6 Lesbians vs 1 Fake | Odd Man Out

[@duolingoowo4855]

Anandita was literally the most lesbian person in the whole group. She talked about denial, compulsory heterosexuality, thinking she was bi because she thought all woman were attracted to men, dealing with a close minded and non-progressive family, and the struggles of being a lesbian who’s feminine and a poc. Like, that’s the most stereotypical lesbian life experience I’ve ever heard.

[@peacehappyb237]

She was the most. I knew she was telling the truth and also Desire

[@Chirpieshome]

@Caitlin O'Malley yeah i thought she was the mole

[@user-zb3jc6zl6h]

she definitely spoke about very important things and understood lesbian struggles but none of them were the most lesbian.

[@sen1818]

idk why but calling someone “most” lesbain rubs me the wrong way, why is it a competition

[@uber1ns4n1ty8]

@@sen1818 Well it kinda is a competition in this situation, what the other person probably meant was that she was the one that SEEMED most lesbian...the game is about finding out who isnt lesbian, so ofc they will look at eachother and judge who seems least lesbian.

[@superstar4lyfe12]

It's interesting that Anandita kept saying that just because she's feminine-presenting doesn't make her any less of a lesbian and got voted out, yet the mole was more masculine-presenting, gained the trust of everyone, and won.

[@BeTheChange99]

This video had a lot of interesting take aways... one of the best odd man out videos in many different aspects

[@beatrizcbs8922]

exactly. and rachel was the first one to get vote off and she’s also fem-presenting

[@fellith4295]

Because she was really annoying and didn't answer questions

[@superstar4lyfe12]

@@fellith4295 I definitely see that as reason for her getting voted out, but I still think the point she made was valid. Society has a stereotypical view of what lesbians look like, and that view won, even if it isn't an accurate view. That's more of what I meant.

[@iamspeed403]

Women in today’s age feel “oppress” by men, so they take it upon themselves to ack more masculine to compete.

[@sabrinasmith813]

Olive was the only one that caught on with the fact that someone aka the mole kept voting Anandita out

[@liz2668]

this!

[@riekuno]

I mean as a mole they probably thought Anandita was a threat

[@merryberry6576]

Yep, and it was interesting to see that no one believed them First time I’ve seen someone in the group point that out, which was interesting It reminded of an impostor’s strategy in among us too haha

[@Hdhshshs-el2h]

What you mean that “caught on”? They just said it. It’s obvious that the mole will go along with the others. Its not like Anandita wasn’t being voted out by more people too from the start...

[@joannamarierogue]

Indeed. I definitely thought Anandita was not the mole.

[@2jade5]

Y'all saw Isabelle's printed button down shirt and her short hair and you ATE IT UP. Anandita, my queen, we will get justice for you.

[@hey-uw5hi]

She literally dressed as a stereotypical lesbian and ended up winning. She got offended when anandita asked GOOD questions and that made me so upset

[@2jade5]

@@hey-uw5hi I'm sure her getting offended was part of her act

[@hey-uw5hi]

@Ife Abel yeah

[@ConcreteEcho]

E X A C T L Y

[@trinisuarezdelallosa700]

Isabelle tried too hard, I knew it

[@CA1]

“The game is over and the lesbians lost” That’s a phrase I would never think would be said lol

[@annyms5092]

God bless, Jesus loves you and died for you all.

[@Noobmaster-wq5hs]

@@annyms5092 amen 🙏🏼

[@osvaldoalcala9151]

@@annyms5092 ✝️🛐LADY GAGA IS OUR LEADER✝️⚠️PLAY BAD ROMANCE TO WORSHIP AND APPRECIATE HER ✝️⚠️THIS IS A RELIGION, A LIFESTYLE✝️✝️SPREAD THE WORD✝️

[@antreakyriakou3255]

Not you spoiling ittt thoo

[@peepmam]

lmaoo

[@Marvelous_M]

Isabelle: “can we all be friends?” Anandita: “absolutely not” 😂

[@dakweenlyrics409]

14:09 😂

[@psychobillynumbnuts1]

Funny cuz Isabelle was the one always choosing Anandita

[@xanderzed6587]

@this account is for bullying 9 year olds why would you click the video and not watch the video 😂

[@karan_karan_karan]

HAHAAH

[@iamtayyy2295]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Phlegethon]

Anadita looks just so disappointed in everyone

[@lalaishappyyy]

I would be too

[@charlotted4642]

definitely can’t blame her

[@reversemitosis4213]

i am as well

[@Sammy-yf2sb]

I would be dissapointed too

[@backupravenclaw5856]

honestly i am too

[@ellie967]

anandita shouldn’t have been treated the way she was, she was trying to talk about a lot of hard experiences and realizations she’s had as a lesbian and i felt like everyone else was just shutting her down :(

[@cns511e]

Shutup its jst a game

[@cns511e]

@@ellie967 no u have to go somewhere else u should watch fairy Barbie's its jst a game so jst chill

[@toastybread9267]

@@cns511e No, they're right. Her problems/questions shouldn't have been dismissed so easily when they are very real and should be spoken about. The other lesbians were very weird with the way they shut her down for no reason except for a "bad feeling" very clearly rooted in racism. You are just as bad as them.

[@cns511e]

@@toastybread9267 don't make ur own assumptions and be real . Can u give me the timestamp of the racist part?

[@toastybread9267]

@@cns511e if you failed to see it that’s probably because you didn’t want to see it, rewatch the video and pay attention, i don’t have to make assumptions because this stuff has happened to me before and i know that it has racist undertones

[@notcha8080]

i was really disappointed that they all skipped over the topic of toxic experiences within the lesbian community. anandita had good points that aren't brought up enough

[@pansy3636]

Yup yup like we have very unique issues that the rest of the community don’t have so it’s just a little sad they didn’t talk ab that

[@neenaa4209]

but she kept saying the same thing.

[@pansy3636]

@@neenaa4209 Cause it is an important issue

[@notcha8080]

@@neenaa4209 true but they could’ve at least acknowledged what she was saying. or maybe talked about their own experiences. it just seemed weird that it was brushed off

[@neenaa4209]

@@notcha8080 i definitely agree

[@Agarin333]

No one questioned Isabelle because she looks like a “typical” stereotype of a mainstream lesbian 😀

[@happydonut7576]

exactly! but the feminine lesbian was voted out.. weird.

[@happydonut7576]

she also didn't get a single vote against her. She looked like the stereotypical lesbian

[@ennard3580]

Fr like im a girly girl and a lesbian 😗✌🏼 im done with these people pretending that a sexuality choses your clothing style

[@bunille]

I figured she was a red herring for exactly that reason.

[@madisongreen8404]

I literally knew it was her and was shocked they didn't vote for her once 🥴

[@BentPaperClip]

I really like Rachel, even though she was forced to face off against Anandita twice she was snapping her fingers and nodding when Anandita was talking, it was so nice!

[@coyote_in_the_city]

YESS, she's amazing!!

[@lapepa1699]

I think it´s probably because she has gone through similar experiences

[@haleybay8682]

“I didn’t have to read anything to know I’m a lesbian.” That felt very shame based and that’s amazing you didn’t have to but that’s not everyone’s experience. Anandita sharing her experience was such a vulnerable thing and I wish they would’ve been softer and kinder about her experience.

[@grimreapergal]

This! While I sort of think she was just making a joke about her realization, It was hella bad timing and very dismissive.

