6 Reasons You Are Not Attracting High-Value Men

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you for watching! Which of these reasons resonated with you? Let me know 🤍

[@bimboinspires]

I love your channel because you made me start watching femininity channels again . I noticed most channels were toxic . They had too much dos and don’ts and how to was about changing my personality and my core . I decided to start watching again and I found your channel and I am so excited that you’re a believer and I can trust your counsel. Well done .

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you so much for your kind words… they mean the world to me 🤍

[@rejoicegabriel-jl4hy]

@@ayanime_edemplease do short girls video how to dress

[@hannahbudede4956]

Being not approachable Dressing as man

[@odyody502]

Thank you so much dearie. I can be at home for Africa

[@IhuomaFavoured]

Why you aren't attracting men unleveled appearance 2. Resting BFace 3. Not going out 4. Acting masculine 5. Being too prim and proper 6. The spiritual factor Thank you for this! ❤

[@sharonliana5631]

Ghosh I have a resting bitch face, how can I help this?

[@amiekbarber]

Thank you so much Ayanime❤ always a pleasure listening to you 😊. I reasonate with reasons 2, 3 and 6. I have a resting B face but i realise it's because I am so dissatisfied with a lot happening in my life right now and it's just draining my whole energy, and this is leading to me shutting everyone out and hiding away 😢. I absolutely do not go anywhere else apart from work and church. I can't keep letting the devil win. I am definitely going to my father and have him fix me.

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you for watching beautiful and I’m glad the video was impactful. 🤍

[@chinesewithsarah8761]

Number 2 is so me but I’m getting better now, learning to smile more. I’m still watching

[@issahsidi4316]

Sadly, reason 3 is so me. I can stay indoors for a living but after watching this, it's about to change

[@theestherkay]

What a beautiful video!!!!

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you for watching 🤍

[@blessingehiozee2]

Im always home 😢and i don't know why can't stop it 😢

[@Erica-ec9jt]

I'm learning....from this clip. Talk to God. Less worry. Thank you. Thank you.

[@christtherock6321]

I just discovered you and have started watching your videos which I'm sure it's not by accident. It was brave of you to share your testimony. God is still breaking yokes of unattractivenes. Ladies submit to God and He will show you the way to go. ❤

[@ayanime_edem]

I’m glad to have you here 🤍

[@charlesettaade1693]

❤

[@thaonganhlane3895]

Mum told me of number 1.she said whenever you are going out look put together because not all people you will meet knows you you give the impression to people who meet you the first time that is who you are so try being smart every time

[@r.jenkins5982]

✋🏽work...home...church😭. I HAVE to do better because faith without works is dead girl lol. Another awesome video and perfect timing to change this before the New Year!

[@jasminealexia]

Wow! # 6 really is good and you are a woman of God! 🙌🏽 I attract men consistently especially on social media but unfortunately nothing like who I would want to date. I have yet to attract a high caliber man but I don’t go out much. Must change that!

[@humanenough_1]

Number 4 is so me, I really need to stop me from doing that

[@ayanime_edem]

Think about how you can go about changing it DAILY… bits and pieces and before you know it, you’ll break the habit 🤍

[@humanenough_1]

@@ayanime_edem thank you

[@humanenough_1]

@@ayanime_edem can you make a video on how to talk like a lady or things to say in relationship or friendship?

[@nietah325]

thnaks for the at prayer part at the end.. Thank You

[@ayanime_edem]

You’re welcome 🤍

[@jumaimomoh2847]

I don't know why but the way you talk is soothing and really comforting. You are also right. Thank you for this. Already subcribed.❤

[@ayanime_edem]

Yay!! Glad to have you here! 🎉🎉

[@H.H4ever]

I know why, this woman is the right person in the right place. Her voice as well as the wisdom in her message are sent from God to fulfill the purpose of inspiring and elevating women.. Thank you beautiful, you are transforming lifes ,keep up the amazing work !! Am a new here🎉

[@orutanora3554]

2,3 and 6 is calling My name, most time I try to go out alone but but I do come back angry, ma God bless you❤

[@ayogulydia9444]

Thankyou soomuch dear. I learnt alot and I love the way you speak, so calm and articulated, and i wish to emulate that. ❤ always.

