6 Boundaries High-Value Women Set Or Enforce When Dating - How To Set Boundaries

[@debbieforareason364]

1.) Don't be available for impromptu dates 2.) Dont be available for late night calls or texts 3.) Don't accept body shaming 4.) Don't accept ANY kind of abuse WHATSOEVER 5.) Don't accept disrespect of ANY kind 6.) Don't always be too available

[@onyedikachiokocha4645]

I've slacked on 5 and 6, thank you for sharing.

[@hereisTio]

Men know what they are doing!! All the time!! Don't make excuses for them

[@ayanime_edem]

Exactly! They really do…

[@LoveChukwukere]

Very self-aware creatures😂.

[@sholondaflynn6483]

True indeed

[@jovitamark3622]

Ma'am I wish I knew all these tips or ur channel before I got married! 😢 ​@@ayanime_edem

[@RocktoaGem]

I get that you don’t always wanna seem too available. But you don’t always wanna seem uninterested or unavailable that you’re too busy enough to respond then they will think you are not interested so you also have to be mindful of that. I get what she’s saying- Have a balance & be mindful

[@cynthiajoseph4048]

Balance is Key

[@ifeomaaaaaaaa]

It's how you honestly do not want us young girls/ladies to make mistakes in our relationship with Men. How you teach us how to be elegant, How to be successful and go for what we want without feeling guilty. You even tell us some things you went through just because you don't want us to go through such. We don't deserve you sis. Your kind is rare. God bless you🤍

[@ayanime_edem]

I feel seen and understood! Thank you so much for this beautiful comment 🤍

[@lenora7424]

❤

[@lenora7424]

I am sooooo grateful and thankful for you, your teaching, your testimonies,... I have experienced most of these. This is helping me, mature in this area. THANK ❤️ YOU!

[@cbsjovita]

All your videos are top notch. The way and manner you speak so softly with your words and diction... is so amazing. I am indeed getting better! ❤

[@AnitaObaweki]

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[@Thatstylist_113]

I’m in my 40’s learning from this beautiful woman ❤Never too late to learn!

[@felisha4reel]

Me too! 49

[@kondwanibanda7819]

Facts. The truth tries to masquerade as a joke. Body shaming hurts. I'll never allow it.

[@neocharlenetau5506]

My boyfriend body shame me sometimes and he makes it look like his playing. Now we having a long distance because he wanted it that way. He disrespect me at when we talk on the phone. I am done, I want to be a new person. I want to be a high value women!

[@ellamia6827]

How's this going for you sis, I hope you finally did what was best for you... Cheers to you

[@omopariolaestheroluwatoyin1032]

Since my friend brought it to my notice that i have broad shoulders, I haven't been able to be confident with my body anymore, I didn't even know until she told me that, no one ẹver told me, so now am working on loving my broad shoulders that I just discovered 😂😂

[@kondwanibanda7819]

😂 I'm still making peace with mine. We've got this.

[@Goddess_Nkem]

I have broad shoulders, that's the sexiest feature any woman can have

[@tracynomishan7030]

@@Goddess_NkemVery sexy thing

[@omopariolaestheroluwatoyin1032]

@@Goddess_Nkem wow really? 🤭🥰

[@omopariolaestheroluwatoyin1032]

@@kondwanibanda7819 yeah 💙🫂

[@ijeomanwichi1242]

Men intentionally push to disrespect you a lot,same thing they don't like.Ir is very important to set boundaries from the very onset and stick to it.Thank to you for sharing

[@ijeomaogu5750]

This vlog has taught me that there are seemingly "simple things" that shouldn't be taken for granted... Thank you. You gained a subscriber 🎉

[@ayanime_edem]

Wonderful! Glad to have you here 🎉

[@nicoleken9644]

Like i said before and i will always say, am sticking her for life... Its so bad i have made so many mistakes in the past. God help me to forgive myself... Thank you sis i watch your videos and teachings every single day. Am grateful❤❤

[@chituru8574]

I appreciate your videos and have been binge watching them. Thank you so much! I totally agree that sometimes setting a boundary isn’t about saying what you won’t accept, sometimes you communicate this by doing or not doing certain things. This comes across as softer, more feminine and more mature. And a person who isn’t okay with that would show themselves.