[@dahli8043]

i know i hated that, it kinda made me feel bad about having to have read the master doc too, but now its been called out and im realizing that was 100% shame based

[@anneli6961]

gosh this gave me such a bad feeling because of how they treated Anandita. Like she literally came out two weeks ago because of internalized homophobia and not wanting to believe it and then they all vote her out cus they don’t believe her just bc she’s nervous. Both femme lesbians were first to be voted out and the stereotypical lesbian-looking mole was never a suspect. gr8

[@oliviahammond6829]

LITERALLY. why did they keep coming after her

[@san1883]

Desire and Madeline are also femme though? I really don't think that that was why they voted her out, like they said, it sounded a lot like she was reading of a script which someone pretending to be something would be very likely to do

[@jcoolguy1548]

You'd be surprised how often this happens on odd man out

[@BR-gq4wu]

I knew as soon as she said who wants to talk about wieners. Like no lesbian ever wants that as a topic even as a joke lol

[@brendanc6694]

She did keep looking over at scripted lines

[@Aqwtiny]

Anandita came in there hoping to properly discuss how lesbians and other people have treated her negatively from how she represents her sexuality, to the lesbians silencing her and treating her negatively.

[@todja]

literally! it’s so sad

[@onedirectionrules842]

Also saying stuff like "wow you're into the deep topics" like ffs isn't the game for discussion primarily??

[@kallenpoika3826]

Rubs me wrong that the straight mole was leading the charge on that

[@anna-sg4oj]

exactly

[@vvs1588]

I agree but i didn't agree how she said that her being feminine was the reason she got voted off

[@sumedhasquared]

mel, anandita and olive were the best, honestly anandita brought up the best points, olive appreciated her, and mel was so wholesome

[@other7128]

Mel voted for Anandita a few times tho. Rachel was nice. I love that she said she was disappointed they voted the most feminine girls first.

[@seulgi1058]

@@other7128 y’a but she was voted out first so we didn’t get to hear her story that much

[@diordollk9885]

@@other7128 she wasn’t even the most feminine

[@kingace6186]

Yeah. Shout to Olive for speaking on Anandita's behalf after she got voted out.

[@beta0694]

Anandita's worst nightmare came true, denied by her own community and she was pretty pissed and has all the right to feel that way.

[@rizon72]

And there is a problem. We think because we should fit a community doesn't mean we do.

[@kingace6186]

I wish the best for Anandita. I hope she finds a community that accepts her without projecting their biases on to her. She deserves the world.

[@alexedits4368]

I am a fellow Indian who is also Lesbian who also has homophobic parents. It's true what Anandita was saying. Indian parents were raised to believe man and woman is normal and two women or two men isn't. We don't know if her parents have accepted her or not and neither did those girls. Anandita looked so upset near the end that I just wanted to hug her.

[@sassh_4756]

I’m here for you, I get you

[@koobifossils7495]

so true. i have noticed that majority of indians (including millennials) can’t even comprehend homosexuality even though it was prevalent in ancient india. if there’s something more extreme than heteronormative, that’s what india would be lol

[@harinder13137]

omg yes i brought up the LGBTQ+ to my parents about it, since i just want to know if they support them or not, my dad was cool about it and he actually learned a lot about it. My mom idk i only talked about same sex marriage and stuff once shes like "but why, why" and i was like ok, and shes very u know conservative about gender roles and ,marriage but she kinda warming up to it ig, i just dont want to believe my mom is homophobic

[@sassh_4756]

@@harinder13137 Parents just find it weird or like not natural, because they haven’t learned about it right, they haven’t been raised with that knowledge or knowing that same sex marriages even happen. So, we can’t blame them. I’m so glad your dad understands, and I’m sure your mom will too, with time.

[@harinder13137]

​@@sassh_4756 well i kinda had convo with my mom about LGTBQ+ community by accident from a show we were watching and well she was saying how that LGTBQ+ are going to hell, how its affecting children, and saying how they should stay away from her family, also saying if ur a boy u cant be a girl...it was a mess, shes was also around with other trans-phobic and homophobic ppl at her work too!!! I didnt want to admit to this but i believe my mom is homophobic and trans-phobic and my dad was agreeing with her. I was shocked........so ig my dad is also homophobic and trans-phobic as well.....my god...i just cant believe them

[@zazi5368]

they did anandidta so dirty, she was speaking nothing but the truth and it was so obvious

[@knyettanichols6651]

Frr I could tell she was gay just from the intro 💀

[@slo629]

Not that it's right, but I think they dinged her for repeating the same thing..maybe if she had talked about an ex or someone she found attractive, it would have worked in her favour

[@SimplyJocelyn10]

@Violet VB she wasn’t tho, she was speaking truthfully

[@rubyroberts5785]

I KNOW I knew she was a lesbian the moment I saw her, and the way she talked about compulsory heterosexuality just backed it up further.

[@paigeanderson8055]

Yes

[@t_tina]

Anandita looked so upset over it at the end I feel so bad for her. She didn't deserve that. Her experience as a fem lesbian was invalidated repeatedly

[@missylarsson3517]

How was it invalidated? Most of them agreed with her, Rachel showed it very clearly that she agreed. I think she just took it way too personal BECAUSE her sexuality has been questioned many times before. The purpose of the game was to question people’s sexuality but she felt unnecessarily attacked and came across as stand offish. It’s just harder to vote out people you like and when she was acting snappy it was easier to vote her out.

[@missylarsson3517]

@jesus Is a homo Lol sure “I am the problem”, I am a femme myself and I do get questioned but it has always been by people outside the community. Within the community I’ve never had anyone question it. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but to claim it is what happened in this video is ridiculous. Even Anandita wrote in this comment section that she didn’t think that was the reason she got voted out, she said she made a lot of points that they didn’t include but on her speed-defense she repeated the femme-thing but she also said that she just took the first thing to mind. It was a game where you were supposed to question people’s sexuality and they voted out 3 people on very loose grounds - because that’s the game. I don’t think anyone would’ve been “questioned” about their sexuality from each other if these women had met in any other queer setting.

[@lemonjepper]

@@missylarsson3517 your reading of it is so accurate, I dont think any of them disagreed with her and I think they heard her out the first time she addressed it. But they kept suspicion because of her personality and what she was choosing to say repeatedly because she felt attacked (although people stated other reasons why they chose her, like her sounding like she's reading off of something for ex. which to me was she had a lot of emotion for that to be a script). Don't blame her though, I understand that worry

[@lemonjepper]

Also Madeline shared her full thought process during the game on her tik tok where she says JUST THIS, and literally guessed the mole right but hesitated. And she's also feminine.

[@idkidk12782]

Literally almost all of them were fem, she wasn't even the mkst fem, tf u talking about

[@anniezheng8138]

Anandita literally just came out to her parents. This is already such a vulnerable time for her. I’m sure she is fresh out of a period of self reflection and questioning. For a community of older lesbians to shut her down and invalidate her like that? If I were her I would be so hurt and frustrated. I might even start questioning what I’d thought to be true about myself. Very sad. You could tell she was genuinely frustrated at the end. Also, def some racism sprinkled in that mix. Anandita, there is an entire community of femme lesbians out there who see you and empathize with you!

[@galactica533]

exactly!

[@sevgi6026]

Why y'all be dramatic like this. They were just playing the game!

[@sarsharky]

@Kaz people who realized they were lesbians way before she realized it

[@malifesting]

@@sevgi6026 We arent being dramatic… yall are just tone deaf to poc femme lesbian struggles

[@stalebreadsticks2330]

she deserves better. I felt so bad especially when it was the majority of white women in the call not viewing her countless experiences of being a WOC lesbian and not taking it seriously just because she's feminine

[@reggiesustaita]

hearing “the lesbians have lost” should not have been that funny

[@guadalupecorona7212]

Right 😭😭

[@laughlater4562]

Someone should make it a TikTok sound

[@randyrenne7759]

@@laughlater4562 no

[@schoolgyaru]

@@laughlater4562 IKR LMAO

[@mimimank]

Lmfao I can’t help it 💀💀

[@maria_____.]

Everyone repeatedly voting for anandita and not a single vote for isabelle because she fits the lesbian stereotype, proved anandita's point perfectly.

