5 Ways You Can Be So Irresistible He’ll Never Want To Leave

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you for watching! ❤️ And if you would like to know how to get his attention in the first place, then watch the next video How To Make Him BEG For Your Attention: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3_bmYKapNSEqMk

[@rishitagautam7905]

Was wanting a vdo from you so badly... Missed you soo much😣😣😣😣.. Your vdos not only help me in leveling up but also gain confidence and recognize self worth. Thank you❤

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

@@honeybunnybunny1958 Thank you for that! He actually does read my KZbin comments sometimes :)

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

@@rishitagautam7905 I'm so happy that you're realizing your worth!

[@tatanano8527]

Hey Anna, I love your this video, but my English is not so well to understand, and seriously I want to k understand whatever you are presenting here, this is actually very needful,but I am not getting properly, pls help me.

[@pmymode]

Can you make a video on how a HVW can nurture a man In a Feminine HV way?

[@paulamancuso1910]

1. Set Boundaries 2. Allow him to be vulnerable 3. Get rid of those insecurities 4. Get a life 5. Nurture him without being doormat

[@drzoyaabdulrasheed3156]

Can u plz elaborate a bit ... Boundaries like

[@shaistaazhar2184]

👏🌹

[@rawadsheikh476]

Thank you dear for the summary:)

[@seraphile5720]

@@drzoyaabdulrasheed3156 boundaries like setting limits, knowing your limits, and commanding respect.

[@drzoyaabdulrasheed3156]

@@seraphile5720 thank you

[@YessiWaters]

You teach people how to treat you, by the way you treat yourself ❤️ beautiful video ✨

[@panacheluxury4262]

Amen!

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Yes girl👏👏👏

[@BarredTrader]

Watch aba & preach video about her 🤣🤣🤣

[@illcomplywithguncontrolone6149]

If you treat yourself like a stuck-up plastic bimbo then yeah this is a pretty accurate statement.

[@stef3927]

omg hey yessi

[@preslytanus]

I want to add something to your last point in nurturing men. I agree that men need nurture from women but we women need to know who is worth our nurture. If he deserves it. A lot of women nurture men who don't even care about them.

[@IevaKambarovaite]

So true.. Also too many women look at a man as a project. Is he broken and emotionally unavailable? Let me fix him. Let me help him. You're not his therapist ✨

[@preslytanus]

@@IevaKambarovaite exactly. Some women go to far on trying to be their nurture that they want to have answers and solutions for them. Being too understanding can backfire. I hope we can learn to discern how much and when to nurture.

[@Rainbow-jb4xg]

@@preslytanus You know there're psychological reasons linked to this behaviour in women? I talked about it with my therapist years ago, and unfortunately some women see a child in their partner, that's why they tolerate everything and do everything he asks. We as women are wired to be "abused" by infants, kids are highly demanding and we need to be tolerant and patient ,you can't kick your kid out of the house because he won't do as he is told or threw his toy at you, but this doesn't mean our partner deserves the same treatment. That's why we need to work on our self-esteem and recognise the difference between loving your child and loving a grown-up man who has completely different needs. You can tolerate your kid being a pain in the bum (let's be honest, kids are hard work) but your partner should never be hard work, and if he is, leave him! There's a difference between nurturing a man and nurturing a child. Let's try not to confuse those and end up treating our partner like if he was a child lol

[@preslytanus]

@@Rainbow-jb4xg totally agree :)

[@LifeofMinna]

@@Rainbow-jb4xg good insight! ✨

[@ironicmAgs]

"Walk like there are three men walking behind you" - Oscar De La Renta.

[@uneezaqureshi98]

As in support, or like guys who want to pursue me because the latter sounds creepy

[@agathachris9722]

Meaning body guards.

[@zakiyaibrahim3179]

Powerful

[@hellolove5639]

@@uneezaqureshi98 yeah 😂

[@drolga5071]

I absolutely love it ❤️

[@levelupbookclub]

"Why Men Love Bitches" is a great book going hand in hand with this topic. The title is funny, yes, and it has some great truths about, as Anna is saying, setting boundaries, and feeling empowered to enforce them. A favorite quote from that book about enforcing boundaries: "A man does not respond to words, a man responds to no contact". PERIOD. When a man crosses the line, become gone! This will ensure you do not stick around for bad treatment, and it excersizes your boundary muscles ladies! -Katt, LMT

[@Amy_omer]

Yes a great book 👌👌👌

[@lilly_ann]

I too, did enjoy that book

[@aliceontheinternet123]

Thank u i'm downloading that book now

[@plantberet5045]

I love this book too!

[@lilly_ann]

@@Angel-sz2pn yes i liked it but i found it to kind of repeat what was already mentioned in the first one

[@JPaz-cr8os]

There's a line in Jane Austin's book Emma where when asked what does she deserve she simply replies: "I always deserve the best treatment, because I never put up with any other."

