5 WARNING SIGNS YOUR GIRL IS A SCAMMER | Filipina-Foreigner Dating in the Philippines

I've listed 5 warning signs she is a scammer. I've also mentioned my experience being scammed! It's just hilarious and I also fell for it. 🥲
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[@pcurbfanpage9844]

We met in person. 3 years together and 6 trips starting in 2017. We were engaged 2019 and prepared for our wedding in 2020. Our wedding was supposed to be April 2020 but due to the crazy coof my flight was cancelled in March 2020. It was a tough pill to swallow. I starting to notice some warning signs, some odd behavior in late February early March. I found out in August that in January 2020, just a few months before we were to be married she was back with her ex. How does that even happen? It doesn’t matter if you meet someone online or in person. A bad person is a bad person. It didn’t take me long to move on and put it behind me. That is life. Pick up the pieces, move forward and don’t look back.

[@Karma52]

Your so right; bad women are all around us, online, at the local 7 eleven. Etc. You just move on. She probably never broke up with the ex. In the 1st place 😉

[@andresdeks]

You dodged a bullet

[@brianandlynphilippines]

Why would a man marry? Bend over much?

[@MobileGamingChronicles]

Yeah and it doesn't matter how careful we are, how much time we invest, and how much we do with our potential partner in person, and it also doesn't matter if you're married as well, we all take the same risk being with someone.

[@Danbb-sc5oc]

Hello Sir im in a similar situation you were the first person i seen in a almost exact situation I thought all was good with my filipina i supported her through her annuelment thought all was fine since i worked with her godmother met her 3x in a year then im like i want to see you again shes like i have work as a nanny i cant make the time to see you...found out later she back with her ex. It feels good to feel im not the only one in this situation i am younger than most at 31 and the filipina older at 37

[@MrPassportKing]

Fortunately I didn't fall for any scams. Although being someone new to dating websites in February, I quickly learned there are so many scammers. I was able to pick up on clues (I even started a list of warning signs). I almost got pulled into investing in a piggery because it seemed real and she was able to quote the costs of things and send photos of an empty area where the pigs would be. The warning sign was how eager she was to talk about the business day and night. As soon as I asked for a video chat. She was gone.

[@stub4958]

Those site are full of scammers. I went on one to look around a few years ago, but didn't load a picture. I kept getting messages telling me how they liked my picture or how handsome I am. Really made me doubt anything on them.

[@MrPassportKing]

@@stub4958 Hahaha...now that's crazy. The scammers are looking for new profiles.

[@vagmanis251]

Always don't give any help to a person you haven't already meet . From my part i made this mistake because i was in love, they use many ways to ask for help and make you feel guilty and help your future Asawa ko. But at the end the truth will come in light. The only bad thing is that take time which is bad for your money and feelings. So for fast results don't send any help at all.

[@davidbishop9067]

I was in a LDR for 2 yrs , I used to laugh at people who would fall in love online ..Before I knew it I was in love online hahahaha..After 2 yrs I sold my properties and planned to move to the Philippines..I arrived in Manila and met my girlfriend, the problem is the girl was pregnant when I arrived 🤣😂🤣😂

[@stub4958]

@@davidbishop9067 WOW! It is difficult at best to filter through people on those sites. To get that far and and find out it wasn't true. Again, wow!

[@brian_atc]

I've only watched a few of your videos, but have learned a lot. Learning about scammers is critical for western guys. I had a Filipina try to scam me claiming her mother died and they didn't have the money to bury her. I didn't have any previous experience with something like this but asked around and found out that she is nothing but serious trouble. Everything about her was a lie and she had no shame when I confronted her about it. Anyways, I learned quickly (thank God) but I know there are tons of guys who fall for these scams. Thanks so much for putting out info that could literally keep someone from being destroyed mentally and financially.

[@tomlambert915]

A common one is where they conveniently kill off the man in the house when often he is right there just off camera.

[@IAM2CAN]

In this case i would say : Sure, i will help you burying her, do you have a shovel?

[@michaelmerrill8467]

I've been with my Filipina for three years, and this is what I've learned. #1. Never send any amount of money that you're not willing to lose by either giving it to her or investing in a house/Lot / buisness. Always Be prepared to cut your loses and walk away. #2. You don't need to tell her exactly how much money you make or how much wealth you have . Make a budget and agree that the amount in the budget is hers to spend and when it's gone it's gone. #3. Never ever bring her back home to the west. Make her live in the Philippines and visit once or twice a year until you're ready to relocate there.

[@dono64]

Why #3? My Filipina wife has been here for 4 years now, life just keeps getting better!

[@lilyjazel5258]

What advice would you give to an American man who settled with a financially destitute UGLY Filipina with crooked and buck teeth ( she can’t smile ) who desperately wants to move to this man’s house because she struggles to pay month to month for her rent . He pays for her airline tickets to visit him . He is old and lonely.

[@Vibemastergaming]

Went on a dating app for filipinas and funny enough the entire app is a sham damn near every profile if not every prpfile wanted my email or wanted me to come to another website to Video chat

[@michaelmerrill8467]

@dono64 Your wife is the exception to the rule sir. Most foreign women that come to the USA 🇺🇸 become poisoned by Feminism and all the garbage thinking that is in our country.

[@michaelmerrill8467]

@dandy3425 I'm sure you can find a lot of good girls on dating apps. However there is risk involved. If u were you I would tall to several girls and be honest about it and then when you like one focus on that one. And then make the trip to Philippines 🇵🇭. You have to be there in person to decide the future you want etc...