[@asiamourr]

yup!!!

[@zey7455]

YES

[@m00z_39]

I literally suspected her since the start, What they did to Anandita was rlly unfair

[@MultiFireflie]

I suspected Isabelle from the start somehow. Not exactly sure why though (not finished watching the video yet, haha)

[@ozibuyensin]

no because anandita tried too hard to pro e that lesbians can be feminine too and acted like they didn't had much too talk about

[@vampiregirl917]

i def thought the mole would be bi because everyone's stories were convincing

[@shreyaghatuary9742]

Oh, gosh. Me too.

[@marshapple]

Me too.

[@symeremeyers4148]

but one of them at the start said they came out as bi

[@marshapple]

@@symeremeyers4148 i thought she saidnshe initially came out as bi until she was comfortable

[@user-ok4xb1rd9f]

Pretty sure two of them said they are bi. Anandita and Madelaine.

[@MissStrings]

I love how olive stood up for anandita. madeline and isabelle were mad weird

[@maddied718]

Fr, and the fact that Isabelle was the mole and said she has wierd feelings was kinda eh- I understand she's trying to hide being the mole but like still

[@zara2634]

yeah honestly Madeline was very defensive towards me when I made a comment about her earlier ( I deleted it btw)

[@reyna8957]

@@zara2634 what did she say

[@zara2634]

@@reyna8957 i said similar things to what everyone here in the comments is saying about her behaviour towards anandita and about her white privilege. she said that she was just playing the game and didn't agree with the rest

[@begpuppy]

why are you watching this video if u are gunna b racist and homophobic? i’ve seen your replies on multiple comments just click off

[@nfvy8111]

Desire literally had inch-long acrylics and giant hoop earrings and was sitting in front of a floral tapestry but nobody thought she was fem-presenting?

[@97ineedhelp]

I peeped that too

[@jessicayoung3656]

Her face wasn't as pretty as Anandita.

[@pou_poula]

maybe because her hair didn't look long? but doesn't make sense anyway to not count her in fem presenting

[@amalia1_]

I think it was her personality, Desire wasn’t as snappy as Anadita and seemed more chill

[@1232-e7b]

@@jessicayoung3656 comes down to opinion though maybe someone found the hoop earring woman more attractive than Anandita

[@nadahussam5849]

Why isn't anyone talking abt how adorable Mel is. She seems like a fun time

[@evancox9867]

@@trevorkline95 not at all

[@kristalefler4931]

@@trevorkline95 Creepy? Lol. Saying someone’s adorable & seems fun is a complement, let’s not turn it into something it is not.

[@maud_k02]

She seems like an amazing person 😍😍

[@fynluka]

Yes! I love her already :D

[@guadalupecorona7212]

“Like a fun time” 😭

[@tricleven3688]

when rachel said "honestly, what's most disappointing is that it came down to the two most feminine people in the call" i felt that

[@slo629]

I don't know- there were still two other very feminine lesbians left

[@blythetroke]

i didn’t like that part... i don’t know it kind of felt like she was invalidating the femininity of the others?? like she wasn’t really in a place to judge who is or isnt feminine and i would be kind of pissed if someone claimed they were more feminine than me after literally talking to me for a few minutes

[@pyroplays777]

@@slo629 not really. Them 2 we’re definitely the most feminine and most typical girl look

[@pyroplays777]

@@blythetroke well they were definitely the most feminine. Femininity isn’t an opinion

[@batnoneedtoknow]

@@pyroplays777 we jus gonna forget about Desire? Okay 😔

[@megancurtis9502]

The irony of Anandita asking what bad experiences people have had with other lesbians and them immediately mocking her ughhhhhh

[@ramyasreedevatha]

Ikr that’s a valid question and Isabelle who was THE MOLE said she was “coming on strong” like wha

[@vannyb1192]

​@@ramyasreedevathaDesire said it first, and as to not be seen as suspicious, she said it to seem like a lesbian.

[@mayafonseca4524]

Frrrr??! Like they lacked so much self awareness

[@HG-fu5cf]

I just noticed Isabelle is the only one who didn’t get a single vote cast against her..

[@plvtoyt5737]

Fr

[@pbislead5986]

ive got a really strong feeling its cos isabelle's fashion sense was more typically "gay" idkidk tho but 👀

[@roro-pf2uv]

I thought you said that “Everyone is born Straight” I was abt to say “stfu” sorry

[@HG-fu5cf]

@Tyler B #2 you actually are born with your sexuality.. but my comment has nothing to do with that

[@luhver663]

@Tyler B #2 you dont "choose" you find out later who you're attracted to.

[@eb2517]

they literally pissed me off so bad when they kept coming after Anandita like that. like she opened up about how being Indian caused a lot of internalized homophobia and how she JUST came to terms and accepted herself recently and they completely invalidated her. meanwhile they automatically believed the masc presenting straight woman. they also got mad at her when she asked about their negative experiences with other lesbians but then proceeded to be toxic as fuck towards her and prove her point. femmes are totally not taken seriously in this community and it’s super invalidating and isolating.

[@piiinkDeluxe]

To me, she appeared like flat and disconnected (trauma can cause that) and that maybe threw people off. Some also could not really grasp the reason fully.

[@imsadlol4528]

she literally kept repeating the same thing and was reading off of a script and then immediately accused everyone of targeting her for being fem when almost everyone in the group was also fem. maybe she just got voted off for being bad at the game 🤷‍♀️

[@supxnovaax3843]

@@imsadlol4528 im pretty sure she was just repeating the same thing because people kept brushing it off and ignoring her point. and how do You know she was reading off a script?

[@gracerichardson4341]

@@supxnovaax3843 they weren’t ignoring her point, Madeline said she’s also fem. They got her point, they just voted her out prolly cause she just said the same thing every single time. Most of the girls in the call are fem as well?

[@toastybread9267]

@@gracerichardson4341 Madeline didn't TELL HER that she was also fem she said it in a shady way towards the viewers, and there were only two other fem girls on the call and one of them got voted out first round

[@suhani1778]

Anandita said straight up facts,, as a poc in LGBT she wasn't wrong at all and they just proved this

[@Brianna_0-0]

Exactly I hated how she would always get cut off when she would talk about it

[@Cskiro02]

YES OMG they kept invalidating her and it was frustrating

[@lalaishappyyy]

Yeah, especially her being India and a lesbian. There was no representation and the other whites just proved their racial bias

[@lolawaldorf5653]

That's why a lot of people when they think about the Lgbtq community they only see white people. That's why representation is so important not only for white people

[@TheDropdeadZed]

@@Cskiro02 How though? It sucks but it's meant to be a game, and saying over and over that you're a femme poc lesbian which is a hard experience (it absolutely is 100%) isn't exactly a convincing argument to not vote you out.

[@samuelm.e8778]

Amandita looks so pissed in the end I feel for her especially right after the mole asked “Can we all be friends?” She went like “No”

[@oli4013]

time stamp?

[@nishthakanchi3380]

@@oli4013 14:10

[@oli4013]

@@nishthakanchi3380 thanks

[@mallorysemrow1922]

She was so mad and I don’t really get it. It’s a game?

[@IJ2050]

@@mallorysemrow1922 cause she probably had to fight double the stigma because of her South Asian heritage - you have no idea, we risk ostracizing our families from social networks when we come out (which is HUGE in our highly collectivistic community). The fact that she just came out two weeks ago makes all of that trauma pretty fresh so...yeah I get why she was pissed.

[@twi.squared]

The fact that they continuously voted Anandita put really bothered me she wasn’t getting defensive she was making good points about the fact that there is an inherent bias against femme lesbians in the the lesbian community and as soon as she asked a thought provoking question it got pegged as “too deep” she obviously had good points to make but wasn’t allowed to by a few of the consistent voters against her I’m glad Olive pointed out that it wasn’t cool that people kept voting for her

[@creamvaniilla1395]

I absolutely hate talking to people and we're going into a topic and someone says, "tOo DeEp". Like 😐. I just wanna leave right there.

