac shutup you don't know how it feels to brain fart

[@toniodarko5404]

I think on a level so deep and philosophical that an everyday chat is so strange to me. Idk what to say in simplest occasions without sounding like a complete psycho to others.

[@Hyperions92]

I see some comments on here about "Eating" Tiege Hanley, so I bought some today, of course using Alpha M's "Discount code". It shipped to me in a jiffy, that's same day delivery for those who want to know. Gotta love the Tiege Hanley customer service. I sat down at my desk and began to put some in my mouth. I am now cooler, smarter, and faster in everyway, all because of Tiege Hanley. Thank you. Tiege.

[@joejackson444]

:) :) :)

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodc7969]

LMFAO!

[@jack_crutons]

LOL

[@kwhiskey1373]

Curious are people making fun of these videos about teige Hanley cuz the other advice he gives sucks or just to joke he mentions teige Hanley every video?

[@tomscavo9419]

Brian Tobias Thanks bro,now I know how to use it :)

[@surya8891]

I feel shy to even ask for something to buy from the shop

[@tabishrahimi9299]

surya almost like me

[@berlinwall6674]

You need help from a professional

[@sixtydiagram3233]

surya same

[@lionkingforever3862]

Same *hides in my room*

[@danielremple6417]

Same

[@VVSChopps]

6:16, I appreciate the compliment bro, but im not wearing a Jacket at the moment.

[@Dovehkis]

VVS Chopps wow... Bryan.... wow xD

[@Renghub]

@Týr lmao

[@michaeljoseph7917]

lol

[@theriffrepeaterjr.1772]

What did you do to alpha to make him hate you?

[@-splitman-7022]

Lol

[@jackraiden4175]

i usually remind myself that we're living in a simulation and nothing is real

[@Johtic_]

Jack Raiden that makes it harder for me

[@FeelinHazey16]

Jack Raiden that might work..

[@Skywalker.Movies]

You live inside a simulation of a simulation inside another giant simulation!

[@RJ__927]

Too much rick and morty

[@elcocaino8728]

Same bro

[@galactush8808]

I want a relationship like the word on his t-shirt

[@SokifyTM]

BhOOm BhOOm lol

[@dancecrazy585]

Lol facts💯💯

[@ephemeraleffervescence8120]

BhOOm BhOOm True

[@recluse6814]

BhOOm BhOOm S A M E

[@itskarlasway5594]

SAME

[@TheRealMikeyXZ]

His real prep talk is "Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, TIEGE Hanley, Tiege HANLEY, TIEGE HANLEY!!"

[@smiggy5768]

Recognising the fact that we are all equal helps build confidence because it removes the feelings of inferiority and superiority. Basically you don't anybody as better than you, and you don't see anybody as worse than you. This has helped me overcome shyness.

[@Zain-ir6rm]

You are a brilliant marketer and genuine salesman, the way you bring attention to peoples insecurities then present a solution swiftly. I got distracted about the shy content and just observed from a marketing perspective lol.

[@yinvlogsomg8345]

Does anyone else get red when there is an uncomfortable momemt or when you get shy? Or am I the only one 🤣

[@tkmtkm4527]

You mean blushing??

[@yinvlogsomg8345]

@@blackstack54 well for me its my whole mf head like is that normal

[@Pduarte79]

Another trick "Never took yourself too seriously. Learn to loosen up." Smile and be funny, make smart observations and conversation, that tends to help. If you are too focused in yourself and in the situation that produces the shyness, that feeds the problem and you start sweating and possibly entering in a paranoia state "what I'm doing here? I want to go home. etc" is important to fight that. And I know, what I talking about, because I used to be more shy, than I used to be.

[@stutteringcris468]

My pep talk. "I can do this. I know it can... i know it." And then I fail miserably in front of everyone.