[@jeffsmith-hg8tr]

Thats only works if you are willing to treat someone else that good doesnt matter if she puts up with it or not

[@sal4538]

That gave me goosebumps

[@adenise__122]

pure idiocy

[@Una.3818]

Set boundaries-respect yourself, know your worth. You are indeed the big Sister all of us NEVER have/had.

[@Una.3818]

@@honeybunnybunny1958 cheers!

[@annalesewinget6792]

Yes Exactly

[@Una.3818]

@@annalesewinget6792 i think all of us agree

[@annalesewinget6792]

@@Una.3818 Yes Absolutely right

[@Una.3818]

@@annalesewinget6792 cheers to us all

[@sunnym1374]

I am just 17 years old, but I am so grateful to grow up with a role model like you. I am just starting my life, but I will always know my worth. Thank you Anna 💕

[@stealthaccount573]

how lucky youre ım older than you

[@pdxoregon1]

Good for you!!!! Cheering you on!

[@alinalauras]

Same! Good luck!

[@saptab1344]

Same I’m 17 and I love her channel

[@RRC879]

I'm 17 too. Let's create a generation of self-aware , high-value and powerful women who know their inherent worth.

[@therefinery4726]

Spend your time taking immaculate care of yourself. Be self indulgent, read, relax, travel and self reflect. Whatever your personal interests are, just focus on yourself. Keep developing your own sense of self. Enjoy spending time with yourself. This way you will naturally develope healthy boundries for yourself by prioritizing yourself. I find that this naturally makes you more interesting and appealing to be around, especially to men.

[@alifiii]

Thats so true.

[@bonjourerin1]

Well said

[@musichub7544]

Yes, every1 gets attracted to that type of personality.

[@hiannahgus574]

@ Patricia D'AssierPerhaps a friend could mind your children for a few hours so you could have a massage, a manicure, Reiki session, or latte at Starbucks. Or start having moments of mindfulness and focused breathing. Give yourself 10 minutes of yoga. Have a cup of chamomile tea in a china cup. Find small ways to pamper yourself.:

[@mitzipepall3075]

This is so smart. I became my husband's cleaning lady, cook, &c. He takes me completely for granted. He doesn't notice the lovely meals I cook or how lovely our home is. I guess I have known this for a long time, but I am encouraged to change my pattern. This woman is very intelligent.

[@canelareina3795]

A housewife is supposed to cook and clean. You want compliments? Fair enough. Do you compliment him on going to work?

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

How the heck did you even get a man to marry you in the first place?! I'm 39 and I have only been proposed to ONCE (at 32) and I said no because he was the wrong man! None followed after that.

[@kanikakumari7219]

​@@canelareina3795they are romantic partners not just roommates sharing responsibilities. She showed him her love by cooking a meal lovingly. He should also put in the effort for this relationship. Providing money is not enough. I can share a room and finances with a woman easily what's the point of having a man in life then?

[@amyexner]

I asks my mom once-after my divorce/ he left- “ mom what have I done wrong” she replied “ because they more women out there who are willing without any standards “ she was write. I stayed single for a long time -I was hurt-and then was setting high boundaries…believe it or not-I found than the love of my life..a man who carried me on clouds and spoiled me more than I had even imagine. He passed away last year of cancer and my world came to a halt…my love is gone and I miss him every day. No one will ever treat me like a Queen like he did. …miss you my darling.

[@Laura-cx7jj]

So sorry for your loss dear. Your words of respect and love for your husband is a true tribute to him.❤ 7:50 7:57

[@constancegabriel-haevecker5912]

"People are only offended by you setting boundaries if they were the ones benefiting from you having none." This was such an eyeopener for me. Appealing to his shadow-self and being aware of both of our attachment styles helped me a lot. What you described in point number 3 could classify as anxious-preoccupied attachment.

[@mariestarr92]

This is my first comment ever I never comment lol but I wanted to let you know, Anna I started watching you a year ago and you’ve given me my self worth I’ve never had along with a lot of knowledge. I started taking care of my 17 year old niece last March and I’ve noticed such a change on her perception of life, the way she sees and dresses herself, the way she speaks and her sudden high standards of boys and it’s such an extremely big difference from when she first arrived I’m only 27 with zero parenting experience and I love that she’s learning and mirroring me, which is everything I’ve learned from you 😇

[@pdxoregon1]

How wonderful! God bless you for caring for your niece. I'm cheering you on! Take good care of yourself, so that you can take good care of her. My heart really goes out to you... Wishing you all good things!

[@scsophiecowan8634]

Your a wonderful aunt. Your niece is lucky to have you. Sending you strength and confidence always.