[@-maquia-]

She just kept saying that she's not straight just because she's feminine though. Others like Madeline are femme but she never got voted out, I'd say Anandita got voted out cause she only talked about a single thing

[@andrelli82]

@@-maquia- I understand what you're saying, but I really think that what Anandita was trying to describe was that she was not "dressed gay" enough. She still looked like a conservative straight Indian girl, and even the room she was in had no bold colours or any interesting items (like Isabelle's room, and whose appearance was also a recognisable style as a lesbian in media)

[@julaneh4013]

I personally think it was because she couldn’t say anything personal making it seem less real

[@isabel4930]

She looked like she was reading a script which made her seem sus

[@isa75328]

This taught us to never judge someone by their looks

[@agapezinsou2419]

Yep

[@PierreLoranda]

I agree with you. Nevertheless, I found from the beginning of the first round 😂

[@mattc236]

Still gonna assume

[@eatygod6444]

It atleast tought the people who judge

[@idek3989]

It really didn’t you should’ve been known that

[@minas_shoulder]

I do think that Anandita was reading off of a paper for her questions, but that's because she wanted to be prepared to tackle the truth and it's hard to memorize such in-depth questions. As a bi (maybe lesbian? idk I'm still figuring it out) Indian woman myself, I completely understand what she's talking about with compulsive heterosexuality. I feel so bad for her 🥺

[@sakuranovaryan9261]

It's because most things we learn about being a les in from the internet. Because in real we've never been validated. Also cause she's new

[@RiyaSingh-kg5po]

“Gaydar is not a thing, ppl can look any way and can identify as anyone” I have a crush on Mel

[@jeremysmith9694]

Lesbian gaydar is not a thing. A man's gaydar never fails though.

[@victoriarabvukwa4832]

same-

[@RealRitesh]

Another Gender 😂

[@Alter_Rapunzel]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@arielk2955]

I NEED HER INSTA ACC

[@shelly7294]

i kinda hate how they were targeting the baby lesbians. like, it's quite clear that it took them mad long to get to this point where they were comfy with themselves (and very recently too), only to be invalidated like that.... isabelle didn't even get voted once and that is so wack because everyone thinks that that's what a lesbian looks like.

[@josieb6880]

RIGHT? like, the masterdoc is really helpful and the older lesbians were super dismissive of it

[@E_FoxSnowspirit]

Yeah… shouldn’t they relate to the hardships and know that not all stereotypes are true

[@eleniplevriti3304]

And amanditas coming out story and her facial expressions during it sounded super genuine too

[@eleniplevriti3304]

Anandita****🥺

[@josieb6880]

@@aistosee why is it problematic?

[@wancheng89]

I feel so sorry for Anandita, especially when so many ppl continue to write negative comments about her here. What she brought up was a valid point she experienced. Though I think she was really nervous. I could see her eye movement like reading from a script when she was asking or answering questions. I think that lack of spontaneity was what made others suspected her. She seemed unhappy at the end while others were kinda enjoying sisterhood. I mean, I would be upset too if I keep getting voted out and I feel like my point is not validated by those I hoped would understand. I wish more ppl would show support for her as a lesbian who is struggling with feelings of oppression, instead of bashing her for voicing that.

[@Fantastic_Stranger]

@@xXCoookieMonsterXx Okay, but when you come onto to the show you’re not supposed to be hating on each other especially for ‘Odd Man Out’. It might make sense for Middle Ground but still even in Middle Ground you’re not supposed to hate on each other.

[@okayman672]

No one hated on her. They chose her because she was obsessed with being "fem" and it was annoying. Most lesbians including myself find the terms meaningless and just for fun. Like she took it to serious

[@llysehislop]

@@okayman672 Ikr. Literally, everyone there looked fem to me, and she was just repeating that people are only voting here because she's fem and I'm like none of them were saying anything of the sort.

[@kristalefler4931]

@@okayman672 seriously. It was obnoxious for her to continue insinuating that she was the only one that looked a certain way. She acted like she had some obvious different look from everyone else which wasn’t true, and even if it had been, not something you would continuously point out.

[@darthvader4384]

I don’t think any of the girls on here where voting her out to be mean the point of the game is to vote people out and I would understand her if she was the only fem and that was the clear reason but many of them where “fem looking” so I don’t think she had a valid reason to be unhappy

[@jewelbrava7829]

It upsets me so much how a white straight women was so hard-core on voting Anandita out. The way she was speaking on the poc, specifically indian experiences and no one cared to think about it or take it into account. I hope Anandita can find comfort and love from others in her life/community.

[@kyndal2062]

fr i cant stand her and i feel so bad for anandita

[@Nanbread-bw7nq]

I guess it was part of the game, but dang yeah...

[@gabriellepetersen1341]

Everyone was everyone being so rude to Anandita, she was just speaking the truth.

[@atsushinakajima661]

Yeah I was so mad at them

[@reversemitosis4213]

the whole time i was suspicious of isabelle

[@Thebananamoster]

@@reversemitosis4213 Same!

[@ethanbuttimer6438]

Idk the way she talked just made me think she was lying

[@saratrejo6658]

She just sounded too rehearsed like she memorized ahead of time what she would say to win.

[@KarunyaSabapathy]

Am I the only one really bothered that this was one of the few times I've seen South Asian lesbian representation and they immediately tried to vote her out? I understand it's a game, but Anandita's questions were actually quite thought-provoking, and rather than entertain it or provide their perspectives they undermine it...

[@originaldaughterofabyayala6678]

Agreed, it’s disappointing and not fair at all. I also didn’t like Rachel comment about the two fem being voted out aka Anandita and her while Desire and Madeline seems pretty fem to me. But anyways, they proved Anandita’s point real quick.

[@mayak8963]

110% agree

[@agathachris9722]

She sounds like she was reading from a pamphlet.

[@KarunyaSabapathy]

@@agathachris9722 she was reading off questions that she wanted to ask? She was very present in the convo and engaging, but came prepared with some topics to talk about.

[@KarunyaSabapathy]

@@agathachris9722 How am I being argumentative for expressing my disappointment? I'm saying I would've appreciated hearing more of her perspective as a queer South Asian since there's hardly any LGBTQ+ representation in that demographic. I don't get why you're so bothered by that.

[@almondmilk98]

“They’re Canadians, they wouldn’t lie to me.” (gets voted out) “This is really sad. This means the Canadians betrayed me.” lmfao mel is a gem

[@karensmith1521]

i was looking for this comment I want it on a shirt

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

i love her sm

[@DeniseResendez]

I loved Mel too!! Seems like a chill person to hang with!

[@qwerty6985]

O ghawdd ahahahah i laughed at this so hard im not even a canadian

[@martyyymarttt]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 i see u everywhere 😁☝🏾

[@alexisericson241]

"They're Canadians, they wouldn't lie" is the best line ever

[@evev760]

And then the "this means the Canadians betrayed me" HAHAHA

[@stellera00]

@@evev760 i died laughing LMAO

[@sagetorrisi7097]

I was so surprised they voted Rachel out with the amount of gay books on her shelf loll

[@alexorr5772]

ikr. I saw her bookshelf and was immediately like- yeah she's good (ntm the astrology). Also ngl, straight people using the term "queer" is kind of a delicate topic; if she was straight and actually studying those things she probably would have been more careful or weary of it.

[@sagetorrisi7097]

@@alexorr5772 exactlyyy

[@alexorr5772]

@@sagetorrisi7097 fr. you expect me to look at that iconic setup and think she's straight? honey no- that is a lesbian.

