6 Factors That Contribute To The TOXICITY In a Rebound Relationship

[@Frank-qq7vu]

Just sit back guys, relax, we're all in a similar position. It might not happen next month or even this year... But one day the rebound will backfire and we'll all be there laughing at the karma of betrayal

[@Frank-qq7vu]

And please just smile at the social media posts... Trust me, they're fake

[@ruthramirez7217]

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[@rosemariefelgenhauer6957]

Can't wait for it..

[@rosemariefelgenhauer6957]

They looked so happy and looks like they walking on the sunset.. ya.. he's so happy bec he found younger Lady. They're moving forward 11/2 yrs. Now...

[@mattlu5493]

Hell yeah 😂

[@dominicgerodano5481]

Guess I was the true exception. We broke up after a year and a half. One year later we got back together even though we both had cheated. We got serious about the relationship, were engaged 3 years later and married after 2 more. Since then we've been married for 14 years and it's been a great relationship.

[@BC-yb1mq]

Waaaaaaawwww... For the wrong person you will never be right, and for the right person you will never be wrong.... Gold!!!

[@petralee574]

My ex monkey branched into a new relationship and they got engaged before we were even divorced.. a friend told me once: Look at it this way- he is still married and is already asking someone else to marry him - that’s messed up” This really opened my eyes and actually helped my healing process …. All I can say is this - step back and focus on yourself and find the strength to live alone for a bit - it makes all the difference in the world… like Paz said: Pray for them but move on

[@LorenaBerrenbaum]

Be happy he is now someone else problems

[@dennishaas4745]

Sit back and watch them ruin each other, a train wreck bound to happen !

[@nowshowingvanshika]

The point you made about rebounders NEEDING the relationship and not WANTING it made sooooo much sense...this is a very nuanced point that not many people speak about in their videos..thank you for taking the time to make videos that are not just fishing for views but are actually very informative :)

[@EneangEZ1]

Unhealthy people fast jump in relationship by not knowing each other and learning about each other.

[@arleneglassford4713]

What a breath of fresh air to hear you won’t help someone get their ex back after a rebound. I haven’t figured out what I want, but I slowing settling into the idea that it’s over because I’m learning my worth. Thanks!

[@worldwide1162]

She is in a new relationship right after 3 month of our breakup amazing

[@haseen2412]

Same bro! I wonder if it can be considered rebound.

[@worldwide1162]

@@haseen2412 i was shocked mean still i m suffering from breakup and can't imagine to give time and space to other girls as i give to her but she is in new relationship

[@tekken946]

That’s a rebound!! No one moves on fast!!! Atleast 6 months give yourself time, if she already commited than she had to be talking to that person for atleast a good week or month, so basically 2 months

[@Nick940oo]

Same!

[@samuelaubrey2612]

I wasn't mentally well, I should have worked on myself, I've been battling addiction, I'm focusing on my self, not going anywhere near a relationship until I get myself into a better place and be a better man. I suffered years of loneliness, I wasn't well, I caused tremendous pain on both sides, I broke down at work, it ended suddenly, I handled it terribly. I need to work on myself l and take more responsibility.

[@Guido805]

Props to you brother .. keep going on the right path and confide in God! You got this shit, it’s not easy but you will come out a much better man

[@DonaldMeyers-v8c]

Self awareness is a beautiful thing

[@Flufero23]

My ex FA monkey branched into a relationship with a victim of narcissistic abuse to "see where it goes ". My oh my, what a combination!

[@Flufero23]

I moved on immediately, but it has taken me nine months to heal. I am focusing on myself now, and don't even have the time or interest in dating or getting into a new relationship. I have no idea what my ex is doing, and I don't care.

[@ibrahimabdo9700]

@@Flufero23 why are you watching these videos then ?

[@DorotaMartaDzikon]

@@ibrahimabdo9700Iam In disame situation my ex monkey branching me 4 years marriage. I watch that video to learn psychology of relationships. Good experience good lessons.

