5 Unattractive Things Guys Do

[@TrippAdvice]

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[@HerrenGamingNews]

i watched your video and I realize that I'm fucked, I am constantly broke, I have very few friends like I have 1 I haven't seen in months and the other I'm going to probably moving in with not to mention I'm ugly as sin I never attract the women I really want most of them are fat and unattractive. but at least i have answers now and i think i'll stop wasting my time on dating apps....

[@matts6287]

Three more: 1. Not taking care of your hygiene & fashion, including your teeth & nails. 2. Thinking this is “the one” & being relationship focused. The role of the man is to be playful, have fun & be focused on his purpose. Dating women is just an addition to your life. 3. Being too available. Never set up the next date at the end of a date. If she cancels, don’t try to immediately to offer another day. Your time is valuable & your purpose, family & hobbies should be your top priority. Bonus tip: Learn to recognize which women are attracted/interested in you. The majority won’t be, so don’t waste your time with them.

[@sriniwasn1276]

Bonus tip is underrated

[@initiatorhater0688]

"Men have to create their value, Women have to protect their value", i feel that quote changed my perspective, mindset on dating, seduction, attraction, the game, etc.

[@bobgunner3086]

Crap! That's awesome!

[@solodolo_mma3971]

I admit im that guy that texts a lot , and is always available. I have no problem getting girls , but they slowly lose interest over time . Never understood why . Now I know . Thanks for these videos , it helps me realize my mistakes. I’ll get better 👍🏼

[@TrippAdvice]

Glad this helps!

[@neltymind]

Been there, bro. Also don't be fooled by those that text you a lot: They might THINK and SAY that they want you to text back a lot, but they just don't know themselves very well (don't blame them, most guys don't know themselves very well either). Just make it a habit to not reply during work hours at all (or maybe once during lunch break), to regularly not text back during evenings when you're with friends or whatever you're doing, keep it short (but positive and friendly) and quickly ask for a date. If a girl texts you relatively late, wait until the next day to text her back. All that stuff.

[@FahimusAlimus]

I’m like you except most girls aren’t interested anyway and the ones that are lose interest very quickly.

[@krizo3]

@@FahimusAlimus I was in the same position for years. At 28, something clicked for me and I started getting consistent dates with a range of women that were my type. From there, I picked one out that I really clicked with and we recently moved in together. It sucks - all you can do is keep trying. Keep watching these vids, keep getting any practice you can - accept that there will be a lot of rejection along the way... When you do find someone, a) you won't be insecure, because you built your value independently (and nothing can take that away from you) and b) they'll appreciate all the work you put in. Most guys are just good bullshit artists, which is why they can get laid, but can't keep a woman happy...

[@danbowers20]

Everything you've said is spot on. The less you have going on in your life the more you crave attention. It's like a madness. The covid-19 situation has made it so hard to meet friends and work. Over these last few months I've lost the plot. It take a lot of mental strength to get out. Great video by the way.

[@mustafakhalid500]

Thanks Tripp. It is also unattractive, when a guy fulfills a girl's request at the expense of his own comfort and purpose. I saw this, and it is awful.

[@mustafakhalid500]

That is not what I said. I said that you should not fulfill a girl's request at the expense of your comfort and purpose, but you can do nice things, on condition that you can do it comfortably without delaying you from the important things going in your life.

[@wtfmangoo1204]

Guilty of #1 for sure and had my suspicions that this ruined a recent relationship of mine and been ghosted for awhile now. Appreciate the tips

[@TheBix8257]

I think not having a life story to share, a memorable experience to share or just being awkward overall in conversations. I had a lady tell me a guy she went out with was on his phone the entire date! Put down that stupid phone when your with her!!