[@HelloDecember525]

That is so beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing!!

[@farihashamim6860]

This was so wholesome to read!

[@elenifourkioti1917]

Dear Anna, this advice comes from true wisdom! I am a 42 year old lady, happily married with a high caliber man, after many unfortunate relationships. The key for me to change my attitude was therapy. I believe very much in the power of therapy and I am very happy that you, Anna, are also a strong advocate for it. It is a life changing experience. I am tired of women saying it is very expensive, while they spend their money on expensive bags or shoes. Therapy is the ultimate investment we can do in ourselves!

[@labornurse]

I would be afraid of getting a bad therapist that would screw me up worse, I guess. Lol

[@elenifourkioti1917]

@@labornurse This is why you don' t go to any random therapist. You choose someone who has good recommendations, preferably coming from people you trust and appreciate their opinion.

[@sallyscott7555]

And here you are wasting your time on this channel. High calibre people don't watch videos of this kind. ..

[@simonefabiane9562]

@@elenifourkioti1917 Good catch. And I think you are high caliber. Your brain certainly works better than the offended riff raff. lol

[@jillmariaplatteaux6083]

What kind of therapy did you follow

[@Rampaigee]

A guy messaged me wanting to casually date and I said, I don’t date anymore. Instead, I court with the intent to marry and gave him a list of expectations I have for myself and marriage and he honestly thought it was the hottest thing ever. We didn’t pursue anything after that but hearing that made me aware that men actually like when we have high standards for ourselves.

[@lpmcarthur]

Did he really think it was so "Hot" if he didn't pursue anything after hearing it? LOL

[@ST-wc9ws]

@@lpmcarthur because he’s not in her League. He may wanted something casual and fun. A serious woman can be hot for him but he can’t provide what she wants.

[@gugupreciousgumede5409]

@@lpmcarthur Yes... He was just honest enough to know that he isn't ready for what she wants. Many men are that honest but because we often start relationships with no direction, we end up following the suit of men which is mostly leading nowhere because they just want flings.

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

@@gugupreciousgumede5409 But why? Why do most men want "flings" are you are saying? I've personally experienced this sadly, but okay, I know it's to have variety maybe, but when are they going to stop? When they're 60, 70? Jesus, they act 20 forever.

[@Pinkchopstix]

You laid all your cards on the table and lost.

[@ML-lg3ij]

Insecurity is so essential to recognise. Low value men often go for women who are insecure because they know they can leech off them finacially and emotionally and sexually. They also festishise women who are insecure. High value men definitely prefer women who are secure in themselves.

[@cinnamongirl7623]

You are spot on. There is an account on Twitter @alpharivelino who is a 40 year old PUA who teaches young boys exactly how to pry on naive shy girls who seemingly have less worldly experience and not see through them.

[@ML-lg3ij]

@@cinnamongirl7623 Hearing things like this makes me glad that women including Anna are telling women to set boundaries and what the red and green flags are. I've even been on a date with a guy who took me to the bookshop but then bought a pick up artist's book.

[@cinnamongirl7623]

@@ML-lg3ij oh no! That must've been horrible. I think that's why I decided not to date in my teenage years because I had tragedies in my family and wanted to heal and not put that burden on someone I ended up loving and using them as a clutch, and at the same time not fall prey to these kinds of people. I'm 22 and I believe I finally I'm at an age where I can gracefully look for a good man.

[@ML-lg3ij]

@@cinnamongirl7623 I never went out with him again. I was 20, and he was like 40 so a bullet missed for sure. I'm also 22 and definitely feel like taking time for yourself to understand your goals in life before dating is essential. Too many women are pick-mes and desperate and don't put themselves first.

[@jaythenihilist4689]

High value man = Good looking and wealthy. High value woman = Good looking. When it comes down to it, there are far fewer wealthy men than there are pretty girls.

[@sashacaba8698]

Your eyes are shining!! I think the earrings were a great choice.

[@mkayokay3192]

Yes! They are perfect. I had the same thought

[@rachaeldbmiller]

They are lovely, I thought the same!

[@anablagojevic7220]

Yeeeees that was my first thought!! It looks sooo good on her.

[@heather_smallwood]

And the thumbnail... is that an engagement ring? I didn’t know she was engaged! Does anyone else know? Maybe I’m late to the party! But it works with the title! Edit: She hid that hand a lot on this video, whether intentionally or not, but you can see it at 6:58 as well!

[@einarrsflower]

@@heather_smallwood I read somewhere that she told her students she's married already. Wish I could afford her courses 😢

[@gabrielamartinyuk9894]

Unfortunately, the man I was dating was trying really hard to make me jelous. When you are secure and confident, watch out, men are not used to that and they will try to stir you up. No reaction given of course , but I am turned off. A man is supposed to value a woman like this , not be threatened by her. Sad!

