5 WARNING SIGNS YOUR GIRL IS A SCAMMER | Filipina-Foreigner Dating in the Philippines

I've listed 5 warning signs she is a scammer. I've also mentioned my experience being scammed! It's just hilarious and I also fell for it. 🥲
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[@pcurbfanpage9844]

We met in person. 3 years together and 6 trips starting in 2017. We were engaged 2019 and prepared for our wedding in 2020. Our wedding was supposed to be April 2020 but due to the crazy coof my flight was cancelled in March 2020. It was a tough pill to swallow. I starting to notice some warning signs, some odd behavior in late February early March. I found out in August that in January 2020, just a few months before we were to be married she was back with her ex. How does that even happen? It doesn’t matter if you meet someone online or in person. A bad person is a bad person. It didn’t take me long to move on and put it behind me. That is life. Pick up the pieces, move forward and don’t look back.

[@Karma52]

Your so right; bad women are all around us, online, at the local 7 eleven. Etc. You just move on. She probably never broke up with the ex. In the 1st place 😉

[@andresdeks]

You dodged a bullet

[@brianandlynphilippines]

Why would a man marry? Bend over much?

[@MobileGamingChronicles]

Yeah and it doesn't matter how careful we are, how much time we invest, and how much we do with our potential partner in person, and it also doesn't matter if you're married as well, we all take the same risk being with someone.

[@Danbb-sc5oc]

Hello Sir im in a similar situation you were the first person i seen in a almost exact situation I thought all was good with my filipina i supported her through her annuelment thought all was fine since i worked with her godmother met her 3x in a year then im like i want to see you again shes like i have work as a nanny i cant make the time to see you...found out later she back with her ex. It feels good to feel im not the only one in this situation i am younger than most at 31 and the filipina older at 37

[@CraigKerwood-mk7hh]

As soon as money enters the conversation, it's over.

[@AsianRomance]

Scammers can only be successful if the guy is not using his brain. The key to avoid scammers is to think logically and sequentially. -Nils

[@brian_atc]

I've only watched a few of your videos, but have learned a lot. Learning about scammers is critical for western guys. I had a Filipina try to scam me claiming her mother died and they didn't have the money to bury her. I didn't have any previous experience with something like this but asked around and found out that she is nothing but serious trouble. Everything about her was a lie and she had no shame when I confronted her about it. Anyways, I learned quickly (thank God) but I know there are tons of guys who fall for these scams. Thanks so much for putting out info that could literally keep someone from being destroyed mentally and financially.

[@tomlambert915]

A common one is where they conveniently kill off the man in the house when often he is right there just off camera.

[@davidhaylett1810]

Being scammed is voluntary. Immediately ditch anyone who asks for one peso. Don’t get involved with anyone who can’t pay their own phone bills

[@CindysBisvlog]

Agree

[@ShawnVanNinja]

Are you blaming people who were scammed for being tricked? That's what the scammers use as a defense in court and they still face justice!

[@davidhaylett1810]

@@ShawnVanNinja It’s not about blaming the victim, the scammer is to blame. I’m just saying that if you don’t hand over money you can’t get scammed. I’m afraid it’s a case of there being ‘no fool like an old fool’

[@ShawnVanNinja]

@davidhaylett1810 sometimes the homeless guy asking for change is because he really needs help to survive and sometimes it's someone just looking for drug money. If you don't know should we never try and help? Just walk by?

[@frankcentofanti9317]

well said 100% agree

[@ede7208]

Scammers and gold diggers are in every country and not just the Philippines. It is best to just go slow and get to know the person well before thinking to get into a relationship with them. I've seen Filipinos who were very good at scamming guys. There are many sweet and honest Filipinas who do desire a husband and who would make a great wife. And it's also sad there are a lot of guys who just use Filipinas for fun and sex and break their hearts after they tell them how much they love them and then just leave them for the next pretty girl they see and want. Take your time to really know the person and don't get crazy in lust because she may be beautiful and sexy. That beautiful, sexy, sweet girl may have a husband and child and other boyfriends which I've seen here in the Philippines.

[@knucklehoagies]

Gold diggers happen in every country but they are much more common in the philippines. I have met countless Filipino women that do the whole "double agenda" thing.

[@klopossa2]

That's why you should ask for a Cenomar before you get serious. I did..if they couldn't or wouldn't..there's yr sign.

[@lucwargnier5283]

Yeah they are expert on scamming and lying but not alll choose the right 1

[@novembermission5626]

@@klopossa2 Good day! Still a foreigner should not be complacent when the Filipina in question present you her Cenomar. There are Filipina's who are into cohabitation (yes, she's not married yet) but have a partner and or a child/children. God bless 🙏

[@gordonsteuart8620]

This is a great video and all very true. This is not limited to just strangers. What she didn't mention is even your wife's "distant relatives" try to be your online friends and will try to get at your wallet in the Philippines. They will give you all kind of crazy excuses. My husband left me, my son needs medication, my house got hit by a typhoon, etc. I play along and flip the script on them by playing like I am going to help, but never send any money!! They start bugging me and bugging me, and eventually, they block me. 🤣😂

[@billiecole4276]

About 10 years ago I met a filipina on line and we began communicating. Anyway to make a long story short. We talked for a couple years fell in love and we now have been married for 8 years. Best thing that ever happened to me. Don't let this scare you.