[@lastplanehome]

I was Engaged to a Filipino in Davao PH. Together over 4 years,almost 3 years was during Covid 19 , tough being apart. I fly Davao 4 times before Covid shut the whole world down. She broke me up. I feel every thing I did $$ wise better her life. Not angry, just heart broken, Love is powerful. Be safe 🙏🇺🇲💕

[@CindysBisvlog]

Some women can't handle long distance , i also broke up with long distance boyfriend if i see no future of being physically together ... I will do the same if thats how long i will wait with my husband ... Good thing my husband fly after 9months ldr and got married in 2nd visit last 2019 ... and i was able to fly before the world shut down Im from davao too 😇

[@EG-O]

maybe you take too long to have a life together, 4 years is alot of waiting for you to make up you mind. i personally wouldnt wait for you either

[@slimpickins2371]

Covid didn't shut the world down. The global conspiracy did.

[@ede7208]

Scammers and gold diggers are in every country and not just the Philippines. It is best to just go slow and get to know the person well before thinking to get into a relationship with them. I've seen Filipinos who were very good at scamming guys. There are many sweet and honest Filipinas who do desire a husband and who would make a great wife. And it's also sad there are a lot of guys who just use Filipinas for fun and sex and break their hearts after they tell them how much they love them and then just leave them for the next pretty girl they see and want. Take your time to really know the person and don't get crazy in lust because she may be beautiful and sexy. That beautiful, sexy, sweet girl may have a husband and child and other boyfriends which I've seen here in the Philippines.

[@knucklehoagies]

Gold diggers happen in every country but they are much more common in the philippines. I have met countless Filipino women that do the whole "double agenda" thing.

[@klopossa2]

That's why you should ask for a Cenomar before you get serious. I did..if they couldn't or wouldn't..there's yr sign.

[@lucwargnier5283]

Yeah they are expert on scamming and lying but not alll choose the right 1

[@novembermission5626]

@@klopossa2 Good day! Still a foreigner should not be complacent when the Filipina in question present you her Cenomar. There are Filipina's who are into cohabitation (yes, she's not married yet) but have a partner and or a child/children. God bless 🙏

[@frankkelley9684]

Thank you for being so compassionate about the poor guys who have been scammed. And thank you for your advice.

[@ivannovotny4552]

@@Rubeauti I can...sad reality.

[@skykiss12]

Thanks young lady for speaking clearly and not beating around the bush.

[@billiecole4276]

About 10 years ago I met a filipina on line and we began communicating. Anyway to make a long story short. We talked for a couple years fell in love and we now have been married for 8 years. Best thing that ever happened to me. Don't let this scare you.

[@whiteraindrops]

was she like helpless and always asking money even for daily expenses...?

[@vidong1704]

A certain %% are scammers and another %% is not. You were lucky, but others were not.

[@nobodys-fool]

Great video. It takes 2 to be scammed. Always meet the person face to face. Take your time knowing her/him.

[@Murph_.]

I met one of those scammers that were asking for private photos. The excuse she used was "I heard foreigners are bigger than Filipinos. Can you please show me?" I can't imagine anyone falling for this, but some have. I always tell everyone that the easiest and BEST way to meet a wonderful Filipina (like my wife) is to go to the Philippines. Spend some time there. Understand their culture and lifestyle. Meet them there. If you want a long term relationship and you want her to eventually come to your country, it will cost a lot of money to do it. So if you don't have the money to go spend a few weeks or more in the Philippines, you probably won't have the money for all the paperwork and everything else involved in bringing her to you. Also, in the USA, it is very rare for a visa to be given without the two of you meeting in person. So you'll need to go to the Philippines at some point anyway. So again, just plan on going to the Philippines. The longer the time you are there, the better.

[@stub4958]

I read a story a few years back about the PI government busting an organization that would use the picture guys sent like to blackmail them. They hard credit card numbers written on boards around the room and even had an employee of the month.

[@macscotty9997]

Just think! You could have been a star in a gay mens magazine!

[@michaelbowden7695]

I went to Philippines 6 times , each time was 4-5 weeks stay The first time. I met my girl , the whole family , everyone Was there at the airport, I was amazed The second time , I asked her father for her her hand in marriage We stayed engaged for 1year, them had a big wedding in the Philippines It’s 8 years now, we have a daughter 6 years old. We have never argued We live in America, she is now a citizen. I’m in love with her as the day I met her I’m so blessed ! We are blessed Yes it cost much money, but worth every penny It took me 1 year, and meeting many girls online . Yes , they all ask for money My wife never, not once, asked for money

[@macscotty9997]

@@michaelbowden7695 Smart Man! When they ask for money, don't even say goodbye! Just disappear!

[@KickAndTicks]

thanks for the advice

[@tman5634]

An American guy I know has had a long distance relationship with a much younger Filipino woman, for a number of years. He's been going to see her twice per year for a month at a time & sending her money every month in-between. It turns out that she's been married all along & her husband has been in on the scam of draining the American guys money. What gets me is, having a gf thousands of miles away for 10months of the year is no recipe for a good, healthy relationship anyhow. In my mind either commit 100% or not at all. By not doing so, he found out the hard way, she wanted his money & nothing else. Similar stories are rife for long distance relationships all over the world.

[@henrymcmiller2527]

Thanks. I found myself in the same situation, but I cut it off after 3 months. Again, thanks for your post.

[@truthbetold6496]

some people are just that desperate its sad but true

[@Karma52]

Every country has whores

[@davidgreer1435]

I loved this video. I signed up for a one month period on a dating site and within 2 days had over 1000 likes and hundreds of wanting to chats. I selected 4 ladies to chat with and one by one started marking them off due to many of the signs you mentioned here. Way too many compliments (oh, I liked them but there were a lot), one wanted to call the first day and when I called her she let me know how hard her life was to get me to feel. As and send her money, one after two days of talking let asked me for money. Because her mom was in hospital for an emergency, another wanted money to start a buisness so she would be financially set for when I come to visit, the fourth I had hopes for until she told me she couldn’t send me any photos of herself or video chat because her phone was to old. So I stopped the dating site. I am planning on buy the Philippines next summer and possibly moving there in two years. Was hoping to getting to know someone as a tour guide and friend before I come over next summer but now just plan on winging it. Lol

[@bobbruce4135]

I was in the PH years back just out of Uni. The ladies were getting many hundreds to thousands of old fashioned pen-pal letters. Some put shoe boxes of them outside their boarding houses, etc. But, the ladies I met IRL shocked me with photos of old men they were courting by mail. They needed money for a better life for their their entire extended family. These same ladies would ask me if I'd be the father of their child, but didn't love me. Also, after professing love, they could just ghost me (light switch suddenly goes out when they can't get money). You have to be able to stomach the poverty and crimes you will encounter IRL. You see the posts of guys saying they have a great wife and dozens of kids, but I'd say there are 99 more who got badly burned. Bottom line, just don't get your hopes up too high. Initially, it will seem like you can find true love (happy). Later on you realize it's not. Peace.