[@raquelesteves3334]

Right, also her makeup+that astrology map were screaming lesbian.

[@azzariahstyles5404]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@kageyamaswifeu4177]

“The game is over and the lesbians lost” LMFAOOOO that killed me😭😭

[@eb.3764]

have lost*

[@tytube3001]

Lesbians keep taking Ls

[@dannyr.5755]

Also i get where Anandita is coming from as a fellow brown femme. She was completely reasonable.

[@ken-fv9cz]

yes

[@dannyr.5755]

​@Sahil Patel I'd be negative too if my point kept being spoken over and if i was trying to ask a question(to play the game) but got completely ignored. It's good to talk about the negativity in the les community as it'd help weed out the mole + bring awareness.

[@liz2668]

@Sahil Patel Can you blame her? She asked a deep question and immediately someone went "ur coming a bit too strong."

[@jantovac81]

but madeline was also fem and people weren’t voting her out for it.

[@Tc123.]

@@jantovac81 probably because she fits the stereotype still. She’s white with dyed hair and unique makeup they wouldn’t vote her cause she’s still what they think a lesbian looks like

[@ardena5990]

I’m honestly really disappointed in Isabelle she went off of stereotypes and attacked all the young, feminine, and colored lesbians and it was really upsetting

[@vervideosgiros1156]

Probably so the others don't vote for her. Being her a straight and the least feminine she had to disconstruct the stereotypes because she doesn't feat in the straight stereotype. I'm straight so I didn't know half the things discussed here but I think I'm an empathetic person and I try to understand.

[@SomeSilentSerpent]

She is trying to win...

[@matthewmcalister2165]

I don’t think I that she was the least feminine. Rachel, Anandita and Desire were all clearly feminine. Madeline, Olive and she were in between and Mel was the only one that I would call masculine (and even she would probably only be “soft” butch)

[@valeok8357]

She didn’t do anything wrong, it was part of the game and if she was a lesbian some people wouldn’t see it in a badly way. That’s my opinion though.

[@Papi_21]

Uhh yeah she's the mole of course she did, she wanted to win.

[@juliagoesfrugal]

As a femme, I’m so upset about Anandita. You’re so valid, babe. 💕

[@Feeshtea]

Yesss !!!

[@sydneesoteco7919]

Am I the only “femme” who prefers “femmes”

[@juliagoesfrugal]

@@sydneesoteco7919 No, it’s pretty common.

[@jxdynsbugs]

i’m sorry but her comment at 8:40 about “i’m sorry i don’t look like what you think a lesbian should look like” to a literal group of lesbians made me think she was the mole too, her whole argument was just being a femme lesbian and she wasn’t the only femme in the group

[@livie2907]

Yea i also feel upset because she WAS PLAYING A GAME

[@saamahmed7435]

I don't like how they seemed to be overly sus of the POC lesbians, like they kept having to prove themselves and I just felt bad for them.

[@alvinaluv]

Right

[@RomanDiaries]

I feel like there are obvious non-racial reasons for that. The indian girl was suspected because she was very feminine (plus the straight girl mole constantly targeted her), and the black girl still made it to the end in spite of being feminine and having those nails.

[@cumulu.s]

@@RomanDiaries it kinda looked like Anandita was reading off some script lol

[@rxk276]

then why was Rachel voted off rip

[@martinamarinova4804]

Can we stop bringing up race every single time as an excuse why someone was voted out/mistreated/ etc. This is a game, they literally have 15 seconds to answer, the race card shouldn't be automatically pulled out every chance possible to justify why someone got voted out. Stop victimizing POC on every single occasion, you are doing them no favor in this way.

[@nevaehrawls6183]

I definitely feel like the fact that they didn't see desire as one of the fem presenting ones even though she was completely feminine, is like deeply rooted in racial stereotypicalization, she dressed feminine but they still felt as if she presented as "masculine" or "agressive" without the intentions of it being that way. Typically because of the fact that most or let's say the "greater side" of black lesbians are "studs" or "hard" or "masculine" and she didn't really present that so they made the assumption that she could have been straight, or not a fem Les.

[@loveangel114]

I would say desire is even more fem presenting as rachel but because she’s a black somebody we aren’t seen as feminine unless is it’s hyper feminine

[@shan-wh5se]

right! like look at her nails/accessories. she is at the same fem level as rachel at least look wise

[@katymiles2419]

I agree. Desire was actually my first guess for the mole tho lol

[@anissalewis9585]

Exactly

[@kennedylehane6562]

I have to agree. It all boils down to black women not being seen as gentle enough to fill out the typical feminine role. Even in a community as accepting as the LGBTQ+ one, the black woman is seen as more aggressive; therefore: masculine. Was it the other girls’ intentions to stereotype her? No. But it speaks to one of the many assumptions society has of black women.

[@camyoutube123]

"what's most disappointing is that it came down to the two most feminine people in the call" rachel and anandita. as a feminine bi woman, I felt that because people are often really surprised to find out I like women or they completely ignore it and act like I'm straight. I've been told I'm "faking my sexuality for attention" or to be "edgy". even though I have different experiences than them as lesbians, there's really not a lot of visibility in wlw culture for femme presenting people. anandita brought up a lot of very real struggles and things I know I've gone through and they dismissed her because she was a south asian femme.

[@anissalewis9585]

What your not realizing is the subtle racism in Rachel's comment.

[@camyoutube123]

@@anissalewis9585 i’m sorry. i’m still learning, would you mind explaining what was racist about it? if not that’s totally cool you don’t owe me an explanation of anything.

[@GloomySunset]

@@camyoutube123 The comment you replied to, it might be about Rachel saying she was disappointed that the first elimination came down to "the two most feminine people," as if Desire isn't feminine also

[@camyoutube123]

@@GloomySunset you are right!! i didn’t think of it like that thanks for educating me.

[@ConcreteEcho]

Anissa I agree, Desire was just as femme presenting, and you can see they came for her too while no one ever voted for Isabelle. And Camille, you understand my heart, you know who you are, it sucks to be invalidated but you are far from alone

[@Breathefreemylove]

Damn, Anandita’s points got proven pretty much immediately

[@okayman672]

All these woman are "fem". Like what makes her different. Some makeup. Like so tired and the boxes put lesbians

[@karo8507]

@@okayman672 pls your comments are ridiculous under every comment defending anandita. untwist your panties ffs

[@Xplreli]

@@okayman672 dude it's about more than just make up

[@okayman672]

@@karo8507 I'm not mad at her but the people in the comments obsessed with these labels

[@okayman672]

@@karo8507 Like as a lesbian I find this annoying and it isn't rediculous. Lots of lesbians don't like how the world views us so black and white.

[@karinamontoya5533]

I feel bad that annadita had to keep proving she’s lesbian :(

[@avaliepins178]

i mean yeah, but that’s kinda the point.

[@Xplreli]

@@avaliepins178 but it was different for anandita. It wasn't just about the game anymore. Hurt around feeling not gay enough in the community is something that's been around for a long time and runs deep.

[@avaliepins178]

@@Xplreli i kind of get what you mean that’s why i said yeah i’m my first reply and i did feel bad for her because they kept ignoring her questions

[@riekuno]

Fr tho

[@-maquia-]

@@Xplreli people weren't voting her out because she didn't look gay though.. there were other femmes there and they didn't get voted out

[@Summer-fb7gb]

The way Isabelle kept saying she has a weird feeling about Anandita, while knowing for a fact she is a lesbian because she herself was the mole/straight girl, really rubbed me the wrong way.

[@poopypoo3785]

YES! and like I get that she kinda has to say that for the camera but in the end she could've voted for anyone and no one would question it but she chose to go with anandita REPEATEDLY.