[@whiteraindrops]

was she like helpless and always asking money even for daily expenses...?

[@MrPassportKing]

Fortunately I didn't fall for any scams. Although being someone new to dating websites in February, I quickly learned there are so many scammers. I was able to pick up on clues (I even started a list of warning signs). I almost got pulled into investing in a piggery because it seemed real and she was able to quote the costs of things and send photos of an empty area where the pigs would be. The warning sign was how eager she was to talk about the business day and night. As soon as I asked for a video chat. She was gone.

[@stub4958]

Those site are full of scammers. I went on one to look around a few years ago, but didn't load a picture. I kept getting messages telling me how they liked my picture or how handsome I am. Really made me doubt anything on them.

[@MrPassportKing]

@@stub4958 Hahaha...now that's crazy. The scammers are looking for new profiles.

[@vagmanis251]

Always don't give any help to a person you haven't already meet . From my part i made this mistake because i was in love, they use many ways to ask for help and make you feel guilty and help your future Asawa ko. But at the end the truth will come in light. The only bad thing is that take time which is bad for your money and feelings. So for fast results don't send any help at all.

[@davidbishop9067]

I was in a LDR for 2 yrs , I used to laugh at people who would fall in love online ..Before I knew it I was in love online hahahaha..After 2 yrs I sold my properties and planned to move to the Philippines..I arrived in Manila and met my girlfriend, the problem is the girl was pregnant when I arrived 🤣😂🤣😂

[@stub4958]

@@davidbishop9067 WOW! It is difficult at best to filter through people on those sites. To get that far and and find out it wasn't true. Again, wow!

[@Murph_.]

I met one of those scammers that were asking for private photos. The excuse she used was "I heard foreigners are bigger than Filipinos. Can you please show me?" I can't imagine anyone falling for this, but some have. I always tell everyone that the easiest and BEST way to meet a wonderful Filipina (like my wife) is to go to the Philippines. Spend some time there. Understand their culture and lifestyle. Meet them there. If you want a long term relationship and you want her to eventually come to your country, it will cost a lot of money to do it. So if you don't have the money to go spend a few weeks or more in the Philippines, you probably won't have the money for all the paperwork and everything else involved in bringing her to you. Also, in the USA, it is very rare for a visa to be given without the two of you meeting in person. So you'll need to go to the Philippines at some point anyway. So again, just plan on going to the Philippines. The longer the time you are there, the better.

[@stub4958]

I read a story a few years back about the PI government busting an organization that would use the picture guys sent like to blackmail them. They hard credit card numbers written on boards around the room and even had an employee of the month.

[@macscotty9997]

Just think! You could have been a star in a gay mens magazine!

[@michaelbowden7695]

I went to Philippines 6 times , each time was 4-5 weeks stay The first time. I met my girl , the whole family , everyone Was there at the airport, I was amazed The second time , I asked her father for her her hand in marriage We stayed engaged for 1year, them had a big wedding in the Philippines It’s 8 years now, we have a daughter 6 years old. We have never argued We live in America, she is now a citizen. I’m in love with her as the day I met her I’m so blessed ! We are blessed Yes it cost much money, but worth every penny It took me 1 year, and meeting many girls online . Yes , they all ask for money My wife never, not once, asked for money

[@macscotty9997]

@@michaelbowden7695 Smart Man! When they ask for money, don't even say goodbye! Just disappear!

[@KickAndTicks]

thanks for the advice

[@michaelmerrill8467]

I've been with my Filipina for three years, and this is what I've learned. #1. Never send any amount of money that you're not willing to lose by either giving it to her or investing in a house/Lot / buisness. Always Be prepared to cut your loses and walk away. #2. You don't need to tell her exactly how much money you make or how much wealth you have . Make a budget and agree that the amount in the budget is hers to spend and when it's gone it's gone. #3. Never ever bring her back home to the west. Make her live in the Philippines and visit once or twice a year until you're ready to relocate there.

[@dono64]

Why #3? My Filipina wife has been here for 4 years now, life just keeps getting better!

[@lilyjazel5258]

What advice would you give to an American man who settled with a financially destitute UGLY Filipina with crooked and buck teeth ( she can’t smile ) who desperately wants to move to this man’s house because she struggles to pay month to month for her rent . He pays for her airline tickets to visit him . He is old and lonely.

[@Vibemastergaming]

Went on a dating app for filipinas and funny enough the entire app is a sham damn near every profile if not every prpfile wanted my email or wanted me to come to another website to Video chat

[@michaelmerrill8467]

@dono64 Your wife is the exception to the rule sir. Most foreign women that come to the USA 🇺🇸 become poisoned by Feminism and all the garbage thinking that is in our country.

[@michaelmerrill8467]

@dandy3425 I'm sure you can find a lot of good girls on dating apps. However there is risk involved. If u were you I would tall to several girls and be honest about it and then when you like one focus on that one. And then make the trip to Philippines 🇵🇭. You have to be there in person to decide the future you want etc...

[@trevorking7902]

You can only get scammed if you press the send button

[@skykiss12]

Thanks young lady for speaking clearly and not beating around the bush.

[@frankkelley9684]

Thank you for being so compassionate about the poor guys who have been scammed. And thank you for your advice.

[@ivannovotny4552]

@@Rubeauti I can...sad reality.