[@davidgreer7890]

@@bobbruce4135 I’m not going in hopes of finding true love or love at all for that matter. I did the dating thing as an experiment due to the fact I follow several KZbinrs who have had guests on their shows. The guest talk about how badly they got burned or went broke quickly by giving their money to their “love” and then their love moved on. Each guest said they met their “girlfriends on the dating sites and were soon sending them money without ever meeting them. So out of curiosity (because I like to see things for myself) I signed up for Filipino Cupid. And I was shocked, not fooled, by how many ladies thought I was all that and a bag of chips. As each one made their way to asking for money I wished them a good life and deleted them. I will have to admit the last one lasted two weeks before getting around to it. I feel bad for guys that truly fall for this and go over thinking they are meeting the love of their life to find out they’ve been a little careless with their finances. I’ve simply been playing with the idea of moving abroad to help retirement go further and this is one of the areas that are suggested. I’ve got several I’m going to visit in the next couple years.

[@Ddog785]

what was the dating site so i never use it ???

[@bobbruce4135]

@@Ddog785 They are all like that. See Wheat Waffles channel on overall dating and geo-maxing to get the stats. Geo max is money max is fake love. Peace.

[@bubblesbhubzvlog4378]

First thing you need to do is don't trust easily and try to get to know them first because not all girls are scammers. Theirs alot of woman that they have a good and nice attitude.

[@SeeLasSee]

I lived in Namibia in the 1990s as a teenager and my brother accidentally caused my parrot to escape. We posted notices with reward money. We were scammed with a long story that kept having more layers. We ended up in the slums and giving someone cash while waiting in a taxi. They said it was too dangerous as a white person… they never came back. My mother and I laughed at ourselves. We felt it was a scam but wanted the bird back. This was a small matter but I think I learned a bit about wishful thinking shaping judgments.

[@dianalafferty9456]

Watching my brother go through this......his 3rd overseas wife!!.......just love your advice, which is almost like it was coming from my fathers voice for the last 30 years!!!..................scammers are here for sure! but I must sat, his 2nd wife was my best friend and was an amazing human! She died in childbirths 9 years ago as I was in the labor room with her......BUT he was online dating in less that 3-6 months, and YES she got him......3-4 engagment rings (got stolen, lost, down the drain etc) and then comes the fees for citizenship.....yeah....she IS STILL NOT a citizen, still on a marriage visa which runs out this year, ......BUT yes, he has been sick , hospitalized, etc.....and he's young.. but her visa is running out....and the clock is ticking....just my opinion...lol. Oh, but within 24 hours they bought a "condo rental" in the phillipines that "magically" has NEVER given them a monthly rent payment, nor ever 1 payment in 9 years!.......... OK THATS NORMAL She (his wife) now has 4-6 properties in HER name (cuz remember that they cannot hold real estate in her name unless he is a fillippine citizen) BUT SHE CAN! So go buy 5 or 6 more pieces of property. And a few more semi loads of RC Cola.....omg. My brother and MANY others are being used just like this!!

[@vincentcantley2190]

I love your heart.... I can feel your emotions as you tell these very sad stories, even the one about yourself! I am coming to the Philippines soon and I can only hope to meet a beautiful lady with a pure soul such as yourself! Great video, and thanks for making us all aware!

[@pietromora2297]

Rubeauti you are a very well spoken young lady, who presence herself in a great manner. Keep up the good work.

[@Roadglide59]

Another great video. I can't speak for everyone, but I think most of us are looking for a good woman who we can provide for and share our lives with. Most of us are too much in a hurry so we look online instead of waiting until we are there. Online scams happen online. Yes, I found mine online and it's been great. Thanks for the great video again.

[@tombarnett8078]

Cheryl Caballero wants to meet a good foreigner Send her a FB reguest

[@bobbywalters9768]

Thank you.. yes, I thought I found the right girl. Then I noticed her "working me" and I said something about it. I recall the first time, I said, "with the money I have sent you, I could have bought a ticket to PI.." She didn't comment. Later she ask for a reload on her phone of 2500 pesos and I thought, wow she is really playing me. Then the phone was broken yet we were talking on it. She took a picture of another phone and sent to me. LOL.. So I just quit talking and calling. Now she blocked me on Christain Philapina... I guess my observation was correct. I think her friends are trying to connect with me now. I just let the phone ring.. It hurt my feelings but it also reminded me, that I knew early on and so it was a good lesson, to be prepared for what can happened.. I appreciate your honesty. I will subscribe and be looking forward to hear from you again! Thank You! BW

[@David-hl3bg]

I had a filipina who was very good in her scam. A single mom who always brought out a chaperon with us for one year. After one year I found out the chaperon was the father of her baby. She gave a plausible excuse for him to come along. I also met her lola tito tatay and ate. The ate often came out with us. It was not the traditional meet with the lola which I thought was odd. just a quick hi and rush me off to the other room. So when she asked for me to go for the home run I declined. Two years later I finally met the lola without her there and everything was in the open. The lola told me to leave her as she was scamming. one year later Karma got her and she took a OFW job where she thought it was a hotel job but she became a bar girl.