[@aladinhegic3306]

Take adderall hah

[@erl7466]

my friend, i’ve developed a ton of social anxiety over the years, and it’s weird, because I’m a chef and in my element, i’m top fricken dog. you can’t phase me, can’t dog me down. but in social situations it’s gotten worse and worse over the years. THIS SHIT YOU SAY WORKS. I can’t thank you enough man. From dance floor anxiety to parties to casual interactions, it’s finally getting better and it’s because i’ve been watching your vids (among others). best, dude, keep it up.

[@julianzurita5215]

Alpha! Thank you so much for making this video, it really means so much that you try to help every guy out there. As a inner shy guy myself, it’s very hard to try to step out of your own bubble when you bubble is all you’ve ever known. You videos always inspire me so thank you!

[@yamagucci4177]

How about tips to start a conversation or be engaged in a conversation?

[@Kingwil497]

Broo... literally just talk about anything bro and stop being so self conacious

[@colevien2712]

1. I usually start off with a compliment which was mentioned in the video. 2. I will add something additional to what the person says. 3. Ask a probing question (make sure they elaborate on their explanation avoid yes/no answers the majority of the time). 4. Try to give them a chance to ask you a question. 5. Repeat (w/o step 1). Good luck 👍

[@mackenziegray2090]

I got the same problem. Not exactly shy being around people. Just trying to build a relationship that is difficult.

[@whytxr9247]

Being shy sucks, I’ve only had like- 7 friends my whole life..

[@Ken-no5ip]

Is that the sickness or the symptom?

[@atilayakubov7684]

7 close friends? If that is true, than you are normal!

[@Tyler2hunnid]

Me: How to not be shy. Alpha: Don’t be shy. Me: Ok, got it.

[@vorg858]

Oh god, the way you talk is really clear and i understood every word you said. Man it's actually making me do the things you told us.

[@BURGERKINGXL]

I have to be honest. I was just looking for videos for different hairstyles but ended up discovering alpha.m and bro u cool af. keep up the dope videos.

[@andyesp4702]

That happens

[@EnricoReyes]

I used to be a shy kid... til I met Tiege Hanley. Now I'm a Stand Up Comedian.

[@medhabharti7969]

I love u man!!! You r so amazing..u don't even have an idea how you have changed people's lives within minutes....love love!!! U r a blessing!😘😘😘

[@SergeantKurabara]

All im getting insecured about is that god damn blushing... i swear my confidence would go so high if i didn't blush you have no idea. I embraced it, I blush every day, yet, nothing happens... Like I don't even get nervous about what im gonna say to that girl, IM AFRAID THAT IM GONNA BLUSH.. AND ITS FKED UP

[@andy1999k]

MrViperBG just embrace your blushes dude she wont think you are weak because you blush a little

[@JakobM]

MrViperBG me too then ppl point it out which makes it worse, best way to help confidence is to fake it to you make it I guess and go through things that make you blush and awkward don’t avoid them then it’s easier to overcome

[@SergeantKurabara]

Well I guess theres no escaping that, since few people told me some tricks similar to these, but never seen a complete blush cure. Thanks though, appreciate it.

[@MrKing-qd7gi]

MrViperBG there isn't really a CURE. Just ignore it, if your confident without it then keep talking and being confident. People may notice it but if your talking confident it will just seem to be a phenomenon. And if someone points it out then just say something like "oh yah, I blush when even I talk to myself" as a joke to make light of it. Just change your reaction to you blushing. Embrace it. (Plus girls love it when a guy blushes, especially when he is confident and blushing at the same time)

[@javiernight4478]

It happens to me every damn same time but girls like that! Just ask someone that has seen you like that and they will agree. Same as us guys love a blushing girl

[@disobey5615]

This is what I love about you man, you might come off as a jerk in some videos, but once you get going you’re actually pretty cool and passionate about helping guys, not just some, but all guys, become a better version of themselves

[@vishveshtadsare3160]

In his every video comments are promoting Tiege Hanley much more than the guy in the video! This is how you get things done! Simply amazing!