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure beautiful and thank you for watching 🤍

[@favourezeifeoma5206]

U are speaking facts especially the lastbone

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you for watching 🤍

[@okonkwonkechi5602]

Thank you for creating the balance. The Spiritual is also important ❤

[@AdaobiObi_n]

I love number 6 and that’s my story. God is real and He wants our successes much more than we. I don’t know who needs to see this but He’d send His finest sons to you in Jesus name 🙏🏽

[@suem.1392]

"He'd send His finest sons to you in Jesus name" Amen!

[@enyojochristianahabu6621]

Amen 😢

[@hannahokoye1167]

Amen

[@josephineuzorh8901]

Amen

[@sommyluv7326]

Amen 🎉

[@Erica-ec9jt]

That last part brought slight tears ...thank you!! My prayer needs to change to God ...less of a request. More aligned with preparation

[@jay.jay.]

The reason 6 resonates with me the most. Last year I did some work on me inside and noticed that this was reflecting also on the outside. I got so much noticed from people. Since then, have again fallen to low levels energetically and need to ask God again to give me light, not to just get noticed, but in general

[@ayanime_edem]

And He will… all you have to do is ask 🤍

[@chieva6130]

You are just screaming my name especially number 4

[@estherchikezie8341]

I don't know why I have to type this... But I love you ❤ Thank you so much for this video

[@martipatience5029]

Honestly, dressing well is very important. I get special treatment at my work place just because of my appearance. And how I smell good all the time

[@MABELENYONAMBLINKS]

I perfectly agreed with you

[@christelletientcheu8410]

11x😂😂😂😂😂​@@MABELENYONAMBLINKS

[@mutesidelphine7507]

You gained a new subscriber much love from Rwanda

[@FerminineForce]

Why are you calling me out!!!😂😂😂😂 mine is school>Home>Church 😅😅😅

[@ayanime_edem]

Now go and sin no more... 😁

[@BEAUTIFULL-u5g]

She calling me out as well, from South Africa......I'm home work, work home 😢😂😂😂😂

[@AudAkos]

I havent watched this fully but I can see where this is going. 😂

[@adukechioma1612]

@@AudAkosu are guilty I guess 😅😅

[@AudAkos]

@@adukechioma1612 yeah definitely i am 😂

[@olayemiadejoke9501]

You did a good job dear,I think you're an actress...like hv seen you in some movies..more ideas and wisdom from above 🙏 Am a first time subscriber.

[@chimannaoji9892]

I enjoyed watching this, I'm guilty of number 5, I'm going to pray about it, thank you.

[@judithchinemerem3490]

No 6 means alotttt ! You're unique ma,keep it up.

[@IhedimmaChioma]

Wow! U nailed it 😮 U just described me... Home › Work>Church>Home! Tnx a lot for this video. I'll make a conscious effort to change

[@christineonwubiko7499]

Thank you for including God in this vide. I needed the reminder of #6. He is the one that adorns our inner man and our outer man 🙏🏾🤍

[@ayanime_edem]

Well said!

[@kemiquadri1708]

Your voice is so soothing and you make great content. Also, love the fact that you are a fellow Christian 🙏🏾

[@ighoesiri1886]

Awesome tips...but,.I think num 6 should be num 1...

[@simileoluwaageloye5423]

Why am I loving this video so much😊, so much truth shared.

[@ayanime_edem]

I’m glad you love it 🤍

[@ingrid2242]

Thanks for your prayer Inspo. Glad to know that you are a Spiritual Christian Woman. God bless you

[@mawunyaawusi4291]

This is so peaceful Thanks for this soft talk

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure 🤍

[@joyozioma9106]

I just love it when you ended with God. I love the way you talk, it's so soft and gentle and peaceful. Thanks so much.