[@DC-cz2sr]

damn

[@Bunny.lovley]

Oops

[@TheWaterman2011]

The scam stories are like Dating Horror Stories- Early on in my first trip to Philippines- I got scammed by a single mother in serious poverty. I figured it out after a while and dropped my communication immediately.

[@onepalerider]

I did get scammed. This was before I had ever even thought about going to the Philippines. I had "followed" woman on Facebook that I thought was attractive. I would see pictures and videos that she would post form time to time...nothing unusual, and I had no reason to suspect that she was anything other than what she appeared, and she really wasn't. After several months, I think I had commented on a photo or something, and she had commented back. Eventually this led to chatting. It was all pretty normal...nothing overtly sexual, or any kind of "special" pictures...just normal conversation. Well eventually, she just came out and asked me for some help to fix her family's broken refrigerator. I didn't think anything of it, and asked her how much she needed. I think it was about $150 American. So I said sure, how do I send it? I had now idea how much money that really was for a Filipina. She thanked me profusely, and I think even sent a couple of videos saying thank you. ( not dirty...just regular videos ) I didn't think anything of it. Then a few weeks later, she was asking for more money for something else...I don't remember what. And again, I said sure, no problem. By this time, I think she figured that she had her a sugar daddy. There was never any talk of me coming over there or anaything...just friendly requests for more money. About this time I started to see videos popping up on KZbin about this topic, I think by the Filipina Pea. That's when I realized......Now I know...and I won't send a single penny over to anyone over there. Thank you for these videos!

[@everyonehasadream]

Before this video, I had never heard the terms "catfish" or "catfishing". Thank you, Rubeauti, for the heads up.

[@user-nr5ut2hc9y]

Really, there is a show about it , called catfish and it is an old term.

[@neilgunns8391]

It's only around 10 years old. That's not that long.

[@everyonehasadream]

@@neilgunns8391 Unless you're counting in dog years!

[@everyonehasadream]

@@user-nr5ut2hc9y I don't watch tv but I'm checking out the show here on KZbin. It looks like a time-waster.

[@neilgunns8391]

Yeah Google says it started around 2010.

[@phillipmoore3533]

Thanks!

[@thomasandrewphd.5844]

Wow yes I was scammed big time before but never again. thank you for sharing Rubeauti

[@charlesscinta7377]

Hello Lovely, yes I was living in Vietnam for 15 years and I agree it’s all over the world. If you don’t have common sense you will get ripped off. Great videos keep up the good work. I will be to Philippines in the next 4 or 5 months.

[@O-Friendly]

You are such a nice and beautiful young lady. It's hard to believe some guy would want to try and scam you. It's amazing how evil some people can be

[@stevenundzid4765]

Good job with this video just being real. Thanks for sharing helping people not become victims. Poverty will make a person do just about anything, and being a Filipino, and all the love they have for their families, its easy for them to justify taking money to feed their families, Understandable, but guys need to know whats really going on with some of the people that are very poor, iv'e been there before and made friends girls and guys and they never asked me for money or even wanted to. they didn't earn that much but were professionals in their occupations and i admired them, and i met very poor people offering me some food or a drink of beer walking down the street or just say hello. I've been moved by their lifestyle and how they interact with each other is almost like all brothers and sisters. The whole country for the most part has a serious bond in love which i find attractive . Many different cultures should learn from them. I Love The Philippines. Be cause of the people! Thank you all for your fine hospitality when i was visiting.

[@gregeoryl]

My advice is to look for alternate Facebook accounts. Surprisingly, people have multiple accounts for multiple boyfriends, anywhere, and is the easiest way to catch lies. If they post in Filipino languages, they usually assume that you don't understand or won't interpret it.. Kids accounts will tell on mom too. I am lucky to be married to a wonderful and honest Filipino lady, and never met as fine a lady in the states.

[@raethdarkflame1292]

One of the first Filipinas that I talked to on a dating site last year lied on her profile saying that she was not married and had no kids. Turned out that she is married to a guy that left her to go work in Dubai and she has two children with him. The legal problems that can arise from being with a woman like that are dangerous for a foreign guy. Not to mention that if she was willing to lie like that, there’s no way to trust her about anything else.

[@Randy30165]

I love your videos especially the ones in the province thank you so much 😊

[@johns7002]

Great video as always! This is off topic but have you ever considered doing a video on STI/STDs in the PH? What are the most common ones, attitudes, how to bring up a discussion with your (future) partner and avoid stigmas, where a couple could get tested, costs involved, and how to handle a situation where it turns out a test returns positive. What people consider an STD. For example here in the US a lot of people are in denial that HSV is an STI ( I think it's likely that those people may have it and want to dismiss it as an issue). Even medical professionals down play it (HSV). The older I get the more I run into this issue. It's a hard issue to deal with when one person has it and the other does not. It's a hard decision to step back. I have tried to think about how my partner would handle the situation if the roles were reversed and base my decision to proceed on that. This topic gets very little attention on the PH vlogs I watch so I am suggesting it to vloggers I watch. Thanks!

[@bobbruce4135]

Great topic. Might need medical / hospital / health department records to achieve accurate results as saving face and lack of medical knowledge are rampant. But, I do believe there a lot of HPV and other diseases that are under-reported. Peace.

[@klopossa2]

@@Rubeautiyes

[@jbtransport64]

Thats my concern as well.

[@chrisburdon9353]

Hello there , yeah ive experienced many of the things you have outlined , its very difficult to find someone who is honest loyal supportive and faithful , your comments are very real and helpful

[@davidhaylett1810]

Being scammed is voluntary. Immediately ditch anyone who asks for one peso. Don’t get involved with anyone who can’t pay their own phone bills

[@CindysBisvlog]

Agree

[@ShawnVanNinja]

Are you blaming people who were scammed for being tricked? That's what the scammers use as a defense in court and they still face justice!