[@nolomus]

Acne was a big confidence buster, when I was a teenager. Just drink A LOT of water and stop eating fast food and tons of candy and don't drink 10 Red Bull's a day and all that nonsense. If that doens't help, Tiege Hanley against acne is there for you, coming early 2018!

[@reecebudd9009]

Kevin J. Meyer 👍

[@shutupidiott]

Kevin J. Meyer how did ya comment 4 hours ago when the video was uploaded just few mins ago?

[@prashantrana7962]

Kevin J. Meyer And n0w you are most confident guy. Booom!!!!

[@reecebudd9009]

Anonymous Guy its a glitch with youtube

[@etherealpetrichor9572]

Kevin J. Meyer remember, your diet DOESN’T effect ACNE!

[@ivansmirnov4339]

It's hard to be confident at all times.. especially when people talk smack behind your back, making it harder to say or do anything in front of anyone ..

[@Kingwil497]

STOP GIVING A FUCK

[@yodawg3469]

@@Kingwil497 Damn skippy

[@NenUser12_]

We all are judged everyday. Just practice your Nen bro...

[@mercpindi5522]

Be yourself. I got number from a random chick at the uni yesterday it worked. You need balls to do this shit.

[@GasMan444]

Thanks Alpha, these tips helped me approach the lover of my dreams! Teige Hanley had all the boys fighting over her, but by using these tips I was able to stand out! We are even expecting our first child soon. We can't decide between the name Pete or Pedro.

[@deadlock107]

Good shit bro! Seems these tips works superfast

[@carterrichardson9205]

Andy G 😂😂😂

[@SkinnyRambo4]

What is a teige Hanley ?

[@Kingwil497]

It's a fucking product look it up.

[@mumnotthebelt.7207]

Pedro !!

[@michaelwinslow3666]

I'm a new subscriber to Alpha M. Thanks for speaking from your own experiences. It's obvious your information is very real to you and that you are speaking from your own experiences. Please keep-em coming!!

[@Captivate_Life]

Anyone who hits the dislike button on ANY of your videos are gremblins ☺️ your stuff is the best, love the effort you put in. Big fan ❤️

[@IMetLadyGaga]

When he pulls out the “PMD” - and you’re like, “oh sh*t, what the hell am I watching?!” 😂🤦‍♂️

[@ezure3087]

My combination is bein shy, socially akward and being wierd overall CHANGE MY MIND

[@andyesp4702]

That's me in person lol

[@williswayne1876]

Andy Esp me too 😪

[@mysterymanifest1]

How to introduce your girlfriend to your parents (please guys,don't let this comment disappear in a sea of comments!!!)

[@K4M41]

This is definitely a subject that would make an awesome video. Great suggestion! 👍🏽

[@mysterymanifest1]

Kamal El watik thank you😃

[@gigachad3861]

Is she hawt 😂

[@beforehours1773]

You need a chick for that you call centre fuck

[@mysterymanifest1]

clorox bleach call your mama a call center fuck

[@mdunawaym]

I've never been shy, but I always was girl shy. They always thought I was attractive, and charming, but for some reason I always kept myself in the "friend zone". When I finally decided to deal with it, I joined about 5 dating sites, and just dove in. It was amazing! I came to realize that all kinds of women were attracted to me, and I could date just about anyone I wanted to!

[@gyromm3094]

5:58 Me in the restaurant bathroom: You're awesome, You're amazing "Grunts in hypeness" Businnes partners hearing me grunt so loudly: *Visibly confused*

[@vikashtewari6748]

Every fucking comment is about tiege hanley

[@seriouswithdaysoff]

Your comment isn't. Therefore you are wrong.

[@beautifulinfinity]

I've always been a shy girl. As I'm getting older, I'm starting to realise it may have something to do with an emotionally troubled childhood. I stumbled across your channel while googling 'how to be assertive'. And oh boy, I've been watching all your related videos for the last hour. Thank you. ❤

[@vimalkumar-tc1bi]

wow people liked without even watching the whole video. great work alpha

[@MegaJesus114]

Alpha M is the person we need but don't deserve. Love your videos!

