9 Ways To Spot A Scammer (in the Philippines)

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Pea, the only thing I want to know is if you have a boyfriend, haha, cheers, Frankie 🙂

[@trevorprime2274]

How much time do you put into the making of every video?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Frank I’m not married, but I am dating, yes

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@TomChrisPeter]

@@TheFilipinaPea so how are you dating 🤣

[@dadslyfe1267]

This girl is a treasure to us foreign guys. Everything she says is true

[@lilyjazel7764]

You must be desperate and lonely looking for love -

[@tumarbongrox6074]

She forgot to mention the Filipina that play the •LONG GAME• They will get into a relationship or a marriage with the "oldest" foreigner they can find (alot of the foreigners are older even than their grandparents) These Filipina will ENJOY the financial freedoms and benefits of being the old foreigners wife or girlfriend. Many years will pass but they KNOW that the old foreigner will definitely die from old age or get to sick to be mobile or coherent. This is when the LONG GAME pays off big! The filipina will have 100% control of the foreigner's money, get the house (if any) and will be left with the old foreigners entire savings. Many filipina have this kind of patience...but some dont and only play the SHORT game to obtain a foreigner's money. I have befriended many filipina that are now LIVING WELL (very well) in the Philippines because they were patient enough to play the LONG GAME. I was sexing a filipina from Tipolo, Cebu City named Aileen who had more money in the bank than I had. She married an old foreigner and lived in Quezon City. She was 21 and he was 73 when they married. He died at age 79 and she was left with EVERYTHING he had....plus a monthly check of about 1,600 US dollars per month. Her entire family is benefitting financially from her willingness to be patient with and play the LONG GAME. After I had my 6 month relationship with her she started a relationship with a Young Filipino guy....but we are still friends. She also has an apartment in Pasay and her own Wine business (she sells wine to major hotels in Makati) She told me after I had intimate moments with her that she was never PHYSICALLY attracted to her old husband but said that he was a 'good' guy and that she was his "caregiver" for the last 2 years before he died. I asked her would she ever date another very old foreigner and she stated "Why should I do that, I'm living well now and dont need any financial assistance from anyone"

[@giselleen7442]

AS A FILIPINO, all she said on the video are absolutely correct. In fact, some parents and siblings of these scammers encourage them to scam/marry foreigners, most especially old foreigners for money's sake. This is very and highly embarrassing for me. Well, whatever part you are in the world, just remember, if a girl asks you for money and start telling you pitiful stories, leave. Also, do not think that young women will marry an old guy for love.Especially if you are older than her parents. It is a big no no. Heck, when I was younger, I heard someone saying to marry an old foreigner because they will die early, and the money will be yours. That ain't cool.

[@ncsludgefactory5445]

It doesn't matter as long as she's pretty and the kitty is tight

[@theguynextdoor4978]

I can attest to this. I know a very sweet honest lady who's in her 60s from the Philippines. She tried to beat some sense into the head of a girl she knew. The girl married an old guy here in Norway and lives in a house with a small condo in the basement. They rent it out to a guy who her husband thinks is just a tenant. The tenant is in reality her younger boyfriend. Lady: Why are you exploiting this poor sick, old man? you must tell him you found someone else! You should be ashamed of yourself. Girl: *giggles and laughs*. No!! I can't do that. I can't divorce him! If I do that I will not get his house when he dies. Then everything will go to his kids. They deserve nothing!

[@riccardobrandoni3562]

I'm Riccardo from Italy. Why don't respect Christian religion?

[@curtwarkentin6167]

I keep teasing my Filipina wife. She was amazed how much my parents loved her when they met her. When we got married they were so happy.... I told her it’s because my parents were thinking I’m her headache now lol. We’ve been married almost15 years now and our home is filled with the most important things to me... love and laughter. I hit the jackpot when I married her.

[@chrishansen2100]

LBH

[@randomdragen1015]

I wish it would have turned out this way for me. They keep making up dramatic stories like some band threatening their lives and stuff and needing money 😢 life so sad for me

[@URMyNewTV]

@@randomdragen1015 Tell them in the beginning "I'm broke, but I will never ask you for money, so you know I'm serious and not a scammer". That should help.

[@Abelius]

I don't even understand why someone would be chatting a girl for a full year. If you're not in a position to visit her in the next two months, why even bother to spend that kind of time? I'm not even talking about money here. I mean your time, her time, your hopes, her hopes... all of those could turn into nothing on the first date if there's no chemistry. You want to know a person? Live with her. There's no other way. Period.

[@johnfarmyguy1]

Never give money to anyone youve never met in person. Period!!

[@jeyaramthangavelu5603]

Can giv but limit dun deny the poor poverty with such reason giv but set a date limit too

[@derekintheph8935]

@@jeyaramthangavelu5603 oh yes gib me gib me how about I'll take a hard pass on that one

[@GalacticGuru42]

So you never buy from Ebay/Amazon/etc ?

[@thelogician1934]

It's not as simple as that. Because I dated thousands online. I would say 90% are scammers.

[@thelogician1934]

I have dated more than 3000 online. I say more than 90% are scammers of varying degrees. If u don't want to date scammers, there are no one to date.

[@auxmike718]

This is a highly educated intelligent woman! I think she has an acting background too.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You might think so, but no I’m just a simple province girl 😉

[@robbiedaug]

@@TheFilipinaPea I think he means that you are (very) well spoken, quite well read, confident, well rehearsed and well edited. "Just a simple provincial girl", yes, but not all provincial girls have youtube channels earning (any) income. Your English is better than some of my not-so-bright friends in Canada - meaning, they usually sound more Americanized than most Filipinos. But you, you sound great. I might assume you have a lot of interaction with a Westerner - hmm, I think you mentioned you are married to one.

[@franktaylor7617]

@@TheFilipinaPea Hahaha, yeah right. Heard that before.🤨 Just kidding.😋

[@romeoETmike]

She is smart and just wouldn't go out with an old pensioner whose income is coming from just Social Security.