[@davidhaylett1810]

@@ShawnVanNinja It’s not about blaming the victim, the scammer is to blame. I’m just saying that if you don’t hand over money you can’t get scammed. I’m afraid it’s a case of there being ‘no fool like an old fool’

[@ShawnVanNinja]

@davidhaylett1810 sometimes the homeless guy asking for change is because he really needs help to survive and sometimes it's someone just looking for drug money. If you don't know should we never try and help? Just walk by?

[@frankcentofanti9317]

well said 100% agree

[@davidfleming9385]

Thank you for the great advice and warning signals. I came close to getting scammed but I watched enough videos with similar advice during the Pandemic (while waiting to travel there) that I was able to keep any money I sent to a minimum -- and I always considered it a donation, mostly to help KZbinrs who were just starting out and needed help with their new channels. As far as personal relationships, I will not send any money overseas and I will wait until I get there to try to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with.

[@bubblesbhubzvlog4378]

Yes true it is better if you meet in person

[@HannibalTheDragon]

I had a lot of scammers on the dating sites...I can't believe a guy would scam you... Your such a (Ru)beauti....s but would be lucky to be with you... thanks for covering this topic

[@terrystanton8914]

There is nothing more attractive than a woman who adorns a dress ,and Rubeauti are extremely attractive. Good video ,good communicator ,very informative..

[@walkingtalking123]

The best thing to do is to start out as friends first because how can you love someone or they love you if you jumped straight into a relationship?

[@vickysvblogs4847]

your correct,need to know better first ,trust just once then fall in love takes time not just a first day of chatting or first day of conversation

[@charlesstevens9358]

You seem to be a very sweet lady. I hope your life is filled with love and laughter. God Bless You!

[@iant8842]

Thank you again for another informative video. Unfortunately with continuing Covid restrictions it is very easy for a scammer to make a number of excuses that sound so real as to why you cannot meet in person. God Bless.

[@andrestamour9110]

Thank you lovely Rubeauti for covering the topic. Lots of great advise! There's lots of scammers out there!

[@waynejensen4224]

I met a Filipina here in Antipolo. I was talking to her about a couple scams I've heard of here in the Philippines. Well , it turns out that this girl had an American man run a scam on her ! They met and everything was good between them and he took her back to the USA with him. And it turned out that he wanted her to get a job , cook the food , pay all of the bills ; basically support him entirely. Well , I got lucky with my Filipina. She's a gift from God. You have a good day Ma'am. Take care of yourself.

[@CindysBisvlog]

Some foreigner are like that Filipina need to be careful as well

[@macscotty9997]

The girl next door to our condo in One Oasis Condos-Davao City has been taking support money from several long distant relationships at the same time for years. She is now engaged for a third time, this time to another clueless bloke. Meanwhile, she is living the life of luxury with millions of pesos in her bank! Men believe her, and these men are blinded in their pursuit of love with a Filipina!

[@unoqueviaja]

Maybe is good idea when you have the oportunity, talk with any of that man. If they come to visit Davao

[@TC-kf9zw]

Video chat, video chat, video chat is what you need to do from the start... If they don't want to thats the first red flag they are a scammer... Then if they do video chat but only once in awhile or at certain times only, that's the next red flag... An final asking for money from the start is the biggest red flag they are a scammer.... Also guys from the start tell the girl you aren't there to take care of her family, set this rule from the start... (Side note its ok to help her parents once in awhile but not until you are together or even married)

[@briansimson933]

Very sad that there are so many scammers out there! Thanks for another fun video! Best regards from Ventura, CA

[@markthompson5240]

Great, sound advice Rubeauti. It is interesting seeing all these freshly and not so freshly scammed guys shooting their shot with you in their comments.. My comment is late but I think a part of the problem is many men, no matter where, tend to project their attraction on a woman, Filipina other otherwise, with even mere politeness or friendliness on the woman's part. Unfortunately because it is just projection, they think their target of their affection is as equally as enamored in them.. Especially when they do not notice signs, body language etc that the female really has no interest in them. But they move forward regardless. I used to do this too so I understand the behavior.

[@brianbaxter3913]

Hi Rubeaui. Very good topic and one guys should be paying attention too. Scammers come in many forms and will try anything to get what they want from you. I can't even begin to tell you how many I have come across in my time online chatting with people. Some are very bold and ask right up front on the first time chatting some wait a while to ask for help and in most cases you can see it coming before it happens if you are paying attention. I even had one try to get money from me using the Pandemic saying her brother was arrested for being out past curfew and needed money to get him out of jail. In the past I have sent money to some for a birthday or something like that but no great amount. Some never chatted after I sent them a few dollars some did for a while but suddenly disappeared and some asked for birthday money a second time in the same year. Needless to say they got no response. I have an ex there that was great till meeting in person and it never worked out cause I really felt like I was being used and some things happened when I was there that did not add up and after I returned home suddenly she needed help for everything even though she had a good job. Moral of the story is pay attention to the conversation and never promise anything and don't send money and most important meet in person and spend time 24/7 with them and see how things go. Keep up the good work with your videos Rubeauti. I always enjoy them a lot. You are very beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have you as his partner. Keep smiling and stay safe my dear

[@alexanderwilliams2208]

Thank you for your honesty. Scammers are smart and know how to take advantage of others. Don't feel that way because that could happen to anyone. You are amazing and Beautiful inside and out. They have tried with me. Your information is spot on. Hope that you find the happiness that you deserve. Look forward seeing more of you and learning about the Philippines. Planning a trip there soon. 😊😍❤️💕😘

[@CrownB78]

You are amazing & genuine. I hope there are more out there like you..