[@lastplanehome]

I was Engaged to a Filipino in Davao PH. Together over 4 years,almost 3 years was during Covid 19 , tough being apart. I fly Davao 4 times before Covid shut the whole world down. She broke me up. I feel every thing I did $$ wise better her life. Not angry, just heart broken, Love is powerful. Be safe 🙏🇺🇲💕

[@CindysBisvlog]

Some women can't handle long distance , i also broke up with long distance boyfriend if i see no future of being physically together ... I will do the same if thats how long i will wait with my husband ... Good thing my husband fly after 9months ldr and got married in 2nd visit last 2019 ... and i was able to fly before the world shut down Im from davao too 😇

[@EG-O]

maybe you take too long to have a life together, 4 years is alot of waiting for you to make up you mind. i personally wouldnt wait for you either

[@roger.b8046]

When someone ask you about your work right away, then you know...

[@tman5634]

An American guy I know has had a long distance relationship with a much younger Filipino woman, for a number of years. He's been going to see her twice per year for a month at a time & sending her money every month in-between. It turns out that she's been married all along & her husband has been in on the scam of draining the American guys money. What gets me is, having a gf thousands of miles away for 10months of the year is no recipe for a good, healthy relationship anyhow. In my mind either commit 100% or not at all. By not doing so, he found out the hard way, she wanted his money & nothing else. Similar stories are rife for long distance relationships all over the world.

[@henrymcmiller2527]

Thanks. I found myself in the same situation, but I cut it off after 3 months. Again, thanks for your post.

[@truthbetold6496]

some people are just that desperate its sad but true

[@Karma52]

Every country has whores

[@SeeLasSee]

I lived in Namibia in the 1990s as a teenager and my brother accidentally caused my parrot to escape. We posted notices with reward money. We were scammed with a long story that kept having more layers. We ended up in the slums and giving someone cash while waiting in a taxi. They said it was too dangerous as a white person… they never came back. My mother and I laughed at ourselves. We felt it was a scam but wanted the bird back. This was a small matter but I think I learned a bit about wishful thinking shaping judgments.

[@TheWaterman2011]

The scam stories are like Dating Horror Stories- Early on in my first trip to Philippines- I got scammed by a single mother in serious poverty. I figured it out after a while and dropped my communication immediately.

[@nobodys-fool]

Great video. It takes 2 to be scammed. Always meet the person face to face. Take your time knowing her/him.

[@hexagonliver9409]

If a man never ever send any money to a woman, he can have the choice of walking away if ever she becomes rude or nasty to him. But if he had already sent money to her, he is now stuck and he need to become obedient to the woman and behave like her pet dog, for fear that she will leave him after he had already sent her so much money. This type of foolish man become so worried that the woman will leave him, before he can get back any benefits. The more money the man already sent to a woman, the more vulnerable he become, and the more frightened he is that the woman will leave him .

[@petermorgan4720]

Great video, Rubeauti - and some really sad stories in the comments. I am so glad you didn't give away any money! For western guys, there are many scam websites pretending to be Asian or Eastern European. I am so pleased that I have a Filipina gf I video chat with for an hour every day. There's also pig-baiting, where attractive (often 'Asian' - though you might never really know) ladies (are they really?) tempt you into investing into something generating amazing returns on a platform that does not really exist. You never get any money back: it's gone. I've had that tried on me a couple of times. This is such an important topic: well done for covering this. :)

[@dianalafferty9456]

Watching my brother go through this......his 3rd overseas wife!!.......just love your advice, which is almost like it was coming from my fathers voice for the last 30 years!!!..................scammers are here for sure! but I must sat, his 2nd wife was my best friend and was an amazing human! She died in childbirths 9 years ago as I was in the labor room with her......BUT he was online dating in less that 3-6 months, and YES she got him......3-4 engagment rings (got stolen, lost, down the drain etc) and then comes the fees for citizenship.....yeah....she IS STILL NOT a citizen, still on a marriage visa which runs out this year, ......BUT yes, he has been sick , hospitalized, etc.....and he's young.. but her visa is running out....and the clock is ticking....just my opinion...lol. Oh, but within 24 hours they bought a "condo rental" in the phillipines that "magically" has NEVER given them a monthly rent payment, nor ever 1 payment in 9 years!.......... OK THATS NORMAL She (his wife) now has 4-6 properties in HER name (cuz remember that they cannot hold real estate in her name unless he is a fillippine citizen) BUT SHE CAN! So go buy 5 or 6 more pieces of property. And a few more semi loads of RC Cola.....omg. My brother and MANY others are being used just like this!!

[@vincentcantley2190]

I love your heart.... I can feel your emotions as you tell these very sad stories, even the one about yourself! I am coming to the Philippines soon and I can only hope to meet a beautiful lady with a pure soul such as yourself! Great video, and thanks for making us all aware!

[@gregeoryl]

My advice is to look for alternate Facebook accounts. Surprisingly, people have multiple accounts for multiple boyfriends, anywhere, and is the easiest way to catch lies. If they post in Filipino languages, they usually assume that you don't understand or won't interpret it.. Kids accounts will tell on mom too. I am lucky to be married to a wonderful and honest Filipino lady, and never met as fine a lady in the states.

[@pietromora2297]

Rubeauti you are a very well spoken young lady, who presence herself in a great manner. Keep up the good work.