[@faronray5765]

I learned the hard way, my fault ( around 300 dollars)and I even met this person in the Philippines on my first trip in 2007. Rule #1. Never ever give money to someone you have never met in person! Maybe a few dollars for load, transportation and/or internet cost would be acceptable. If you met someone on-line, tell them up front that you will not send money till you MEET them in person. That usually gets rid of the scammers first thing. After that, watch out for the "love bomb" scammer. They don't ask for money but they always drop little hints that their phone broke /got stolen or their mom needs medicine but it cost a lot or they know a poor family that can't afford food for the kids and so on. They never ask you for money but you feel guilty that you have money. It's only a few hundred pesos. Rule number 2. Never give money to someone you have never met. Rule number 3. Don't forget rule number 1 and 2.

[@boracay12]

Plenty of guys meet the pinay , sleep with her , sweetheart . Go home . Send money . She meets the next sweetheart . Etc . Our nieghbor in macton island is paying for houses and vehicles from the guys who only send money after meeting and even sleeping with sweetheart for weeks . the taxi driver is her pinoy husband .

[@mornan66]

yeah know that feeling and experience it, a great lesson in life

[@jaycole9584]

What if you make mistake an get scammed? Is there anything to do if its only 300 dollars? Or suck it up as learning experience? Will police in Philippines do anything ?

[@hsirkposh9469]

Even you meet them,never give/send money

[@Mattock5656]

I experienced the love bomber scammer...she did it well and had tons of experience with it because of past foreigners...Of course, it was my first in Philippines and I was just enjoying the moment. I suspected she had other guys there too while attempting to milk me but couldn't exactly pinpoint it with proof... In a nutshell, I met alot of family on video and was planning to come in March to meet everyone. Turns out, her whole family was in on it, to try to squeeze as much money from me as possible..she didn't ask me directly, but more indirectly, so I wouldn't get the image, that she was just after money. Be careful, some of them have met alot of foreigners and its a big game to them. Key things I noticed suspicious about her... -She lied alot about small lies and was all over the place in her stories(she spoke really good english) Very manipulative, gaslighted like crazy. (Very suspicious actions) -Her phone would mysterious cut off for hours when I tried to call her... -She loved bombed so hard that it felt like it was staged (I love you alot, you are my soulmate, we are perfect for each other.) She would write me huge paragraphs confessing her love for me.) -Found out she was seeing a 55 korean dude over there lol Unfortunately, I dealt with long distance for 5 months after meeting her and I was planning to come in March. Thank god, I dodged a bullet and know the truth.. Be careful out there.

[@johnnypeanut4569]

A little advice for guys who insist on doing the online dating thing. When you find the girl you're interested in, create a fake account and flirt with that girl to see if she will be true to you. My best advice of course is to forget about online dating and just go there and meet girls the old fashion way.Face to face. The end! :)

[@TheFilipinaPea]

GREAT idea, Johnny!!!! 😆

[@fazbell]

This KZbin post is GOLD. The best public service that you could provide.

[@coffeejoejava]

Thank you. I watched this video before I got too deep. I got off light, only $50. I appreciate your videos and your straightforward advice. You are amazing!!

[@davidandmaricelfamily5675]

Thank you for being always honest about your subjects.

[@craigslistrro709]

Or victims???

[@jeffreyroot6300]

craigslistrr O 🤣Could be! She would be good at it!

[@thomashaugh3287]

Some men never wake up until they are broke. This is good advice, but only those that are already cautious will heed it.

[@boston312]

sadly one of my friends fits this category. His Filipina got him for over 50k USD even after we showed him pics of her in bed with another man. These desperate men will always send money in hopes of love.

[@kevinjake1691]

@@boston312 I wish I only lost 50,000 there. I lost a lot more

[@skykiss12]

One problem is, that many filipinas think we are all rich here in the west.

[@tcruise77]

Seriously, to a country with high poverty, you guys are deemed rich because of exchange rates... lol... That's what & how they see it. Even if you only earn USD1200/mth. Because with that amount, at their place is easily 6 months wages.

[@racheysdad]

Exactly, I really think they believe money just grows on trees where we live....lol

[@romeoETmike]

You're talking probably of ill-educated Filipinas. Poor Filipinas. I know a lot of well-educated Filipinas who are not interested on Foreigners. These are women who can afford by themselves. They are well educated enough that knows that all Westerners are not that rich. They know that most of them go to poor countries because they can hardly survive in their own place. Not all Filipinas are head over heels with foreigners.

[@JamesBond-ml3zp]

Compared to their Peso we ARE Rich!!!

[@lauraluz2009]

exactly

[@andrewb4824]

Such a witty and intelligent woman who generously offers so much wisdom and insight to her audience. Well done Pea, you’re the best!

[@tumarbongrox6074]

Im glad she mentioned the Filipina that play the •LONG GAME• They will get into a relationship or a marriage with the "oldest" foreigner they can find (alot of the foreigners are older even than their grandparents) These Filipina will ENJOY the financial freedoms and benefits of being the old foreigners wife or girlfriend. Many years will pass but they KNOW that the old foreigner will definitely die from old age or get to sick to be mobile or coherent. This is when the LONG GAME pays off big! The filipina will have 100% control of the foreigner's money, get the house (if any) and will be left with the old foreigners entire savings. Many filipina have this kind of patience...but some dont and only play the SHORT game to obtain a foreigner's money. I have befriended many filipina that are now LIVING WELL (very well) in the Philippines because they were patient enough to play the LONG GAME. I was sexing a filipina from Tipolo, Cebu City named Aileen who had more money in the bank than I had. She married an old foreigner and lived in Quezon City. She was 21 and he was 73 when they married. He died at age 79 and she was left with EVERYTHING he had....plus a monthly check of about 1,600 US dollars per month. Her entire family is benefitting financially from her willingness to be patient with and play the LONG GAME. After I had my 6 month relationship with her she started a relationship with a Young Filipino guy....but we are still friends. She also has an apartment in Pasay and her own Wine business (she sells wine to major hotels in Makati) She told me after I had intimate moments with her that she was never PHYSICALLY attracted to her old husband but said that he was a 'good' guy and that she was his "caregiver" for the last 2 years before he died. I asked her would she ever date another very old foreigner and she stated "Why should I do that, I'm living well now and dont need any financial assistance from anyone"

[@lesbrady]

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him....think." Priceless :).

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Most people didn’t realize I said that on purpose 😂

[@valentinooliveri3012]

@@TheFilipinaPea You are priceless! How I wish I could hang out with you Pea..all the greatest traits rolled up into one 😍 thanks for all your wonderful advice🙏hope to meet you someday! God bless 🙌💗⚘😎

[@chrismcnally7118]

Listen to the Pea guys she definitely knows what she is talking about.