[@isabela2220]

right and that part was on mute from the group anyways it’s so annoying that she had to vote her every time

[@kaijahdowdie3589]

she was really racist you could tell

[@oliviaaurora3954]

but ngl she did played well, at least in my opinion.

[@nina-dl2kl]

@@kaijahdowdie3589 i'm not trying to be rude but could you explain to me how is she racist

[@labonya02]

Anindita talked about the same thing again and again, because she has faced lots of those experiences, and she just hoped some over their would identify with her. But they didn't. She was again made feel let down like she has been most of her life. The disappointment on her face when she was having to explain her situation again and again in tie-breakers was so obvious! She just wanted a zone where people would identify her despair! Anindita, sending you some comforting hugs! 🫂🌷

[@boybriar]

This was so obviously not the zone for that , how can you pity her?

[@annika6592]

@@boybriar why tf are you replying to like every comment and trying to defend the way anandita was treated?? if you're not a lesbian you have no right to say something like "how can you pity her" because you won't ever understand what she went through/is going through and why it was so harmful for the other lesbians to invalidate her like that. stfu ty

[@sakuranovaryan9261]

@@boybriar no one's pitying her. People are saying as they see it

[@Kbbers]

i feel so bad for anandita and rachel, they both were aware of problems that are always brushed off

[@maddied718]

Exactly, they had the best points and everyone else kinda was saying the same things. But at the same time they did kind of seem the most educated but Anandita because she had the strongest cass and I could see like what shes saying.

[@em4200]

So true. Lesbians deny the fact that they exclude the femmes, but it is a very real problem.

[@laurenashley7138]

Madelines white mascara on her bottom lashes is the cutest thing I’ve ever seen.

[@lovelyfrancesquita6603]

Madeline seems like the friend you want

[@jjba3571]

@@lovelyfrancesquita6603 execpt that she keep going for the poc

[@sakuranovaryan9261]

Found her cute at first. She's the reason I clicked the vdo. But she's not empathetic at all. Which is fine ig.

[@Kat-qb1uj]

I was so mad for anandita the whole time it was so obvious it wasn’t her by how defensive and upset she was getting

[@laykantheealien5722]

Yup

[@samanthagonzalez5475]

These people voted out the femmes and the POC - so typical. YT lesbians have a perception of what lesbianism looks like.

[@caitlinwilliams5228]

Literally it annoyed me sm

[@nocando89]

This.

[@KANGAXRUU]

i feel so alone as a non-binary femme presenting lesbian in the community

[@insertunoroginalnamehere6189]

I don't think that's the reason, desire is both POC and femme and she stayed

[@Footballer85749]

​@@insertunoroginalnamehere6189 she got hella votes tiebreaker twice. While the real non lesbian got a total of 0 votes

[@quorrasonaal]

I totally get where Anandita was coming from. She just recently came out, she's nervous. She's obviously not going to put herself out there and have a lot to say, not only because she recently came out, but because she explained her current situations with her family not being directly accepting of her or being raised to marry a man her whole life. It's something new to her, and to be honest, i'm disappointed that the others didn't really believe her or give her the time of day, even to guide her or give her words of encouragement as she 's new to the lgbtq+ community, which i'm sure she needed at the moment. Personally, no, I am not a feminine lesbian but I am aware that feminine lesbians exist and are just as important as anyone else, just like masculine gays. I also believe part of the voting out process was stereotypical seeing that she doesn't "look" like the common lesbian stereotypes, kinda like the opposite form Isabelle. That's partially because Anandita's a feminine lesbian. Another thing is that maybe since she recently came out and she's new to the community, she wants to start being feminine, then maybe she might not, because I've heard stories about that. Either way, it still diminishes her self esteem and probably makes people who are closeted feminine lesbians who are watching this video feel like they are less than or scared to come out. Idk man, it's wrong.

[@piiinkDeluxe]

But it's the point to question each other.

[@marbella8102]

As a Hispanic/POC, I didn’t like how they kept on picking on the other Anadita and Desire :/

[@JordannGeorge]

yeah, it's like they think POC can't be gay (unless they're masc). like we already get enough of that from our family. i've literally heard that being gay is a "white thing" growing up

[@ali_sparks]

Same it erked me cuz I knew she was telling the truth

[@kcg285]

Same thing happened in the teen mom one. The white girls voted out all the POC then stopped. I think saying they feel "suspicious" is just a way of saying they can't trust or relate to them. It's sad to see repeated over and over.

[@JordannGeorge]

@@kcg285 yeah, it also happened in the gamer one. the guys voted out all the girls until it was just guys left. i think they may have voted out a guy as well but i think they wanted to play it safe by voting the girl out. 'cause girls can't like video games apparently

[@gxb321]

Ya it was like the white/presenting lesbians just ganged up on the poc lesbians

[@tink6225]

anandita was my fav from the start I understand why she got defensive. if I struggled with being accepted because of how I presented + coming from a similar background I would be heated too if ppl didn't believe me

[@jakobromero4776]

She said the same thing on 3 of her tiebreaker defenses. She can't get annoyed that the others suspected her.

[@fiaa.6539]

But it was just a game. Though in real life, yes id be damn heated.

[@deepstariaenigmatica2601]

@@jakobromero4776 you're just repeating the same stuff people have been saying about her. say something new. it's getting annoying

[@okayman672]

She seemed really bitter and I hate when people are obsessed with fem or butch labels.

[@karo8507]

@@okayman672 she just came out to her parents two weeks ago- it’s understandable that certain things still felt relevant to her

[@hey-uw5hi]

This made me so pissed I just realized isabelle didn’t get a single vote against her

[@maurajuana]

i figured out isabelle was the mole in the first impressions because she looks like every straight millennial lgbt ally buzzfeed employee lol

[@andreacarolina4003]

EXACTLY it was so obvious

[@xavierarmstrong963]

Omg lmfaoooo

[@melol6976]

Thanks for spoiling it for me 😐

[@ramonaflowers2813]

@@andreacarolina4003 I only suspected her when she said there was no representation of lesbianism in the 90's when I knew that Willow having a gf on Buffy was a very big deal. I was like nope

[@maurajuana]

@@melol6976 comments sections are never safe

[@zdrpd]

i didnt like how they treated anandita she was the one who was bringing up such important topics to talk about and they just kept voting for her

[@giulia5308]

SPOILER ALERT . . . . . Isabel the whole time: “I have a weird feeling about Anandita” Also Isabel: is the mole Edit: come on, you all know you shouldn’t read the comments before having watched the whole video. Anyways, I’ve just put a spoiler alert

[@marijoseeeed8868]

Isn’t that the whole point?(no hate)

[@donutellacorn374]

Ye i always spoil myself in the comments

[@luisapozos9071]

@@donutellacorn374 SAMEEE LMAO AAA FUKK

[@keira8622]

u just spoiled it

[@chacharbelrbel5276]

Yea LOL

[@mal-yk6kl]

the only reason Isabelle didn’t get voted out is because she has short hair and a buttoned down shirt

[@asiamourr]

sadly, she fitted the “stereotype”

[@boybriar]

Ok?

[@insertunoroginalnamehere6189]

No i think it's because she just didn't say much special things and didnt really stand out too much and others were being voted because of random "hunches"

[@Footballer85749]

Facts. Her answers were the worst but other people were getting stereotyped so she flew under the radar lol

[@ShelbieMua]

Anadita seemed mad as hell, but honestly there’s no way to prove you’re not the mole. But I understood her frustration.

[@orksca5459]

it sucks appearance matters a lot in most of the odd man outs

[@Ruby_33]

@@orksca5459 They didn't vote her out because she looked femme. They voted her out because she didn't answer the questions

[@lea3049]

Exactly, you could say what ever you want and they’d still vote you out if they feel you sus 😭😭 But I’d be mad if I was her too like her being the mole would just be too obvious so why would the producers use her if it would be THAT easy.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

Isabelle kept gunning for her which was annoying

[@ShelbieMua]

@@orksca5459 Yeah I it does but I get why. People know someone there isn’t being 100% honest since it’s a game. So they really don’t have much else to go by. Hell even I feel for the moles tricks partially because of how she looks.