[@bobbywalters9768]

Thank you.. yes, I thought I found the right girl. Then I noticed her "working me" and I said something about it. I recall the first time, I said, "with the money I have sent you, I could have bought a ticket to PI.." She didn't comment. Later she ask for a reload on her phone of 2500 pesos and I thought, wow she is really playing me. Then the phone was broken yet we were talking on it. She took a picture of another phone and sent to me. LOL.. So I just quit talking and calling. Now she blocked me on Christain Philapina... I guess my observation was correct. I think her friends are trying to connect with me now. I just let the phone ring.. It hurt my feelings but it also reminded me, that I knew early on and so it was a good lesson, to be prepared for what can happened.. I appreciate your honesty. I will subscribe and be looking forward to hear from you again! Thank You! BW

[@jamar1923]

My wife works in the nursing field and she work with this woman whose Filipino , so this Filipina married this foreigner and he moved her and her two children to the States . He helped raise her two children and put them through college and a course he was older than she , so he started to become sick and had to go into a nursing home and one day the Filipina came to visit him in the nursing home and told this man who helped he out of poverty and put her two children through college that she never loved him and she was leaving him and going back to the Philippines and the kids who he put though college never came to visit this man in the nursing home or ever again . I filled so bad for this man . She played this man all this time so she can get a free education for her two children .

[@rogershapiro]

You cannot "trust" ANY Filipina or Filipino. They are a survival culture and have zero morality and will do anything to survive. My wife of 24 was a saint, but her family are nothing but low life scammers. My wife just died, and her family are circling around her money. So they will show up with a fake will, try to bribe a lawyer or Judge anything for money. The worst human beings that I ever encountered, and they are the norm for this country. 2 trustworthy people out of a 150-member family. I changed my plans about retiring to this country bases on how horrible these people are.

[@CharlesRaines4946]

I am glad that something similar didn't happen to me, a long time ago I met a pinay online. We chatted for 2 weeks before leaving without a word she later told me that she was busy with her nursing studies and volunteer work (and I believed her) it wasn't until I tried to find love online again and I found out that she was searching for love (even though she was too busy to chat with me) then I finally noticed all ang kalokohan that I had been too blind to notice before everything from turning off the webcamera, refusing to tell me about herself, lying about her whereabouts, lying about her siblings whereabouts, lying about her age etc etc. Still to this day I don't know who Maria Josefa Jubas Rico really is or if she even exist.

[@EdnaAmayun-qc2nk]

If this is true,it's a clear example of ungratefulness.its painful story.

[@Niftynorm1]

Thank you for a timely and informative video. Seeing you is great to chase the rain clouds away on a gloomy day in Detroit. It is sad that there are so many ways to scam people but most prey upon the lonely and desperate who maybe don't socialize very well. I fell into a scam with an online app, they start out fine and sweet then after a while might ask for help with an emergency or some excuse. Then it is something else until you finally get suspicious. IF it is too good to be true then it probably is. All you can do is move on and don't be stupid twice. If it happens again then it is your own fault and not the other persons. Rubeauti have you considered setting up a Patreon account? Good luck and stay safe.

[@nellatl]

Easiest way is they tell you they love you on first day

[@guinness718]

💥ONLY DESPERATE MEN GET SCAMMED💯 The indicators are always clear. These men just chose to ignore them

[@TC-kf9zw]

Video chat, video chat, video chat is what you need to do from the start... If they don't want to thats the first red flag they are a scammer... Then if they do video chat but only once in awhile or at certain times only, that's the next red flag... An final asking for money from the start is the biggest red flag they are a scammer.... Also guys from the start tell the girl you aren't there to take care of her family, set this rule from the start... (Side note its ok to help her parents once in awhile but not until you are together or even married)

[@curtisstockton7890]

im truly amazed by the clearest english you speak..so truly clear

[@raethdarkflame1292]

One of the first Filipinas that I talked to on a dating site last year lied on her profile saying that she was not married and had no kids. Turned out that she is married to a guy that left her to go work in Dubai and she has two children with him. The legal problems that can arise from being with a woman like that are dangerous for a foreign guy. Not to mention that if she was willing to lie like that, there’s no way to trust her about anything else.

[@andrestamour9110]

Thank you lovely Rubeauti for covering the topic. Lots of great advise! There's lots of scammers out there!

[@macscotty9997]

The girl next door to our condo in One Oasis Condos-Davao City has been taking support money from several long distant relationships at the same time for years. She is now engaged for a third time, this time to another clueless bloke. Meanwhile, she is living the life of luxury with millions of pesos in her bank! Men believe her, and these men are blinded in their pursuit of love with a Filipina!

[@saucetraveler2850]

Maybe is good idea when you have the oportunity, talk with any of that man. If they come to visit Davao

[@jerryallen7242]

I think I’ve had just about every version of online dating scams that are currently out there. Ugh. Thanks for sharing truth!

[@O-Friendly]

You are such a nice and beautiful young lady. It's hard to believe some guy would want to try and scam you. It's amazing how evil some people can be

[@TravellingMan20]

Another enjoyable and useful video Rubeauti, so thanks for that. You’re obviously a caring person and genuinely want to help people avoid scammers. I hope your channel continues to grow. Pretty little dress btw 😊 looks great.

Excellent video. Great information. Thanks for making it.