[@tianna1817]

Hi I recently had the same thing happen to me with a very successful man who approached me multiple times on multiple occasions, I reciprocated however, he tried to make me jealous with two other women who were blatantly desperate. I did not throw myself at him so strong and I think that was the problem. The situation made me very uncomfortable at the moment, I blocked him and haven’t seen him sense right afterwards

[@miriamhavard7621]

It's weird when l men behaves like a coquettish schoolgirl.

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

This happened to me to. When I dumped him he said I would never find someone like him and thank God I didn't 😂.

[@happym3008]

The iscecure man is not usto that , just so u know if he is trying to make u gelous he is toxic and he wil Heart u in the futer from experience Stay away Save ur self

[@stylehautecouture4810]

Can we talk about how stunning and beautiful she looks?

[@phenixcrow]

lol

[@KerryHopkins]

All I see is the microphone lead spoiling the whole look. It’s supposed to be on the inside of clothes

[@nancymercado278]

not only that she is beautiful. Her voice is so relaxing

[@kirsten1007]

Yes we can. Gorgeous and what is that lipcolor

[@elviscinthiaorozco9862]

Yes, effortless elegance and beauty!! Besides being super intelligent!!!

[@melanierosalie]

"Maybe you are so used to having men being jerks to you that you are just looking for signs that your man is a jerk too...." mmmm, that is one powerful sentence!

[@shazeensherzad]

Taking vacation does make a person more radiant. Self-care over everything else. Loving your energy in the video! 😍 😍

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you so much! I must say I feel refreshed & ready to give you ladies some meaningful content! 😘

[@shazeensherzad]

Thank you for all your help Anna! I can speak for the entire community of elegant ladies that we appreciate the efforts you put into each of your videos. ❤ P. S. Your eyes look mesmerizing! 👀 😍

[@anyiiangel1857]

I know She looks so beautiful ✨🤍

[@taytayqueen7024]

Are we really going to applaud people for constantly travelling and putting people at risk in the middle of a pandemic when literally everyone is begging people to stop? Close to 2 million people have died. Hospitals and health workers have been begging people to stop travelling and dying like flies because of THIS irresponsible behaviour. Have some respect. True elegance and beauty is compassion and empathy.

[@minadelina]

I couldn't do any of these when I was 16-17. I thought sacrificing yourself 100% was the description of love. I thought that acting like I deserve good things was narcissistic. I'm 19 now and the moment I realize I'm not cared about enough, I just run away. Those don't deserve me at all. And I deserve everything good, always.

[@NextLevelMeNow]

You have pretty hair!

[@minadelina]

@@NextLevelMeNow Thank you 😊💕💘

[@cieltheeditor7922]

Literally same. Still trying to move past that honestly, it’s tough. Best wishes to you

[@eve_in_paris]

Smart advice as always. I’ve been married to my beloved husband for 22 years and I still enjoy learning on relationships... Warm wishes from Paris 👋

[@stealthaccount573]

can you give more tips for us

[@happylife5654]

team france on est la

[@eve_in_paris]

@@stealthaccount573 long story 😉

[@rosaiverson3475]

Dear Ms. Bey, I took a moment to write this note and simply let you know that your look on this video is absolutely beautiful! Kind regards.

[@s.mindia1485]

Love it when you say "my dear elegant ladies" Gives me a bit of confidence boost 🙏

[@daniellevillalobos4265]

I seriously have a girl crush on this woman. What an absolute inspiration and a fantatsic role model for the modern traditional woman. I absolutely adore you Anna and your content❤

[@SoVidushi]

Blue is definitely your colour you look absolutely stunning 💙

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

It's my favorite color! 😘

[@alyciamarie4163]

I think so too!

[@SoVidushi]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial just finished the video, on point as always. Take care 💖

[@legdaytacos62]

I swear! It’s a waow

[@SoVidushi]

@@legdaytacos62 trueee

[@nancyprivate6774]

Your advice is great - if a woman accepts less she will get less - I have always left if the man does not treat me with respect - respect is everything - that is why my life has been great!

[@bodoor8172]

I like women who don’t nod yes to everything they hear from me, but actually speak their minds and form an independent opinion or just eliminate my hypothesis if they need to. Men who feel intimidated by these women I described already chose to settle for less, they won’t change, not now, not later.

[@amaj_lex]

And this is what I have a problem with. I was apart of a group with men and women and when I spoke my mind and kept it real they became distant. It's so confusing🤦‍♀️

[@marilynoire]

You re absolutely right..