[@temitayooyedele8466]

Beautiful ❤, its the last for me

[@ibrahimfatima-my3tk]

I sincerely want to thank you for everything I’ve learnt on every of your videos that I’ve come across. I feel like crying cos,I’ve had these issues and don’t know how to come out of them. Thank you so much ma’am. God bless you.❤

[@nitachima542]

Reason 2 really really got me 😂😂... That's really me 😢

[@Maryannndu]

Thank you very much ma. The part of talking to God about it got me loving you😊 Meanwhile, I have turned notification for all your videos. This is my first video from you and yes, you answered my questions. Thank you ma.

[@nawtydebby3116]

You look good😊 I love the atire❤️

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you so much 🤍

[@oluwatoyinomotola469]

Always a pleasure listening to you,thank you for putting this out I love the way you speak,I wish i can speak fluently as you 😭

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you and you can do it too! Here’s a video that will help; How To Speak Elegantly & Eloquently - Sound Intelligent & Be Memorable kzbin.info/www/bejne/iaXEpWp6rJaZia8

[@favy0670]

No:2 is killing me 😢 i don't smile at all and is not intentional , is really affecting me because i don't have friends in school,no contact, just me and my phone. Its tiring 💔

[@Jameshappiness-r4p]

We are on the same boat,but there is room for improvement

[@komyzee]

You truly deserve my likes and subscription 🎉

[@ayanime_edem]

Yay! Glad to have you here 🎉

[@jenniferadu3870]

This is what i have been looking for Thank you 💕💕💕 from Ghana

[@faithomoye3797]

Chai! The reason 6 got me . This is it . This is what I have been looking for .. You just hit the nail .. spot on . God bless you sister...

[@fercuzzytriple-b]

New subbie,I love the way you speak ma

[@ayanime_edem]

Thanks for subbing and for your kind words… I’m glad to have you here 🤍

[@TheElephantInTheRoom12]

This was a thought provoking video and the one that I struggle with the most is #1. Everyone I have listened to on KZbin and in real life agree with you about the importance of appearance. I need God's help because I am in that "accept me as I category." Make up, clothes, perfect hair and other external things like that can be changed but at the end of the day you can't buy good character and its a rare trait hard to find these days. For me, I dont want to be with a man or marry a man and all he cares more about is my appearance more than who I am. To me thats superficial and the Bible teaches that Christian women should focus more on the inward person. Am I against looking nice or being attractive-no not at all. I actually have beautiful clothes, jewelry, shoes, and will wear make-up if the situation calls it. This may sound weird but I love it when I'm out and have no make-up on and jeans and a blouse or something else very casual and men compliment me or ask me out. I appreciate that and if I do go out on a date with one of those guys I go all out to look nice because that is my way of rewarding them for not overlooking or judging me based on appearance. People are overlooking people who could truly enhance their lives based on size, shape and appearance. Trust me I know that men are visual and its okay that they choose women other than me if looks are that important to them. When Boaz saw Ruth she was working in a field and truth be told probably sweating in the outdoors and her hair probably was neat and her outfit was not the cutest yet he chose her and the Bible tells us what he liked about her. He said-he heard from others what type of woman she was and her care of her mother in law. I would rather have that type of man any day then these so called high value with no depth and just want a woman to be arm candy or a trophy wife. IMO Boaz was a real high value man! Sorry if my comment is offensive to someone. Not my intention but we were asked to share our thoughts and I dont want to always have to change my thoughts or agree with others in the comment section. I love learning from others and welcome helpful feedback. Also was glad to see I'm not alone in this struggle to make changes in my life in this season of my life and not the only one in need of God's help. Other than that, love your content, you look great in your videos but most of all love your advice to invite God in. I was so glad to hear you are a woman of faith because I have been praying that God lead me to channels of true Christian women to help me and your video came up in my algorithm.