[@CrownB78]

@@Rubeauti My pleasure & thank you for all of the incite. Your BF is a lucky Man for sure ;) Oh & Christian Filipina seems much better, I am setting up an account now ( USER ID: 2174449 )💕 Sorry for the strange picture, this account is normally only used for business lol

[@curtisstockton7890]

im truly amazed by the clearest english you speak..so truly clear

[@ISLANDERPOLYBOY]

Alot of mixing with foreigners 😜😅

[@glenproctor1999]

Thank you lovely Rubeauti for covering the topic. I had an attempted scam from a 'girl' in Indonesia. It happens everywhere. Several clues gave 'her' away. Refusing to Skype with ridiculous excuses, asking for a birthday present and when I checked her Facebook page (she gave me the page!) her birthday was 6 months off. I actually bought her a small gift just to see what happens and she wouldn't give me her address to send it to, using a 'work' address! Another sign I've heard of is 'girls' who try to move you very quickly from social media to Whatsapp. Stay safe and well lovely lady! ❤🥰

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

Why do they want you to move to WhatsApp?

[@glenproctor1999]

@@SuperDrJeckyl They want you off monitored sites so the scam isn't recorded. Also want to use the social media/dating site for another victim so they need you away from there.

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

@@glenproctor1999 Thanks. I was wondering why but they do that on LinkedIn, too.

[@jeffreylindenwhite7930]

@@SuperDrJeckyl I still don't know why Jeff. Glen P.'s comments didn't post. I've been using WhatsApp because it's free, provides a clear video and vocals, and outperforms Skype.

[@CindysBisvlog]

Doesnt mean a girl want to move in whatsapp is a scammer i did the same when i was in dating site ,, when i met my husband on website its only hi and hello and i give my viber or whatsapp number and we contacted there because whatsapp and viber is more easy to access than website

[@jonjackson7801]

Thankyou for the informative video, and your honesty. I have being scam as well. I just trusted the person who I was talking too. I still looking for my filipina princess. So it's wonderful to listen to your experience and advice.

[@Niftynorm1]

Thank you for a timely and informative video. Seeing you is great to chase the rain clouds away on a gloomy day in Detroit. It is sad that there are so many ways to scam people but most prey upon the lonely and desperate who maybe don't socialize very well. I fell into a scam with an online app, they start out fine and sweet then after a while might ask for help with an emergency or some excuse. Then it is something else until you finally get suspicious. IF it is too good to be true then it probably is. All you can do is move on and don't be stupid twice. If it happens again then it is your own fault and not the other persons. Rubeauti have you considered setting up a Patreon account? Good luck and stay safe.

[@TravellingMan20]

Another enjoyable and useful video Rubeauti, so thanks for that. You’re obviously a caring person and genuinely want to help people avoid scammers. I hope your channel continues to grow. Pretty little dress btw 😊 looks great.

[@Michael-gg5sq]

i'm very lucky with the filipina i met, we meet more than a year ago now and i went to her for 2 months in the province, i wish everybody who look for filipina to find one like i did, she's loving and caring, don't lose hope, those women exist too on dating app

[@feli1351]

Mrs. Beautiful…you are correct. A teenage girl told me on a dating site to give her money because apparently she was in trouble she said give her money because she was in the hospital and she needs help to pay for the hospital bills, that was an excuse to say she needed help. It was all a lie😢😔😓🥺

[@bradkerr4478]

A sign of a trustful filipina, she will never ask you for money or to buy her food or things. They are out there you just have to sort through the bad girls.

[@donjohnsonsigns1]

Another excellent video! Thank you so much for being so honest and straightforward about everything about scammers!

[@lindajamison2774]

I think my friend had been scammed. He’s moved to the Philippines to be with a girl 30 years younger than him with two young kids. He’s grumpy and handicapped, can’t walk without a rollator, has to use catheters several times a day, can be incontinent with his bowels and is on oxygen. There is NO WAY she’s marrying him for his good looks and personality. She sees $$ which he doesn’t even have.

[@dossiejackson5553]

I met a girl I thought was serious. We've been talking now for almost 3 years. I felt sorry, start spending money. I call myself protecting her. I didn't want her to get money from anybody else. It didn't start like that, but she gave me a sad story. After a while I kind of fell in love with her because she said she liked me. For who I am found out we had a lot of things in common. But as of late the communication has not been good and very recently I tried to video chat her. She did not communicate with me for that 1 particular day and it was weird. So we were supposed to get married and I'm supposed to bring her here with me to America. But sometimes these fool hiccups pop-up. It gives me second thoughts. That's why I looked up your video to see if I could understand a little bit more about the culture. I sent her money because I felt that she would not have to go to any other man for anything and to keep her head straight until I keep it there. Marry her properly once I get to proper paperwork. But when I tried to call her on Messenger. I noticed that her light came on but she did not respond. I find this odd. She has a worker. There to build up a fence. Watching another Filipino video alert. It me that this could be used as a guy that could be a special friend of hers. And the pretense of a worker. I'm not sure I tried not to think like that. Because she come off as a beautiful strong Christian woman. She always quotes the Bible at certain times but then again, here in America we have a lot of false peo preach also, and they're the biggest freaks you ever wants to meet and hypocrites. I'm trying not to think in negative terms like that. But when I'm trying to call you and you pop-up on Messenger for a few minutes, but don't respond. It makes me think that you're in a compromising situation where you cannot refill your video. It makes me consider terminating the idea marriage to her. I feel maybe because it's been a few months since we've been together. Cause I did visit her for 18 days. Very wonderful time. Wonderful family very warm and well to me and I speak to her sister from time to time only as a friend. Her sister shores me that she's not unfaithful. Because I've become very faithful since talking to her and actually physically encountering her in her country, but. When you make a video call and a person is not answering back. But you see, they are likely on where they do. See you, it makes me wonder why all the secrecy and cloak-and-dagger. What kind of excuse could you come up with that 1 when you are able to answer? But choose not to I am at the point where I just want to quit this, take my lungs. Hurt for a while and just let this go. There is there is no excuse. Why you couldn't at least get on the video chat for a few minutes and say well, I cannot talk now. I need, I'm busy but I didn't even get that. That tells me. There's a big red flag there. Because no matter when she calls me. I'm always available in the middle of the night. Are the military day doing work? And when you actually appear on Messenger and do not respond back, that is red flags. And if there's funny business now, I guess there will be funny business in the future. Starting the field as F, she's just using me to get citizenship to come to America and dump me and I was really believing in her for a while but aren't you responding, when I know she's there makes me wonder a whole lot always going on.I'm starting to feel like a sucker and that really hurts