[@hunternixonfishing2500]

I agree with all points. I used to be bad at #1 and 2 especially. The thing most guys don’t understand how attraction works. It’s not well if I do nice things for her, buy her gifts, pay her bills eventually she will fall for me. I used to be that thirsty beta male who was always available, too nice and compliant. I used to not understand why women always used to go for the jerks it seemed but always friend zoned the guys like me. Then I read Corey Wayne’s book how to be a 3% man. It’s not that woman go for guys that treat them like crap. But women love guys who are confident in themselves. Who have a slight charming cocky side to them. Women don’t want a yes man who always is compliant and they can use like a door mat. My girlfriend used to test me like this in the beginning of our relationship we would have plans to go eat at a restaurant somewhere or something that I was excited about going to and trying and at last minute she would try and say something like “hey baby let’s go here instead”. In the past I normally would have gone along with it but my normal response to that now (not every time) is something like, no we have already made plans to go here I would still like to keep them. You just focus on looking all pretty and shit. I’ll see you at 7:30 babe. Women like a man who they can’t have their way with. Who has some backbone and who challenges them. Sure I think you have to have things you agree on but you don’t want to date someone who is your twin either. Women want men who challenge them a little. And who have goals and aspirations in their life that don’t always revolve around them

[@bruceleeroy8302]

This is some great advice. If I could break it down to one common piece of advice for guys. _Built a lifestyle that is great with or without any potential woman you would want to date._ I think if you are thriving and happy without her, it will make her more likely to want to be apart of your life. It's easier said than done so...

[@point-bl4nk]

The "No friends" stuff is important: you can be broke and derpier than the average guy, but if you have a circle of friends and you stick out, women will notice. They are attracted to status and want to feel part of that. That trait just makes 'em all wappy even though they won't even notice.

[@lifeofi174]

wappy? 😹😹

[@marksy__b5566]

@@lifeofi174 derpier?

[@izzylandyt]

that makes them leeches

[@yu-gi-ohclub1348]

I'm currently seeing a woman she knows I talk to other women but at the same time I'm not going on dates with them because I'm too busy. I work a lot of days throughout the week and go and see my kids on weekends. I also have my hobbies like learning guitar and solving Tavern puzzles as well as my card collection and my Facebook page I run as a hobby. Getting to the point is I do still feel like I want to talk to her all the time and stay in touch. And occasionally I'll send a text message first. But most days I wait until she sends the first message. She also wants to see me most nights, but if she doesn't want to I stay focused on my own things then. Given her body language and the way she acts around me I'm thinking in due time she will want more than just friends with benefits stage. I'm just enjoying myself and seeing where it goes.

[@TraumaER]

2:30 I’ve run into this a lot recently. Glad to know I’m not the only one.

[@ericz8086]

Dating other women at the same time? I'm having trouble wrapping my head around that one. I don't have a problem of doing it, but it's just the idea of them knowing that. I don't think they're going to accept it so easily. Especially in my age group.

[@nateallman4360]

Worst advice ever

[@BarbersFind]

One chick knew about it and left me for another guy lol just don't let them know. If they ask don't say yes.... say something like "do you think I'd be the guy to do that?"

[@ariap9697]

Honestly, I don't feel Ok with dating multiple girls at the same time

[@marnitson796]

Had the same problem. Tell her when you two meet the first time before the date starts that you are a honest person that is why you tell her now that you are dating other women. If it is not ok for her she has the opportunity to leave at any time.

[@andone3540]

that should be your hairstyle forever

[@TrippAdvice]

Thanks? Haha

[@ecstasy203]

Tripp Advice spit some game back

[@duglife2230]

4:45 Welp, that disqualifies me. Peace my dudes.

[@hypernel1798]

Trust me it's way way better having no friends than having fake friends

[@thisisarikomusic]

I literally broke the texting rule 20 min ago ffs

[@aklforge]

Lol

[@wesleybailey1586]

Great advice buddy 👊🏽

[@adriankuzu6312]

i find a lot of unattractive things guys do on a daily basis,like never washing their hands,or totally disrespecting everybody,or boasting and bragging TOO much.

[@TraumaER]

Video saved. I think I break all 5 rules. No wonder I’m single. 🤪

[@1CAG]

Guilty of Number 5. Not dating other women at the same time. Will do so in the future whenever possible. Don't put any of them on a pedestal. Ever.