[@ktothelee]

''They're Canadians they wouldn't lie to me. (Four minutes later) This means the Canadians betrayed me''-Mel

[@cottoncandace7704]

Lol that was hilarious.

[@Gheuko]

Well you already did it smh

[@bakuhoe804]

I mean, they can just watch the video before coming down to the comment section...

[@wispy15]

@@bakuhoe804 I know i was just saying they didn't have to say 'don't mean to spoil anything.' bc they already did lol

[@aloomix8788]

that was hilarious

[@jeanf.474]

"WHO LIKES WEINERS!" ~ the one girl who likes weiners

[@nadyababushkin7281]

okay that comment itself was very cishet itself oml

[@mellodaysYT]

@@nadyababushkin7281 LITERALLY lmfao

[@rockpooladmirer]

sooo cisnormative and transphobic. i cringed

[@warriorsatheart3968]

the minute she said that I KNEW

[@chevon1920]

@@rockpooladmirer how is that cisnormative and transphobic, I’m so confused. I try to be an ally and understanding but it’s just getting to the point where people get offended by things that I can’t even understand, it’s so confusing!!

[@brittanylyons6417]

Isabelle played a dirty game, I don’t trust her lol. Kept having “bad” feelings about anandita knowing she was the mole

[@nsr4000]

The fact she didn’t get any votes(probably because she was presenting as what most people think a “lesbian” looks like even though there’s not any specific way lesbians look)

[@sleepyhollow2695]

that’s how most of them are tho

[@ramyasreedevatha]

Ikr she kept on voting for her!

[@xxyy2597]

Looks like y'all don't know what a strategy is😂😂😂

[@vannyb1192]

​@@xxyy2597For real, people don't think logically. She came and went there to win.

[@lilversal]

If they don’t leave Anandita alone Imao- 🤚🏾💀

[@hazz999]

ong bro

[@alllittlethingzz]

Ikr she seems so sweet!!

[@ProdigyJ]

rt

[@kaysebugg]

The only one who I was SURE about was Madeline lol, I met her on omegle a while before this video came out and we talked for like an hour and a half about anything and everything. She was super sweet I love her 😭

[@maddysconte]

OMG I LOVE U

[@kaysebugg]

@@maddysconte MADELINEEEEEE

[@nell9400]

@@maddysconte I LOVE YOU TOO😭

[@JordannGeorge]

omg how did you meet her though? it'd be cool to meet people there. hopefully without private bits in my face

[@hameerali4501]

Omegle is still a thing???

[@danarosenberry]

the way they are dismissing anadita and her struggles within the lgbtq community is so odd ???

[@Myfavorite77]

Including this comment section. Big yikes

[@Lala47362]

Being a POC and lgbt is not fun lol. And people tend to brush over things they are uncomfortable with

[@scarlett9750]

Yes, especially Madeline.

[@jaimereyes6943]

@@Lala47362 yep periodt being a poc AND lgbt is something else entirely i shouldn't be surprised that the majority of white lesbians (the exception of Olive of course) voted out the brown fem presenting lesbian for being "too deep"

[@ghog4792]

They obviously respected her and her struggles but due to the game they had to be skeptical to what she was saying so that they could find the mole. But obviously her experiences aren’t any less than the others

[@cassandrac.0166]

Wow this video made me really upset. With the way they were treating Anandita and Desire as inherently less queer for simply being feminine poc lesbians, the obviously strong stereotyping that allowed Isabelle to win simply because she had short hair and a collared shirt, Isabelle constantly saying she feels weird about Anandita for no reason(???), literally Madeleine saying “I trust her” just because she looked a certain way is so aggravating. Anandita was rightfully disappointed that she got voted out so early and the masc presenting straight girl won. It all fell together. This video is a perfect display of the stereotypes and intersectionality that exists even within the LGBTQ+ community.

[@delaroche3703]

this is a really important lesson on not dismissing lesbians just for being femme presenting!!

[@jaimereyes6943]

especially being brown + fem presenting

[@nightskystars0762]

Anandita was just nervous y'all stop hating on her

[@shelly7294]

as an indian woman myself, i've often struggled with compulsory heterosexuality as well. i currently identify as bisexual, but sometimes i wonder if it's because i think i *have* to be attracted to men... idk. i really hated how this group treated anandita :(

[@aditijha7595]

Girl same

[@shinjinigoyal5272]

Fr😂

[@sansgirlfriend]

you can't experience comphet if you're bi because that means u still are attracted to men, so u can't force yourself to like men if u like them in the first place

[@shelly7294]

@@sansgirlfriend did you read my comment? i literally explained it 🤨

[@sansgirlfriend]

@@shelly7294 i have. but don't say you experience comphet if you identify as bisexual.

[@rachelle4203]

idk if its bc i relate to anadita the most or what, but seeing her leave so early after bringing up such important topics and trying to start discussions is so sad :/ love her

[@lydiaespinoza3320]

I really feel for Anandita’s struggle. I am very femme and the classical lipstick lesbian and constantly get dismissed by the gay community and even friends of mine. My group of friends who have known me for years still question whether I’m only interested in women. I know most of it has to do with my appearance and it’s very invalidating.

[@mozsmith2121]

People think fem beautiful women can't be lesbians. That they just haven't met the right man yet. I hate people who think that way. I have been told I was to pretty to be gay or what a waste. So have the women I dated. Really fucken annoying.

[@eversinceren]

i noticed that isabelle was more analyzing how people were putting across what they were saying rather than picking apart their stories and such, she went more off of strategy and technicality rather than experience or previous knowledge

[@monjishbhattacharyya3795]

I mean, isn't that how the mole is supposed to play?

[@astolat2262]

@@monjishbhattacharyya3795 I think that's their point, it gives the audience a clue that she was the mole

[@blackbutterfly2437]

Yea I got suspicious because her stories sounded similar but still..

[@lulubeukes2296]

Mel coming her fingers through her hair my heart: *freaks out *

[@Monnctizen]

I have never seen a more relatable comment

[@zoepaley8163]

I am in love with mel, i cannot, the hair fdifjdifji

[@erinmarieee23]

I’m straight, but Mel just gives off good vibes. She seems like a really cool person.

[@taranom6207]

So relatable

[@graveyardsoil]

Super cuuute

[@tsolofuti3212]

Isabelle: i have weird feelings about Anandita The feeling: racism☠️

[@Toruk_Makto17]

yeah I clicked on and was like this is gonna be fun but like - the micro aggression I felt towards anandita and that smart ass comment from Rachel to Desire reaaaallly put me off

[@toastybread9267]

yeah that was extremely annoying especially since she was the mole so what "weird feeling" did you have??

[@Toruk_Makto17]

@@toastybread9267 your pfp is adorable

[@PTS-Maid]

@@toastybread9267 hey genius it's part of the game. She can't just tell us "I'm the mole". She has to make the viewers believe what's she saying

[@toastybread9267]

@@PTS-Maid she could’ve decided to switch it up and go for other people too to make the viewers believe it but instead she was just gunning for one person the entire time…

[@rickireign]

Rachel said her and Anandita are the most feminine? How is Desire not feminine? Or Madeline? I just want to know her rubric...

[@dead_beatbunny]

Yeah, I didn't even think she was the most feminine. Girl needs to calm down.

[@chloerene7858]

Fr.

[@chexyface13]

Same. Makeup? Madeline had a pretty beat face. Hair? Desire had a feminine hairstyle. So what was it?