[@kenmichielsen1642]

Hey there Rubeauti! Scary episode! 😂 You know, dating site scam is all over the place. 5 years ago as a 50yr old I spent 6 months on a regional European dating site. Besides the embarrassing moments and interrogations I met 3 scammers. Blablabla... I reported them. Bye bye! 😂 It was nice to see you tell about your experiences too. Very brave yet vulnerable. 😊 I feel like I met you a little better in this episode. 😉

[@Iam_belauadventure]

Thank you for your being honest with all info. You're honest and good girl and your also beautiful. I did have a baby with a girl there but it turned out that she's married and her husband using her to trick me. It so sad and I'm so sorry to talk about it on public platform. I learned a lot after that incident. I'm from tiny country in the Pacific

[@hexagonliver9409]

If a man never ever send any money to a woman, he can have the choice of walking away if ever she becomes rude or nasty to him. But if he had already sent money to her, he is now stuck and he need to become obedient to the woman and behave like her pet dog, for fear that she will leave him after he had already sent her so much money. This type of foolish man become so worried that the woman will leave him, before he can get back any benefits. The more money the man already sent to a woman, the more vulnerable he become, and the more frightened he is that the woman will leave him .

[@RobertoNowSolo]

Not really. I sent $2k to help her with her Acne problem and then I am the one who left her

[@RobertoNowSolo]

Not really. I sent $2k to help her with her Acne problem and then I am the one who left her

[@chrishobbs484]

Mack sure you video chat always all the time because to make sure she's a real person because I video chat with a girl from the Philippines all the time she seems to be so nice

[@Vesalate5151]

Don't loose you kindness. I refuse to loose minds

[@CraigKerwood-001]

As soon as money enters the conversation, it's over.

[@jsmooth176]

I tell them send some 🐱🐱, to be honest I am being a$$hole but how many other have they asked... Not the only one, it's like some panhandlers in New York City who actually have a respectable home.. Just choose to ask for money an do well doing it

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

My flight leaves this wednesday to go and meet her. I am sorry that you possess such a negative spirit. Maybe you will find a reason to start thinking happy thoughts in life.

[@eulabarredo5186]

money is important in marriage

[@Andy-mq6fn]

@@eulabarredo5186 yes its very important

[@danhilarious1395]

Exactly lol😅

[@johnp4000]

Your own experience is very relevant and shows you what the problem is? You can get so involved that you ignore all the red flags and just don't want to admit you made a mistake.

[@75daddygonzo]

About a year ago I met a Filipina girl on the website and talked with her a few days but she kept talking about how poor she was I looked her up on Facebook and found out she was married and had a kid. I never sent her any money though. Now a year later I got back on the site and met someone who seems legit and hard working

[@Anthony-pp3oo]

I am in a long distance relationship with a Filipino she's part Portuguese too I'm going to try the video calling that was a good idea hopefully it'll work I enjoy your videos keep up the good work you are a very beautiful woman and people are scamming you that's pretty bad

[@kentfonda8245]

Interesting topic... thanks for addressing it.

[@brad8189]

Just noticed today that a girl I’ve been talking to, we both have two mutual friends on FB, they all look similar that’s when I noticed that all three are the same girl, different names, different pics, different ages, different cities, different job start dates, one is single, one is in a relationship, one is engaged, etc…..🤣🤣🤣. Crazy

[@JohnWilson-sp6vc]

Good video. It makes you wonder if you can trust anyone anymore. Which is sad.

[@jerryallen7242]

I think I’ve had just about every version of online dating scams that are currently out there. Ugh. Thanks for sharing truth!

Excellent video. Great information. Thanks for making it.

[@kevindiment]

nice to see you again, I feel for you for how the stories upset you, it was brilliant vlog thank you, You are lovely, take care and stay safe 🙂😷

[@daviernus3694]

Sorry if i come up as a creep but i have to write this: it was hard to concentrate on the message of your video, when your hand gestures are so cute and your appearance shook me . It's clear you're not so comfortable speaking in front of the camera at the place you filmed it. Your voice is etheric, you seem honest by the way you describe your stories, aswell as your personal story with scammer/s. At the same time, you're the most beautiful girl i've seen in youtube so far.

[@petermorgan4720]

Great video, Rubeauti - and some really sad stories in the comments. I am so glad you didn't give away any money! For western guys, there are many scam websites pretending to be Asian or Eastern European. I am so pleased that I have a Filipina gf I video chat with for an hour every day. There's also pig-baiting, where attractive (often 'Asian' - though you might never really know) ladies (are they really?) tempt you into investing into something generating amazing returns on a platform that does not really exist. You never get any money back: it's gone. I've had that tried on me a couple of times. This is such an important topic: well done for covering this. :)

[@Broke_Expat]

Guys, just simply do not "meet" a girl first (online) .. Visit, figure out where you would like to live. Meet ladies face to face, look in their eyes, without their husbands present ;-) Rubeauti thanks for your insight, we appreciate it... My goal is to be in the Dumaguete / Valencia area next year...