[@pennsysteam]

It's kinda hard to implement these tips with COVID still going on. All my friends are married with kids ect. When you're 52 and divorced there's not a lot of options.

[@wolfman231]

Depending on where you live, meetup is great to socialize. Genuinely pick meetups that appeal to you (not just for the cutest girls,) and you'll be happy just getting out. I'm 55 and hike, bike, kayak, etc. Make more friends of both sexes than I can handle. (Social proof in the video.)

[@cunningfoxx3678]

The dating game and relationships are a big dumpster fire just improve yourself . Such as having personal goals learn something new get a better job get educated learn a new skill the right women will come and you won’t have to please them or put up an act .

[@Videokeizah]

Tripp, I sometimes feel forced into a life that is not mine, in this dating age. You have to have all these masculine hobbies, like surfing or sea fishing, that don't interest me. I just like to read and just go to the gym to stay in shape. Do you recommend to change that?

[@JonnnyStorrrm]

No. Why would you change your hobbies just to get some pussy? Think about that

[@shehzadmansoorali8495]

1. Texting alot: show ur too available and hence making you unattractive 2.Being too Agreeable or Not having ur Own Opinion 3.Having No Friends : Social Proof 4.Not having anything going on in your life 5. Not dating another women

[@Balloushop13]

Thanks man

[@matthiasmoers2799]

Thx bro

[@RiderOdyssey]

Up to the Point i like that..!! can you make vedio on Feminism vs masculine with examples👍

[@DatingforLateBloomers]

Tripp, question please. You said not to keep texting a girl, which I get, but what if when texting she is asking me lots of questions? I already have a virtual date set up with this one girl but last night when I checked in, she once again asked me lots of getting to know ya questions. I can’t just ignore them, what do you do in those cases? Thank you.

[@honorsnetwork4699]

Thank you TRIPP MY MAIN MAN. I had no clue girls about that tell um about the other girls. I thought maybe it would give a girl a reason to leave I'm gonna try it next time.

[@thedarkside1985]

I can't understand how can people date 15 girls in their 20s! I'm 25 years old and I had one girlfriend.. we broke up and I'm still finding it so hard to move on.. so I decided that I'm never gonna date again until I'm 30 or something like that

[@coachtaylor2906]

Youll regret it when youre older. Go get em bro

[@omarelsherif4125]

Weak

[@thedarkside1985]

@@omarelsherif4125 I'm built different.. I don't have time for games, I wanna love onse and forever.

[@omarelsherif4125]

@@thedarkside1985 Stop with the crazy talk. You'll never succeed with women until you get out of that Disneyland mindset you got going FFS. You gotta know women and experience women. They'll teach you more about you..How tf can you tell if you know she's "The one" until you stumble and fall multiple times..WAKE TF UP.

[@thedarkside1985]

@@omarelsherif4125 we're different mate, get it over with.

[@furiozen]

Talking about yourself and trying to impress her (not on purpose but shit happens) its a big turn off for the girl. Did this mistake this week and misse the chance with a very beautiful and smart girl, but life goes on, nice video tho.

[@mariusrs]

can we have a video talking about tips, what to do and what not to do for only hooking up. Great content btw!

[@TrippAdvice]

All my tips can be applied for getting into relationships

[@61dodgelancer]

Tripp, how many guys have THE TIME to be dating multiple women at the same time? Also, is dating multiple women a good strategy for most guys? I mean, if a guy is dating Kate and then Kate finds out he's dating Edith....... Kate might say, "Hey, you can't have your Kate and Edith too!" (Ha, ha!) So Kate distances herself from the guy or drops him cold. This "Spinning Plates" strategy worked great for Paul McCartney. He had the goods and was traveling around the world. But it might be too much of a challenge for many guys. A lot of guys have hit a home-run if they can find ONE GOOD GIRL at a time. And you say?