[@agnescurrie697]

Yes, you foreigners need to listen or ask advice from her before you will be scammed or getting serious with a filipina.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Chris!!!!

[@nicholasmutch3112]

you're right she does.

[@liemh9290]

She's the sister a man don't have but need in life.

[@paulmerda1]

Hi I started watching your vlogs since the first one and I’m hooked, I think your the best thing to come out of this carona crap around the world, like a breath of fresh air. I even got my Filipina Wife hooked on your vlogs and she likes you so much, she says your great and so honest! We’ve needed someone like you on KZbin for a long time now and here you are, I hate people putting a stigma on Filipinas as like you say not all Filipina’s are the same and I’m a testament to that, being happily married to my beautiful Wife for 28 years now. I met her and finally married her in 1991 in Cebu and never looked back, I’m 58 now and she’s 52, we’re living in Melbourne Australia ever since with our two beautiful adult kids.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Your wife, too?? Wow, now that’s a compliment indeed!! Congrats to you both 😆

[@DMSProduktions]

Nice 1 Knackers! I know heaps of Pinoy musos here!

[@brucehilliard3408]

You really are awesome. Most of what you are teaching I have learned the hard way. After a absolutely horrible 10 year marriage to a Filipina, from Butuan City, in Mindinao, I realize I missed all the obvious signs. A liar, scammer, and the most selfish person I have met in my life. At least I ended up with 2 beautiful boys, 6 and 10 years old, which I have 90% of the time. Our sons hate her. If Steve and others would just listen to you, they could have a much better life.

[@jeffreyroot6300]

There you go, it’s a painful road, but your boys are worth suffering for! To a point anyway.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, Bruce, at least you got the kids - you dodged a bullet!

[@reinaldogomes8666]

I wonder if you realize how much of a damn good artist you are. The way you write, speak and act, all of that with a perfect touch of humor... You definitely deserve way more attention than the numbers that you channel shows

[@tauroabril]

this girl is amazing, how I wished find some one like you who opened my eyes and not make too much mistakes like I did trusting. salamat.

[@davidkaiser810]

Pea, who are you? What I mean by that is, a few short months ago no one knew of you then suddenly you blast on the KZbin scene and garner thousands of subscribers. You are very intelligent, funny and witty. Where have you been all this time?......LOL

[@dangarcia6760]

Well certainly she's got that elusive "It" Factor. Keep up the good work!

[@scottp3287]

College

[@randybatchelor1875]

The Pea is definitely unique from like nothing I've ever seen from a blogger...she will most likely be invited by u tube at the Awards show in Singapore next year. I'd have to say for her age she's got to have a very high IQ possibly 155+ I have 3 degrees and she's probably Smarter than me..haha..at least street smart and savy for sure. Wowww tops them all.

[@coolcat1684]

She spontaneously spawned from KZbin ....lol

[@G-68-66]

I want to express my heartfelt appreciation for your candid comments. I’ve been married to a Filipina from Hawaii for 34 years and even she agrees with your your unfiltered analysis and charming whit. I have to share this one. Good luck and blessing to you. 😀

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks George! I’m glad your wife liked it to, and I really appreciate your sharing my videos to help the channel grow!! 😊

[@maryfe8221]

The irony OF this is ITs not exclusive to Filipinas

[@stanleybriones518]

Oh Pea.....I love your truth bombs. I met you 2 years too late. I learned the hard way....by trusting. Thank you for your continued video blogs of knowledge. Thank you for being so brave to be loved and hated. Love ya, girl.😉🤑

[@williamwildey820]

You are absolutely wonderful to listen to

[@dmgarcias]

Thank you Pea, you are totally right. I hate to admit I was a victim, but after watching your video I stopped it. I didn't spend as much as others, but I still feel ashamed of myself for having fallen victim. Keep the advice coming. I leave for the Philippines next week for my first ever visit there. I am NOT going to visit anyone. I'm just going to attend a colleague's son's wedding there and vacation travel through the Philippines after the wedding.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

At least you stopped it, David 👍👍👍

[@UncleBensChannel]

You helped a poor person. Your karma is good.

[@chelsiedouggh]

Omg,everything you have said are true.I tried to logged in to a filipino dating site before and changed my gender from female to male to see some of my fellow filipina women seeking foreigners.I was surprised and shocked that most of them are actually using fake profile photos,they are using the local celebrities faces and other personalities in the Philippines.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yup, it’s a common tactic - the fake photo of celebrities. Kinda stupid, but they do it!

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

My long distance relationship lasted 3 months. After she got absolutely zero money from me, she gave up.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And that’s how you separate the good from the fakes!

[@michaelt334]

@@TheFilipinaPea is the same thing happen to me.

[@Insanedawaynemusick]

Ur better off man I been used by females in real life so never been scamed online

[@Insanedawaynemusick]

Where these scammers...lol I will pay them just write something on there chest ...they will have to write there dwaynes bitch..lol coverd in yellow feathers ans squakin like a chicken

[@CindysBisvlog]

You can find someone for sure who is real ,my husband had nothing he dont send money even after we met and i worked as helper in phil and now im married to my husband and i never left him even he had even a 1euro in the bank but now we are good financially so i hope my story give hope to everyone whose searching for real one 😇

[@billnearyart8855]

The video has three dislikes. Seems Steve's girlfriend, her husband, and her mother all watched the video!

[@billytheallstar471]

Bill (lol) I think it also could be scammers that are ANGRY that they have been put on ALERT..!

[@mariatheresacudia2388]

Bill Neary Art Good analysis

[@ThePhoenix937]

@@sarinvx More like the whole generation with the now 32 dislikes...Hahaha

[@MD-hd1cp]

This is the general idea with many other countries not only Philippines

[@grandcity12]

thats funny

[@FreddieAllan-h3g]

You forgot the one who's married ..still living with hubby .. only video calls you when he's out .. needs everything for the house and her little store .. even cries to you because her life is so hard ..

[@surfboy344]

Excellent video. This ought to be mandatory viewing for any guy thinking about an overseas relationship.

[@billnearyart8855]

"...what a coincidence, she climbs coconut trees and eats balut.." Nice treat for the regular viewers!