[@chloecronin7692]

I love this! I’ve been feeling so shy and insecure lately and I’ve wanted to stop that and come out of my shell and with these tips I will hopefully if not completely but little bit by bit become more confident as I need the confidence because I’ve gone too long with being unconfident x

[@c5steppagaming573]

I missed out on a lot of opportunity because of my shyness so I hope this helps 🤞🏽

[@Ezbc05]

YES!!! I love this guy. Keep up the good work man.

[@juozsx]

find your insecurities... hmmm ok My insecurities: 1.Cause im shy ... welllll shit

[@moneytiming5987]

@alpha m. this guy is literally the best at vids guy gets straight to the point and always knows alot about the topic you can tell by how he talks about it

[@Draco5483]

One of if not the best videos you’ve ever uploaded. Truly inspirational!

[@3dsock]

its 12 am, by school i will be antisocial no more

[@metalwarrior81]

Poor Aaron looks so sad and shy in the thumbnail, I just want to give him some Tiege Hanley to make him feel better.

[@ohmy9261]

The Dallas Space Cowboy 😂😂😂

[@atharvas6546]

The Dallas Space Cowboy lol 😂

[@miguelpereira9859]

What is Tiege Hanley?

[@goldgabich6863]

I feel like the board members are watching this now

[@Shmacss]

Ben Holden Tomatoes are good.

[@irrelevantperson9008]

He always brings up Brian. I know he's not a real person...BUT DAMN HE'S ALWAYS IN HIS VIDEOS. I WANT THAT!

[@philliprodriguez9757]

Awesome video! Thank you for this Alpha, being shy is something I've always struggled with but after watching your video I already feel better about myself :) Seriously, thank you

[@hunter_ndp5904]

2:38 Did anyone else feel a strong Tiege Hanley plug coming on just to be blindsided by the PMD?

[@pallav5833]

Alpha m : "So there's something about me that will surprise you. I'm shy." Also Alpha m : *jumps on a table and takes off pants in front of the camera and an innocent asian 19 year old to promote sponsored product*

[@IshnoorSarao]

I am not shy but people around me, girls especially, act very weird (and shy) resulting in awkward situations. Tell me how to get out of that.

[@DigitalxFe3r]

Ish Noor play along Be fun with it if it’s you that’s not actually being awkward..not only will it be inviting and fun but you’ll become even better at communicating by having a whole knew universe to explore

[@prince_sach50]

Idk why But I'm Natural with almost every type of girl except for hot white girls. Idk it's just a different vibe with me and I don't be talking...

[@matthew-saul3967]

I love that this channel exists-alpha is the man

[@andrewpowell7352]

Alpha m got me a girl with these tips. This guy is honestly the nicest at giving advice

[@captainbluethunder8771]

A poem for Tiege Hanley:- Tiege Hanley is the best. Use it and forget the rest. Alpha m likes it a lot. Without it your body will rot. Apply it and fly in the sky. Haters of Tiege Hanley are supposed to die. Everyone uses Tiege Hanley. From Kim Kardashian to Fucking Stanley.

[@manishaher1796]

CaptainBlueThunder 😂😂😂😂best one...i hope alpha highlights it

[@sr33nathx83]

Imao!!