[@vaggeliskaravolos4509]

Yo tripp as always very helpful video. Keep up this good content. U r one of the few real on youtube

[@JACKPAVAL]

I disagree with the texting. Women have 15 other guys texting them. You must talk to her at least twice per week if you're actually interested in her. Otherwise she has more options to choose from , If you don't text her a little more often than what you are suggesting she will feel that she is being ignored and not important, and seek attention elsewhere. They love to get a surprise text every so often .( it makes their heart beat, it makes them feel good about you) and with that surprise text you don't have to be asking for a date... But of course don't text them every 5 minutes, or every day in a predictable way.

[@MrAdriancooke]

I wish Tripp would do a video specifically for aspie guys as we are often clueless

[@BigSavageG]

I have no friends and I am happier than ever. All of them didn't give a heck about me anyways or backstabbed me. I like my companion. I can count on myself. No one ever helped me as much as I helped myself. All that stuff about friends in life and women is overrated, it is conformism and stereotypes. You don't know me yet you claim something is wrong with me. That's why we ain't gonna be friends ever.

[@hY-ug8vn]

about your last point on dating other women, what if i am in a long term relationship already ?

[@VEE727]

Then dating other women would be called cheating. Unless you're in an open relationship kind of situation

[@saronsibastian18]

Really touched and motivated by last one bro😁

[@babarmasood4770]

Best channel for dating advice

[@anthony73125]

Top 5 channels imo. Tripp should colab with taysocial

[@anderstermansen130]

Nah, thoughty2 is where youre at.

[@hazysday]

Good solid truth ! Peace Tripp !

[@louislittle8638]

Thanks tripp!

[@rowan9150]

The guy with the rocket ship analogy is “self-developed” he has a good channel

[@danialmr5960]

Great video

[@anderstermansen130]

Dont worry, Trippadvice, no matter what i do or do not, and no matter how adaptive i try to be, or trying to be myself, all women on this planet thinks watching paint dry or grass grow, is more interesting than i am.

[@TrippAdvice]

That comment was pretty interesting

[@jackchatham3947]

I've always felt that way too

[@anderstermansen130]

@ageofbogyo i need you to understand that the ability to run a funtioning normal relationship, cuddling, sex etc. And generally having someone to share your life, and visions with. That is not something for all humans, i was among the unfortunate. After numerous failed and broken relationships, of various reasons, it isnt so hilarious to get heart broken again and again and again. If i show actual affection to another human being, that human being would reject me faster than you would be able to tie your shoes. I gave up on my love life, and accepted my fate of a life of solitarity.

[@RainForestLeDoux]

Was just telling my friend pretty much all of this

[@sahilnanglia2436]

What if you like this girl and she is your friend's friend but you all guys hangout sometime together like on weekends because that's the only time they're free but anyway we meet on weekends so what should i really do to you know make her like me just asking??

[@subashsivakumar911]

I only sent two messages to her and met her in person only ones in these past 125 days. 😂

[@CalvinJamesJr]

Guys have to understand how to maximize their attractiveness

[@tomaszsosnowski9279]

Yes, but in their unique way. Through introspection and congruence.

[@CalvinJamesJr]

Tomasz Sosnowski Facts

[@nobodysperfect06]

"Do you think over a 100 years ago, guys, men, needed a dating coach in order to meet and attract women? Oh Hell No, this need for assistance and help has only emerged very recently" That was a powerful quote, statement, I read somewhere recently.

[@TrippAdvice]

Another way of looking at it is...maybe they did and now we’ve figured out how to do better.

[@rezapoodineh3538]

Not sure yet but I think talking about previous relationships that didn't work out is a real turn off. It's unattractive.

[@DavidZMH]

Does that apply to phone calls as well?

[@TrippAdvice]

Yes

[@chrisestrada7649]

I keep reminding myself that I probably won't get a girl for a while....not being negative but realistic, I have no friends and no hobbies. And frankly ik, that is one of the big reasons as to why I don't even try with women. Little by little I suppose, I just hate that I'm 20 and I don't have any experiences. Even the basic life experiences others have: go to a concert, firt kiss, hanging at the beach, etc. They all seem so inconsequential and simple, yet I have never experienced these because I have no friends, it kinda hurts. But hey, I try to look on the brightside, at least I have that going for me.