[@nowshowingvanshika]

Omg your doggo was the cherry on top 🥹

[@sharoncousins7473]

You make great sense.ive just left toxic relationships and he's now gone back to somehe knew years ago.

[@wendydaniel1110]

When your discernment increases, so does your ability to spot all of those red flags in a connection.. ❤

[@barrygarfield3679]

Appreciate you and your content

[@SeekingWisdom242]

Love the analogy

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you for letting me know! More is coming ;)

[@robertwere8113]

Very good and practical content Mr. Goldman!

[@robertwere8113]

❤❤❤This is the best video on Utube about rebound relationships. Keep up the good work Coach Paz😊

[@HitmanReal]

Hey Paz! What you saying is so good! I would be interested in one thing. If you make new video, please explain how these rebound or monkey branching points affected by the length of a previous healthy relationships. Ex. How a rebound/MB situation will manifestating if we speak about shorter (after 1 year healthy relationship) or long term relationships 5,10,20+ years. Thanks!

[@FezelGreene]

My ex left me a month and half ago and shes in a rebound relationship now yesterday she posted on her story " that weird shit don't surprise me no more i just be like damn you one of them too." Lol

[@villagevillain4186]

They never last. You definitely dodged a bullet

[@irenagaidelis5145]

Your English is great,,your videos are a big help

[@DonaldMeyers-v8c]

Beautiful doggo!

[@NdumeNdumsala]

Love it

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Thank you my friend!!! 🙏🏽

[@sahilboy4380]

Waiting .........

[@juliashifflett6859]

Can you make a video of what you considered is healed.

[@cptifaddict7470]

Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago and shes already seeing someone else. She even tikd me that she she's the same qualities/behaviour ls that i have in this new person...is she in a rebound relationship?

[@thomasthetankengin7722]

What if my ex is dating a friend of ours straight after our breakup. She always said there was nothing. I'm very sure she never cheated, but it sounds like monkey branching..

[@Nick940oo]

Definitely monkey brancher.

[@mattrandall1808]

rebound 100%

[@thomasthetankengin7722]

@mattrandall1808 and frankly would never consider taking her back so I shouldn't even care but thanks for commenting

[@journeywithshaPHIL]

Will this apply to my ex ldr boyfriend situation? He gets back to her ex he said that they know each other for 24 years and their connection is something even tho she cheated before when they were in senior high. He said her ex girl change that is why they are now together again 😢

[@IrmakYapici-i3k]

My ex broke up with me a month and got with the same person i had suspicions about a couple of weeks ago, i’ve come to accept it but how do i go about this as i work with BOTH of them…please help!

[@TalksWithTOfficial]

I immediately liked because of the cute dog😂

[@jeremiahrod363]

What is the time frame after the breakup that it’s usually considered a rebound?

[@Msusiengineer]

One to three months

[@tekken946]

@@Msusiengineermy girl and I broked up on the second week of April and she’s already in another relationship so she had to been talking to the guy atleast a month before or a couple of weeks before so that’s 4 months does that count? I still haven’t healed so how did she heal fast

[@Msusiengineer]

@@tekken946 she hasn't healed,it will hit her later

[@user-es6px6rd9d]

Hey coach, does the first point still stand if it’s someone they’ve been friends with?

[@user-es6px6rd9d]

Turns out it still stands he thought he knew the rebound but knowing someone as a friend isn’t the same the rebound turned out to be abusive. I just pray to god he leaves soon and don’t stay too long

[@davidyu8857]

what if rebound relationship is with someone she knew for long time as a friend

[@gudni9060]

Then the friend is just an easily accessible fool for her.

[@nonenone6884]

What if they were cheating and left me for him.

[@fatalistoxog_2230]

@@nonenone6884 you move on if you’re a man.