[@iant8842]

Thank you again for another informative video. Unfortunately with continuing Covid restrictions it is very easy for a scammer to make a number of excuses that sound so real as to why you cannot meet in person. God Bless.

[@onepalerider]

I did get scammed. This was before I had ever even thought about going to the Philippines. I had "followed" woman on Facebook that I thought was attractive. I would see pictures and videos that she would post form time to time...nothing unusual, and I had no reason to suspect that she was anything other than what she appeared, and she really wasn't. After several months, I think I had commented on a photo or something, and she had commented back. Eventually this led to chatting. It was all pretty normal...nothing overtly sexual, or any kind of "special" pictures...just normal conversation. Well eventually, she just came out and asked me for some help to fix her family's broken refrigerator. I didn't think anything of it, and asked her how much she needed. I think it was about $150 American. So I said sure, how do I send it? I had now idea how much money that really was for a Filipina. She thanked me profusely, and I think even sent a couple of videos saying thank you. ( not dirty...just regular videos ) I didn't think anything of it. Then a few weeks later, she was asking for more money for something else...I don't remember what. And again, I said sure, no problem. By this time, I think she figured that she had her a sugar daddy. There was never any talk of me coming over there or anaything...just friendly requests for more money. About this time I started to see videos popping up on KZbin about this topic, I think by the Filipina Pea. That's when I realized......Now I know...and I won't send a single penny over to anyone over there. Thank you for these videos!

[@briansimson933]

Very sad that there are so many scammers out there! Thanks for another fun video! Best regards from Ventura, CA

[@charlesscinta7377]

Hello Lovely, yes I was living in Vietnam for 15 years and I agree it’s all over the world. If you don’t have common sense you will get ripped off. Great videos keep up the good work. I will be to Philippines in the next 4 or 5 months.

[@David-hl3bg]

I had a filipina who was very good in her scam. A single mom who always brought out a chaperon with us for one year. After one year I found out the chaperon was the father of her baby. She gave a plausible excuse for him to come along. I also met her lola tito tatay and ate. The ate often came out with us. It was not the traditional meet with the lola which I thought was odd. just a quick hi and rush me off to the other room. So when she asked for me to go for the home run I declined. Two years later I finally met the lola without her there and everything was in the open. The lola told me to leave her as she was scamming. one year later Karma got her and she took a OFW job where she thought it was a hotel job but she became a bar girl.

[@DC-cz2sr]

damn

[@Bunny.lovley]

Oops

[@josephbyerly-noaafederal632]

I really like the dress. Very feminine.

[@danielcarlies5151]

Don't loose you kindness. I refuse to loose minds

[@chrisburdon9353]

Hello there , yeah ive experienced many of the things you have outlined , its very difficult to find someone who is honest loyal supportive and faithful , your comments are very real and helpful

[@alickak8346]

Dont want to show you a Facebook account.. that it was deactivated.. for family or hacked don't remember PW and Facebook should be old not newly created.. scammers want to use WhatsApp and skype so they show you what they want you to see..

[@thomasandrewphd.5844]

Wow yes I was scammed big time before but never again. thank you for sharing Rubeauti

[@brianbaxter3913]

Hi Rubeaui. Very good topic and one guys should be paying attention too. Scammers come in many forms and will try anything to get what they want from you. I can't even begin to tell you how many I have come across in my time online chatting with people. Some are very bold and ask right up front on the first time chatting some wait a while to ask for help and in most cases you can see it coming before it happens if you are paying attention. I even had one try to get money from me using the Pandemic saying her brother was arrested for being out past curfew and needed money to get him out of jail. In the past I have sent money to some for a birthday or something like that but no great amount. Some never chatted after I sent them a few dollars some did for a while but suddenly disappeared and some asked for birthday money a second time in the same year. Needless to say they got no response. I have an ex there that was great till meeting in person and it never worked out cause I really felt like I was being used and some things happened when I was there that did not add up and after I returned home suddenly she needed help for everything even though she had a good job. Moral of the story is pay attention to the conversation and never promise anything and don't send money and most important meet in person and spend time 24/7 with them and see how things go. Keep up the good work with your videos Rubeauti. I always enjoy them a lot. You are very beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have you as his partner. Keep smiling and stay safe my dear

[@stevenundzid4765]

Good job with this video just being real. Thanks for sharing helping people not become victims. Poverty will make a person do just about anything, and being a Filipino, and all the love they have for their families, its easy for them to justify taking money to feed their families, Understandable, but guys need to know whats really going on with some of the people that are very poor, iv'e been there before and made friends girls and guys and they never asked me for money or even wanted to. they didn't earn that much but were professionals in their occupations and i admired them, and i met very poor people offering me some food or a drink of beer walking down the street or just say hello. I've been moved by their lifestyle and how they interact with each other is almost like all brothers and sisters. The whole country for the most part has a serious bond in love which i find attractive . Many different cultures should learn from them. I Love The Philippines. Be cause of the people! Thank you all for your fine hospitality when i was visiting.

[@donjohnsonsigns1]

Another excellent video! Thank you so much for being so honest and straightforward about everything about scammers!

[@bradkerr4478]

A sign of a trustful filipina, she will never ask you for money or to buy her food or things. They are out there you just have to sort through the bad girls.