[@jamesowens2781]

Man that tree climbing was scary even if it had new toe holes

[@jamesowens2781]

I was a sucker but you learn if you are smart

[@laserstrike969]

I caught that too. She also can catch roosters and picks up money with her toes as well among other things.

[@romeoETmike]

She might be a provincial girl but was trained in the city to become a hustler. Goes back home in the province as "Balikbayan" These returnees are well-trained in the city by foreign hustler who does frequent bar-hopping. Turning a provincial girl into a hustler.

[@babeena_gt_3645]

Hey don't mock balut it's good and served in USA and other countries too

[@226PSig]

You have more sense than any woman I have ever known. The man who wins you’re love is the luckiest man on earth 🌏

[@georgemarsilio5122]

she is amaizing..i love her...awsome person..great personality

[@easylistening66]

I met a Pinay online and she stole my heart Still no regrets 🥰🥰🥰

[@firstandlastswagman269]

Yes

[@gingscookingadventure1749]

Congrats and God Bless you both😘😘

[@bobbruce4135]

You're one of the exceptions. You probably could have also found a woman easily back home, although she would be less attractive. Hope it's real and not about sending money home, having babies for retirement, etc.

[@SuperWorshipguy]

This is awesome, i have been scammed and have fallen for it for over 10 years. There comes a point when you just need to realize no need to be on date sites or on Facebook. You will find a scammer from the Philippines work in groups, especially from Talisay City. So be forewarned it can happen to you too. Don't get me wrong it's ok to meet one there in person but still keep your guard up. Don't do what I do and trusted them, even after being in a relationship for 6 years and back in North America I found out she had many others that were doing the same thing to me. Once again thanks for this video.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Oh my gosh - I’m so sorry!! But at least you know the truth now .....

[@SuperWorshipguy]

@@TheFilipinaPea yes after I declared bankruptcy!

[@caeasylivin]

Protect this woman at all cost 😂😂😂 bless you young lady 🙏🏾

[@davidmachado432]

Its like Vegas...never gamble more then you are willing to loose.

[@intuitivesean443]

Philipinas are like a a slot machine you don’t bring a slot machine home from Vegas just like you leave philpinas in the Philippines having said that I’m moving to the Philippines in 3 years

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[@DMSProduktions]

Let alone know how to spell it!

[@DMSProduktions]

@@oracletheo SPAMMER! REPORTED!

[@coiledsteel8344]

Gambling is more honest and has better ODDS than MOST of these So-called DATING SITES, WHICH ARE MOSTLY SCAMMING SITES! 😉

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

I paid my Filipina girlfriend's expenses to get a Nursing license and I sent her money to help her through the Coronavirus quarantine. Not very much. Around $100 a month. I felt really good seeing her get her certificates.

[@agnescurrie697]

Good luck, hope no surprises, even when you try to get her here in america.

[@welkcubnairb1478]

Maybe Not much to You, However,------- 1 ,200.00 US dollars is a LOT of pesos. !!!!

[@truthhurtsalways4u]

i hope you have already met her in person !

[@russelljohnson2860]

Come on guys 100 Dollars is peanuts. That's tax money here in America. Lol

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

welkcub nairb I spent about $2000 on her thus far. I make over $150,000 a year so it doesn’t hurt. She’s a good person

[@PolitiPsych]

My wife never asked me for even one peso while we were dating, but I started giving her money because I knew she really needed it. I realize many people are quite desperate in the Philippines, and people do a lot of unsavory things when they’re desperate, but I think these women who lie to men and laugh behind their backs are nothing less than sociopaths.

[@boston312]

well there is some humor to how desperate these guys are. How can these guys be sending all this money especially to a girl they never even met in person?

[@lilyjazel7764]

Yes - they are desperate!

[@wzrds1]

My name is Steve,and I've been seeing a Filipina online for 8 months now we talk alot by video,and I've been sending her money 100.00 sometimes 200,not often,but I have totalled the amount I've spent and it's been over 5,000 in 8 months, she has a 4 year old daughter that I wanna make sure she has food and some toys and nice clothes. I feel now that I'm being scammed, so I will not send anything again and see if she blocks me,I know 1 bad apple doesn't spoil the whole bag, I will find another closer to home. Thankyou for your awesome videos,your the best,Steve B❤❤

[@GMP123]

Thank you again... I got scammed for a year.. I'm not giving up trying to find a good Filipino girl... I know there is one for me.. thank you for your videos Little Miss pea.. I wish I known about you a year ago..

[@dirtyharry8629]

I agree with you, scammers really do give honest Filipina's a bad name! Excellent content! You are a wing girl! Always love your skits at the end!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Daryl - I love doing those skits too!

[@maryfe8221]

Daryl Hanlin but this is not exclusive to Filipinas even in western country they have this kind of problem too

[@DaveCarter876]

TRUTH BOMBS, KEEP THEM FALLING. Blowing up the path for tons of knowledge.

[@firstandlastswagman269]

My x charged me 4 sex

[@scottford6055]

@@firstandlastswagman269 well if you paid then......

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ll keep dropping ‘em, Dave!! 😊

[@Chris_Clark1MaidenFan]

When they ask for $$$$ it’s an instant block. I had one from the Ukraine ask me for $2,000 to bury her dad. I sent her “Sorry for your loss, the loss of your dad and the loss of me.”

[@RayoSombrio78]

It's the way. Had to block hundreds in the last two years. I keep trying, but I must admit my faith have been getting weaker.

[@paulcharlo9346]

Lol 😂😂😂

[@charlespalmer6572]

@@RayoSombrio78 same here man I been trying for 12 years really burt out on there shit

[@xxakli]

Amen! that's what I ask them: "What do you do for this situation before we met?"

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Exactly 👍😊

[@pguinto3243]

Iam Irish Filipino American ,I kinda thought maybe I could find my kindred partner filipina❤ maybe , LOL but after seeing all I see on internet . I kinda wanna just turn all my electronics off ,and just be grateful n happy I'm single😊 thank you for alot info.