[@No-hopes-given]

I can’t tell if she’s in a rebound. The guy works with her. She was still texting me over the last few months. Even when I found out she’s text me and sent me a pic of herself showing me an injury to her stomach I’ve just ignored it - not sure if it’s a rebound because we broke up a year ago but she just didn’t stop texting me

[@Raadestdude]

Is it still rebound relationship if she goes back to her ex?

[@EEMonesE1]

That means you were the rebound.

[@jeremiahrod363]

You were the rebound

[@jimscott-w1v]

to be honest I love that you say don’t get back with your ex even though have a kid with her. She’s gone straight on a rebound relationship living in an ideal conditions with my son got a restraining order against me after argument one night took my house had the guy around my house within two weeks after she moved out of my house she moved in with the guy with my sonso I completely understand about not getting back with her because I kind of think she’s dirty and disgusting after nine nearly 10 years together and 3 1/2 year old boy she can jump straight into bed with somebody

[@Simplymemw]

My Ex monkey branched into a long distance relationship because wasnt ready to move in with him yet.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Watch this to see how his relationship is going to fail… 14 Reasons WHY Monkey Branching Relationships ALWAYS FAIL! kzbin.info/www/bejne/kIPWqouGh7tsoZI

[@Simplymemw]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial i ve allready seen it and I agree. Just wondering if a long distance relationship monkey branch will end sooner or maybe later as they dont have an everyday life.

[@leexmass]

​@@Simplymemw definitely longer. I'm currently in this situation. My ex is in a rebound with another guy 2 weeks after our breakup of a 3 year relationship and it has been a little bit more than 4 months since their relationship started. And already they're apparently planning on things that me and my ex planned after being together for at least 1.5 years. The reason they stay longer is because the spark stays longer since they haven't met in real life they still have that spark of being together in real life, but when they do get together in real life it won't last long

[@DonaldMeyers-v8c]

​@@SimplymemwI would think it would take longer, especially if your ex is avoidant. But on the other hand you wonder if it would end quicker because they are emotionally unstable

[@aleksandras4659]

What if my ex bounced between me and a rebound four times and still returned to him ? 3 months has passed since last time she returned.

[@golf1diesel]

I've kinda been in a situation like that once. Hope you are ignoring any attempts or messages from her now

[@aleksandras4659]

@@golf1diesel she just congratulated me on my graduation, i just wrote thank you later stalked my stories throughout july and then she blocked me randomly

[@_ewa5a19]

How do you know you are healed enough?

[@sallyg4544]

When you are healed enough you will respect yourself enough to create strong healthy boundaries for yourself that you will not let others cross and you will never allow anyone to manipulate you into compromising your values. When you are healed enough you will know not to punish the next person for the abuse you experienced by another person in your past.

[@Sevoflurane2014]

What about if it was someone they have known for a long time as a family friend? But they werent close friends and never hung out or anything. They knew each other as kids. The families think its awesome and think its a fairytale or something.

[@Msusiengineer]

Still won't work, knowing someone you haven't dated is not knowing them

[@Sevoflurane2014]

@@Msusiengineer they got engaged in 4 months and will be married in 3 months. So within 7 months will be engaged and married. Insane

[@Msusiengineer]

That's too fast

[@chrisholt4804]

Same thing happening to me right now and I have 3 kids with the chick lol

[@bojidarcarski8263]

Guys i dint know why im scared we have been together for a year and 10 months we both lost our virginity to each other and we were more like frineds then lovers it was great now she downgraded 1 week after the breakup with some guy form her school that she hasnt been interested in i think she will come back just beacuse im better than him

[@kellyholland8357]

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[@senatorarmstrong9459]

And when it happens, they can't live with the depth of their failure, and where does that bring them? Back to me.(Us who have been dealt the hurr and pain)

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yes my friend! That’s exactly right !!!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

But hopefully you’re smart enough NOT TAKING THEM BACK!

[@senatorarmstrong9459]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial that is the real question,hasn't happened yet, she's too busy in her bs with her new fiance(less than a year in a relationship and engaged) moving awfully quickly is a recipe for a total meltdown.

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