[@VintageStereoCollector]

I can tell that you really have a good heart and your very smart Ms.rube and they way how your teaching people out there it’s really a good person ❤

[@Roadglide59]

Another great video. I can't speak for everyone, but I think most of us are looking for a good woman who we can provide for and share our lives with. Most of us are too much in a hurry so we look online instead of waiting until we are there. Online scams happen online. Yes, I found mine online and it's been great. Thanks for the great video again.

[@tombarnett8078]

Cheryl Caballero wants to meet a good foreigner Send her a FB reguest

[@HannibalTheDragon]

I had a lot of scammers on the dating sites...I can't believe a guy would scam you... Your such a (Ru)beauti....s but would be lucky to be with you... thanks for covering this topic

[@chrishobbs484]

Mack sure you video chat always all the time because to make sure she's a real person because I video chat with a girl from the Philippines all the time she seems to be so nice

[@kentfonda8245]

Interesting topic... thanks for addressing it.

[@paulcohen6727]

If someone asks you for help, that doesn’t mean that they’re a scammer or insincere. Their needs may well be real along with their desire for a relationship and commitment. Most people are fairly transparent if you’re paying attention and you trust your gut. You can easily discern who’s genuine and who’s a cheat

[@charlesstevens9358]

You seem to be a very sweet lady. I hope your life is filled with love and laughter. God Bless You!

[@markthompson5240]

Great, sound advice Rubeauti. It is interesting seeing all these freshly and not so freshly scammed guys shooting their shot with you in their comments.. My comment is late but I think a part of the problem is many men, no matter where, tend to project their attraction on a woman, Filipina other otherwise, with even mere politeness or friendliness on the woman's part. Unfortunately because it is just projection, they think their target of their affection is as equally as enamored in them.. Especially when they do not notice signs, body language etc that the female really has no interest in them. But they move forward regardless. I used to do this too so I understand the behavior.

[@jeanclauderoget3756]

You are a gem. I enjoy your video. Straight to the point.

[@alexanderwilliams2208]

Thank you for your honesty. Scammers are smart and know how to take advantage of others. Don't feel that way because that could happen to anyone. You are amazing and Beautiful inside and out. They have tried with me. Your information is spot on. Hope that you find the happiness that you deserve. Look forward seeing more of you and learning about the Philippines. Planning a trip there soon. 😊😍❤️💕😘

[@sandman6988]

Good video.....100 percent agree! Moral of the story is don't buy into her BS and don't be afraid to say NO!

[@kenmichielsen1642]

Hey there Rubeauti! Scary episode! 😂 You know, dating site scam is all over the place. 5 years ago as a 50yr old I spent 6 months on a regional European dating site. Besides the embarrassing moments and interrogations I met 3 scammers. Blablabla... I reported them. Bye bye! 😂 It was nice to see you tell about your experiences too. Very brave yet vulnerable. 😊 I feel like I met you a little better in this episode. 😉

[@davidfleming9385]

Thank you for the great advice and warning signals. I came close to getting scammed but I watched enough videos with similar advice during the Pandemic (while waiting to travel there) that I was able to keep any money I sent to a minimum -- and I always considered it a donation, mostly to help KZbinrs who were just starting out and needed help with their new channels. As far as personal relationships, I will not send any money overseas and I will wait until I get there to try to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with.

[@bubblesbhubzvlog4378]

Yes true it is better if you meet in person

[@terrystanton8914]

There is nothing more attractive than a woman who adorns a dress ,and Rubeauti are extremely attractive. Good video ,good communicator ,very informative..

[@Michael-gg5sq]

i'm very lucky with the filipina i met, we meet more than a year ago now and i went to her for 2 months in the province, i wish everybody who look for filipina to find one like i did, she's loving and caring, don't lose hope, those women exist too on dating app

[@kevindiment]

nice to see you again, I feel for you for how the stories upset you, it was brilliant vlog thank you, You are lovely, take care and stay safe 🙂😷

[@dewizard1879]

1 common trend iv found, is they claim to not know their home address, or they have extreme problems 1 after the other. 1 claimed her mother was in the hospital with blood sugar over 500 but sent money to a "friend" then in the same few days they claim their phone isn't working and they need more money,can't get a job,contracted food posioning. Can't afford food. Won't video call, or promise to do things the next day but change the subject,lots of gaslighting.

[@MobileGamingChronicles]

God it's FREE to video chat! For God's sake if you never ask for video chat nowadays, and they just share pictures, and if you ask for video chat and they make excuses not to, BLOCK them! It's so simple, and will save a lot of time and headache and heartache! 🤦🤦🤦

[@CrownB78]

You are amazing & genuine. I hope there are more out there like you..

[@CrownB78]

@@Rubeauti My pleasure & thank you for all of the incite. Your BF is a lucky Man for sure ;) Oh & Christian Filipina seems much better, I am setting up an account now ( USER ID: 2174449 )💕 Sorry for the strange picture, this account is normally only used for business lol

[@bradleyb.425]

You make GREAT helpful videos. Thank you! I've never dated online so your advice is welcome.

[@mathsrescue]

Thank you!

[@Iam_adventurer]

Thank you for your being honest with all info. You're honest and good girl and your also beautiful. I did have a baby with a girl there but it turned out that she's married and her husband using her to trick me. It so sad and I'm so sorry to talk about it on public platform. I learned a lot after that incident. I'm from tiny country in the Pacific

[@JohnWilson-sp6vc]

Good video. It makes you wonder if you can trust anyone anymore. Which is sad.