[@31sarm]

All you had to say was "I created Teige Hanley" Confidence level > ∞

[@gouthamabhishek1395]

When am not high - super shy When am high - am a chick magnet

[@M16music69]

😂same here bro

[@ElHal04]

Sorry but it’s I’m😂 I couldn’t help myself

[@shototodoroki413]

Okay THIS IS VIDEO IS FREAKIN AWESOME I was watchibg it and then BOOM! IT WENT IN MY HEAD WHEN YOUR SHY PEOPLE DISLIKE YOU iam not saying being shy is the thing that makes People dislike you iam just saying that everything you want is outside your comfort zone BUT YOU ARE ALL PERFECT

[@T-lycan]

Alpha has got to be the best when it comes to inspiration

[@AyushKhugshal]

I can see tears on your eyes

[@GoGoFIFANL]

Bro you did A good job with this video for me!!❤️❤️❤️

[@milosrocenovic8526]

If you are shy just eat some Tiege Hanley and you will be fine ;)

[@shutupidiott]

Milos Rocenovic wtf Video uploaded a min ago and your comment posted a couple hours ago?

[@pokegmaestro4631]

Milos Rocenovic 😂😂😂😂

[@alexandruvlad467]

Anonymous Guy yea, right 😂😂😂 wtf 😂😂

[@geetakharva7733]

Milos Rocenovic 😂😂😂

[@milosrocenovic8526]

Anonymous Guy Sorry i use Tiege Hanley to much ;)

[@ocbosco_]

I just stumbled on to this channel. I’m 60 yo wish I had this 40 yrs ago! But am pointing my two teenage boys 16 and 18 this way. Great stuff. Invaluable. Thanks

[@estebansantana2646]

I like how honest you were during the intro. No fronting.

[@MrLivinitup123]

What if it's a girl? Do I still say, "Hey Bryan, I like that jacket!"??

[@mantas831]

What's wrong?

[@marshmeowllow6816]

It`s the best compliment you can give to someone

[@MrLivinitup123]

Vaping & crossfiting vegan who`s triggered everyday That's what I'm saying!

[@raze_6474]

HA! smartass... Just give a compliment

[@MrLivinitup123]

AsSaSSIN305 _ Lol oh I know.

[@D3ATHZH3AD]

The thumbnail is just great XD

[@vincemcmahon1424]

They say awww you're so shy! Me: Nah I just don't want to talk to you.

[@اخبارفلسطينوالاردن]

Same

[@HeadiHD]

I really don’t know who would dislike this Video. Alpha M gives great advice, offends no one and is an experienced Adult. The product placement is the only negative thing I could imagine, but come on. Great Video as always. Keep it up!

[@mikadopowerranger5254]

There’s a thing that works for me. What I do is when I’m in a situation where I have a choice and I’m tempted to make the most comfortable decisions, I do the oposit. If you want to approach a stranger but you’re scared af, you have the choice of staying in your comfort zone or you can just...do it. Always make the choice you’re scared to make.

[@Ransom2k]

I haven’t had friends since the third grade I’m in 10th I just can’t talk to people but when I’m at home I won’t stop talking

[@supergamer19041998]

Visits Tiege Hanley headquarters.. *Returns as incarnation of GOD*

[@rehanjamshed2936]

I wish i could love reacc your videos lmao , man i'mma be honest with you i haven't had a strong manly figure in my life who could teach me stuff and i was raised up a shy kid and had many concern about whether some things were right or wrong but you Alpha , YOU have literally taught me a LOT OF STUFF and i've been watching your videos for as long as i remember using youtube . There's something about your channel that i know even if you may have sponsor stuff in your videos you're honest to the point and your help has helped me so much that i can't describe in words , most of all you take care of telling about your past and how poorly you've been raised , many of us are going through the same hell right now which once you went through and its so amazing to know that a successful and helpful guy like you was once in our shoes and your honesty about it makes my day better , kinda makes me glad that there are good people like you and that i found your channel when i needed to , Peace alpha.

[@mysticnick2095]

Your awesome man, this is why I subscribed to you bro, I appreciate how invested you are with all of us. Your an Alpha

[@lilselilvideoedits6932]

People tend to change towards you or avoid you becoz you are confident of yourself and the way you talk people they say you are rude so you don't freely express yourself and you are not rude is just them they are just trying to pull you down .You are trying to figure out who you are .I learnt you should be number 1 in your life because life is too short to care what other people think of you e.g Family, friends etc