[@Esme_0w0]

@@amaj_lex then clearly they weren’t worth your time ;)

[@bodoor8172]

@@amaj_lex they are exposing themselves, so actually doing you a favor, don’t waste your time, confident men chase confident women, nothing is more elegant to me than a woman that sets her boundaries and forms her own opinions, slam that fist on the table and of course don’t forget to show your death stare when a man crosses your boundaries. In my book, thats how you get respected.

[@gerardkingdev]

@@amaj_lex That's because speaking your mind and speaking facts are two different things.

[@noamavi4039]

"you can actually nurture a relationship/man while setting strict boundaries" that's a really good one Anna thank you for the reminder and advice

[@8dhanarajnongmaithem105]

i wanted to tell you this Anna , i had met your channel by accident and it becomes the most beautiful accident i have ever met. I started to transform on little things the way how i speak (slowly and calmly just as you are), using hands tenderly and that on thing 'smile' that i love the most in you. Thank you sis !

[@marinamt4421]

true, boundaries uplift your quality of life, and eventually someone will admire that strength. The secret is how to balance it with kindness.

[@icyglam1895]

Yep online dating has pretty much killed society.

[@lclane5256]

Yep; there's a reason professional matchmakers are making a come-back.

[@harrypike5140]

Agree. With my last experience of online dating (prior to the COVID situation), the girl I went on a date with expressed to me that she felt a bit uncomfortable with the date because she felt like she didn't deserve it (I took her out for dinner then to a nice cocktail bar, then went for a nice night-time walk in Hyde Park). She said that she wasn't used to being taken out, and all the other guys she'd dealt with through online dating had either not actually asked her on a date and just wanted to come straight over to her place, or invite her round their place (with obvious intentions), or took her some place cheap. She said that the previous guy took her on a date to McDonalds. I couldn't believe it lool. The sad thing is, I wasn't even going out of my way to treat her well or take her anywhere mindblowing - it was just a simple case of showing that I have respect for myself and for the girl I'm taking out, and going somewhere with a modicum of class. But it seems like in the modern dating world, even these basic standards are so often not met! And it really shows, like in how this girl said she felt a bit uncomfortable with the date because she didn't feel good enough to be taken out. That to me, as a guy who is more traditionally minded, is somewhat sad. Everyone should feel entitled to basic levels of respect in dating, and I think it behoves a man to set a good example when he takes a woman out on a date! As someone who is 25, I think i was born in the wrong generation :/

[@icyglam1895]

Well congrats for trying to keep it classy!! Really you are a rare gem in this world. :)

[@MissSuccessfulNovember]

@@harrypike5140 Hyde Park? A fellow Chicagoan!

[@harrypike5140]

@@MissSuccessfulNovember Nope, I live in London, where I think you'll find is the original Hyde Park. Chicago copied it :P Although I did google it and admittedly it looks nice!

[@wendynamisnik11]

That's the best your makeup has ever looked. It's very elegant and pretty.

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Wendy Namisnik,your lovely smile can make the news!

[@mahaabdeen5808]

You know what .. i'm Egyptian and every thing you say is just Transcontinental.. love you ⚘

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Love you back 😘

[@dianafailed8864]

I love how you go against cheap men but respect quality men. And also don't hesitate to criticize women too I really admire you

[@jojoxd8428]

I love to see your chill/funny side 😂✨ it feels as if we were friends 🥰

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

We are friends :)

[@melissahurtadoosorio7391]

So true, now I feel like I have a sister

[@danielalovejesus7912]

I really like it that Anna reminds us women of our worth while at the same time reminding us about our responsibility.

[@alicegrace8476]

Balancing setting boundaries and being nurturing without being a doormat is really an art. By the way: you look stunning, loving the make-up !

[@alicegrace8476]

@BluDoves I believe in love and all but besides that almost everything in life is a negotiation. Therefore, women should know how to negotiate, even in relationships, if they want to be taken seriously and achieve what they want in life.

[@lisasp554]

I know so many people out there without Hobbys and interrests. When I ask on monday for example about there weekend they barely can tell. Get a life ist so true and so important.

[@stealthaccount573]

what is your hobbies

[@lisasp554]

@@stealthaccount573 my favourite hobby for example is working in my garden , growing flowers and crops and nature in general brings me so much joy. I love nature and i always try to learn new things about our fauna and flora

[@ananyamisra6556]

I absolutely love how articulate Anna is. It's admirable how she puts forth her views (which are not as common anymore) and manages to cause no offense to anyone who thinks different. She always emphasizes on one's individual choices ❤️

[@bobbob1724]

Anyone loving Anna’s hair and makeup here I really want a tutorial

[@ninatorc877]

"Others respect you if you respect yourself" is soo true. I made an experiment and canceled my friends every time and said i have to workout (something productive) and they kept asking me to hangout more and more, then i started to say yes (and neglected my priorities) and we went out once and then they stopped asking me to hang out.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Wow!