[@gordonsteuart8620]

This is a great video and all very true. This is not limited to just strangers. What she didn't mention is even your wife's "distant relatives" try to be your online friends and will try to get at your wallet in the Philippines. They will give you all kind of crazy excuses. My husband left me, my son needs medication, my house got hit by a typhoon, etc. I play along and flip the script on them by playing like I am going to help, but never send any money!! They start bugging me and bugging me, and eventually, they block me. 🤣😂

[@VistaLatin]

Hello Miss Rubeati, Sorry about this late response I'm new to your channel but felt compelled to comment for the benefit of your viewers... First let me say that it takes a lot of courage to admit publicly that we failed on what appears common sense to most....I too was scammed some years ago...how? The lady I met said she was in the process of obtaining a tourist visa and needed money to visit me in the US...In my case I sent some money and even bought her a ticket, which of course she never intended to use...I should have known better since it's almost impossible for a citizen from that country to come to the US as a tourist unless they are extremely wealthy....that was the red flag I ignored...roll the tape forward 15 years and I met the most wonderful lady in my life...she's a Filipina and is 100% what she said she was...after 2 plus years of LDR, we finally met in Dumaguete last month where we live happily....

[@davidmccurley6771]

Hi Rubeati, you are correct, these scams can happen so easily because people can fall in love without meeting in person nowadays... as a matter of fact, i already fell in love with you💘when i was watching this video🤣Charot.... Thankyou for the information and as usual you look very maganda😍

[@AzerPaul]

Good info, Rubeauti. The trouble with us humans is that the brain is mostly a servant of the emotions. It works out ways to get what the emotions want. So if love, an emotion, gets you before your reason does, it will be real hard to see the red flags.

[@paulcohen6727]

If someone asks you for help, that doesn’t mean that they’re a scammer or insincere. Their needs may well be real along with their desire for a relationship and commitment. Most people are fairly transparent if you’re paying attention and you trust your gut. You can easily discern who’s genuine and who’s a cheat

[@philbrown102]

My thought is this. I have not to my knowledge, been "scammed" by a Filipina girl. Any hint of that I call them out and they just disappear. This channel is a good start towards trying to curtail the issue. But to really impact things, more good girls need to step up and shame and just make it hard for those women to be so terrible. Otherwise, all the world will know about your country is that the women are gold-digging scammers. Your people need to stop it if you want your reputation to improve. Again, keep up the good work with this channel. You seem like a nice girl.

[@BarnabyBarry]

Most men were not scammed-we were volunteers with our money (who felt sorry-didn’t verify-didn’t realize records could be false-had no idea how goods are cheap here etc.)

[@VintageStereoCollector]

I can tell that you really have a good heart and your very smart Ms.rube and they way how your teaching people out there it’s really a good person ❤

[@robertgrimmond1979]

True Rube, Many scammers in the world in different countries, I can understand in some countries it is not easy to survive and especially hard for mothers with siblings, I also have had a girlfriend that i adored for 5 years and found out she was living with another guy for 14 months, Fully supported her and her 3 kids with everything even a sari store, I have 3 sponsor kids i support in the Philippines and have a lot ask for money over the years, Some have scammed me and some are genuine who need help putting food on the table and paying bills, Nobody is better than anyone else, We all need to find a way to survive in this world, But i believe that you are genuine i can tell by your observation and tone in your voice, One day you will find a good man that will cherish your heart to make you happy in life

[@noegarza1127]

Real Beauty thank you for your informative video. Your intelligence on this subject is a blessing to many who watch this. You are a very gifted young lady very beautiful, intelligent with very caring voice. Thank you again for your good work

[@bradleyb.425]

You make GREAT helpful videos. Thank you! I've never dated online so your advice is welcome.

[@dustbusterz]

Great Advice again. So if the Girl is Asking for Photos, what is she using these Photos For?

[@Postofficejoe]

To blackmail you.

[@hansheinen9629]

Interesting video by Rubeauty. I myself fell for it once, but with an amount that I can easily get over. If the lady doesn't write often, don't touch it, she's not interested. Video call all well and good, don't let yourself be blinded. And like I said before, don't send any money. Every cent is money thrown away. Drive to the Philippines yourself. All these dating sites are a hotbed of scammers. And if a video call comes and the lady doesn't get in touch afterwards, be honest and admit that you're not her type. Rubeauty described warning signs. Some ladies are very skilful. Example if she offers to send photos of personal items that she will now sell. This can be perfume or clothing. What does she mean by that, I need money, that you, Long Nose, won't send it to me.

[@louisshort6225]

Nice and informative video. I've had women try to scam me. However, I learned not to continue communication unless we did a video call. These were women that I met online. Also, you seem like a very nice person, I'd love to find out more about you. I live in the US and I am semi retired. Let me know if you're interested and I will make sure you get some pictures as well as a video call if you like.

[@dougsmyth5936]

Good video. The scammers are everywhere. Buyer beware

[@rogershapiro]

I spoke to 100 women on line and 100 women asked for money. They always start in with the feel sorry for me hard luck sob story. And that's when you block them

[@johngalt6708]

It's a minefield out there, hope you've now met someone nice and genuine. If you haven't, then... Hello 😊

[@prescottosegie]

Thank you for sharing this info rubeauti I appreciate it very much it was helpful 🙏🏾

[@prescottosegie]

@@Rubeauti 😊🌺

[@charlesbynum9534]

I'm married to a Filipino lady .when she and I first meet she never asked me for one penny.we now have 4 kids my wife is so awesome. When she and I first meet I had a prepared card with money on it I ask her to hold it for me you know she never used my card .not one time.i am very lucky to have her as my wife.we been together now for 10yrs.there a 18 yr gap between us.

[@capybara2795]

Thanks for the video! And I also wanna say that you look great 🙂

[@sandman6988]

Good video.....100 percent agree! Moral of the story is don't buy into her BS and don't be afraid to say NO!

[@terryashley4674]

I like the way you found a nice quiet place to record your video. 👍🏽

[@peterwallis4288]

I hope it doesn't sound weird, but you look absolutely stunning in that dress. You're so pretty and you skin colour is lovely.