[@N2Witchin]

I went and got Ruby Woo lipstick and Chestnut liner…literally the best advice that instantly upgraded my appearance.

[@N2Witchin]

I trust whatever you say now lol

[@chiziteluumeigbo]

I just came across your page and I’m already sold! This is amazing content

[@lilianizunobi9322]

I just joined your channel, and seriously i just love the way you teach! Your contents are absolutely the best!

[@ayanime_edem]

I'm glad to have you here! 💃🏽

[@ninawestlake14]

I love you, Ayanime. I'm manifesting friendships with ladies just like you. Thanks for all your hard work.

[@blessingomeh7111]

You look so pretty 😍

[@ijay_achinike]

I used to be very available...But thank God I've learnt better now.🙏🙏

[@je39981]

I like how this video speaks on boundaries to protect ourselves as a woman and not so much related to how to get the main to see us. Definitely learned to make boundaries and will continue to enforce them.

[@SylviaAputazie]

I really love your content❤ its so packed with wise nuggets. Every lady should watch this

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you! 🤍

[@SuaveUC]

Gems 💎…as always!

[@ayanime_edem]

I’m glad it was helpful… thank you for watching 🤍

[@patriciakasenge9927]

love your content, they’re very informative ❤you call out real Situations in a classy way❤

[@ayanime_edem]

I appreciate that and thank you for watching 🤍

[@nanaakuaafriyie1]

I’m stuck on this channel. Thank you dear for the education you are providing for us ❤❤❤❤.

[@eminaemi7854]

You are so right! Thank you to be so honest. Many woman dont want to here this. ❤

[@GracyesGardenLLC]

Queen so glad ive found you're channel ive been binge watching you're videos thank you so much im elevating to my next level

[@ayanime_edem]

Wonderful! I’m glad to have you here🤍

[@NeauxLasLittleCrescents]

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[@uglyblazer2096]

Love you makeup. Please do a tutorial. Don't know how to wear makeup, but I feel like yours is beautiful and simple to learn😊

[@gina_adeka]

I love it here❤

[@cynthiajoseph4048]

I love your accent And your carriage You are worth following and listening

[@dootiefayetz]

This video was so insightful, thank you for empowering us women.

[@AdebowaleOluwafunmilayo-q9u]

Hello ayanime, how are you? I hope you are doing great. please can you teach us how to reply a missed call elegantly, instead of saying ''sorry i missed your call.'' For instance if you missed your friend, partner, anonymous and others.

[@marsham8902]

Your eye color is beautiful

[@ayanime_edem]

Oh, thank you... they are brown contact lenses 🤍

[@jaimerose1297]

I am too available. I have to work on that. I have plenty I can be working on and spend more time with my friends. Thanks for this video!

[@HelenSunday-xu9vi]

Men are very emotionally manipulative. I'm trying to learn that lately and set my boundaries. They can manipulate you and make you to always feel guilty, then get away with what they want from you. Please Ayanime, create a video and throw more light on this. I've been a victim of this but now the scales have fallen off my eyes. I'm setting my boundaries in this regard. And I noticed when you don't succumb to that emotional manipulation, they adjust. Men need to be studied to be able to handle them

[@felisha4reel]

Dr. Ramani is an expert in this and other toxicity in relationships.

[@ihediohablessing5958]

I was look forward to your videos 😊

[@ayanime_edem]

Hope you enjoyed it! 🤍

[@Pokuaa165]

I’m new here and I love all the videos have watched so far 🤗 And oh , you are so beautiful also .

[@hephzibahu.emereole2093]

You are a start!!! Love love the content! Been stuck today and have watched many of your videos. Pls how do I get your course? When is the next wardrobe/fashion training course? Ty!

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you so much! The current cohort is already open. Kindly find the link below: ayanimeedem.selar.co/page/StylingYourEssence

[@susanwatitwa5058]

@@ayanime_edemI’m not sure about pricing, the link here has a different price while when I proceed to register, the price changes. Any clarification kindly?