[@kristenk708]

Oh my, why would they stop calling you, that's weird!

[@ninatorc877]

@@ladysusan6978Yes, i was going for a hike and we actually met unexpectedly and they asked me to hangout with them.

[@ninatorc877]

@@kristenk708 indeed, i sincerely hope it was not my personallity that bothered them. Refering to Ana's video i think they saw my time as important as me and they subconciously thought that if i give them my time they must be important.

[@kristenk708]

@@ninatorc877 so what's the problem there? They should be happy about that and appreciate you even more. If they don't, then you don't need such friends.

[@rupkathamukherjee7373]

I loved it when you said "loose strings attached", and then "I wouldn't know obviously". You are a real queen👑.

[@shanforshort8713]

I love this channel. I’ve changed my style and people treat me differently. I even feel better about myself . When I say wearing the same colour is the best advise I’ve been given . Obviously I’m not spending recklessly but I bought a £30 shower gel ( expensive for me ) the other day and I didn’t feel guilty . I realise I’m worth it 😃

[@jeaneeelms405]

Is that an engagement ring?! 😍😍 If so, congratulations! 🎊🎈🎉🍾

[@hshsdjsb9397]

That dress looks gorgeous on you! 😊

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you so much! 😘

[@kgocampo7439]

Thank you for these advices, Anna. You are spot on as always. About #4 Get a life - this is so true because an idle mind is a devil’s playground. When we don’t have a life and we just sit on the couch watching aimlessly on nonsensical shows tv or browsing social media, this is when our minds start to cook up negative and/or obsessive thoughts and insecurities.

[@hussnashinwari6838]

I have a 24 hour exam tomorrow, have hours of lectures left and i am currently watching on how to be irresistable to men so they don't leave me 🙃

[@ccmg7560]

Same😭 good luck tomorrow

[@ginpepper]

Focus on yo exam. You’ve got this!

[@icr9375]

Good luck on your exam! 💖

[@geoffburke5591]

Good luck

[@joycekabochi4689]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@sranyak]

Anna, all I can say I wish you were around 25 years ago. I felt very insecure in my former relationship because when I met his best friend for the first time, the first thing out of his mouth how’s the Playboy? If that wasn’t a sign, why didn’t I react to that? I was in a 10 year relationship and I didn’t respect my self-worth. I remember growing up; my mother would always say if you don’t respect yourself, no one else is going to. Why didn’t I listen, she was sharing words of wisdom. The topics you share with us will definitely open our minds. Ciao Bella!💜

[@ananyasingh9237]

I'm 17 , never been in a relationship but I want to thank u for letting me know these points, bcz ik how narcissistic boys r these days!! . God bless u❤💕

[@pdxoregon1]

Good for you! Take your time... Enjoy YOUR life, and then you will be ready to share it with a kind and wonderful man. Blessings to you!

[@ananyasingh9237]

@@pdxoregon1 thanks🤗🤗

[@honeySingh-nf4ne]

I think the total opposite yet understandable have a nice day

[@adflix424]

@@Cryboutet False generalization on the basis of what you heard from a few allegedly decent men? What an intelligent piece of meat u r !!

[@ModernLady]

My husband always treats me like a queen. That’s why I married him.

[@stealthaccount573]

how could made it

[@ModernLady]

@@stealthaccount573 Sorry?

[@alaaaaa4132]

@@ModernLady I think she's asking how to make a man treats you like a queen?

[@ShidachiOm]

@@stealthaccount573 you don't "make" a man do anything. You refuse to accept less-than. Men who are unwilling to treat a woman well, will leave. Men worth having, will happily rise to meet the standard. Simple.

[@iminfinite6751]

Anna I thank you so much, I'm not looking for a relation but you help me a lot with myself, I had bulimia and anorexia, I have been "clean" for a year, but my self confidence is a hard topic to me, but your videos make me feel worthy and beautiful. Just thank you ❤

[@heatherrausch288]

The colors you have been wearing really bring out your eyes and makes your skin glow. Thank you for your videos. I have learned so much!

[@medinagutic6491]

Girl, you are glowing, shining and extraordinarily beautiful in this video

[@miqe-ds1833]

Oh Anna you are glowing in this video!

[@lucija4646]

My queen! One of the most inspiring women I have come across in my life...So grateful! Your words are words of true wisdom! P.s. I rarely give compliments, but I can't resist when it comes to you! 💗

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank You Lucija, I really appreciate it my dear! 😘

[@oransherf1089]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial com to israel;;;;;;

[@divinafrances]

She is 100% correct! Men love woman with confidence and high self esteem. Be authentic and be you! Control your emotions and love yourself! He will respect that! If he still leaves, then he has problems. Be compassionate and understanding.