[@randybatchelor1875]

Your 100% right Pea..Hey you guys reading this..i tell my friends time after time to NEVER EVER SEND $$$$ unless they've traveled there and meet their entire family and friends and ask a lot of questions and spend time and focus on her the first few days having fun and then do something boring like read a book with her watching but first ask her if she doesn't mind sitting around a bit while you finish your last chapter just to see if her attitude and personality changes..it should not, she should just smile and say sure ok, her eyes should focus on you and you only and be patient while you read...if she quickly walks away and goes outside pinging someone one on her cell phone you should be very concerned, later at the right time I'd discuss that behavior and ask her if she'd mine swapping phones for a few minutes...if she agrees and doesn't mind shes either real and truthful, and a keeper or one step ahead of you in a bad way.Scammers are getting really great these days....guys you got a 50/50 chance at best if your this far in your visit with her. But some? they are so stupid and don't get it until all their MONEY and savings is gone and they will do the same shit with scammer # 2,3,4, and if they don't commit suicide ( like the guy @ the Mactan Cebu airport) by being heart broken so many times, they end up dieing single because they feel all girls are scammers, and there is a ton of them but no not all are bad...a man just needs to think SMART with his brain not his pecker. After this pandemic is over and the travel opens again..My advice to you men is that if your new love interest or LDR girlfriend doesn't ask for money after 3 months you might have a keeper, then on the 4th month (no later) you better quickly travel to her country and snatch her up after you spend 2 weeks or more with her.. the longer the better. After your return back to the states and you still feel she is real and the one for you that is deserving of a good husband you can start the k1 visa application by sending her support or as the pinays call it an "allowance" ( like you give a kid for getting good grades in school lol) but it's actually called support by the u.s.Bureau of immigration approving your k1visa because your going to have to show proof anyway that you mean business and the Americans call that "Money" and that your serious of this woman and can prove you can support her. You must not have any criminal felony convictions on your record and you have a steady job or SSI yearly income of $24k USD 1.2M pesos or greater. You also have to buy her in advance 2 round trip tickets $1,650 usd from and back to the philipines just in case she gets cold feet on you...but if your good to her she'll stay. Plus you have all the b.s. fees of around $2k USD (100kphp) plus another $600 USD 30k pesos for an agency to fill out all the paper work.( highly recommended) You have up to 90 days to get married. She will be American citizen in 3 years and hold duel visa's. 2 weeks after marriage she will get that Awesome American Social security card for her and for her kids ADD IT ALL UP GUYS..IS SHE REALLY WORTH THIS MUCH TO YOU ? Well I SURE HOPE SO GUYS I've lived in Cebu and Leyte for almost 5 years and think I've seen the best of them (scammer girls) just be your true self guys, and don't pretend to be a big shot with lots of money when your not. Be truthful from the start. A true woman that loves you will live in a shack with you as long as you treat her with respect and dignity. And now guys since the covid 19 you can't fly to go see them, play the field some and chat with a few of them..no more than 2 or 3 tops....and if they ask for money especially soon after you just meet them, delete, block and move to the next.. and if your only looking and thinking your going to meet and marry you a 21 to 25 year old beauty queen over there you are totally insane...not gonna happen if a big age gap unless your Hugh Hefner or a prince Charles. If your age 50's 60's+ your better choice would be a middle age woman 40's ish province woman...i should know, I found one I met 5 years ago that was an OFW at the time..an honest hard working loving Filipina woman we are so happy we took our time Building trust and respect and a solid foundation..we now live on a small farm together here in the philipines and I never want for nothing..no Tampo with her...shes matured and refined like a bottle of the top shelf. She's an amazing woman..woww how blessed Take your time during this pandemic guys and please listen to what the philipina Pea says to you guys...shes already saved you a ton of money by her awesome advice " COMING FROM A PHILIPINA WOMAN" that's Rare guys....and I'm sure she'll do a one on one video call to help you anyway she can..so let's help support her and keep her channel GOING..she has to eat also guys, let's give the Pea some American 💓 love ok? I'm getting my plastic right now.....Good luck and God bless you guys,Thank you to all who helps support this amazing channel.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wise words, Randy - wise words! Thanks for taking all that time to spread the word

[@rayg1881]

Pea,Pea,Pea, I just love you, however, this may sound corny, but my faith is what I’m relying on in terms of picking a Filipina, I don’t even want to talk to one until I’m in the country. Now I will change her life but she’s going to have to work and show me her love for me and I will change her world ❤️❤️❤️👍🏽

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then I wish you the best of luck, Ray!!! 😊

[@lauraluz2009]

Good luck

[@mikelcannon3694]

Another great video Pea, it's very funny how I've crossed paths with almost every one of the scammers you spoke about. I've never sent any money, as soon as they start asking for money, I'm gone. Keep up the great work Love the videos.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m shocked at how many of you have been scammed

[@frankn.3650]

Thank you for keeping it honest and real. Due that these are adults that should know better. Thanks again for keeping us safe by giving us wisdom god bless you

[@hanksweeting4117]

Great vlog great advice salamat for helping your subscribers to not feed the scammers

[@vonfragesq7145]

Excellent vid. Many vloggers will talk about scammers but none of them go into this kind of detail. Pea you mentioned looking into your Filipina's past. What is the best way to go about doing that?

[@dangarcia6760]

Please do a video with local PI businesses around the PH. That will blow up their business...ask the PI you'll give them customers for a kickback! Win-Win.

[@firstandlastswagman269]

Blow my wad

[@firstandlastswagman269]

Thank u di Bitaw

[@TheFilipinaPea]

In my opinion, it’s to carefully dissect their Facebook page (I assure you, they have one), next would be a private investigator (cheap and easy to find)

[@williamfeders8073]

I recommend every men go to PH in real to face the “ men’s woman dream “ and not get involved in chat relationship .. time is tricky and people can change .. I was scammed in Indonesia before and I learned a lot Great video 💪

[@robertlloyd3184]

Your videos always make my day. Everything you describe about Filapina dating sites can also be found on the Thai sites. Must share some common DNA. A large university in the US once did a long term project studying the difference between women's brains and men's brains. They found that "women had their brains in their heads ..."

[@ToyManFlyer1100]

Bob. I'll bite. Where did they say men's brains were located ????.

[@jeffreyroot6300]

😂🤣😂🤣 Good one! The similarity is the same target. Only so many ways to fleece a mark! Thais and the Sick Buffalo meme, for instance!

[@martinhall932]

I'm glad you said it... don't send a peso until meeting in person. Respect.