[@TrippAdvice]

You’re still young. You have time to work on this.

[@chrisestrada7649]

@@TrippAdvice Ik and thanks, little by little

[@jackchatham3947]

I'm the same, but I'm twice as old as you are...

[@chrisestrada7649]

@@jackchatham3947 i hope you get better, and things get better for you

[@joesmith4842]

I am over 40, very inexperienced never had a girlfriend, I’ve made every mistake in the book but I’ve spent the pandemic trying to learn and improve. I even took up learning an instrument as a hobby plus an acting class. I am more active now on online dating and I made a couple connections so we will see what happens. It’s a start.

[@doctorfresh3856]

He said a whole lot of nothing to just say this... TRANSLATION YOU MUST BE RICH AND SUCCESSFUL TO GET A FEMALE! Dating multiple woman = paying for all those chicks dates because you KNOW they're not putting out and having to split the bill at the same time.

[@tryagain3813]

what if she also has no friends, there’s a lot of people that just don’t want friends n be to themselves🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TrippAdvice]

Red flag

[@tomaszsosnowski9279]

Tripp. This is basic mating behaviour between very masculine men and very feminine women, it’s called gender stereotypical. If a partner or both is a bit androgynous, the case gets more complex. I feel like a typical male man. And thus act accordingly. And I am attracted to typical feminine women. But it’s my nature and I like it. But not every one is flooded with sex hormones. And there are success stories where a couple is constantly texting each other emojis and memes, don’t play games, they do the opposite of the typical red pill strategy, the man is cute and gentle, honest, and she isn’t the spoiled bombshell of a femme fatale. So act according to your true nature. If you ain’t James Bond or Dirty Harry, don’t act like one.

[@TrippAdvice]

Thanks for your thoughtful comment. I feel those are exceptions mostly. And we also don’t know the details of those relationships. Also I bet your woman would be even more attracted/loyal to you if you followed these guidelines.

[@jeffmaggard3694]

I can only text because I hate my voice and girls always say I sound tired. No matter what I do my voice is bad

[@niketuck9687]

Any ladies here that can confirm what hes saying?

[@honorsnetwork4699]

I was just thinking this morning where in the fuck has tripp been?

[@TrippAdvice]

Right here. Always.

[@paiinz1341]

Does texting include snapchat?

[@TrippAdvice]

Absolutely

[@FahimusAlimus]

I don’t do these things but I can’t get with anyone.

[@stoneroses1989]

dude in the thumbnail looks exactly like me only my face is a bit slimmer, even the leather jacket.

[@hazysday]

A woman does not need a lost puppy ! You must be you !

[@omara3389]

🚀🚀🚀 stonks only go up haha

[@neltymind]

Damn, the "no friends" part really hits home for me. Just like this guy, I moved to a city far away five years ago and never really managed to find any actual friends. I was already 29 at the time, which made it even harder. Sure, I know a few people I sometimes hang out with but only occasionally and nobody is really close. My actual friends live where I am originally from and I see them like 3 times a year. I know this is unattractive to women, so I tend not to let them see that early on but the smart ones notice it anyway (and I won't outright lie about it either, just not tell them on my own iniative). My solution to not being needy while dating ist to: a) Date multiple women at once. Tinder helps me do that. It means I don't focus on a single woman as long as it isn't an exclusive relationship. I have the mentality of abudance. If one girl isn't interested, I have lined up a few others who are (or will be). b) Only asking out women for da date once a week AT MOST in early stages of dating and only agreeing to a second date per week if she explicitly asks for one. Anything more is too much. I just don't ask for more than one date week and if she asks for more than one additional one, I'll just tell her that I have plans this week and make a date with her for the next week. If she starts to ask for more than one date per week on a regular basis, I might even stop asking her for dates AT ALL (that doesn't mean I won't initiate contact, though). Those are far from perfect solutions, they're rather workarounds. But they kinda work for me. I defenitely get laid a lot this way and sometimes women are even interested in more.