[@zahrah3287]

Interesting point about being nurturing! Can you give examples of how to do that in relationship when not married? What kinds of things to do or not do? What sorts of boundaries?

[@evka24]

do not give more than man give...mirror actions and words

[@brittanyg6796]

She's not great at giving examples. It's one of the weaknesses of her videos

[@annefisher6323]

Just by being kind to him. cook him dinner sometimes, but don't let him flop at your house all weekend. Watch sports with him sometimes, but make sure he watches something you like with you sometimes too. Treat him like you would want to be treated, but don't tolerate his not treating you the same way. Relationships are give and take. Don't do his laundry tho, ever, till you are married. most men hate doing laundry so they will gladly pawn if off on a woman if she's willing.

[@TheSuperGeo]

@@annefisher6323 LOL you want someone to start picking his underwear and put it away when doing laundry? I have been in a 12 years relationship now without getting married and this is ridiculous. We both contribute to the house chores because we both live there. Marriage is not a conditioning, I don't wanna get married, I am simply teaming up with a man to make ourselves a beautiful life togheter. Things should be easy, not complicated "don't do this if you're not married". Treat him like a king now, because now you see if he does this back to you, before doing mistakes. If you're waiting untill after marriage, maybe he is waiting too, to treat you like a carpet. A woman is supposed to be independent and handle her own sh*t, not to plan her life around a ring. When you stand your ground, you don't even care to be married anymore, you just celebrate the NOW with him, day after day, with the freedom to go whenever you want. Buy the house on your both names, have your own and also common bank account and you don't need to wait for him to wife you. That's insecurity and puts him in a position of superiority. In my case, 12 years is enough to want to marry him because he was with me during my lowest times, but I am not gonna waste $5000 for a night of party. And papers are useless, all of our possessions are 50-50. But if you still wanna get married, make sure you don't do it too fast. Wait to live with him for 2-3 years before that. And make sure you don't sacrifice your finances for the wedding.

[@someoneimportant6390]

My dear, don’t live with the man if he isn’t your husband.

[@wendycampos4356]

Thank you for being so real and pointing out toxic traits and not just saying that we simply deserve the world because we do

[@madelinefenwick7876]

When she threw the pillow I lost it 😂😂

[@ksenijadrole4487]

Seriously, with this outlook and hairstyle you look so stunning and elegant.

[@OlgaPogozheva]

I don't know why I'm even watching this, I guess I simply enjoy looking at Anna and hearing her voice. :) It kinda calms me down. Always some feminine wisdom here.

[@jasminesuzanne2619]

What you catch a man by is what you will have to keep him with. Let it be your laughter and spirit. Thank you, I do appreciate all School of Affluence videos.

[@joymae]

We need to set boundaries with ALL parts of our lives I can’t agree more and stop saying sorry so muchz

[@happyduck9223]

I need to stop apologizing so much for normal things. I say sorry so often and than say sorry for saying sorry. 😅

[@MandyJRoss]

You are whole. You are enough. You are worthy.❤️

[@Houseplantpixie]

❤🍀love this so much. Exactly! Some people say I have too high standards but I rather be single than being in an unhappy relationship

[@ISing4Jesus6353]

I have discovered that some of these insecurities you're talking about have more to do with my having an anxious attachment style which was brought about by my relationship with my father and previous bad romantic relationships when I was ghosted. I have learned my triggers and am healing from those past relationships. I am learning not to jump to the first negative assumptions but instead to give the man the benefit of the doubt and assume other positive scenarios.

[@LeeChanel05]

She gives me big Aries ♈️ Energy!! 💓

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

😘

[@roberta93]

You are the first one who says that women deserves respect and actually explains how to achieve it. Thank you!

[@samanthagupta]

You look great in this color! Could you talk about your etiquette school more like you used to? My mother and I loved it!

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

What would you like to know? 😘

[@samanthagupta]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial Hi! Your school’s name, legacy, class subject’s content, types of classmates you had? I’ve been talking to my parents about it and I’m thinking about attending after I finish my MA🤩

[@molchkrote3141]

I had to stop the video to tell you how absolutely gorgeous those earrings look on you! They really make your eyes stand out😍 so beautiful!

[@0055doni]

“I wouldn’t know, obviously”💀💀

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

😆😆😆

[@WilliamsPinch]

🤣🤣🤣 that literally stopped me in my tracks.

[@kirsten1007]

This is so true. Put down boundaries and you will be shocked that most men fall in line. It feels good

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Beauty & Love, you look stunning dear

[@isabelladelbuono9828]

Since I discovered you and your videos, my life has changed forever. I keep your words and teachings in mind every single day. Thank you with all my heart, Anna. 😍❤

[@alexavij]

Me who doesn’t talk to guys at all: *clicks on video*

[@pravallikachalla9326]

I am a teenager from India, so probably not your usual audience. But I want to live my life to the fullest and Anna’s content definitely teaches me a lot about how to do it. Thank you so much for teaching all of us about leveling up and giving dating advice and my personal favorite, advice in femininity. Love you so much Anna. P.S., Could you please make a video on personal grooming as it is definitely the most important aspect of looking put together. Love you Anna!