[@theguynextdoor4978]

I have this personal rule about women in general: I never contribute financially to women I meet online upfront. I meet them in person, to establish if this is worth investing in emotionally. Of course I have no problem paying for a meal, pay for coffee or some basic dating activities. The answer no will reveal a lot about a person's character. If she can't take no for an answer, then the problem is on her. As men, it's our responsibility to protect ourselves.

[@jtb1245]

Not only in the Philippines 😅 .... love to all from Ireland 🇮🇪❤️🇵🇭

[@PolitiPsych]

I don’t understand why the guy even contacted you if he wasn’t willing to believe blatant evidence that he was being scammed. I think some foreigners enjoy being abused or perhaps they’re looking for a place to discard their money. Why not contribute to Filipina Pea’s Patreon or PayPal account instead! Great idea😀

[@jeyaramthangavelu5603]

Thats a cheap TALK

[@larryp3641]

You deserve 10k subs. Research and thought goes into the vlog. You are a dedicated person, admired

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Larry!!!! 😊

[@drewbaliw7467]

Wonderful video. I have been visiting the Philippines since 2009. I have experienced so many that have done things like this. But, I will say that I have built some wonderful deep lasting friendships.

[@everythingisstrange8073]

i decided to change my location on tinder from the US to Cebu City and wow, I have never gotten so many likes and matches in my life lol. i have honestly been having really insightful and enjoyable conversations with the Filipinas i have matched with - but i'm guessing i still need to be weary of scams. i'm letting them message me first instead of going after them as i feel maybe that would come off as too eager and an easy target for a scam - but maybe i'm over thinking it. either way i'm enjoying the conversations as they are so much deeper than any conversation i have had with a western woman in years. thank you once again for all your knowledge on this subject, it's truly priceless

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yup, Tinder in Cebu is ........ crazy busy!!

[@unclerob617]

Great video! I had a crash course on this with a very cute Filipina. First was phone load which I didn't even know was a thing (oh - it's a thing alright). Next her son was not going to be able to participate in the Christmas program at school.... only 40 bucks to make their Christmas Merry. I told her I didn't know how to send money to her? And wouldn't you know it.... she came right up with a number of ways for me, Xoom, Remitly, Worldremit, which she found out about from her friends of course. Then she borrowed a motorcycle and somehow damaged it and they were going to maybe lock her up is she couldn't pay the fine. She was taking in laundry and washing it by hand for the equivalent of about $1.50 US. So many things were tugging on my heartstrings ;) I eventually was able to spit out the hook. Like you said.... she was surviving before me and she will probably be ok without me. Although I do still wonder if she ever got her auntie released from the hospital after her emergency surgery??? Thumbs up from Uncle Rob!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Sounds like a Milkmaid or a Snowballer

[@willeysdomain]

You should start your own singles business as you screen out the real from the fake filipinas. You may do very well.

[@tkrob36]

William Geary great idea

[@ncredblehulk-onbreakstillg1894]

Yes. Totally agree.

[@openyoureyes3113]

I would sign up.

[@ag4allgood]

What a trusted dating site in the Philippines ? Where the dates are verified non scammers ? That would be a Gold Mine !

[@anonymousincognito7831]

@@ag4allgood Yeah, one I was on brags about being a trusted Philippines dating site. It's loaded with scammers. I cancelled my 1 year membership after only 2 weeks.

[@Jonesin_For_164]

HaHaHa🤣 I know someone that climbs coconut trees & eats balut. Pea, I'm from the US & I think my extreme interest in Filipinas started in the late 90's when my best friend started dating a Filipina he met here. At that time, and even up to now, I had never met a woman that was as hard working, loving, loyal, family oriented & insanely smart as she is & I fell in love with the idea of finding a Filipina for myself. Fast forward 20+ years - still dreaming of a Filipina. My biggest fear has been meeting a scammer online. I fall in love easily, I have a big heart, I am aware of the poverty there in the Philippines so because of these things I think I would be an easy target. This video will help me when I'm ready to take the first step, TY.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, she’s there alright - just keep your eyes open for fakes!

[@bayareatanders]

Boots on the ground always👍

[@jaystainback8866]

I think it's important that the lady be asking questions like: "Do you smoke?", "Do you drink?", "Are you Catholic?", "Do you have children?", "Does your family approve of me?". She should care about these things and have standards. If she doesn't seem to care if the guy is incompatible she is probably in it for the money or a green card. Good points on this video! Peace.

[@kenneyford4676]

Thankyou you show me how my asawa is and you take my doubts away

[@robertellis2406]

Awesome vid! So much truth, common sense, and entertainment in one place! One vid a week is just not enough!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, Robert - that’s why I do 2 per week Hahahahaha

[@billcowan6070]

My motto is "No Honey No Money" that's the clean n respectful answer on this blog

[@openrange4999]

ja son well ky jelly for you😂

[@kevinjohnson-tm1if]

You are a very interesting young lady. I feel that you come from a family that has done well and pushed you to get a good education. You have class about yourself, great conversational skills and knowledge beyond your age. I enjoy listening and learning from your vlogs and hope you continue to post things of interest. Great job and don’t lose yourself and honesty as you move forward.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

A good family, yes, but a very poor one 😊

[@thedeathwobblechannel6539]

@@TheFilipinaPea wealth and good people are not connected. When poor sometimes your morals and integrity are your only sword and shield.

[@chrishansen2100]

@@TheFilipinaPea Dont worry he can send u some cash. lol

[@keithmelton4795]

I fell in to that trap , she pulled at my heart. The last straw came and I haven’t responded to here tex no more. And I’m in u s a in Georgia . Keep your Chantal up , you are informative thanks

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Sorry you fell for it, Keith 😔

[@tydiab8838]

You're an honest woman, Thank you

[@ausforaus7617]

For me, and I think for many other honest guys, it is also because we truly want to look after her. For what is a relatively small amount of money, we can change her life. HOWEVER, mine became greedy over time, just like you talked about, and there were just too many unexplained things ..... so I eventually left her .... however, the main motivation was wanting to help her ..... so that leads onto another topic .... what can we expect when we send money .... that obviously comes down to how much we send

[@kevinstcyr7592]

SCAMMERS BEWARE!! There's a new sheriff in town and she's not messing around! Pea you are on target and you have put these scammers on notice. Guys listen to Pea, she is a true detective 🕵️ and she is trying to shield you from these professional SCAMMERS!!! Good Job 😎

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Kevin - Sheriff Pea is here! Hahahahaha

[@jeffreyroot6300]

The Filipina Pea Much prettier than my local Sheriff! But you would never want his headaches.