[@FasFas160]

Yeah definitely felt a bit gatekeeper'ish. Who is she to judge who's the "most feminine" of the bunch? No hate though, they all seemed lovely

[@katharinatypaldos155]

I am not saying I agree, but maybe it was about long hair, and the others were a bit more "edgy" but at the same time Anandita had a nose ring, so idk either 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

[@sha5676]

i would be so pissed if i was anandita

[@blackbutterfly2437]

I know right like there are a lot of points she made during this that you can take away and like- they did her so dirty

[@morsalsatar8210]

I love Mel’s voice, it’s so calming

[@orksca5459]

she seems really cool

[@KritkaJain]

Being an Indian women , although I am straight I can validate all the points Anandita said about the hetrosexuality and cultural acceptance , I believe she has experienced many obstacles in recognizing true self and I am proud how she wants to talk about the same here. Blessings for my girl !

[@lea3049]

Ppl are attacking Anadita saying she’s annoying but she was really addressing an important bias. Unfortunately, I feel like her aggressiveness stemmed from being invalidated (b/c of her femininity) in the lesbian community. It’s obvious that how “masculine” you look played a major role in the game as the most unconventional ones got to stay in the game the entire time, rarely being questioned.

[@reality_is_a_lie9598]

The issue with her was she was constantly accusing everyone of coming for her for looking femme- they never did that at all. I understand her frustration with how were treated but going at other peoples throats over it wasent cute

[@FaerieElethia]

Masculinity didn’t play a “major role” in this game, though. Madeline, Desire, and Olive are all very feminine. Just because they may not be as conventionally/traditionally feminine or “attractive” as rachel and anandita are, that doesn’t make them any less feminine. They’re just a bit more creative with the way they express their femininity. That’s not to mention that Black women tend to be perceived as “masculine” just for their Afrocentric features (ex. wider nose, bigger lips, athletic bodies, “shorter” hair from their shrinkage, etc.) so it could also be offensive when viewed from that lens.

[@FaerieElethia]

Btw I liked Anandita a lot lol I just didn’t like the way her and rachel were the self-proclaimed “most feminine” when they rlly weren’t. I’d be offended if I were Desire tbh

[@lea3049]

@@FaerieElethia I agree, that’s literally the point I’m trying to make. I’m not saying they ARE masculine but Desire, Olive, Mad, and Isabel are not conventionally/traditionally “feminine” compared to the girls with the softer features/voice, more makeup and lighter hues. People assume that makes them “more likely” to be lesbian because they don’t (or want to) look like the stereotypical woman that a man desires. This is a societal problem that lesbians themselves have internalized as displayed in the game

[@user-ok4xb1rd9f]

The first ones who don't fit the stereotype are always voted out first. On the other hand, being a femme lesbian is a double-edged sword. At the same time, only femme presenting lesbians are shown in movies and also femme lesbians are the least visible group. Bias towards every group exists, in my community, there's way more bias towards butch lesbians than femme ones. For example, I heard from multiple people: "why date someone who doesn't look like a girl."

[@marinadiaz1762]

Anadita should've been one of the lasts. She literally goes in about how shes treated because shes feminine presenting. Plus how she was raised and everything. I for one started getting suspicious about Medaline. She was voting out the obvious lesbians

[@wormsontoast]

Though she did say the d slur so

[@maryhopely6310]

@@wormsontoast I’ve watched this video so many times and I don’t remember this and I’m trying to find it so timestamp? Also we kinda here similar times lmao

[@wormsontoast]

@@maryhopely6310 about 7:16

[@verysaltyperson]

Nobody suspected her though because of her Lesbian Talk Tiktok which is a bad reason 😭

[@sweettea735]

Wait I seriously thought they were American-

[@mid_professor]

Wdym

[@foreverbooked2964]

Does that matter?

[@b3z3jm3nny]

@@foreverbooked2964 well all of a sudden they mentioned being Canadian so I can understand being confused if you didn’t expect that

[@andreaf8404]

not the replies not understanding your reference 😭

[@mitotae]

GUYS SHE'S REFERENCING THE VINE: "you're lesbian? i thought you were american" smh my head

[@alle2804]

My heart is broken for not seeing Mel's socials on description.

[@chloemarga6906]

no same i was looking for them😭

[@alllittlethingzz]

Sameee

[@malejamvr]

same

[@ri8900]

i know isabelle was ‘playing the role’ of the mole but the way she kept voting for anandita over and over again and saying ‘i have a weird feeling about her’ when she wasnt even a lesbian is weird..

[@d3admane]

and the way she said something along the lines of "i KNEW it was you Desire" at the end....🤨🤨🤨

[@alex47_in_downtown18]

@@d3admane thats the part of the gameshe was being clever not WICKED!

[@yozy-.]

@@d3admane yea, but she won, make her smart

[@maddied718]

And I also fell like Isabelle looks like a "ideal" stereotypical lesbian also. Dyed hair, Hawaiian shirt, glasses.

[@gguktae3502]

Well in order to win the game, she has to target the person everyone else is suspicious of , that's just the way it works

[@ChonosTack]

Most lesbian looking person was the mole. I love it.

[@conradkorbol]

She looks punk and you can tell she was choosing to not wear make up. Women who never wear make up and women who aren’t currently wearing make up. The skin changes from regular make use

[@kj6053]

I thought Mel or Madeline looked the most lesbian tbh

[@florallyclover]

to be honest i thought the most lesbian looking one was Madeline, gay vibes shooting from all angles with her

[@ChonosTack]

@@florallyclover ​ @K J I agree that Madeline and Mel look lesbian too. All of them are my stereotype though lol

[@vyn8761]

how does one look... lesbian 🤨 y’all is soundin a bit wacky right now, idk maybe it’s just me

[@TM-mi3wi]

Nobody: Literally fvcking nobody: Isabelle every 5 minutes: *"Anandita"* 😂😂😂

[@dylangallagher4220]

i just want to give anadita and mel hugs :((( anadita because this whole video proved the perpetuation of the stereotypes she discussed and mel because her canadians betrayed her!!

[@kay9301]

I know people hate how Anandita acted but it’s literally how I am. It’s always been an issue for me that people don’t think I’m gay, I apperantly just don’t present that way at all. And I also get really anxious so put on the spot, I probably would not have even been able to defend myself any better than her attempt was.

[@mnicole3602]

Anandita was totally right it makes me sad how she was constantly voted for :// this vid is a terrible example of lesbians supporting lesbians but just know your experiences are valid and no matter how you present your lesbianism is real and valid and nobody has the right to question it

[@onyourr__i]

can we talk about Anandita tho she’s so pretty edit: yall pls stop arguing in the replies it’s just my opinion 😭🤚

[@TheBirdGuy923]

We can ALWAYS talk about pretty girls 😌

[@annyms5092]

God bless, Jesus loves you and died for you all .

[@erikas6984]

But I thought Rachel was prettier

[@han-bc7qc]

YES SHE IS GORGEOUS

[@han-bc7qc]

@@fiaa.6539 yeah tbh i get her struggles but she seemed so like ?? idk but she made me upset

[@cat-oc8or]

the amount of rings on olive's fingers......no way they were str8

[@mr.z3456]

does that mean Mr T is gay

[@postiveelectron8879]

They ? Sigh...

[@craftinggamerzcat4718]

@@mr.z3456 I think so....😂

[@EllieDaisy]

@@postiveelectron8879 why the sigh girl?

[@marlywisecarver8942]

@@postiveelectron8879 lmao what

[@bernabetorres864]

LmaOo idk how any logical person couldn’t suspect Isabelle. For her to say “Anandita’s answers seem off” literally her answers were basic and never related as heavily as the experiences and points that Anandita brought or any of the other participants. So In the end I feel bad for Anandita 😭

[@valenciahidalg0]

This episode would’ve been very different if they had their cameras off

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

Oop word you spoke queen.