[@shraddhapatnaik2585]

Hello... another indian right here

[@dysaniac3807]

Even I was going to request for the same video... Thanks...

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

I have many indian ladies who follow me! 😘 Noted on the video request

[@srijanisarkar3076]

Hi another Indian teenager here

[@pravallikachalla9326]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial Oh my god! Thank you so much for replying!!

[@tamara435]

YES YES YES!!! Ladies know your worth and set boundaries. Don't allow anyone to disrespect you.

[@user-dn9gz5lu4y]

you seem so happy and playful in your videos lately, loving the energy!

[@lanafrank]

wow, i would aLso never leave after this :D so much appreciated advice, just thank you so much . and especially in bed, he loves my energy after those spanish fly i read about and all of my friends . just great experience, i have no idea what's in it but even my friends are absolutely satisfied ..

[@hjjvc4028]

Little do you know that you have changed my life. Lots of love ❤️❣️

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you! 😘

[@ThecreativeTolu]

Your skin is glowing and your makeup looks so beautiful. I love you Anna, watching you is like having a big sis 💙 please can you do a blog on your everyday makeup look and skincare routinr

[@BrittanyVenti]

I took your advice and they thought I was plotting to murder them. I like your video!

[@BreeQuinn]

Whaaaaaaaat, I had no idea you would be someone that would watch her videos lol

[@SirBrucie]

Of course you watch this channel.

[@moreen2018]

😂😂😂

[@ariesadanna9808]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NJ-kk7jt]

Ha ha!!

[@agnesndonde6065]

Thank you so much love for this, I've learnt a lot from you, I need to keep my women femininity higher. Stay blessed

[@hahna77]

I wish I would have gotten this advice 20 years ago. It sounds so simple, but honestly I was never truly fulfilling many of these things in my relationships. Life changing.

[@QueenVee2024]

Wowowowowow! Hun, everything is ON Point! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Paulina-sh2ov]

I couldn’t focus on the video, all I am doing is staring at you, you look so gorgeous, you are glowing! 👸🏼🥰😍 I need to rewatch 😅

[@bethsellers1796]

Truly, awareness is necessary. Glad you reiterate that.

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Beth Sellers,I admire your lovely smile

[@TheAmna_Penguin]

Who else got to know about elevating their life through Anna? And they have levvelled up so much just by watching the videos of her that you don't even recognize the old you anymore?

[@navneetsandhu8841]

What a Timing babe just needed this 🤭

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

😘

[@kaymaya5134]

Me too ❤

[@lon2336]

Baby blue looks SOOOO good on you, Anna! Very flattering colour

[@lafastucel7714]

Omgggggg you are stunning. Just omg. This dress. The color. Everything. Thank you for existing Anna

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

Thank you for being here! 😘

[@mermaidlifeonearth]

@@AnnaBeyOfficial looks like Cinderella 💙

[@stellangozinwokocha1355]

I just love your simplicity. Hoping for a better me in boundary settings. Thanks Anna.

[@emelyperez8547]

“Get a life” - best quote ever👌🏻💕

[@lucyna6269]

Yes, you ate totally right with those dramas queen! I met some of them in my life.

[@angelcustodio5541]

Anna is really glowing different in this video. She has such a twinkle in her eye here

[@lovelylouro]

I was placed in "charms school" when I was 9. I dropped the training a year later because I was tired of being the only 5th grader with a napkin on my lap during lunch time. Lol. But I never forgot those lessons. How to eat, set a formal table, sit, walk, stand, and dress. Very Princess Diaries for reference. But even though self esteem was "implied" through learning how to be a proud "lady", our interactions with young men, and later men, wasn't important, being pleasant was. I found myself drowning my identity in every relationship trying to keep men "happy". I clicked on this vid. Number 1- setting boundaries, brought me to tears. I needed to hear this! Remind myself of this. Thank you so much for this video and I hope everyone who paid attention to #1, really took it to heart. We can do so much better. And we don't have to settle for it.

[@veggie-lynn]

I am definitely registering for your class as soon as it opens.

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

We’re starting in February!😘

[@rikusalenius4265]

ive started to think that i may have been wrong when i wrote this i apologize i think that you do give good advice but i dont agree with everything you said anna and you could reconsider some of your opinions.

[@Coiselyn]

Let’s talk about the resemblance of her ear rings and her eyes 🥰 I love it!!!!