[@marilyncoish9117]

Your so honest..that’s what I like about your vidios ...

[@RudyG-c3u]

Thank you Pea, this info is still relevant even today.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And they still won’t listen to me even today 🥺🤣

[@ccjohncc1]

It truly is amazing how when a victim is told the woman who he has been sending money to and professes her love for you is not only not at all in love with you but also has none of the financial problems she says will refuse to believe it because it hurts to much and seems less painful to just refuse to believe your help in revealing the very painful truth that they are being used and lied to. I understand the pain 💔 😞. But I also am more of a realists to recognize when I have let my emotions override my logic.

[@tumarbongrox6074]

I'm glaf she mentioned the Filipina that play the •LONG GAME• They will get into a relationship or a marriage with the "oldest" foreigner they can find (alot of the foreigners are older even than their grandparents) These Filipina will ENJOY the financial freedoms and benefits of being the old foreigners wife or girlfriend. Many years will pass but they KNOW that the old foreigner will definitely die from old age or get to sick to be mobile or coherent. This is when the LONG GAME pays off big! The filipina will have 100% control of the foreigner's money, get the house (if any) and will be left with the old foreigners entire savings. Many filipina have this kind of patience...but some dont and only play the SHORT game to obtain a foreigner's money. I have befriended many filipina that are now LIVING WELL (very well) in the Philippines because they were patient enough to play the LONG GAME. I was sexing a filipina from Tipolo, Cebu City named Aileen who had more money in the bank than I had. She married an old foreigner and lived in Quezon City. She was 21 and he was 73 when they married. He died at age 79 and she was left with EVERYTHING he had....plus a monthly check of about 1,600 US dollars per month. Her entire family is benefitting financially from her willingness to be patient with and play the LONG GAME. After I had my 6 month relationship with her she started a relationship with a Young Filipino guy....but we are still friends. She also has an apartment in Pasay and her own Wine business (she sells wine to major hotels in Makati) She told me after I had intimate moments with her that she was never PHYSICALLY attracted to her old husband but said that he was a 'good' guy and that she was his "caregiver" for the last 2 years before he died. I asked her would she ever date another very old foreigner and she stated "Why should I do that, I'm living well now and dont need any financial assistance from anyone"

[@nondompom]

Nice work Pea. Sometimes you can advise men but can't get through. No fool like a love struck fool.

[@jorgreiling2755]

Thank you dear Pea. You making yourself enemies for your foreign friends. I love people with a backbone. You are awesome.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jorg! Yes, the locals don’t like me much 😆

[@kerrymurphy8311]

THEY SHOULD ALL LOVE YOU MORE FOR MAKEN YOU COUNTRRY A MUUCH BETTER PLACE.

[@stan121midling5]

@@TheFilipinaPea to bad for them, i say lmao

[@MICHELDILLIONS]

verry blessed video and explanaitions , straight forward , thank you

[@nicog3583]

Awesome video. What about a video touching on the Filipina that marries the foreigner and then brings the family a few years later? Even when saying the family members would even contribute, then don’t find employment.

[@Inkbydaniel]

I need to wear my reading glasses. I just commented on this and it’s like a couple years old lol.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It doesn’t matter how old the video is, I see them anyway 👍😊

[@paulbrown6338]

I have been with my Filipina for two years, we interviewed at the USEM for a K1 visa and now everything is held up by COVID19. Throughout our relationship I have sent her money on a monthly bases and consider doing so as providing for my wife. She has never taken advantage of me by asking for more or having those self-made crisis situations that you hear about. Just saying that if you are in a serious relationship with a Filipina take care of her, remember you are investigating in your future. And yes Pea is correct about the scammers, they are not that hard to spot.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, the virus is really hitting your plans hard - sorry!!

[@deansmith9217]

HEY GUYS YOU NEED TO LISTEN TO THIS BEAUTIFUL & INTELLIGENT YOUNG WOMAN Thanks for all your info and insight A day late and a dollar short for me hehehe. But it's all good. LIVE LOVE & LEARN, diba? KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK U R AWESOME.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for the vote of confidence, Dean!

[@jaymobil1114]

I met a girl in London and have been together 8 months now. We dated and lived a normal life and there's been no scams whatsoever. I just lost my job and she is working hard, she has been lovely and introduced me to her mother and she's an amazing singer! Professional with a degree and speaks English very well. I proposed to her after 8 months - I want to say... I'm never single and can get a girlfriend whenever I like, I was not desperate. In past year, Ive dated lots of women and this Filipina, I have just met was the most appropriate and also wanted to settle down and have a family. She originally told me she was married and could not divorce, she is in her 40's like me and has children. She has persuaded me she wants to start a new family and can one day get annulment. But... now she tells me she was only engaged, but signed a legal declaration. I do love her because we have done so much together and live together. I cannot find any laws about engagement (does she need annulment for this??) and I think she is the scammer extraordinaire. She wants marriage and kids and got me to start a mortgage. But lost my job and didn't go ahead. My plan is still to try, but am concerned she like a large amount of other Filipinas aims to scam me and my family in the long run. We are trying to stay together for 2 years so we can file for definite remain in the UK - Uk government has laws against these scams and I think they are beneficial. Its difficult but I will not allow love to take over common sense and if I have to, leave while I still have my looks and figure. If she sees this - it could end our relationship and she has always felt so sad that I never trusted her. But what does a guy do... who still has his senses! I want to trust her and I want to have a family - but a normal one and normal life.

[@Thealok4444]

7 years relationship with a filipina who left me with lot of millions lost ...I understood what she was after but it was too late ...but thats ok gone is gone ..I dont care ...I am a born millionaire ...so my money flows in my bank account every month in millions even if i dont work...and now I dont send any help to anyone ..i just stop talking if she ask any help ...I just kick her out ...and even the friends i have today I put a hard test for them ....I have just 3 friends in all in my facebook....happy that i never got married to her ...thank u for the video

[@KINSEY1956]

As the great Steve montelli exclaims..."the fastest animal on the planet is a Filipina running to the remittance (Weastern Union or LBC) office to pick up her $$$$"

[@Ron-oe7hg]

Hahahahaha

[@dangarcia6760]

some of the bloggers do rides around the community and when ever they passed a western union, there was a line of girls!!!