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you for taking the time to share your stance. I'm glad God directed you to my page because I specifically asked God to lead women who need my content to me and you're proof he's answering that prayer. Regarding your stance on your appearance... you know what works for you, so take what works from my channel and leave what doesn't. And on Boaz, I do agree, he's the epitome of a WHOLESOME, high-quality man.

[@ikechukwumarvelous8768]

Very true love. Am just like you and have dated very rich men

[@TheElephantInTheRoom12]

@@ikechukwumarvelous8768 Thanks for your reply. It sounds like you've been successful in attracting high value men ( I use the term loosely because I don't value men based on net worth) since you've dated several rich men. I would love to hear more about that. Specifically, any tips that you feel comfortable sharing related to: what does a woman need to know or focus on to be successful in that type of relationship. And, being with a rich and/or high profile man is different than being in a relationship with a man that is not. So, from your personal experience what advice would you give a woman about relationships with those type of men? There is a really good video about that on this channel that I've watched but I always enjoy hearing from someone who has first hand knowledge as well.

[@bankolejanetoluwafunke]

May God bless your handwork

[@uyimefred]

No 3 is so me thank you sis

[@ayanime_edem]

You’re welcome 🤍

[@jessicaabbamensah]

Thank you so much, Ayanime❤. I believe GOD needed me to see this. Number six was a personal note to me.

[@Joshuachioma-d7d]

Thank you so much sis I love you

[@SandraChime]

You are blessed ma

[@ayanime_edem]

And so are you… thank you for watching 🤍

[@alexisroberts5988]

Love these videos! Thank you ❤

[@chidimmaeze9842]

I'm crying right now. God please help me

[@ayanime_edem]

He will 🤍

[@TheElephantInTheRoom12]

Late reply but I need his help too!

[@jonadigitals]

This video is so relateable. Thank you for sharing Ayanime 🤗

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure beautiful 🤍

[@oluwakemialadesanmi2654]

This is beautiful

[@ayanime_edem]

I’m glad you enjoyed it 🤍

[@kamenikeren9380]

Thank youuuu sooo much 🧡

[@Tiwaa_Rocklyn]

2 hit me 😢

[@FirdausAbubakar-eo1tr]

Is it possible for you to let us know thrift wear stores online where we can get good items? Thank you.

[@favourbodzar285]

No 2,3 &4 is so me, i don't go out😢 and my daily routine is home work, work home,home church, church home. I really want to work on myself

[@ayanime_edem]

Well then, get to work 🤍

[@Kanji220]

Thankyou so much for these tips, i wish to be less tense and have a more open and free body language. I love these tips ❤. Fan from Zambia ❤️

[@ayanime_edem]

Wonderful! I am glad to have you here 🎉

[@JudithChukwuka-z9d]

So glad I met u😊 just subscribed to ur KZbin channel ❤

[@stellaowusu7423]

Good teaching I've been wondering why I never attracted such men, even though they admire me once a while. Tnx so much

[@MeekandFaithful]

I'm so loving this channel. New subscriber here!

[@lindaigwemusic]

Thank you so much for sharing. All the points raised resonates with me especially the last one.

[@ngozinwaobi4893]

This is so beautiful You really spoke to me directly God bless you

[@titilayoadegoke3156]

Am happy seeing your content channel,am an introvert at 46yrs,I find going out uncomfortable,cold feet developing at most times......anyway, thank you. I quite enjoyed the facts you threw opened here

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure... just take it one step at a time 🤍

[@meritatah4533]

I have shared this video with 3 people it is filled with great knowledge thank you

[@ayanime_edem]

Thank you so much! 🤍

[@chinwejoseph4334]

Thank u so much ayanime for this video I learnt alo

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure 🤍

[@chiomamercy9702]

Thank you ma for sharing this God bless you ma ❤

[@nanaakuaafriyie1]

I love this channel, I love Ayanime. Thank you for all you do on this channel. I love the God factor too❤🎉

[@fikunolaadejuyigbe4181]

I recently started watching your videos and I am glad I found your channel. Your videos are so insightful and practical. Thank you ma'am ❤

[@_QueenBell]

Whewww #6 hit!