[@noegarza1127]

Real Beauty thank you for your informative video. Your intelligence on this subject is a blessing to many who watch this. You are a very gifted young lady very beautiful, intelligent with very caring voice. Thank you again for your good work

[@davidgreer1435]

I loved this video. I signed up for a one month period on a dating site and within 2 days had over 1000 likes and hundreds of wanting to chats. I selected 4 ladies to chat with and one by one started marking them off due to many of the signs you mentioned here. Way too many compliments (oh, I liked them but there were a lot), one wanted to call the first day and when I called her she let me know how hard her life was to get me to feel. As and send her money, one after two days of talking let asked me for money. Because her mom was in hospital for an emergency, another wanted money to start a buisness so she would be financially set for when I come to visit, the fourth I had hopes for until she told me she couldn’t send me any photos of herself or video chat because her phone was to old. So I stopped the dating site. I am planning on buy the Philippines next summer and possibly moving there in two years. Was hoping to getting to know someone as a tour guide and friend before I come over next summer but now just plan on winging it. Lol

[@bobbruce4135]

I was in the PH years back just out of Uni. The ladies were getting many hundreds to thousands of old fashioned pen-pal letters. Some put shoe boxes of them outside their boarding houses, etc. But, the ladies I met IRL shocked me with photos of old men they were courting by mail. They needed money for a better life for their their entire extended family. These same ladies would ask me if I'd be the father of their child, but didn't love me. Also, after professing love, they could just ghost me (light switch suddenly goes out when they can't get money). You have to be able to stomach the poverty and crimes you will encounter IRL. You see the posts of guys saying they have a great wife and dozens of kids, but I'd say there are 99 more who got badly burned. Bottom line, just don't get your hopes up too high. Initially, it will seem like you can find true love (happy). Later on you realize it's not. Peace.

[@davidgreer7890]

@@bobbruce4135 I’m not going in hopes of finding true love or love at all for that matter. I did the dating thing as an experiment due to the fact I follow several KZbinrs who have had guests on their shows. The guest talk about how badly they got burned or went broke quickly by giving their money to their “love” and then their love moved on. Each guest said they met their “girlfriends on the dating sites and were soon sending them money without ever meeting them. So out of curiosity (because I like to see things for myself) I signed up for Filipino Cupid. And I was shocked, not fooled, by how many ladies thought I was all that and a bag of chips. As each one made their way to asking for money I wished them a good life and deleted them. I will have to admit the last one lasted two weeks before getting around to it. I feel bad for guys that truly fall for this and go over thinking they are meeting the love of their life to find out they’ve been a little careless with their finances. I’ve simply been playing with the idea of moving abroad to help retirement go further and this is one of the areas that are suggested. I’ve got several I’m going to visit in the next couple years.

[@Ddog785]

what was the dating site so i never use it ???

[@bobbruce4135]

@@Ddog785 They are all like that. See Wheat Waffles channel on overall dating and geo-maxing to get the stats. Geo max is money max is fake love. Peace.

[@bubblesbhubzvlog4378]

First thing you need to do is don't trust easily and try to get to know them first because not all girls are scammers. Theirs alot of woman that they have a good and nice attitude.

[@nathangibbs7539]

Great video & well spoken

[@robertgrimmond1979]

True Rube, Many scammers in the world in different countries, I can understand in some countries it is not easy to survive and especially hard for mothers with siblings, I also have had a girlfriend that i adored for 5 years and found out she was living with another guy for 14 months, Fully supported her and her 3 kids with everything even a sari store, I have 3 sponsor kids i support in the Philippines and have a lot ask for money over the years, Some have scammed me and some are genuine who need help putting food on the table and paying bills, Nobody is better than anyone else, We all need to find a way to survive in this world, But i believe that you are genuine i can tell by your observation and tone in your voice, One day you will find a good man that will cherish your heart to make you happy in life

[@capybara2795]

Thanks for the video! And I also wanna say that you look great 🙂

[@AzerPaul]

Good info, Rubeauti. The trouble with us humans is that the brain is mostly a servant of the emotions. It works out ways to get what the emotions want. So if love, an emotion, gets you before your reason does, it will be real hard to see the red flags.

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

I have been talking to a Filipina for a little over a month. She is 11 years younger than me. I am 46 and she is 35. She is a pretty woman but very normal. We video chat everyday. I was never interested in being one of those older guys looking to poach someone who was young enough to be my kid. There are many problems with men doing that. It ends up that we actually have the same birthday. She has sent me several ID pictures (passport and other photo IDs) showing her birthdate. She hasn't asked me for money. I did buy her a plane ticket back to the Philippines as she is currently on an OFW contract. I don't feel she is safe and would rather her just be back home. I offered to send her the money so she could purchase the ticket herself. She declined and said I can just buy her the ticket as she is always trying to establish that she isn't after my money. I do keep it in the back of my head that she could still be building up to a bigger scam. That will be revealed eventually if it is the case. The truth will always come out.

[@rutgersmarine2065]

Keep up the great work. I love your channel.

[@lindajamison2774]

I think my friend had been scammed. He’s moved to the Philippines to be with a girl 30 years younger than him with two young kids. He’s grumpy and handicapped, can’t walk without a rollator, has to use catheters several times a day, can be incontinent with his bowels and is on oxygen. There is NO WAY she’s marrying him for his good looks and personality. She sees $$ which he doesn’t even have.