[@honorsnetwork4699]

Dam I just fucked up i met this girl and I told her I dont have many friends smh I didnt know

[@twilightgarrison3671]

Basically you can only do a lot of these things if you don’t like the woman.

[@blackout2430]

Turn your volume up a little more T

[@TrippAdvice]

Ok cool thank ya

[@blackout2430]

Fuck friends though man honestly. Bringing them around a woman that you are dating is such a bad idea I cannot stress this enough. Especially if these are friends that you grew up with. They will bring up stupid embarrassing stories, they will try to hit on her and make her laugh, they will do everything under the sun to fuck her. Don’t get her Instagram they’ll get her Snapchat you’ll do everything. No good can come of it. You’re better off just lying and telling a woman you have plans with your friends but never bringing them around. I don’t understand what’s so complicated about not having friends, having a girlfriend, but simply not relying on her for attention? That is possible to do. Sure it’s hard, but it is possible

[@TrippAdvice]

Sounds like this person has shitty friends.

[@blackout2430]

Tripp Advice oh I did. I got some better quality friends now but they come with their own challenges. Most of my friends I either play(ed) basketball with or went to college with (most of them live out of state). So now the majority of friends I have are potheads OR PEOPLE I GREW UP OR WENT TO GRADE SCHOOL WITH. I like weed but not as much as these guys so even then I don’t think they’re the best to bring around a girl I’m involved with. And the people I grew up with forget about it. Drunks, gossipy, and the Jealous. Jealousy makes some people do unforgivable things unfortunately

[@QuelloVeloce7]

You lost me at you have to have friends I'm getting a second

[@yesireact]

8:25

[@chrisrobinson8040]

I'm like 50 50 with this advice.. I think in some respects you're right but also you maybe wrong in others

[@JonnnyStorrrm]

Same I'm used to advice from AMS, stephiscold, etc and to me this advice in this video just kinda seems fake and not true to yourself. Like "you have to follow all this shit just to get pussy" type of thing. I'd rather just do me and do what I like tbh

[@mahabubmdmamun4096]

💝

[@RastaPilot737]

Having a unicorn?

[@awaken69]

completely disagree with the last point. ok, mybe true if you're a teenager and dont know what the fuck you want.

[@raduf1758]

What if both will like you and both wanna be with you cause that’s where I am now

[@kacperrogala3588]

Number 3 - I'm in asshole 🙃

[@kevindavis4709]

Wait a minute hold up! I thought attractiveness was based on DQ looking figures?

[@angellantigua920]

Wooow

[@RedRumble14]

You have eye bags because of editing! Or it’s allergy or you was protecting. A girl?

[@RedRumble14]

I also have them sadly

[@RedRumble14]

I’m pick UP 😟 master

[@rohan892]

That last one is bullshit...

[@influencedbythesystem5105]

I'm honestly getting tired of seeing that guy with the hat and his ads about sex every time watch videos like this

[@TrippAdvice]

Haha

[@Holypikemanz]

Women are horrible texters, not too much, but vague and infrequent. 0 satisying texts.

[@skortana3760]

That hairstyle makes your head so symetrical that it's hypnotic 0.o

[@mohdhamza4237]

First !❤

[@podsmpsg1]

There's a few things women do that guy's think is unattractive too.

[@TrippAdvice]

Yup

[@podsmpsg1]

@@TrippAdvice like on that show Boy Meets World. One time, Amy spent $130.00 at the salon, Alan was pissed. But, if Alan spent $130.00 at the barber shop, it would be different.

[@Tamiadogu]

True

[@podsmpsg1]

@@Tamiadogu I'd be upset if I was married and my wife spent that much at the salon.

[@danjenkins21]

No thank you. I’m fine with staying single.

[@TrippAdvice]

👍🏻

[@anchitgogoi258]

2nd

[@doesntmatter9355]

Your parents must be proud of you