[@BlessingBenson-ul5fm]

I think you are talking to me,i am always carrying mean face,i will learn from your message,i will do my best to carry a smileing face

[@BokuaAdwoa]

Thank you dear, when this video started my mind quickly went to number 6 because I have been trying so much on my looks and femininity but….i just screen recorded the prayer. And yeah, I am watching this video Nine months after you posted. Thank you once again!

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure...

[@oluwatosinonayemi9060]

Thank you for this 😊

[@okekunlebukola9057]

This video really mean alot to me seriously, all d 6reason really talk about me, will work on myself on dat , thank u so much ma'am 😊

[@ayanime_edem]

You got this! 🤍

[@deborahafful6602]

I have really learned a lot

[@lyonsbrown4922]

Thanks for sharing these tips were very useful!! Especially # 2 and 6

[@ayanime_edem]

Glad it was helpful! 🤍

[@rosemondphil-othihiwa3647]

Loved this. Taking notes

[@MgbechinyereMercy-ry8yx]

Thank you so much ma'am. Watching the video was worth my time, and I've learnt some important things. I'd love to know if you have any mentorship program.

[@georgiasheriff7443]

I'll start going out when I get my car😅

[@josephinedaniel1820]

Thank you so much, this is very helpful 🤗😘

[@chidimmaeze9842]

I love love your channel. Thank you for being so relatable.

[@ayanime_edem]

You are so welcome 🤍

[@ENTREPRENEURV]

Simple and perfect. You are amazing. Good lesson

[@GiGihamy]

I was told last week by a man who I am talking to that I have this independent, I don't need a man aura😮..he was right but I thought i got rid of that, I didnt know someone I met in under a week could pick that up. He is a psychiatrist, by the way. I am so guilty of no.3😂 oh and no.6 is MANDATORY!!!

[@ayanime_edem]

Don't let his comment put you down... keep working on you 🤍

[@ChinyereNwabudike]

Wow.... I'm glad I came across this video, thank you so much 🙏 I pay God continues to bless you and give you more wisdom

[@ayanime_edem]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@chinesewithsarah8761]

Can you give example of places one can solo go to?

[@esther_osaade]

Ni hao! When you finally get a list of places an elegant lady could solo go, kindly drop it here, please. Xie xie ! 🙏

[@lilamontoya5609]

Your hair looks great shorter

[@PepertualAnozie]

Tnk u so much the last part was for me I wrote down everything

[@ayanime_edem]

Wonderful! 🤍

[@rachellibz2503]

Good video especially the spiritual aspect ❤

[@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz]

Haaa...No 3 cut me they... have not gone out in my life..i stay indoor from years to years except going to work, home and church 😅😅😅😅😅 and No.6 is what is affecting me also still praying God to make me attractive to high value Men

[@carolineadesina7602]

Thank you 😊

[@SonaFese]

The second reason made me laugh and instantly thought of myself

[@ayanime_edem]

Self-awareness is a superpower 🤍

[@EmiKel-ys5xp]

I love you ma Thank you for sharing your experience. Have seen this in my family, how it happened to my first second and third sis and I think it happening to me. It time to put it in God's hands

[@ayanime_edem]

I have a video that'll help... it's a preaching on Complete Deliverance by Apostle Joshua Selman. It's three parts, really long (though you can forward it to when the preaching starts) but you won't be able to stop when you start! Yes, it is that good and it's right here on KZbin kzbin.info/www/bejne/en7Io3Sra6uJfpY - Part 1 kzbin.info/www/bejne/e523mpyCpJKgq7s - Part 2 kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3u0dJawnbloZrM - Part 3

[@chiomaobi5048]

God that last part😢is happening to me rn💔people don’t see me they see something else

[@precioushellen3402]

Sis pray about it Everything will be fine 🙏😍

[@ChineduCherechi]

Thank you for this. It is timely