[@michaelhohlt5813]

great video and good luck with your channel!

[@dossiejackson5553]

I met a girl I thought was serious. We've been talking now for almost 3 years. I felt sorry, start spending money. I call myself protecting her. I didn't want her to get money from anybody else. It didn't start like that, but she gave me a sad story. After a while I kind of fell in love with her because she said she liked me. For who I am found out we had a lot of things in common. But as of late the communication has not been good and very recently I tried to video chat her. She did not communicate with me for that 1 particular day and it was weird. So we were supposed to get married and I'm supposed to bring her here with me to America. But sometimes these fool hiccups pop-up. It gives me second thoughts. That's why I looked up your video to see if I could understand a little bit more about the culture. I sent her money because I felt that she would not have to go to any other man for anything and to keep her head straight until I keep it there. Marry her properly once I get to proper paperwork. But when I tried to call her on Messenger. I noticed that her light came on but she did not respond. I find this odd. She has a worker. There to build up a fence. Watching another Filipino video alert. It me that this could be used as a guy that could be a special friend of hers. And the pretense of a worker. I'm not sure I tried not to think like that. Because she come off as a beautiful strong Christian woman. She always quotes the Bible at certain times but then again, here in America we have a lot of false peo preach also, and they're the biggest freaks you ever wants to meet and hypocrites. I'm trying not to think in negative terms like that. But when I'm trying to call you and you pop-up on Messenger for a few minutes, but don't respond. It makes me think that you're in a compromising situation where you cannot refill your video. It makes me consider terminating the idea marriage to her. I feel maybe because it's been a few months since we've been together. Cause I did visit her for 18 days. Very wonderful time. Wonderful family very warm and well to me and I speak to her sister from time to time only as a friend. Her sister shores me that she's not unfaithful. Because I've become very faithful since talking to her and actually physically encountering her in her country, but. When you make a video call and a person is not answering back. But you see, they are likely on where they do. See you, it makes me wonder why all the secrecy and cloak-and-dagger. What kind of excuse could you come up with that 1 when you are able to answer? But choose not to I am at the point where I just want to quit this, take my lungs. Hurt for a while and just let this go. There is there is no excuse. Why you couldn't at least get on the video chat for a few minutes and say well, I cannot talk now. I need, I'm busy but I didn't even get that. That tells me. There's a big red flag there. Because no matter when she calls me. I'm always available in the middle of the night. Are the military day doing work? And when you actually appear on Messenger and do not respond back, that is red flags. And if there's funny business now, I guess there will be funny business in the future. Starting the field as F, she's just using me to get citizenship to come to America and dump me and I was really believing in her for a while but aren't you responding, when I know she's there makes me wonder a whole lot always going on.I'm starting to feel like a sucker and that really hurts

[@walkingtalking123]

The best thing to do is to start out as friends first because how can you love someone or they love you if you jumped straight into a relationship?

[@vickysvblogs4847]

your correct,need to know better first ,trust just once then fall in love takes time not just a first day of chatting or first day of conversation

[@shumlay]

Great segment lots of great information thank you

[@DK-ok1yp]

Very Nice and True information, God Bless You

[@feli1351]

Mrs. Beautiful…you are correct. A teenage girl told me on a dating site to give her money because apparently she was in trouble she said give her money because she was in the hospital and she needs help to pay for the hospital bills, that was an excuse to say she needed help. It was all a lie😢😔😓🥺

[@hillbillywisdom777]

I Appreciate Your Channel and Your Honesty

[@johnp4000]

Your own experience is very relevant and shows you what the problem is? You can get so involved that you ignore all the red flags and just don't want to admit you made a mistake.

[@peterdelacruz8270]

Thank you.

[@vernaxxx8940]

Someone who thinks they can get online and quickly develop a meaningful relationship with a woman from a different culture, background, education and economic status is already halfway to being scammed. Where do you even start in putting such a person straight?

[@jefferysilzer6413]

Thanks for the info!! Love you lots!

[@brad8189]

Just noticed today that a girl I’ve been talking to, we both have two mutual friends on FB, they all look similar that’s when I noticed that all three are the same girl, different names, different pics, different ages, different cities, different job start dates, one is single, one is in a relationship, one is engaged, etc…..🤣🤣🤣. Crazy

[@gordonweber2972]

Thank you Rubeauti. This was a very informative video and you seem like a wonderful person. It is a shame that you got scammed but I suppose we all need to be cautious and get to know people well before we develop deeper relationships. I just liked and subscribed so I'm looking forward to more visits to hear what you have to say. I hope to come to the Philippines as I'm from Florida USA and I love that tropical environment but also love the culture and people of the Philippines. Thank you so much.😂

[@patrickcareyart4080]

Yes I have fallen under the scammer and think I am being scammed yet again. Known her for over three years, met her once back in 2019 even then we sure had our ups and downs she would always get angry over the most stupid of things. Now days our video calls are always so short she always makes excuses why she has to go and she is the one to always end the calls, even her chat is so short and she takes ages to answer. We plan to marry in June of this year but what is so odd she never wants to discuss our marriage plans or if she does speak about marriage it is usually when I bring up the subject. I really have lost any will to love her as I am so depressed, tired of being screwed around. I really have to wise up for my future a man has to be on his guard dating women online as women do too!