[@gavino2250]

Lol dude ! Steve never learned after what 3-4 times getting burned now has his broke ass in the states lol...half blind now too

[@MsLouis88]

You are excactly right. When you ask THEM a favor they always say, "WAIT"

[@pattskatoey3139]

😂 Montelli is funny.

[@iloiloguy]

These scammers are not only Filipinas. Every country has them, including the USA. 🙂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They are everywhere!

[@alexplus3]

Your such a great articulate host...such great writing.

[@johnnyday1463]

Thank you Ms pea so well rounded I pray God continue to bless you the information you give will help a lot of people who will listen

[@sfguy2024]

Pea, you’re the best, I enjoy everyone of your vlogs. You’re so sharp and your English is great and you’re so well spoken. Keep the vlogs coming and soon you’ll have 100k followers

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Matt! I’ll make ‘em for years 😊

[@AReese-eu5zs]

Excellent content! You had me laughing at how gullible some people are. You're wise beyond your years and I always look forward to your next sage words of wisdom.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks AR!! 😊

[@dragonrln]

Thank you, Miss Pea. Great video as always. Your video productions are impressive on so many levels. Obviously much time and effort involved in your work. Soon you'll be at 10,000 subs. As for your videos, once I find my Filipina GF, your videos will be required watching for her - early on. Fortunately for me, my previous attempt a few years ago at Filipina love was only destroyed by Tampo - otherwise she was a good woman and no attempts to scam. I believe (as you do) that most Filipinas are not scammers. But one rotten apple...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Tampo’s a bitch!! Hahahahaha

[@Angelheart78]

You’re perfectly right darling and I learned that lesson by myself … love doesn’t need to be bought with money and being a gentleman should never be confused with a cash machine … is normal to be kind but within limits with eyes large open and never fall for their family dramas … is not your responsibility even if you’re in love with the filipina .

[@samueldenson2457]

pea you are such a blessing thank you so much for your honesty I'm educated more and each time I listen to you blessings to you always

[@boracay12]

Even being married and staying in cebu i have had heard the sob story's . I assume with the goal ,hoping im a idiot and would throw money at them . Here we had had 5 different people ask for " loans" . No one got one. Even people we met working at a hotel in Palawan . One fiesty little cute bi girl . Later ( friends on fb ) with the my mom needs medicine . The request was just in time for the grand opening of the big new sm mall there . Request denied . And one guy from the staff ,who was polite friendly would say hello occasionally . Eventually asked for a loan for a phone .....no ...again He later asked my wifes nephew who he befriended for a loan . Unfortunately ☹️ he lent it to him . Money he could not afford to lose , but did . Never got it back . Yes its a industry . Lonely old men are gullible .

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Good, Sante Fe, because the word ‘loan’ here translates as “You’re not ever going to see that money again” 😆

[@boracay12]

@@TheFilipinaPea 😁

[@stevenoliver9728]

Loaning small amounts of money to people you don't want to see again can be a good idea. There was a lesson similar to that in the movie "A Bronx Tale".

[@stan121midling5]

@@TheFilipinaPea not all us older guys are that stupid, but am glad you put this content out here for others to learn from, great job Pea

[@DaveCarter876]

Great video again Filipina pea, mahal Kita. Best information restaurant on YT, I appreciate you Pea.

[@AllAboutFilipinaRelationships]

Common sense really isn't all that common with some guys. Steve certainly deserves what he gets and no doubt there are many Steve's out there and the Filipina scammers know it.

[@nandorblue]

No he doesn't deserve it. He has ownership in it true. But deserve it? I donlt like to blame the victim. It's like saying a women deserves what she gets if she is naive, giving and doesn't use common sense. You wouldn't treat women the same wouldn't you? So why double standard?

[@Gurkha9]

No doubt this is why the scammers continue with their antics and quite often thrive on those who just can't see the truth. Steve has no one to blame but himself.

[@ToyManFlyer1100]

Yeah, he sounds like " Vegas Dave" from 90 day Fiance...

[@robinshould3366]

I disagree with your comment. Steve does not deserve what had happened to him. Have you heard the saying, "More money than sense?". All the Steve's out there including myself just want to say thank you (Salamat) to you and Filipino Pea for sharing and advising. For the good deed done you both will be very successful.

[@loucarrera4084]

WAKE UP STEVE!!!!

[@thomxscampbell8063]

Thank you For honesty.

[@MyTwoCents2]

AFTER you know youre being scammed you keep doing it anyway... thats deeper issues.. "Learn to love YOURSELF first" -T.Leykis101

[@bigdave5946]

This young lady is feeding you facts .Ive been watching her from her first couple videos. If your not listening then you need a cat-scan on your brain . I’m 50 years old and plan to retire in the Philippines in next year and half . My wife passed away a couple of years ago . Truthfully I don’t buy into the dating sites here or there . I’m old school I like to meet in person be able to look them in the eye . I’ve come to the conclusion I will not not likely remarry weather I were to stay here Or go there . I don’t see why it would be in my best interest at this stage of life . It’s not that I wouldn’t mind having a monogamous relationship. It just seems there is a good percentage of women who want to separate you from your money .Ive worked hard for what I have so I think I’m good not married . I’ve seen the same type of scammers here . I have a friend who’s older then me who got cleaned out by a much younger girlfriend .i warned him when it was going he didn’t listen . He’s 66 now he should able to retire instead he lost house it went into foreclosure . And he has to keep working to survive . I vowed to myself to never let that to happen to me .I’ m a big fan of your channel . Your funny but speak the truth . Listen up Gentlemen.... thanks Pea - Big Dave

[@kennethyoung2077]

But you could make someone's life much better. How you not be good man. I'm shitting you. Thats the way i feel. I had a young lady grilling me last winter in Mexico, i never seen the clip board, but i could guess the questions coming. She told me i was her friend. Then asked if she was my friend. I said no. Dumb look cross's her face

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks SO much, Big Dave (and I’m sorry for your loss)

[@bigdave5946]

The Filipina Pea thank you