[@thetasha1081]

Thank you for these tips , its so helpful

[@SunQueen-d7l]

🎉hurtn u is intentional, aka evil 😈 . saying something hurtful which proves he w/o a doubt he doesn't like u. He's only using u. Run 🏃‍♀️ for ur life. Bc m fiercely 💯% protect whom they care for.

[@saje007]

That last line! ❤

[@OdunayoEhis]

Exactly, hmmmm so true

[@ndoloweh]

Gorgeous and eloquent lady.Did you by any chance act in a movie with Daniel Etim?

[@ayanime_edem]

Hello beautiful, yes I did…

[@GLGL-ug]

I will always watch ❤

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you... that means the world to me 🤍

[@viviantejada]

Excellent advice and very well explained. Thank you for this!

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure 🤍

[@temmywemambu9070]

I'm learning

[@AdebowaleOluwafunmilayo-q9u]

Hello everyone please I have a question if someone called me on my phone and I missed the person call instead of saying sorry I missed your call what should I say. please I would really appreciate if you can help me.

[@uglyblazer2096]

'As if his phone catches fire during the day'😂😂

[@nyuydzemarvis8826]

😂😂😂

[@ofoegbunancy3202]

Thank you for that enlightenment

[@blessedchiamaka3483]

I stumbled on your channel and I really really love it Thank you

[@primrosekeoratile2400]

Does a man that is controlling you emotionally abuse you In a way that he tells you not to talk to people and also to stop interacting with them

[@joyakinyemi3816]

That's narcissistic behavior, please Walk away from any man that's trying to isolate you.

[@peaceekanem]

Thank you so much. I learnt a something new

[@edesiriokitikpi5134]

Thank you ma

[@olotu_o3248]

Hello, i will like your opinion on this pls. So im in a talking stage with someone for about two weeks now. He came to attend a wedding in a nearly city close to where i stay. Afterward he decided to come to my city, he stayed in a friends place we then hanged out. The question is, he has returned to his base. And would like to see me soon. And he is suggesting i come over to his city. And I don’t want to stay in his apartment. How can i make him stylishly realise that? Do i be upfront by telling him to book hotel for me? Pls kindly reply to this 🙏

[@asha4189]

I’d let him know you’d love to visit him and then send him the link to the hotel you’d like to stay in

[@nareigberaese5770]

Beautiful video

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you beautiful and thank you for watching 🤍

[@shalomakaelu]

I really want to be a high value woman!😭

[@ayanime_edem]

And you can… be intentional with your journey 😉🤍

[@HereNow-el5jf]

Ok. But please tell me what cooor rubber brands on your braces? They look so shiny. I never know what colors to get. I’ve don’t pink and brown. 😢

[@ayanime_edem]

It's black

[@oliviagreen82]

I just love you 😍

[@ayanime_edem]

Awww, I love you too

[@rotimijoy825]

Is it some form of body shaming when they talk about height too? I mean it’s beginning to look like a pattern. When I meet a guy in person he’s so attracted to thr looks and can’t stop talking bout how really pretty I am but then along the line make the “but you’re short o” remark “I didn’t know you’re this short but that’s not a problem” It’s kind of happen 90% of the time that I don’t really see it as an issue But I want to know if it actually is

[@ayanime_edem]

Walk away right away! What does he mean by “but that's not a problem?”

[@rotimijoy825]

@@ayanime_edem right? Wao. thank you so much for the insight ma’am ❤️

[@Purelonel]

Love you .bye

[@n0426]

* he should book a date. 😂

[@cynthiajoseph4048]

Yes. And you can make him do it nicely .

[@n0426]

@@cynthiajoseph4048 can you give examples?

[@jasminewalters5176]

Love your videos and insights! But as a Black creator, please consider using Black images and gifs. You’d never see a white video with Black images or gifs!

[@user_abcxyzz]

Fix your audio

[@ayanime_edem]

Will do…

[@AngelaHolmes-px7lx]

If you want a high value man, what you bringing to the table besides yourself.so if you have nothing,as a grown woman, you don't need nothing. There it is right there.

[@yeahrightuhhhuh4931]

🥱🥱🥱

[@winnstreaksese]

Very wise counsel 🫡